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  • Опубліковано 16 лис 2024

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  • @freesiapark
    @freesiapark  Рік тому +25

    4k available! ✨

    • @spunkransomownsme
      @spunkransomownsme Рік тому +2

      Just want to say that your editing and video quality are so top notch now!!!!! Been watching since your NY days and happy to see that you are leveling it up! I hope you get more and more and moreeee subscribers ❤ you deserve it!

    • @yennypinky3175
      @yennypinky3175 Рік тому

      Love everything about u 😘😘😘

    • @rmcalucag
      @rmcalucag Рік тому

      Hey Freesia! What caamera do you use? :)

    • @katrinasangineto8120
      @katrinasangineto8120 Рік тому

      Could you give up a tutorial on how you do your Chanel?? Looks incredible ❤️

  • @cynthiamakao9198
    @cynthiamakao9198 Рік тому +65

    Omg!!! I've only seen the preview and I'm so excited!!!!!! Glad to see Freesia and Esther together!😭❤️✨

    • @ninanegedu
      @ninanegedu Рік тому +1

      The vlog we didn’t know we needed😭❤️

    • @ved3113
      @ved3113 Рік тому +1

      Yes they’re the best. Seem so genuine

  • @Maria-up5jx
    @Maria-up5jx Рік тому +56

    We love a Freesia and Esther moment!!! Icons 💅🏼🥰

  • @riceandspiceee
    @riceandspiceee Рік тому +14

    The Freesia and Esther moment just made my week! 🥹💗

  • @yoona2497
    @yoona2497 Рік тому +21

    People may often feel lost during a transitioning phase and mistaken this important stage in their life to an identity crisis of some sort, but I think the statement that it's okay to take your time during this phase is so underrated - there is value in every moment, not just the point 'A' and then 'B' moments. Even from afar, I can see the change that is happening in your creative style and I think it's okay to try this or something completely different the next time you post. The creative process is never linear because the way human minds work isn't either. I think it's so natural and nice to see this and easier said than done, but the more you lean into the uncertainty with time your colour, your voice will naturally show itself to the world even before you realise it. Your banner at the end, your cuts, the angles you shoot from, the music and the general vibe of your videos I see is as much 'Freesia' as your vlogs when you were living in New York. I think it's nice to see you take a more purposeful approach with filming your content and whatever you experiment with I fully support it (not that you asked for my opinion lol) as I know it still has your touch on it and that is why I want to see your videos - not to see a perfect product but to see this real process of transition and the teething stage of growth. I feel inspired because I am looking at a real person not just a creator. Thank you for sharing your experience with us

    • @freesiapark
      @freesiapark  Рік тому +2

      This made me tear up. Thank you Yoona! I really have the best support. 🥺🤍

  • @razinamarjan1110
    @razinamarjan1110 Рік тому +18

    I used to have a fear of being disliked, it got so much better after I ditched 11 toxic "friends" around me and now I have so much confidence and am up to doing more things 😊😊

  • @mikayla9146
    @mikayla9146 Рік тому +8

    Don't worry if everyone doesn't like you. I'm sure you don't like everyone you meet. It doesn't mean there is anything bad about you, we all have our preferences. Enjoy those who do like you, forget about those who don't...

  • @TheStellar75
    @TheStellar75 Рік тому +9

    First of all you are not living in fear if you have a UA-cam channel. Second you are truly an artist. You inspire me to cook. The way you present the cooking is so creative and such an art, I was telling my husband how talented you are. I don’t think anyone can dislike you. 😊

  • @rj4356
    @rj4356 Рік тому +25

    Omg....I'm in tears, lol at Rufus. Rufus was like, you want a paw, take five & stop playing. 🤣🤣🤣 Happy Fridyay Freesia!

  • @widurihariri
    @widurihariri Рік тому +5

    I’m so happy to see you and Esther ❤ xx

  • @xPjunghyun
    @xPjunghyun Рік тому +2

    the cooking sequence was so satisfying, i think the music choice made it incredibly soothing to watch

  • @ayca2700
    @ayca2700 Рік тому +14

    The cooking montage was so good! All love from Turkey, love all of your videos Freesia. Keep doing what you are doing!

  • @ericalynn1910
    @ericalynn1910 Рік тому +4

    love seeing you two together!!

  • @NataSaack
    @NataSaack Рік тому +1

    My grandma have once taught me that when caning chairs start to bend in, you can poor water on and let them dry outside and apparently the caning will tighten up and go back to normal.. have never tried it myself, but maybe it can save your old dining chairs 🥰🥰

  • @FallintoYourMagic
    @FallintoYourMagic Рік тому +3

    Happy New Year to you, Freesia! 🥳 May this year bring you many blessings. There are far more people liking and supporting you, than not. So just do Freesia. Whatever makes you comfortable and happy - do it. ☺️ Your content is always enjoyable to watch. ❤ xx

  • @itsreyandrob
    @itsreyandrob Рік тому +1

    Thanks for being vulnerable. You strike us as someone who is fearless and confident, but we all have our down moments. And that's ok. It's good you have great self-awareness, which means you can take action. You're great as you are, Freesia! Keep inspiring 💜

  • @Mangobum23
    @Mangobum23 Рік тому

    🥰 courageous energy for 2023! Sending you love! 🎉

  • @n.c.467
    @n.c.467 Рік тому +2

    Loved seeing you and Esther enjoying time together!!

  • @elyse3884
    @elyse3884 Рік тому +1

    Such fun to see you with Esther! It’s nice to see you are friends! ❤ Rufus is just so cute-that look he gives you when you speak to him. 🐾 Lol. Your cooking skills are amazing! 🥰👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @usagimoon.x.o6256
    @usagimoon.x.o6256 Рік тому +2

    I used to feel like that but now that I'm older, it didn't matter.
    I'm more happier with myself now than before!
    *I love your videos so much!* ❤️

  • @araofsunshine
    @araofsunshine Рік тому +2

    At the end I was like “I hope this isn’t the end”…and then it was the end of the video 🥲 love your videos freesia!

  • @ffsnob
    @ffsnob Рік тому

    thAT video quality!!! and the cooking cuts with classical music *chef kiss*

  • @AlexandraBarbin
    @AlexandraBarbin Рік тому +4

    Happy new year Fressia! Totally get the whole fear of being disliked, something I am also working on this year. But we'll get through it -- hopefully 🙃😅

  • @anjienomoto
    @anjienomoto Рік тому +5

    I love you Freesia! Very timely... 🥺 You are one of my inspirations in making my youtube channel 💕 🇵🇭🇨🇭

  • @Islandgirl671
    @Islandgirl671 Рік тому

    You are Amazing Freesia! You inspire thousands of people! That in itself is super Awesomeness! Go Freesia 2023!!!

  • @joannacao
    @joannacao Рік тому +11

    If you were ever up to it, I think it would be super fun to watch a video of you watching shows like Singles Inferno and providing your own commentary and opinions 😁 i would definitely watch that LOL ALSO IM SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU AND ESTHER TOGETHER!!

  • @maycee1928
    @maycee1928 Рік тому +7

    Yessss Freesia & Esther together! 😊
    What you made looks sooo good. I'm going to make that.

  • @Zeeiconoclastic
    @Zeeiconoclastic Рік тому +2

    Don’t let anything steal your light, life has different phases but always remember that you’re the best and you’re super great at editing videos.🎉❤
    Zanele South Africa🇿🇦

  • @scotts4007
    @scotts4007 Рік тому +1

    Just keep doing you. There is not a dam thing wrong with you. You rock!!!!!!

  • @jo.l.e.e
    @jo.l.e.e Рік тому +1

    Video Quality 💯 It’s just fun to watch your vids and creativity!

  • @n.c.467
    @n.c.467 Рік тому

    Your vids are becoming so cinematic and incredible. Love the cooking shots...I'm obsessed!!!

  • @Cheri94
    @Cheri94 Рік тому +1

    You’re perfect just the way you are, that’s one of the things I love about you, you are way too smart to care about what others think, especially on social media, you keep it real, don’t change,

  • @senjamir_
    @senjamir_ Рік тому +3

    Wow freesia and esther 🥰my heart is full

  • @Ska-LowCarbCooking
    @Ska-LowCarbCooking Рік тому +2

    The food looks delicious! As far as being disliked, if you are true to yourself - what others think is on them!! You are open to sharing your days with us, you are a talented cook and I love that you got emotional during the Singles Inferno finale. ❤️ I too am a Jong-Wo and Seul-ki fan. Your you-tube fans support you! May 2023 bring you happiness and contentment.

  • @keamabuza858
    @keamabuza858 Рік тому +1

    Oh yay!! I was getting ready to ask if you're still friends with Michele and Esther. It's so good to see a familiar face 😌 ☺️

  • @Tebbles99
    @Tebbles99 Рік тому

    Surely telling a stranger you love them is valid 🥺😍

  • @Chrissyuv
    @Chrissyuv Рік тому +3

    So happy you & Esther are reunited 😍

  • @carlosdeleon6472
    @carlosdeleon6472 Рік тому

    She’s back ❤

  • @cindyc2004
    @cindyc2004 Рік тому +1

    A masterpiece!! Love the way you film and edit :)

  • @caitlynm924
    @caitlynm924 Рік тому +1

    Rufus is EVERYTHING 🥹😅

  • @mirandatran
    @mirandatran Рік тому +3

    Haha ur reactions to singles inferno finale 😂❤love your dog 🐶 he’s so funny and adorable! Thanks for being open and relatable, yessss be the FREESIA that you are ❤🎉 AHHH u and Esther reunited! 😊

  • @sandrapeers9981
    @sandrapeers9981 Рік тому +1

    Love your vlog! I got to try those cabbage rolls they looked delicious!

  • @eunjishin
    @eunjishin Рік тому +1

    4:38 Oh my my Rufus! You have one aggressive paw there LOL ❤

  • @estherys
    @estherys Рік тому +6

    2023 gonna be our year🤪

  • @kathrynnrose
    @kathrynnrose Рік тому +1

    okay ... but can we talk about the cooking segment?! that was beautiful!!!

  • @espressue
    @espressue Рік тому

    so happy you're still friends!! 🤍

  • @laynahlay2371
    @laynahlay2371 Рік тому +1

    I just stumbled across your channel, are you a chef?! The cooking montage was phenomenal 😍

  • @apple.cheeks
    @apple.cheeks Рік тому

    the quality feels like butter, so smooth! If you don't mind, what lens did you end up getting?

  • @ffsnob
    @ffsnob Рік тому

    And do you mind sharing where you got the white beaded necklace from? Love it!

  • @mirandatran
    @mirandatran Рік тому +4

    Honestly, love your vids. ❤

  • @conniechow6091
    @conniechow6091 Рік тому

    thanks for being so real. sharing moments online isn't easy!! i love your videos. 😇also where did you get your necklaces they look so pretty 😍

  • @michelleothon7593
    @michelleothon7593 Рік тому

    Where is your dining table from? It’s really pretty! Love your videos!!

  • @mariahgunn7101
    @mariahgunn7101 Рік тому

    definitely can relate to the fear of being disliked. Trying to conquer that fear also.

  • @thekristineway
    @thekristineway Рік тому

    i love the cooking with freesia!,

  • @teenaweenaaa
    @teenaweenaaa Рік тому

    This video felt so short! Love your vlogs freesia ✨️

  • @fadeairy6959
    @fadeairy6959 Рік тому

    It's always satisfying watching freesia cook something 👌🏻👌🏻

  • @vuletshvhs4451
    @vuletshvhs4451 Рік тому +1

    I miss seeing Freesia, Esther and Michelle together.💛💛💛

  • @dailydyaries
    @dailydyaries Рік тому

    loved this sooo much! the new lens looks incredible, can you please share which lens that is? :)

  • @lisalee5161
    @lisalee5161 Рік тому

    your cooking skills are *chef's kiss*

  • @gillianleigh4891
    @gillianleigh4891 Рік тому

    WHERE did you get those PANTS you're wearing when you try out the chairs?? Also love your content!! ♡

  • @cathlapugot
    @cathlapugot Рік тому +1

    The paw-attitude of rufus @ 4:38 LMAO

    • @cathlapugot
      @cathlapugot Рік тому

      The bg music while ur cooking got me sooo invested lol

  • @Evader_hawaii
    @Evader_hawaii Рік тому

    What is the new lens?

  • @bianca8434
    @bianca8434 Рік тому +1

    Girl you need to start a blog and share all your recipes

  • @TriciaArbolado
    @TriciaArbolado Рік тому +4

    I been watching y’all for a while and if Freesia and Michelle are still friends ?

  • @niavalencia22
    @niavalencia22 Рік тому

    This is an amazing video. It has such a deep message. Thank you for this 😊

  • @allmechichi1438
    @allmechichi1438 Рік тому

    I feel like u will conceive very soon...blesses 👨‍👨‍👦

  • @bloomsterrr
    @bloomsterrr Рік тому +1

    What a filming 😍❤️❤️

  • @CiciDo1
    @CiciDo1 Рік тому

    what lens is this

  • @Tebbles99
    @Tebbles99 Рік тому

    When it comes to editing ? You are leading that game

  • @tinaf.7941
    @tinaf.7941 Рік тому

    Rufus has human eyes - never noticed that before!❤️ Fressia, what did you do with the small fish in the dashi pack? Did you remove their insides? I did not know we needed to do that.😩😩😩

  • @thekristineway
    @thekristineway Рік тому

    wow this video quality though!!! so nice!❤

  • @mariamelsayem
    @mariamelsayem Рік тому

    LOVE the new lense! what camera and lenses do you use? 💛

  • @elizzztrrs
    @elizzztrrs Рік тому +4

    OMG. My faves 🤩😍💖 I just finished watching Esther’s recent vlog and I’m waiting for your vlog, also. Yayyyy!!! 🥳💖 Hope u notice me. I’m a fan from ph. 🫶🏻🫰🏻

  • @dmybkris
    @dmybkris Рік тому

    your necklace is so beautiful❤

  • @kadeeeartiaga
    @kadeeeartiaga Рік тому

    omg! I also watched that reality dating show! hahaha I’m hooked❤

  • @TheMichaelCheung
    @TheMichaelCheung Рік тому

    Esther yessss

  • @mzweirdo
    @mzweirdo Рік тому

    hello! can you post the recipe for the thing you made?

  • @ByKristyLin
    @ByKristyLin Рік тому

    could you share the song during the cooking segment? i feel like it's famous but i don't know the name!

  • @dorothyjean8673
    @dorothyjean8673 Рік тому

    Love from the 🇵🇭 ❤️🖤❤️🖤❤️🖤✨

  • @jesmarijulian5011
    @jesmarijulian5011 Рік тому

    Can you also link your dining table please?

  • @rachelyunchun0702
    @rachelyunchun0702 Рік тому

    its so therapeutic to watch you cook anything~

  • @yoonmiseo6079
    @yoonmiseo6079 Рік тому

    Miss Freesia Park where is your crochet knit from 4:42

  • @victorlui5955
    @victorlui5955 Рік тому

    😊

  • @sybc9679
    @sybc9679 Рік тому

    I wish I could try your cabbage rolls. I just know it’s bomb ❤😋

  • @arnoldlee7838
    @arnoldlee7838 Рік тому

    Mariscos Jalisco or 4 vientos is way more fire than the silverlake spot.

  • @Preschool4yo-7yo
    @Preschool4yo-7yo Рік тому

    MINCED MEAT SSAM WITH PRETTY GARNISH♡
    so good I'm so hungry.
    You like korean drama?! I don't watch. mm It's a fact when i was 20s I watched a lot too. I don't watch from some moments. I became old unnie so sad

  • @Dr57198
    @Dr57198 Рік тому

    Make a cook book 🥺♥️

  • @Sheena3248
    @Sheena3248 Рік тому +2

    11:11

    • @freesiapark
      @freesiapark  Рік тому

      Unintentional but I hope it’s good luck! ☺️

  • @allthingskanoo5974
    @allthingskanoo5974 Рік тому

    Hi 👋

  • @dreamerbubz
    @dreamerbubz Рік тому +2

    Where is michelle!

  • @hopenitrous
    @hopenitrous Рік тому

    !!! so early

  • @TheMichaelCheung
    @TheMichaelCheung Рік тому

    Also, your name spells it all. Be FREE. We live in an age where we sensationalise everything. Don't ever feel obligated to consume and appeal to the reader. The artist in you needs to thrive by blocking excess. Does any of this makes sense?