Hello, hope you’re doing well. Ditching toxic relationships and moving on with positivity only. Sometimes things don’t work out and we must move forward. Thank you for your help.
His Mom died recently. He said his Mom is only woman to truly loved him. I told him he has my love & it’s deep . After 10 months talking. Yes I was a fool. I was kind. Knew him a bit in high school. His grieving was heavy. We are 60 lol want a companion to enjoy adventure in our Twilight years. 1 date & we laughed the full 3 hours. ♥️⭐️🌹👼🌖
He would avoid me, he started all of this. Things became so intense, we even said we loved each. Mad about each other. Fell pregnant. He kept focusing on work even when our child finally landed. Obsessed with work. I walked away because he wouldn’t commit either after asking me to be patient. Even afterwards he stopped stepping up as a father. I was hoping we could resolve things but his behaviour is so childish. He has/had baggage because of past. I’m over it.
He even tried to make me jealous by making comments about other options. Even if he does, I made it clear i’m not interested in competing or engaging with him. I know what I want. I’m not settling or waiting.
I am still confused with my current relationship. I care and love him but it seems something is not right in the relationship. I am not sure if I have to look for another one if our relationship gets sour. Too long years of relationship with him. But at the same time, I trust the Lord to guide me on what would be the direction I need to take.
Everytime we have a disagreement he has a tendency to run, then after weeks/months he comes back as if nothing has happened. I’ve reached out in the past and was ignored. This time he came back and i’m now ignoring him. He’s not pulling his weight as a father let alone acting like an adult. Until he shows me he can be reliable i’m no longer being available. I would always allow communication because we have a child together but he is making the situation so unhealthy that I now have to place strong boundaries. He pops up when he feels like it. Leaves everything on my shoulders. There’s no consistency as a father. I’ve genuinely tried but he wants to be in control. No more I have to withdraw. Show him what it feels like to be ignored and aired. You can’t just call randomly after weeks at a time and expect me to answer like I don’t have my own life and responsibilities. He needs to learn to make plans, be consistent, respect my time and be reliable but also take responsibility and accountability.
He doesn’t want to ditch his ex. He likes having her around and she likes flattering his ego. Feelings mutuals. But he won’t change his behaviour. I need to get out.
I sent him a birthday card in the mail in April. He sent back a thank you! ♥️⭐️🌹he is used to 1 night stands lotsa options. We have not had sex. I don’t do 1 night stands. ♥️⭐️🌹
Hello, hope you’re doing well. Ditching toxic relationships and moving on with positivity only. Sometimes things don’t work out and we must move forward. Thank you for your help.
He was very honest w me….said he can’t date. Said he’s dealing w stuff from his divorce.
Love and light ❤❤❤ stay positive Everyone. Let your Faith be Stronger than your Fears. Namaste 🙏🏻
Thank you very much. Relevant and helpful x ❤
I called him on his Mom’ Birthday. He is emotional . I don’t date on line. ♥️⭐️🌹
Thankyou ❤❤❤. Take ❤ care ❤ everyone ❤❤❤. 🐨.
Great reading! Totally resonated 🙏🌟
I would never say anything publicly.♥️⭐️🌹
Thank you so much God bless you sending you love and light ✌️💞💞💞💞💞💞
His Mom died recently. He said his Mom is only woman to truly loved him. I told him he has my love & it’s deep . After 10 months talking. Yes I was a fool. I was kind. Knew him a bit in high school. His grieving was heavy. We are 60 lol want a companion to enjoy adventure in our Twilight years. 1 date & we laughed the full 3 hours. ♥️⭐️🌹👼🌖
He would avoid me, he started all of this. Things became so intense, we even said we loved each. Mad about each other. Fell pregnant. He kept focusing on work even when our child finally landed. Obsessed with work. I walked away because he wouldn’t commit either after asking me to be patient. Even afterwards he stopped stepping up as a father. I was hoping we could resolve things but his behaviour is so childish. He has/had baggage because of past. I’m over it.
Bottom line is he’s not ready for a relationship..the kind that I need or want. He’s only been divorced for 14 months!
He doesn’t know what he wants, yes.
He even tried to make me jealous by making comments about other options. Even if he does, I made it clear i’m not interested in competing or engaging with him. I know what I want. I’m not settling or waiting.
I am still confused with my current relationship. I care and love him but it seems something is not right in the relationship.
I am not sure if I have to look for another one if our relationship gets sour. Too long years of relationship with him.
But at the same time, I trust the Lord to guide me on what would be the direction I need to take.
I spoke up about a month ago, said u only see me once a week after a year of dating! That’s insane!!!
I think he’s trying to figure out what he wants…..
It's not like I don't wanna go out, but most of men are only looking for *** and sick and tired of that
Everytime we have a disagreement he has a tendency to run, then after weeks/months he comes back as if nothing has happened. I’ve reached out in the past and was ignored. This time he came back and i’m now ignoring him. He’s not pulling his weight as a father let alone acting like an adult. Until he shows me he can be reliable i’m no longer being available. I would always allow communication because we have a child together but he is making the situation so unhealthy that I now have to place strong boundaries. He pops up when he feels like it. Leaves everything on my shoulders. There’s no consistency as a father. I’ve genuinely tried but he wants to be in control. No more I have to withdraw. Show him what it feels like to be ignored and aired. You can’t just call randomly after weeks at a time and expect me to answer like I don’t have my own life and responsibilities. He needs to learn to make plans, be consistent, respect my time and be reliable but also take responsibility and accountability.
He’s a Gemini!!! Said he’s having issues..dealing w his past. Said cannot date. He said only platonic. Ugh!! But we met last weekend for lunch…
He doesn’t want to ditch his ex. He likes having her around and she likes flattering his ego.
Feelings mutuals. But he won’t change his behaviour.
I need to get out.
Live 3 hours apart
I sent him a birthday card in the mail in April. He sent back a thank you! ♥️⭐️🌹he is used to 1 night stands lotsa options. We have not had sex. I don’t do 1 night stands. ♥️⭐️🌹
Well I might as well start dating again, I guess…
********He told me a relationship makes him anxious***************