Why Sigma Males Were Born Into Toxic Families (It’s a Huge Gift)

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  • @mak529
    @mak529 Місяць тому +76

    Man this hits hard. Orphaned, foster care, adopted, parental divorce, personal divorce. Now successful businessman.

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  Місяць тому +4

      🫡🫡🫡👌

    • @Science-Vlog
      @Science-Vlog Місяць тому +4

      respect! i hope i get there

    • @mak529
      @mak529 Місяць тому +4

      @@Science-Vlog You will

    • @josemart6812
      @josemart6812 Місяць тому +4

      Blessings 🙏❤to you and who are reading this too 😊

    • @bennybronco76
      @bennybronco76 Місяць тому +1

      @@mak529 thanks for having me!🫡🫡🫡

  • @itzmrhajiwest
    @itzmrhajiwest Місяць тому +33

    "Love without respect is not love at all." True statement!

    • @tbone3583
      @tbone3583 Місяць тому +3

      Sir, I precieve you are a wise man

  • @anon6243
    @anon6243 Місяць тому +66

    "Sigmas are not born, they are forged" ❤

    • @neilmcdougall4927
      @neilmcdougall4927 Місяць тому

      Absolutely, when they beat me, they didn't know they were beating steel and in turn fashioning a steel sword to defeat them with

    • @josephtabit2347
      @josephtabit2347 Місяць тому +6

      It's both, you have to have both the genetic makeup and at the same time, a background where you've had to battle.

    • @Bear-foot1
      @Bear-foot1 Місяць тому +1

      They are born with the sigma traits

  • @9MileRoary
    @9MileRoary Місяць тому +71

    Sigma = Born in the battlefield.

  • @markfairgray9773
    @markfairgray9773 Місяць тому +39

    Probably one of the best descriptions about us Sigmas I’ve ever watched. You nailed this one.

  • @chuck8094
    @chuck8094 Місяць тому +48

    Three rules of the toxic family: Don't feel. Don't need. Don't ask.

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  Місяць тому +3

      Facts 💯🫡🫡

    • @chuck8094
      @chuck8094 Місяць тому +1

      @@GentsGrove I learned those rules from people who are a lot smarter than I am.

    • @TushabeBen
      @TushabeBen 21 день тому

      ​@@chuck8094wow l think also am to take em

    • @floriangeyer3454
      @floriangeyer3454 День тому

      and refuse to swallow baits you get "for free"! They are poisoned.

  • @Ctrl_Del_0
    @Ctrl_Del_0 Місяць тому +30

    I speak from experience when I say this is true.
    Sigma's are not born. They are made.
    Being Sigma is not something to be proud of. It is a fucking damn hard and lonely life that only few people can handle.

    • @rastus666
      @rastus666 Місяць тому +6

      Being alone does not make a sigma lonely. A true sigma doesn’t find it hard to be himself/herself, and does take pride in not following the herd.

    • @berrybestfarmer9614
      @berrybestfarmer9614 Місяць тому +1

      True. I up-voted the comment for the cathartic release. Sometimes a "shake it off" just feels good. Cheers.

    • @Ctrl_Del_0
      @Ctrl_Del_0 Місяць тому +3

      @@rastus666 What about losing all family and friend because one chooses to stick to the truth.
      Every time when I see or hear something about Sigma's, it is about a relationships.
      Never is there anything about family.
      However, disrespect is universal. Also within family.
      Withot family and friends, life is lonely and useless. No matter what one does or how one fills it's life.
      However, I have a goal that I work on. I will reach that goal. I stopped to care about anybody around me. I do not hate or dislike anybody.
      They choose to disrespect, I choose to move on. No hard feelings. It is sad that it has come to this but I choose my own sanity over being some ones lap dog even if this means to be without family and friends.

    • @rastus666
      @rastus666 Місяць тому +1

      @@Ctrl_Del_0 If life is lonely without friends and family, you may not be a sigma. Toxic people, regardless of relationship, are best avoided.

    • @PositiveAfrika-d6q
      @PositiveAfrika-d6q 19 днів тому

      Very true, a F**king awful, lonely and painful life. The life of jealousies, hate, envy, constant fighting, humiliation, lack, narcissism etc

  • @alex_shevtsov
    @alex_shevtsov Місяць тому +48

    Dude, I watched a few videos on your channel, and I'm really worried about how many details about my life you know with out knowing me personally.

    • @nicholaslui2239
      @nicholaslui2239 Місяць тому +4

      Welcome to the club

    • @DanaIclucia-ho5ge
      @DanaIclucia-ho5ge Місяць тому +3

      Same here, as a girl I experienced the same.

    • @World-Leader-UK
      @World-Leader-UK Місяць тому +2

      The videos are not about you. A sigma male wouldn't be worried. You will be fine. Peace.

    • @alex_shevtsov
      @alex_shevtsov Місяць тому +1

      @@World-Leader-UK you're funny

    • @World-Leader-UK
      @World-Leader-UK Місяць тому

      @@alex_shevtsov I will take the compliment. Peace.

  • @andrewlloyd6160
    @andrewlloyd6160 Місяць тому +15

    Wow this really resonates with me.
    "I was given a box of darkness and that to was a gift" 👍🏾

  • @TheAxelay
    @TheAxelay Місяць тому +9

    It's almost baffling on how true this is...We are the ultimate survivors here.

    • @Vernon-gn9wb
      @Vernon-gn9wb 12 днів тому +1

      Does anybody else remember when this was called intj

  • @rafaellastracom6411
    @rafaellastracom6411 Місяць тому +5

    This is one of the best videos on the Sigma I´ve seen. Very impressive. Most children are consumed, so to speak, in such trials. The Sigma is the champion that survives.

  • @CLOVE81
    @CLOVE81 Місяць тому +8

    To be honest, it's hard to own it, but everything said is big facts

  • @MichRB-12
    @MichRB-12 Місяць тому +26

    My own mother is a master manipulator.
    Been to court a couple of times😂😂

    • @danzz41
      @danzz41 Місяць тому +4

      I'm with you.

    • @toneloc-cz2xi
      @toneloc-cz2xi Місяць тому +4

      Narcs create sigmas

    • @Abdu-Mechanic1
      @Abdu-Mechanic1 26 днів тому +3

      mine too but i cut the relationship

    • @CHi-pq7rm
      @CHi-pq7rm 12 днів тому

      Judge Judy is watched daily since General Hospital and Young & The Restless!
      I stayed in court 🤣🤣🤣

  • @JoeySena-nh8dn
    @JoeySena-nh8dn Місяць тому +5

    Thanks, I am my power. 27 marathons, life is mine.own it brothers

  • @greer776611
    @greer776611 Місяць тому +13

    My father worked and was unsocial with all of us! My mom never worked- smoked cigarettes- talked on the phone and sat in a chair! My sister was a fat lazy slob that craved attention! All I could do was be myself and better myself!

  • @TheLiberal-d3n
    @TheLiberal-d3n 27 днів тому +1

    It's refreshing for me to see something as if someone is explaining about me.

  • @darrenbridges7492
    @darrenbridges7492 29 днів тому +2

    Had me in tears , once again .
    Absolutely spot on .....

  • @johnlund2036
    @johnlund2036 29 днів тому +3

    I think this is the best explanation of what a Sigma male is that I have heard.
    To a certain extent I think that there are things about a Sigma male that resonates with me to a limited extent. I can’t say that I grew up in a toxic environment like the ones described here; nevertheless, I know that there were things in it that adversely affected me and the way I behaved when I grew up. This video has given me more insight!

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  28 днів тому +1

      Glad this video was helpful 🙏🏽🙏🏽🫡🫡

  • @edwardthela8743
    @edwardthela8743 Місяць тому +3

    Thank you for this video, it's nice to know I'm not alone.

  • @mistersmith6963
    @mistersmith6963 21 день тому +1

    "or a partner using tears to control them". -- an emotionally manipulative woman that I was dating suddenly broke out in tears when told that I would not go along with whatever she wanted (I don't remember what the issue was) and started crying as if her feelings had been severely hurt. This was having an effect on me but I didn't see the issue warranting tears. Suddenly after about 12-15 seconds the tears, just as suddenly as they had started, stopped and she raised up both hands and said, "it always worked before". Lesson learned. Emotional blackmail reveals a toxic relationship on the horizon.

  • @eleclp9711
    @eleclp9711 Місяць тому +3

    Dear Gents Grove , I think this may be the last video of Sigma.You have decoded Sigma's pattern of character fully with this one video.Great Job.Have a happy New Year Everybody.

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  Місяць тому

      Thanks man 🙏🏽🙏🏽🫡🫡🫡

  • @garycunningham3490
    @garycunningham3490 Місяць тому +2

    Took a while but now understand who and why I am 👏👏👏 keep up the work

  • @bennybronco76
    @bennybronco76 Місяць тому +5

    To this day, I have no idea how I came across this channel and its content. But the accuracy in the mannerisms, temperaments, personality traits, ect are dead on in describing myself. This content has, without a doubt, helped me to understand who I am. It's liberating and fascinating at the same time.

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  Місяць тому +1

      Hi Benny,
      Nice to to have you here🫡🫡🫡

  • @Travis.Bickle..
    @Travis.Bickle.. Місяць тому +4

    Good lord is this 100% accurate.

  • @clydechilders3252
    @clydechilders3252 Місяць тому +6

    So 💯🇺🇸🍻🦅🏦 happy new year to all who see this and many blessings!

    • @garryonlylogic7598
      @garryonlylogic7598 Місяць тому

      U are not sigma. Spotted

    • @clydechilders3252
      @clydechilders3252 Місяць тому

      @ 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂❄️🎟🥳

    • @clydechilders3252
      @clydechilders3252 Місяць тому

      @@garryonlylogic7598 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂🥳

  • @gringotaxis2296
    @gringotaxis2296 Місяць тому +2

    Absolutely Nailed This! Well done!

  • @rickplock8962
    @rickplock8962 Місяць тому +6

    Damn. I do believe that God was molding me. My faith in God and my belief in his plan for my life, is the only thing that kept me going as a kid.

  • @LyleGriffith-be2xm
    @LyleGriffith-be2xm Місяць тому +4

    Sigmas aren't born into a toxic family, the toxic family creates the sigma.

  • @acebowen7366
    @acebowen7366 Місяць тому +1

    I was 8 years old when I learned this Lol now I understand why I resonated so strongly with all those sigma male videos that I've watched over the years this one video sums up who I am and believe in the things that I do. outstanding video!!!😊

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  Місяць тому

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🫡🫡

  • @1xenosky
    @1xenosky 29 днів тому +2

    brother u described my life and my internal dialogue so perfectly that u had me crying at 50 seconds

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  28 днів тому

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🫡🫡🫡

  • @mrz1949
    @mrz1949 Місяць тому +3

    Being born in a troubled family definitely doesn't make you an independent and thriving human, adjusting and shaping your skills maybe but based in my personal experience I knew from the very beginning that to survive you adapt but to become a sigma it takes way more than that, the final touch is to learn to adapt to any circumstances in order to take advantage of them, my sincere admiration for your input in these new way to explain who and why we are so rare.

  • @reydecastro6651
    @reydecastro6651 Місяць тому +1

    Story of my life. Until recently I didn't know I was of a type with similar upbringing and life challenges. Also,I appreciate what my life lessons have forged me into as a person and a leader!

  • @OrlPac-b4r
    @OrlPac-b4r 24 дні тому +1

    Great content, the writer must be a sigma, whoever you are keep writing, you have great insight on the psychological profile, of people who hone these attributes. Don't stop writing! You have a gift of eloquence, and proper terminology, that people really need, people have been made by the system, so biochemically imbalanced, they cannot promote rational thought, And thank you for your content and service, you continue to crush it!

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  23 дні тому

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🫡🫡🫡🫡

  • @jj8234-g9m
    @jj8234-g9m Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for this quality content.

  • @alanmcbride6658
    @alanmcbride6658 Місяць тому +2

    Thanks man.
    God bless.

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  28 днів тому

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🫡🫡

  • @donatelo4466
    @donatelo4466 Місяць тому +1

    boom again! Spot on- point after point, word after word! How do you do that?

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  Місяць тому

      🙏🏽🫡🙏🏽🫡🫡

  • @josephrego2527
    @josephrego2527 Місяць тому +15

    Unfortunately, relationships are complicated. The truth is that everyone needs you as long as you meet and satisfy their needs.
    Empathetic people are seen as weak, tools to be used and manipulated. Leaving you in pain and feeling worthless.
    They say that it's always those you've loved and trusted who end up hurting you the most. We learn to become independent and self-reliant but it's not out of choice but necessity.
    We want to be loved and respected for who we are, that is our quest. Ultimately, we find, that the only one who can give us the respect and validation we need is ourselves.
    We learn to forgive the weaknesses and errors of others and with God's help we forge our own path.

  • @Bravo190Charlie
    @Bravo190Charlie Місяць тому +3

    I've outgrown my entire family. I'm crying out for my Soul Tribe like a Secada insect in a tree crying for rain during a drought.

  • @VincentZevecke
    @VincentZevecke Місяць тому +4

    Absolute spot on

  • @kingsleyvoecador5062
    @kingsleyvoecador5062 Місяць тому +2

    I can't tell you how true this is 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @jephtecloseil
    @jephtecloseil 24 дні тому +1

    My mothergot a boyfriend fir seconds timesi immediately know this guy is bad and stay away from him ,a few day after these two broke up after conflicting ,exchanging bad word ,i saw it coming.

  • @DIGITALBOX01
    @DIGITALBOX01 29 днів тому +2

    To the T. Thank you friend.

  • @devonmalcolm34
    @devonmalcolm34 Місяць тому +4

    A bitter chapter in my life a nasty nest of betrayers full of envy.

  • @GhostRiders2025-GR
    @GhostRiders2025-GR Місяць тому +2

    You are so rite I have been abused verbal phisicaly,spiritualy ,gaslite and they got busted using my idenification well i was on a 1099 sting operation trying to ruin my persona and life so sad😢 and inheratance is gone just like them i was dropped like a good habit. I hope they never come by .

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  Місяць тому

      Stay strong and positive man.. 🫡🫡👌

  • @WarnerElliott
    @WarnerElliott Місяць тому +1

    Well done!

  • @johnburgon8597
    @johnburgon8597 Місяць тому +2

    Amazing!

  • @johnlewandowski8624
    @johnlewandowski8624 16 днів тому +1

    My family wasn't THIS bad as a whole! Just a few bad apples spoiled the barrel; most had good intentions, but went the wrong way about helping me; they took it personally when I rejected their help or advice; and other things described here! I didn't cut my family off completely; but I moved across the country and put some miles between them and me! I visit as much as I can; but forget about getting me to move back!

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  16 днів тому +1

      We all have different experiences.. As long as you keep in touch with them and you have your peace of mind 👌👌👌🫡

  • @mannydiehard1
    @mannydiehard1 Місяць тому +1

    💯 on point!

  • @TushabeBen
    @TushabeBen 21 день тому +2

    Since l came to this channel
    I found where l belong and who l was 💯✨👌

  • @VerdePenguin
    @VerdePenguin Місяць тому +1

    I realized this in full swing tonight about my family. I asked them to help me hold the heat gun while I push down the tint on my car my brother held the heat gun for about 15 minutes and b**** the whole time he did. It stated he had to go to the bathroom and the next time he came out jumped in an Uber and left and my mom and dad just walked by and said no we're not helping you. So I finished tinting part of my car at about 12:00 a.m.

  • @sartec5813
    @sartec5813 Місяць тому +1

    This video is a masterpiece!

  • @rudra00600
    @rudra00600 Місяць тому +1

    Well said 🔥🔥🔥

  • @richardmiller6134
    @richardmiller6134 Місяць тому +1

    My family was never toxic, but together we went through hell. I am a lone wolf as I walk alone with only my shadow my only loyal friend. I try all the time to get family members to join me in following the Truth but I am yet to get anywhere with anyone. So I am not talking the vast majority of my life and this is because people just don't want to engage with myself. I am not thick I am just quiet cause I talk less than most.

  • @andyscouse4090
    @andyscouse4090 3 дні тому +1

    I always thought I was Adopted being the youngest of 8 children and seeing my brothers and sisters back stabbing and saying nasty words to each other, my Parents invested all their knowledge and kindness into the family only to be rejected when they became ill or were dieing. I have always been alone in my thoughts and actions and never received approval of anything i have done or said by my Brothers and Sisters. Now i am the youngest of 3 without children of my own or married and poor in money. The 2 that are left are millionaires who keep their money to themselves and i couldn't care less.

  • @skywalker847
    @skywalker847 Місяць тому +2

    Great explanation of the strength of sigmas.

  • @TuerlingsTim
    @TuerlingsTim Місяць тому +2

    It was the survival strategy build from a young age surrounded by narcissistic family members

  • @Capsinfullg
    @Capsinfullg Місяць тому +1

    PERFECT SAID . 🙏🏾👍🏾

  • @2Oldcoots
    @2Oldcoots Місяць тому +1

    Battle Forged. Admiral Nimitz embodied these characteristics!!

  • @香料國境
    @香料國境 Місяць тому +1

    Wow. This is me? Extreme freedom seeker/lover.

  • @toneloc-cz2xi
    @toneloc-cz2xi Місяць тому +2

    They saw thru 'covid' too

  • @stevelauda5435
    @stevelauda5435 2 дні тому +1

    Yes i did grow up in a very very toxic family

  • @mikeodell5915
    @mikeodell5915 Місяць тому +1

    On point

  • @Richard-b3p9o
    @Richard-b3p9o Місяць тому +1

    Dam this is good

  • @mingkee27
    @mingkee27 Місяць тому +2

    No pain, no gain

  • @jmonie02
    @jmonie02 Місяць тому +2

    I wrote this a while back, it popped up as being liked. Then this video popped up. WTF.
    I agree with Empaths, such as myself, being slaves to the divine. I called myself a walking confession booth. But I do think we do soak up all the drama like sponges. We are the fixers of the world, and it isn’t wrong with that. Just like an Angel on missions commanded by the higher-ups, maybe even God directly. However, we are built and equipped for this. That's why we are born into toxic families. Born out of chaos to create order. I don’t get why I chose to be here, though. However, narcissistic people are never fixed, they are always broken. We just get front seats to what is actually wrong with mankind. Usually, it's selfishness. We are not punished. We receive instant karma, that way it won’t linger..

  • @Samrockbandcampclub
    @Samrockbandcampclub Місяць тому +1

    I love it

  • @LPM21
    @LPM21 29 днів тому +1

    💯💯💯

  • @ruffhouse6363
    @ruffhouse6363 3 дні тому

    And my parents said I would never amount to anything....... proved them wrong!!

  • @trendybrowne
    @trendybrowne Місяць тому +1

    wow

  • @danzz41
    @danzz41 Місяць тому +2

    What just happened 😳 💪 🐺

  • @michaelpietor4006
    @michaelpietor4006 Місяць тому +2

    Excellent 😂

  • @jephtecloseil
    @jephtecloseil 24 дні тому

    Persobal freedom, freedom is love

  • @WW-ob7ek
    @WW-ob7ek Місяць тому +1

    Story of my life 😅

  • @col2959
    @col2959 Місяць тому +2

    Biggest advantage hey… maybe it seemed that way but no it catches up hard. I was forged in a furnace so don’t try tell me different!

  • @pinkodplayer7323
    @pinkodplayer7323 Місяць тому +3

    Interestingly, despite being born in a healthy family, going against peer pressure filled the gap of character development.

  • @bihaizaid
    @bihaizaid Місяць тому +1

    Sigma its a masterpiece created once in life time which it's uniqueness lasts for centuries and stories told

  • @raymondcragg7282
    @raymondcragg7282 Місяць тому +1

    Born with the survival instinct

  • @president-electarthurbombe6942
    @president-electarthurbombe6942 Місяць тому +1

    The toxicity I experienced was not from my family: quite the opposite. It was school what did it.

  • @rickrandall-k3c
    @rickrandall-k3c 9 днів тому

    YEP

  • @mohitmehta8794
    @mohitmehta8794 Місяць тому +1

    I am sigma Male

  • @mikeodell5915
    @mikeodell5915 Місяць тому +2

    1000%

  • @AmbGun
    @AmbGun 25 днів тому

    So...as a Sigma male should I purposefully create a toxic environment so that my children develop into independent, self motivated sigma males?

  • @chrisriley8755
    @chrisriley8755 Місяць тому +1

    This guy just made a direct hit wow damn that's all I have to say brings memories as I speak now glad something good came from my childhood and adolescent years I'm seriously Speechless

  • @edwardthela8743
    @edwardthela8743 Місяць тому +1

    🍻👌🏾👏🏿

  • @jonathanwest6564
    @jonathanwest6564 День тому

    I never forgive just dump the baggage, and recognize their demons. After sufficient time it doesn't cost me anything to be nice.

  • @b0bsanders626
    @b0bsanders626 Місяць тому +2

    Wow bullseye

  • @foxnevertelllies77
    @foxnevertelllies77 Місяць тому +2

    Number 10:
    Barber 😮

  •  Місяць тому +3

    I ain't got no rooths.

  • @TerranceNgassa
    @TerranceNgassa Місяць тому +1

    🎉❤

  • @orangewarm1
    @orangewarm1 Місяць тому +2

    Toxic families probably create sigmas.

    • @Bear-foot1
      @Bear-foot1 Місяць тому

      lol they are born with the sigma genetics . You will find toxic in every family.

  • @FischerFan
    @FischerFan Місяць тому +1

    This video makes you wonder what percentage of sigma males were products of families marred by alcoholism.

  • @Abdu-Mechanic1
    @Abdu-Mechanic1 26 днів тому

    most important sigma males dont give money

  • @tedtippen2364
    @tedtippen2364 23 дні тому

    This is my boyfriend 100%.

  • @CalebMickelson-f9j
    @CalebMickelson-f9j Місяць тому +1

    lol me

  • @chrisramsubag672
    @chrisramsubag672 Місяць тому +1

    I don't totally agree with this.

  • @steviegwhizz345
    @steviegwhizz345 28 днів тому

    Toxic families or a toxic society and culture of lies???

  • @johnjones9104
    @johnjones9104 2 дні тому

    I had no brothers or sisters, i had good parents, so your wrong

  • @ragnarok1622
    @ragnarok1622 Місяць тому +2

    My own family betrayed me in land and money.. painful truth

  • @JuanFoxx
    @JuanFoxx 19 днів тому

    My biggest question is are we going to hell for having all this power and knowledge? 😢😅.. Sad and Happy.

    • @GentsGrove
      @GentsGrove  19 днів тому

      You are unique and uniqueness doesn’t come easy man

    • @JuanFoxx
      @JuanFoxx 19 днів тому

      @@GentsGrove always wondered if I chose this before being born or am I just an old soul as they say. Always wondered since I was a child. 😎