being beaten as a child is not the same as being beaten as an adult. as a kid being beaten means the parent cares for you and wants you to know what you did could bring you pains. as an adult you are presumed to know whats wrong and what right thats why parents stop besting you. you can make mistakes because you can deal with the consequences yourself as an adult. kuna umri ukifika ata wazazi awawezi kukuguza. that link doesnt make sense at at.
My parents were right, I have a better life now because of how strict they were, finished high school and university, meanwhile my cousin who was called Boi is an alcoholic juu ya kubembelezwa.
0:55 If it's about help, I will help anyone and I would actually gravitate towards the less attractive girl. Those society places less value on show more heartfelt appreciation, so I'll feel more blessed. Actually, I remember a local rugby game where some very physically attractive girl was abusing another girl. It took a lot of willpower for me not intervene. But if it's about impressing, I might find myself simping for an attractive service provider (waitress, nurse, air hostess, receptionist etc). I've only protected myself because the words of my aunt "looks are deceptive" always ring in my mind. So, I'm not stupid enough to unconditionally prioritize physical beauty.
I dont know why i feel Njeri wa Migwi is angry , she feels frustrated in my view. Anyways, opinions are all valid but it doesnt mean that what you say/or tell me is right and what i do is wrong. It was a great panel thou. Good work Kingori Dkt, Pinky, Njeri and the crew.
I'm lost..at 17.40..she said "children are treated badly in this country lately"...is that even based on facts or opinion? Child care is improving in all the corners of the world...kids are no longer beaten as they used to decades ago. How can you lie that the situation is worse today in this country?Lol
My grandfather had a serious scar in the stomach he got it from his father using a thorn twig on him for lossing a sheep. He returned from the fields with one less sheep, abd he almost died from it. The sheep returned home by itself but the man died at 90 with a huge scar from a teenagerhood.
Hapo Kwa refugee's we have been too accomodative, we have very many somalis and people from Rwanda but I think that's not very safe some of them treat the rest of us as if we are the refugee's especially when they are the majority
its funny how ladies will choose the wrong men, then come here and claim all men are trash, you chose the wrong men,deal with them, deal with your choices
Njeri, you have missed the point big time. A child is a child and has to be disciplined accordingly where need arise. Today, if your parents are aliv e, how do you relate even as an adult. The least you can do is listen and obey. They rarely go wrong when it comes to guidance, same to you but a child needs the spunk if invited.
On the issue of punishment I disagree there has to be consequences for actions. The issues arising come from extreme cases. Maybe just everything should have a limit.
Cant compare disciplining a child and gbv. Adults can talk to solve or correct issues, how do you hold a meeting with a child for discipline? Accountability should be taught at early ages, and that has to come with some harshness. Methinks
the whole beating issue in relationships I think needs to be studied I don't think it's a matter of learning it from when being disciplined otherwise unlearn as you saying it Njeri
Thank you. I thought I am alone in this. She is a toxic woman. Maybe a mask of her internal demons and self-esteem issues from her weight.. Kwanza hiyo 'know it all' attitude halafu you display shallow thinking
When we removed the authority of the pioneer of marriage -God,out of the equation. That's when we messed up.He has already laid down how husbands out to relate to their wives-loving them as Christ loved the church 🤗 and wives to respect,venerate,submit to their husbands as to the Lord and children ought to submit to their parents in everything and in turn parents shouldn't discourage their children-this is what a Christian family ought to look like. Discipline is very core in bringing up a child-Proverbs 13:24, reads thusly: “He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him.” If you venerate the scripture as the very word of God, needing not to be added or subtracted anything to address an issue then,do nothing else but obey the law as it is for your own God.
I dont know the lady in blue, but her linkage of parental disciplining and GBV is the worst take of them all. Its kinda stupid to be honest. The dangers of not disciplining a child are far worse than GBV. Hadi akasema parents disciplining their kids in Africa came from the colonizers, shiet. Victimization card is pulled on everything these days. Acting a victim is actually a skill that can save your fate these days. And by the way, Ugly and beautiful are FACTs. At the start of the show, the same lady in blue asked Dr. Kingori about who would he save between a beautiful lady and an ugly lady trapped in a room. There goes the evidence that ugly and beauty are FACTs that cant be denied. Even the lady in blue acknowleged that there is ugly and there is beautiful. The discussion should be about the world treating ugly and beautiful people similarly. Running away from FACTs wont solve the problem.
Huyo dem wa blue to be honest, not my cup of tea. Facial expressions. eye rolls, and sarcastic smiles mtu akijaribu kuongea kitu haelewani nayo. Damn!! Not good signs at all for people in a panel debating a sensitive/controversial subject.
being beaten as a child is not the same as being beaten as an adult. as a kid being beaten means the parent cares for you and wants you to know what you did could bring you pains. as an adult you are presumed to know whats wrong and what right thats why parents stop besting you. you can make mistakes because you can deal with the consequences yourself as an adult. kuna umri ukifika ata wazazi awawezi kukuguza. that link doesnt make sense at at.
I've never interacted with this side of YY, it is amazing to learn, learnt alot from this panel
I don't think there's anything ugly everyone or rather everything is beautiful in it's own way
It's called the beauty and the beast aspect - Jordan Peterson explains it so well. Good guys you have no chance.
There are no ugly people...plain is the word
Hey, you are plain😂😂
Yy facts spoken🤝
Withdrawal doesn't work for all children...some will turn around and ask you what/how that would help them😊
My parents were right, I have a better life now because of how strict they were, finished high school and university, meanwhile my cousin who was called Boi is an alcoholic juu ya kubembelezwa.
0:55 If it's about help, I will help anyone and I would actually gravitate towards the less attractive girl. Those society places less value on show more heartfelt appreciation, so I'll feel more blessed. Actually, I remember a local rugby game where some very physically attractive girl was abusing another girl. It took a lot of willpower for me not intervene. But if it's about impressing, I might find myself simping for an attractive service provider (waitress, nurse, air hostess, receptionist etc). I've only protected myself because the words of my aunt "looks are deceptive" always ring in my mind. So, I'm not stupid enough to unconditionally prioritize physical beauty.
I dont know why i feel Njeri wa Migwi is angry , she feels frustrated in my view. Anyways, opinions are all valid but it doesnt mean that what you say/or tell me is right and what i do is wrong. It was a great panel thou. Good work Kingori Dkt, Pinky, Njeri and the crew.
Equating beating a child vs an adult is NOT the same. Hapo umetudanganya.
Hapa nayo mumeniongelea leo. Kuna toxic parenting walai and they do exist
Discussions based on "I feel like" statements, always lead to one party being compromised. Emotions should be taken home.
Removing the privileges is a form of manipulation considering as a parent you have sole authority, hapo unaguza roho.
I'm lost..at 17.40..she said "children are treated badly in this country lately"...is that even based on facts or opinion? Child care is improving in all the corners of the world...kids are no longer beaten as they used to decades ago. How can you lie that the situation is worse today in this country?Lol
Ture,watoto siku hizi hawalimwi kama kitambo,tukiwa vipi tulikapitia buana
My grandfather had a serious scar in the stomach he got it from his father using a thorn twig on him for lossing a sheep. He returned from the fields with one less sheep, abd he almost died from it. The sheep returned home by itself but the man died at 90 with a huge scar from a teenagerhood.
What brought about the present happening?
Hapo Kwa refugee's we have been too accomodative, we have very many somalis and people from Rwanda but I think that's not very safe some of them treat the rest of us as if we are the refugee's especially when they are the majority
What a show. Asante sana.
😅i was once beaten when young by my father till today i remember, now we two cant talk more than five sentences😢
Mrembo or Ugly if kama Ako na Nyash Mimi na Yeye without looking for anything
Beauty is relative.
its funny how ladies will choose the wrong men, then come here and claim all men are trash, you chose the wrong men,deal with them, deal with your choices
Kingori bring same group and discuss parenting
😂😂 Always laughing the show 🤣👍🏿🔥🖤
Njeri wa Migwi is super intelligent
This show relates to my life
Life is rated within the basics that about the present of the HAPPENINGS
Njeri is spot on
Apo kwa bedsitter 😂
enyewe huyu mathe alikua anapenda nyama
0:54 not true Njeri, we will help the one with the biggest behind.
YY is very realistic, the two ladies system of punishment isn't applicable in the most cases.. Also kids differ
Come on, let's just be honest. How do you just sit down with a child eti talking😂. There's time for tenderness & time for strictness.
Ethics and morals?Mmhhh...tricky,since the times of Socrates and Plato to date...no solution
Njeri spot on
dem mrembo n mwingine si mrembo,we ndo uyo kiatu😂
She is trying so hard to make it relevant na aiingiani😅.
She is a nincompoop
Njeri, you have missed the point big time. A child is a child and has to be disciplined accordingly where need arise. Today, if your parents are aliv
e, how do you relate even as an adult. The least you can do is listen and obey. They rarely go wrong when it comes to guidance, same to you but a child needs the spunk if invited.
On the issue of punishment I disagree there has to be consequences for actions. The issues arising come from extreme cases. Maybe just everything should have a limit.
Kufunza kuhusu gbv si solution,wasee hufunzwa kuhusu dawa za kulevya na wanazitumia,better ni watu kufunzwa kuhusu maintaining personal peace
Yea home is the first school...
There is a price you have to pay for everything. YY
When I buy it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Cant compare disciplining a child and gbv. Adults can talk to solve or correct issues, how do you hold a meeting with a child for discipline? Accountability should be taught at early ages, and that has to come with some harshness.
Methinks
Tunachapa makosa sio mtoto
Migwi doesn't understand psychology and why punishment is convenient
the whole beating issue in relationships I think needs to be studied I don't think it's a matter of learning it from when being disciplined otherwise unlearn as you saying it Njeri
huyu dem ako against child discipline si hata mngemsomea verse
Ingekuwa mm yy mngeskia tbt!! “Aiyayayaya kidero you have slapped me??”””😂😂😂😂😂😂
Right,, 🤣🤣🤣🤣Huyo mama mnono hapo angekipata. She is very arrogant
si wote WA kuongeleshwa....me being beaten by my parents made me the man I am today
Tuwache maandiko😂😂😂😂
YY is HIgh😂😂
Punish is way too harsh... discipline positively is more like it...
yycomedian😂😂
Find therapy people.
Toa government hapo haiezi
Unlearn!
Okay
😂😂😂
Ugliness is in the software of a person not the hardware.
Something really serious wrong with this woman
Which woman
Thank you. I thought I am alone in this. She is a toxic woman. Maybe a mask of her internal demons and self-esteem issues from her weight.. Kwanza hiyo 'know it all' attitude halafu you display shallow thinking
By the time anatukanana,the child has learnt it from you YY apparently...
Yeah Kids look at what you do not what you tell them
There was a lot of sugarcoating here
🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱
Mtoto ametukanana ameskia kutoka kwako haiezi tu happen
Most likely amesikia kutoka kwa mtoto mwenzake
Beauty,attractiveness ,ugliness are mostly subjective....your beauty may be someone's ugliness
PARENTING IS HARD WORK😢😂
YY for NACADA president
YY experienced alcohol trauma
When we removed the authority of the pioneer of marriage -God,out of the equation.
That's when we messed up.He has already laid down how husbands out to relate to their wives-loving them as Christ loved the church 🤗 and wives to respect,venerate,submit to their husbands as to the Lord and children ought to submit to their parents in everything and in turn parents shouldn't discourage their children-this is what a Christian family ought to look like.
Discipline is very core in bringing up a child-Proverbs 13:24, reads thusly: “He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him.”
If you venerate the scripture as the very word of God, needing not to be added or subtracted anything to address an issue then,do nothing else but obey the law as it is for your own God.
True
Spare rod spoil child
Misleading information which is not aplicable.Talk to a teacher and get the real meaning of child discipline
I dont know the lady in blue, but her linkage of parental disciplining and GBV is the worst take of them all. Its kinda stupid to be honest. The dangers of not disciplining a child are far worse than GBV. Hadi akasema parents disciplining their kids in Africa came from the colonizers, shiet. Victimization card is pulled on everything these days. Acting a victim is actually a skill that can save your fate these days. And by the way, Ugly and beautiful are FACTs. At the start of the show, the same lady in blue asked Dr. Kingori about who would he save between a beautiful lady and an ugly lady trapped in a room. There goes the evidence that ugly and beauty are FACTs that cant be denied. Even the lady in blue acknowleged that there is ugly and there is beautiful. The discussion should be about the world treating ugly and beautiful people similarly. Running away from FACTs wont solve the problem.
Huyo dem wa blue to be honest, not my cup of tea. Facial expressions. eye rolls, and sarcastic smiles mtu akijaribu kuongea kitu haelewani nayo. Damn!! Not good signs at all for people in a panel debating a sensitive/controversial subject.
My thoughts too
The lady on the right is trying to sound too smart while she is not
She isn't realistic on some takes
On the
Toxic conversation and useless
This is the most toxic show I've watched Dr Kingori
😂😂😂😂jamani umetokea wapi?
😅i was once beaten when young by my father till today i remember, now we two cant talk more than five sentences😢