I have compared myself to “hot men” my whole life. I’ve put them down and put them up in my head. It’s gotten to the point where social media is draining . I can’t fathom my partner watching porn or complementing others. Realizing that my issues come from comparing and feeling inferior is one of the biggest forms of self destruction. Everyone is unique and different . That’s what I tell myself . Why compare things that are so different . If anything we should be contrasting our lives and being happy that we’re unique
Excellent! I've spent my whole life comparing myself to everyone else. I'm looking forward to doing the excercise that will help me define what success & happiness mean to me.
We are in a culture where we can be anybody else rather than ourselves instead of developing our selves and do what we are made of into this world- our purpose.
wow ... great seven steps ... I actually following the fifth one without recognizing I am doing the right thing... Thank you very much , all steps kept inside my mind and will teach them to my son and friends.
I love this guy. I’m listening to your videos while on my way to work every day. Can’t imagine 1 hour every morning listening to powerful motivation. Now I stop comparing myself to others.
great tips. I wrote them all down. will definitely start implementing them all consciously every day. I love the sentence "we are all purposeful people".
Thank you for sharing this amazing steps Jay . I took notes of everything and hope be putting all into practice from now on . We definitely need to stop comparing ourselves to others. I mean it is so unfair. Looking forward to continue to learn with you ❤️🌷
On Purpose GREAT MESSAGE and INFORMATION VIDEO. I was the kid that the other talked about, to this DAY PEAPLE think I'm better. I'm not I just work harder. Be the BEST YOU CAN BE ROCKSTAR. THANKS JAY
I compare myself to those good at school like good grades and stuff and who went to college I always criticized myself for not being smart enough because of my bad grades but my mother says I have plenty to be grateful for cause I am a singer and can sing opera.i had a bad experience with teachers who hated me and looked down on me for my lack there of my lack of intelligence and my lack of understanding comprehension and being smart.be smart you are not smart enough is what they say. and I still hear their voice to this day.
There is nothing called "over" confidence. They measure your confidence with their own standards and it can vary from person to person. They see someone smarter than what they aspire to be and call them "over"smart. This whole idea is messed up according to what I've observed. Keep going. Never give ears to discouraging people. You've got greater heights to climb...
You should have put the "gallup strengthfinder" in the description, had to go second by second in the video to find the name of that resource over and over again b/c I could not remember the name of the resource
It is difficult to stop comparing ourselves with other because when we think about anyone else then comparison come naturally. Then how get rid from this? :(
Is it possible to live a life without a shadow of comparison or measurement coming into it? Aren't measurement, comparison and imitation the major factors of disorder in our society?
And you have no idea whether that other person has the great life you think. The world is rough and mean. As Jordan Peterson said, "the world is against you . . . obviously." But as I told my own subscribers, many times the greatest enemy in life can be yourself. And you make yourself an enemy by comparision to others. If you make 80K a year and have 200K in the investment arenas you will feel badly if you have a friend who makes 250K and has a million in his. But you will feel good about yourself if you compare yourself to someone who makes 30K and has nothing in his accounts. But maybe that 250K person works 80 hours a week and hasn't had a vacation in ten years. The point is, your journey is yours. How much you want to work and gain to get the greatest benefits you can from your short time on earth---and most of those benefits, my friends, are not financial. Hope this helps someone----Charles
Your worst enemy is yourself and your best ally is yourself as well.
I have compared myself to “hot men” my whole life. I’ve put them down and put them up in my head. It’s gotten to the point where social media is draining . I can’t fathom my partner watching porn or complementing others. Realizing that my issues come from comparing and feeling inferior is one of the biggest forms of self destruction. Everyone is unique and different . That’s what I tell myself . Why compare things that are so different . If anything we should be contrasting our lives and being happy that we’re unique
Excellent! I've spent my whole life comparing myself to everyone else. I'm looking forward to doing the excercise that will help me define what success & happiness mean to me.
In retail in small town, 60yrs old, I started comparing again.
We are in a culture where we can be anybody else rather than ourselves instead of developing our selves and do what we are made of into this world- our purpose.
wow ... great seven steps ... I actually following the fifth one without recognizing I am doing the right thing... Thank you very much , all steps kept inside my mind and will teach them to my son and friends.
It has changed me. ❤
I love this guy. I’m listening to your videos while on my way to work every day. Can’t imagine 1 hour every morning listening to powerful motivation. Now I stop comparing myself to others.
This just uplifted my mood . Thank You Jay for this 🙏❤️
this is everything
Thank you 🙏
This is so good, helped me tremendously , thank you Jay for sharing
This is amazing ! Thank you so much !♥️
great tips. I wrote them all down. will definitely start implementing them all consciously every day. I love the sentence "we are all purposeful people".
Fantastic. Wrote everything you told and looking forward to follow it. Thank you so much Jay!
Hi Giridhar! This is also about how comparing ourselves to others is harmful:
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Thank you for sharing this amazing steps Jay . I took notes of everything and hope be putting all into practice from now on . We definitely need to stop comparing ourselves to others. I mean it is so unfair.
Looking forward to continue to learn with you ❤️🌷
I love u alot jay.. u solved my Biggest Problem sweetheart God bless u
On Purpose GREAT MESSAGE and INFORMATION VIDEO. I was the kid that the other talked about, to this DAY PEAPLE think I'm better.
I'm not I just work harder.
Be the BEST YOU CAN BE ROCKSTAR. THANKS JAY
Hi Troy! This video is also about how comparing yourself to others is harmful:
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I do admire you, You have so great thougts about us human beings. Thank you for telling me about it all.
Jay you are the best
I love this man! Thanks for uplifting ny mood
Hey Bobby! This is also about how comparing ourselves to others is harmful:
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Define what relationship means emotional
I m definitely sure, It will work for me.. I'm gonna do them. Lots of love to you Jay Shetty
1. Define what success (physically, financially, mentally emotionally & mentally) and happiness mean to you
2. Discover your strengths
3.
Lol where's the rest
@@Nick_TV95 it was 4 months ago, idk what happened 😭😂
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thank you. i listen to this few times already whenever i feel down and comparing myself to others. i feel better each time. thank you so much!!
Thank you
I dont compare, am grateful, am satisfy,
So much great information here. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Thankyou 🤍
Thank you it's really helping me
Thank you so much, Jay Shetty. Your speech is so insightful😊
Hi Shean! This is also about how comparing ourselves to others is harmful:
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Thank you. This was very uplifting.
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I compare myself to those good at school like good grades and stuff and who went to college I always criticized myself for not being smart enough because of my bad grades but my mother says I have plenty to be grateful for cause I am a singer
and can sing opera.i had a bad experience with teachers who hated me and looked down on me for my lack there of my lack of intelligence and my lack of understanding comprehension and being smart.be smart you are not smart enough
is what they say. and I still hear their voice to this day.
When I know my worth, people say I praise myself and I'm overconfident😑💔
There is nothing called "over" confidence. They measure your confidence with their own standards and it can vary from person to person. They see someone smarter than what they aspire to be and call them "over"smart. This whole idea is messed up according to what I've observed.
Keep going. Never give ears to discouraging people. You've got greater heights to climb...
WHY YOU'RE THE BEST♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Thank you, you always help me.
Thank you so much jay
You should have put the "gallup strengthfinder" in the description, had to go second by second in the video to find the name of that resource over and over again b/c I could not remember the name of the resource
This is so so helpful I like to thank you for sharing these all.and a small request, I like if you make your videos much shorter
Thank you for this video.🙏
I love youuuuu sir. Jay😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Life-changing! Thank you.
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🙏🙏 thank you
Superb!
I love this thank you
so inspiring
This is amazing. Thanks. I hope I can help others by sharing this. How can I take part in the questionnaire for identifying our strength and ability?
Recap 29:34 🤗
WHY DOES EVERY COMMENT ONLY HAVE 1 LIKE WHAT THE HECK omg im sending this everywhere this video needs to be seen more its so great 💘💘
Fabulous
👋 Anyone has the link for the strength finder?
I am first yr law student... feel so dumb.I dunno before this i was kinda good with my brain. But now I think um not good as others 🥴🙃
It is difficult to stop comparing ourselves with other because when we think about anyone else then comparison come naturally. Then how get rid from this? :(
What is the way to find your strength any? 1step he list the online thing?
its perfect master u have made it to peak
Thank you jay you’re a blessing to us
Is it possible to live a life without a shadow of comparison or measurement coming into it? Aren't measurement, comparison and imitation the major factors of disorder in our society?
what is emotionally?
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Hi sir.
6:30
Can u bring my love back
Please 🙏🙏
And you have no idea whether that other person has the great life you think. The world is rough and mean. As Jordan Peterson said, "the world is against you . . . obviously." But as I told my own subscribers, many times the greatest enemy in life can be yourself. And you make yourself an enemy by comparision to others. If you make 80K a year and have 200K in the investment arenas you will feel badly if you have a friend who makes 250K and has a million in his. But you will feel good about yourself if you compare yourself to someone who makes 30K and has nothing in his accounts. But maybe that 250K person works 80 hours a week and hasn't had a vacation in ten years. The point is, your journey is yours. How much you want to work and gain to get the greatest benefits you can from your short time on earth---and most of those benefits, my friends, are not financial. Hope this helps someone----Charles
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