hahaha the DM has it coming for them... give it time, time always reveals the truth.. I mean it in a loving way to the DM haha, thanks Maám, this is the best channel that I have come across on TFs..each time I listen to your videos, I learn new insights, and I feel like my healing has escalated since I chanced upon your videos, I mean I feel like I am already healing alot but I chanced upon your channel just before I meet my DM again, and your advice gave me the courage to set a boundary with him - and I have never felt FREE-ER , though might be triggered from time to time but being triggered is a good way to reset what needs to be heal within me - this is how I see it now. Thank you so much!! and oh yeah, to confirm the points you have made about characteristic of DM, he is charming, he always gets female attention, he never bears any grudges for any mean thing which I have said to him ever or have ever thrown a tantrum at me, though I held lots of grudges and small tantrums against him when triggered , like you said before in another video, the DF will never drive the DM away , don't be afraid to offend the DM - I know that most of the time DFs held back what we want to say because we are worried that we will drive the DMs away, fear obsessed thoughts but again if he is your real DM, he will never be repulsed by you, thank you so much !!
Thanks for your guidance. Its been 1 year since you posted this reading about surrendering... just for me to gauge how long can it take even if we are consciously doing the inner work and purpose.. for union to come together.. I know this question will be categorized ignorant... but I am just curious about if we can get some rough idea on duration of this separation (inspite of innerwork) .. can it take 50 years also?
Thanks for the video,one thing i want to ask when this obsessive thinking of them will stop? Do our inner work helps them ?i mean they will also transform automatically?as we are the same soul? Hope you take litle time to anwer me.will be grateful😊
After separation dm tried to make friendship with me but I told dm that he is narcissistic and manipulative person without fearing that dm might leave and he said I heard enough and blocked me but actually I felt really good becoz I stood for my self respect
@@yinyanglove1111 getting thoughts of move on with someone else and also have hatred to dm in my case I fight with dm speak aggressively and dm listen silently
@@khushiprabhudessai9760 okay. Well if the fighting bothers you, know that nobody is responsible for how we feel. The outside and other people (including our DM) mirror our inner world. We are responsible for how we feel and for what we attract. Listen to your heart. If this is your DM, give it time and see how you feel and honour your feelings. In either case, focus on healing yourself and on balancing your emotions. God bless you.
@@yinyanglove1111 but why I feel like I have more masculine energy like I like gyming watching sports etc but my dm has more feminine energy like he likes watching anime video creative painting sketching etc even he speak softly don't argue with others etc but me aggressive with others why so ??
@@khushiprabhudessai9760 It's okay. Sometimes women can have dominant masculine energies and men can have dominant feminine energies- it's normal. Don't worry about it. It may take some time to know the dominant energy for you. Just heal your inner child wounds and balance yourself and your dominant energy will start to show in your life, gradually. I was in a masculine energy too, for majority of my life, but it was coming from an unhealed space. When I healed myself, I came into a more feminine energy (which was my dominant energy but unhealed and suppressed). If you feel your dominant energy is masculine, ask yourself some deep questions such as do you like to give or receive love, especially in close physical intimacy? This will clarify a lot. Similarly, are you the one who stumbled upon the term twin flames first? You say your DM acted in a narcissistic way, but are you more empathic and did you try harder to maintain the communication (that makes you a feminine energy). Just look at all this and surrender to the divine. In some time, you'll know your dominant energy. It has little to do with gender, so don't worry. Also, be patient with this discovery. It will come to you when you're ready. You could look at doing deeper shadow work also, along with answering these questions. Know that the journey unfolds in its own time, based on our readiness at different stages. So, be patient. 🙂
Im a little confused , at around 08:10 you say that the masculine is balanced in the lower 3 chakras. Please clarify as I have heard you also say that this is a common misconception and that the feminine is in the lower 3 and a half chakras and the masculine in the upper 3 and a half.
Revised edit ( just to answer your question exactly)- any unawakened DM is always acting like how a feminine should be (hence in the lower chakras) and an unawakened DF is acting like a DM (too spiritual- in the upper chakras- but unable to manifest things in the physical). So an unawakened DM is very materially focused (not in a healed way) because he hasn't reached his true awakened self. This is perhaps how I would have used the term "balanced". Maybe I could have offered more clarity or used another term. Hope this helps. 💗 It is important to understand that balance at heart is key for both. Both worlds are reconciled for a TF (material and spiritual), but respective energies take lead in their core domains and bring the same energy to the other (so a feminine awakening in the lower, bringing the power of these to herself and to her DM and the opposite is also true). This way the world of the 3 D is also reconciled in a healed way (because it happens through a healed DF) and the world of spirituality is also enjoyed in the right way (because it is brought by the healed DM energy). The opposite energy is always anchoring the other. I want to explain this more- it has more to it that will clarify more- I will in another video on Patreon. U can also explore texts on Tantra, Shaktism and Shaivism if you wish to understand this more. 🌹
hahaha the DM has it coming for them... give it time, time always reveals the truth.. I mean it in a loving way to the DM haha, thanks Maám, this is the best channel that I have come across on TFs..each time I listen to your videos, I learn new insights, and I feel like my healing has escalated since I chanced upon your videos, I mean I feel like I am already healing alot but I chanced upon your channel just before I meet my DM again, and your advice gave me the courage to set a boundary with him - and I have never felt FREE-ER , though might be triggered from time to time but being triggered is a good way to reset what needs to be heal within me - this is how I see it now. Thank you so much!! and oh yeah, to confirm the points you have made about characteristic of DM, he is charming, he always gets female attention, he never bears any grudges for any mean thing which I have said to him ever or have ever thrown a tantrum at me, though I held lots of grudges and small tantrums against him when triggered , like you said before in another video, the DF will never drive the DM away , don't be afraid to offend the DM - I know that most of the time DFs held back what we want to say because we are worried that we will drive the DMs away, fear obsessed thoughts but again if he is your real DM, he will never be repulsed by you, thank you so much !!
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Thank you so much for sharing this! Sending much light your way
This sure has helped tremendosly.....bt very difficult...
you are so wise
Beautiful and Authentic ❤
Thank you
Thanks for your guidance. Its been 1 year since you posted this reading about surrendering... just for me to gauge how long can it take even if we are consciously doing the inner work and purpose.. for union to come together..
I know this question will be categorized ignorant... but I am just curious about if we can get some rough idea on duration of this separation (inspite of innerwork) .. can it take 50 years also?
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Thanks for the video,one thing i want to ask when this obsessive thinking of them will stop?
Do our inner work helps them ?i mean they will also transform automatically?as we are the same soul?
Hope you take litle time to anwer me.will be grateful😊
Thanx😊😂
After separation dm tried to make friendship with me but I told dm that he is narcissistic and manipulative person without fearing that dm might leave and he said I heard enough and blocked me but actually I felt really good becoz I stood for my self respect
Okay. Such conflicts are normal. Are you able to get him out of your head or are you still thinking of him?
@@yinyanglove1111 getting thoughts of move on with someone else and also have hatred to dm in my case I fight with dm speak aggressively and dm listen silently
@@khushiprabhudessai9760 okay. Well if the fighting bothers you, know that nobody is responsible for how we feel. The outside and other people (including our DM) mirror our inner world. We are responsible for how we feel and for what we attract. Listen to your heart. If this is your DM, give it time and see how you feel and honour your feelings. In either case, focus on healing yourself and on balancing your emotions. God bless you.
@@yinyanglove1111 but why I feel like I have more masculine energy like I like gyming watching sports etc but my dm has more feminine energy like he likes watching anime video creative painting sketching etc even he speak softly don't argue with others etc but me aggressive with others why so ??
@@khushiprabhudessai9760 It's okay. Sometimes women can have dominant masculine energies and men can have dominant feminine energies- it's normal. Don't worry about it. It may take some time to know the dominant energy for you. Just heal your inner child wounds and balance yourself and your dominant energy will start to show in your life, gradually. I was in a masculine energy too, for majority of my life, but it was coming from an unhealed space. When I healed myself, I came into a more feminine energy (which was my dominant energy but unhealed and suppressed). If you feel your dominant energy is masculine, ask yourself some deep questions such as do you like to give or receive love, especially in close physical intimacy? This will clarify a lot. Similarly, are you the one who stumbled upon the term twin flames first? You say your DM acted in a narcissistic way, but are you more empathic and did you try harder to maintain the communication (that makes you a feminine energy). Just look at all this and surrender to the divine. In some time, you'll know your dominant energy. It has little to do with gender, so don't worry. Also, be patient with this discovery. It will come to you when you're ready. You could look at doing deeper shadow work also, along with answering these questions. Know that the journey unfolds in its own time, based on our readiness at different stages. So, be patient. 🙂
Becouse its a trauma bond between narcissist and empath.
Itna sach twin flames ko samajh ni aayega
Im a little confused , at around 08:10 you say that the masculine is balanced in the lower 3 chakras. Please clarify as I have heard you also say that this is a common misconception and that the feminine is in the lower 3 and a half chakras and the masculine in the upper 3 and a half.
Revised edit ( just to answer your question exactly)- any unawakened DM is always acting like how a feminine should be (hence in the lower chakras) and an unawakened DF is acting like a DM (too spiritual- in the upper chakras- but unable to manifest things in the physical). So an unawakened DM is very materially focused (not in a healed way) because he hasn't reached his true awakened self. This is perhaps how I would have used the term "balanced". Maybe I could have offered more clarity or used another term. Hope this helps. 💗 It is important to understand that balance at heart is key for both. Both worlds are reconciled for a TF (material and spiritual), but respective energies take lead in their core domains and bring the same energy to the other (so a feminine awakening in the lower, bringing the power of these to herself and to her DM and the opposite is also true). This way the world of the 3 D is also reconciled in a healed way (because it happens through a healed DF) and the world of spirituality is also enjoyed in the right way (because it is brought by the healed DM energy). The opposite energy is always anchoring the other. I want to explain this more- it has more to it that will clarify more- I will in another video on Patreon. U can also explore texts on Tantra, Shaktism and Shaivism if you wish to understand this more. 🌹
Asked for some clarity and then this. Thank you, so beautiful the way you speak. 🦋🙏🌺