oh my God, crying so hard right now... I have been reflecting on my own family traumas recently and realising how much it gets passed down through generations. The World Wars and the Holocaust has a part to cause in the current mental health crises, I'm sure, through inherited trauma. And of course the plight of indigenous people in Australia and the US as well - people think it's "all in the past" "they should get over it" and "why should I apologise for something I never did". But it wasn't that long ago! The inherited trauma hasn't had a chance to get healed.
Saskia, I like your name. It's been 2 years. You still there? Sending love and understanding. I could definitely cry my eyes out right now but holding it back by making myself divert my mind. Can't right now.
I found your videos about EMDR, I've been fascinated. Can't afford an EMDR therapist, but I try to use various techniques on my own to heal trauma. Thank you for posting those and this.
Emotional wounding goes unattended & ignored, because of ignorance ~ We are taught that everything is about surface .. if you look great, you must be doing great .. and all the while there could be great tragedy & turmoil on the inside😫 My advice is to learn how to honor & respect your own injuries, that will automatically develop your ability to be kinder & compassionate with others .. 😌
Dr. Marich - this was so beautifully said and explained. I had never considered "trauma" as a "wound" and the metaphors you used to describe are perfect. I learned a LOT in the 15 minutes of this talk and I hope you will do more! Thank you!!
Great talk Dr. Jamie! It is such a dire need in our society to treat mental health wounds with the same patience, love and compassion that we treat the physical. :)
ACE study.... just learned something new today. I'm one of those who suffered trauma as a child and young man. No one to put a bandaid on my wound until just this month (I'm 56) when I finally got insurance that actually did more than drain my bank account THANK YOU PRESIDENT OBAMA! I have found someone who is currently addressing my wound and beginning to try to put a dressing on it. It's painful for me. Fixing the wound is EXTREMELY painful as feelings that have been hidden for years need to come out. Just like removing a thorn, it hurts. And it's going to hurt worse until it starts to heal.
Jamie you are an extraordinary being and I cannot not agree with you, you have really seen the origin of World Dysfunction. When I arrived in Vietnam in the years 2001, observing the torrents of motorcycles which, instead of having a direction, seemed to flee at full speed from an invisible enemy, I had the feeling that what they were fleeing unconsciously were the memories of Vietnam War. Little by little, the conviction that we all carried these memories of multiple sufferings, these traumas and are often in a dynamic of flight without a method to acknowledge, face and heal them. From that moment on, my priority became Healing and it was in Hanoi that I discovered Dr. Servan-Shreiber's book Guerir (Healing) and EMDR therapy. With love and blessings for who You Are and your mission ♥🦋🤍
I loved this talk and you describe correctly what I am experiencing now in my 30's. I grew up in a high conflict environment. Anger should be described by everyone as trauma or pain, other people would understand more. I have never been shown how to deal with anger or any emotions, I never knew you needed to control them. Plus you are correct if someone says to me just get over it, you can't it goes deeper than that and feels very insensitive. I hope your message is getting out there. Thank you xx
Our current political misrepresentatives are clearly living out unhealed trauma. You're so right at the grave importance of your work. Great talk. Thank you.
Bravo 👏🏽 Thank you for your talk, it resonates with me and my frightened, hurt childhood inner self that was ignored, abused and expected to “get over it”. Ne bojem se vise! I am taking active steps in healing a lifetime of trauma. It is currently the most important thing In my life, and I cant wait to start living a less painful life.
@@jenniferclifton Eye Movement, Desensitized and Reprocessing. It’s not super common yet but it is available. It is one of, if not currently the most researched forms of mental health therapy. Look it up. I’d recommend against the do it your self stuff found on line and at least start with a qualified therapist trained in it to be a guide.
Get over it! 3 words that i wish i could erase from our vocabulary. How do you get over, harassment, terror, bullying, body shaming, the systematic destruction of a loved one? How does one "get over it" when instead of much needed help; one is reviled, one is persecuted for standing up for what is right and protecting one's family? I watched my only family die due to harassment, cruelty, bullying by both men and women of 1 family. I lost my home, my job, everything i owned. Get over it? The fact that im alive is nothing short of a fluke. T.Davindran my abuser, walks free. GET OVER IT?
Once again mental illness has become profitable for those in 'trauma therapy's. Mental health costs big bucks..$$$ What is truly the incentive for helping others..of course money..Please GIVE back what you have received to the POOR mentally ill !🙏
Dr. Jamie Marich is truly an enlightened person.🙏
oh my God, crying so hard right now... I have been reflecting on my own family traumas recently and realising how much it gets passed down through generations. The World Wars and the Holocaust has a part to cause in the current mental health crises, I'm sure, through inherited trauma. And of course the plight of indigenous people in Australia and the US as well - people think it's "all in the past" "they should get over it" and "why should I apologise for something I never did". But it wasn't that long ago! The inherited trauma hasn't had a chance to get healed.
Saskia, I like your name. It's been 2 years. You still there? Sending love and understanding. I could definitely cry my eyes out right now but holding it back by making myself divert my mind. Can't right now.
You are so right, Saskia.
I found your videos about EMDR, I've been fascinated. Can't afford an EMDR therapist, but I try to use various techniques on my own to heal trauma. Thank you for posting those and this.
Very well said. We celebrate the player who play injured and demonize the ones that ask for help
Emotional wounding goes unattended & ignored, because of ignorance ~ We are taught that everything is about surface .. if you look great, you must be doing great .. and all the while there could be great tragedy & turmoil on the inside😫 My advice is to learn how to honor & respect your own injuries, that will automatically develop your ability to be kinder & compassionate with others .. 😌
Dr. Marich - this was so beautifully said and explained. I had never considered "trauma" as a "wound" and the metaphors you used to describe are perfect. I learned a LOT in the 15 minutes of this talk and I hope you will do more! Thank you!!
Great talk Dr. Jamie! It is such a dire need in our society to treat mental health wounds with the same patience, love and compassion that we treat the physical. :)
beautiful...thank you for doing your part in weakening the Great Wall of Denial surrounding personal and global trauma
ACE study.... just learned something new today. I'm one of those who suffered trauma as a child and young man. No one to put a bandaid on my wound until just this month (I'm 56) when I finally got insurance that actually did more than drain my bank account THANK YOU PRESIDENT OBAMA! I have found someone who is currently addressing my wound and beginning to try to put a dressing on it. It's painful for me. Fixing the wound is EXTREMELY painful as feelings that have been hidden for years need to come out. Just like removing a thorn, it hurts. And it's going to hurt worse until it starts to heal.
Dr. Jamie, you are such an inspiration. As an LMFT in private practice in California, I want to be just like you when I grow up!!! Thank you!
Jamie you are an extraordinary being and I cannot not agree with you, you have really seen the origin of World Dysfunction. When I arrived in Vietnam in the years 2001, observing the torrents of motorcycles which, instead of having a direction, seemed to flee at full speed from an invisible enemy, I had the feeling that what they were fleeing unconsciously were the memories of Vietnam War. Little by little, the conviction that we all carried these memories of multiple sufferings, these traumas and are often in a dynamic of flight without a method to acknowledge, face and heal them. From that moment on, my priority became Healing and it was in Hanoi that I discovered Dr. Servan-Shreiber's book Guerir (Healing) and EMDR therapy. With love and blessings for who You Are and your mission ♥🦋🤍
Dr. Marich, grateful just to know you exist! And you're not far from me. I'm in NW PA.
I loved this talk and you describe correctly what I am experiencing now in my 30's. I grew up in a high conflict environment. Anger should be described by everyone as trauma or pain, other people would understand more. I have never been shown how to deal with anger or any emotions, I never knew you needed to control them. Plus you are correct if someone says to me just get over it, you can't it goes deeper than that and feels very insensitive. I hope your message is getting out there. Thank you xx
Red Chick recommend EMDR with a quality psychologist xx
very good comment nice
Our current political misrepresentatives are clearly living out unhealed trauma. You're so right at the grave importance of your work. Great talk. Thank you.
Bravo 👏🏽 Thank you for your talk, it resonates with me and my frightened, hurt childhood inner self that was ignored, abused and expected to “get over it”. Ne bojem se vise! I am taking active steps in healing a lifetime of trauma. It is currently the most important thing In my life, and I cant wait to start living a less painful life.
Extraordinary
Capella University #PhD grad delivers a TEDx Talk...so proud of her!!
Love you Dr. Jamie!
A brilliant presentation. Thank you.
I feel hope by finding her after so many years of living in the dark about Trauma
she's Amazing!!!
Check out EMDR therapy for healing trauma. You will not know how substantial the effects of trauma are until they are gone.
Emily Eyerly have done this too. Can't recommend it enough
Emdr what is it
@@jenniferclifton Eye Movement, Desensitized and Reprocessing. It’s not super common yet but it is available.
It is one of, if not currently the most researched forms of mental health therapy.
Look it up. I’d recommend against the do it your self stuff found on line and at least start with a qualified therapist trained in it to be a guide.
YES!
Beautiful. Thank you!
Get over it! 3 words that i wish i could erase from our vocabulary. How do you get over, harassment, terror, bullying, body shaming, the systematic destruction of a loved one? How does one "get over it" when instead of much needed help; one is reviled, one is persecuted for standing up for what is right and protecting one's family? I watched my only family die due to harassment, cruelty, bullying by both men and women of 1 family. I lost my home, my job, everything i owned. Get over it?
The fact that im alive is nothing short of a fluke. T.Davindran my abuser, walks free. GET OVER IT?
love this woman!
How did I not know about this! Mazel Tov Jamie! You rock and dance mindfully!
Nice talk. Very well executed. Thank you.
I loved your lecture Jamie! I totally agree with you! Thanks! :)
I was in fight or flight until EMDR therapy
How many sessions did u need
I learned a lot in this informative talk, thank you so much, Dr. Jamie. :)
Once again mental illness has become profitable for those in 'trauma therapy's. Mental health costs big bucks..$$$
What is truly the incentive for helping others..of course money..Please GIVE back what you have received to the POOR mentally ill !🙏
You are beautiful. Thank you
Much of greek language and culture (especially foundational) comes from ancient egypt.
So... Point completely missed then?
I'll share with you what helped me: "Moving to Bosnia' Me: What???
The wonderful quiet beautifully dry because bass angiographically marry before a woebegone railway. aback, alert walk
jesus this was awful. Rickhpeople slum overseas and come back telling people about suffering. .. no meat all fluff