Divested Black Woman Is TRAUMATIZED By Divesting For This Reason!
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- Divested Black Women Is TRAUMATIZED By Divesting For This Reason!
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The lengths BW will go through to be loved by WM.
It's sad🎯💯
people always talk about how much black men hate themselves for dating interracially but we hardly ever talk about black women who are dating interracially. they get some criticism but nowhere near the amount they should.
@@Achilles645 deadass
@@lavellelee5734 yeah and I'm so sick of when a black woman is talked about is always she feeling love bullshit. most black women who date outside of their race do it for the wrong reasons I really feel like society just never holds women accountable for almost anything they do.
@@Achilles645
Like ghetto gagger website
I really wish more Black women would see these Brads for what they really are. Them and their friends and families DESPISE blackness. And these divesters are no exception.
Why would white people despise blackness?
You are the one who despises whiteness
Most AA women see White American men for who they are. That is why more of them aren’t dating and marrying American White men. The divestors are in a tiny minority of AA women. If anything, it is more AA men that need to see White Americans for who they are. AA men date and marry out more than AA women and try to cozy up to White supremacy. Examples: Kanye West.
I am Black, but not AA. I do live in America and see what goes on in the AA community.
@@hiddenbeauty2828 Well, since you used a black celeb to try (and fail) to make your point, you're purposely being obtuse & biased by not mentioning the number of black female celebs (past & present) who went out of their way to date, marry, and/or procreate (or as you derisively put it, 'cozy up' with) white men: Tika Sumpter, Serena Williams, Jodie Turner-Smith, Azealia Banks, Eve, Chilli, Ketanji Brown-Jackson, Doja Kat (biracial but the world sees her as black), Lonnie Love, Kerry Washington, Halle Berry, Tamera Mowry, Kamala Harris, FKA Twigs, Kelis (all five the same as Doja Kat), Erika Alexander, Shar Jackson, K. Michelle, Naomi Campbell, Whoopi Goldberg, Iman, Diana Ross, Diahann Carroll, Tina Turner, Lena Horne, Angela Davis, LaToya Jackson, Maya Angelou...and the list goes on.
That being said, cut the bs that it's only black men going out of their way to date white people when it's an well-established fact that the only reason black women don't date out more is because men of other races, especially white men, don't find black women attractive (or in other words, your terrible reputation precedes you--Try fixing that before you come at black men).
@@PositiveBrothaHakeem u said bw aren't wanted then proceeded to have a long list of bw not married to bullet collecters (such as yourself.) Angrybm alert !!
I've seen bw online bully other bw that tell their horror stories about dating interracially. Smh that is crazy.
Protect white man image at all costs 😂
It is truly sad when black people don't know their own history, because when they don't this is what we produce.😔
Derrick, sad but true.
In other words, she repeatedly got her "N WAKE UP CALL" not because she's a BLACK WOMEN but because she's a BLACK PERSON. It's not about her GENDER, it's about her RACE.
Like the video of the White guy who dated a woman from every state ..not one Black woman did he pick. Black MEN realize they are Black everyday.. and move on/adapt to that reality.
Yeah I remember that made people mad
@@ChezCharde Made Black women mad*
Which was very pathetic to see.
@@kurokaizen1889 nah that shit was entertaining 😂😂 like every video they made was an additional self handed L to their little movement
Not sure why it's so hard for "divestors" to understand. Most WM simply aren't into BW like that. Funny thing is, if they were willing to put in the same amount of effort for a BM they'd get better results.
THEY do not believe that. Probably because those men will have sex with them.
Yes sir
The sad thing is she grew up in a white community into her fault. So she dated whats around her. The conversation is turned into one of divestment because of the misleading title and photo by the contend creator. Totally irresponsible.
@@ijumaainjabulo5983 chez is queen. I'm sure there were plenty of black men around
@@ijumaainjabulo5983they’re all one in the same due to the ideological beliefs that white is right. They’re all lost.
She just put herself in the victim position.
Deflecting and not taking accountability to self improve.
I’m not surprised by the black woman and the biracial man’s response. I knew all of this. I live in a predominantly white town and I don’t really want my children going to the predominantly white schools in town. I’ve seen how black kids come out of these institutions all of my life and I said to myself“no thank you. Not mine”. I’m trying to get my oldest in the magnet school program that has a mix of all races though. And I’m going to tell her that if she can hang out with the girls that share her skin color and be nice to the boys that share her skin color too.
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You have my moral support 👍🏿
Man's said "the devil Is a lie!!" 😂😂😂
I instead use the word defector over divestor. The dictionary has given the word divestor a somewhat positive twist. They are defectors
I'm black and in my 60's and being born in the Jim Crow Era and growing up in the Civil Rights Era. The "One Drop" rule was in full effect regardless of white parentage or recent white ancestry. Those of us who were light-skinned were never ever asked which one of your parents is white. In the greater scheme of things "Black is Black'. We could have members of our extended family as well in the larger community who were "light and darn near white". It was more a matter of aesthetics not never of identity. The young brother in the Tik-Tok video I would never think that one of his parents is white. To me he just a black man. Before "mixed marriages" were "a thing" It was always acknowledged that Blacks in the Western Hemisphere would range from blue steel black to Caucasian level of lightness even with the same family.
Nowadays light skinned black women are more problack than dark-skinned black women. Just something I've noticed. Majority of divestors are dark skinned. Same foe the radical black feminists.
Exactly, sir! 👊👊✊✊👏👏 Very well said.
Them days are over... LoL
"They" (New Gen) hate lighter skin black people as if we're the oppressors and colonizers. I noticed it a few years ago when I began being accused of having light skinned BM privilege. And if you're 50/50 mixed... Good Luck!!! They act like you've never experienced racial adversity and aren't really Black.
They don't want anyone encroaching on their victimhood.
Looking at that mixed-race brother, he looks as black as me whose two parents are black. It just goes to show that the black race has dominant genes whereas the white race's genes are recessive. It is no wonder they freak out when their sons and daughters date/marry a melanated person.
On dating apps BW often are begging for WM to like them. The irony of them mocking BM for loving overweight, bottom of the barrel WW, when they essentially do the same thing...scraps from the table.
Really they beg? notice they don't want non whites just white
How you know that they on dating app begging white men to like them
@@Allnews25 I've seen it, how else would I know?
Most bm in IRs can only date fat ww. 99% attractive ww won't have anything to do with them
On average when you walk out into the real world and see things for what they are. Black men are pulling better looking non black women than what black women are pulling non black men. They got the nerve to call becky megan trainer when basic Brad looks like a broke down, 1957 pick up truck.
Man, lol, I'm so glad I grew up in Detroit - the best and worst neighborhoods had black people, the cops and criminals were black people, the lettered professionals and the high school drop out minimum wage workers were black. It was all about which group your gravitated toward. I can't imagine having my neighbors yelling racist stuff at me.
This is why it’s so important to understand different cultures and that other races of men operate differently and white men have much different standards than black men especially when it comes to weight. If white men do date out they almost always go to Asian women. It’s normal and healthy to be attracted to people who look like you and who are similar to you
This is an excellent broadcast. This is why I tell Black Man that they should date women of African descent. African African-American Caribbean or Afro Latina. It makes it easier on the children.
Thank you and yes makes sense! A woman who comes from a strong culture definitely makes it easier on the child.
The biracial dude got picked on in the black community because that's how it was growing up black: we clowned on each other, especially as kids...it had nothing to do with him being biracial..now when wyte society gave him his "neega moment", that's when the "best of both worlds" narrative falls apart and hit different for him and thus the "confusion" set in..a lot of biracials want that non black society "acceptance" that never happens while tending to take digs at their black side, the side that's actually a lil more accepting..
Y’all gotta stop saying that 😂 yea in the black community ppl pick on ppl but somebody point out something about you and make it a theme. You confused your basically reaffirming how fucked it is. Your justification sucks do better I hate this pos perspective
They think there better than every other black person because of what they were entitled getting growing up and your not money doesn't buy common sense and a character of strength of who you truly really are
I was talking to a black girl and she’s a dark skin black girl. She’s really sweet but she seems to be in alot of white Christian circles and I know from my experience as a Christian white Christian men are looking for a white woman who’s a godly woman because they care a lot more than white secular men. It seems kind of silly how a lot of black women think getting with a black man who also has those great qualities a godly man has. I hate to be the bearer of bad news and I’m not against interracial dating but I do think it’s important to know what an Anglo Saxon white Christian guy is looking for
As you implied. Most of the time they’re not looking for black women. I know this too well personally.
I have a problem with her admitting and showing happiness to being rude towards blk men yet still getting a 2nd date. But expressing sadness whenever she talks about her experiences with white men not giving her a chance at all.
They love white seed 😎 once European 🧬 splashes the walls, that’s a wrap…forever altered
Something wrong with her then
What happens over the fence, stays over the fence…
Thank Chez for this video
I’m a black man physically fit 5’10 charismatic lots of friends etc I grew up in a white neighborhood but when to predominantly black/mixed schools when you’re in a school social bubble you may not feel it but once you’re out a school I’ll notice chicks of other races will be super into me my looks and personality but something held them back from actually being in a relationship as I got older I started to learn from some Hispanic women I dated that their parents tell them to not marry a black person now in my head I’m like ok maybe they want to keep the culture intact which is fine but this cuban girl goes I can’t even date black Cubans that’s when it clicked for me unfortunately black people are social economically at the bottom and when we do actually get some success we have to prove ourselves
The first black women wasnt even a divestor this is just propaganda
2:08 I wish she would stop abusing use of the word like.
The psychological programming via neuro linguistic programming within her environment. Same as through indoctrination, into learning English, and/or moving from place to place and keeping or losing an accent...
She's culturally whyte and that's how they talk...
@@busyrand epigenetic inheritance, she became her environment along with being a product of it.
Wish I hadn’t seen this comment beforehand. Her use of like is KILLING me
I definitely think it’s dangerous to act like race and identity don’t exist when it comes to dating. I definitely think people should date who they want but I do believe there should be more conversations before hand about what to expect if they choose to date out and live in the reality that we do live in a very racialized society where your social status is determined very much on race and identity
In both high school and college in Cali, we had a lot of similarly afflicted beings, both Dudes and Dudettes. It was simultaneously sad and interesting to watch them struggle trying to be included into these dominant culture social constructs as they were closed off to them.
I was an high school All American basketball player and the only black player on the team. I had the juice, so I would intercede on their behalf when sh*t got out hand. Becky'nem gave me a pass because of the fame, but I was rolling to the city to get at the Debra's and the Jackie's (Pre-Shaniqua era) 😂🤣
Divested but crying on the Internet abt what they perceive to be racism, but when in reality most people prefer their reflection and sure as hell won't pick the polar opposite to them. If you call being used as an afterthought without no marriage as progress that's on you. You made your bed now you gotta lie in it.
Damn all that racism from his white family and he still chose white.
Got damn. Easier on the black side.
I feel sorry for black people, especially the women who grew up in majority white communities or racist nations. I would encourage them to live in a black nation for a season. For example; so called biracials are treated well in Jamaica.
I’m Jamaican 🇯🇲 and lord the racism that so called uptown (light skin/mixed and the ASIANs especially) people are incredibly racist. It’s something else when it’s coming from another dark skin and bleached out “aka like”. They say the meanest and burning comments that stick with you for life. I moved to the states but visited and I tell you, I thought I was going back to my people, my family. I couldn’t wait to leave. 🤦🏾♀️
@@chanoy._v8758 Yup. Another Jamaican here. Those uptown people can be cruel.
I grew up the same way she did, im not traumatized...
Okay light-skinned black male two black parents grew up in a white middle-class neighborhood all of my friends growing up were white when I met a white girl that I thought was cute and wanted to talk to her my white friends told me you don't want to talk to her she's poor that's one story out of a million I could tell. Oh yeah there's racism!! I'm a supervisor at work I supervise white guys I deal with situations all the time. "Sounding white" black women reject me consistently while other women don't. My point, I guess, is stereotypes can be transcended. We must learn to talk with one another better.....
It seems you're proving a hidden situation about racial dynamics and racism in this country. Black women have become so much more advantaged, especially middle-class black women, they actually have the luxury to become racially unaware. But Chad will let you know real quick 😉
My Sister, you are right. And your analysis is insightful and spot-on.
I will make it a point to watch your channel.
I first went to London in 1998, and when I went to some Notting Hill Carnival events, it was the first time I saw *_SO MANY_* mulatto adult couples with children... I'm talking dozens, easily in merely a few hours. And this pseudo-shock was coming from someone that grew up in the tri-stare area, where my public middle school was ~1/3 white, ~1/3 black & ~1/3 puerto rican (yeah, i could say latino or hispanic, but they were mostly boriquas).
Multiracial dating in the U.K. is, and has been, vastly more accepted, for longer, than it's been in the U.S. Plus, as an American on a foreign land, many more see you as "exotic" being that you're a foreigner with a different accent, different experiences, and from a desirable/popular place (in many of their eyes). So of course her dating experiences were "better" in her eyes.
I'd like to offer another reason why the mixed brother was singled out in the black community.
I'm not mixed, but it's obvious that there was some tampering with my lineage, I experienced bullying because of jealousy, some falsely perceived notion that I thought I was better than them.
It wasn't always colorism, sometimes the person was as light as me, but, my eyes lighter and my hair is slightly less coiled.
I don't care what I go through, I will only date Afro decendant women. Can't jump the fence fully.
My opinion as a dark skin black man biracial men... we not racist. We are just jealous because he light skins😂😂😂 and don't have good hair or hazel eyes, you got to fight everyday
I went on 1 date with a chick that was "Sarcastic, "witty" , and rude". I dropped her off at the gas station.
divesters to me is the funniest thing, i just laught at their futile attempts,
since anyone who knows US society and culture can see it wont work for BW to divest.
You thinking it would work for BM is even more laughable. Have fun nesting in another man's creations
@6:10😂🤣White grandmother said why dont you date your own race? 😂🤣
She went to the UK....
I think she likes it.
#crymeariver I'm playing the world's smallest violin for her. #SYSBM #Passportbros #passportkings to all of the good men that are left in the west, I say it is time to cut our losses and leave it behind to burn.
It could simply be the Energy that she brought and emitted or how she presented herself. Black Men just get it no matter.
Actually his environment did that down south being mixed he would fair better well in Atlanta
Certain parts of CALI also its a lot mixed couples here
The way she talks wm know they gotta facial coming
The Becky assimilation is sad with these types of black women. Dark as night but attempting to speak like Becky even desiring white men
LOL, the biracial dude with the locks cannot culture shift. Unless he tells people he's mixed, he looks and sounds like a regular black guy. I think it's all in his head that he is somehow able to shift and be seen or heard as white. I grew up in Detroit, and most of the biracial people I knew were seen as black and identified as black, and some of the black people in the neighborhood were lighter than the biracial people. The biracial guy in this video has a lot of trauma, and I hope he has gotten some counseling.
Chez..oh chez..😏
People who don't know biblical history will remain lost until they study to show themselves approved by God as the scriptures say.
I didn't know Chaka Khan grew up in an all white neighborhood!!??🤔🤔😂😂🤣🤣
I'm sure she knows how to read all she had to do was pick up a history book!? B1
She’s NOT divested, she’s a black woman in the middle of people who don’t look like her. Divested women reject the idea of dating marrying or having anything to do with the black “kamoonitay “ as beloved by rappers, BLM rhetoric and low aspirations with all the social problems that entails.Divested women reject the whole notion of a black monolith that seems to be compulsory. It’s as simple as that, there’s no reason to even talk about Divestors, they aren’t Swirlers, they aren’t interested in anything to do with black spaces if it involves poverty, crime ridden areas or being victimised, they live their best lives away from drama and trauma. They are no threat to the black community because they’ve moved away from it voluntarily. We don’t deserve the hate, we weren’t born Divested, we simply didn’t find our goals in line with what was expected of us.
Racsim will be a lot harder on BW who try to divest. Because so much of racsim is about excluding and ridiculing based on appearance, appearance be so much more of a woman's identity and how she values herself.
BM can at the very least create value in their money or talents because less of their worth was in their appearance to begin with.
Don’t care BLK MEN SYSBM YOUR LIFESTYLE READ OUR 23 tenets it will help you NICE BREAK DOWN CHEZ 8:41
As for the biracial brotha...dude you're BLACK ⚫ You're black to everyone, and maybe you're not getting judged for your skin color, maybe it's the facial tattoos 🤔
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So she wasn't divested but you're claiming she was divested? Divestment isn't about 'hiding out in a community of white people', its about removing yourself from negative experiences that do not serve. living in any neighbourhood or community that makes you uncomfortable does not serve you. So why would you divest to it? I know that you want to please black men, i get it. But please....tell the truth. Being divested means you have not understanding of your culture?? what??? 🤣 - divested women understand culture, we know it very well. We just refuse to be beholden to it Or to uplift or perpetuate any part of it that is harmful to us or another black woman or girl.
I could live quite happily in a neighbourhood with nothing but divested women. It would actually be very peaceful and progressive.
Yet you spend all your time here in blackistan.
The funny thing is that BW are the teachers of culture. Its BW that are having babies out of wedlock in massive numbers by ALL ethnicities of men. What other non-Black men lifts BW up in public? But good luck in Divesting 🤦🏿♂️
If you lived in a neighborhood/community of divested BW it would be peaceful and you ALL would slowly perish away. They have done social experiments as well as made TV shows to the fact, Divestors lose 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
No offense but you’re just making up all these silly excuses. She’s just an average chic, even with all that makeup she looked average, maybe some of it has to do with her race but I know many girls that came from predominantly white neighborhoods that got a lot of attention from white guys. The difference is they were cute with or without makeup. Girls have to learn to know where they stand on the Beauty scale and act accordingly.
I do agree that a woman’s looks plays a large role in attention received. With that I think my previous points still stand. You can be a beautiful black women, but you’re still black and that will mean something in an all white area. No way to get around it.
I was looking for this comment. I grew up in a predominantly black city. That lady would not have been considered among the most attractive. But not having that frame of reference, it automatically falls to race.
@ChezCharde is right, even the pretty "biracial girl" will get that "reality check" from whitey. This explains why Mariah Carey; Halle Berry and also Latinas like Jennifer Lopez and Salma Hayek *used the Black-American community for a come up.*
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An they look down on black men an women
Are black people No more ?
I'm a non-black man. Honestly speaking, black women don't really register even as women to be on the attraction scale. Blonde Haired Blue Eyed White women are the most beautiful women in the world although Prime Jennifer Connelly and Prime Liv Tyler at about age 22 each were incredible despite not being blondes. I find attractive women in all races of women besides black women. White women are the only ones that can be 9/10 and 10/10 though. I think the absolute ceiling for looks for Asian, Latina, Middle Eastern, Indian, and Native American women is 8.8/10.
Hmm that's funny you name those satanic celebrities, because a lot of them are trans. I always questioned men who are into satanic photo edited satanic celebrities who don't look the same in person🤔
Yet you are watching a video about blackwomen and in your words "who don't register as even women to be on the attraction scale".
😂why you here? Cuz you’re kind stare in my face all day long in public and I mug to let them know I’m not interested
This is either an angry bm or a wm who's mad that the girl in the video doesn't support dating his kind
Don't be fooled. 99% bw dont find men of the lipless variety as an option. This is a well known fact
I don't care. She was used up and rejected by zaddy. Now she wants to come running back to us, I say to all the black men hold the line and don't give women like her a 1/4" of ground no mercy, and no prisoners. #SYSBM #Passportkings
You're beautiful
I'm confused🤔 All through out history, if one of your parents were Black, then you were Black. Hell, even if one of your Grandparents were Black, then you were Black🤔.
Megan Markle, Andrew Tate, Joy Taylor, Tracee Ellis Ross, Zendaya, J Cole, Lenny Kravitz and yes even Zoe Saldana is Black. That good Ole 1/8th drop of Blood😱 It does not matter wealth or class, YOU ARE BLACK!
Perhaps! If modern day Black American women as a group made positive changes to their image and reputation maybe ZADDY, could be more interested in the modern day Black American woman...
@tsmith8780 i do know
a troll like you, though!
The image and perception of the ABW continues to remain low as it can get at this point and if there is not an aggressive change made then these issues will continue
@@ChezCharde Here! Here! 👍👍👍👍
@T Smith I am from Minnesota...
They stooped to begging thats a new low
But do I care. No! Keep on keeping.
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