You're Going to Quit Bullet Journaling (and I'm going to tell you why)

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  • @PlantBasedBride
    @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +567

    Do any of these reasons resonate with you? Have you quit bullet journaling (even temporarily)? I'd love to hear about your experiences!

    • @Lilli626
      @Lilli626 3 роки тому +28

      This was such a great video!! After a while of bullet journalling I felt overwhelmed with the need to have elaborate themes every month which take time and when I fell behind, I took a step back and reset!

    • @Aykela
      @Aykela 3 роки тому +14

      I quit bc i did not have fun anymore. Also i dont use it a lot. As i have 3 apointments or less a week, i only used a monthly spread. So i bought a moleskine pocket weekly, week on 1 page and notes on the other. Bigger things to do lists go in a simple paper pad. I loved the idea and the creativity i can put in to a bj, but i just wasnt feeling it anymore.

    • @werelemur1138
      @werelemur1138 3 роки тому +3

      My, brief first attempt failed because I was doing it in a notebook that was too big to take everywhere with me.

    • @lifeasandrea280
      @lifeasandrea280 3 роки тому +10

      I used the same bullet journal since 2017 because I quit a couple of times and started again just as many times.
      One of my main struggles were the future log and key. I now mostly use it as a weekly to do list with a habit tracker.

    • @jhanine0923
      @jhanine0923 3 роки тому +3

      I did quit for a few months back in 2019 but I realized it was just the system and effort of trying to make it look good. Because even tho I quit back then, I still keep a journal that serves as my diary/ planner. So I slowly got back and fixed what was putting pressure on me and let it go :) Now my bujo serves as my diary, where I can be plain or artsy. And I keep a separate planner for work, that I can customize like a bujo too! As u said its ur bujo, you make the rules. Yeah, I did make my own and Im loving it.

  • @ashlynn13975
    @ashlynn13975 3 роки тому +2626

    Bullet journaling was also developed to help ppl with ADHD feel organized and have structure. The core concept of bujo is to do what works for you and allow it to change whenever and however you need it to. You're supposed to build your own structure, your own format that is fluid, changing and dynamic to your own life.
    This is one of the reasons why I like your channel so much because I see that come through a lot in your bullet journaling, you keep what works for you and remove what doesn't and changes month to month. That is the core concept to bujo

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +260

      Yes, exactly! I think people forget/don’t know the whole point is customization and try to exactly emulate what others are doing, to their own detriment.

    • @mljs9245
      @mljs9245 3 роки тому +72

      I watched a couple of videos by Jessica @ How to ADHD and found them really helpful too.

    • @DragonflyNinja
      @DragonflyNinja 3 роки тому +30

      💯 Make it your own! Change it without apology and as often as you feel called. I've been BuJoing for almost a year and my style, spreads and needs keep changing as I get clearer on what's working for me and what's missing. And I've also learned that when I really struggle... with Winter (I'm solar powered 😁) and those times when anxiety kicks in, I work out how my BuJo can keep going and support me through that. I even made a spread during our Aussie floods early this year about how to get myself through the lack of sunshine and dry days. I used to watch a lot of BuJo videos for inspiration and rarely followed through in my own BuJo so now I'll watch one every now and then for entertainment value and keep a doodle notebook instead of feeling I have to "pretty up" my BuJo. #MyBuJoMyRules 🌺💕

    • @jessatlife
      @jessatlife 3 роки тому +62

      This is what I keep saying. Out of ALL of the tools I’ve tried since I started looking for ways to help me cope with my ADHD, the BuJo is the ONLY one that’s worked for me consistently, for almost two years now! It’s my favorite tool, and I can’t stop saying this. I cannot begin to describe how much it’s improved my life.
      I’m so grateful for the BuJo, so whenever I see people quit because they think the BuJo is too hard to maintain, I get SO frustrated, because that’s completely the opposite of what it’s designed to be! Imagine how many people with executive function challenges have (or will$ missed out on its benefits because of these misconceptions!

    • @8westa71
      @8westa71 3 роки тому +6

      @@DragonflyNinja I can do this with my work bullet journal but I just don't know what I want to track, use it for , or what I could use it for. Looking at other peoples ideas is the only way I can get over the fear of the blank page! My work journal works really well and has changed and adapted but my personal one has gone through 3 or 4 different styles and sizes of notebook and I still don't know what and/or how to use it to improve my life

  • @KDAMV
    @KDAMV 3 роки тому +1163

    🌸Here are some “rules” I made for myself for my new BUJO:
    1. Don’t have a lot of spreads. I’m a uni student and all I need is: the timetable for the semester; a simple calendar; monthly events (like tests, presentations b-days…) and a mood tracker
    2. Don’t stress about everything. Make some small drawings/doodles on some pages and some minimalistic things on other pages
    3. Plan beforehand. Have a separate cheap notebook for “planning” and “practicing
    4. Decide on an “easy-to-follow/execute” theme. Don’t overdo it
    5. Relax and don’t stress about it. Yes, you’ll make mistakes, but it’s part of the learning process
    ✨Hope this helped someone🌸

    • @LadyCupcake01
      @LadyCupcake01 3 роки тому +60

      For me, having a separate notebook for "practicing" means that the main notebook should be flawless. I did that, and I just used the practice notebook more. So I just make ugly notes and practice in the main notebook now. It made me use it more and have less stress about it

    • @killyou850
      @killyou850 2 роки тому +11

      making bujo minimal is the best way for you to organise all your schedule. :)

    • @ChrisJohnsonCJs-Kitchen
      @ChrisJohnsonCJs-Kitchen 2 роки тому +3

      Great tips. I'm taking bullet journaling for a test run, so I started in the back of an old notebook with the last 8 days of the month. Then took those ideas to start my first monthly spread in another old notebook. I like what I've come up up so far, but already see changes I need to make. I've decided not to purchase a brand new journal for this use until I'm A) sure I like doing it and B) feel I have a solid idea of what I want to track & how I want to lay it out.

    • @apaiiyui8488
      @apaiiyui8488 2 роки тому +3

      That's exacly how a bujo should be actually - not stressing you and make things easy to write and find ~ which i feel around here people didn't really understood what a bujo should be.
      A journal is really personal.. I do compare myself what my ideas are and inspire myself more than comparing actually but it shouldn't stress us like "they did better" really not 👀
      I will start a journal for the first time and I think be watching others making theirs it's a good idea to know what you could like in yours. And like someone else said in another comment : if you don't use a page then just decorate it later or whenever you want 😊
      Minimalism was always a modern designing type, so it's completely okay if you like doing it this way and no one should compare themself ☺️🌸
      Myself I was wondering if I should make one on Adobe by designing it and just print it, but I think I want to kind of challenge myself and try a journal by expressing my creativity into it ☺️

    • @claireify1963
      @claireify1963 2 роки тому +2

      I agree with everything except the Plan Beforehand. I think (at least for just starting out) that you should just go for it. If you try to make it absolutely perfect.. than you will quit.

  • @fallingupstairs280
    @fallingupstairs280 3 роки тому +2201

    You're telling the sad but realistic truth! For me it didn't worked when my mental health wasn't at a good point and the bullet journaling was so much stress to me because I made myself so much pressure to get it beautiful and flawless because I couldn't handle any more mistakes haha

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +100

      Yes, mental health can have a huge impact as well. I feel like, for me anyway, when my mental health isn't great I'm more susceptible to the 5 reasons in this video and find it harder to logic my way out of feeling overwhelmed/falling in perfectionism and comparison, etc!

    • @visszhang27
      @visszhang27 3 роки тому +54

      I started bullet journaling to help improve my mental health. I keep my spreads simple, and more about daily mental health practices and hygiene than anything else.
      My best advice is to create spreads that you think you will actually use every day. Simple things that will actually help you. Daily to do’s- even if it’s “I brushed my teeth and ate today” or how much water you are drinking.

    • @raksh9
      @raksh9 3 роки тому +12

      That seems more like a function of your personal standards and mental health than about bullet journaling itself.

    • @visszhang27
      @visszhang27 3 роки тому +34

      @@raksh9 I mean it’s all done in a bullet journal.
      Honestly why use any methods that aren’t working for you. Like the reason why mine is so simple is because I don’t have the mental abilities right now to do a whole lot every day. So why not make the journal revolving around things I NEED to do, than things Other people think I should be doing?
      You tubers add a UA-cam planning page, I added mental health pages. The functionality is still the same, even though they look a little different.
      Mine tracks personal hygiene and my meds, if I went out - those are dailies
      I have daily to do’s because my brain deletes things like crazy and I’ll forget
      I have a yoga page with goals for the month to reach
      Food and water tracker to make sure I’m taking care of this body
      Weekly to do’s like keeping up with family and cleaning
      Budget trackers
      And also I wrote down all the birthdays in my life at the beginning of the year so I can add them to the month.. and it’s helped so much
      Even though all of these things are simple, it’s still using the method. Still using the book. Just in more basic ways. And to most people you wouldn’t need a lot of those things because you can just do it and not be in a fog. But to others the bullet journal really does help.
      I have so many journals. And honestly the bullet journal has been the best for actually making me DO something. All the others are very reflection based but the bullet journal is action based. I think it can be adapted for pretty much anyone to use

    • @raksh9
      @raksh9 3 роки тому +15

      @@visszhang27 Sorry, I was replying to the original poster in this comment thread, not you. Your method sounds very thorough and yet minimal at the same time. The original comment talked about how it was really stressful to keep perfect, which is a reflection of their standards and mental health. I like the sounds of your system, though.

  • @aeriacross770
    @aeriacross770 2 роки тому +284

    Yesterday I learned from the creator of the bullet journal method who has ADD like me that you actually don't plan a bullet journal. It's literally a diary in bullets instead of paragraphs. If you make mistakes, cross them out.
    It's to manage and keep track of the runaway thoughts so you can look back on them.
    Don't always rely on youtubers who do this for a living and gets sponsored by this and that.

    • @Everyyoueverymiau
      @Everyyoueverymiau Рік тому +9

      Yeah, my bullet journal was always ugly. It had many mistakes and was ever-changing,but it worked. I just stopped because I went digital.

    • @kava2021
      @kava2021 10 місяців тому

      Well said. To me the list is a reminder of things I need to remember, to do, and just wandering thoughts.

    • @Sarah-psalm127
      @Sarah-psalm127 4 місяці тому +1

      Yep the original bullet journal was gold. Perfect way to keep my adhd mind organized. They have become way too complicated.

  • @realisticequestrian8229
    @realisticequestrian8229 3 роки тому +624

    People quit because they make it about trying to be like other people then feeling inadequate in comparison. You're 100% right about starting it minimalistic. Finding function and your own style is what makes it work. 👌

    • @suzisandpiper
      @suzisandpiper Рік тому +3

      Exactly. 💯 I started a Bujo and my first thoughts were what is practical for me. I wasn't doing it to show people or make it beautiful. The only colour I use is a highlighter! It's a productivity tool helping me move in the right directions. Once I decided that, making spreads that worked was easy and I stick to what works. I have a streamlined simple set up and it helps me stay organised.

  • @lisaleone2296
    @lisaleone2296 3 роки тому +472

    The alternate point of view: if you are a perfectionist, and you know it, and you've always been a perfectionist, it's OK to accept that and move on to another type of journal/planner because a bullet journal isn't for you. I have some layouts that I print out and stick in a disc bound agenda as needed, and keep my artwork in a sketchbook. That works for me.

    • @sharondipaolo3570
      @sharondipaolo3570 3 роки тому +5

      Hahahahaha I do the same thing for the same reasons!

    • @FairyKit
      @FairyKit 3 роки тому +20

      I am def a perfectionist and I don't know how to do those awesome and cute calligraphy letters. My letters look ugly to me and not perfect haha. Same with my handwriting :") I only did bujo for like a month and I couldn't keep up with it. I planned my spreads and took ideas off of Pinterest or even UA-cam, but I just didn't use some of the spreads. It felt like a chore and nothing that I enjoyed doing. I bought a jibun techo recently and I used it for a few months. Love the system and set up but been too lazy to sit down and write in it. I guess I'm just not a planner type of person xD. Although maybe I'll get another jibun techo which is bigger because I bought a small one so it's hard to really journal in it. Plus I don't have many plans haha.

    • @supersparkley123
      @supersparkley123 3 роки тому +1

      THISSSSS!

    • @georgina676
      @georgina676 3 роки тому +4

      Printing out layouts and sticking them in a disk bound agenda is such a good solution!! I have ADHD so i want to use the BuJo to help me with that, but because I'm also a perfectionist every time I start a bullet journal it drives me insane that the writing doesn't look nice, I keep having to scribble things out, you have to write so small to fix in the little boxes and then sometimes things get smudged etc etc and it just makes me want to tear out every page and not bother. What type of layouts do you use or can I ask do you still use the 'system' of bullet journaling with the key and migrating things?

    • @Lynnie_2510
      @Lynnie_2510 2 роки тому +5

      I bujo as perfectionist and it's helped me cope with my mistakes. (that and aesthetic note taking)

  • @mahefrancois5500
    @mahefrancois5500 3 роки тому +517

    Personnaly, i've noticed that i naturally quit bullet journaling like 2 months a year, and then, i go back. And i needed to tell to myself "it's okay, i don't have to feel guilty", because it's what allow me to use it the rest of the year with all my motivation !

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +45

      Definitely no guilt required! It seems like you have a natural rhythm going where you allow yourself to take breaks ❤️

    • @sharonm6580
      @sharonm6580 3 роки тому +13

      I do this too, and I've come to love it because it means I'm making the most of my journals. Unlike typical planners, where I end up with tons of blank pages, I can actually use a full notebook and not recycle a mostly-empty planner just because I've hit the new year.

    • @GorgeousWDattitude
      @GorgeousWDattitude 3 роки тому +9

      Me too. I do it when I feel the need (when I'm overwhelmed and have a lot going on). And if I take a break, I take a break. Some months/ days are overfilled with everything and some weeks on stretch are empty. That's just the way it is.

    • @annarocha3254
      @annarocha3254 3 роки тому +6

      Sometimes I quite for six months. A year. And then get back into it with renewed excitement. Hobbies aren't meant to chain you down. :)

    • @pizzalizzaa
      @pizzalizzaa 2 роки тому

      @@sharonm6580 .

  • @MeganWeller
    @MeganWeller 3 роки тому +853

    Definitely wasn’t expecting to see myself in the intro! 😅 I agree with all of your points - a lot of my issues came from the pressure to post each page on social media, which was the main reason I stopped making BuJo videos. I’m glad I tried it out though, because I learned some planning “basics” that I still use, just in a digital format!

  • @BookishLish
    @BookishLish 3 роки тому +646

    Awesome tip for people who don’t feel particularly “artistically inclined” or you don’t have time - use stickers! They add so much personality and color to a spread with literally no effort or time. On months where I feel like I need that little boost but I’m not really wanting to take the time to do something fancy, adding a couple cute stickers can make a huge difference.
    Also, I tend to use my BuJo very seasonally right now as a student. I love the flexibility of not feeling like I “have” to use it in the summer just because those pages exist in my planner. I hate the feeling that I’ve wasted space in a planner when I don’t use it so having the flexibility to pick up my BuJo when I need it and set it aside when I don’t has helped alleviate a lot of guilt for me associated with feeling the obligation to use a planner.

    • @RoosDeBloemologe
      @RoosDeBloemologe 3 роки тому +5

      This is such a honest video and i need to say thank you for being so kind..
      Just to hear a pro say it's all okay is the best help and advice someone can get! ❤❤🙏

    • @AG-bq2zd
      @AG-bq2zd 3 роки тому +8

      I wish stickers weren’t so expensive :’(

    • @sayuriando3379
      @sayuriando3379 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah. Currently I'm just having the first two pages of the month somewhat pretty. The rest is just lists of tasks. I also habe sometimes months missing or a month being only one page. Just noticed that since moving I'm much better in using it and putting the months in but I'm also less stressed do it makes sense.
      I was thinking about trying the passion notebooks but in the end I didn't even order one so it shows that I probaly wouldn't have used it at all.
      I'm going to have the excitment of changing my system because I got a B5 Notebook for my next. Technically I could stay with A5 but I miss the B5 which I used as my second. My current A5 has 3 almost 4 years in it which is something I didn't expect whne I started it.

    • @silviab5723
      @silviab5723 3 роки тому +6

      @@AG-bq2zd that's true.. that's why I often print them even on normal paper and then glue them, they are still cute

    • @svenskbonbon
      @svenskbonbon 3 роки тому +6

      @@AG-bq2zd Here are some budget-friendly options: Get a couple of neutral washi tapes (they cost less than $1 each with 10 meters on AliExpress or Shopee). Fill one or two pages with cute titles and quotes (or search for some printables on Pinterest), then print them and use them as stickers. If you can spend a little more, buy a couple of stamps (I just ordered two for $2 each). Get one or two pastel makers and highlight your titles and important events.

  • @chelseabos6922
    @chelseabos6922 2 роки тому +120

    As a recovering perfectionist, bullet journaling actually taught me that it doesn’t have to be perfect. I’m 4 years in now, and actually love seeing the progress I made as a person and artist as well

    • @sanjuthebanju
      @sanjuthebanju Рік тому +4

      i feel this!! bullet journaling taught me i need to be ok with making ugly things

    • @xio6778
      @xio6778 Рік тому

      You are not an artist

  • @m_here1
    @m_here1 3 роки тому +170

    I have been using the bujo system for years, and you touched on everything I used to notice when these videos would pop up in my feed. I have been using it for so long that I actually don’t change my spreads that often aside from the little artistic touches. It’s all about finding what works for you, not living up to someone else’s aesthetic

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +12

      I couldn’t agree more! I used to worry my spreads were too boring because I did the same thing every month (while switching up the theme) but I realized it’s just what works for me and that’s not worth compromising on for others’ entertainment!

  • @cirrusm.2829
    @cirrusm.2829 3 роки тому +130

    Another bujo quitter here :D
    My story: I'm autistic (with no ADHD) and love external rules, structure and systems. The amount of possibilities in a bullet journal absolutely terrifies me. "Do whatever you want!" is a real nightmare. When I have to make a choice myself, I'll spend time questioning it all the time. While it's there already printed, it's not going to happen as much.
    That's why I'm switching to a pre made planner. Still, bullet journaling has taught me a little spontaneity, so I won't be using all pages of my planner, and I'm adding some collections bullet journal style on the empty pages at the back. It wasn't a useless experience after all.

  • @x3lea866
    @x3lea866 3 роки тому +144

    Love these tips. Been bullet journaling since 2015 and going strong. I like my bujo to be pretty but it is too much pressure on me to be artistic everyday, so my monthly spreads I spend more time decking them out and daily and weekly spreads are super simple. My bullet journal is mine and only mine and I don’t feel pressured to make it perfect.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +10

      Yes 🙌 The artistic spreads are so much fun but you won’t catch me painting in my journal every single day LOL sometimes I just have to get shit done and have a basic list!

    • @amandah8225
      @amandah8225 3 роки тому +4

      I have been journalling sinve I was 12. Now, I am 45 and still going. Also recently doing midori travel. Love it!😍

    • @mariamshah338
      @mariamshah338 3 роки тому +1

      That last sentence keeps me going

  • @eona6548
    @eona6548 3 роки тому +165

    I’m quite a perfectionist and for a time I was so strict with my journal and it was always “perfect” but after I told myself to let loose and not be too particular, I found journaling therapeutic! And helped me break my perfectionism a little bit! My favourite spread was actually the one where I just throw whatever paper and stickers I had together without care at all!
    I hope everyone who tries bullet journaling let’s loose and allow their journal to be what it needs to be for them!

  • @xyzzy75
    @xyzzy75 3 роки тому +149

    My main problem with the bujo system was rewriting. I couldn't stand starting a new notebook because the thought of transferring all those reference collections was exhausting, and I didn't want to introduce errors into my collections with regular recopying. So my solution was twofold--I switched to a traveler's notebook so I could have a long term permanent collections insert, and I switched to what I call the PBB rolling weekly. I've been using the same permanent collections insert for about three years now, and I'm about to add a premade yearly calendar insert into my system so I can literally just use the daily log and rolling weekly portion of the bujo system and can stop rewriting calendars every 3-4 months. Combining bujo with what I took from GTD has been great for me and I like tweaking my system to make it work.

    • @jessatlife
      @jessatlife 3 роки тому +13

      Even the rewriting/transferring has a purpose, though. Ryder Carroll has explained it on several videos and articles, but basically, the rewriting is supposed to help you consider whether you really need this thing that you keep migrating or transferring. If there’s a task you keep rewriting, maybe it’s not as important. Or maybe it’s not the right time, so you put it back on the future log, for example. I have a “Someday Maybe” task list for some of these.
      As for redoing entire spreads on every notebook, you don’t always have to. Indexing and threading are there to help you find collections in your current and previous notebooks, and even link content among them. You can also always make the collection on a separate piece of paper and stick it to your journal with washi tape rather than glue, then replace it when you’re ready to migrate. You could also make a printable you can reuse. OR you could make a permanent collections insert! (As you commented.) I’ve tried this one but I prefer to keep my BuJo light. It already gets pretty bulky. But I may give it another try later.

    • @xyzzy75
      @xyzzy75 3 роки тому +11

      ​@@jessatlife My decisions about what goes in my permanent collections insert are very deliberate. Birthdays, anniversaries, people's clothing sizes, what I need to refill various items, etc. I gain no value in rewriting the same month's appointments 4 times a year. The only rewriting I do as part of bujo is moving todo list items, which is where I make the type of decisions about tasks that you talk about. Accidentally rewriting my cardiology appointment on the wrong day (which I have done more than once) is not an acceptable risk to me and seems useless in terms of the bujo philosophy.

    • @xyzzy75
      @xyzzy75 3 роки тому

      @pearlwhite21 Plant Based Bride's rolling weekly. She has a couple of videos on it.

    • @georgina676
      @georgina676 3 роки тому

      @Scarlet Baxter wait so what does he use the bullet journal for then?

  • @nfc598
    @nfc598 2 роки тому +19

    I too lost interest in bujo after about 2 years and moved into a conventional planner. I quickly felt stifled, limited and bored. I moved back into bujo and I am enjoying it again. I keep things simple when I need it to be and I get expressive and creative when I want to do that too. I really appreciate having total control based on my needs that month.

  • @mitchellstoycheff2549
    @mitchellstoycheff2549 3 роки тому +221

    A lot of these points really resonated with me. I don’t do a lot of bullet journaling, but I do craft a lot of art, and it’s really hard to get out out my own head sometimes. Thank you for the reminder to take my easy on myself.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +6

      Oof so relatable ❤ I'm glad this video resonated with you and I hope you can keep enjoying your art without getting too caught up in the sh*t that doesn't matter!

  • @jorinde85
    @jorinde85 3 роки тому +55

    I just picked up my bujo again after about a year and a half, and I like how I can just dive back into it and do whatever I need with it. No rules, no demands, just asking it to be there for me when I need it.
    By the way, I love your look and make-up in this video. Such warm colours that match your gorgeous hair perfectly!

  • @MelRos29
    @MelRos29 3 роки тому +75

    I was definitely a "burn bright, burn out" type. I absolutely loved the aesthetics I saw on UA-cam and other social media and for a few months I would spend a lot of time doing up spreads (and even occasionally filling them in throughout the month lol) but I didn't take the time to start by creating the habit. I've been tempted lately to try again and was putting it off due to fear of failure once again. Your suggestion to start with the basics is an excellent one and how I think I will try again. I do think I could benefit from the structure and organisation that a bullet journal can offer and I haven't given up on the idea altogether.
    Thank you for your video today, as well as all your others. I really love watching your monthly spreads and find them so relaxing and inspiring and your message today has given me hope that all is not lost. XXX

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +4

      Good luck! I hope starting with the basic system allows you to find what works for you and develop that habit ❤️

  • @TabithaBigbee
    @TabithaBigbee 2 роки тому +6

    I've been consistently Bullet Journaling since 2018 because my Bullet Journal is bare bones, messy, and totally focused on the method. You nailed it: straying from the method and making it about aesthetic, too many trackers, and too much "should" is the common factor for quitting.
    Bullet Journaling is the best thing that happened to my creative and productive life. I always encourage new journalers to watch Ryder's OG How-To AND NOTHING ELSE. A Bullet Journal is actually a tool for overcoming perfectionism if people follow your advice of NOT sharing their journal.
    Great video that I whole heartedly agree with! Yay, for messy journals but productive lives!

  • @hipstamom
    @hipstamom 3 роки тому +94

    I went minimalist because I got overwhelmed.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +9

      So relatable! And a great strategy to stick with it ❤

    • @jean_the_bean
      @jean_the_bean 3 роки тому +1

      same :D

    • @mik0759
      @mik0759 3 роки тому +2

      It's the other way around for me. I'm color-coding bec my mind drowns everything out if they're all in b&w. Apparently some areas in my life need bells & whistles for my brain to compartmentalize before giving them the time of day. It's still in keeping with minimalism, but in a colorful way lol. That's where a retractable pen with multi-ink barrel comes in handy :)

  • @JessicaSmith-gd1fu
    @JessicaSmith-gd1fu 3 роки тому +223

    I started bullet journaling two years ago at age 71 to remember things as well as plan things. I did the basics the first year. The second year I added some habit trackers. That was so illuminating to me and very helpful. I also added a monthly review page. Also helpful to me. This year I added a monthly art page as a way to experiment with watercolors. It is a simple inked line drawing with watercolor washes. September is the first month that I did not get one ready before the first of the month. Still isn't done. That's because I am knee deep in preparing a new flower bed for fall bulbs. If I miss it all together that will be ok. Thanks for this helpful video. What book are you using that allows the paint and does not buckle? I have been doing my art pages on a water color block and then pasting it in my journal. That is with the heaviest paper I could find in a journal online. Are you using acrylic paints? The spreads you showed were so vivid.

    • @papastummyfuzz9281
      @papastummyfuzz9281 2 роки тому +15

      What a good idea! I agree, if something doesn’t get done in a bujo, it’s OK! Especially when it’s because of something else in your life that makes you happy like a garden.

    • @cloudian975
      @cloudian975 2 роки тому +7

      awesome!!! :)

    • @nevisnebis1207
      @nevisnebis1207 Рік тому +2

      If I had to guess, she was using gouache (could have also just been watercolor paint). The best paper to ensure good performance for wet medium without buckling is heavy mixed media paper. Watercolor paper is best for watercolor paints, but if you plan to bullet journal, mixed media paper with a higher GSM will perform best for your purposes. You can find a lot of good quality sketchbooks to use for bullet journaling, even some with graph/grid patterns to easily balance your writing and designs.

    • @Housewrensnest
      @Housewrensnest Рік тому +1

      I too am a "late bloomer" and Bujo enthusiast. As an Expressive Arts Therapist, I tried to do too much too soon. But I followed Elizabeth early on and saw that she tried lots of ideas out. so I started to just do what worked for me. And that's why I stuck with it.

  • @TemiDansoArt
    @TemiDansoArt 3 роки тому +469

    00:13 Not me seeing my face in your video 😂😂😂

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +65

      Haha I had to include your thumbnail! I remember seeing your video in my timeline and gasping LOL 😂

    • @tinnixys
      @tinnixys 3 роки тому +6

      Yes

  • @sakhti9962
    @sakhti9962 2 роки тому +2

    I gave up for a while because I felt the need to use it as a calender/detailed planner. That doesn't work for me because I don't have it with me at all times ( unlike my phone) or check it daily. And I need the reminder(s) of a digital calender. Digital calenders also make it easier to move appointments and put in events with a pattern.
    I do use it for loosely planning personal stuff during the week, or day. I love the rolling calender for my week, and I think I got the idea from your channel. And I try to journal in it to create a record of both special and mundane things in my life. It helps me recall things I can't actively recall without it.
    I got back into it by just doing daily logs (rapid logging) for a while and completely ignoring the future log and monthly log. I did try a monthly log and future log again in my second notebook, but again didn't use it much. I haven't put those in my third one yet. I might make a monthly 'what has happened' overview though.

  • @UserxError
    @UserxError 3 роки тому +66

    I did bullet journaling for over 2 years and most of these reasons hit on here made me stop. It started out as helpful then I decided I wanted to share on Instagram/UA-cam and two months in it drained every ounce of enjoyment/productivity.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +17

      The performance aspect really drains the joy! I always tell people (and have to constantly remind myself) not to share everything they love online if they want to keep loving it 😅

  • @madhuriravi153
    @madhuriravi153 3 роки тому +25

    One of my friends recently expressed interest in keeping a planner for the first time, and funnily enough, felt all of these pressures. She hadn't even started bullet journalling, but was already feeling bad about her planner's titling being off and the lack of doodles and colour in it. And I completely get it. I felt those pressures when I started too. But when I realised that the productive benefits were so much more important than my aesthetic missteps, that's when it truly became a part of my life.
    I have a bullet journal now because I'm a masters student with 2 side gigs and I desperately need to stay organised. But I'm also aware that once I start working full time, I might just buy a daily planner and call it a day! At the end of the day, it's all about productivity.

  • @susiebolt4021
    @susiebolt4021 3 роки тому +30

    I may not have done the exhaustive research of watching every "why I'm quitting bujo" videos, but I've seen a few and these observations are spot-on. It boils down to people making it more time consuming than they can handle and putting too much pressure on themselves to make it beautiful. Luckily, I have no delusions of artistic ability so I've never been tempted to make mine pretty or perfect. I started by watching the official "How to Bullet Journal" video and was instantly drawn to how flexible yet simple the system is. I keep my own journal as simple as possible, and have never been overwhelmed by my own bujo.

  • @lakpadomasherpa8929
    @lakpadomasherpa8929 2 роки тому +1

    Gosh! This is really what i wanted to know.... Thank you so much for this very useful video.. God... I made a good decision by clicking on your video.....

  • @n9na_marie
    @n9na_marie 3 роки тому +37

    i am so glad to have found your channel! you bring such a level of realism back to the social media realm, and I just adore you!! thank you so much for the content that you make, it always feels as though I'm hanging out with a friend who is always teaching me something new

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +4

      Aw thank you! That’s so kind ❤️❤️ and I’m so glad you found a method that works for you!

  • @chellybean21
    @chellybean21 3 роки тому +8

    YES THANK YOU! I love getting ideas from others and seeing their creative side but I always try to remember to tailor it to my own needs above anything. I'm not a "weekly" page setup person at all, instead I love having a monthly setup that I can look at with monthly goals to make sure I'm keeping on track. I love bullet journaling its helped my mental health so much and I'm so glad that you made this video to remind/inform people that it's not important what other people think it's about what's helpful to each individual!

  • @momtriesgaming
    @momtriesgaming 3 роки тому +62

    I was definitely getting overwhelmed so I took a little break from the design aspect and printed off a planner-type page that fitted with how my weeklies normally go. It's helped as I still need the organizational part of the bujo system. And now enough time as past, I'm excited to switch it up with some more creative. Sometimes, we just need a little reset.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +6

      That sounds like a great method to reframe your mindset!

    • @Whoknows-mf1cv
      @Whoknows-mf1cv 3 роки тому +2

      That’s what I’ve been considering! I don’t really get the point of drawing out the same tracker grids and calendar spreads every month when I could just print them and glue them to my page.

    • @videoamador7922
      @videoamador7922 3 роки тому

      @@Whoknows-mf1cv I'm thinking of printing the calendars and habit trackers too. I hate drawing squares, even with rulers, I'm very impatient and make many mistakes. But I love collage and cutting things, so that will be artistic enough for me I guess.

  • @michekke
    @michekke 3 роки тому +21

    Bullet journaling for six years now and still in love!
    I'm an art director and my calendar is a place where my design doesn't have to be perfect or judged, that's very relaxing

  • @angelazeiler6838
    @angelazeiler6838 3 роки тому +31

    Great video and so true. 🧡 I have a very minimalistic bujo for work, but I never needed a private one. Here I switched to a reading journal. It's the perfect solution for me 😊

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much! That’s a great solution 🤎 I’m also a big fan of splitting into multiple notebooks if that works for your brain/allows you to avoid recreating spreads too often!

  • @beccabaxter7528
    @beccabaxter7528 Рік тому +3

    Enjoyed your video. I am new to journaling. I have had the urge to rip out pages, but now that I am in for a few weeks I enjoy seeing my progress. As I go on I am starting to feel more comfortable in letting my creativity be what it is. I remind myself there are no rules or correct way. The whole point is to have it work for me, that is why I quit buying planners and guided journals to begin with. Thank you for the encouragement!

  • @mort902
    @mort902 2 роки тому +1

    My wife introduced me to Bullet Journaling almost four years ago, and I use it every day. It keeps me on track, and productive, in a way that I could never achieve using electronic calendars and reminders. That said, I could never understand the desire to take a simplistic, useful method and "girl" it up (sorry, don't hate). Maybe it's because I'm a guy and my thinking is much more linear than creative, but I use the simplest, most minimalistic journaling method I can, and I am so much more productive than I've ever been, and very rarely does anything slip through the cracks (wow, that was a terribly long sentence).
    Thanks for the video. I truly enjoyed it.

  • @karenjones3580
    @karenjones3580 3 роки тому +10

    You comments are right on point! When I first started, I felt so much pressure to make all the beautiful spreads and track everything! Over the past couple of years I have worked through it and landed on spreads that work for me. There are times when I don't plan in it or set up a month, but the beautiful thing is - it doesn't matter. I can pick it up and start right again - right where I am. I always use my bullet journal for travel plans, party planning, and the holidays! Thank you for sharing your research. Thoroughly enjoy watching your channel.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +1

      Yes exactly! It doesn’t matter. We have to learn to let that stuff go ❤️ no one is marking our bujos to make sure we completed each spread or used it each and every day! Thank you so much 🥰

  • @Axiniana
    @Axiniana 2 роки тому +2

    I realized that I didn't even need specific spreads! And this one was a shocker.
    I only need a continuous to-do list, and I'd rather it was pretty. So I buy a nice notebook with colored pages, and I decorate it with stickers and sometimes art, and that's it. Then it's a non-stop list of bullet points. I don't think this qualifies as a bujo, but it is useful and beautiful and that's about all I need.

  • @vickiececcato8149
    @vickiececcato8149 3 роки тому +14

    This is a wonderful video, explaining why we call it quits tells us that you’re listening to us, you’re framing yourself as the expert that you are and engaging your audience in a way that supports them when they feel vulnerable. It’s so refreshing to know that I support a savvy but authentic bullet journalist!

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +3

      Oh thank you! That is so kind of you to say ❤️ that was certainly my intention and I’m very glad it translated through the screen 🥰

  • @luellahobson2865
    @luellahobson2865 3 роки тому +1

    I started not to watch your video. Once you started speaking, I saw myself in every topic. It was refreshing to realize that I wasn’t the only one. I have pens, pencils, markers, paints, paper all kinds of paper. Paints, paint brushes. I have so many empty journals I can’t count. I am naturally a creative person. I love doing projects. I am not an artist but I love art. I have set up four journals for one year, yet I have never finished one! I’ve never finished one due to every reason you spoke to. My latest project is a journal I can carry in my bag daily. I need a calendar, show appointments, prescriptions for that month, and a financial chart. I just ordered a 3 1/2 by 6 journal and I will begin with just those things to see how I do.
    I’m retired now and really do nothing daily, but I still need to keep up.
    Thank you so much for sharing, it really helped me confirm what I need to do.

  • @Maincoon77
    @Maincoon77 3 роки тому +10

    Great advice! I've been bullet journaling since 2012 and found using collage in mine instead of doodling or drawing every time helps a lot with keeping it a creative outlet, but saving time that I don't have. I love drawing but just didn't have the time. Now I print pictures of shows, actors, music, books, etc that I'm interested in at the time which also turns it sort of into a collection journal without any extra steps. Pictures, stickers, and a single paper pad from a craft store for some colorful details and backgrounds and it makes it so much quicker without losing that artistic element.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +3

      I love the collage/scrapbook style! I’ve been doing it in my reading journal and it’s so fun ❤️

  • @TheHiroClaw123
    @TheHiroClaw123 3 роки тому +1

    From what I understood, there's a huge divide between how the original bujo works/how it's supposed to help you, vs how the internet perceives it to work/how it helps them. I'm talking mainly about its methodology rather than its aesthetics.
    Everytime I look up a concept about bujo like its daily log, I see many different examples of how people used or still uses their daily logs. After checking Ryder's videos on the same concept, I notice there's a stark difference with how he's been using it compared to everyone else.
    I never got into the community at all because I always related more to the original methodology. I felt as though his explanations made more sense, and I trusted the person who spent 20 years figuring it out, but no matter what I did, there was not a single consistent explanation anywhere on what the purpose of migration was, how daily logging never required you to rewrite tasks every day, how you're supposed to "check in with yourself". Even Ryder's videos themselves never go into detail and it was incredibly frustrating.
    It felt as though I was writing on a book with no idea about what it was supposed to do. And no matter how much information was given to me about bullet journaling, everything seemed to talk about something completely unrelated. That's why I personally quit bujo and decided to return back to simple planning techniques

  • @mic3587
    @mic3587 3 роки тому +33

    I started in January 2020 and it took me until April to figure out how to use it. I've never really used a Future Log, though I continue to include them in my set ups, but my biggest issue was weeklies. I was setting up boxes for each day of the week and I'd occasionally add stuff into them, but my work often doesn't have hard and fast deadlines, so having something so structured hindered me. I eventually discovered dailies which got me into actual journalling and made the task portion easier and then I found your rolling weekly setup. I use it all the time as it allows me to write out all my tasks for a week and check off when they're worked on or done- I still include regular weeklies, but they're much smaller and only have room for a few tasks.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +3

      I’m so happy to hear that the rolling weekly is working for you! It really is a game changer ❤️

  • @tealsoda
    @tealsoda 3 роки тому +1

    Great tips/points!
    My advice when people ask me about bullet journaling is to start as simply as possible and see what feels helpful or useful. All you need to start is a notebook and a pen, then maybe a ruler. Highlighters are the cheapest and easiest way to add color!

  • @debbiecamp2205
    @debbiecamp2205 3 роки тому +19

    I love to watch all of the BuJo videos. My creative imagination follows a different path. So I use stickers, stamps, and washi tape. I also use my journal as a brain dump. I have all of my appointments on my phone and on a monthly spiral-bound calendar. Thank you for sharing your talent.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому

      Stickers, stamps, washi, Printables, stencils… there’s so many awesome options to add a little more colour and detail to spreads without having to draw or paint them yourself! And thank you 🥰

  • @danielle2451
    @danielle2451 Рік тому +1

    This is the most helpful video I've come across so far

  • @petitsjoujoux5011
    @petitsjoujoux5011 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you for sharing with us! I follow the chapters of a book I love for a whole year as theme, so I don't need to spend time worrying about what to draw, what to write and what if I happen to lack creativity that month!

  • @717UT
    @717UT Рік тому +1

    I ran across bullet journaling and thought, "huh, that's interesting" and pretty much disregarded it. I like to write, so I have kept an on again off again journal for over 20 years. The only bullet characteristics I use are: I like to keep full calendars and divide my writing by months and then organize completed journals with an index to quickly find certain dates. And second, I keep a small book with me for a rolling errands list and to jot down random stuff whenever it strikes me. I always thought the rigid rules on the bullet style were too up tight for me. I just like to write.

  • @kenwave
    @kenwave 3 роки тому +35

    I tend to err on the side of minimalistic when bullet journaling. My title page usually has the most artistry in it and as someone who has a creative job, I don't need it as a creative outlet. The only time I stopped bullet journaling was because i was having an entire planning crisis and kept going through different planners and styles lol

  • @wendyvancamp1738
    @wendyvancamp1738 3 роки тому +10

    I am glad you brought up that you DO NOT have to be an artist and create art to use a bullet journal. I've been using a BuJo since the first year it was put out by Carroll. I used to sketch and paint in mine for all the monthly and weekly spreads. At a certain point, I realized that I simply do not have the time for all that art and still keep up with my day. I'd rather put the time into art that I can sell in my ETSY shop or at art shows. I almost quit the BuJo and considered returning to pre-printed planners even though they did not always serve my purpose. That is when I gave mysel permission to have a bare basic Bujo. Simple Black Pen, White Page. No sketching. My one return to "art" was to purchase a variety of BuJo stencils to create a number of popular spreads. Wow. What a different that made. I now create clean, simple tables, calendars, charts with the stencils in record time and the rest is simple handwriting. I've been on this new system for two years and plan to continue this way. I love the Bullet Journal method. It keeps me on track in my own way.

  • @thalitaviegas7964
    @thalitaviegas7964 3 роки тому +19

    All this video is so true and necessary. I started getting overwhelm by the artistic layouts I already found online, but them I remember the purpose and after reading the ryder carroll's book, it helps me a lot to keep things simple and useful for me.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +1

      I’m so glad you were able to refocus on what matters to you! ❤️

  • @ohboketto
    @ohboketto 3 роки тому +11

    I’m so glad that I watched this video! The part where you stated that “bullet journaling is a marathon” really resonates with me. I’ll be sure to take all this advice and start applying it to my bullet journaling mindset! Thank you~

  • @studio.spirit
    @studio.spirit 3 роки тому +6

    Wow, shocked 🤩 I saw my thumbnail on your (as in the OG, plant based bride) video! Ahhhhhhh! I said I Quit …. But I have a itch to start again…. And already ordered a PBB B5 olive branch Green Leather bundle which might be here in a week or two…🤷‍♀️😜. I feel as though, I have a Ross and Racheal thing going on with my BUJOs 🤣

  • @umbrella5227
    @umbrella5227 2 роки тому +1

    I apreciate the research! It's so helpful! I listened to you carefully. But frankly speaking, the hard candy aroma and bright sun rays from you distracted me sometimes, in a good way. Thank you so much for sharing the atmosphere and good mood as well 😊. You inspired me to create with bullet journal and now I know how to do it right. Thank to you 😘

  • @beckypeter9723
    @beckypeter9723 3 роки тому +27

    The time reason is exactly why I started making my own stickers for each month. I still get to change up the theme but monthly spreads take me only 30 minutes as opposed to hours!!

  • @zissizalana6850
    @zissizalana6850 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this! I was just on my way to Chapters to buy a planner as I quit my bullet journal. I have absolutely no artistic ability, so was always feeling bad that my journals were ugly. I will go back to the bare basics and try again!!

  • @MintChocChip100
    @MintChocChip100 3 роки тому +4

    Love this video!! I went through phases with my bullet journals, skipping months when I didn’t need it and jumping right back in when I know I have a busy month. It does take quite the mindset change to realize that I’m writing my bullet journal for me and thus I should only do spreads that are right for me!

  • @askNatasha82
    @askNatasha82 2 роки тому +1

    4.5 minutes into this video & I love it. It’s 2022 and I’ve been journaling since 2017 and even longer than that. I fell into the hole of artsy/creative/perfectionist/performative madness and it made me miserable to journal. So I have finally stopped the madness, got off the rollercoaster that is this crazy need to make everything pretty and took it back to basics. Just pen & paper. If I need something to pop out & stay to the forefront, I grab a sticker or washi or mild liner. It works for now. But the NEED to make it perfect is gone & the pressure along with it. I love this video because it’s nice to see others seeing the light! 😊

  • @moniquespaans9516
    @moniquespaans9516 3 роки тому +3

    All I want to say is thank you.
    I'm one of those quitters and yes I did start a new journal again this month.
    But now I made it simple, took some of your ideas even made some mistakes.
    And you know what, I don't care because I can make mistakes.
    Thank you for showing me the way, now it's down to me to fill up this month and continue to follow this concept for a few months.
    A big thank you, keep up the good work. 👍🏻

  • @feroshus
    @feroshus 3 роки тому

    I've ordered my first bullet journal and have been watching lots of videos and posts in preparation to start it for 2022. This is by far my favourite video. I think it has an ESSENTIAL message. Thank you.

  • @m0L3ify
    @m0L3ify 3 роки тому +8

    I'm not artistic - if I can make a semi-3D-looking box around some text I'm like "Woo! I did an art!" so it's really intimidating to see all of these extremely artistic, beautiful journals. There's no way I'd even get close to that. Thanks for emphasizing getting back to basics and that just doing the bare bones is enough. I haven't even started bullet journaling and was just looking for videos that explained how it's done and have very suddenly found myself inside a competitive artist rabbit hole from hell! It gets so complex, it's extremely hard for beginners to understand how it works. So thanks for this video, it helps shed light on why I'm experiencing this. 😅

  • @triciamoss9074
    @triciamoss9074 3 роки тому

    Such good points! The nice thing about being in your 40s is feeling no pressure to impress anyone. Several of the points relate to this need to be seen and validated. To compare is to despair. That is the double-edged sword of looking at other people's spreads for inspiration. I do it too, but not to excess and with my own goals in mind. My journal is completely private and for ME. Sometimes it is prettier than others, but above all, it is an organizational tool. Function over form.
    I love that you show your early plain journals, which are just the basics. I think a lot of people try to make it fancy and pretty before making it useful and that is a mistake.

  • @elmagodelmotor
    @elmagodelmotor 3 роки тому +4

    THANK YOU
    as always, you articulate everything so well!
    i'm a high school teacher and planners already done don't work for me so bullet journal is like : i can do whatever i want. i can be a lot influenced by the artistic side of the bujo. i love it. but my main reason is to be productive and get my tasks done.
    i decided to take a break for the summer and just don't bullet journaling. i realized that i didn't have to be over the top and i decided to take it easy this year for the bullet journaling.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +2

      Aw thank you! I’m so glad taking a step back helped you clear up your priorities and come back with a new perspective ❤️

  • @HeySmileYourBeautifu
    @HeySmileYourBeautifu 2 роки тому

    I started my bojo not even a few month ago and (this is my first time ever stumbling across your channel) after seeing this video … I took it back out, opened to a clean page & wrote down these five reasons down. I will continue to write them down as I start my bojo again, this video made me feel like I’ve been set free. Thank you!

  • @traceyputt9064
    @traceyputt9064 3 роки тому +6

    I have hit all of those roadblocks. You absolutely nailed it. I had to take quite a few breaks from bullet journaling because of them. I know I'm a happier me when I journal, not to mention my life runs smoother. So, I found a system that worked for me and let go of perfectionism. Then I made bullet journaling part of my self care routine to alleviate the guilt of taking time to do it. Now I take this book everywhere with me lol

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +2

      I’m so glad you’ve found a way forward! ❤️

  • @lollisaur
    @lollisaur 2 роки тому +1

    this is exactly why i quit bujo a year ago- i was turning the tool into a hinderance. i’m using your videos and advice to get back to it right now!

  • @lauramirtich6732
    @lauramirtich6732 3 роки тому +4

    I think the best thing you can do to ensure success is think about what you’ve always been missing in store-bought planners that you’ve tried and put them into your own bullet journal. For example, I’m a remote worker who makes their own schedule (I just have to hit a weekly hour total), so I needed space to track these hours, which I could never find elsewhere. It went in the bullet journal.
    And liberally cut what isn’t necessary, even if many others do it. I don’t even have monthly spreads, just weekly and a year overview. I also don’t use the traditional system for migrating tasks between days…I’m not even sure my bullet journal could be called a bullet journal, maybe just a customized planner. But it’s fine, because it keeps me organized and productive!

  • @KaysonAmethyst
    @KaysonAmethyst 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the video! I’m 3 years in now.
    I have OCD so my BUJO is relaxing because I actually don’t use rulers or measure anything. I just go with the flow and it makes it an outlet for me. I’ll be doing BUJO videos starting 2022 so it was nice to know all of these tips!!

  • @robynclift5741
    @robynclift5741 3 роки тому +4

    This video has come at the perfect time! My work/life schedule is all out of whack and trying to keep a pretty BuJo is just unattainable yet I refuse to admit it 🤣 I used to love it because artistically, it's so relaxing, but it's just a bit unrealistic for me at the minute!! really helpful thankyou! x

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +1

      It’s ok if you need to simplify for a while! You can always come back to the more artistic spreads when you have time to breathe ❤️❤️

  • @linneaalskarkakor2519
    @linneaalskarkakor2519 3 роки тому +1

    Great points! I found that the midori md paper monthly calendar stickers took away a lot of pressure, because i need that grid monthly overview, or I’m lost. Now that I have them I’m happily back with my bulletjournal and my monthly set up involves sticking the sticker to the left side of a double page, writing the month on the right and adding goals, a quote, something I discovered, or god forbid: nothing. I love this shortcut. It takes away ALL the pressure. Almost. The rest went away when I very deliberately stopped watching bujo videos or browsing instagram. Yours is the only bujo content I watch because I love the art, not necessarily because it is bullet journal content ;)

  • @dolphixwaters319
    @dolphixwaters319 3 роки тому +4

    i dont do bullet journaling (im planning to start) but i do art journaling and i really enjoy it. i think that as long as you dont compare yourselves to others or dont give yourself high expectations, you'll be fine. i like doing journaling because it makes me relaxed and i have a lot of fun with it. i think you should do bullet journaling or art journaling for *you* not anyone else. i hope i don't end up quitting because so far i really enjoy art journaling and am excited to get into bullet journaling. to anyone else wanting to start, remember to do bullet journaling for yourself and not anything else. don't stress out if you miss a day or don't feel like doing a spread. no one will judge you

  • @beahallberg7822
    @beahallberg7822 3 роки тому

    This video is actually the best one I've seen on this topic ever. Yes, these are all things that made me quit or take breaks from Bullet Journaling! Although I'm back into it right now, I have been so tired of it at times that I wouldn't even look at the book I did my journaling in. Now I'm back to what worked for me - just dailies and a quick (but nice) spread for each month to look at and space things out a bit. Also just using 3 pens and nothing else. One grey brush pen for a bit of colour, one fineliner for writing, and a biro pen for quick scribbles. I can bring it with me at all times, I don't need 50 different colours with me at all times, and I don't get overwhelmed. It just WORKS. And to find this all I had to do was go back through my old BuJos and look at the times I had a working system. There's just the basics (although I don't even use all of the basics, to be honest!), and nothing else. A little artsy lines here and there, but mostly just pen on paper and as minimal as can be. And that is honestly such a relief, because when I use this system it actually works for me. Until I get overwhelmed, that is. And that rarely happens when going back to the basics that work for me!

  • @DavidVilchezVilela
    @DavidVilchezVilela 3 роки тому +4

    This video made me feel soooo good. About the way I do my bujo, thank you so much.
    This method of organization should fit myself and not the expectations of somebodyelse

  • @heidibeimborn2090
    @heidibeimborn2090 3 роки тому +1

    This is wonderful to hear. 💛
    I ebb and flow with use of my journal. There have been times when I skip months at a time because I didn’t have the mental bandwidth to set something up or even open my journal. Sometimes I set up spreads, but leave calendars and trackers empty.
    In my previous career I needed weekly spreads and notes, and even had my grocery lists. In my career now I don’t have a purpose for weekly or daily spreads. Just this year my monthly spreads morphed from title page+calendar > title page+calendar+simple trackers+meal planning calendar > then I added a finances/bills spread > to title page+calendar+finances/bills. The spreads I keep up with regularly are my period tracker, books to read, books I’ve read, monthly bill checklist - and that’s ok!
    I have learned I am not beholden to my journal, that my journal is there to work for me when I need it and I shouldn’t feel bad when it isn’t working.

  • @inkitect
    @inkitect Рік тому +4

    I started bullet journaling a few years ago. At first my spreads were very artistic. I fell in love with the art, the process. Then my ADHD self started going off map. I found I'd set up a couple months ahead, but then I'd get soo busy that I'd have trouble keeping up. I seem to cycle between actively trying to stay on top of my life (so using the bujo dedicatedly) and losing complete sight of everything, and being mostly in survival mode. Now when I go back through, I see dynamic changes based on what was going on in my life. When I'm depressed, my journal is depressed or ignored. When I am inspired- you see the goals! I think its just really important to take what you need and let the rest go. Simplistic or artistic, this system continues to help me stay focused and accountable. It also shows me that sometimes I have too many habits to track - too many tasks to do - too much 'stuff' on my plate. When I can physically see that I literally cannot manage this much stuff then I know its time to simplify. Happy bujo'ing :D

  • @zeehuss7275
    @zeehuss7275 3 роки тому

    You have the MOST BEAUTIFUL writing and drawing skills in the whole world. My eyes can't get over how beautiful your journel is. I'd never have believed you've done it with your hands, it looks printed. Please do videos on how to draw/colour and share your talent with us. Pleeeeeaaaase!

  • @MintChocChip100
    @MintChocChip100 3 роки тому +5

    One tip I have for keeping up bullet journalling while balancing a very busy schedule: I have the exact same layout every time (monthly log, notes page, weekly logs). I’ve been bujo-ing for 2.5 years so I know what works for me. same layouts month, same black pen. Once I have the backbone in, I change up the color scheme and titles and add the drawings etc. I like to draw the “backbone” a few weeks early while watching tv or lecture and then spend a relaxing afternoon later to add the artistic stuff. I also would draw the whole month in advance as to not maintain it every week!

  • @Gwenobbie
    @Gwenobbie 3 роки тому +2

    My bujo was SO simple and concise. Nothing in it exept practical stuff. I abandonned it when I started a regular job cause i didn't need the structure anymore, since my regular schedule provided it.
    Excellent video!

  • @ks7343
    @ks7343 3 роки тому +6

    It’s so freeing to remember that my Bukolt is for me and me alone! That really helps me set it up how ever I want.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому

      Yes!! So important to remember and freeing, too 🙌

  • @marrrukisa
    @marrrukisa 2 роки тому +2

    I've never really understood why there was so much pressure to make 'perfect' bullet journals, but your videos wrapped up everything I speculated about it.
    Me personally, I always try to keep my journals just as simple as possible because of my tendency of getting bored eeextremely quickly.
    So instead of doing really long task that will bore me out, I always just do one or two page for spread to list out what to do that day and sort of like diary. And then use stickers. And other stuff to help. There's a lot of ways to cut corners and just have fun but I think people still struggle to cross the boundary sometimes, especially with a lot of people showcasing their 'perfect' creations.

  • @mleeho
    @mleeho 3 роки тому +3

    I love this video. I've been bullet journaling since 2016. I've always felt the silent hum of pressure to use it EVERY SINGLE DAY and make it super aesthetic, but my life doesn't work like that. I work a scattered schedule with no daily routine. But it's why I love the system. I set up a monthly bare bone style page, list my tasks and work days, and decorate any free space. Then the rest of my pages are ~whatever~ my ADHD brain wants - a doodle page, a list of things I need for the one time thing, a grocery list, car maintenance. Some weeks I use it EVERY SINGLE DAY, other months, I just check once a week. My journal breathes and flows with the pace of my life.

  • @amandafoxton6463
    @amandafoxton6463 10 місяців тому

    I am in my first month of bullet journalling. Thank you so much for posting this video. I feel as if I need to be able to do calligraphy and art. I working my way through this month and noting what works and what doesnt. I also moved this last month. I am disabled and suffer with nemerous autoimmune diseases and heart failure and I have found some chronic illness spreads which is essential for me. Self care is also very important as I tend towards self neglect. I have no idea why I am rambling on. I will definitely use your weeklies. Thank you so much Amanda

  • @pieroschlochauer2186
    @pieroschlochauer2186 2 роки тому +4

    4 years going strong here. I try to keep it as minimalistic as I can so I don’t feel pressured or overwhelmed on my bad days, and it takes me 2 minutes to set my daily log.

  • @PrinsesFox3
    @PrinsesFox3 2 роки тому +1

    "So I can get my shit together" - Yass! That sums up the whole deal, I think :)
    Thank you for this, fun video - as a science research lover this was a nice other-type-of-video on the same subject (bullet journaling) :)

  • @maddielouwho
    @maddielouwho 3 роки тому +3

    This video feels like something I should have had to pay for because it’s just so well done and educational for bullet journaling

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +1

      Oh wow, thank you! Haha ❤️ I really appreciate that.

  • @bronwynblackburn1435
    @bronwynblackburn1435 3 роки тому

    Thank you very much. I am Very New to Journaling - about 72 hours (lol) and this video in fact was the kick start I needed to continue my original ideas. I realised now, that I've been doing various versions of journals for years. I now have my Stitching Journal, My filofax style diary (lasted 6 weeks before I abandoned it), what I now refer to as my writing (thoughts) journal and my 'make it pretty' dotted journal. I've indeed jumped in the deep end, starting with an impulse purchase of washi tape, then 'nice' textas and finally a dotted journal. I now have a more defined idea of what I want to do - my mantra HAS to be Don't OverThink it!!! This process HAS helped me in the past week and I thank you for your honest words I will be binge watching your playlist this weekend.

  • @curiousnita
    @curiousnita 3 роки тому +3

    This is so accurate ❤️ i started journaling to stay productive with the bare bone just notes zero doodles and drawings... Over time I started decorative opening pages and that's the only thing I still do ❤️🙏

  • @ErosZoe
    @ErosZoe 3 роки тому +1

    I honestly couldn't live without my BuJo, but I do avoid any social media scrolling when it comes to them. I also love your rolling weeklies, they have added a way better system for me. Thank you for all that you do!

  • @yunastardust_
    @yunastardust_ 3 роки тому +5

    I do it for my mental health, whenever I journal it calms my mind. Whatever perfectionism is holding me back in my sketchbooks and artworks, it’s not allowed in my Bujo, because I NEED it. It’s my planner after all 😃

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +2

      I love that! No perfectionism allowed ❤️

  • @floopajoopa
    @floopajoopa 3 роки тому +1

    I so appreciate this video 🥰 I want a multi purpose journal for 2022 and am super interested in bullet journaling, but was really worried about keeping up with the artistic aspect. Seeing your first journal gives me inspiration that the artistic aspect is something I can grow into slowly

  • @Bareena-ok5ji
    @Bareena-ok5ji 3 роки тому +3

    The reason I journal is to keep myself going, to look back and see my progress, to to look back on all memories and for visual pleasure💜

  • @joymiraglia3183
    @joymiraglia3183 3 роки тому

    I have never bullet journaled and never looked into it at all until this morning. With the new year approaching, I’m looking to replace my old pre-printed productivity planner/gratefulness journal with something that works better for me. After reading a very long and complicated explanation of how to do it, I felt more confused than ever. So I turned to UA-cam and this was the first video I chose to watch. Thank you thank you thank you!!!! I’m going to start with the minimalist approach and maybe we’ll see where it goes. I have no intention of sharing mine :-) but in a sea of pretty and complicated things, I knew it was likely I would quit if it becomes overwhelming and useless. Great post! I’ll watch the other video now.

  • @maymayrays
    @maymayrays 3 роки тому +15

    Wow… I’m super glad I started bullet journaling in 2014, early days. It seems to have morphed into something that likely wouldn’t have changed my life as much as the earlier incarnations. Best wishes to anyone who can make sense of this video. My advice? Thanks for asking 😂… Watch Ryder Carroll’s original videos and get to actual work. You’re worth it, and you can do it. 🖤

  • @emmi0712
    @emmi0712 3 роки тому

    next year will be my 4th year of bullet journaling. the last years my bullet journal was only around 20 pages, because I was to overwhelmed with creating those beautiful spreads or school was just so much and I didn't have the time for it. After those three years I think I finally know what I need to do and what I don't need. I love to create artworks in my bullet journal but I'm not going to do it on all pages, like I used to do. Your tips were also very helpful and I think I am going to do the same weekly spreads every month, because I always struggle with coming up with new ideas. I love to watch your videos, because they keep me motivated and less afraid of trying new things!

  • @katfavre5861
    @katfavre5861 3 роки тому +6

    I was actually dealing with a bunch of these earlier this year! I started simply a few years ago but during quarantine, since I was at home all the time taking online classes, I had enough time and creative energy to make my journal really pretty and fancy with a bunch of extra things. As I got vaccinated and went back to work, I felt like I had to keep up that level of commitment even though I didn't really have time or energy for it anymore, so I got burned out over the summer. I want to come back to making my own journal in the future, but for the meantime I've decided to take a break this year and use Amandarachlee's Doodle Planner instead so I can still have a little big of the classic bujo spreads and flexibility, but all the art and spreads are done for me and I just get to color it in as I go. I've been using mine for a few weeks now and I think this is a good break before I dive back in

  • @susanstievenart6814
    @susanstievenart6814 3 роки тому

    Super helpful video. I love using a bullet journal but found I had lost my way a bit and was looking to figure out why. This has helped me see what is important and why I started journaling in the first place. Thank you SO much.

  • @julia-here
    @julia-here 3 роки тому +13

    Such a great video. All truth!

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much, Julia! This was such an interesting video to put together 🤎

  • @vio3366
    @vio3366 2 роки тому

    I'm so glad I found this video, I have bought my first journal to start but I don't have enough stationery so I really thought I needed lots of stationery or that you needed to track every single thing and that made me feel overwhelmed, now I will start my with a minimalistic approach, what really matters is that our journals work for us.

  • @Amyduckie
    @Amyduckie 3 роки тому +6

    Omg this is brilliant! I only quit because I decided I wanted a Hobonichi. 😂 but I used the system in my hobo. However, I’ve always stuck mostly with Ryder Carroll’s version of it and even though I’m an artist, I just have no desire to try anything like what you see online. Though I like looking at them, especially yours. But I need it to be simple or I one hundred percent would quit.

    • @PlantBasedBride
      @PlantBasedBride  3 роки тому +1

      It sounds like you know yourself and what you need! Not everyone is so self aware 😅❤

    • @fagerdam
      @fagerdam 3 роки тому +1

      I also went for the Hobonichi - and use bullet journal methods in it.

    • @sycamore478
      @sycamore478 3 роки тому

      Same. Bujo is supposed to be good for those of us with ADHD but I found that I need at least a little base structure.

    • @Amyduckie
      @Amyduckie 3 роки тому

      @@sycamore478 I’m adhd, I’ve found I do better if I bujo vs using a hobo, but I have to stick to that base structure. Fancy pages throw things off for me and it becomes a chore.

  • @moonstalker2469
    @moonstalker2469 3 роки тому

    All very good points! I used to be very bad at journaling because I’ve always found all that blank space intimidating, but when I discovered bujo I figured out how to tailor journaling to myself. My monthly spreads are a creative outlet and are helping me with mental health, but the dailies I do now are little journal entries. I literally divide a b5 size page into thirds with a line, pop the dates on each section and that’s it. I have a single monthly to do and I schedule on the calendar spread because I like the little boxes… but it took months to figure out what worked for me. I tried so many different spreads and ideas until I figured out my method.
    Thank you for the reminder that just because I love the artistic side of bujo just as much as the practical doesn’t mean I should feel pressured to live up to some imaginary standard. My adoration of stickers is just as valid and my love of drawing, and using stickers when I have less time one month doesn’t make it any less mine or any less creative.