Why campus girls stick with violent boyfriends || YY, Njeri wa Migwi & Pinky Ghelani

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  • @kinara5365
    @kinara5365 11 місяців тому +20

    being beaten as a child is not the same as being beaten as an adult. as a kid being beaten means the parent cares for you and wants you to know what you did could bring you pains. as an adult you are presumed to know whats wrong and what right thats why parents stop besting you. you can make mistakes because you can deal with the consequences yourself as an adult. kuna umri ukifika ata wazazi awawezi kukuguza. that link doesnt make sense at at.

  • @delivcemwangi7396
    @delivcemwangi7396 11 місяців тому +3

    I've never interacted with this side of YY, it is amazing to learn, learnt alot from this panel

  • @Celeminkyl
    @Celeminkyl 11 місяців тому +4

    I don't think there's anything ugly everyone or rather everything is beautiful in it's own way

  • @gitgenKE
    @gitgenKE 11 місяців тому +6

    It's called the beauty and the beast aspect - Jordan Peterson explains it so well. Good guys you have no chance.

  • @emmanuelmbuthia9266
    @emmanuelmbuthia9266 11 місяців тому +5

    Yy facts spoken🤝

  • @elainefuraha5119
    @elainefuraha5119 11 місяців тому +6

    There are no ugly people...plain is the word

  • @vincentgitiva8849
    @vincentgitiva8849 11 місяців тому +2

    My parents were right, I have a better life now because of how strict they were, finished high school and university, meanwhile my cousin who was called Boi is an alcoholic juu ya kubembelezwa.

  • @Kiroboto_Mpole
    @Kiroboto_Mpole 11 місяців тому +1

    Equating beating a child vs an adult is NOT the same. Hapo umetudanganya.

  • @panafrican.nation
    @panafrican.nation 11 місяців тому +1

    0:55 If it's about help, I will help anyone and I would actually gravitate towards the less attractive girl. Those society places less value on show more heartfelt appreciation, so I'll feel more blessed. Actually, I remember a local rugby game where some very physically attractive girl was abusing another girl. It took a lot of willpower for me not intervene. But if it's about impressing, I might find myself simping for an attractive service provider (waitress, nurse, air hostess, receptionist etc). I've only protected myself because the words of my aunt "looks are deceptive" always ring in my mind. So, I'm not stupid enough to unconditionally prioritize physical beauty.

  • @elainefuraha5119
    @elainefuraha5119 11 місяців тому +3

    Withdrawal doesn't work for all children...some will turn around and ask you what/how that would help them😊

  • @judywairioko3984
    @judywairioko3984 11 місяців тому +2

    Removing the privileges is a form of manipulation considering as a parent you have sole authority, hapo unaguza roho.

  • @duncanmwai
    @duncanmwai 11 місяців тому +2

    Discussions based on "I feel like" statements, always lead to one party being compromised. Emotions should be taken home.

  • @Victor254.
    @Victor254. 11 місяців тому +1

    Beauty is relative.

  • @kiproparapkengu39
    @kiproparapkengu39 11 місяців тому

    What a show. Asante sana.

  • @bustrumondu6537
    @bustrumondu6537 11 місяців тому +2

    My grandfather had a serious scar in the stomach he got it from his father using a thorn twig on him for lossing a sheep. He returned from the fields with one less sheep, abd he almost died from it. The sheep returned home by itself but the man died at 90 with a huge scar from a teenagerhood.

  • @dominiqitta
    @dominiqitta 11 місяців тому +8

    I dont know why i feel Njeri wa Migwi is angry , she feels frustrated in my view. Anyways, opinions are all valid but it doesnt mean that what you say/or tell me is right and what i do is wrong. It was a great panel thou. Good work Kingori Dkt, Pinky, Njeri and the crew.

  • @Tobbymashke254
    @Tobbymashke254 11 місяців тому +1

    Hapa nayo mumeniongelea leo. Kuna toxic parenting walai and they do exist

  • @dontmind-z3i
    @dontmind-z3i 11 місяців тому

    enyewe huyu mathe alikua anapenda nyama

  • @allankeith5423
    @allankeith5423 6 місяців тому

    Life is rated within the basics that about the present of the HAPPENINGS

  • @decoder258
    @decoder258 11 місяців тому +12

    its funny how ladies will choose the wrong men, then come here and claim all men are trash, you chose the wrong men,deal with them, deal with your choices

  • @LayeKouyaté-w7o
    @LayeKouyaté-w7o 11 місяців тому

    Kingori bring same group and discuss parenting

  • @benedictadeya8370
    @benedictadeya8370 11 місяців тому +2

    I'm lost..at 17.40..she said "children are treated badly in this country lately"...is that even based on facts or opinion? Child care is improving in all the corners of the world...kids are no longer beaten as they used to decades ago. How can you lie that the situation is worse today in this country?Lol

    • @DennisKiarie-uy7lf
      @DennisKiarie-uy7lf 11 місяців тому

      Ture,watoto siku hizi hawalimwi kama kitambo,tukiwa vipi tulikapitia buana

  • @Infinity-Content
    @Infinity-Content 11 місяців тому +1

    Njeri wa Migwi is super intelligent

  • @elainefuraha5119
    @elainefuraha5119 11 місяців тому

    Yea home is the first school...

  • @elvisngenoh7855
    @elvisngenoh7855 11 місяців тому +2

    This show relates to my life

  • @doctrine_ridge_Ke
    @doctrine_ridge_Ke 11 місяців тому +4

    0:54 not true Njeri, we will help the one with the biggest behind.

  • @allankeith5423
    @allankeith5423 6 місяців тому

    What brought about the present happening?

  • @Isaac-vl8ht
    @Isaac-vl8ht 10 місяців тому

    😅i was once beaten when young by my father till today i remember, now we two cant talk more than five sentences😢

  • @felixmainga234
    @felixmainga234 11 місяців тому +1

    Mrembo or Ugly if kama Ako na Nyash Mimi na Yeye without looking for anything

  • @jbryl
    @jbryl 11 місяців тому +1

    YY is very realistic, the two ladies system of punishment isn't applicable in the most cases.. Also kids differ

  • @kimbizbiz3511
    @kimbizbiz3511 11 місяців тому +1

    Hapo Kwa refugee's we have been too accomodative, we have very many somalis and people from Rwanda but I think that's not very safe some of them treat the rest of us as if we are the refugee's especially when they are the majority

  • @LearnGUAGESTUTORS
    @LearnGUAGESTUTORS 10 місяців тому

    There is a price you have to pay for everything. YY

  • @derickmuriungi4891
    @derickmuriungi4891 11 місяців тому +1

    Apo kwa bedsitter 😂

  • @LayeKouyaté-w7o
    @LayeKouyaté-w7o 11 місяців тому

    Njeri is spot on

  • @Kenyacommentary
    @Kenyacommentary 11 місяців тому +9

    She is trying so hard to make it relevant na aiingiani😅.

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 11 місяців тому

      She is a nincompoop

    • @davidngigi9843
      @davidngigi9843 11 місяців тому

      Njeri, you have missed the point big time. A child is a child and has to be disciplined accordingly where need arise. Today, if your parents are aliv
      e, how do you relate even as an adult. The least you can do is listen and obey. They rarely go wrong when it comes to guidance, same to you but a child needs the spunk if invited.

  • @elainefuraha5119
    @elainefuraha5119 11 місяців тому

    Ethics and morals?Mmhhh...tricky,since the times of Socrates and Plato to date...no solution

  • @tillenchacha1863
    @tillenchacha1863 10 місяців тому

    On the issue of punishment I disagree there has to be consequences for actions. The issues arising come from extreme cases. Maybe just everything should have a limit.

  • @Mr..Books2
    @Mr..Books2 11 місяців тому

    Migwi doesn't understand psychology and why punishment is convenient

  • @lputaa
    @lputaa 11 місяців тому +3

    😂😂 Always laughing the show 🤣👍🏿🔥🖤

  • @collinsotinga
    @collinsotinga 10 місяців тому

    Cant compare disciplining a child and gbv. Adults can talk to solve or correct issues, how do you hold a meeting with a child for discipline? Accountability should be taught at early ages, and that has to come with some harshness.
    Methinks

  • @josephmurimi8057
    @josephmurimi8057 11 місяців тому

    Kufunza kuhusu gbv si solution,wasee hufunzwa kuhusu dawa za kulevya na wanazitumia,better ni watu kufunzwa kuhusu maintaining personal peace

  • @seanshawn-mq3xn
    @seanshawn-mq3xn 11 місяців тому

    si wote WA kuongeleshwa....me being beaten by my parents made me the man I am today

  • @RootsMizizi
    @RootsMizizi 11 місяців тому

    Unlearn!

  • @blessedknjugush1983
    @blessedknjugush1983 11 місяців тому

    dem mrembo n mwingine si mrembo,we ndo uyo kiatu😂

  • @gitgenKE
    @gitgenKE 11 місяців тому +1

    Find therapy people.

  • @LearnGUAGESTUTORS
    @LearnGUAGESTUTORS 10 місяців тому

    Come on, let's just be honest. How do you just sit down with a child eti talking😂. There's time for tenderness & time for strictness.

  • @elainefuraha5119
    @elainefuraha5119 11 місяців тому

    Punish is way too harsh... discipline positively is more like it...

  • @amukoyawycliffe-u2t
    @amukoyawycliffe-u2t 11 місяців тому

    Okay

  • @Louis_concept
    @Louis_concept 11 місяців тому +1

    Njeri spot on

  • @andsons159
    @andsons159 11 місяців тому +1

    When I buy it 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @stephenbaraka3482
    @stephenbaraka3482 11 місяців тому

    the whole beating issue in relationships I think needs to be studied I don't think it's a matter of learning it from when being disciplined otherwise unlearn as you saying it Njeri

  • @emmanuelkazi2092
    @emmanuelkazi2092 11 місяців тому +4

    Tunachapa makosa sio mtoto

  • @moneywise6943
    @moneywise6943 11 місяців тому +3

    Something really serious wrong with this woman

    • @elainefuraha5119
      @elainefuraha5119 11 місяців тому +1

      Which woman

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 11 місяців тому

      Thank you. I thought I am alone in this. She is a toxic woman. Maybe a mask of her internal demons and self-esteem issues from her weight.. Kwanza hiyo 'know it all' attitude halafu you display shallow thinking

  • @Louis_concept
    @Louis_concept 11 місяців тому

    Toa government hapo haiezi

  • @Trolllfootball66
    @Trolllfootball66 11 місяців тому

    huyu dem ako against child discipline si hata mngemsomea verse

  • @moijopaul2625
    @moijopaul2625 11 місяців тому

    Ugliness is in the software of a person not the hardware.

  • @LearnGUAGESTUTORS
    @LearnGUAGESTUTORS 10 місяців тому

    There was a lot of sugarcoating here

  • @Aquapalooza.
    @Aquapalooza. 11 місяців тому +2

    YY is HIgh😂😂

  • @luthersembi2591
    @luthersembi2591 11 місяців тому

    YY experienced alcohol trauma

  • @elainefuraha5119
    @elainefuraha5119 11 місяців тому +1

    By the time anatukanana,the child has learnt it from you YY apparently...

    • @LayeKouyaté-w7o
      @LayeKouyaté-w7o 11 місяців тому

      Yeah Kids look at what you do not what you tell them

  • @Avaricumstudios
    @Avaricumstudios 11 місяців тому

    Beauty,attractiveness ,ugliness are mostly subjective....your beauty may be someone's ugliness

  • @elainefuraha5119
    @elainefuraha5119 11 місяців тому

    Tuwache maandiko😂😂😂😂

  • @Dj_Sensei
    @Dj_Sensei 11 місяців тому

    Ingekuwa mm yy mngeskia tbt!! “Aiyayayaya kidero you have slapped me??”””😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 11 місяців тому

      Right,, 🤣🤣🤣🤣Huyo mama mnono hapo angekipata. She is very arrogant

  • @LayeKouyaté-w7o
    @LayeKouyaté-w7o 11 місяців тому

    PARENTING IS HARD WORK😢😂

  • @mkenya098
    @mkenya098 11 місяців тому

    🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱

  • @jmachira01
    @jmachira01 11 місяців тому

    YY for NACADA president

  • @LayeKouyaté-w7o
    @LayeKouyaté-w7o 11 місяців тому

    Mtoto ametukanana ameskia kutoka kwako haiezi tu happen

  • @Louis_concept
    @Louis_concept 11 місяців тому +2

    Spare rod spoil child

  • @charlesweru7787
    @charlesweru7787 11 місяців тому +1

    😂😂😂

  • @iankarani8968
    @iankarani8968 11 місяців тому +1

    yycomedian😂😂

  • @katherudan8584
    @katherudan8584 11 місяців тому

    Misleading information which is not aplicable.Talk to a teacher and get the real meaning of child discipline

  • @tillenchacha1863
    @tillenchacha1863 10 місяців тому

    On the

  • @DennisKiarie-uy7lf
    @DennisKiarie-uy7lf 11 місяців тому

    The lady on the right is trying to sound too smart while she is not

    • @collinsotinga
      @collinsotinga 10 місяців тому

      She isn't realistic on some takes

  • @benedictadeya8370
    @benedictadeya8370 11 місяців тому +1

    I dont know the lady in blue, but her linkage of parental disciplining and GBV is the worst take of them all. Its kinda stupid to be honest. The dangers of not disciplining a child are far worse than GBV. Hadi akasema parents disciplining their kids in Africa came from the colonizers, shiet. Victimization card is pulled on everything these days. Acting a victim is actually a skill that can save your fate these days. And by the way, Ugly and beautiful are FACTs. At the start of the show, the same lady in blue asked Dr. Kingori about who would he save between a beautiful lady and an ugly lady trapped in a room. There goes the evidence that ugly and beauty are FACTs that cant be denied. Even the lady in blue acknowleged that there is ugly and there is beautiful. The discussion should be about the world treating ugly and beautiful people similarly. Running away from FACTs wont solve the problem.

  • @carolnjeri1851
    @carolnjeri1851 11 місяців тому

    When we removed the authority of the pioneer of marriage -God,out of the equation.
    That's when we messed up.He has already laid down how husbands out to relate to their wives-loving them as Christ loved the church 🤗 and wives to respect,venerate,submit to their husbands as to the Lord and children ought to submit to their parents in everything and in turn parents shouldn't discourage their children-this is what a Christian family ought to look like.
    Discipline is very core in bringing up a child-Proverbs 13:24, reads thusly: “He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him.”
    If you venerate the scripture as the very word of God, needing not to be added or subtracted anything to address an issue then,do nothing else but obey the law as it is for your own God.

  • @katherudan8584
    @katherudan8584 11 місяців тому

    Toxic conversation and useless

  • @benedictadeya8370
    @benedictadeya8370 11 місяців тому

    Huyo dem wa blue to be honest, not my cup of tea. Facial expressions. eye rolls, and sarcastic smiles mtu akijaribu kuongea kitu haelewani nayo. Damn!! Not good signs at all for people in a panel debating a sensitive/controversial subject.

  • @odongoodol1120
    @odongoodol1120 11 місяців тому +4

    This is the most toxic show I've watched Dr Kingori

  • @Isaac-vl8ht
    @Isaac-vl8ht 10 місяців тому

    😅i was once beaten when young by my father till today i remember, now we two cant talk more than five sentences😢