My Wild BREASTFEEDING Journey From The Hospital 🏥 To NOW

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  • @ellieandjared
    @ellieandjared  Рік тому +66

    Howdy! Thanks for your patience with today's video! It's a good one filled with stories from the time JJ was born up until now! We hope you enjoy and have an awesome day! Thanks guys!

    • @kayleeclark6911
      @kayleeclark6911 Рік тому +3

      I’m having my first baby in November so I’m very thankful for this and all the videos you post ❤

    • @vasibitica7863
      @vasibitica7863 Рік тому +3

      She is sooo beautiful...

    • @queenwishieluck1359
      @queenwishieluck1359 Рік тому +1

      I bet your excited to have her meet little Brielle Laninng. They are going to be best friends forever.

  • @SandyBarth1
    @SandyBarth1 Рік тому +55

    Wisdom comes with experience. You made the right decision for your family. She's beautiful. Congratulations!

  • @cara_luna
    @cara_luna Рік тому +13

    It’s so nice to hear you mention Jared and how good he’s to you! So glad you talked about keeping baby June with you at the hospital, I took a violence class and a pretty heavy subject was obstetric violence, and so many ladies talked about how rude and how hard it was for them having their babies taken away to be poked and what not when they DIDN’T wanted them to! So glad you stood your ground! Hopefully that’ll help ease any anxiety to future mommies have ☺️🌷

  • @elianaknutson2975
    @elianaknutson2975 Рік тому +25

    ellie, i’ve been here since before jackson was born and i’ve loved watching your family grow so much, i feel all the feelings with you. i just wanna say i’m so happy for where you are now, and so proud of what an amazing mother you are. jared is great too. but growing up without a mother really makes watching you be such a good one, so much more special. thank you!

  • @manonjeanmitron4479
    @manonjeanmitron4479 Рік тому +18

    Don’t be afraid to speak your mind she is YOUR baby YOUR decision i love you guys😍😍😍😍

  • @breannandcaleb
    @breannandcaleb Рік тому +10

    Proud of you for sticking with your mama instincts!!

  • @freamsters6351
    @freamsters6351 Рік тому +9

    My heart swells for your protection of her. I did the same thing and my husband advocated for me. I also refused them to poke my son at all. It’s heartbreaking that they feel the need to push while we protect tiny babies from feeling ANY pain. 💕

  • @windy42305
    @windy42305 Рік тому +10

    I agree 💯 with your choices of delaying pokes. Way to stand up for your baby and asking what would they have done if sugars were low. We need to ask these questions more. - From a nurse of 29 yrs. ❤

  • @darcycollins1987
    @darcycollins1987 Рік тому +3

    You’re such a good mommy!! You’re absolutely right. She doesn’t need anything but you mama. ❤ proud of you and keep protecting your kids. God is with you

  • @sherylbrown6943
    @sherylbrown6943 Рік тому +4

    My daughter had 2 “sugar babies “ and the first thing they did was give them a bottle ( which they devoured) and I ( granny) went through to the room where they checked them and took blood 🩸. She had 4 babies. Now the sugar babies are 21 and 18 . The younger 2 are 14 and 10 . ALL healthy and happy. Love from Granny in Australia 🇦🇺.❤

  • @melissasnyder9452
    @melissasnyder9452 Рік тому +3

    Good for you! Your baby, you make your own choices!! Don’t worry about backlash, your decision!

  • @theresalouise5908
    @theresalouise5908 Рік тому +28

    Way to advocate for yourself and your baby! Both Ellie and Jared❤❤
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  • @jessicawinkler7537
    @jessicawinkler7537 Рік тому +2

    I am so glad you stayed firm. Everyone is different but if it is not absolutely necessary there is no need. Good for you mama.

  • @Momof3724
    @Momof3724 Рік тому +4

    I had a ceramic hip replacement done 20 years ago and it is still going strong! I was 18 when I got it…

  • @candilease938
    @candilease938 Рік тому

    I absolutely LOVE seeing a baby GIRL in your arms Ellie! I know you were a “boy mom” and were content with that but I always had my fingers crossed for a baby girl for you guys!!! It was such a surprise when the reveal showed a girl I was floored and now seeing her and how girlie her outfits are and how you truly truly love and enjoy every single bit of having a girl! I have two girls and a boy….and it was amazing having the best of both worlds! Having a boy is amazing but there’s just something about having a baby girl too 😊😊❤❤❤ she’s absolutely perfect!

  • @emlemieux7121
    @emlemieux7121 Рік тому +6

    THAT'S IT QUEEN!! you are so strong and I respect so much that you stand for the good of your family. I fallow you since the beggining.. I was like 12yo and you were my exemple for what I wanted as a family. Prayers to Jared, you and your Family.

  • @elizabethgrogan8553
    @elizabethgrogan8553 Рік тому

    I haemorrhaged badly shortly after my daughter was born. For 2 full days I was sedated and had transfusions. When I was finally reunited with baby, there was no milk. She had been bottle fed so I just continued. I was really disappointed, but soon recognised that I could have died, so decided to just be happy to have my baby in my arms. I agree with you about not having nurses prod my little one. I spent nearly 2 weeks in hospital but it was worth every monent and gave me a special bond with my baby.
    Jennifer June is just beautiful.

  • @ThePalhidaizees
    @ThePalhidaizees Рік тому +1

    You go mama!!! Advocating for you and your baby is exactly what you are supposed to do. I am in nursing school and also a doula and I will for sure encourage mamas to make whatever decision they feel is best for them and their babies. 🤍🤍🤍

  • @lisalindemann8592
    @lisalindemann8592 Рік тому +13

    Proud of you Ellie for not letting the doctors dictate!

  • @jessyecraton5410
    @jessyecraton5410 Рік тому +5

    Well I just want to say that as much as poking the feet makes them tired, it’s not recommended to constantly breastfeed either during this time. It causes them to be hypoglycemia from working so hard. Just wanting to educate others who may decline blood sugar checks

  • @tessasutherland9233
    @tessasutherland9233 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this! My daughter, Juni (short for Juniper) is three weeks today, so it is great to hear another mom’s journey who is just a bit farther along than us in our breastfeeding journey.

  • @sarahritter9369
    @sarahritter9369 Рік тому +9

    As long as you got/get her and the rest of your kids vaccinated at some point. It is so important. Not just for her but for immuno-compromised kiddos and adults too.

  • @lb7437
    @lb7437 Рік тому +6

    So proud of you for standing up for your beliefs! Also, thank you for being so open and transparent. ❤

  • @tiakolovos575
    @tiakolovos575 Рік тому +10

    Sooooo proud of your mama instincts and sticking to them. This mama totally gets you xox

  • @AshleysPZ
    @AshleysPZ Рік тому +1

    You made all the RIGHT choices for JJ!! So proud to know of you Ellie!!! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Pewo7140
    @Pewo7140 Рік тому +6

    She is precious!!! It’s wonderful that you both worked as a team and stood for what you believed in.

  • @jessicawinkler7537
    @jessicawinkler7537 Рік тому +1

    Ellie, I have to say you are absolutely radiant. I can see such a glow in you.

  • @lymanwizardswand
    @lymanwizardswand Рік тому

    My 9 month old was a sugar baby. His levels were so low. Was in hospital longer with him then any other kid. I'm honestly glad you opted out of it.

  • @donush9139
    @donush9139 Рік тому +3

    Loved Your Video. Jennifer June is Such a Angel just Sleeping All the Time. Ellie You Look Fantastic and So Does Jared. Prayers for Your Sons Toe. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @essiedavenport7664
    @essiedavenport7664 Рік тому

    Love the diaper. They were given out when I was Pregnant (87 & 90). I always used them because they're PERFECT!

  • @mandyyjayyy
    @mandyyjayyy Рік тому +24

    If my daughter hadn't been "poked" in the hospital, she could be brain damaged now because she has PKU and it was those "pokes" that told us that she has it. Those "pokes" can save lives.

  • @catpaws007
    @catpaws007 Рік тому +10

    She's so precious! With my only son, I chose no bath and no Vax at hospital and it was the best decision ever. He will be 3 soon and glad I stood up for my baby. It's our choices and I'm so glad we have them! He's only had three total.

  • @jadeabernathy9855
    @jadeabernathy9855 Рік тому

    Jared, good luck with your hip replacement. I’ve had both of mine replaced. I waited way too long before I had my first one, which was about 15 years ago. I’ve had no problems and the pain is gone. I wish the same for you.

  • @suefrantom6355
    @suefrantom6355 Рік тому +4

    Well done Ellie, you are a wonderful caring & loving mum. 🥰

  • @emilyhausler5465
    @emilyhausler5465 Рік тому +2

    Love this video! I’ve been breastfeeding for 8 1/2 months now and in the beginning I wanted to quit so many times but I’m so glad I stuck with it. Your daughter is beautiful 🥰

  • @BrittaniNP
    @BrittaniNP Рік тому +3

    Omg she is so precious! I’m pregnant now with a little girl, after being a boy mom for years and just seeing the 2 of you together, has me in a lot of feelings. 🥹😭🎀 love your family.

  • @deidrekoehler2882
    @deidrekoehler2882 Рік тому +1

    I agree with you, as long as she was alert and nursing, there was NO reason to check her sugars. Also, I had a baby in NICU for 11 days and I was unable to nurse him but pumped. He refused a bottle and went straight to the cup father exclusively nursing for 18 months. Thank goodness she will take a bottle. It was a nightmare at times but I miss that precious time now. Lol My first baby stopped nursing at 10 months but would take a bottle.

  • @kalygirl123456
    @kalygirl123456 Рік тому

    This is good info and insight for those who don't know they can fight for what they want for their babies n not feel pressure to do as Dr told

  • @Thisbnikki
    @Thisbnikki Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this! Couldn’t agree more with everything you went through/are going through. Wish I advocated for myself and my babies more with the first two!

  • @louisebourne5779
    @louisebourne5779 Рік тому +2

    Ellie you are an amazing wonderful Mum you did what you wanted to do for your beautiful JJ, no judgement here 💗

  • @VanessaDennise
    @VanessaDennise Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your experience Ellie! I am so grateful for your insight! You did what you felt was best for you and JJ! You’re a wonderful mom and and I’m so so happy to hear that she has been a dream baby! Tender mercy!

  • @cherylemaybury9967
    @cherylemaybury9967 Рік тому

    I agree with following the baby’s cues. That’s how I raised my babies and they were great sleepers and great eaters. I never had any problems with them. One thing I think we do differently here in Australia is that we give our babies a bottle with some water. So even breastfed babies are getting used to a bottle as well. Water is offered once a day, in between feeds to keep baby properly hydrated. They start doing this in the hospital. 😊

  • @madisenpasterick3584
    @madisenpasterick3584 Рік тому

    I totally agree with following what your baby is wanting. I did that with my son. And felt so much better not being stuck. Though it did hurt when there was appointments or something comes up

  • @taradak.taradak
    @taradak.taradak Рік тому +6

    i wonder if the reason she is so easy going is because she didn’t have to be traumatized at the hospital as soon as she enters the world! nothing wrong with protecting you baby

  • @candilease938
    @candilease938 Рік тому

    I’m gonna tell you right now…be happy that you didn’t quit breastfeeding her because being that she is meant to be your last baby….you will truly miss and crave that bonding and just that beautiful feeling of holding your beautiful baby close and being able to give them the most amazing thing they can possibly get! So do it for as long as you possibly can!! Trust me! You will kick yourself if you don’t

  • @MsCassieCrowe
    @MsCassieCrowe Рік тому

    Glad to hear that mamas are still using cloth diapers for burp rags! It's all I used with my girls way back in 2002 & 2003. They're the best!

  • @Corttoro
    @Corttoro Рік тому +3

    Babies don't need to be poked and proded instantly. It's so dumb the society we live in.
    Certain cases sure. You did the right thing.

  • @ericagoehring1089
    @ericagoehring1089 Рік тому +1

    Yep, those are cloth diapers. They are awesome!

  • @Christian-xo2eo
    @Christian-xo2eo Рік тому +3

    Tommy and Jennifer June are so cute!

  • @Tate123
    @Tate123 Рік тому

    Praying for Jared and his health issues. JJ looks just like him

  • @patriciathomas1502
    @patriciathomas1502 Рік тому +3

    Tommy is sooooo adoreable !!!
    Of course Jennifer is so beautiful !

  • @jayndough68
    @jayndough68 Рік тому +1

    WOW! Jared and Ellie you look great💕

  • @kristacarlson4138
    @kristacarlson4138 Рік тому +4

    Ellie, you’re a rockstar!

  • @sorayafarah446
    @sorayafarah446 Рік тому +1

    She is so precious

  • @kesslhen000
    @kesslhen000 Рік тому +15

    I didn't vaccinate any of my babies in the hospital either:)

  • @yvonneajackson
    @yvonneajackson Рік тому

    If you can eat Tofu, get some silken Tofu and blend it with some frozen fruit such as a berry mix, healthy Ice cream for Ice cream cravings.

  • @lbort1
    @lbort1 Рік тому

    she is soooo darn cute!! God bless you and your family

  • @phonebayli
    @phonebayli Рік тому +2

    Totally with you, Ellie! ❤

  • @SarahPitcher
    @SarahPitcher Рік тому +1

    Hiiii 2nddd. Who loves Ellie and Jared❤️❤️

  • @alisonlaw1977
    @alisonlaw1977 Рік тому

    Jared I hope you do go ahead with your total hip replacement. Not sure is the USA you can keep your old hip but here in the UK we don’t let anyone keep body parts, this is for many reasons.

  • @taylorsabella4873
    @taylorsabella4873 Рік тому +1

    Y'all my favorite family as well Deru crew & Bonnie plus her family 🩷 been watched them since Calvin was born

  • @wildyogiway22
    @wildyogiway22 Рік тому

    tommy reminds me of jared dad, same energy

  • @ljh150
    @ljh150 Рік тому

    Ellie, is Aditi your LC? You and Jennifer June look so happy and healthy!

  • @angieshepherd2922
    @angieshepherd2922 Рік тому

    When you start adding sugar back in, why don't you check out plant-based ice-cream? There are some great options. I like the nut-based ones. I can't have dairy because it totally messes with me.

  • @CharlyRightNow
    @CharlyRightNow Рік тому

    Great video, so relaxed, informative, and the baby is also calm, and just beautiful!!

  • @maggiebarrettbarrett5684
    @maggiebarrettbarrett5684 Рік тому

    Tommy is the cutest little boy .

  • @amclaudet
    @amclaudet Рік тому

    Loved this video. So happy for the success with this beautiful journey, and makes me really want to have a baby girl ❤i miss nursing so much

  • @jemimawhite5592
    @jemimawhite5592 Рік тому

    My little 10 week old has been wearing the same outfits at the same time in the last few thumbnails 🤣 Jamie kay is the best

  • @rocketeer831
    @rocketeer831 Рік тому

    Thank you for opening up about this!!!

  • @lonelinessinmilan6486
    @lonelinessinmilan6486 Рік тому

    Everybody should know this, and i was upset when my daughter was born, for the first five days (born in Novara, Italy) i don't know what the hospital gave her, she never suckled... once i was home i initiated breastfeeding, it took two weeks of effort. Once breastfeeding took hold, i gave her the breast for eighteen months. When a mother is upset, family needs to step in and monitor the hospital.

  • @candilease938
    @candilease938 Рік тому

    If you get backlash from not wanting your baby to be poked and prodded at then that’s just sad! yOU are HER mom and you know what’s best for her and clearly she is a happy healthy little baby!!

  • @lorimyers1710
    @lorimyers1710 Рік тому

    Aww that was such a great video. I really enjoy all your videos ❤️🙏.

  • @bryannazarate2273
    @bryannazarate2273 Рік тому

    If I knew 6 months ago what I know now, I would’ve done things differently as well. I’m glad you and Jared support each other and are firm in your wishes. 🫶🏼

  • @janicemichaloski5292
    @janicemichaloski5292 Рік тому +1

    She is so precious ❤

  • @NikkiSinclair1
    @NikkiSinclair1 Рік тому

    Great content lately guys and lots of care taken in how you impart that.
    Am a mama of 3 who's breastfed for a total of 5 years collectively ❤️
    Thanks so much for sharing the anti-inflame recipes - I'd forgotten about zoodles 😂

  • @breannareynolds5634
    @breannareynolds5634 Рік тому

    Good for you both! 👏My kids never got all their pokes either😉

  • @juliaattrell7636
    @juliaattrell7636 Рік тому +15

    Is being vaccinated in the hospital an American thing? In Canada the first vaccines aren’t given until 2 months old. Checking blood levels isn’t a vaccine.

    • @phonebayli
      @phonebayli Рік тому +2

      Typically, it’s standard practice in American hospitals before the baby leaves to give a Vitamin K infusion, which is a shot but not a vaccine, and the Hepatitis B vaccine within 24 hours. And then the next round of vaccines begins at 2 months.

    • @brooklynd2654
      @brooklynd2654 Рік тому

      Came to look for this, I was so confused. I don't have any kids (yet), but my sisters do and they never talked about it so that's interesting to know.

    • @juliaattrell7636
      @juliaattrell7636 Рік тому

      @@phonebayli ahhh ok. Vitamin K also given in hospital in Canada, but not hepatitis. Thanks for answering!

    • @elizabethnolte3389
      @elizabethnolte3389 Рік тому

      Hepatitis B vaccine is usually given before baby is discharged from the hospital!

    • @SharpLife4
      @SharpLife4 Рік тому

      @@phonebayli it’s weird how different it is in usa vs Canada

  • @debbiealtman5373
    @debbiealtman5373 Рік тому +1

    What a beautiful baby.

  • @jillevans1913
    @jillevans1913 Рік тому

    Great tips ellie I'm going to show my friend this video . She's a 17 ye old mother and we want her to continue nursing as long as she c as n . She has a great milk supply as well but don't think mom is letting baby empty her out cuz baby falls asleep then mom falls asleep so they are doing a bottle 1x daily for a supplement .. thanks for the encouragement so proud of you for giving little Jennifer June the best thing in the world YOUR MILK !

  • @chrisoulalakkas7935
    @chrisoulalakkas7935 Рік тому

    What is your favorite book?

  • @silentsmysound4040
    @silentsmysound4040 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing!

  • @bethkirk3035
    @bethkirk3035 Рік тому

    Jennifer June is so cute. ❤❤❤

  • @kathysutter6968
    @kathysutter6968 Рік тому

    I can't eat dairy either, so I have Lactaid ice cream so good 🍼

  • @annettemills3067
    @annettemills3067 Рік тому

    Just wonderful!

  • @brendachaves6375
    @brendachaves6375 Рік тому

    Hey Ellie and Jared

  • @sarah.barfield5238
    @sarah.barfield5238 Рік тому

    I know the feeling I had my baby girl January 18 ,2023. I just want to go home I spend a week in the hospital.

  • @JessDiann
    @JessDiann Рік тому +1

    My girls were vaccinated until they tried forcing middle school ones. I learned we all have choices for anything. And I started researching. Always stand firm in what you want. Autoimmunes can be hereditary. We have very similar issues. We’re trying our best do things clean, and healthy & with placebos as my girls call them 😂🤷🏼‍♀️sending you love 💜

  • @michelebadey3883
    @michelebadey3883 Рік тому

    JENIFFER JUNE I SO BIG!!! WHEN DID THAT HAPPEN!!!! JARED A FRIEND OF MINE HAD A HIP REPLACEMENT AND
    SAID IT WAS A QUICK RECOVERY.

  • @Kiddly3000
    @Kiddly3000 Рік тому

    hugs tommy

  • @Lou1971Lou
    @Lou1971Lou Рік тому +1

    Gosh you look like Julie in this video!

  • @That_Girl_Sara
    @That_Girl_Sara Рік тому

    Instead of ice cream, you should try making nice cream with frozen bananas. Maybe it will help with missing ice cream but should still fall within your diet restrictions.

  • @gdukie9469
    @gdukie9469 Рік тому

    Jared, you’re an amazing dad and husband! Hope you get your new hip and can keep the old one in a jar. That would be cool

  • @TimeForASandHeart
    @TimeForASandHeart Рік тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ELLIE, ❤❤❤PLEASE LISTEN, I AM SO FRIGGING PROUD OF YOU!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @anniekolbe2
    @anniekolbe2 Рік тому

    I think the best they will do is take pictures for you to keep.

  • @shirleymd32
    @shirleymd32 Рік тому

    Cloth diapers a great as burp rags.

  • @Proudmama1206
    @Proudmama1206 Рік тому

    My father-in-law has his hip that was replaced years ago. It is in a sealed jar.

  • @hemplandtx
    @hemplandtx Рік тому

    💜

  • @calvinliu6304
    @calvinliu6304 Рік тому +1

    Hello😊

  • @TimeForASandHeart
    @TimeForASandHeart Рік тому

    ❤I will PM you please look for it!❤

  • @meba444
    @meba444 Рік тому +1

    Out of curiosity, is she vaccinated now?