OPENING UP ABOUT OUR PAST... RELATIONSHIP Q&A

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  • @ashlealuttrell4091
    @ashlealuttrell4091 6 років тому +1534

    "When you date someone you will either break up with them or be with them forever" Never thought about it like this, but this is so true.

    • @GrinseKatze29
      @GrinseKatze29 6 років тому +49

      Ashlea Luttrell there aren't any other opportunities, so ..?

    • @beeberry8055
      @beeberry8055 5 років тому +1

      brownie. which should there be?

    • @digbick9769
      @digbick9769 5 років тому +6

      @@beeberry8055 The person you are dating dies and you keep going.

    • @tobi8716
      @tobi8716 4 роки тому +21

      If you're not dating to get married you're dating to get your heart broken, I read that somewhere

    • @sophiayamagughi
      @sophiayamagughi 4 роки тому +1

      @@tobi8716 I mean thats exactly why people are in relationships-

  • @meghaseth5815
    @meghaseth5815 6 років тому +3105

    I wanna prepare for future, but not plan out the future.
    -Gabe, 2018

  • @juliai4892
    @juliai4892 6 років тому +2680

    “You don’t have to make a ton of money to save money” WOW this changed my way of seeing things

  • @MegaFfree
    @MegaFfree 6 років тому +1061

    Love it when Jess said “ it’s beta to lose the argument than the person.”❤️❤️

    • @JCS14083
      @JCS14083 6 років тому +50

      beta lmao

    • @savanarambeau6219
      @savanarambeau6219 6 років тому +2

      Heck yeah

    • @joax7732
      @joax7732 3 роки тому

      @Lord Voldemort it's because that's how jess pronounced it

  • @matildablomqvist7555
    @matildablomqvist7555 6 років тому +601

    I dont think its bad that Gabe have "long" answers, it's interesting to hear him talk and be serious. More videos like this!

    • @mimiwey
      @mimiwey 6 років тому

      Matilda Blomqvist you mean “has”

    • @matildablomqvist7555
      @matildablomqvist7555 6 років тому +2

      Ecija T Yes! My english is bad :'D from Sweden

    • @savanarambeau6219
      @savanarambeau6219 6 років тому +1

      Lol I’m the long answer kinda person too

    • @derc5284
      @derc5284 5 років тому

      Long videos! For sure

  • @arianovicki726
    @arianovicki726 6 років тому +306

    I can't even describe how much this video helped me today.
    Three years ago, I was in a relationship with that one boy. Our relationship lasted almost three years. He cheated on me and we had a horrible breakup. I even started self-harming. I wasn't able to get myself together for months after the incident. After I finally got over him, I met the kindest and the cutest boy ever! We've been together for a year and a half now. He never gave me any reason not to trust him, but I have horrible trust issues, especially because we are in a long distance relationship and I miss him so much. I am suffering from really, really bad relationship anxiety and I'm having panic attacks almost every day due to my overthinking and worrying. My boyfriend is very supportive and he treats me the best way possible. Today I had a huge panic attack again. Then, I saw your video and it made me cry. Thank you, Jess and Gabriel, you made me realize that I have the most generous and the kindest boy next to me who treats me better than anyone ever treated me and that I should be so grateful and not to let anything destroy our relationship. Please, whoever is reading this comment, please guys, pray for us two, pray for me to stay strong and beat my anxiety once and for all!
    Sorry for my bad English, I'm from Bosnia and Herzegovina.
    Thank you all.
    Love, Danja

    • @KaseyandShawn
      @KaseyandShawn 6 років тому +5

      We are human and we will think back on things that has happened to us and the devil uses that to get us to think its not real and to lead back down a wrong path. Trust in Gods guidance with everything because God never does anything to harm us, he does things to grow us and lead us where we need to be. Happy that you have someone who treats you like a queen that you deserve. Every woman deserves to be treated like a queen, and if the man treats you that way he deserves to be treated like a king in return.

    • @xoMadness
      @xoMadness 6 років тому +8

      Don't apologise for your English, it's perfect 🙌

    • @annamclain9772
      @annamclain9772 6 років тому

      I just prayed for you ❤️

    • @irinapalkovac9529
      @irinapalkovac9529 6 років тому

      Cuvaj ga, ako ti pomaze da prodjes kroz sve to i ne daje ti razlog da mu ne verujes budi dobra prema njemu i iako si imala losu vezu potrudi se da to ne utice na ovu sada. Izgleda kao da je dobar prema tebi i da ti veruje sto je jako bitno. Nadam se da cete biti zauvek zajedno ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @bushramoha9027
      @bushramoha9027 6 років тому

      😍 we will pray for you my dear

  • @jessicabirkelo3172
    @jessicabirkelo3172 6 років тому +177

    You guys have matured a lot together since the beginning of your relationship, not that you were ever immature. But it definitely shows and its so cool to see the way the Lord has grown you as individuals and a couple. Your relationship is a huge encouragement to me!

    • @ANoteToSelf
      @ANoteToSelf 6 років тому +1

      Jessica Birkelo I’ve noticed that too. It’s so refreshing to see a married couple growing in the lord.

  • @simrankhanna889
    @simrankhanna889 6 років тому +340

    HOW BEAUTIFUL IS JESS LOOKING OH MY GOD

  • @jazzminvarbitter7455
    @jazzminvarbitter7455 Рік тому +17

    Jess says she’ll be 26 in 5 years and they will definitely have a baby by that time, look at them now 🥺 seriously my favorite people! I’ve been watching them for 6 years, since before the engagement. In Gabe’s book, he said reach out to someone who has the life you want no matter who that are, because surrounding yourself with those who have the life you want, they may even reach back out so that’s what I’ve been doing with Jess and Gabriel💗✨the world needs more people like them

  • @hannahstewart5337
    @hannahstewart5337 6 років тому +105

    "Milo James!" 😂 Jess, you are already on the right track to being an excellent mother!

  • @emilyc9623
    @emilyc9623 6 років тому +193

    I've noticed that they both say certain words in the others accent and I don't think it's intentional but it's adorable

    • @josieree
      @josieree 6 років тому +16

      Emily Crittell I love when Gabe says "no" in Australian accent

    • @emilyc9623
      @emilyc9623 6 років тому

      striped socks yesssssss

  • @inam95
    @inam95 6 років тому +748

    I love these deeper talking videos :) I really like what you said about why you got Jess flowers, Gabe. It's important to think about that stuff and I'm glad to hear you're doing it for the right reasons. Love you guys!

    • @mil.o
      @mil.o 6 років тому +1

      inam95 what was reason I didn't hear

  • @bonnie.yarbrough
    @bonnie.yarbrough 6 років тому +549

    I love how Milo's middle name is James lol 💕💕😂😂

  • @alaftais7530
    @alaftais7530 6 років тому +145

    I want my future husband to be like Gabriel 😭❤️

  • @nevaehortiz9821
    @nevaehortiz9821 6 років тому +251

    Jess is absolutely amazing and pretty and her voice when she talks is the cutest. This video was very inspirational and I have been with both of you from the beginning and I will always be here and I love how much Gabe cares for her and he always makes me laugh❤

    • @KateOlivia
      @KateOlivia 5 років тому

      hey i have a christian youtube channel and i think you’d like it. please subscribe! i hope i can be the light to more people! :) God bless!

  • @corrineworrell
    @corrineworrell 6 років тому +232

    Omg Gabe just did an Australian accent when he said no to Jess about coffee. 😂

    • @meryemalkan599
      @meryemalkan599 6 років тому

      Corrine Worrell when he did that

    • @angierocks2001
      @angierocks2001 6 років тому +3

      Meryem Alkan at 2:11

    • @meryemalkan599
      @meryemalkan599 6 років тому

      Angie Mahone okay thank you. Can you also tell me what was Gabe's quote at 11:26 . Since I'm not a native person it was hard for me to follow his words.

    • @artpizzalover
      @artpizzalover 6 років тому +2

      Meryem Alkan he said “I wanna prepare for the future but not plan the future”

    • @meryemalkan599
      @meryemalkan599 6 років тому +1

      Inês Alves ahh that makes sense now. Thank you so much. 😄

  • @SavannahLewie
    @SavannahLewie 6 років тому +295

    THE NEW SHIRTS ARE SOOO CUTE. Love all your merch, but this especially! So special! ❤️ Happy Valentines Day! ☺️

    • @michaelharvill
      @michaelharvill 6 років тому +1

      I asked my crush to be my valentine today... watch the video on my channel ❤️❤️❤️

    • @IsabelSalceN
      @IsabelSalceN 6 років тому

      I love your channel Savannah!!❤

    • @SavannahLewie
      @SavannahLewie 6 років тому

      Isabel NS. Awww thank you!!! 💘

    • @shenaenae5185
      @shenaenae5185 6 років тому

      Savannah Lewie 9

    • @sarabarill5875
      @sarabarill5875 6 років тому

      Please keep them longer!!

  • @queenriyrri239
    @queenriyrri239 6 років тому +300

    Gabe's reaction on Jess' "4 +" about having babies is GOLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHA! ❤

  • @nz9562
    @nz9562 6 років тому +24

    “I’d rather lose an argument than the person” I love that!!

  • @karishmatandon8929
    @karishmatandon8929 6 років тому +152

    My parents have different religions (my mom is Christian and my dad is Hindu), but I was raised by going to church with my mom, so I am a Christian, but I also celebrate Hindu holidays in respect for my dad and his beliefs. Lovers with different religious can definitely make their relationship work, it just depends if God has planned for you two to be together forever.

    • @KateOlivia
      @KateOlivia 5 років тому

      hey i have a christian youtube channel and i think you’d like it. please subscribe! i hope i can be the light to more people! :) God bless!

    • @sandershano5758
      @sandershano5758 3 роки тому +7

      I get what you’re saying but Christians are actually not allowed to get married to people from other faith...from a worldly point of view you can do wtv you want but from a Biblical pov it’s a sin. Unless that person also accepts Jesus in their heart.

  • @sshaynasmithh
    @sshaynasmithh 6 років тому +129

    "Milo James this is my beauty blender" 😂😂😂😂😫

  • @faustchristina643
    @faustchristina643 6 років тому +73

    Jess looks sooo beautiful with her hair opened..😍😍

  • @C.j.stauber
    @C.j.stauber 6 років тому +66

    “I want to prepare for the future but not plan the future.” -Gabriel ConteYou should put this on a shirt!!

  • @leslieeekb
    @leslieeekb Рік тому +3

    11:21 the question was what do they see themselves like in 5 years and their answer was “hopefully have a kid by then” AND they just had their first beautiful girl. congratulations jess and gabe 🤍

  • @nerissarazz1489
    @nerissarazz1489 6 років тому +141

    Omg I remember early vids Gabe kept bringing up babies and Jess was like we don’t want too many and now she’s saying 4+ 😂

  • @alissabrown1959
    @alissabrown1959 6 років тому +231

    I like videos where you both talk a lot!

  • @JennsCrazyLife
    @JennsCrazyLife 6 років тому +254

    OH MILO !!

  • @zoyaa4564
    @zoyaa4564 6 років тому +30

    An 18 minute jess and gabe video! I haven't even started and i'm already dying of happiness

  • @lindseytaylor4249
    @lindseytaylor4249 6 років тому +242

    Sweetest couple on the internet!!!!! & Jess’ hair is getting long again/she is so angelic!!!!!!!

    • @kickinitwithjess
      @kickinitwithjess 6 років тому

      I agree! also, WHY was the sweatshirts only available for 24 hours :'( I wanted one so bad

  • @HaleysCornerr
    @HaleysCornerr 6 років тому +142

    My hubby and I are watching and are like yesss! At everything you guys answer! Wish us 4 were actually friends everyday it would be bomb 🤗😊

  • @sebgomez
    @sebgomez 6 років тому +547

    its called a milly rock, ur welcome

    • @TempoZakdoekjes
      @TempoZakdoekjes 6 років тому +20

      Sebastian Gomez got to read the comment before gabe removes it 👌🏻

    • @gracebeeman450
      @gracebeeman450 6 років тому

      OH MY GODDNES HAHAHAHAHAH

    • @meghaseth5815
      @meghaseth5815 6 років тому

      Sebastian Gomez didn't understand

    • @maddiekelley8148
      @maddiekelley8148 6 років тому +1

      AHHAH

    • @michaelharvill
      @michaelharvill 6 років тому +1

      I asked my crush to be my valentine ❤️ if you want to know how it went, click my face ❤️

  • @nikitabotha9504
    @nikitabotha9504 6 років тому +11

    Just wanted to say that you guys are such an inspiration for me, you guys have motivated me to center Christ in all that i do and to push me in every aspect of my life. Please never stop showing your love for each other as well as your love for God. I love your guys videos and the messages you guys to spread throughout the millions of inspired CONTEAM members. Lots of love from South Africa

  • @SyedaTasnia
    @SyedaTasnia 6 років тому +143

    jess really suits those hoop earrings x

  • @stephstephh9205
    @stephstephh9205 6 років тому +111

    Jess: "MILO JAMES"
    Milo: *does walk of shame*😭😂😂💞

  • @blaikeboyd4157
    @blaikeboyd4157 6 років тому +5

    Honestly, I love when you guys go so in depth with your answers. I prefer that over when people read double the questions but give one word answers. Ya feel me?

  • @gemmag7484
    @gemmag7484 6 років тому +97

    Jess rocking em hoop earrings 😍❤️

  • @parapiba
    @parapiba 6 років тому +75

    nothing makes me more happy than praying, working out and watching you guys
    Love love love from Romania 💋

  • @rebeccacho9364
    @rebeccacho9364 6 років тому +41

    SOMEONE PLZ MAKE A COMPILATION VID OF JESS GOING “HEY GUYS” 😂😂

  • @saurusdewwx
    @saurusdewwx 6 років тому +1

    Thank you Jess & Gabriel for being so open to sharing your personal thoughts and even your past relationships. I'm a Christian and dated a Catholic before, and during the dating phase I came across your videos and have ever since been following your content. You guys have helped me to see the lies I've been comforting myself in the relationship, and have showed me that God who loves me have better things instored for me if I trust His timing even if I'm 24 and single. Your wedding video left a profound memory in me and made me felt that Gab really love Jess not in a secular manner, but a way that is selfless and unconditional. I've truly seen how God is at the centre of your relationship and understood that only God seeking people can portray such faith and joy in a relationship. Your videos have given me hope that God-pursuing people do exist and I shouldn't make decisions in my life just based on my understanding but relying more on God. Thank you so much for spreading love and positivity. God bless both of you in every step of your way 💕 PS. I've been an avid subscriber for close to 2 years but this is my 1st truthful comment and I hope you'll happen to see this.

  • @yolo7085
    @yolo7085 6 років тому +372

    Most contraceptives are 99%+ accurate if taken/adminstered properly - I wouldn't really call that a "large margin of how little they work"

    • @blebleble013456
      @blebleble013456 6 років тому +63

      Omar Sykes they can’t have an opinion on how effective contraception is because contraception IS effective. they can’t denied that or say its not because it is actually effective at almost 100%. But its okay if they don’t want to use it.

    • @michaela.senkova
      @michaela.senkova 6 років тому +1

      blebleble013456 exactly

    • @starsnavigate
      @starsnavigate 6 років тому +40

      Omar Sykes science isn’t based off opinions... it’s based of facts...

    • @michaela.senkova
      @michaela.senkova 6 років тому +39

      Omar Sykes I think it’s not very responsible to tell the world (especially with thousands of prople watching) that you just do not believe in contraceptives. I understand that married people do not use contraceptives as they are with one partner for the rest of their lifes and would be okay with having a baby anytime. But it’s not the ‘believe’ thing you should discuss. People should use it and it works. Not using it leads to a lot of problems. Especially if they are not married.

    • @michaela.senkova
      @michaela.senkova 6 років тому +6

      Omar Sykes Yeah, of course it’s not right to just tell people to use it because it works. But if young people who are not married are having sex, I think it is a good advice and would say that a lot of people would recommend it to their children if they knew their teenage kid was having sex. And I believe J&G would say it to their future children too, once the children will have sex in not a married relationship and not just ‘believe’ that it doesn’t work and let their kids have an unprotected sex.

  • @kimberlycunningham1491
    @kimberlycunningham1491 6 років тому +114

    Jess, can you do a workout routine please?

    • @KaseyandShawn
      @KaseyandShawn 6 років тому

      I was thinking that too, Jess you definitely should!

    • @ellar.5625
      @ellar.5625 6 років тому

      Yes please please make one!!!!

    • @renee5855
      @renee5855 6 років тому

      Yessss

  • @lilyradel2261
    @lilyradel2261 6 років тому +190

    i dated someone for a year and 2 months. he is baptist & i am jewish. at the time of starting the relationship, we didn’t think different religions would be an issue; we enjoyed the company and time spent together. but when it really came down to it, we eventually broke up. this break up was heart wrenching for me because i truly loved him. however, he didn’t respect my values or opinions on our religious future, yet i did for him. he only wanted me to change my religion for him and never once did i ask that of him. we eventually broke things off because we both believed we wouldn’t see eye to eye on the subject. dating someone of the different religion can be very challenging but if you truly love someone, you’ll work things out to make it work. 💖

    • @CarolineRodriguesLeao
      @CarolineRodriguesLeao 6 років тому +14

      As a Christian who was in relationship with an atheist, I can relate to this situation and struggle of not being on the same wavelength as your boyfriend. Unfortunately it may be hard for others to understand but many Christians believe that God comes to separate us from others. Just like yourself I always thought that if someone loves you, they'd do anything to be with you. That was before I experience the true meaning of love, through our almighty creator. We love because he loved us first. Now when I look back, I realized that no one should compromise their beliefs to be with me or vice versa, and this idea of separation made so much more sense to me. Yes it know how much it hurts but in the long run just know that God has bigger and better plans for you, and it is SO worth the wait :))) xx

    • @lizzyholiday3106
      @lizzyholiday3106 6 років тому +1

      Caz Rodrigues totally!! I️ love this! 💛

  • @its_helayna
    @its_helayna 6 років тому +89

    My mom had 10 kids and never regretted it! I’m 16 and have 12 nieces and nephews....not to mention 3 more on the way. 💙😂

    • @beautyindie3901
      @beautyindie3901 6 років тому +3

      Laynie G and I thought I have a big family bc I have two siblings

    • @its_helayna
      @its_helayna 6 років тому +1

      beauty Indie haha oh well, life. Different ppl different fams🤷🏽‍♀️💙

    • @animallover2881
      @animallover2881 6 років тому +1

      Wow, what a big family. That's beautiful!

    • @its_helayna
      @its_helayna 6 років тому

      Lovely Yaz thank you😌💙

    • @samanthaalagib6400
      @samanthaalagib6400 6 років тому +1

      That is not a dig family. It is a huge family. Like it is not bad or anything like that. It is just amazing how your parents have the patience. I don't actually have that much patience. I love babies and kids but when they start crying I hate them.

  • @issyhumphries
    @issyhumphries 6 років тому +83

    Omg Jess love you in those hoop earrings!! Xx

  • @blabla8264
    @blabla8264 6 років тому +45

    Question from the title is answered at 6:23

  • @lazxx3284
    @lazxx3284 6 років тому +13

    WOAH JESS JUST GETS MORE GORGEOUS EVERY SINGLE VLOG

  • @madisonh.6455
    @madisonh.6455 6 років тому +12

    we LOVE LOVE LOVE Gabe's long explanations!! the longer the video the better in my opinion!! Also just bought my new Valentine's day merch and i LOVE it!! SO excited to get it!!! HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY to my actual couple inspiration. Videos like this make me fall in love with you guys more and more

  • @dulcegzmn98
    @dulcegzmn98 6 років тому +330

    My husband and I didn’t use contrives, we fully trusted God and it was perfect! We been married for two years and we now have a sweet baby boy who is 9 months old! Gods plans are always perfect ❤️

    • @bowhello
      @bowhello 6 років тому +2

      Dulce Guzman 10 years later....

    • @shaiba7748
      @shaiba7748 6 років тому +19

      What's a contrive?

    • @monanana-04
      @monanana-04 6 років тому +8

      I think she means contraceptives. Also, such a beautiful comment! I’m not going to use them when I get married, but use nfp. Idk of you know what that is, but it’s natural family planning which is refraining from sex based on the woman’s period cycle when you are ovulating. Some ppl may think it’s the same thing as birth control, but it really isn’t cuz you shouldn’t use nfp for selfish reasons or cuz you think you’re set on just your day... 2 kids. It should be used for valid reasons, like financial, health, etc reasons. The reason why contraceptives were started is just wrong, deceitful, and hazardous to women’s health. Also, I just want to say I know there a lot of wonderful ppl who do use contraceptives and I’m not hating on them or think they are the worst ppl ever. I just don’t think it’s in line with God or agree with their use of contraceptives. Sex is made for bringing children into the world and uniting man and wife.🙂💕

    • @dulcegzmn98
      @dulcegzmn98 6 років тому +2

      I meant contraceptives lol

    • @M1and5M
      @M1and5M 6 років тому +2

      Sunshine Gal how many days Makes that of you being Anke to have Sex without getting pregnant?

  • @maninderkaurgrewal3813
    @maninderkaurgrewal3813 6 років тому +7

    GUYS CAN YOU HEAR GABE DEVELOPING AN AUSTRALIAN ACCENT MY BABIES ARE ALL GROWN UP THIS MAKES ME SO HAPPY SBHSGEWCW

  • @goofboyjosh1013
    @goofboyjosh1013 6 років тому +12

    Just ordered A """ LOVE NEVER FAILS """ sweater and i have deep respect for what you guys are doing with the profits

  • @jessicasingh5601
    @jessicasingh5601 6 років тому +82

    These 18 minutes are going to be the best minutes of this day

    • @MsJenniferclarke
      @MsJenniferclarke 6 років тому +1

      ME!!!

    • @laceyshaw9557
      @laceyshaw9557 6 років тому +1

      Jessica Singh ikr

    • @isabelle2850
      @isabelle2850 6 років тому

      Yesss, especially when you re heartbroken, ALTHOUGH it shouldnt because Being Vday i felt horrible all day. They have something... a beautiful energy.

    • @jessicasingh5601
      @jessicasingh5601 6 років тому

      Isabelle Urlan THEY DO- and I hope u feel better soon

    • @saltyqueen354
      @saltyqueen354 6 років тому

      Jessica Singh and 25 seconds fyi

  • @asiacaitlin2670
    @asiacaitlin2670 6 років тому +18

    I love how you guys aren’t afraid to show God’s love in your videos

  • @marymotherofgallion
    @marymotherofgallion 6 років тому +20

    Jess your hair really suits you! You look super cute!

  • @aliciasam9672
    @aliciasam9672 6 років тому +159

    Im just soo confused
    Who in their right mind would cheat on Gabe? Like hes the definition of goalss

    • @Shiyay
      @Shiyay 6 років тому +18

      He acts like a child. I wouldnt be with him either

    • @hamnamir3182
      @hamnamir3182 6 років тому +6

      Shiyay you're just stupid thn

    • @janeryan2709
      @janeryan2709 5 років тому +9

      @@Shiyay Yeah, I agree. He's not my type at all. However, I wouldn't cheat, I would have just ended it. Cheating is shitty. But yeah, not my type either.

  • @KaitlinKalLee
    @KaitlinKalLee 6 років тому +48

    Lots of little conte’s in the future 😍😍😍💕

  • @taniasotini61
    @taniasotini61 6 років тому +71

    "What's the best advice of makeup after a disagreement ??"
    Gabe: "probably like mascara "
    Jess: "I was going to say like foundation "
    LMAOOOOOOO IM SO DEAD 😂
    Only 5 minutes into the Vid and I'm already dying😂😂😂 LOVE YOU GUYS 😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @krisztischweitzer8874
    @krisztischweitzer8874 6 років тому +11

    When Jess says "Milo James this is my beauty blender..." she's already like a mom haha, love you guys xx

  • @jessicadye792
    @jessicadye792 6 років тому +15

    Watching Jess and Gabe and high school musical makes this day perfect ❤️

  • @reynarubia2913
    @reynarubia2913 6 років тому +12

    2:13 gab’s australian accent of ‘no’ came out 😍

  • @ezragames1401
    @ezragames1401 6 років тому +626

    4 kids means there won't be a middle child.

    • @sofirustle8409
      @sofirustle8409 6 років тому +154

      Ezra Games it means there will be two middle children

    • @stephanies577
      @stephanies577 6 років тому +11

      its not the same though, with 4. With only 3 one is usually the odd one out :/ Go with 4!

    • @joyconnors6857
      @joyconnors6857 6 років тому +3

      Ezra Games there will be 2 middle children

    • @elle1rayne
      @elle1rayne 6 років тому +6

      I'm 3rd of 4 kids. Oldest is a brother and 2 sisters. I was more the 'middle child' than my sister.

    • @poppyterry9557
      @poppyterry9557 6 років тому +1

      No there will be two! sike

  • @kelseymiller1045
    @kelseymiller1045 6 років тому +14

    every time i see the new sweatshirts i think "your love never fails, it never gives up,it never runs out on me" I mean, i can't be the only one LOL

  • @alexaevans1387
    @alexaevans1387 6 років тому +65

    people reading the comments, especially young people, PLEASE don't have sex and think that you won't end up pregnant because god doesn't want you to. safe sex is the best sex, and when used correctly contraception is actually very effective!

    • @michaela.senkova
      @michaela.senkova 6 років тому +4

      Alexa Evans Right! it’s important to say it after what Jess&Gabe said.

    • @-Solange-
      @-Solange- 6 років тому +8

      Sex in marriage is the best sex and then contraception is actually unnecessary.

    • @alexaevans1387
      @alexaevans1387 6 років тому +13

      not everyone waits until marriage to have sex, so it's important to know the facts about contraception, especially condoms since they can also provide protection against STIs. regardless of jess and gabe's personal beliefs, it's irresponsible to spread misinformation to their audience.

  • @mitziwilliams1286
    @mitziwilliams1286 6 років тому +108

    There’s a video from when you guys are dating and Jess FREAKS out when you guys start talking about kids and wants no more than 2, so sweet her heart has grown! Haha

    • @breeza6071
      @breeza6071 6 років тому

      Mitzi Williams I remember that video ❤️❤️

    • @alexd.2610
      @alexd.2610 6 років тому

      It's the opposite now and even Gabe just wants less than 4 kids xDD

    • @yemisifamu2169
      @yemisifamu2169 6 років тому

      Thank you . I was waiting for someone to say that I believe it was the first j&g vid

  • @OurTinyTribe
    @OurTinyTribe 6 років тому +18

    Tilly ALWAYS eats my beauty blender too. it drives me insane haha!

  • @viddykhaos2896
    @viddykhaos2896 4 роки тому +6

    Right as she says "4+ kids" Gabe freaks out, absolutely hilarious!

  • @zoefidler9940
    @zoefidler9940 6 років тому +105

    Love you guys so much!😘😘😘🌹🌹🌹🌹. Happy Valentine’s Day to you guys😘😘😘😘🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @janefayad5855
    @janefayad5855 6 років тому +23

    I'm so alone today, like every day. It's so sad but you guys cheer me up ❤️ I love you both so much, wish I could hug you

    • @asiajarosinska1241
      @asiajarosinska1241 6 років тому +3

      Jane Fayad hope you will find some true friends one day🙂

    • @janefayad5855
      @janefayad5855 6 років тому +2

      Asia Jarosińska awh that's sweet :) thank you

    • @nawalhabz8610
      @nawalhabz8610 6 років тому +1

      You are not alone :) Love from Africa xx

    • @janefayad5855
      @janefayad5855 6 років тому

      Nawal Habz such a cutie❤️

    • @VeronicaMxoxo
      @VeronicaMxoxo 6 років тому +2

      You're not alone, love. Jesus loves you and I'm here for you❤

  • @zeynepcengiz1720
    @zeynepcengiz1720 6 років тому +34

    yaaaaaaaaaay!! :) it's 11 at night here and i was bored but then i saw the notifs and i smiled so big! thanks heroes!
    greetings from Turkey.

    • @cllnanderson9
      @cllnanderson9 6 років тому

      Zey Sell yall speak english in Turkey?

    • @zeynepcengiz1720
      @zeynepcengiz1720 6 років тому

      No (: We speak Turkish.

    • @cllnanderson9
      @cllnanderson9 6 років тому

      Zeynep Cengiz so u speak english tho just as a second language

    • @zeynepcengiz1720
      @zeynepcengiz1720 6 років тому

      Yes, not all the Turkish people can speak English but in our schools we learn English as a second, German as a third language :)

  • @vgaur-2826
    @vgaur-2826 5 років тому +12

    I personally love gabe’s long answers

  • @kilynn1729
    @kilynn1729 6 років тому

    Okay but like why is Jess ALWAYS so dang pretty!!! Like this vlog I'm living for her hoop earrings and outfit in general. JESS IS ACTUAL GOALS YALL!!!!

  • @mimibaek8152
    @mimibaek8152 6 років тому +24

    Yaaaay notification squad where you at?? 😂 love all the way from Canada, Jess & Gabriel!! 💕

  • @aliahrexhepi3667
    @aliahrexhepi3667 6 років тому +80

    Anyone else like before watching because te t know the video is gonna be amazing anyway!! Happy Valentines Dayyy I love you both so much!!!😍😍😘😘❤❤

  • @rosyshadow4963
    @rosyshadow4963 6 років тому +5

    I’m a Muslim, and I watch you guys. I mean I already knew this before, but there are a lot of similarities. I especially loved when you mentioned how you should work for something. But how if it’s not planned for you then like ‘who are we to decide’ 🌸😊🌸

  • @sammakesyousmile1939
    @sammakesyousmile1939 6 років тому +49

    was i the only one who thought the question at 4:50 was asking about how to make up after having a disagreement? lol i was so confused by their answers at first

    • @zinistar727
      @zinistar727 6 років тому +4

      It was.. Nd i think they didnt get the question.. Its kinda funny though

    • @katiefoote9629
      @katiefoote9629 5 років тому +8

      I think they were joking

  • @xsalune
    @xsalune 2 роки тому +1

    3:26 was there any positive parts to having long distance relationship ?
    4:49 whats the best advice on make up after a disagreement ?
    5:00 signs of an unhealthy friendship or relationship ?
    6:25 past relationship, why they ended, and differences
    7:52 how to compromise after an argument

  • @abdulrazzakkhanabdulrazzak8235
    @abdulrazzakkhanabdulrazzak8235 6 років тому +238

    jess why dont u kiss gabe jn front of camera its look adorable dont stop him 😘😘😘😘😘

    • @isabellageronimo7557
      @isabellageronimo7557 6 років тому +32

      it’s their privacy

    • @abdulrazzakkhanabdulrazzak8235
      @abdulrazzakkhanabdulrazzak8235 6 років тому +1

      i know ive been following seens long but its look sweet and love to watch them they r my favourite couple love u jess and gabe

    • @kaoutarelman
      @kaoutarelman 6 років тому +11

      i actually like that they're not like all these couples who tries to show that they're so in love by kissing each other they leave it to themself

    • @beautiful9512
      @beautiful9512 6 років тому +4

      I guess kissing on camera would be considered PDA… at least i would consider it that way and I know I won't be comfortable with it so they're probably not either and also as Bella said, it's their privacy…

    • @Joelmavelikara
      @Joelmavelikara 6 років тому +3

      they're not comfortable with kissing on camera... which i like ,it just shows they dont wanna kiss on camera and put in the thumbnail.

  • @AveryCharlotte
    @AveryCharlotte 6 років тому +24

    Jess looks gorgeous in this video.... like always buT still omg

  • @sshaynasmithh
    @sshaynasmithh 6 років тому +31

    Gabe was so hyper this whole video 😂😂😂

  • @clarissastevens4915
    @clarissastevens4915 6 років тому +5

    "it was how you made me feel about myself" SO GOOD❤❤❤

  • @trinity_2724
    @trinity_2724 6 років тому

    Haven’t watched in awhile and it’s just so refreshing to catch up. Love when you do long videos and “talk for a long time” those are the best kinds of videos! Love learning more about you guys.

  • @annisayunia2384
    @annisayunia2384 5 років тому +3

    I know this is too late to drop a comment, but I do also strugling in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend the past 3 years. We both Indonesian, but he lives in Australia and I stay in Jakarta. Another positive thing from being in a LDR from my opinion is we both can grow to a strong-independent individuals but at the same time we are a team. We used to do few things by ourselves where other couple could do it together. And based on my experience, LDR gives me more time to have a quality sesh for my self, so it makes me more ready to prepare for anything about what this relationship is going to face with. I do love you both and been following your journey since you guys in a LDR. I’m happy you finally break the distance and get to live together in a marriage! Sending virtual hugs from Indonesia 🇮🇩 keep inspiring and spread love...❤️❤️❤️

  • @CaseandCoCreative
    @CaseandCoCreative 6 років тому +11

    "Milo James! This is my Beauty Blender!" ... I feel ya girl 😅

  • @EverythingAarushi
    @EverythingAarushi 6 років тому +112

    The poor Beauty Blender 😂😂

  • @heartuepjm8710
    @heartuepjm8710 6 років тому +1

    I really love this video! I love how Gabe talks about life. Seriously, I love both of you

  • @freya.moosbrugger
    @freya.moosbrugger 6 років тому

    Jess’s look with the pink floyd tee, middle-part straight hair, and the silver hoop earrings is SO CUTE💕 when you and Gabe were walking to get coffee you just looked so grown-up/mature and so beautiful! Just wanted to drop a nice comment, love you guys☺️

  • @crew461rocks
    @crew461rocks 6 років тому +7

    You guys are the best!!! You guys put the CONTE in CONTENT!!! Haha! Love you!!! Happy Valentines Day!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lonelymads
    @lonelymads 6 років тому +46

    Can anyone be my valentine 😭😭😭
    No..okay
    Myself and I are going to watch UA-cam all day while eating candy 😁✨

  • @kiaralewis5004
    @kiaralewis5004 6 років тому +6

    It’s the MILLY ROCK! 😂😂 Jess was so cute doing it 😍

  • @julietalagrotte5871
    @julietalagrotte5871 6 років тому +2

    I just love you so bad. I'm so grateful that there's still young people like you with such a great faith and love for God. and that you two share that with us too because as a fifteen year old I don't see much faith in people lately and I'm concerned.
    you deserve everything good that happens to both of you and I hope someday I'll find someone with everything the two of you found in each other 💜 sending my love from argentina

  • @alexd.2610
    @alexd.2610 6 років тому +2

    Love these long Q&As and props to you both for some of the wise lines about compromising and for the honest opinions. I've been watching you guys since you started dating and you might have been my inspiration when I met my bf turned fiance and now hubby. We're back to being in LDR even after waiting for more than a year and finally being married last Feb but we def can't wait to be together for good hopefully this year. The only thing I don't agree with this vid, same as the others, is regarding contraceptives. It's a personal choice and I don't want that to be taken away from me all because people chose to depend on God's plan and timing. My husband and I are baptized as Catholics but we're not devout and at least we share the same philosophy that we don't have to be practising Catholics just to be deemed worthy to be saved or be seen as a good person based off on beliefs alone. It all boils down to how you treat others when no one's watching and should treat everyone with respect.

  • @kelseygrennan
    @kelseygrennan 6 років тому +3

    you guys are the cutest!! i love these deeper videos, i feel like we get to connect with you more personally and i really appreciate it!

  • @Sparklestar93
    @Sparklestar93 6 років тому +107

    I think what they were trying to say in regards to contraceptives is that when it’s God’s plan for someone to have a baby he will make it happen any way even if a couple is using contraceptives.

    • @aemen741
      @aemen741 6 років тому +6

      Sparklestar93 EXACTLY SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEEPS IN THE BACK

    • @user-pb8mb6jg7s
      @user-pb8mb6jg7s 6 років тому

      Yesss I went back and this is what I understood so I guess they don’t want to stop using them to see if they get pregnant because they feel it would be them making the decision to have a baby and not God

  • @nathanduarte9251
    @nathanduarte9251 6 років тому +15

    UGH!!! I really wish i could buy that sweater😭😭😍 Yall should do a give away thing... I would really love one if those!!!

    • @nathanduarte9251
      @nathanduarte9251 6 років тому +1

      Also... everybody should like this conment if you think that they should do like a raffle or giveaway of some sort bc that sweater/fleece thing looks bomb af

    • @justme-zq2np
      @justme-zq2np 6 років тому

      But there's only one or two people who win from the give away

  • @jessewhite7180
    @jessewhite7180 6 років тому

    So, I gotta say this Con team. For everyone whose been around since these two started out, seeing the difference in how much they talk about God and how they live their life is really awesome! Like I don't know if anyone else feels like this, but they didn't really talk too much about Him when they were first starting out and it actually made them better. People knew them for their personality, who they really were. Now the same is true, and people know that they are real with who they are and how they communicate with everyone. Like well done you guys! I can recommend your guy's channel to my nieces and anybody i'm around cause I know your content with give them value no matter what. :) Much love

  • @JacquiFricke
    @JacquiFricke 6 років тому

    I love how down to earth, kind, sweet, genuine, and faithful you are. This side of you two comes out, but I feel like in this video those qualities were displayed the most. God must be so proud of your hearts.

  • @sarapaxton6782
    @sarapaxton6782 6 років тому +4

    To say that contraceptives "rarely work" is a bit of an overstatement. It's a lot more effective than nothing, but there is a lot of room for human error with things like the pill, condoms, and diaphragms. However I totally respect your decision to not use any. It is your relationship, and you two have to do what makes you feel both comfortable. And clearly you guys would welcome any baby in your life. My husband and I don't want kids ever, so we use condoms. I'm not comfortable with using hormonal birth control because of all sign effects that come with it, so condoms work just fine for us. Every marriage is different and has to fine what works for them. Love you two both BTW!!

    • @worship0110
      @worship0110 5 років тому

      If they don't use any contraceptive than how r they preventing pregnancy 🤔

  • @blondie4lyfe245
    @blondie4lyfe245 6 років тому +21

    Who's sitting here watching this waiting for a wonderful man? (Gabe) or a awesome girl? (Jess)

  • @seh7396
    @seh7396 6 років тому +10

    Jess" yeah like 4 plus"
    Gabe" 4!!! Are you joking . Why am I hearing about this now -how -why -when did we discuss this " 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤I absolutely love this

  • @jesseniacroutch7384
    @jesseniacroutch7384 6 років тому

    I love Jess's hair in the blog! ❤ And I love when you guys sit down and talk. I love it because I have not found many Christian UA-cam couples who sit down and talk seriously from a Christian perspective. ❤ I love you guys! You guys are so sweet and cute!❤

  • @angeldexters
    @angeldexters 5 років тому +1

    jess, remember taking care of a baby is 10x harder than a dog! and i seriously wonder how ur baby will look like. and im sure he/she will be so talented. but just remember 1 baby 9 months and then forever. LUV UUU