No One Is Coming To Save You…

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  • Опубліковано 22 сер 2024
  • Victim mentality gets you nowhere!
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    Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
    Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
    His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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    No One Is Coming To Save You…
    In this short, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals the truth about success and why nobody is coming to save you... Take responsibility!
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  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  2 роки тому +12

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    • @jpg8760
      @jpg8760 2 роки тому

      Graduating childhood… like forgoing the DOOM short for something someone can take you seriously I ? Gary Vee wears that crap but all he’s doing is going to garage sales.

    • @srh547
      @srh547 2 роки тому

      Holes in the doom shirt 🤙nice
      All hail Brak!

  • @jc3858
    @jc3858 2 роки тому +101

    Well said. I’m 31 and taking huge action because I have to. In my 20s with an alcoholic mother and a drug addict father I thought someone was gonna come and rescue me. They never came. I’ve had to claw from rock bottom but I’ll never give up.

  • @jamesd4520
    @jamesd4520 2 роки тому +110

    They don't have time to care about YOUR problems because they have problems of their own. This inspires me more to live my life and not care what people think because no one cares either way and your stuck with yourself at the end of the day.

  • @speaklife.7735
    @speaklife.7735 2 роки тому +42

    "We are all adults physically but mentally very few people have ever graduated childhood" I love❤️ this quote.

  • @jacksonzheng3103
    @jacksonzheng3103 2 роки тому +147

    Brooo, honestly, this isn't even about game, communication or anything but I never thought about it until you verbalised it. "No one is gonna care if you succeed or fail."
    I've literally been basing my life and career decisions on impressing others (parents, teachers friends) and avoiding disappointment.
    What a fucking waste of time that was.
    It's time for me to do what I actually wanted to do in the first place!

    • @Isnotreal42
      @Isnotreal42 2 роки тому +2

      How's it going bro

    • @jacksonzheng3103
      @jacksonzheng3103 2 роки тому +12

      @@Isnotreal42 good, I've got a sales job interview in the next week, and I'll be moving out into my own place in less than 3 months. I'm also deciding to drop college as well since my courses have no foreseeable benefits to my career and the direction I'm heading in so I'm gonna spend more time on the things I enjoy: selling, writing and learning new skills and obtaining more knowledge.

    • @pureruckuspower2165
      @pureruckuspower2165 2 роки тому +7

      @@jacksonzheng3103 I got a friend who did the same.
      Been under a bridge for 2 years.
      Good luck. Actually do what you say and don't back track.

    • @James-yi1vk
      @James-yi1vk 2 роки тому +2

      Keep it up bro. At the end of the day, YOUR HAPPINESS IS ALL THAT MATTERS!

    • @heyjonbray
      @heyjonbray 2 роки тому +2

      Yes! He doesn't play games... he doesn't give life hacks... he doesn't tell you how to get your ex back... he doesn't sell you subscriptions to get rich quick...
      Julien just lets you know how it is. Sure, you can sit and play video games 18 hours a day if you want, it's your life! But if that's your choice don't be upset when you never own your dream home or that Maserati you always wanted.
      On the other hand if you put the work in, and focus on you, it's going to pay off. Because there is definitely no one out there searching for you so they can give you a better life hah.
      Glad you enjoyed, I've been a fan of his talks for a while. He knows the game and how to play it.

  • @hollywoodbb
    @hollywoodbb 2 роки тому +13

    When I realized this, I became a whole new man. Went from rock bottom to the best I’ve ever been in just a few years.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  2 роки тому +1

      Nice! Glad to hear you're doing better than ever!

  • @jasonggabbott
    @jasonggabbott 2 роки тому +5

    My dad used to say I would complain but nobody would give her shit.

  • @nate2clutch308
    @nate2clutch308 2 роки тому +30

    The only person who can save you is yourself, you are responsible for your own happiness

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  2 роки тому +7

      Yes! This doesn't mean don't ask for help... But it all starts with YOU! 👊

  • @MrKarlozz
    @MrKarlozz 2 роки тому +28

    The hero we don't deserve but certainly the one we need. Hat's off to you, Julien

  • @SimowLabrim
    @SimowLabrim Рік тому +5

    I've been sick for 5 years, no one cares (they even push harder), that teached me to never complain and get the job done till the last beat. Stay strong fellas 💪

  • @stephena5752
    @stephena5752 2 роки тому +150

    It’s funnier he is wearing a Doom shirt

  • @rivkahkovacs8073
    @rivkahkovacs8073 Рік тому +2

    Life is NOT that extreme. Having a supportive community matters. I am thankful for mine.

  • @tylerbates8198
    @tylerbates8198 2 роки тому +474

    He graduated childhood mentally but his wardrobe didn’t lol

    • @8mycereal
      @8mycereal 2 роки тому +6

      LOLLL

    • @TheLordoftutorial
      @TheLordoftutorial 2 роки тому +30

      Doom is a Classic

    • @moostacho4300
      @moostacho4300 2 роки тому +104

      He's wearing what he wants, that's the point

    • @toddbr5959
      @toddbr5959 2 роки тому +47

      And what should he be wearing? With a suit and tie he would be more adult for you?

    • @patriarchmike
      @patriarchmike 2 роки тому +14

      No way dude. It's the new thing. It's cool to dress like a 13 year gamer punk with a bad attitude and bi polar

  • @CleverMetaphor
    @CleverMetaphor 2 роки тому +23

    Just saw a short called "what it means to be a man" and it was a guy complaining about women and how no one cares over a video of grand theft auto... All of the comments I saw were "omg so true (sad face)"
    There are no men anymore. Just crybabies heading straight towards world war 3. I'm glad I found your channel man. I find myself agreeing with everything you say. Maybe it will open enough people's eyes to make a positive, much needed change in the world.
    And I realize I'm being harsh, but so many people have no idea how terrible things could actually be.

    • @stevemagic5358
      @stevemagic5358 2 роки тому

      You talking about AMS ?

    • @CleverMetaphor
      @CleverMetaphor 2 роки тому

      @@stevemagic5358 idk what that is... Sorry the actual title was "it's sad but it's facts..."

  • @_BROJAS
    @_BROJAS Рік тому +2

    I tune in for the message and stay for the wardrobe. 🔥

  • @emmanuelwolfmusic410
    @emmanuelwolfmusic410 2 роки тому +1

    A very powerful message that we all must face,as a singer in a new bon Jovi tribute band,I realise this,I'm 41 now and most of my life I've been a victim if I'm honest,but your right,no one's saving us.a very good and sobering message

  • @KalkiAvatarATWAR
    @KalkiAvatarATWAR 2 роки тому +7

    The only person most people need saving from is themselves, fortunately, since that's well within our control

  • @notayoutuber3518
    @notayoutuber3518 2 роки тому +1

    Many families do not become this way, they are very supportive and can be pivotal in a person’s life. The important thing is not to EXPECT people to support you. We need to support ourselves.

  • @Euphoryaaa
    @Euphoryaaa Рік тому +2

    Idk why it took me turning 30 and losing EVERYTHING to finally understand this

    • @lukamilas8648
      @lukamilas8648 8 місяців тому

      I figured it out in my late 20s.. by 35 I progressed so much after NEVER again hoping on help or somebody saving me.

  • @steevehoyoufat9155
    @steevehoyoufat9155 2 роки тому +3

    God helps those who help themselves. He never said it would be easy, only that it will be worth it!! As long as you're still alive you have a fighting chance. You owe it to yourself to live life!! Anything you work at you'll get better at. To everyone who reads this, you are worthy. You are necessary. You are loved. You are beautiful. You are appreciated. God loves you and so do I and there's nothing you can do about it!

  • @AM23.
    @AM23. 2 роки тому +2

    I learned this at a very young age
    Your your loved ones will not be there for you when you need them the most
    It's not sad. It's kind of liberating actually
    At least it was for me

    • @george1449
      @george1449 2 роки тому

      Liberating? How come?

    • @AM23.
      @AM23. 2 роки тому

      @@george1449 It was just a shift for me, knowing that as a man I must walk my own path. I know it sounds sappy. And also not being caught off guard anymore when my parents wouldn't help me, ( like feel better about life),but expecting them not to. Was probably about 14

  • @avasinha9764
    @avasinha9764 2 роки тому

    Learned it.....and now no complaints, no gossip....I use all my energy for my and my loved one's well being.

  • @manvendrasingh4556
    @manvendrasingh4556 Рік тому

    really what a insane confidence , he is delivering speech with torn t shirt.

  • @ruferbor
    @ruferbor 2 роки тому

    Bath of Reality.... That is What You bring on your interventivos, Thank You Julien. Watching you From Portugal. Thank You

  • @ismaelhall3990
    @ismaelhall3990 10 місяців тому +1

    We all needed to hear this.

  • @elizabethfindlay5752
    @elizabethfindlay5752 Рік тому

    Thank you. I've come to this conclusion over my discoveries over the past 3 yrs in a deep dive.
    It's crazy.
    It explains why sooo many people feel young but in an immature way. Not the young at heart way.

  • @SlickRick4EVER
    @SlickRick4EVER Рік тому

    This is what I needed to **listen**. Thank you for the reality check.

  • @buffalosolider206
    @buffalosolider206 2 роки тому +1

    Damn true and if they come to save you it will have conditions or you won’t be able to succeeed when there gone
    There are no handouts

  • @4leavesclover747
    @4leavesclover747 2 роки тому +1

    I need to learn this n keep in mind ..

  • @violetmoon6233
    @violetmoon6233 Рік тому

    Very true . So many of us have wounded inner children .🙏👁️💯

  • @lisahunstock4005
    @lisahunstock4005 2 роки тому

    This is so true. But still if you‘re able to articulate what help you need there‘s so much out there. But if we don’t know what we want we don’t know how to ask for it.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  2 роки тому +1

      Yes, asking for help is CRUCIAL as long as it's coming from a place of GROWTH and not victim mentality. 🙏

    • @lisahunstock4005
      @lisahunstock4005 2 роки тому

      @@JulienHimself That is so true. And I just remember other videos of you of guy that said I want that girlfriend and that much money. He knew what he wanted. I have a question. Why do you think it is that some people ask the right questions and others are stuck in the victim mentality? I also experience people asking for advice and share their frustrations but when it comes to actual step by step help they don't listen anymore and believe they already tried everything that is possible. Does this victim mentality offer comfort?

  • @andresmedina9737
    @andresmedina9737 2 роки тому

    Facts hit hard. And you hit this one right on the nose

  • @NicolasTylerDoyle
    @NicolasTylerDoyle 2 роки тому

    Homeless don’t have to pay taxes nor are they in debt and they don’t have to visit family .
    I think I understand what he is saying here

  • @yukiknight7669
    @yukiknight7669 2 роки тому +1

    His dating history is wild.

  • @kapsouris82
    @kapsouris82 2 роки тому

    Correct very much correct Mr Julien nobody will save us

  • @jeffbush7764
    @jeffbush7764 2 роки тому

    I've got a nostalgic sentimental no fear shirt like that from good dope dayyyys.....epic words everytime I listen.... glad I found your channel..... even if normally I never needed it

  • @johnnyd2222
    @johnnyd2222 Рік тому

    Nicely spoken very nice thank you Julian🙏

  • @regerbryan
    @regerbryan 2 роки тому +8

    This dude is the ultimate bum he’s telling bums what they already know and charging them haha

  • @theroaminggnomad
    @theroaminggnomad Рік тому

    I graduated childhood the moment I survived A Sociopathic Father figure and a Narcissistic Mother. I had NO childhood.

  • @wardman21
    @wardman21 2 роки тому

    So well put!

  • @RevealedFilms
    @RevealedFilms 2 роки тому

    Brilliant and insightful short ✌️

  • @adiandsomething6977
    @adiandsomething6977 2 роки тому +1

    I'm now regretting why I didn't find you earlier 🙌🙌

  • @Nitroscion
    @Nitroscion Рік тому

    I still have a t shirt like that from high school. It was my favorite shirt but, I would never wear it because it look like his.

  • @Shoemaker30
    @Shoemaker30 2 роки тому

    So true, very few actually graduate childhood

  • @vonphysikbismetaphysik
    @vonphysikbismetaphysik Рік тому

    Man. Tell me about it. People asking me to be in denial with them. Nothing else is good enough for them. They’d rather send me away than accept a simple fact. The resistance is real.

  • @julasmaster
    @julasmaster 2 роки тому

    This one is good, i like that message

  • @user-yr8ow2mn5g
    @user-yr8ow2mn5g 11 місяців тому

    TRUE. Thx

  • @mikel2976
    @mikel2976 Рік тому

    My mom hasn't learnt this yet, but I have somehow.

  • @GuardianSoldier
    @GuardianSoldier 2 роки тому

    This is so true. They should teach this in senior year of highschool lol

  • @michelangelo1074
    @michelangelo1074 2 роки тому

    Need to remember this always 👌🏻

  • @lime_68
    @lime_68 2 роки тому

    Julien please post a full version of this!

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  2 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/GclWMdKqcBw/v-deo.html 😉

    • @lime_68
      @lime_68 2 роки тому

      @@JulienHimself Thanks! Please post links in the description, I am sure many people would get message from here and would be keen to watch the full video(just like myself)

  • @KDizzy6
    @KDizzy6 2 роки тому

    I'm glad to know I'm not the only one that keeps shirts even tho they've got holes in them.

  • @trayv7230
    @trayv7230 Рік тому

    Wow, this hit home.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Рік тому +1

      Glad this was impactful!

    • @trayv7230
      @trayv7230 Рік тому

      @@JulienHimself yayy you replied!! Just have to let ya know you & Owen were put on this earth to be our guiding light in darkness. Thanks for what the both of you do.

  • @eddygci8
    @eddygci8 2 роки тому

    Very wise

  • @gerardcs
    @gerardcs Рік тому

    We are coming I promise

  • @Modernstoic1
    @Modernstoic1 Рік тому

    Pure gold

  • @heyjonbray
    @heyjonbray 2 роки тому

    @JulienHimself if you were not doing so much good for the world coaching and speaking I would be pleading with you to run for public office. Thank you for being a voice of reason among millions of snake oil salesman!

  • @bayarearob
    @bayarearob 2 роки тому

    I was wondering why the neck on your shirt was so big lol. I thought it was from the microphones, but this one is actually ripped.

  • @gamecop2191
    @gamecop2191 2 роки тому +1

    True words but the irony of dudes bed head and ripped up doom shirt lol

  • @JolinHard
    @JolinHard 2 роки тому

    Brilliant.

  • @ryannorton9236
    @ryannorton9236 2 роки тому

    Someone said “Fucking Facts”, and I’ll say it again! FUCKING FACTS!!

  • @dylanblue9201
    @dylanblue9201 2 роки тому +2

    Correct, no one is coming to save you...
    However, there is one person who can save you, want to know who it is? _look in the mirror, you'll find that person there!_

  • @kait6018
    @kait6018 2 роки тому

    Very true.

  • @wavesbnice1
    @wavesbnice1 2 роки тому

    Very true

  • @su2sa1li4
    @su2sa1li4 2 роки тому

    We cry because mama comes... We may think this will keep working..but wont.

  • @chengezhussaini1464
    @chengezhussaini1464 8 місяців тому

    Childhood and adulthood are one in the same

  • @QuidamByMoonlight
    @QuidamByMoonlight 2 роки тому

    Very true…

  • @GR-uc1gq
    @GR-uc1gq 2 роки тому

    Said my name and a very audible "WTF " followed. Good content!

  • @heyjonbray
    @heyjonbray 2 роки тому

    So quick question... if every news Outlet is going to do a 24/7 news cycle, why can't they just live stream Julien all day?
    Almost everything he says I feel like everyone should hear more than once.

  • @daddada2984
    @daddada2984 2 роки тому

    Agree.

  • @genesisansbro4936
    @genesisansbro4936 2 роки тому

    I graduated childhood as a 5 year old…

  • @bengsynthmusic
    @bengsynthmusic 2 роки тому

    One person can save. Mick Gordon. 🎶

  • @jamey6236
    @jamey6236 2 роки тому

    I’m other words everyone is out for their own good. Sounds like a sad fact but come to find out it is actually a good fact. You are in the driver seat steering the wheel of your life.

  • @beja7641
    @beja7641 Рік тому

    Do our clothes reflect if we have grown up or no?

  • @mayankravi6955
    @mayankravi6955 2 роки тому

    Absolutely true 🙌🙌

  • @sidneyssempala982
    @sidneyssempala982 2 роки тому

    Jesus, that facts! And that t-shirt is a controversy 😊

  • @DS-hw8id
    @DS-hw8id 2 роки тому

    With a ‘Doom’ shirt on

  • @Cloud987600
    @Cloud987600 2 роки тому

    I like this guy, I feel like he’s like me

  • @murkyturkey5238
    @murkyturkey5238 2 роки тому

    His shirt says it all

  • @poechristhemfitz
    @poechristhemfitz 2 місяці тому

    Holy shit, yes.

  • @sharky8882
    @sharky8882 Рік тому

    True

  • @sadisticgirl_
    @sadisticgirl_ 2 роки тому

    I really need to know where you were going with this

  • @HollowHunter-SL1
    @HollowHunter-SL1 2 роки тому

    I can’t get over how low cut this guys shirts are like wtf bro get a normal shirt

  • @MENTALHEALTHBOXING
    @MENTALHEALTHBOXING 2 роки тому

    The reason I like this guy is because he chooses to look borderline homeless, just to let you know he really is confident. So why you can’t be confident?

  • @Lolopiki
    @Lolopiki 2 роки тому

    He’s right. Looks like he found out about it in a horrible way.

  • @p0intblAnkwaziT
    @p0intblAnkwaziT 2 роки тому +6

    Was an atheist my whole - still technically am. After 2020 government over reach, I went back to church for the first time in my adult life. Church is good. Christian world view is good. I don’t know if “God” can save you, but a Christian world view can.

    • @Vulture2918
      @Vulture2918 2 роки тому +1

      I respect the fact how you took charge of your nihilism, I also struggled with this too when I was an atheist but I have since found god. I wish you well brother.

    • @CountOfMonteCristo_
      @CountOfMonteCristo_ 2 роки тому

      I personally believe in God and I go to church. Don’t take this the wrong way I am in no way forcing my beliefs on you, I would just like to share a perspective on God if you care to listen. I agree church is good, and the way I see it, the Lord in my opinion, is always there for us and saves us, but in a methaphorical sense, as he doesn’t outright give us what we want. A lot of folks like to think of this as him not caring to save us, but I see that as the opposite, God doesn’t intervene on purpose, he’s making us stronger every day he doesn’t, he tests us and has us figure it out in our own, he can guide us but he doesn’t give us what we want and that’s what makes us strong, God makes humanity resilient, in my opinion.

    • @george1449
      @george1449 2 роки тому

      Not sure if this is the solution. Some people go to thr extreme and become gospel preachers. It's better if you try and not cling to things.

    • @p0intblAnkwaziT
      @p0intblAnkwaziT 2 роки тому

      @@CountOfMonteCristo_ I like ideas - no need to preface. Interesting thought, I like it.

    • @p0intblAnkwaziT
      @p0intblAnkwaziT 2 роки тому

      @@george1449 Non attachment is paramount - I agree

  • @endcredit1179
    @endcredit1179 2 роки тому

    This is 💯

  • @vanessamartin8018
    @vanessamartin8018 Рік тому

    wow. I changed by this

  • @jasonggabbott
    @jasonggabbott 2 роки тому

    Yup

  • @blairjohnson6014
    @blairjohnson6014 2 роки тому +2

    Says the guy with the picture day haircut and a… shirt of some kind. Please stop getting scammed by people like this.

  • @fidelguerra2164
    @fidelguerra2164 2 роки тому

    There it is. We have destroyed the community.

  • @salmanc1
    @salmanc1 2 роки тому

    Wisdom

  • @arhnstaylor4061
    @arhnstaylor4061 2 роки тому +1

    Yes, after years of sobriety, finally, I killed some beholdars on Mars again, yesterday.

    • @piglice4585
      @piglice4585 2 роки тому

      Where did you hide the bodies if you dont mind me asking?

  • @famasstuff8533
    @famasstuff8533 2 роки тому

    Man how and where can i meet u

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  2 роки тому

      www.transformationmasterylive.com/ 😉

  • @harisdiz.5817
    @harisdiz.5817 2 роки тому

    What's the process of graduating childhood?

  • @Morrisseyyy
    @Morrisseyyy 2 роки тому

    He says wearing a DOOM shirt and hair he hasn’t washed in 3 weeks

  • @Impeturector
    @Impeturector 2 роки тому

    Good guy Garrry

  • @abinanth53494
    @abinanth53494 Рік тому +1

    Recently i know

  • @shamoblamo9625
    @shamoblamo9625 2 роки тому

    I feel like this story is personal to him. Who hurt you bro

  • @bloodyclovis5964
    @bloodyclovis5964 2 роки тому

    Ha ha ha you've got on one of those designer stressed t shirts