Therapist Reacts & Analyzes: LA Who Am I to Love You? by Lana Del Rey

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  • Опубліковано 1 лис 2023
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  • @sol_badano
    @sol_badano 8 місяців тому +113

    "I once had dreams of becoming a beautiful poet..." She did it! She's such an amazing writer, every thing she makes, touches my heart ❤

  • @melissareynolds6393
    @melissareynolds6393 7 місяців тому +55

    Lana explained in an Instagram live she did in 2021 that after she finished boarding school (where she was sent by her parents at 14 to get sober) she 'wasn't allowed to go home' and had to move to Spain and live with a family out there. That's why the repeated line in this poem 'can I come home now?' cuts so deep. A kid desperate to go home, or find somewhere that feels like home because they were rejected from their real home. Incredibly sad, but such a beautiful poem.

  • @chihabaimeur7170
    @chihabaimeur7170 8 місяців тому +87

    The way this poetry collection hugs the inner child in me, I sleep to it almost every night.

  • @hellokitty-rf4vl
    @hellokitty-rf4vl 8 місяців тому +69

    the way she said teach them about fire warn them about water , shes really meant it and idk why everyone doesnt pay attention to this line , its so dark she didnt have a mother so she doesn't know what to teach her daughter (mountains) about or what to warn them from so it got mixed for her cuz she learned about bad things and didnt know about good things so thats only what she knows so she's gna teach them about fire (bad things especially to green mountains) and warn them about water (good things to them) this line is so heartbreaking

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  8 місяців тому +9

      Ahhhh soooo good!!! Thank you for sharing!!

    • @99centlips
      @99centlips 8 місяців тому +2

      wow 100%

    • @kierstenturner94
      @kierstenturner94 6 місяців тому +2

      And also she would warn them about water because water would be dangerous to her in the context of drowning which is something she mentions on the ocean blvd album talking about her youth.. So much depth here..

  • @aghatabarbosa19
    @aghatabarbosa19 8 місяців тому +60

    This and Sportcruiser are my favorite poems from her book, it's so beautiful and I relate a lot. As always, love to hear ur input

  • @Iann-
    @Iann- 8 місяців тому +46

    The see I have no mother and you do, a continental shelf a larger piece of land from where you came. and I, I’m an orphan a little sea shell upon your native shores line is my favorite ❤️🥺 plus the instrumentals by Jack Antonoff and Lana’s speaking voice add so much to the experience of this book

  • @Whitehotforever1_
    @Whitehotforever1_ 8 місяців тому +44

    Everything Lana does is gold

  • @Sanzianabel
    @Sanzianabel 8 місяців тому +40

    This is one of my favorite poems from Violet

  • @Guilhermedelreyp
    @Guilhermedelreyp 8 місяців тому +16

    In arcadia she explains about this

  • @UHKN2408
    @UHKN2408 8 місяців тому +7

    We fr need more Lana song reactions I binge watched all of your Lana reactions till like 3am 😂

  • @Angel-xi6vv
    @Angel-xi6vv 7 місяців тому +3

    "I have no mother, and you do" i love this poem

  • @midnightsrain101
    @midnightsrain101 8 місяців тому +7

    you’re such a cozy channel to always watch

  • @aeas09
    @aeas09 8 місяців тому +6

    I know that there's also an unreleased song called LA, who am I to love. The full song has never leaked, but there was a snippet of it that was really different from the poem because it very was pop and upbeat. The poem and the song have completely different vibes and lyrics but I do think that them having the same name was on purpose

  • @alexh5619
    @alexh5619 8 місяців тому +5

    You are getting me more into Lana Del Ray. I can definitely relate to a relationship ruining places, whether a city or even just a common restaurant or stop that was routine for you and that person. Maybe your old ice cream spot is somewhere you never want to step foot in or even the thought of ice cream is disheartening and sickening. Anyway, she pinpoints in a beautiful way these thoughts feelings that can be associated with so many things in our personal experiences. So relatable in everyday life…

  • @diegoferreirarapaci6856
    @diegoferreirarapaci6856 11 днів тому

    3:50 "Ït wont be my city again till Im dead" for my this verse reffers to her inability to go back to New York by personal/emotion reasons, but knowing that she will return dead and she dies because we are usually buried along with our family members in the same city/cemitery.

  • @mariapetri3326
    @mariapetri3326 8 місяців тому +9

    Your videos are such an inspiration to me. Right now I feel overwhelmed by my own past and I don't know how, but your platform gives me calm and some peace. It's always a personal highlight for me when I see that you've uploaded a new video. Greetings from Munich, Germany. 🤍

  • @jossettelinnea9205
    @jossettelinnea9205 7 місяців тому +1

    I love all of her poems from Violet. You have to listen to Paradise is Very Fragile, Never to Heaven, and Land of 1000 Fires. Her poetry doesn’t get enough of the credit it deserves💕🤍

  • @r3p0sed
    @r3p0sed 8 місяців тому +4

    this is one of my favorite poems of all time & it's so lovely to see you talk about it

  • @lizauliganets619
    @lizauliganets619 7 місяців тому

    Totally love it! Love you and thank you for the video💝

  • @BeckyLStoutWriter
    @BeckyLStoutWriter 8 місяців тому +3

    Yay! Showing some love for us poets. Thank you and God bless. 🤗

  • @rafaelpereiradosreis2769
    @rafaelpereiradosreis2769 8 місяців тому +2

    This is literally my favorite poem in my life, it was part of the worst moment of my life and helped me and helps me in so many ways, I've already memorized it all.. its just.. too good❤

  • @BenBigalke
    @BenBigalke 7 місяців тому +1

    OMG I was hoping so bad that you react to this! Thank you 😍

  • @thytuz
    @thytuz 8 місяців тому +4

    I loved your reading on the first video and I LOVED your reaction to the audio. Also loved your analysis. Thank you for this 🤍 I relate so much with this poem cause when I was a kid my parents moved a lot because of their jobs so I almost felt like I had no home for a long time

  • @chambyal_aishwarya
    @chambyal_aishwarya 8 місяців тому +2

    This is my fav poem from her book. I suggest listening to bare feet on linoleum next. I love that one as well.

  • @jayconcepcionx
    @jayconcepcionx 8 місяців тому +4

    SPORTCRUISER NEXT

  • @Nutmeggiee
    @Nutmeggiee 7 місяців тому

    I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONEEEEE

  • @lorenavasques8657
    @lorenavasques8657 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this, is such a beautiful poem where she puts all her feelings outside.
    Would love to see your reaction to her song featuring her dad (in the piano) Hollywood Boul and Lost at Sea, both amazing.
    Also, it'd be nice to react to some of Leonard Cohen songs, specially the days we're living with wars. I'd suggest Nevermind, A Street and Almost like the blues. I'm sure you'll love it, so strong and dark. ❤️

  • @TodayWithKyle
    @TodayWithKyle 4 місяці тому

    You should do “sportscruiser” because it makes me sob every time, my favorite from the book💜

  • @superhamhams6586
    @superhamhams6586 8 місяців тому +2

    god i love that poem

  • @samantha_lawrence5100
    @samantha_lawrence5100 7 місяців тому

    This was so well done, and now I have to start listening to Lana Del Ray more 🤣 thanks for posting!

  • @missingteeth3464
    @missingteeth3464 7 місяців тому

    This was a stunning video, I can’t wait for more reviews of Lana’s poems. PLEASE look at any songs from fetch the bolt cutters by Fiona Apple. I would love to hear your thoughts about heavy balloon, ladies, and I want you to love me. Thank you for everything Mere!

  • @Whitehotforever1_
    @Whitehotforever1_ 8 місяців тому +2

    Another great video 🫶🏽

  • @Lilaccherryblossom24
    @Lilaccherryblossom24 7 місяців тому

    Love your reaction and your outfit❤

  • @michaelgann1184
    @michaelgann1184 8 місяців тому +1

    I love your reactions and thoughtful analysis’ so much. I always look forward to your uploads! If you’re looking for a new Lana song to react to Dark but Just a Game is an under appreciated gem from chemtrails :)

  • @gabrielmilanez2871
    @gabrielmilanez2871 8 місяців тому +5

    do Sportcruiser, queen!!!!

    • @thytuz
      @thytuz 8 місяців тому

      YES

  • @raquellewis7294
    @raquellewis7294 5 місяців тому

    I wonder now, that you mention the wildfires of it ties into “wildflower wildfire” by Lana del Rey. That song she talks about how her mother raged at her and everything, man she’s so talented and intentional

  • @maurycygreczko5798
    @maurycygreczko5798 6 місяців тому

    I've always thought there is an association between this city and her loved one. I perceive it as a two dimension poem - expressing a complex love towards a city, wanting to be accepted by it (to have a home), but at the same time expressing these feelings to a person - so LA is a real person from her life at the same time. Anyways, these are just my ideas :) Thanks for a great clip!

  • @johnathanmcvey874
    @johnathanmcvey874 8 місяців тому +2

    Please do Lana Del Rey’s sport cruiser

  • @lanabaudelaire1
    @lanabaudelaire1 8 місяців тому

    YESSS you should do all of violet the audiobook and the book :-)

  • @eloraselman9574
    @eloraselman9574 5 місяців тому

    You need to react to paradise is very fragile ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kristya780
    @kristya780 7 місяців тому

    I hope you are doing better!

  • @cescbarooy
    @cescbarooy 7 місяців тому

    Do The Land of a 1000 fires next please, it's so good!

  • @L_taylorsversion24
    @L_taylorsversion24 8 місяців тому

    Deine Reaktionen sind besonders ❤

  • @haendellmagalhaes6112
    @haendellmagalhaes6112 8 місяців тому +2

    never to heaven please!!

  • @v4lnentines
    @v4lnentines 7 місяців тому +1

    you should do mitski songs!!!

  • @campbellsoup-gt8xw
    @campbellsoup-gt8xw 7 місяців тому

    a poem that i would like to see your insight on is “patent leather do-over” :) Lana posted two videos alongside it a couple of years ago and were meant for her second poetry book. i wonder how much that book would’ve revealed about herself and the industry.?
    patent leather do-over:
    - ua-cam.com/video/Ky8BFyrq2Bc/v-deo.htmlsi=52Wi-CgmPYnyyZ3t
    - ua-cam.com/video/MG30wVwETEw/v-deo.htmlsi=yz_yCHKqTtrqlWg9
    the first video linked is the poem in itself and the second one’s visuals is tied into the content of the poem, but Lana talks randomly throughout it and can be distracting at times. if you search for the poem on google, you can find the lines for it on genius to read alongside it! :)

  • @stephencroft1612
    @stephencroft1612 7 місяців тому

    COME TO BRAZIL 🇧🇷

  • @user-vd2mq6qf4h
    @user-vd2mq6qf4h 3 місяці тому

    I NEED you to listen to sullen girl by Fiona!!

  • @rainycurve
    @rainycurve 8 місяців тому +1

    do sportscruiser or bare feet on linoleum next !! ❤❤

  • @aleksejmilasinovic6524
    @aleksejmilasinovic6524 5 місяців тому

    9:49

  • @ambergr1smarch
    @ambergr1smarch 7 місяців тому

    are you going to react to her song ever again at all? im tired waiting

  • @loseroftheyeardimm
    @loseroftheyeardimm 7 місяців тому

    Mere plese continue to review Lana's, Taylor's and other pop culture's pieces, we need you to combine our thoughts haha. You're the best, love from Russia :3

  • @Farhankhan_the1
    @Farhankhan_the1 7 місяців тому

    Please check out and reacts to others too