TOXIC IN-LAWS: Managing tough Relationships | Raja Zia ul Haq | Maulvi with an Attitude | Ep 7
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- Опубліковано 20 жов 2024
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My husband divorced me after 5 month of marriage cause I replied back to his abusive language. After 1 week of our marriage I came to know he was already married and had kids. After divorce I came to know I was his 4th wife and now he is searching for 5th wife. He was a nurse but proclaim himself a doctor. This world is full of evil people may Allah protect us from the Shar of shaitan and insaan.
آمین
Allah ap k liye asaniyan krrain. Ameen
Allah aap ko sabr da or aap ko donu jahaa mai bahatr ata kara 😢
He had already 3 wife but I have even no idea before marriage?
Un believable 😮😮
Allah hume fitno se mehfooz rakhe zia bhai ap sb se bohat motivation milti hai Allah ap sb ko apni aman me rakhe ❤
Youth club, please raise your voice against the alarming rise in domestic violence against women in Pakistan. The recent brutal murders by husbands, brothers, and fathers are heartbreaking and demand urgent attention.
Your podcast can play a vital role in raising awareness!
Agree... I was waiting that they would talk about this in their weekly podcasts... Now we can make request to them to also highlight this topic
Allahober🎉ahllaokber😂
They talk so many time about domestic violence I am watching youth clubfrom coronavirus spread in Riyadh whenever I visit Makkah I pray for youth club in my daily dias keep it up
Once,I read this "Teach Quran Your kids then Quran will teach them everything " Alhamdulillah learning and teaching my kids Quran.
1:54:00 I do agree with Zia bhai as mom of 2 boys Mashallah, I am preparing my 7years old son to be the best Muslim and husband Inshallah in future and always asking Allah SAW for Practicing Muslimah Daughter in law.
I got divorced 2018 just one year of marriage.i broke whatever worse happened in my life .but I never ever let down.i focused on my Islam namaj & study .i am telling everyone just experienced these .pray tahajjud, i prayed lot of tahajjud ,today i am saying alhamdulillah Allah is the best planner . Whatever I experienced it was my part of life in this world .i am happily married again .may Allah bless the happiness comfortness my all sisters who are facing hardship. Never make quick decision for re marry takes time ,making a good carrier .
Iam very happy for you☺❤
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Only inlaws aren't toxic, your siblings your own family is more dangerous for your mental health
@@hibbakhan4992 true
My dear sister as we all know every human being is born with a Qaren which provok them towards bad deeds that's why no one is perfect, Only solution to all our problems is Quran and Tafseer which provide us Basirat E Qalab. Tips to deal with toxic human beings.
1. Make boundaries
2. be Silent when you are mad
3. Make lots of duas for the person
4. Treat the person like a child, The way we ignore kids bad behaviors coz they don't have logic.
5. stop sharing with them your personal life details
5. Protect your blood relationship for the sake of Allah.
Exactly 💯 they make you live such a life that you are forced to say that this is dunya
Agreed
Agreed,most of them are jealous and try to harm you if you dont serve them. And if you talk about relatives most of them are envious and malicious they try to defame you harm you and are jealous even if they have more blessings than you have ,even if they are financially better than you, they can not digest any happiness in you life, an aunt of mine is like that and she has passed on this mentality to 4 grown-up daughters of hers now.
Mehrub moiz.. Humare bhai 😂😂😂😂 Zia bhai I love this 😂
Can u include timestamps or break up the parts in your video into sections?
The only podcast I find beneficial...thanks to youth club for making us all informed about these lgbt community and other current issues around the world.
What does happy pride mean? I goggled and it seemed something to do with lgbt. I have heard of a pride of lions, is there a pride of lgbt people also😂
May Allah Swt guide us all and keep us steadfast. Ameen!
Really needed 😢topic
Also make a podcast on mothers who chose some children those favorite and ignore other children
Yes plz
That's a topic no one talks about but it's so common in our society..
The ones that lost out should leave the mother to rot in old age
Yes specially mothers keep boys favourite and dismiss female children fully and are more hurtful than in-laws tot heir daughters and hate them that they have to marry them off and spend on wedding or have to give them inheritance so mothers try their best to shun those daughters all their life so they don’t have to do anything infact they let go every offence of their sons also are so proud when they marry non Muslim white girls and they are so proud of them always trying to make daughter in-laws happy while mistreating their own daughters
Ya Allah can’t believe this pride and all in Pakistan..world is going towards darkness and I really appreciate people like you actively working to wake up Muslim ummah..I really idealize you guys and secretly wish to be part of such team in some way but ah we lazy people just going in 9-5 cycle which is not satisfactory at all. Lots of prayers for whole your team and all others who participate in such things for Allah’s deen 💕
What is happy pride? I googled and it has something to do with lgbt. Didn’t get .
Is it a community of LGBT people?
@@mahnoorqureshi3281yes this how they call it now pride rainbow and lgbtq+
@@TheDailyQuranGuide Meaning they feel pride in going against the nature. 🤦♀️
Covid was a warning from Allah for all of us , but we didn’t mend our ways. Continuing doing all sorts of wrongful deeds with no remorse.
@@TheDailyQuranGuide And is happy pride a day they celebrate? Must be some satanic ritual.
Thankyou so much for bringing topics other than LGBTQ... LGBTQ is also important, I'm not saying that you should not talk on that topic I'm just saying that make it 50/50... Talk about societal issues for one hour and than one hour about LGBTQ... it keeps us engaging in your podcasts... You have to understand that there are so many issues in society that needs to be addressed... Don't leave LGBTQ issue at all but also do not corner the societal issues just like domestic violence, Zina, haram relationships, Music...
Zia bhai to engage more audience so that they can listen to you more and more you have to make it 50/50 podcast.
What does happy pride mean? I goggled and it seemed something to do with lgbt. I have heard of a pride of lions, is there a pride of lgbt people also😂
*اَللّهُمَّ اَنْتَ رَبِّي لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ اَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِ مَا صَنَعْتُ اَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ وَاَبُوْءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِرُ لى فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ*
"اے اللہ! تو میرا رب ہے تیرے سوا کوئی معبود نہیں، تو نے مجھے پیدا کیا ہے اور میں تیرا بندہ ہوں، میں اپنی استطاعت کے مطابق تجھ سے کئے ہوئے عہد اور وعدہ پر قائم ہوں، میں تیری پناہ چاہتا ہوں ان بری چیزوں کے شر سے جو میں
نے کی ہیں، میں اعتراف کرتا ہوں ان نعمتوں کا جو تو نے مجھے دی ہیں اور میں اپنے گناہوں کا اعتراف کرتا ہوں پس مجھے بخش دے کہ بے شک تیرے سوا کوئی گناہوں کو بخشنے والا نہیں ہے"
(صحيح البخاري : 6306)
*Read and React*🤝
Ameen
May Allah grant Dr. Israr Ahmed jannah... I listened to one of his lectures called " Islam mai parday k ahkaam or UNO ka social engineering program" .. if you listen to that it's very easy to comprehend why and what's going on.
Can u send link
Allah u Akbar. I really needed these reminders. May Allah bless you all ameen
Youth club, and respectable Mr raja sb, please bring the leading women in panel to speak about toxic mothers, not toxic mother inlaws. we are seeing a surge in women who are being toxic with their kids, husbands and soceity. what examples does islam show on toxic mothers taking rights of the fathers and sons and daughters?? and how to deal with them? Jazakallah
It’s sad to see that we r muslims yet our family dynamic are so deeply flawed.. So much to fix it so much chnage May Allah guide all ppl who hurt others to please in this life
Wow wow SubhanAllah , what an amazing podcast plus so relatable 💯✌️ now even educated people showing keen interest and learning deen because of you all. I must say Zia bahi you are our inspiration ❤️ our hero . May Allah bless you all ❤
Kudos to u bro for raising such a sensitive topic
There must have been some women on panel for discussion of toxic inlaws
Going through tough times please pray for me 😢
May Allah make it easier for u
With every hardship there is ease
Allah give you sabr .... Sabr has a great reward.
@@Hajra-v9o ameen summa ameen
@@meharunnisanisa6589ameen allahumma ameen
jazakAllah ❤
As always lovely podcast . Waiting for the next podcast.
youth club is doing a great job we as a nation support these not even through donating but by praising there work on any forum
What is happy pride?
Ma shaa ALLAH loved this episode with so much advice on current matters and the Islamic perspective on them. JazaakALLAH stay strong and stay blessed aameen❤️💚🖤🤍
What is happy pride?
I googled and it is something to do with lgbt. How, I don’t know.
Can't we arrange an "ASLI AURAT MARCH" on same day or maybe on 9th March to actually show what majority women are going through and talk about "Asli Rights". And tagline would be "Mera Jism, Rabb ki Marzi" (breaking all records of maulvi meter 😂)
But asli aurtain roads py nhi nikalten fazool ma.. jo nikal rahen hain they will soon witness consequences.
What does the term “ Mera jism Rabb ki marzi” mean? Please explain. The first meaning I got upon reading this was that I have no right over my body. Anybody can abuse it and I will take it as Rabb ki marzi. So if someone sexually assaulted you , would you call it Rabb ki Marzi?
Allah has given you a body and brain and it is your duty to protect it.
@@mahnoorqureshi3281 aqal, brain, dimag, soch, smjh, take pause and think for a sec how you grow up...?(Your body, ur hair, nail bones) Was that by your will or someone else did that...? If you didn't had a choice to raise your own body so how can you claim that...? Baki jo galat hei wo galat hei, chae wo kesi ko sexually harass krna ho ya "mera jism meri marzi" kehna ho
With due respect ❤
@@sabahatjanjua9582 Behen common sense hae, Allah created us, he gave us hands feet, a brain to use. Now if that person does nothing and commits suicide, would that be Allah ki marzi or the person’s fault? Allah sent us to this world to test us. So would you blame Allah for every wrong that happened to you?
Learned a lot...
جَزَاکِ اللّٰهِ خَیْرًا کَثِیْرا
Yakeen maniye aaj ke ish podcast mein kahi gayi kuch baten meri imaan ko fir se zinda karne ka zariya bani hai. Mai aapka bhai sarhad par se 🙂
@@Saffat_Khan MashaAllah bro
When raja bhai said "reaser neechay rkh do dari aa jaye ge"😂😂😂
My marriage ended because my in laws hated me because I was little bit practising muslimah and watch your shows they said in molviyon ne dimag kharab kiya hua iska
O my goodness
@@madiharehan8592 seriously you won't believe they called me molvi female version now i am going through trauma i am suffering bcz of inclination towards deen AlhumduLILLAH Allah has my reward i want to be strong inshaAllah
SubhanAllah
@@arden7772 JazakAllah khair
Did they hate you because of your religious practices or your general personality.
It's easier to blame religion for this
Asalamoalaikum
Please do a whole episode on good parenting for raising good children. How can we be good parents ? Do workshops on it as well because it's a huge problem that needs to be addressed actively.
It will be a great sadqa e jaria.
InshaAllah
Youth club has done sessions on parenting: ua-cam.com/video/R17fREYSj1o/v-deo.html
ua-cam.com/video/ZdMPrvFeBVc/v-deo.html
ua-cam.com/video/cnDeHdgJ3EA/v-deo.html
Logon ka dukh bantna chahyay mard ho ya aurat sab ki koi na koi pareshani hoti hai. Allah tamam rishton main barkat aur khair dalain har rishta khoobsoorat hai.
I was waiting for this
Ghabarate Qu ho 😮 Aur Tumhara Rabb Bhulne wala Nahi hai - Al Qur'an ❤
Masha Allah brother you are doing great work.
May Allah accept from you.
27:00 Daniyal bhai you are a gem 💎
@Rajaziaulhaq please invite Zeeshan Usmani to the podcast. He's a gem MashaAllah
To support the agendas of Liberalism is seems to be a proof that "dil py mohar lg chuki h", k kuch galat b galat mehsus ni ota
بلکل ایسا ہی میرے ساتھ ہوا تھا کہ شادیوں کا بائیکاٹ اور 20 سال بعد وہی لوگ یہی کرتے جیسا اپنا بیان کیا راجہ بھائی۔۔
اور اب دوبارہ میں درس وغیرہ دینے لگی تو دوبارہ الگ ہوگئے مشہور کرنے والا نہیں پسند۔۔
الحمد للہ
MashaAlla May Aallah bless you all
boiii do i love these podcasts...cant get enough of these...such imaan afroz content ma sha Allah
01:00:14 سبحان الله
JazaKAllah Asy discation hony chiya asy topics pa koi bt ni krta And Allah ap sab brothers ka kmm asan kry Ameen And keep it up
Tauha ibn e jalil key sath bhi to podcast kerein na
❤❤❤❤best shows ever
Very informative jazak Allah Khair zia Bhai 🌸✨
Daniyal bhai please ignore such toxic people do your work you doing a great job
Last 15 mints kudos to you Zia bhai!
Please pray for me that I get a practising good looking wife who whould love me ALLAH has changed my life completely 😢 I have kept sunnah beared i get emotional a lot thinking about my past and about how much ALLAH whould have loved me when I repented please pray for me so that I get a wife who whould love and we both whould enjoy each other and help eachother in getting closer to ALLAH swt
Cheap men like you should actively seek out cheap women who also repented.
Allah apky iman me izafa kry ameen
I dont think the topic was covered properly, again the same issues for LGBTQ and Aurat march was highlighted more than the said topic
But agr samja JAE to point mil rae hen boht zyda pori bat e us bat ke base banny py hai
@@True_muslim-ms jee nahi .he left out many issues that could have been covered...jabki LGBTQ mein itna repetitive hogaya hai that's it's now annoying
@@SweetChilly0410 ap ny shroo sy shyd suna nae tha unhon ny kaha tha k ya topic boht gahra is py Ek alg sy podcast honi chae or ya agr ap ny suna hota to ya nae kahty
Last ke 5 mins me aap ne jo baat boli wo 100% sach h
Subhanallah Alhamdulilah Allah Ho Akbar ❤❤
Asal baat Deen ki understanding hay .Jab Allah ki baat sab Se uper AA Jati hay Tu hi sab maamlaat thek ho saktay hein
Jazal Allah Khair Kaseera ❤
is it just me who was waiting for this line in the whole episode "guys aashura is just around the corner" I was waiting for your take zia bhai
May Allah Bless you all
And there should be something that the issue should be resolved in our society instead just we talk and go on
Asslam o alikum zia bhai ap se contact kesy kr skty hain ek masla hai js k lie ap se baat krna chahty hain kindly reply karien
الحمد للّٰہ
Subhan Allah
Mash'Allah
As Salam o Alaikum!
Respected Zia Bhai like all other fundamentalists I am also a big fan of you and admire you.All of your podcasts are worth watching and highly inspirational.
This time I am here with a Request..
I am here to ask you for a podcast on the topic of Pardah of women (I know you did alot of podcasts on it.)but this time I want you to provide proper guide about how to start pardah as a begginer especially as a teenage girl. And living in a joint family how to do Pardah from your cousins and as pardah is not only about covering yourself physically;it involves a whole lifestyle and many more things in it.Please explain everything in a very precise manner.
I hope that you will consider my request.
Thank You!
Waiting for this topic.. need some positive vibes... .. suffering from it
I found it on right time❤
Please karbla k bary m ak complete video bnaye jis m start se ly kar end tak har cheez ko cover kia Jaye.
❤
Great poadcast everrr
Allah bless you all u r our beloved ❤️ brothers ❤Allah bless you good health long life ameen ❤
Jazak Allah khair
Time stamps???
Jazakallah Kher
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JazakAllah khair👍
Mera in-laws sub well educated hein , even my mil . My father in law passed away 17 years ago . They have not distributed anything and everything was under our youngest brother in law . Now he clearly said he does not want to give anyone anything . Even he asks his well settled friends to call other brothers and convince them that they should leave their right . Keep In mind he is also well settled person even he has started his political career , which is very money consuming .
Kindly share the link of the podcast which daniyal abdullah bhai is referring to related discussing aurat march manifesto
Assalam o alaikum.
I want to talk to you Zia bhai regarding an issue. How it can be possible?
Make podcasts on practicality
Make podcasts on Dr Aafia Siddiqui… you followers in millions your voice can empower her cause so much
They did already
Attitude mulwe are always rock on people hearts and minds❤😎
Sir I really like the T shirts you wear. Could you please tell which brand is this. I live in Lahore and want to buy for my sons.
Ek raay k Ap apny hr show mn Palastine k liy ek reminder section rakhe...
Iddat case is a very serious issue all the maulvis should take firm stance on it
Why no one take stance on it
YC should launch its own March for women’s rights
میں الحمدلللہ اپنےخاندان میں بھی مہندی وغیرہ کی تقریبات میں شریک نہیں ہوتا۔
From where we can ask questions. I have asked a question but no response why?
Allah bless all ur efforts
Good job Ziaa bhai..
❤Ameeeeen❤
JazakAllah Khair ❤ Daniyal Bhai ❤❤
kindly divide your video into parts with names of the issues discussed like other channels do.
God bless alla you always ameen..plz talk about afia sadique alsoo....
MashAllah 🎉🎉🎉❤ you guys are great .
Beshak har mamly ma Allah se drna chahiyeh
انا لله وانا اليه راجعون 1:35:01
19:04 More than welcome brother.
I want to ask a question plz plz reply me as soon as possible I am working on apps that earn through ads can I develop wallpaper apps in which we show boys and girls simple wallpapers ? Not vulgur wallpaper also can we show BTS wallpapers I know it's a song band but we only show their wallpapers not videos but user can set video as wallpaper any video they can set as wallpaper but their is no BTS video in our app. Is this allowed plz tell me as soon as possible
wrong platform check islamqa.com for asking Qs..my ijtihad is BTS artist r well known for singing n promoting pictures n artist who engage in sinful activities would b promoting them indirectly n therefore not allowed.... cant u omit bts n animate pics..whoever gives up a thing for Allah..he Allah will give them that which is better...if only ppl knew.
I need this prodcast
Your username is kinda problematic...I mean is deen separate from dunia? Isn't it exactly how we are supposed to live in this dunya ...
Btw voice of Ali bhai and Fahad bhai is same same. 😊😊😊
1:22:10 Haldi ke din ka intezar hi mat karo, pehle se hi uss cheez pe kaam hona chahiye, and for that you have to be the role model, an Alpha of your family. Ke saamne walo ko sharam aaye woh kaam karne pe jis kaam ko aap napasand Karo, on the basis of deen. So automatically aap ke khandaan ke liye trend aur fashion ka base hi change hojayega. Aur fir isme koi naach gana karega, they will be the odd one out and the omega.