Single Ladies: What Are Men Really Looking for in a Wife? 💍
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- Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
- What are men really looking for when in search for a wife? From the misunderstood signals to the unspoken truths, get ready for an eye-opening discussion. Whether you're single, searching, or just curious about the opposite sex, Episode 3 offers a candid look at a man's thoughts on love, dating, and women. Don't miss these must-hear confessions and insights!
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I love what Gordon said when God spoke to him “When you learn how to master this discomfort, you’ll be ready for what’s next.” That is exactly what I needed to hear.
Me tooooo.... a word .... I have been feeling stuck and seeing no way out
Yes. Thanks!❤
Gordon definitely needed Martha as his wife/purpose partner. He led from a more broader perspective and she narrowed it down and gave clarity on the subject matter. Great episode and great teamwork you guys.
Great message and I love the ending. I am 49, I 've never been married. I've been abstinenant now going on 20 years (this year) and my tag line is "God's way is not punishment, it's protection." So Amen to what Gordon said at the end. It's definitely not punishment. There is a blessing in every situation. I definitely desire to be married but until then🙋🏿♀️, have your way Lord. 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Hallelujah!!🙌🏽
“Two half’s don’t make a whole. Two wholes makes a stronger whole!” Good perspective! Excited for more from y’all!
Did ya'll catch that "don't even think about it" 🤣😂...and she was so serious
🤣🤣 I meant that!!
I have one request/suggestion: PLEASE TAKE THIS IN LOVE. Will y'all (Martha & Mary) PLEASE stop saying that that man thought he was going to marry Mary? Yall are twins and u prob have a great bit of similarities. He was young (early 20's WITH OPTIONS. 2 GOORRRGEOUS young ladies, MMM-KAY!) But he has made a sound, conscious decision of his wife. Please let that be. Now this is JUST MY BELIEF: I BELIVE . . . that you all can express, discuss & have conversation about how you met without mentioning that part.
It's not his fault that God allowed him to have 1st dibs at the pickings. 🥰 He was tested to pick wisely. & I got to give the man props . . . He did excelente. Beyond the outward appearance, God exposed the heart of the one that was for HIM. . . Martha. Mary's heart was for Bubba. 🥰 We love y'all! THANK Y'ALL FOR SHARING Y'ALLS HEARTS, KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE ON THESE TOPICS. THEY'RE GREAT!
Praise God, this was a beautiful message for singles!!! And you both gave many good examples and explanations of how to be successful and happy. Gordon, you are soo right, as a single woman, much older, I meet men in grocery stores, shopping, at restaurants, and at galleries (art). And some are Christian, and God reveals them, and some aren’t. I believe dressing intentionally, ladies put on a dress/ skirt, SMILE , and wearing confidence all matters!!! And be alone sometimes, men approach women who are ALONE and approachable. And don’t behave desperate, date, and please KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED!!! Thanks Mr. and Mrs. Dove, y’all are AWESOME 😘
Love this advice!!❤️
Love this! ❤I look back at my single days and I truly thank God that I enjoyed every moment. Now in a beautiful new season of marriage celebrating 2 years strong 🎉
Yoooooooo this Podcast was so fire. Gordon you were so good on so many points. I know exactly what you were saying when you said women should also look outside the church. You’re not saying go into bars or clubs but you’re saying be opened where ever you are to meet someone. Because there are men who are Godly that may not go to church every Sunday. I’m so super happy you have said this. Oh and by the way we need a part 2 on this subject. I thank God that y’all are bringing something fresh to the podcast world where it’s so saturated with people who are saying nothing. God bless the both of you❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Oh wow!! So glad you appreciated the conversation and perspectives!! God bless you too!!❤
Whew hubby was on point! He gave us a lot of good advise, insight, input and wisdom. And you complimented this conversation very well. One of the best discussions ever...Thank you so much. You married the right one for sure! May GOD continue to bless your union and ministries as you grow in CHRIST individually, collectively and as a family...❤❤❤
Awww thanks so much!!🥰
So many jewels dropped 🙏🏾💪🏾💫✨
Thanks!❤
Gordon you have changed significantly. I see a lot of growth and wisdom since you and your family moved to Texas. I love this podcast for you and Martha.
This soooo good!!🙌 I’ve been raised by a great Father, and there’s definitely a standard us Daddy’s girls have. Not that we look for that exact same thing, but it’s a standard we have and that we carry, because we’ve seen what responsibility, a protector and someone who has the capacity to hold his wife and his kids down. Our fathers were RESPONSIBLE.
Gordon brought wisdom. As a woman that had my father in my life, my whole life, I realize that relationship impacted how I relate to my life partner. How I view marriage/union and conflict, is different from many of the women I know that didn't have a relationship with their fathers.
I really enjoyed this conversation. I noticed how the conversation started with Gordon sharing that he had to change his perspective this season, and then at the end of the podcast, the final point was an invitation for us single ladies to change our perspective on singleness. I like how God rounded that out. Martha, your point on two wholes coming together was powerful. Thanks for this episode y'all. Keep letting God use you!
Thanks so much!! So glad you enjoyed it!!🥰
I LOVE THIS! WORK ON YOU YOURSELF FIRST FIRST, GOOD OR BAD!! WORK ON YOURSELF BEFORE YOU TRY TO JUMP INTO A RELATIONSHIP! KNOW WHO U ARE,❤
This was so helpful for me. Thank you both.
Yes Gordon, we need to expand the pool in all sectors (race, our definition of Righteousness, and how we define riches)
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I got excited when I saw this ❤ you guys are so wise Keep it coming Gordon is real his views as a man a Godly man expressed so well done great team work
Such a great topic! You guys gave great input. Gordon I love the fact that you said all women are attractive in their own way and men wants them to own it! Also that they are looking for emotional, intelligence. As well as a lot of women are looking for men who are 100% together…as long as they know or are business minded and have the potential and capability to make it happen. You also mentioned that a man who a woman may not pay attention to can pray the house down! They may miss out just because he doesn’t look like what they want.
Martha you’re right, we as women want to be heard and want to emotionally express ourselves. Also you said 2 halves don’t make a whole…very powerful. You guys are so right, we all have baggage but we can’t allow the baggage to follow us. Martha you said singleness is the time for you to work on yourself and may I add this is a time for you to prepare for marriage by getting to know who you are, dating yourself and perhaps even changing our wardrobe! You guys were amazing!! Love it😇
This episode truly blessed me. Took away a lot of key points that I will be applying in my life starting today. Thank you 🙏🏾 🤎
Clicked on this video so fast!😂
Wow! I feel blessed watching this ❤
I really enjoy these podcast style videos. I hope you guys continue to discuss various topics!
Thank you!!🥰
Well, well what can I say 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾just awesome & very informative!! As a single woman I truly enjoy my singleness & at the right time God will present him until then I’m going to eat some crabs 🦀 😂 Thank you Mr & Mrs. Dove continue blessings 🙏🏾❤️🤗
Thanks so much!!🥰
Who didn’t like brother G 😂😂😂. This was good. I agree with Gordon, just in the church looking won’t be everyone’s testimony and also a lot of us leave in such a rush 🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️ after church so even if a man wanted to approach sis has run out of the building 😂😂😂.
That is true!😆
Right! I loveeeeee Gordon he’s a whole vibe 😂😂😂😂😂
Finally finished listening to this entire episode and I must say that I enjoyed the perspectives from you both. Please continue to use your gifts to bless others. ❤ Keep these episodes coming on all media outlets, especially youtube! I love seeing you guys and your interactions. God bless you both. ❤
Thanks so much!! We really appreciate it!🥰
This was soo good. Thank you Martha and Gordon❤
You’re so welcome!❤
Dove is SPOT ON about trying to find that man in the pews. Bc STRAIGHT UP, some of them have the church language but in REAL LIFE, they DO NOT LIVE IT!!! There are REAL men that are not in the church bc in their heart, they don't want to play with God! And in REAL LIFE, they are living more holy than those IN the church! Bc they BELIEVE in God!
THAT WAS VERY GOOD, DOVE!
Gordon you are spitting straight facts…I loved this episode. Thanks to you both!! 🎉
This was good! 💞Continued blessings to you both !
Thanks!❤
I may be late but this podcast is right on TIME! 😅😊 Tfs
Happy Wednesday! Thanks for sharing!❤
Thanks for watching.
Your Preferences Becoming Your Prison 😅 First time hearing this and it resonated. I’m being diligent doing what God asked me to do (going back to school) while I rather be pursuing entrepreneurship. So that really spoke to the season I’m in 😭 God’s plan trumps mine everytime & practicing gratitude in this season.
So awesome!! Thank you for being obedient. It will pay off!!👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏽
Listen Gordon you are talking good!! As a newly wed without a present father growing. You are correct sir! I am now aware of the pressure that I put on my husband early in our marriage that he could never live up to!
24 minute in and I can say this is popcorn eating good.
Lol🤣🤣 So glad you enjoyed it!!❤
Great convo !! So true Gordon about a woman that did not have her dad in her life . Wound s are real !!.
Thanks and yes they are!
Thank y’all for this phew 😭
Great Episode! ❤
Thanks! 🥰
I love the podcast name!!❤
Thank you! ❤️
This has really helped me out
Hey Guys!! I enjoyed hearing and absorbing sooo many valid points from both of you today. I can say I definitely thought that getting married would be the solution to ALL my problems but 7 years later, I still battle with the same issues I had coming in. I am not sure if you all could have a discussion on being married and unequally yoked? If you could I would be so grateful or if you could respond back to me with any scriptures or good counselors for my situation that would be helpful as well. Blessings to you both!
You betta preach about that calculation Gordon 🤣
Thanks!💪🏾
I love Gordon 😂😂😂😂❤
I appreciate the insights given by Gorden it was very helpful and interesting to hear his perspective as to a guy's point of view on this topic.
Thank you!! So glad you enjoyed it. ❤
I learned a great lesson ! BE CAREFUL for the one's in church just like Gordon said. I was approached by a guy at Church and he tried to deceive me soo bad. He Ran out of church early the time I usually leave. Let me tell you, I did a little church tap, we stepped outside, and I let him know respectfully using the Word of God that I AM not the one to play with 😂. A grown man in his 30s fooling around when I say I dealt with players but trying to play a game in church ? That's another level of disgust. Months later, hiding in church because he don't want to be seen but lying that he "hasn't seen me" the situation of being that the church was in different buildings due to renovation but that's not an excuse. He pops out of nowhere as if it's a fellowship moment. I kept the talk short and left it at a "Have a good week" and walked away from him.
Wow!! That’s so much for sharing this!! They will deceive you for sure!
Great video.
Thanks🙏🏽
This is VERY GOOD! I'm enjoying these discussions. I love Gordon's perspective on what CHRISTIAN men look for. I'm seeing a book in his future.
Great episode
Thanks!❤
YASSSSSS!!!! This is the content we needed 😂 P.S love the vibes (new light in the background)
Thank you for the advice ❤
Thanks so much!!🥰
This is great you guys...love the topic. If I may add. A man who loves God and is sold out to live every part of his Being for God, the VERY FIRST thing he is looking at is her spirit. How she loves God and his people. His first attraction to her is her walk with God. I understand men are visual, however, a mature Man of God has bypassed the look dept and is interested in her spirit first. He wants someone to walk out his life in God with. If she is a woman to serve God and his people she is already taking care of herself and her appearance because she is representing God. He has matured to the point where he realized what values are first. As far as men in the world...really we shouldn't be giving advice to single women about them. Our goal as saints is to lead the single women to a more relationship with Abba and then they find that man that is looking for her in God...I hope this will help someone
This is so true. Gorden actually said something similar to me when we first met. A lot of guys were interested in my physic but he said he saw beyond that. The outer appearance wasn’t even what drew him in. So yes this is so true!!🥰
@@gordenmarthadove122 Yesssss...love this!!!!
Not the TT-81 G!!😂
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Men want solution. Women want empathy. 😩💯😇♥️
And also I think a lot of women end up choosing men like their dads .
That’s true!
I really enjoyed this podcast. I’ve been viewing marriage as “healing” but I see I need to change my wording some. It can help me to change my perspective or how I handle situations. I needed this. Very insightful and let’s me further see the work I need to put forward on my own.
Question: when a man likes you or sees that you are a wife, would he put forward the effort to contact you or connect you daily or ask for time together? Even if he’s in school?
Thanks so much and yes he will pursue you when the time is right!❤️
@@gordenmarthadove122 thank you so much for answering 🙏🏾❤️ see you both on the other side 😉
God used you! 🙌
Thanks! ❤🥰
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HI beautiful family love y'all 😘❤️ please be safe 💗 May God 🙏 bless you and your family 💖 hope everything is well 💕 wt a beautiful young lady as always 💞🌹 love the broadcast ❤️
Thanks so much🥰
Gordan and Martha take your podcasts and turn them into books for sell. They could be in digtal downloads and physical books. Please take action.
Thanks so much!! We’ll keep this in mind!🥰
It was me, I didn't like Gordon at all and I actually got really angry every time I saw him because he didn't come across genuine and his behaviour was strange towards his wife, maybe they were fighting behind the scenes but I could feel the vibes were very off with him only and also what annoyed me was how he wore shades all the time for no reason to hide his eyes meaning hide his soul/true feelings. But watching him now with this podcast, maybe he's changed or putting in an effort now, but it does feel a bit better he's being more authentic now
Oh wow!! I think a lot of that was him getting adjusted to being recorded. He didn’t really like it before.
Please trademark the name too ! 🙏🏽
Thanks! Will do!
Did I miss what the meaning of the Other Side is?
Oh the other side of whatever your facing. It presents a message of hope. 🥰
@@gordenmarthadove122 I love that!!!
That's a good question bc I automatically assumed that it meant "the other perspective"🥰
My confidence is about a 1.5
N ik that's sad.
You got it!! You have to shift your perspective about yourself. I’m sure you have a lot to offer!!❤
I agree with Gordon. Look elsewhere for men. Attend community events to put yourself out there.
Excellent conversation. Speaking from my own experience, a lady could come from a healthy home life with her having a healthy connection with the male role models.
However, if said young lady begins to date men whom they did not seek GODs guidance to be connected, that can lead to dead in relationship thus causing her to have a skewed view of men.
It's important to take a look at one's choices to see where the negative view is coming. Allow GOD to show us who we are, then in his time and if its his will the right Man will see her. 🧡🌺
Thanks and yes this is so true!!❤
Single ness It is not a disease It is the opportunity to become whole In god and yourself Before you are united with someone That god has put together
🗣PLEASE TELL ME🙃😊
WOW THIS 👆WONDERFULLY SPOKEN
Thanks!!😂
They are looking for what their mother gave them.
lol 😂
Deal with the wounds ....Amen 🧡🌺
Yes!❤
So many jewels dropped 🙏🏾💪🏾💫✨
Thanks!!❤