Drunk statements are really honest takes. And she done so in the most disrespectful way possible, refused communication, acted out when op attempt to reconcile with discussion. OP was reasonable in approach and in his feelings was very mature considering context.
OP is the A.H. Honestly, if Logan would have not chosen drugs, ofc they would have been together. It's not like OP can consider that she would have left him. That's literally the reason for their breakup.
Wrong its the wife, Hes allowed to express concern but she locked herself in her room for days just to not talk to him, she was also very reserved and secretive. Then all that along with her constant victim blaming and violence? Yeahhh no
Yea this is my take too. That's how relationships work. You break up if there's a reason. It's like everyone wants her to be single forever after one failed attempt. Her reactions were massively out of line. But she's justified to be upset that OP doesn't seem to trust her at all after she drops one drunk line that's phrased insensitively but is otherwise common sense. She did give straight answers. In this situation, there really are no "first" or "second" choices. There are first and second partners, sure. But that doesn't diminish that fact that she chose OP after her ex chose drugs. Her reaction of the silent treatment then throwing stuff is the only part I'd say was definitely a problem here. Makes me sad that her life was basically ruined after this. Lost her kids and fell victim to the same vices that she tried to escape decades ago... Now she probably will self destruct and end up with her ex again, and they'll fuel each other's cycles of addiction. And OP will take the fact that he broke her to mean he was right all along. It's depressing...
@@crylok7062 She quite literally admitted to still having feelings for her ex, and then went behind his back to both try to get a divorce going and cheat on him all without him having a clue of what was even going on. Then when things didn’t work out with her ex, she came back hoping the relationship she fucked up and the trust that she broke would still be there. She’s the AH.
So she commented how she would’ve married someone else if she had the chance, refused to be emotionally communicative, doubled down on her pattern of behavior, seemed highly interested in the question of “is it his kids”, and started drinking more without the threat of divorce, but no he’s the problem.
HE threw the relationship for the comment SHE did???? she should have rested and overcome her 4 year relationship before just thinking about the next one because she only waited 1 year and that's not enough
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Drunk statements are really honest takes. And she done so in the most disrespectful way possible, refused communication, acted out when op attempt to reconcile with discussion. OP was reasonable in approach and in his feelings was very mature considering context.
Why on earth would he ask her if the kids were his?! He should have waited until he got the test & the results
Because he was trying to be honest with her. The fool!
OP is the A.H.
Honestly, if Logan would have not chosen drugs, ofc they would have been together. It's not like OP can consider that she would have left him.
That's literally the reason for their breakup.
Wrong its the wife, Hes allowed to express concern but she locked herself in her room for days just to not talk to him, she was also very reserved and secretive. Then all that along with her constant victim blaming and violence? Yeahhh no
Horrible take
Yea this is my take too. That's how relationships work. You break up if there's a reason. It's like everyone wants her to be single forever after one failed attempt.
Her reactions were massively out of line. But she's justified to be upset that OP doesn't seem to trust her at all after she drops one drunk line that's phrased insensitively but is otherwise common sense.
She did give straight answers. In this situation, there really are no "first" or "second" choices. There are first and second partners, sure. But that doesn't diminish that fact that she chose OP after her ex chose drugs.
Her reaction of the silent treatment then throwing stuff is the only part I'd say was definitely a problem here.
Makes me sad that her life was basically ruined after this. Lost her kids and fell victim to the same vices that she tried to escape decades ago...
Now she probably will self destruct and end up with her ex again, and they'll fuel each other's cycles of addiction. And OP will take the fact that he broke her to mean he was right all along.
It's depressing...
@@crylok7062 She quite literally admitted to still having feelings for her ex, and then went behind his back to both try to get a divorce going and cheat on him all without him having a clue of what was even going on. Then when things didn’t work out with her ex, she came back hoping the relationship she fucked up and the trust that she broke would still be there. She’s the AH.
So she commented how she would’ve married someone else if she had the chance, refused to be emotionally communicative, doubled down on her pattern of behavior, seemed highly interested in the question of “is it his kids”, and started drinking more without the threat of divorce, but no he’s the problem.
HE threw the relationship for the comment SHE did???? she should have rested and overcome her 4 year relationship before just thinking about the next one because she only waited 1 year and that's not enough
It’s more for the reaction she had. Also, she was a posible treat for their children and him for what he said
It wasn't the drunken confession. It was the weeks of evasivenes, violence and mistreatment. Did you even watch the video?