Attraction in 3 dimensions. Physically, Spiritually and mentally..Our spouse must find us attractive especially him/her enjoying your company. He/She must be someone you can gist with for long without considering time...Attraction is beyond physical looks..The bonding of the mind is really important. This is what counts in marriage..
I also said I wanted a tall and handsome guy to marry. When you started to talk to these guys I realize how thankful to God I was that I didn't marry anyone of them. I spoke to my pastor and he spoke about the renewal of my mind. Now I don't look at physical appearance. I want God's choice. He can be short, fat, thin or slim. God's choice is always the best.
U are right because we can build an idol based off physical attributes and we might miss it. May God renew our mind and set us free from premeditated attributes that has been fed us by social media
@@samchs222 Reality has set in and I think some people have been in dat space at some point in there life where Physical attributes mattered a lot to them than ones True self, but is life taste and changes happen. Growth too is not far with one’s experience so it’s ok to give people Grace to make the mistakes and have a better understanding and orientation of there needs
A person's "spec" has more to do with biological instincts than external programming. It's just the way your system gives you hints that you are a good genetic match with someone (you are more likely to have stronger, healthier children with that person). The programming does play some part though. There is a biological reason why some women prefer taller men, or why some men prefer women with a particular shape and so on. Even if these people were to grow up in a society that tries to program them to find something else attractive, by the time they reach puberty, their biological instincts will still overrule the programming.
Please can you justify the STATEMENT "a spec has more to do with Biological instincts than external programming" with Reliable verifiable proofs? I mean prove your statement using biology
You could have missed me now ? Roaming around in Lagos ? That was funny . You guys are just meant to be together though devil used blockage to stop you guys but we thank Jehovah today that you never missed each other . 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
You might not be attracted to the. Initially but if after time has passed and you still don’t find them attractive. Please don’t feel pressured to marry them. How can you be kissing someone you don’t find attractive till death do you part ooooo. It shouldn’t be the only criteria you use to get someone but it needs to be present to graduate to marriage
Physically there is no ugly lady, it is a person's character that makes them beautiful or not. All of God's Creation is beautiful and wonderful in his sight.
It matters. They don’t have to be ‘attractive’ but YOU should be attracted to them 🤷🏾♀️
God bless you for this comment!!!
Thank u
Attraction in 3 dimensions. Physically, Spiritually and mentally..Our spouse must find us attractive especially him/her enjoying your company. He/She must be someone you can gist with for long without considering time...Attraction is beyond physical looks..The bonding of the mind is really important. This is what counts in marriage..
Financially attracted kun
I have to be attracted to him, point blanc period! And he must find me attractive too. 😊
I also said I wanted a tall and handsome guy to marry. When you started to talk to these guys I realize how thankful to God I was that I didn't marry anyone of them. I spoke to my pastor and he spoke about the renewal of my mind. Now I don't look at physical appearance. I want God's choice. He can be short, fat, thin or slim. God's choice is always the best.
U are right because we can build an idol based off physical attributes and we might miss it. May God renew our mind and set us free from premeditated attributes that has been fed us by social media
This is 100% the right answer to this question.
Somebody don pass 30 or reality as set in
@@samchs222 Reality has set in and I think some people have been in dat space at some point in there life where Physical attributes mattered a lot to them than ones True self, but is life taste and changes happen. Growth too is not far with one’s experience so it’s ok to give people Grace to make the mistakes and have a better understanding and orientation of there needs
😂😂😂 I love your interactions in this conversation, you can truly see the friendship within. Very insightful topic thank you PM and PK 🙏🏾🙌🏾
The friendship between them was the first thing I noticed when I clicked the video.
Imagine waking up to someone that you don’t like their face every single day for the rest of your life. You’ll just be angry every morning 😂😂
This angle though. 👍🏾
PK is a daddy! && Pappa we need to talk because 🙄 PK still has a Spec! Mumma won this one!
A person's "spec" has more to do with biological instincts than external programming. It's just the way your system gives you hints that you are a good genetic match with someone (you are more likely to have stronger, healthier children with that person). The programming does play some part though.
There is a biological reason why some women prefer taller men, or why some men prefer women with a particular shape and so on. Even if these people were to grow up in a society that tries to program them to find something else attractive, by the time they reach puberty, their biological instincts will still overrule the programming.
Please can you justify the STATEMENT "a spec has more to do with Biological instincts than external programming" with Reliable verifiable proofs? I mean prove your statement using biology
You could have missed me now ? Roaming around in Lagos ? That was funny . You guys are just meant to be together though devil used blockage to stop you guys but we thank Jehovah today that you never missed each other . 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
You might not be attracted to the. Initially but if after time has passed and you still don’t find them attractive. Please don’t feel pressured to marry them. How can you be kissing someone you don’t find attractive till death do you part ooooo. It shouldn’t be the only criteria you use to get someone but it needs to be present to graduate to marriage
That's where psalm 91 comes in😂😂😂
Surgeon's hands 😂😂😂😅😅😅
PK and PM 😂😂😅😅😂
It matters but not much
looll....PK see how you put PM on the hot seat several times..lol
For me,i don't like fair men and i don't want be with them no matter what
😂
Albino here, I’m coming for you!!! Yaaarrrhhh.
For me, I can't marry an ugly lady o
Thanks sir/ma for the insights
Physically there is no ugly lady, it is a person's character that makes them beautiful or not. All of God's Creation is beautiful and wonderful in his sight.
@@ValerieWilliams-h8g yes there are objectively ugly ladies but subjectiveness can trump that
There is no such thing as a ugly person...
But pastor K, you found pastor M attractive 😅
All na roaming, 😂😊😅, PK haba...
😂😂😂😂
Love them😂❤
You would have been roaming about Lagos got me😂😂😂😂😂😂
Loveeeeee pastor K and M 🤍🤍