Alessia Cara - Out Of Love

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    (verse 1)
    I won’t tell you I’m lonely
    ‘cause it may be selfish
    I won’t ask you to hold me
    ‘cause that won’t mend what’s helpless
    (pre-chorus)
    there’s not a thing
    I could say
    not a song I could sing
    for your mind to change
    nothing can fill up the space
    won’t ask you to stay
    but let me ask you one thing
    (chorus)
    oh, oh, oh when did you fall out of love?
    out of love
    oh, oh, oh when did you fall out of love
    with me?
    (verse 2)
    I can’t float in an ocean
    that’s already been drained
    I won’t cry at your feet now
    I know my tears will fall in vain
    (pre-chorus) x2
    (bridge)
    no use wondering
    why your changing heart has wandered
    so I’ll ask you this question
    ‘cause it might help me sleep longer
    (chorus) x2
    out of love, out of love, out of love
    with me
    Music video by Alessia Cara performing Out Of Love. © 2019 Def Jam Recordings, a division of UMG Recordings, Inc.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 9 тис.

  • @isisocana
    @isisocana 5 років тому +8045

    Alessia, u heal and hurt my heart at the same time.

    • @lucadmuumomba2787
      @lucadmuumomba2787 5 років тому +13

      Bruce Wayne i laughed way to hard since this was the only comment on here😂

    • @balafamajamabo1083
      @balafamajamabo1083 5 років тому +6

      I agree with that cus she makes me feel same

    • @ghr8036
      @ghr8036 5 років тому +3

      Bruce Wayne no u

    • @kerlandepetit-homme8175
      @kerlandepetit-homme8175 5 років тому +4

      This song is not about her but about his friend’s break up

    • @martawafik6224
      @martawafik6224 5 років тому +2

      😭😭😭

  • @paulgrasso6539
    @paulgrasso6539 5 років тому +17886

    Alessia is so underrated. it’s sad. she deserves everything! What girl is like her in the music industry?

    • @paulgrasso6539
      @paulgrasso6539 5 років тому +444

      joynae ficklen billie and her a two very different artist.

    • @paulgrasso6539
      @paulgrasso6539 5 років тому +224

      joynae ficklen I agree you have an opinion, but billie and alessias vibe and music are very different. I also agree they would create a great song.

    • @areebahmalik2916
      @areebahmalik2916 5 років тому +90

      Paul Grasso This is not a girl but I think PRETTYMUCH is underrated. I think they would sound amazing together knowing the fact Billie Eilish is not underrated.

    • @Soljour0710
      @Soljour0710 5 років тому +24

      Paul Grasso Sabrina Claudia sad voice

    • @tonystarkswife3470
      @tonystarkswife3470 5 років тому +175

      @joynae ficklen Billie isn't even on the same level as Alessia. She may be more popular but Alessia has more talent

  • @hafsaxvi4027
    @hafsaxvi4027 5 років тому +2106

    Out of love is probably the best song of the year.
    And one of the best Heartbreak songs ever...

  • @FreePalestineInMyLifetime
    @FreePalestineInMyLifetime 3 роки тому +1802

    A year ago I was crying my eyes out to this song. One year later, it doesn't hurt anymore, but I'm not the same person anymore. Life... it goes on.

    • @hassnapapyb1365
      @hassnapapyb1365 3 роки тому +35

      Same I’m not the same person anymore I used to be happy and bubbly and full of life but something broke inside me and idk if I’ll ever be able to fix it I’m trying tho I’m trying to heal

    • @marziya6187
      @marziya6187 3 роки тому +22

      Pain changes you

    • @Oops-XD
      @Oops-XD 3 роки тому +10

      Time heals you and the memories will always be there even when u dont expect it to be it hurts yes when you love someone and they don't ❤️ u no more
      Life does go on and we live to be happy

    • @moonchild2548
      @moonchild2548 3 роки тому +9

      Great!! I have to wait a year now!

    • @mihaiesanu9945
      @mihaiesanu9945 3 роки тому +4

      My thoughts exactly, it doesn't even make me sad anymore...

  • @lorenareyesgarcia9224
    @lorenareyesgarcia9224 5 років тому +3917

    This is sad but at the same time beautiful. Alessia's music is so underrated...
    I wish I could meet her someday just to tell her how incredible she is💜

    • @lorenareyesgarcia9224
      @lorenareyesgarcia9224 5 років тому +12

      @@honestpenaldo if you're going to "give your opinion " then don't do it in my comment

    • @s4dguy648
      @s4dguy648 5 років тому

      me too 💜

    • @justine2476
      @justine2476 5 років тому +3

      i really feel the song
      even if i never been in a relationship..
      i wish i can meet her one day and tell her how her music
      inspires me

    • @kayleeblackmer9287
      @kayleeblackmer9287 5 років тому

      lorena Reyes Garcia she’s on your in ohio soon!!

    • @kayleeblackmer9287
      @kayleeblackmer9287 5 років тому

      tour*

  • @elyzalex2271
    @elyzalex2271 5 років тому +6908

    This song makes me want to cry about the breakup I never had

    • @UwU-pl3cq
      @UwU-pl3cq 5 років тому +1

      😑

    • @elyzalex2271
      @elyzalex2271 5 років тому +12

      Bruce Wayne awkward for you defs Asian

    • @zacariasfernandes2301
      @zacariasfernandes2301 5 років тому +8

      That's low-key sad 😔

    • @fluthyhehim66
      @fluthyhehim66 5 років тому +4

      Me, less so than you but I am very cautious and examine very carefully before I would pick a girlfriend (I do not have one yet and review on a very careful basis if I were to) but essentially by avoiding women that are man-eaters (or men that are woman-eaters) breakups would occur less

    • @elyzalex2271
      @elyzalex2271 5 років тому +22

      Okay this comment was defs just about the emotion that is conveyed in the song! guys im not just at home in a corner sobbing!! wow you guys really dont understand how sometimes art doesnt have to LITERALLY impact you. Its just a beautiful song man

  • @rissahontas
    @rissahontas 5 років тому +9079

    I won't tell you I'm lonely
    'Cause it might be selfish...I FELT THAT!🙁

  • @andreap_2103
    @andreap_2103 4 роки тому +3337

    The worst is when you saw that coming.
    But you were too blinded and in love that you wouldn't believe it could be happening.

    • @alexisdillard1271
      @alexisdillard1271 4 роки тому +32

      I agree so much with this. It hurts worse the more you know and talk about it.

    • @mitchellekiome3053
      @mitchellekiome3053 3 роки тому +9

      This really hit me

    • @imsofussy
      @imsofussy 3 роки тому +11

      This literally happened to me and I feel stupid for being so this dumb

    • @demi-ladyideas1239
      @demi-ladyideas1239 3 роки тому +4

      @@imsofussy You wasn't dumb, there is reason why you though it will be ok.

    • @imsofussy
      @imsofussy 3 роки тому +6

      @@demi-ladyideas1239 yes I am.. he showed signs that he is just losing feelings and I just ignore it.. I'm so just dumb

  • @SuperLibra02
    @SuperLibra02 5 років тому +9925

    This song will be on repeat, my boyfriend just broke up with me last night. He said “ you deserve better”, meaning he doesn’t want to be better for me.

    • @alice706
      @alice706 5 років тому +161

      😭😭😭😭

    • @SuperLibra02
      @SuperLibra02 5 років тому +101

      alice706 exactly.

    • @hanakacmarova5575
      @hanakacmarova5575 5 років тому +163

      it's gonna be okay... one day :)

    • @elliesteel4654
      @elliesteel4654 5 років тому +87

      hey, if it makes u feel any better same here. he didn't want me to make sacrifices for him all the time which goes both ways really doesn't it. but life is life and we got this :)

    • @SuperLibra02
      @SuperLibra02 5 років тому +34

      Hana Kacm. Same here. My friends and family tell me he was just stuck; and didn’t know how to move on from his past.

  • @cocomckoy4064
    @cocomckoy4064 5 років тому +4223

    This song makes me feel like im going through a heartbreak...although im not ;)

    • @lesh.9600
      @lesh.9600 5 років тому +9

      Ssme

    • @preedy_toni1255
      @preedy_toni1255 5 років тому +10

      Same 😭😭😭

    • @chad161
      @chad161 5 років тому +30

      I cant go through a heartbreak cause im single and i dont have friends ✌

    • @alyzavelasco4786
      @alyzavelasco4786 5 років тому +24

      coco mac i’m not going thru a heartbreak but the person i love is breaking my heart without meaning to.

    • @cocomckoy4064
      @cocomckoy4064 5 років тому +5

      @@alyzavelasco4786 your heartbroken then. Over time you'll get over the person if the person is no good. Wish you well dear :)

  • @Silvia-fs3qp
    @Silvia-fs3qp 5 років тому +810

    When she sang it at Shawn's concert I WAS LITERALLY DYING....when I came home at 3 am I couldn't stop listening to it and now I'm obsessed ahah

  • @asmaezanbouaa2101
    @asmaezanbouaa2101 3 роки тому +2087

    This song hits different when u feel like u are the person who's falling out of love... The guilt...

    • @cierramathers4018
      @cierramathers4018 3 роки тому +61

      Felt this

    • @sharissasterling3720
      @sharissasterling3720 3 роки тому +21

      Same

    • @hibarizvi9171
      @hibarizvi9171 3 роки тому +21

      exactly.. in our heads when they play it for us..

    • @elizaturner4726
      @elizaturner4726 3 роки тому +41

      Thats true, im in a long distance relationship and relationships for me are more about being there in person for each other and I fell in love with her after 2 years of just dating and hanging out having fun but then she had to move so we became long distance and I started to feel like we were moving apart and I was still in love with her but ut was like my love was slowly dying out and I tried my best to keep it lit and alive so I covered it with my body to keep it from going out because I would feel guilty for falling out of love with her but I also loved her so much i didnt wanna lose the love we had for each other and now im not so sure why I even try or why im doing this she barley talks to me anymore shes always with her friend smoking and drinking and she isnt the age for that yet and I wanna talk her out of it but I cant cause now her parents took away her phone because she tried to hurt herself and she didnt say why and I kinda feel like its my fault

    • @editname9952
      @editname9952 3 роки тому +5

      @@elizaturner4726 trust me it’s not everybody goes through their things even if you don’t know it

  • @stefaniacorreagomez8689
    @stefaniacorreagomez8689 5 років тому +2007

    Only a heartbroken person listens to this at 2:00 am.
    I'm crying.

    • @adanmartinez4552
      @adanmartinez4552 5 років тому +12

      Stefania Correa Gomez I’m sorry someone broke your heart, I don’t know what advice to give but.. me too I listen at night and cry. It’s a little, just a little comforting that you’re not alone in feeling that way.

    • @stefaniacorreagomez8689
      @stefaniacorreagomez8689 5 років тому +10

      @@adanmartinez4552 never expected someone to answer my comment, but Thank U... I know we'll feel too much better soon... now I am better than the day I made that comment, so I hope you never feel you're alone, you are not.

    • @fabiennelammers6317
      @fabiennelammers6317 5 років тому +12

      My girlfriend is telling me she needs “space” and she doesn’t compliment me or gives me attention and just hangs out with her friends all day to avoid me. It’s really painful to slowly see her lose interest in me. and it’s extra hard because we are also long distance so I can’t have that physical touch, I’m just hurting so much. I can’t eat sleep or do anything really. And she seems tired, but okay.

    • @crystalchilande9469
      @crystalchilande9469 4 роки тому +1

      @@fabiennelammers6317 am sorry about whats happening or happened but I hope that everything works out for you for the better

    • @zakiahart3919
      @zakiahart3919 4 роки тому

      ❤️😭

  • @aaliyafarah6685
    @aaliyafarah6685 5 років тому +1884

    She's underrated. That's all I can say.
    Her voice is Angelic!!❤
    Edit: thanks for all the likes 😊

  • @Kayshabreanne
    @Kayshabreanne 5 років тому +11263

    It hurts feeling someone falling out of love with you when your still falling in love with them ...

    • @travis_redfern6771
      @travis_redfern6771 5 років тому +180

      lola Harris She actually once asked me if I’d ever stop loving her, and I only have been more in love since meeting her. I never thought it would be her to fall out of love instead 😞

    • @b2k_chad738
      @b2k_chad738 5 років тому +67

      This is what happened to me and how I came across this song tho I know it's best this way it still hurts like hell seeing her with the new guy everyday because she lives down the street

    • @laurawolfsong3607
      @laurawolfsong3607 4 роки тому +23

      Yeah it really does...

    • @laili7801
      @laili7801 4 роки тому +19

      Why did u do me like🥺

    • @sashahaddad337
      @sashahaddad337 4 роки тому +15

      Yeah it hurts 🥺😭😞

  • @karendarc3270
    @karendarc3270 4 роки тому +914

    Hi, about a year ago, I was listening to this song, crying all the tears of my body. I still remember the lyrics haha..
    In short, I was very, very very sad at that time. But today I'm better. Listening to this song again makes me want to cry knowing how much I have suffered.
    It'll pass for you too, I promise you. Just hold on, hang on, cry, get it all out, and when you're done, get up. And if you fall back, get up again.
    This was my little message for YOU..
    God bless you and comfort you. I love you💕

    • @bisiwayne3984
      @bisiwayne3984 4 роки тому +6

      Thank you some much

    • @celia2197
      @celia2197 4 роки тому +4

      Thank you sm 🥺💕

    • @karendarc3270
      @karendarc3270 4 роки тому +5

      If you guys need to talk about it, you can contact me.
      Confiding will help you a lot and it is even easier when you do it with a stranger. I wish I had someone to talk to at that time ..
      Don't think the reason for your sadness isn't important because if it makes you sad, it is important.
      Instagram: _karen_darc
      Mail: razafimbeloalain@gmail.com
      Love you and waiting for you 💗
      Karen

    • @cathyj2827
      @cathyj2827 4 роки тому +3

      nothing makes me happier than people finding their happiness again. I'm really glad you got it back :)

    • @karendarc3270
      @karendarc3270 4 роки тому

      @@cathyj2827 thank you 🥰

  • @rameelastar1140
    @rameelastar1140 5 років тому +231

    Growing Pains was so relatable and the lyrics are so beautiful and I wrote them on my closet because they resonate with me so much!

    • @fluthyhehim66
      @fluthyhehim66 5 років тому +1

      I've never heard of someone writing lyrics on their closet you're the first

  • @EricChamplin
    @EricChamplin 5 років тому +417

    These lyrics hit home SO hard. Beautiful song!

    • @ambercolvin7818
      @ambercolvin7818 5 років тому

      They absolutely hit very hard and are hitting me right now terribly..we all go through heartaches on a daily basis😢💔

  • @NotJoegoldberg
    @NotJoegoldberg 5 років тому +146

    one of the most underrated artists!

    • @cantasyoutuber
      @cantasyoutuber 5 років тому +1

      How is she underrated tho 😂. She is pretty mainstream.

    • @NotJoegoldberg
      @NotJoegoldberg 5 років тому +1

      @@cantasyoutuber not really, she kinda is, but she deserves much more...

    • @NotJoegoldberg
      @NotJoegoldberg 5 років тому

      @@josie6387 ikr

    • @vikramgandham2530
      @vikramgandham2530 5 років тому +1

      So true

    • @marials9245
      @marials9245 5 років тому +1

      How is she underrated? She won a Grammy, she has more than 15 million listenings per month on Spotify (U2 has arround 12 million, just to compare) and now she is on Tour all around the world with Shawn Mendes. I think she is doing pretty amazingly.....

  • @loredanabicchieri
    @loredanabicchieri 10 місяців тому +5

    This song is so intense. Make me feel sad and also alive due the purity of feelings expressed. It's simply a masterpiece of love songs. ❤

  • @gaspermarincek4865
    @gaspermarincek4865 5 років тому +167

    Falling out of love is sad. Especially when you fail to love yourself. Peace to you, my friend. You are loved.

  • @thesammyshow26
    @thesammyshow26 5 років тому +597

    Alessia is still one of the most underrated artists!

    • @adellelunga4536
      @adellelunga4536 5 років тому +1

      Exactly like how can you not love her music

    • @alyssascrazee
      @alyssascrazee 5 років тому +4

      The Sammy Show Same with Jess Glynne.

    • @peters10456170
      @peters10456170 5 років тому +1

      Umm she's not underrated at all.. She made alot of big moves in the past few years and shes further along in her career then alot whose been doing it longer...

    • @kingzeus9532
      @kingzeus9532 5 років тому

      True

    • @zachlitzen979
      @zachlitzen979 5 років тому +6

      She even won a Grammy! She’s definitely not underrated! I think her last album was different and felt closer to her heart. Perhaps not as mainstream as before, but that’s why I loved it ❤️

  • @fireprooflou5933
    @fireprooflou5933 5 років тому +3553

    everyone comes from After but i came for Alessia

    • @HikerTheBoss
      @HikerTheBoss 5 років тому +27

      After?

    • @honestpenaldo
      @honestpenaldo 5 років тому +2

      iasmuffin Edits Lol you have no life then

    • @personyay4397
      @personyay4397 5 років тому +11

      mhmm don’t take it seriously it was obviously a joke

    • @fireprooflou5933
      @fireprooflou5933 5 років тому +26

      @@honestpenaldo lol i do have a life, i just don't like books about toxic relationships xd

    • @ale-kh4pm
      @ale-kh4pm 5 років тому +14

      Same found the song first:)♡

  • @0maeWaMou
    @0maeWaMou 4 роки тому +121

    "So i ask you this question cuz it might help me sleep longer" one of the saddest and most relatable lines

  • @ryma5495
    @ryma5495 5 років тому +276

    This song has one problem, it ends 😢❤ 0:00

  • @nikoletakoljanin4360
    @nikoletakoljanin4360 5 років тому +518

    Alessia will break the curse of the best new artist grammy award

    • @eiffel108
      @eiffel108 5 років тому +26

      Moj Glupi Kanal But shes still flopping I think she’s releasing songs way too much..idk why she’s so underrated

    • @valentina_a24
      @valentina_a24 5 років тому +19

      I thought that curse was fake when I first heard of it but so far ever artist to win it has begun to flop

    • @GeeaRCee
      @GeeaRCee 5 років тому +1

      What curse?

    • @anee
      @anee 5 років тому +25

      Swiftie all the way what do you mean releasing songs way too much? She released an album last year and this song is from that album it’s not new

    • @ishan2219
      @ishan2219 5 років тому +7

      @@GeeaRCee Every artist wgo has won the Best New Artist Grammy award has flopped and not able to get much further in their music carrier

  • @eufalkao
    @eufalkao 5 років тому +175

    The thing is there isn't a song that I don't like by Alessia Cara. There is not a bad song. I love you, girl!

    • @4246-l4x
      @4246-l4x 5 років тому

      Lol i see u everywhere lately

  • @subject2241
    @subject2241 4 роки тому +156

    I feel like Alessia Cara is one of the most underated artists .

  • @keyirrahscott5063
    @keyirrahscott5063 5 років тому +220

    This is why I love music. It's universal and everyone feels the emotions they bring up. It's humanizing.

  • @AARON061997
    @AARON061997 5 років тому +252

    [Verse 1]
    I won't tell you I'm lonely
    'Cause it may be selfish
    I won't ask you to hold me
    'Cause that won't mend what's helpless
    [Pre-Chorus]
    There's not a thing I could say
    Not a song I could sing for your mind to change
    Nothing can fill up the space
    Won't ask you to stay
    But let me ask you one thing
    [Chorus 1]
    Oh, when did you fall out of love, out of love?
    Oh, when did you fall out of love with me?
    [Verse 2]
    I can't float in an ocean
    That's already been drained
    I won't cry at your feet now
    I know my tears will fall in vain
    [Pre-Chorus]
    There's not a thing I could say
    Not a song I could sing for your mind to change
    Nothing can fill up the space
    Won't ask you to stay
    But let me ask you one thing
    [Chorus 1]
    Oh, when did you fall out of love, out of love?
    Oh, when did you fall out of love with me?
    [Bridge]
    No use wondering
    Why your change in heart has wandered
    So I'll ask you this question
    'Cause it might help me sleep longer
    [Chorus 2]
    Oh, when did you fall out of love, out of love?
    Oh, when did you run out of love for me?
    [Outro]
    Out of love (Out of love)
    Out of love (Out of love)
    Out of love with me

  • @itsdvni
    @itsdvni 5 років тому +264

    I’ve sat through this song and cried for hours, it’s beautiful.. it made me feel like I’m not worthless, I love you girl, keep doing your thing

    • @itsdvni
      @itsdvni 5 років тому +2

      @Bruce Wayne yes I am 😎

    • @12akul
      @12akul 5 років тому

      @Bruce Wayne It's better not to speak if you don't have anything good to say so stfu

  • @jimmiejohnson8251
    @jimmiejohnson8251 2 місяці тому +2

    Yet a another example of a artist who needs her flowers!! Beautiful music and not a single raunchy thing in her whole vibe

  • @baumchen1228
    @baumchen1228 5 років тому +90

    makes me feel like autumn.. leaves falling, just like the person's falling out of love. it's sad, but a good sad, melancholic.

  • @autumn3563
    @autumn3563 5 років тому +2575

    I heard this song while I was watching the movie “After” and said, “OH MY GOD THAT’S ALESSIA”

  • @alexisalexis8247
    @alexisalexis8247 5 років тому +331

    " I can't float in an ocean, that's already been drained " I felt that

    • @naomiungureanu898
      @naomiungureanu898 5 років тому +1

      Mummy's Princess omg same

    • @lalisaishappyness
      @lalisaishappyness 3 роки тому +1

      What does it mean? If you don't mind to explain.
      I'm not an English speaker and still learning.

    • @ilenewebb
      @ilenewebb 3 роки тому +2

      @@lalisaishappyness it’s whatever you feel like it is ! but i would say the overall grasp would be: she can’t be in a relationship where the person already checked out or she can’t be in love with the person if they don’t love you back

  • @bailleycaviness6650
    @bailleycaviness6650 4 роки тому +235

    I remember 2 years ago, listening to this song on repeat literally blubbering. I was so broken for such a long time, I couldn't listen to this without losing it. Now I listen, and look back and am able to smile about the fact that I DID get through it. Keep your head up, yes it hurts now.. might be the worst pain you have ever felt, but I promise you. Time does heal.

    • @mikem13988
      @mikem13988 2 роки тому

      Same! Well said.

    • @its_anarrah
      @its_anarrah 2 роки тому +4

      Reading this while the comment is a year old, but I hope it only shows you how much you've grown and how much better you are off now ❤️ we sometimes have to go through very grueling and hard growing pains to get to a better place we can claim now, I hope you are as well doing better and are a wiser person despite the pain someone put you through.. ❤️❤️

  • @annas3495
    @annas3495 5 років тому +353

    I heard it on the Shawn Mendes Tour and I absolutely love it

  • @knight8513
    @knight8513 5 років тому +455

    I just got to know that Alessia wrote this song for her friend who had a breakup and due to this song they got back together that made my day! ❤️

    • @akuatiokor6392
      @akuatiokor6392 5 років тому +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @zjqxa
      @zjqxa 5 років тому +6

      Aww..really? That's so sweet😭

  • @angelinareyes402
    @angelinareyes402 5 років тому +238

    I won't tell you I'm lonely
    'Cause it might be selfish
    I won't ask you to hold me
    'Cause that won't mend what's helpless
    There's not a thing I could say
    Not a song I could sing
    For your mind to change
    Nothing can fill up the space
    Won't ask you to stay
    But let me ask you one thing
    Oh
    When did you fall out of love?
    Out of love?
    Oh, when did you fall out of love with me
    I can't float in an ocean
    That's already been drained
    I won't cry at your feet now
    I know my tears will fall in vein
    There's not a thing I could say
    Not a song I could sing
    For your mind to change
    Nothing can fill up the space
    Won't ask you to stay
    But let me ask you one thing
    Oh, when did you fall out of love?
    Out of love?
    Oh, when did you fall out of love with me?
    No use
    Wondering
    Why your change in heart has wondered
    So I ask you this question
    'Cause it might help me sleep longer
    Oh, when did you fall out of love?
    Out of love?
    Oh, when did you run out of love for me?
    Out of love? (Out of love)
    Out of love? (Out of love)
    Out of love with me?

  • @HolleeChantelle
    @HolleeChantelle 4 роки тому +83

    To anyone reading this, you can get through this, I know it hurts so so bad and it feels like the air has been knocked out of your lungs, I’m one of the many heartbroken here too, but stay strong. Without rain there would be no flowers 🌸

    • @normaatkinson2533
      @normaatkinson2533 11 місяців тому

      Beautiful , so true !

    • @normaatkinson2533
      @normaatkinson2533 11 місяців тому

      I've been married a lonnnggg time; nearly 45 yes. Knowing that I have felt "alone" for such along time ! Strange to admit it on hear. Love hasn't gone away for either of us, but it's damn hard when that someone is not automatically affectionate! Lust + love can be very confusing; but it was all genuine + still is... But I need love and affection in between the lust and I am ancient !! How did it get to this point😢 Why do I have to keep going over and over.. because the experts say talk to your husband when / if you have a problem. I said this to him and he doesn't quite want to get it.. denial I think, but he knows he's hurting me and he can't get it right and there is no one else involved ! Men; please make sure you give affection and some sort of emotional connection outside of the bed. It's so bloody important and I'm screaming inside. We are not just here for the lust, not long term you know; it has to be both surely. Don't we all want to feel that affection... It is true in this case, that action speaks louder than words. I'm sorry for my honesty and I hope I haven't met anybody feel yuck cuz I'm ancient . Reality is I'm still young in my head and my heart... I need love. To feel loved. Always "coping and hoping" 😢😢 Good luck to everybody.... Just don't marry at 20 ! 🤦‍♀️🙆🤣🤣

  • @97uhernaez
    @97uhernaez 5 років тому +32

    Alessia’s every song is so undervalued and world don’t see the BIG and amazing talent that Alessia has. Another masterpiece of video, Ale. So proud of you🖤

  • @drithichandru324
    @drithichandru324 5 років тому +5218

    2017: all you have to do is stay a minute
    2019: I wont ask you to stay

  • @twaambo5031
    @twaambo5031 5 років тому +258

    😭😭😭😭😭...this was beautiful...
    she's like the realest artist,her music is different, i don't know how ...she's still my favourite ❤

  • @siennawilson5295
    @siennawilson5295 4 місяці тому +6

    Listening to this as a healed person when it used to be playing as you were breaking, is a different celebration

  • @MrsSalVia-u2s
    @MrsSalVia-u2s 5 років тому +1940

    Respect? Why? Because
    #Alessia wrote this song all BY herself
    ¤It sounds great FIGHT ME
    ¤it so deep. Like DEEEEEP deeeeeeep

    • @cadicha
      @cadicha 5 років тому +14

      It means she is real and I believe she will get there❤❤

    • @MrsSalVia-u2s
      @MrsSalVia-u2s 5 років тому +1

      @kassie i cantttt

    • @ronilevin6262
      @ronilevin6262 5 років тому +5

      LOOK I JUST she’s so talented

    • @imspongebob4145
      @imspongebob4145 5 років тому +3

      Hmmm true.. shes amazing

    • @soaglae8306
      @soaglae8306 5 років тому +3

      She wrote this song for a friend that was living a breakup

  • @vikenaa
    @vikenaa 5 років тому +686

    Am I the only one that wanna cry as soon as I hear the first note of any of her songs?

  • @himanimishra4330
    @himanimishra4330 5 років тому +179

    Such a *powerful* song by a powerful Human..
    Can you feel the goosebumps.. Can you see tears in my eyes..😭
    Thank you for pouring your heart out in this song.. 💕😭
    So much love for you Alessia💕
    Edit: I am still here.. Listening to this melody.. IDK how but the video somehow made the song more beautiful than it was before.. 💕

  • @estrellita2222
    @estrellita2222 3 роки тому +156

    This song hit different when you’re heartbroken and depressed 😣

  • @monasharma641
    @monasharma641 5 років тому +92

    *I just wanna say that Alessia is beautiful inside out* 🙂

    • @birdfriday
      @birdfriday 5 років тому +1

      Supa Katy this is true. I’m the weird looking blonde in the video and she came out and hung out in my car while we were chilling and napping, she’s the nicest artist I’ve ever worked with.

  • @WendyRThibeault
    @WendyRThibeault 5 років тому +196

    I had very high expectations for this music video because the song is so beautiful, BUT WOW I DID NOT EXPECT THIS 😭❤️

  • @michaelarnold13
    @michaelarnold13 5 років тому +357

    a good song to discover when your heartbroken,fitting lyrics :(

  • @odaiyasivakumar2627
    @odaiyasivakumar2627 4 роки тому +48

    It hurts when you feel the person that used to love you, falling out of love but you just still falling head over heels for them know that they falling out of love but you're hoping that their love for you is coming back cause you know that they are your one true love

    • @terefloresca8909
      @terefloresca8909 3 роки тому +4

      I know the feeling lol but never beg someone to stay if they going to leave .

    • @normaatkinson2533
      @normaatkinson2533 11 місяців тому +1

      As hard as it is; you deserve to be loved better and harder and longer then this person wants to give. I know it's agony; but you do deserve better !! I'm in a marriage of 45 years but it isn't all lost or broken completely... But I don't feel the love ; I don't get the love + affection that I need !! We've talked for hours and he says it's all there still; but he's never been comfortable showing it... not easily, or automatically. There was/ is no one else involved for either of us. The bed is not cold if you got me, but lust / love can get confused. If you're not getting the affection and the emotional connection.. Don't pine for something that he can't give ! Seriously I have let this go on since I was 20 and I'm 65 nearly. It's crazy !! I don't want to feel alone in this marriage 🥺 Always hoping + coping + vice versa. Please don't make my mistake.

  • @Sofia-ev6mz
    @Sofia-ev6mz 5 років тому +163

    Wow I love this video and in general this song! I really think Alessia is so underrated.. She is so talented and she has something really interesting and special! Her voice is so unique. Just WOW!

  • @pal4566
    @pal4566 5 років тому +572

    See...that's why I avoid playing this song!!!
    So I don't have to lay curled in a corner and cry for the rest of the day.

    • @mithusadukha3133
      @mithusadukha3133 5 років тому

      Precisely

    • @alexandragabriela7179
      @alexandragabriela7179 5 років тому

      Same here

    • @prarthana8464
      @prarthana8464 5 років тому +1

      Even I was debating that whether I should listen to this song now or later XD

    • @mjayz_jay
      @mjayz_jay 5 років тому

      Im literally doin this shit rn. LOLS #sadsadme😭😭😭

    • @melou_
      @melou_ 5 років тому +3

      same. I am in a relationship and I have this fear that it might be happen like Alessia is singing and I'll remember this song and will playing it for the rest of my life crying in the bed.

  • @naknakily
    @naknakily 5 років тому +37

    Three years ago, my ex boyfriend broke up with me and i remember crying every night . I heard this song at your show in Paris with Shawn Mendes and it reminded me of him so i cried, not in a sad way but in a happy, relieved way... Thank you Alessia For this beautiful song, thank for being so real

  • @nanugaqderamo
    @nanugaqderamo 3 роки тому +9

    This song makes me want to jump through the screen, give her a huge hug and remind her about all the other fishies in the sea who currently KNOW she is bomb and deserves mad love.

  • @megandesmond6715
    @megandesmond6715 5 років тому +129

    This is such a good song I'm crying and it gave me goosebumps.

  • @laticiamajor679
    @laticiamajor679 5 років тому +1044

    It hurts more when he was never in love with you in the first place😢😟

    • @ReeceShepherd
      @ReeceShepherd 5 років тому +7

      Laticia Major I felt that even though it’s 2 months later haha

    • @laticiamajor679
      @laticiamajor679 5 років тому +9

      Reece Shepherd same for me and I miss him so but I have to settle for being friends with him even tho it hurts

    • @evoly9765
      @evoly9765 5 років тому +14

      Na it hurts more if u had him for years. Trust me . After i thought she was the one. I cant let go since 2 years now ^^ cuz u have more and lost it.. better than if it had never been more

    • @lyfewithfena843
      @lyfewithfena843 5 років тому

      😪

    • @mysterybruises3359
      @mysterybruises3359 5 років тому

      Laticia Major oh god. So true

  • @lauracorbett4577
    @lauracorbett4577 5 років тому +55

    Sis you have such talent for writing great songs and albums. I love you Alessia and I can't wait to see you in August. I love this song

  • @moonbeam___819
    @moonbeam___819 4 місяці тому +9

    its been 5 years?? time really flies huh

  • @navyros4102
    @navyros4102 4 роки тому +370

    The hurting when they fall out of love with you while you still deeply in love with them.

    • @scm98
      @scm98 4 роки тому +6

      My ex broke up with me and not even a week later they were already dating someone else

    • @anethsoto2845
      @anethsoto2845 4 роки тому +1

      yes

  • @ShaniaLatiara
    @ShaniaLatiara 5 років тому +66

    They fell out of love... But our love continues growing for you.QUEEN#teamalessiacara ✊

  • @vickyt9448
    @vickyt9448 5 років тому +4472

    I can’t be the only who thinks Billie eilish and she should do a song together that would be the best song ever!!!
    I have been a fan of both of them since the beginning and I feel they can compliment each other’s vocals it’s an opinion
    Thx for the likes!!!

    • @MrDarren690
      @MrDarren690 5 років тому +101

      NO. Billie Eilish is edgy, step-on-the-train-tracks pop that attacks like a jab. Alessia Cara is melodious, highly emotional, and story-like in her singing. Both are good, sure, BUT COMPLETELY INCOMPATIBLE. Please do not EVER say stuff like this again! Thank you.

    • @sophie-zf5zv
      @sophie-zf5zv 5 років тому +85

      Darren Ung please , you have to listen to some of billie’s older songs. They are compatible.

    • @asiyahsaint
      @asiyahsaint 5 років тому +5

      Secret Keeper fr❤️

    • @abc-dx6gi
      @abc-dx6gi 5 років тому +23

      bitch wtf no

    • @maya_chx
      @maya_chx 5 років тому +37

      i would absolutely 100% lose my shit then cry for 44 hours

  • @danielagarcia1392
    @danielagarcia1392 4 роки тому +43

    This was my song during a time in which I was dealing with a breakup. I would listen to it many times and I would break out in tears each time, but it made me feel peace because Alessia's voice is so soothing

  • @teatree2337
    @teatree2337 5 років тому +313

    Ik this was for a movie but this honestly made me think of the planet. Kind of like this is Earth talking to all of us

  • @shreya9968
    @shreya9968 5 років тому +259

    God this will make us cry in the AFTER movie.

    • @onikazcrown7454
      @onikazcrown7454 5 років тому +5

      Shreya Kunwar wait it's in it??

    • @katierivera358
      @katierivera358 5 років тому +7

      Omg it’s going to be in the movie ?

    • @amaliota8855
      @amaliota8855 5 років тому +3

      @@katierivera358 Yes it's called After

    • @katierivera358
      @katierivera358 5 років тому +1

      amalia rodrigo I know

    • @sapphiz
      @sapphiz 5 років тому +22

      hell no I don’t cry over toxic relationship KSKSK oop

  • @angiek9795
    @angiek9795 5 років тому +193

    the timing of this song is just so real

  • @しょうた-r2b
    @しょうた-r2b 2 роки тому +11

    ある方が聞いてたため聴きに来ましたが綺麗な声で感動しました。数年前の曲ですがこの曲に出会えて良かったです😭

  • @hafsaxvi4027
    @hafsaxvi4027 5 років тому +93

    This song is like the 'Someone like you' of 2019
    The piano,slow music and both the songs can shatter you heart ...

  • @leo-db5uj
    @leo-db5uj 5 років тому +745

    This song deserves way more than just being a video in tik tok

    • @shaytoocute8714
      @shaytoocute8714 5 років тому +9

      I love this song so much because it has healed many broken heart tumbs up to you girl

  • @allysandrailagan327
    @allysandrailagan327 5 років тому +318

    My ex left me exactly a year ago today. But this song helped me to heal slowly. Thank you Alessia ♥️

    • @angusrhodes9003
      @angusrhodes9003 5 років тому +12

      Keep strong mate, im suffering from an absolutely destroyed heart from a breakup. Life feels like it sucks but it doesnt i promise. Stay strong and keep it together my Friend i pray for you.

    • @fopifopfopifop3540
      @fopifopfopifop3540 5 років тому +6

      Allysandra Ilagan he left for a reason. Now it’s time to love yourself more than you love someone else

    • @pjeantalks
      @pjeantalks 5 років тому +6

      Allysandra Ilagan I’m still suffering from a breakup at the moment but I’m gonna tell you everything will be okay!

    • @Itsacamlife
      @Itsacamlife 5 років тому +1

      I’m sorry I feel u! I’m in the same boat but it’s so harder when I shared a child with my ex’s but I hope u and me and all the other broken hearts will heal soon

  • @myrasabbs5991
    @myrasabbs5991 3 роки тому +30

    I ❤️ this young lady. She sings with wisdom. I know that her elders have given her some words to live by. Stay strong Baby girl in this crazy world!

  • @sss-td3wo
    @sss-td3wo 5 років тому +117

    This song has this unexplainable beauty to it and I love that

  • @sophiexox9668
    @sophiexox9668 5 років тому +237

    alessia : WHEN DID YOU FALL OUT OF LOVE??
    Us: who's cutting onions😪

  • @carolineburkett7858
    @carolineburkett7858 4 роки тому +195

    It’s a different kind of pain when you start to see this song as losing your best friend

    • @yulissaherrera8990
      @yulissaherrera8990 3 роки тому +2

      Caroline Burkett katy perry love l me new York Yuilssa herrera love boys book yes cermmce e. 238 wills point tx Texas home 🏡

    • @millie-oliveiras
      @millie-oliveiras Рік тому +1

      man…yeah.

  • @TheKerrylou
    @TheKerrylou 5 років тому +1859

    Lyrics
    I won’t tell you I’m lonely
    Cause it maybe selfish
    I won’t ask you to hold me
    Cause that won’t mend what’s helpless
    There’s not a thing I could say
    Not a song I could sing for your mind to change
    Nothing can fill up this space
    Won’t ask you to stay
    But let me ask you one thing...
    Oh oh oh
    When did you fall outta love outta love
    Oh oh oh
    When did you fall outta love with me
    I can’t float in a ocean
    Thats already been drained
    I won’t cry at your feet now
    And all my tears will fall in vain
    There’s not a thing I could say
    Not a song I could sing for your mind to change
    Nothing can fill up the space won’t ask you to stay
    But let me ask you one thing...
    Oh oh oh
    When did you fall outta love
    Outta love
    Oh oh oh
    When did you fall outta love with me
    No use wondering why your changing heart has wondered
    So I’ll ask you this question cause it might help me sleep longer
    Oh oh oh
    When did you fall outta love
    Outta love
    Oh oh oh
    When did run outta love for me
    Outta love ( outta love)
    Outta love ( outta love)
    Outta love ( outta love )
    With me ......
    Hope you enjoy . Have a great day♥️
    Edit: thank you for all the likes guys! I know the lyrics are in the description but I got bored so here ya go😂😖👑

    • @chrismetcalfe8812
      @chrismetcalfe8812 5 років тому +62

      Am I the only one who loves when people do this ? I love singing along with the music but dont know the words

    • @TheKerrylou
      @TheKerrylou 5 років тому +2

      salt grain for lufe awww😂

    • @chrismetcalfe8812
      @chrismetcalfe8812 5 років тому +4

      Scarlet lee I really enjoy when people do it

    • @zweefeef
      @zweefeef 5 років тому +1

      Scarlet Lee Thankyou sis, hope you have a great day too! ❤️

    • @TheKerrylou
      @TheKerrylou 5 років тому +1

      Evy Awh ty😊♥️

  • @CindyNeela
    @CindyNeela 4 роки тому +97

    When this song was first uploaded, my heart was shattered. I remember crying myself to sleep thinking 'I will never get over this' but I'm here a year later in a better place and happier and completely over that breakup, time really heals all wounds.

  • @malia_xxo6640
    @malia_xxo6640 4 роки тому +1132

    you never fell *out* of love with me...
    because you never fell *in* love with me in the first place.

    • @manupatel9981
      @manupatel9981 4 роки тому +4

      I wish that's true for me

    • @malia_xxo6640
      @malia_xxo6640 4 роки тому +10

      @@manupatel9981 damn. what a flex :(

    • @hannahagyarko2453
      @hannahagyarko2453 4 роки тому +10

      damn🥺 this is absolute facts😭 omg i felt that🤧😭 thats deep....wow😪

    • @malia_xxo6640
      @malia_xxo6640 4 роки тому +8

      @@hannahagyarko2453 lmfao i can't tell if this is sarcasm or not

    • @hannahagyarko2453
      @hannahagyarko2453 4 роки тому +4

      @@malia_xxo6640 lmao no im not being sarcastic😅

  • @luhcampana
    @luhcampana 6 місяців тому +4

    I love this song, but it breaks my heart every time I hear 💔 omg I’m crying right now

  • @pierpaolocasamassima8652
    @pierpaolocasamassima8652 5 років тому +501

    I fell in love for the first time after 21 years on this earth and it rocked my life. I had been struggling with anxiety and depression since I was 11, and it all vanished in a few days. I found meaning in everything around me. Being next to him was all I needed; it felt just right. One day, he stepped out of my life with no explanation. He ghosted me and only treated me to one single text. I suffered so badly, I just couldn’t imagine carrying on without him. I keep remembering the wonderful person I would kiss and hold. I am slowly getting over it, and I am doing fairly well now, but I will always be left in doubt. When did you fall out of love with me?
    Please, always be clear and say the truth as it is to someone who loves you. They deserve to know, they have a right to process what happened and live in peace.

    • @HippiesDubandJane
      @HippiesDubandJane 5 років тому +5

      Pierpaolo Casamassima Same story with me to a T.... it gets better with time.

    • @sastanasha7741
      @sastanasha7741 5 років тому +4

      I'm so sorry,girl. I feel you. :'(

    • @mepezu2640
      @mepezu2640 5 років тому +7

      I fell in love with a guy in my class, and at the time I got over an old crush. When I like someone, I like them a lot. I chose to like them for one specific reason.
      He now has a girlfriend, and I was so heartbroken. I try to get over him, but I keep remembering him.

    • @alanagonzales
      @alanagonzales 5 років тому +5

      melanie i’m going through the exact same thing... i’m in love with a close friend that i know i’ll never be with :(

    • @ash.6262
      @ash.6262 5 років тому +1

      Pierpaolo Casamassima and i hope that you get the closure you deserve. sometimes al you want is that person but even though i don't know you, i know you need closure. i'm so sorry.

  • @______kng______
    @______kng______ 4 роки тому +2466

    Me: Never been in a relationship
    Also me: feel so sad and starts crying

  • @josh3dyer
    @josh3dyer 4 роки тому +7

    Still the most underrated song I’ve heard. So artistic, great visuals, DEEP LYRICS, a melody that fits the lyrics, and her hypnotic voice.

  • @mariahmadrid5985
    @mariahmadrid5985 5 років тому +1037

    I won't tell you I'm lonely
    'Cause it might be selfish
    I won't ask you to hold me
    'Cause that won't mend what's helpless
    There's not a thing I could say
    Not a song I could sing
    For your mind to change
    Nothing can fill up the space
    Won't ask you to stay
    But let me ask you one thing
    Oh, when did you fall out of love, out of love?
    Oh, when did you fall out of love with me?
    I can't float in an ocean
    That's already been drained
    I won't cry at your feet now
    I know my tears will fall in vain
    There's not a thing I could say
    Not a song I could sing
    For your mind to change
    Nothing can fill up the space
    Won't ask you to stay
    But let me ask you one thing
    Oh, when did you fall out of love, out of love?
    Oh, when did you fall out of love with me?
    No use wondering
    Why your change in heart has wandered
    So I'll ask you this question
    'Cause it might help me sleep longer
    Oh, when did you fall out of love, out of love?
    Oh, when did you run out of love for me?
    Out of love (Out of love)
    Out of love (Out of love)
    Out of love with me

  • @raniasadieeeek
    @raniasadieeeek 5 років тому +726

    Only 71k views in two hours?? Why are people sleeping on her??

    • @lowkeyrose8020
      @lowkeyrose8020 5 років тому +12

      @Raina Sadiek That's what I'm thinking

    • @MissERationalist
      @MissERationalist 5 років тому +18

      I was in class!

    • @Ibrahim-bv6rv
      @Ibrahim-bv6rv 5 років тому +20

      People don’t care for her anymore she’s becoming a one hit wonder ( in her case a 4 hit wonder ) I don’t know why though

    • @UngiftedRoses
      @UngiftedRoses 5 років тому +23

      right? this whole album deserved more

    • @bigbadwolf6625
      @bigbadwolf6625 5 років тому +13

      because there are no promotions!

  • @adoreblair3629
    @adoreblair3629 5 років тому +21

    She is so (and I cannot stress this enough) underrated

  • @polaris.aurora
    @polaris.aurora 3 роки тому +10

    thanks Sana for the recommendation!

  • @tajoalazzam
    @tajoalazzam 5 років тому +34

    I never thought a song could make you, get hurt by someone you never met, yet I was proven wrong.

  • @heartchakraa
    @heartchakraa 5 років тому +87

    I feel this song in my bones right now. Thank you for making my heartbreak a little less lonely. 😔💔

  • @MariamMo
    @MariamMo 5 років тому +16

    I see her in 15 days I can't wait sksksk her album deserved so much more love!

  • @tjay_the_menace
    @tjay_the_menace 2 роки тому +4

    "I can't float in an ocean that's already been drained"..deep

  • @anadalbashvili5044
    @anadalbashvili5044 5 років тому +55

    Who's HERE before 1M views?☺️❤️

    • @MelsemK
      @MelsemK 5 років тому +1

      Me 😁

    • @rubyrock7302
      @rubyrock7302 5 років тому +1

      lol 😆 For the first time...me!

  • @shantelmcdonald7247
    @shantelmcdonald7247 5 років тому +175

    Omg I totally relate to this song. It’s so heartbreaking but such a good song. But it speaks the truth. Why did you fall out of love with me

  • @xrita_1134
    @xrita_1134 5 років тому +157

    I absolutely love this song and I'm so glad it is in the After soundtrack ❤❤

    • @Doubtfulmoon777
      @Doubtfulmoon777 5 років тому +1

      It is how do ya know..playlist?

    • @simranhaque27
      @simranhaque27 5 років тому

      The playlist is awesome ❤

    • @tenshi_tries
      @tenshi_tries 5 років тому +4

      After by Anna Todd?
      Omygod that's even more amazing

    • @Doubtfulmoon777
      @Doubtfulmoon777 5 років тому

      @@simranhaque27link? I can't find it

    • @xrita_1134
      @xrita_1134 5 років тому

      @@Doubtfulmoon777 open.spotify.com/playlist/4b8SnVdD8ao37Hmmv2PAB0 :)

  • @caritiaaustin802
    @caritiaaustin802 3 роки тому +16

    song hits different when your still trying to hold on and have faith but deep down you know that you gotta let go

  • @MinMin-oe5od
    @MinMin-oe5od 5 років тому +554

    God I felt it...
    And I never even had a effing relationship.

    • @MrsSalVia-u2s
      @MrsSalVia-u2s 5 років тому +12

      U will one day... and its gonna hurt❤🌸

    • @SoMooLand1nine7
      @SoMooLand1nine7 5 років тому +1

      Sam Chavan Same here. I wponder why.
      maybe at some point in our life we had felt something similar. js

    • @ahogesupremacy
      @ahogesupremacy 5 років тому

      OMG YES

    • @misspriss2482
      @misspriss2482 5 років тому +9

      You're better off. When you lose it, it hurts like hell and takes way too long to get over. I wish I had never laid eyes on him.

    • @zofficial1512
      @zofficial1512 5 років тому

      Same

  • @crazylacii
    @crazylacii 5 років тому +58

    Loved him more than anything. Broke my heart and I still cared for him. Still ask myself this.

    • @cdz1320
      @cdz1320 4 роки тому

      I feel this....

  • @unknownhuman8275
    @unknownhuman8275 5 років тому +73

    I am literally I love with this song and in love with her
    2014: Here
    2019: Out of Love

  • @SlmC2690
    @SlmC2690 3 дні тому

    We have so many songs that remind us of our love story. Ups and downs. Yet this song was the last page...

  • @karolinamonteiro3076
    @karolinamonteiro3076 5 років тому +69

    essa música é tão triste e tão bonita, o clipe ficou maravilhoso e delicado, o talento da alessia e a maturidade que ela entrega no the pains of growing é incrível

    • @yuridesconsi7190
      @yuridesconsi7190 5 років тому +1

      Tenho exatamente esse sentimento. ela é um anjo lindo

  • @emilylyn9371
    @emilylyn9371 5 років тому +12

    she honestly amazes me every single time she releases a new song, her voice is so beautiful and I love it
    she is one of the few singers that have stayed true to themselves and I'm proud of her for it