The Hardship of Not Having A Child - Mufti Menk

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  • @itsmedohh699
    @itsmedohh699 5 років тому +109

    it is cute how actually they made islamic version of UP movie

  • @callistomalady6084
    @callistomalady6084 5 років тому +39

    I was born *16 years* after my parents' marriage and I am their first child
    Alhamdulillah I am now 15 and healthy
    So to those having a hardship, just trust ALLAH the MOST WISE

  • @thenamesaj2087
    @thenamesaj2087 5 років тому +131

    Can't wait, I have an uncle without children and he's still with his wife, usually in my country, if the wife is incapable of having children, the husband devorces her. But I'm really proud of my uncle for staying with his wife :)

    • @shintiamustika
      @shintiamustika 5 років тому +11

      MasyaAllah. May Allah bless your ucle family

    • @kousarshaik350
      @kousarshaik350 4 роки тому +4

      Masha Allah,Allah has put a lot of love being them.may b the love remain the same n they give birth to a child.

    • @troia6899
      @troia6899 4 роки тому +2

      Me too

    • @D-Dollie
      @D-Dollie 4 роки тому +6

      In our Muslim community, we always blame the women if the couple do not have children. It could also be your uncle who is unable to have children. Do you know for sure who is the one who can not have children?!

    • @Humanity894
      @Humanity894 Рік тому +1

      @@D-Dollie that’s so true that happen quite often in the Muslim community or if the women had to many girls they blame the women even thou it’s the mens that have the x and Y chromosomes

  • @trublue2952
    @trublue2952 5 років тому +33

    My husband and I didn’t have children for many years. For years we tried and argued with each other because of the stress of not having a child. Alhamdulilah when we became content that we don’t have children and maybe we never will and that’s okay, we are happy and accepted that this is Allah’s will, I got pregnant and had a baby.

  • @tryyshee
    @tryyshee 5 років тому +60

    It's looks like UP..and it's beautiful.
    So many likes..thank you guys

  • @playlist-do2pw
    @playlist-do2pw 5 років тому +54

    don't forget:
    -to seek forgiveness from ALLAH the most merciful 🏡
    -To Thank ALLAH the most generous 🗻

  • @LearnArabicMSA
    @LearnArabicMSA 5 років тому +19

    Absolutely true ! We don't know Allah's Wisdom !
    May Allah SWT grant us contentment !

  • @sarahabuhawas6077
    @sarahabuhawas6077 5 років тому +20

    Aww it’s a version of up! I love it!! ❤️❤️

  • @r.o.c.k9553
    @r.o.c.k9553 4 роки тому +15

    If a couple does have any child, they can( if they wish to do so) adopt a child who lost it's parents, it would be such an amazing deed

    • @kiyano2566
      @kiyano2566 2 роки тому +1

      don't just think about the dress it would also help make the child's and parents life better but Alhamdulillah your right

  • @faizaameer1433
    @faizaameer1433 5 років тому +23

    Everyone in my in-laws tont me always for not having child plz pray for me I want children's I cry day and night for children's

    • @madamem7314
      @madamem7314 5 років тому

      اختي عليك بالرقية الشرعية اسمعيها يوميا وارقي نفسك.. واقرئي في سجودك يوميا الدعاء "ربي لا تذرني فردا وانت خير الوارثين" "ربي هب لي من لدنك ذرية طيبة انك سميع الدعاء".. الدعاء من اعظم العبادات واعظم ما فيه انه دليل ثقة العبد بربه.. فان لم يستجب في الدنيا كان لذلك مصلحة كبرى للانسان لا يعلمها ويبدله الله خيرا مما دعاه.. يا رب اقر عينيها بالذرية الصالحة ان كان خيرا لها ولزوجها.. وادعوك اختي ان تصبري وتثبتي ففي كل ذلك اجرا عظيما!!

    • @yasemintoprak1795
      @yasemintoprak1795 5 років тому +2

      Did you even watch the video...

    • @x._.5295
      @x._.5295 5 років тому +5

      As they said in the Video, you should have trust in Allah and his plan and Inshaallah everything will go well. I can imagine that it is very hard to hear things like that from your relatives, but what they say isn't important, only what Allah says and he knows what's best for you. Wish you all the best💙

  • @tasneem.c8737
    @tasneem.c8737 3 роки тому +4

    SubhaanAllah this is beautiful, I have two autistic children. I'm blessed to have them both ❤️✨ Allah chose me to be their mother

  • @wasekbd
    @wasekbd 5 років тому +10

    SubhanAllah so beutiful...MashaAllah very beautiful recitation...

  • @ShyLaa_99
    @ShyLaa_99 5 років тому +10

    I really needed this... JazākumAllāhu Khyran Katheera!

  • @GhostSenpaiEdits
    @GhostSenpaiEdits 5 років тому +20

    U can notice references from a cartoon movie named "Up"

  • @ammatullah6421
    @ammatullah6421 5 років тому +10

    جزاك الله خير
    Free Quran education teAM! May Allah swt reward u!
    I love this series!💕❣️

  • @TheGirlNemo
    @TheGirlNemo 5 років тому +8

    JazakAllah Mufti Menk ❤

  • @manolyakaplan2936
    @manolyakaplan2936 3 роки тому +3

    Allah knows the best and plans the best for everyone

  • @asmazulfiqar6882
    @asmazulfiqar6882 5 років тому +1

    MashAllah jazakAllah people who dislike such videos should fear to Allah..

  • @aliyakhankhan1113
    @aliyakhankhan1113 5 років тому +5

    Mashallah amazing.... Illustrate ❤️❤️

  • @Monsoon31
    @Monsoon31 5 років тому +1

    May Allah bless you All who support to made this video

  • @hibamerci1953
    @hibamerci1953 5 років тому +10

    Wow! this is new for me!

  • @sheikhsehreen2403
    @sheikhsehreen2403 5 років тому +1

    Thanks for inspiring us. Ya alhi ! May Allah bestow you a good reward for it !

  • @amirsyafrudin
    @amirsyafrudin 4 роки тому +2

    Love the fact that some scenes remind me of one of my favorite movie: ...
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    Up!

  • @jamesbedukodjograham5508
    @jamesbedukodjograham5508 Рік тому +2

    I am a Catholic believer but one should realize that some couples have problems with fertility in their lives.

  • @asmazulfiqar6882
    @asmazulfiqar6882 5 років тому +5

    Cant imagine the sorrow and hardship of dat parents whose child has been crushed by bus

  • @syahidajiman9377
    @syahidajiman9377 4 роки тому +1

    Great job animators! Cute 🥰 nice lesson

  • @kausarali8328
    @kausarali8328 5 років тому +8

    I lost my baby daughter of 3 years 10 months old just due to medical negligence suddenly within 2 days one year ago she was our whole world she was soo healthy and intelligent she was soo beautiful and pretty like a doll and she was soo talkative she used to talk whole day she was soo active that she can’t sit even for a minute.we have never imagined our life without her but she gone all of a sudden and we r totally shattered and in depression day by day it is becoming unbearable to survive every day I think of taking my own life.i have one more kid of 7 years old but he is also in a mental shock and he is behaving abnormally his sister was gone he only ask I have never seen any child died then why Adeeba was died.i don’t know what is Allah’s plan .please help us to survive we r in huge pain.

    • @yourmuslimahukht3352
      @yourmuslimahukht3352 5 років тому +2

      I'm sorry for your loss nay Allah swt grant you and your child a happy and healthy life

    • @kausarali8328
      @kausarali8328 5 років тому +1

      Hakan Yılmaz InshaAllah ,thank u soo much.such type of replies gives me comfort .

    • @kausarali8328
      @kausarali8328 5 років тому

      Tammy tam Ameen ,thanks for u r reply .

    • @1nonlyz
      @1nonlyz 5 років тому +2

      May Allah give u sabr sister, there is no pain in this world greater than the loss of a child. But think of it this way, that Allah loves u and your child more than anything in this world. Maybe Allah wanted to save your child from some horrible suffering she would have faced when she got older. I saw my grandfather who I was very close to, suffer in the hospital for weeks. He used to scream in pain and I honestly prayed to Allah to ease his pain. It is horrible to see your loved ones suffer when u cannot do anything. She will be your path to jannah inshaAllah.

    • @kausarali8328
      @kausarali8328 5 років тому +3

      1nonlyz thanks very much for u r encouraging comments.Inshaallah I will hold my baby daughter in jannah.every day is a challenge for me to survive please dua for me that Allah give me couraga.

  • @nurazizah9875
    @nurazizah9875 5 років тому +2

    Masya Allah, Allah punya rencana rahasia yang lebih baik dr apa yg kita inginkan

  • @Expatemirati
    @Expatemirati 5 років тому

    Love this channel.. Keep up the good work.. Jazakallahu Khairan

  • @mikaelpamplona3670
    @mikaelpamplona3670 5 років тому +1

    ANIMATION IS SO COOOOOOOOOOOOLLL!!!!!!! 😯😯😯😯

  • @The-Heart-Will-Testify
    @The-Heart-Will-Testify 5 років тому +7

    People talk down on me because I don't have a child 😥

    • @danialhakimi6294
      @danialhakimi6294 5 місяців тому

      You don't have a child is it because by choice or other reasons ?

  • @Ed_Gein_crafts
    @Ed_Gein_crafts Рік тому

    I love the UP references

  • @eh5918
    @eh5918 5 років тому +5

    السلام عليكم
    جزاكم الله خير
    اريد ان اعمل معكم
    I what to work with you
    But I'm not professional in English.
    How can I help you in your works?

  • @QuranwithRain
    @QuranwithRain 4 роки тому +3

    You could also adopt.... 🙂

  • @nam-pi4fu
    @nam-pi4fu 5 років тому

    Amazing video👍👍❤

  • @raushanlatiff96
    @raushanlatiff96 5 років тому +2

    Up references 👌

  • @ImranAli-tm3rq
    @ImranAli-tm3rq 7 місяців тому

    I don't understand the bit where he says what if that child grows up to be bad? Does he- the only child have to grow up to be bad? Can't he grow up to be good. Besides, Allah can easily gift you a good child? I would like to know where the mufti gets that one from..

  • @walid7084
    @walid7084 5 років тому +3

    Dumb question- Is adoption a choice? Is it permissable?

    • @ImpossibleYouth
      @ImpossibleYouth 3 роки тому +1

      If you take care of an orphan child with you in your house as you take care your children is permissible, and you would get great reward if make your action for the sake of Allah
      As in the Prophetic Hadith:
      "Sahl bin Sa'd (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
      Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "I will be like this in Jannah with the person who takes care of an orphan". Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) raised his forefinger and middle finger by way of illustration".
      But if you give this child your family name, that's haram; because calling someone by a name not his father's name causes "mixing of lineages" that may grant incompetent people unworthy rights or may fordib competent people their worthy rights
      As in souratul Alahzab in holy Quran:
      《.... Nor did He make your adopted sons, your actual sons. These are your words coming out of your mouths. God speaks the truth, and guides to the path.[4] Call them after their fathers; that is more equitable with God. But if you do not know their fathers, then your brethren in faith and your friends. There is no blame on you if you err therein, barring what your hearts premeditates. God is Forgiving and Merciful[5]》.
      《.... وَمَا جَعَلَ أَدْعِيَاءَكُمْ أَبْنَاءَكُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكُمْ قَوْلُكُمْ بِأَفْوَاهِكُمْ ۖ وَاللَّهُ يَقُولُ الْحَقَّ وَهُوَ يَهْدِي السَّبِيلَ [4] ادْعُوهُمْ لِآبَائِهِمْ هُوَ أَقْسَطُ عِنْدَ اللَّهِ ۚ فَإِنْ لَمْ تَعْلَمُوا آبَاءَهُمْ فَإِخْوَانُكُمْ فِي الدِّينِ وَمَوَالِيكُمْ ۚ وَلَيْسَ عَلَيْكُمْ جُنَاحٌ فِيمَا أَخْطَأْتُمْ بِهِ وَلَٰكِنْ مَا تَعَمَّدَتْ قُلُوبُكُمْ ۚ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ غَفُورًا رَحِيمًا[5]》

  • @denel7
    @denel7 Рік тому

    My partner dont want children and is in the feminist movement and childfree movement. idk what to do anymore. help..

  • @mayakhan5016
    @mayakhan5016 3 роки тому

    so beautiful

  • @kuokkamdamha1691
    @kuokkamdamha1691 5 років тому +8

    If we choose not to have children is it a bad thing?

    • @bilalwak6307
      @bilalwak6307 5 років тому +2

      kuokkam damha
      What funny 😆 joke

    • @Tt-chemzs
      @Tt-chemzs 5 років тому +8

      Who else don't want children

    • @emaanjaved7260
      @emaanjaved7260 5 років тому +2

      @@Tt-chemzs
      Yeah!

    • @Tt-chemzs
      @Tt-chemzs 5 років тому +6

      @@kuokkamdamha1691 kids are a blessing from Allah swt
      Pray for me to have a baby

    • @bilalwak6307
      @bilalwak6307 5 років тому +3

      Kuokkam damha
      Sis/bro it’s not permissible to not having children 👶
      Because prophet Muhammad (saw) told to his companions to have lots of children because the Muslim ummah become big ( in number )

  • @kamellolz7
    @kamellolz7 2 роки тому

    Looks like having child is not a burden ?

  • @abubakarahmad8014
    @abubakarahmad8014 3 роки тому

    👍🏼😊

  • @calmocean6117
    @calmocean6117 5 років тому +2

    Muslim version of UP

  • @hibamerci1953
    @hibamerci1953 5 років тому +2

    A

  • @langkahhati
    @langkahhati 5 років тому +2

    Come on....

  • @explorer7913
    @explorer7913 Рік тому +1

    Problem is where i can find like minded woman who would have same desire of not having children

  • @javidlone5935
    @javidlone5935 11 місяців тому

    Mr menk these things r easy to say but difficut to bear