HOW I STOPPED RESENTING MY EX & HEALED FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP| Tres Chic Mama
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
- Hi guys! Today I wanted to share with you a more serious video. How I stopped resenting my ex (child's father) and healed from the toxic relationship. I wanted to share some advice I have as a single mom as maybe you are curious, going through something similar or wanting to know how to heal and have a decent coparenting relationship for your child's sake. I've always known my story can help others but I also want to remain some level of privacy. I thought this would be a wonderful way to help other single moms & know it's completely possible to be happy again. To have an ok coparenting relationship (whatever "coparenting" looks like to you). It starts within. You can't change someone else, but you can change yourself, grow, heal & be confident enough to no longer resent someone who hurt you.
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I love hearing you speak about how praying and God got you through. With Him all things are possible. ❤
100% 🙏💪❤️
Hello greetings from Dubai how you today ..I would love to talk to you privately if you don't mind ??
As someone who’s been under extremely narcissistic and manipulative leadership, this resonated. Thank you for reminding me to pray, it truly is freeing to forgive as I’ve been forgiven by Christ.
It is unbelievably freeing 💪💗
You’re such a strong woman 😭❤️ Sydney is a lucky girl. I grew up with parents who were very very toxic to each other. I wonder what MY life would’ve turned out like If my mom had left the situation when I was young... 25 years later I’m in the same toxic kind of relationship.. you give me hope, thank you for this video 🙏
Hello beautiful..you can also be as strong as she is I bet even better ..
Hey beautiful can I take your pains away
Wow! I’m going through this at this moment and it feels like your the only one going through it but just watching your video an reading the comments...it’s a relief to see that I’m not alone and I can get past it the same way that you have. Thank you so much like so many others I needed to hear this!
I started watching your videos when I was at a low point in my life 2 years ago. I was going through a separation and wanted to plan a Disney trip for my kids and that’s how I stumbled upon your videos. Seeing that you were a single mom doing all these things for your daughter gave me inspiration in a dark time. 2 years later watching this video again has shown me how far I’ve come. Thank you for being such an inspiration!
Seeing you so healthy is so encouraging. I’m so happy that you’re healing and doing well. THIS is the kind of woman we need to look up to.
💪🙏❤️ thank you! Everyone deserves to be healed & happy!!! It takes a lot of work & is beyond worth it.
Love that you’re seeing it through to post new content! Great advice. I paused my telemedicine therapy sessions to focus on maternity leave and physical healing, and this was very similar in the approach as to counseling advice. I was left when I was 10 weeks pregnant and my baby is now 5 months old. I bought a 3500sq ft home for me and my baby 3 months ago.. and I’m happily building my baby’s future as a solo parent.
You rock mama 🙌💪❤️ Good for you!!!!!!
Thanks for making this video. It’s actually helped me in a totally unrelated way. I just gave birth to my second baby two weeks ago, and your advice reminded me to take a little time to do something for myself each day. Even just spending literally 1-2 minutes every morning throwing on some CC cream, blush, quick swipe of mascara and lip balm - makes me feel good about myself. So thank you! 😘😘
I have been working on healing the same way. Currently going through a divorce and we have an almost 3 year old (she loves seeing Sydney on TV!). He left due to an affair a year ago and lives with the other woman. What you said about reacting is hard, but so true. The other woman likes to post negative things through social media, friends will share with me what was stated and I just avoid it. The phrase I keep telling myself is, "Other people's opinions of me are none of my business."
One piece of advice I have is to ask people to stop sharing those things with you. Their intentions might be ok but it does nothing but continue the hurt. You’ve got this 💪💗
Hello beautiful
Wow I really needed this today! I’m a single mom of a 3-year-old and have so much hatred for my ex, but I know it’s not healthy for my daughter or me.
Hello beautiful ..Nice you are really a model for woman you are strong and independent I love that about you ..
Your glowing ✨ Such a amazing role model for Sydney.
❤️🥰 awwww well thank you so much. We do our best for our babies 🙏
Praying is the key to all things. Love your vlogs.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Thank you... I am still on my path of building myself back up after splitting with my ex and becoming the sole caretaker of my 2yo daughter at 20. Coming from a place I thought my life was over and now being with someone who treats me and my daughter right, it’s difficult living with that anger, frustration, and resentment. Thank you, for sharing this part of your journey and showing me that It’s okay to pay attention to my own actions to make things better rather than letting him dictate my feelings. Im so happy I’ve found your channel... you’ve helped me and my confidence so much❤️
Omg! This is so my relationship atm. This hit home and made me cry! Wow!
I always fight back because I dont want to be beaten down...
I’ve only just begun this journey myself and listening to this video has given me hope and inspiration to keep pushing through no matter how hard it may seem at the moment. Thank you for posting this, it really is what I needed to hear to help me get through this👍
Definitely! I do agree with you completely, time will always heal. Heartbreak will make you stronger, smarter and more cautious. And you don't deserve to have a manipulative and toxic person in your life because you are a good person with a good heart. Keep strong!!!! So proud of you and Sydney that you overcome all of this. Take care guys. 😻
Thank you love ❤️ 🥰
I’m married and don’t have any plans of leaving the father of my children (hopefully he feels the same 🤞🏻😂). But I am curious as to how people overcome something like this. My sister in law and her husband divorced a few months after having their daughter, and many secrets came out about my SIL. My SIL’s ex husband is my husband’s best friend, so all of the stuff we found out caused a lot of resentment with my husband and his best friend. Even I’ve found myself feeling resentment towards her. So I feel like this video could help me, and even give my ex-brother in law tips on how to heal. So thank you for posting this.
Anyone can learn & heal from resenting anyone! It holds us back & does no good to harbor negative thoughts towards someone else. Growing, healing & moving on is the only way we can rid ourselves of it 💪🙏❤️ You go girl for realizing your family can grow!
My ex who is a narcissist left when my daughter was a month old. And it was so hard for me to let go but later on (with time :) ) I realized it was for the best. People who are toxic like that rarely ever change. He still hasn't seen her since then (she's 5 months now) but I hope one day we can get to where you are because its my daughter who i think of. I would like for her to have a relationship with him. BUT yes everything you said is completely accuarate. I was with him throughout my entire pregnancy and the way he treated me is something hard to over come but I'm getting there and I know one day I'll be healed and happy... (:
You can’t change those who don’t want to change ❤️ I know you absolutely will recover & be so completely happy 🙏💪
I needed this ! I just turned 14 weeks today and my so called person has been so horrible this whole time as if it doesn’t take two. He already has a child and this is my first child and he has just been so horrible and projecting his own insecurities onto me! You are so strong! Great video! I love it!! Thank you so much for this !
I’m in the same boat as you! 28 weeks! My Ex has treated me like shit! All I wanted was for him to care and love her. Never asked him for money. Never planned on it! He also has 2 kids.. we also live in different states so he has the easiest job!
Girl this is life changing advice. Thank you. I find one of the hardest things is that he has so much control (regarding money, patenting, etc) over me and is so nasty to me, it’s so hard to get that physical and emotional distance in order to heal.
😍😘😍 I Just woke up this morning and I decided to rewatch your old Videos again 😂😘
“ cuz you’re amazing just the way you are!!” -Bruno Mars 😆 you’ve done amazing for you and Syd 💜
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I really needed to hear this i just got out of a relationship with a narcissistic he totally emotionally destroyed me we also have a child together but he abandoned the child as well
You are enough for your child & don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Keep working on loving yourself ❤️🙏💪
Thank you so much
You should not let the past hurt your present ...hope you having a nice day.? am fazza you.?
I'm so happy you are able to move on from a bad relationship and still able to co-parent with him.. great advice you gave.... I was in a very bad relationship but it was a little bit worst and we have two kids together and my kids dad is not a "real dad" he doesn't help me in any way with the kids and he doesn't ask to see the kids or anything and my kids are teenagers and I do ask if they want to see their dad but they don't want to. Not going to lie I still hate my ex but I don't talk about him or anything he refuses to talk to me I've tried many times to co-parent with him but he doesn't want to. In my eyes you shouldn't force or keep trying to have that person to be a parent. If someone doesn't want to be part of their kids life then it's on them. Great video... you are one of the women's I look up to..
I couldn’t agree more, you can’t change or force someone to change when they don’t want to. And might I just add, you don’t look like it’s even possible to have teenagers 🤯😍
I went thru a breakup that I thought would kill me a few years ago. I didn’t think I could make it without him (mostly bc he told me that...) but one day I took a tiny step forward, then another, then another. Then I re-met the love of my life (we “dated” in like 7th grade lol) and we are to be married in October! My life is so great now and I literally couldnt be happier. I am so proud of you for figuring sh** for you and Sydney. She has the best role model ever!!!
Ahhhh I got chills! I’m so happy for you 👏💗 See, everything happens for a reason!!
Tres Chic Mama it totally does! I just love to see women flourish after a bad relationship and you can see it on your face how happy you are! ❤️
I am only half way through this video and it has already helped me so much. I feel everything that you’re saying. I have reached out to you a few times about how I’m going through a divorce right now and I have full custody of my son for now luckily he is only 2. I hope and pray that when we go back for our order of protection hearing next February I will gain full custody. The threats and the Manipulation is too much. I feel so lucky to have Jaxson and to be able to have full custody for now but I’m still trying to put myself back together after being broken for 7 years.
You’re literally speaking straight too mez. He always told me I couldn’t do anything right and that I was so stupid I should be getting paid for it. Thank you for this video because you truly have helped me .
I am praying for you and your babe!! You’ve got this girl 🙏🙏💪💪❤️ Heal yourself, focus on putting your pieces back together & loving that boy of yours! When someone is so unhappy within, they hurt the closet person to them because they need to feel needed. Again, trust in the path. Hugging you through the internet girl 💗🤗
No woman should be treated like that I hope you find someone who treats you better
Ugh I needed this so much. I totally wish I could have a conversation with you and ask you for advice lol. Thank you so much for this video, and great job at the life you've created for you and Sydney❤
Timing could NOT be better for this 🤣💕💕💕
Hello greetings from Dubai
Love hearing you talking about God!!! 🙌🙏🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉💓💓💓💓
You are the light at the end of your tunnel 😊
Awww ❤️🙏 well thank you
Having been there and evolved past a toxic relationship, I agree with these! Most of these are things i had to start doing as well. Especially not trying to defend yourself or argue back. They can’t continue to argue with silence. For the sake of positive co-parenting, another thing I learned to do is swallow my pride a lot and keep my opinions to myself about how he parents vs how I do. We used to spend time together before we had significant others, and when we did start dating again, that gradually evolved but we still do birthdays for the kids together and work together really well.
Omg thank you for adding this! Swallowing our pride is a huge one sometimes! ❤️ So glad to hear of your beautiful path!
Tres Chic Mama I want to add that it’s been 6+ years since we first separated too, and you’re right that it definitely does not just happen overnight. Healing, learning and growth... those all take so much time, but it’s worth putting in the effort. 💕
This is one of those topics that NO One wants to talk about. Thank you for your transparency and for remaining us that being a single mom is just fine. There is a million ways to move on and truly become a happy healthy confident successful woman... While creating a fulfilling life. 💎💋🤘💯
I'm pregnant. My boyfriend is refusing to provide and I know with his situation he will dodge child support forever. He promised he would never leave me alone... Your channel is helping me keep hope. Thank you
U sooo need to do more of these sit down and talk about life videos. Nobody has a perfect life and so many of the u tubers come across as so unrelatable. U are so normal and down to earth. It feels like ur talking to a friend about real life. Please keep these going. Xo
I love this!! I’m having issues with my fiancé‘s mother that has just gotten out of control. I feel like I’m a lot like you! You’re a amazing mom and person ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Aw thank you. I hope it gets better for you too
You will get better ...😍
Solid points 👍🏽
Praying for the person also enables you to forgive the person and yourself. That is probably the most important thing you could do. The more hurt and strife we harbor, the more of that we attract towards ourselves.
Oooooo girl I saw this title and jumped! So proud of you :)
Hahaha ❤️🥰 Takes work but man it’s freeing
Hello hope you have a nice day today ..
Tees Chic Mama I love you guys so much as fans. I am always here you no matter. You make me feel happiest in world. You are friendly, kind, amazing, funny person in world. Stay positive. Stay strong . Stay healthy. Everyone too. I am support both of you all the times no matter I am always here for you all the times no matter what. I loved this video a lots. You make me feel inspired happiness. Both of you make me smile a lots. Keep it up video. Never give up. I am here for you. I am very happy for you changing your best. It best for you staying single mom for your daughter❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤️❤️🥰 Thank you so so much love!!!
you remind me such much as myself. especially when u said you prayed for him and it worked.. I was like heck yea it worked! lol I love the fact that you have God in your life. God will take care of you and your baby.
I felt this👏🏽. Sending prayers
Thank you so much for this. I am in this exact same situation and have gone through so many of the same feelings especially about the living in fear. I practice many of these ideas but its still SO HARD sometimes. Helps so much to know you're not alone in how you feel.
It is so hard & there may be moments even when you are feeling while again but, you’ve got this 🙏💗
This will help a ton of people! Alot of life lessons here. You really are a wonderful person! Also, you nailed the ambiance of this video! Very fit for the topic!!
Awww I’m so glad!!! 💗 and thank you so much
I can so relate to all of this! You hit the nail on the head with all your points. My ex comes to see the kids at my house too. I have done all the same tactics as you when he’s there. I didn’t realize how much self care promotes healing too. TFS!
This is soooo helpful for so many! Thank you for sharing. You truly are such a great role model for Sydney, and she will appreciate it so much down the road. She’s the top priority and even though it’s so difficult, it’s very important to get along/be respectful for her sake. You rock, Hayley!❤️💪🏼
Absolutely!!! We no longer put ourselves first, it’s about what’s best for our kiddos! Whatever that looks like 🙏❤️
My husband does that we been together for ten years but I'm ready to leave him and walk away. He's so manipulative we have kids and he tries to keep me here. I want to grow and do my own thing. He does say he will take the kids away from me. All the time. Yes I forgive and pray that all these people will be happy. Thank you. I'm ready to leave him and start my journey trusting God and the universe. He calls me worthless too. Yes. All this negative crap. It's him that's miserable with his own life.
Love this!! Thank you! Forgiveness and prayer go a long way toward healing for yourself and all involved.🙏🏼 I’ve been out 8 years and had a toddler and a first grader when I left. My situation was also toxic but different with older kids and complex issues. Facing challenges I never imagined. It’s all figureoutable though!
I have a podcast about getting out of toxic relationships and another for entrepreneurial mamas. I’m working on an episode about what I wish I knew when I became a single mom. I’d love to feature you if you ever do interviews. Your story is so INSPIRING and moms need to see what’s possible. I’ll reach out through email.
BRAVO to you for all you’ve accomplished and for your incredible mom skills. Sydney has grown to be such a happy well-adjusted kid!! 🙌🏼❤️💯
It is a biblical thing to pray for your enemies. Although its not like an ex is necessarily an enemy, but they are emotionally at the time of a breakup. God knows what's best for us. ❤ I love your videos.
1000% 🙏💪❤️
Love and respect for you. You have done it and you can do it. You are a strong person. 😍
I feel like I’m getting advise from a best friend and you have no idea who I am :) but I struggle I’m still with my baby’s father but we definitly have not the healthiest relationship
And I feel like Im talking to my friends 🥰 Take care of yourself love! Don’t ever let yourself go by the wayside
Hayley, u r such a brave person, I’ve fallow your channel from the beginning, I just must say , a lot of single moms could be happy if they at least, learn to look at life things like you do, I’m sure u r such an inspiration for some of them!!! Keep going and don’t look back, all the best will come to you and to your adorable daughter 👍🏻🙏🏻🤗
Sometimes it’s so hard to put in the work & get yourself back up. But it’s completely worth it & you become an even better version of yourself 💪❤️🙏 Thank you
Great video 👍 Really great advice thank you. Allowing another person to take responsibility for themselves so key.
Not taking responsibility for them being no longer a rescuer. As individuals taking personal responsibility for you and your decisions and choices so key self-care.
what we say and what we do have to be one and the same boundary's are so important.
Can relate to all your saying being around a toxic person is hard I've been though it.
I've looked at also the negative self-talk working on that and not needing validation from outside of me.
Confidences gets lost but so important to work on it self-love self awareness loving or at least liking who you are again after losing yourself and not liking who are around that toxic person.
It's hard to put all these things in place but equally so very essential and a game changer.
Co-parenting makes all these things harder but not impossible and can all only do best you can.
Time is a great healer.Also I'd say allow self to feel all the feelings name them face them. To be able to really help and then genuinely move forward. People either are growing with you are blessings or show you life lessons what don't need in your life.
A healthy relationship with yourself first is so important so not being a people pleaser and no longer putting everyone first is hard especially if done it your whole life. That you have to be happy first because if come from place of lack or try to fill void though someone else. Once longer continue to draw toxic person or settle for less then we all deserve. what we say to ourselves what willing to put up with and how we respond is so important as part of growth and a happier peaceful life .
Best advice ever "Let it be"!
Yes it is.. how you doing
That's amazing what you did unfortunately not alot of women have the courage to do that or don't even realize they are in that situation this a great video thanks for sharing
Such great tips! I think these are good things for forgiving anyone whose done you wrong. ❤
Absolutely!!! Resentment prevents true happiness.
I am so happy for u. Because I know it is not easy. But with God in ur life n having faith n believing in urself does make a big difference. N I 100% agree with u. Most of the time the problem is with the other person not u. But they just want u 2 believe that it's u n that u r not capable of doing things by urself. When actually we r capable of doing anything n everything we set our mind to n if we believe we can then we will. Us as women should know our worth n value. We have to learn how to love ourselves in order to be happy again. Thank u for sharing with us I know it will help many of us who may be going through something similar. Love u xoxo
Can I just say that you look amazing! Love the video, such great advice! ♥️
A lot of us definitely needed this
Hugging you all 🤗💗
You def helped me with this video and with videos you’ve made in the past. I found you very early on when my relationship was going south and I was a new mom. You are like the only one I could find on YT talking about this. How did you get back on your feet and buy your home? I’m in the place where I’m trying to become independent again with housing.
This video is very informative. One of the best that I've ever watched on your channel. God bless you honey
I agree with everything you said...being with someone toxic can really destroy u if u don't free yourself at some point. BUT what do u do if that same toxic person keeps disappointing your child with the same toxic behavior, even after a divorce? I feel really helpless cuz my kid is crazy about his Dad and he doesn't really care...and i feel like i have to protect my kid from getting his feelings hurt over and over again...
See this is my thought process as well. What will I do if this happens in time? 🙏😞 Honestly, I have always said I would try my hardest to do what’s right for her & you know in your gut what is right. Even if it’s hard. I have also always said I would get my daughter counseling if I ever thought she ever needed it. I’m praying for you mama ❤️🙏
I really need to do this .. I am 49 yrs old and in the worst relationship of my life.. My boyfriend is so mentally and emotionally abusive . The sad thing is financially I can’t make it without him .. Can you please me on your prayer list?
YES YOU CAN!!!!!! I’m absolutely praying for you. You can make it without someone else financially 💪🙏 I promise you that. Once you start believing in yourself fully, you will gain so much confidence.
Yes you can. It wont be how you may want to live right now with less finances but you can make the choice today to live a different life for yourself. There are resources and agencies that help, churches. And God provides by the way. When you put Him first you cannot fail and He won't fail you.
You absolutely can! I left a relationship after 16 years with $33,000 of debt that we had both accumulated. We also have a child together. Since we were not married and all the debt was in my name, I left with that burden on my shoulder. 3 years later I have dealt with the debt, have a way better job, and am doing super well! It seems daunting and impossible and that’s the reason why I stayed for so long. Albeit I was not being abused. If you are being abused, please please leave. Ask for help from family and friends. You will be shocked how many ppl will step in and help you. I will keep you in my thoughts. Please reach out if you need someone to talk to. ♥️
I’m going through a divorce with my husband & we just had a baby my son is 4 months I’m happy he decided to end it before my son understands.. so I hopefully this video will help a little bit
Aw sending you my love & prayers for strength during your difficult time ❤️🙏🙏🙏
Thank yu
I’m grateful too my son was very young when I left.
Praying is the key
Hi. I feel like I am hearing myself speak... But I'm still working on some points... Because sometimes you just want this person totally out of your life and you have to keep them in for your child's sake... And stressful events keep being thrown at you.. I appreciate your courage and renewed ambition x
You are not alone. There are still moments like this for me too! It’s ok, give yourself grace. Return to balance & take care of you immediately. It’s ok to fall, just get back up & brush it off 🙏💪❤️
@@TresChicMama thanks a lot for your kind words. A stressful situation happened again today but will keep strong! ♥️
I'm so happy for Sydney she has the best mom ever!! 😍
My parents are also not together and growing up it was definitely hard... I wish my parents would of gotten such advice... Lol
But now we're all grown up thank god
❤️ thank you
One of your best videos! Very motivating
You're such an inspiration!!
Hayley thank you so so much x
Loved your "hallelujah" moment :)
Haha ☺️🙌🙌🙌
This is so powerful, so helpful, so amazing. You are so strong, brave and courageous to give this advice for everyone
Yes you are a wonderful mum!! 💕
This was really informative and helpful. Thank you.
It's so hard for me... he cheated and flipped into a whole new life.. cried a year later trying to get me back. I still divorced him. The resentment is so high. And hurt. .... I try not to say or do anything around my son negative at all.
You're so pretty I'm surprised that he doesn't try to make it work but oh well. You'll find Someone better.
You can’t change someone who doesn’t want to change. ❤️
You'll find the one. Keep living your life and loving yourself. The universe will help you out. Sending love and light to you and Sydney ❤️ 💞
This is so true we are all strong 💪🏼
Definitely 💪💗
Love love the new content!!
You are such an amazing person!
I divorced my son's dad when he was 17months old and he is now 28. I didn't hate him I just didn't love him. I went into a horrible relationship after and had to move to another state and then back to back another horrible one. I mean I was so ashamed for leaving a good man that I couldn't believe the evil I was in back to back. I am 52 and lost myself and haven't dated in a couple years. The one thing I can say that my son tells me is he didn't know any difference because his dad and I were never negative. Not in front of him anyhow. I felt guilty for divorcing his dad but don't regret it. Stand up for yourself and not allow the disrespect but make sure your daughter never hears it. That is hard I know. A toxic person is not worthy of your beauty and soul. Not feeding the fire is great, but he has to know you are strong. When I ignored my toxic men it drove them batty and I loved it!
ALL OF THIS!! Our kids don’t need to be hearing fights & toxicity. There is a fine line between allowing someone to treat you bad & standing up for yourself/not allowing it. Proud of you for making your son you priority ❤️🙌
I needed this today! ❤️
❤️🤗 hugs
you are very strong woman and mom😍🤗 have a wonderfull weekend
Have a great weekend 😄
Hello ..yes she is but I think you more beautiful..
Thank you for this. I needed to hear this at this exact moment. (Big exhale) ❤️
Hugs 🤗 💗
Thanks that really does make since bc my oldest son’s father and I split up awhile ago and I still have a lot of problems w him but the difference is I have a awesome man now who supports us and is a amazing to not only our son together but he is w my oldest son as well and my ex has moved on as well but it’s like he forgot he even had a son and doesn’t call or c him but make once or twice a year and I know deep down it hurts my oldest son who is 15 years and he was best friends w his dad and I know he feels like his dad just up and left him and that is what I hold resentment for towards my ex for what he has been doing to our precious son
It is so hard as a Mama bear to know your child hurts 😞 Let that awesome man you have in your life now, show your son what a man should be! 🙏💪❤️
Tres Chic Mama I most definitely do but at the same time I know it’s not his biological dad and I know he misses him but he doesn’t miss us together bc it was just so bad and now he has a 3 year old brother who he got to name and he is autistic so he just cherishes his baby brother thanks for the reply I really appreciate it u have amazing little girl and ur a great momma and I love watching all of ur videos xoxo
thanks for sharing this ♥️
Really needed this 🧡
Thank you Hayley, this was an awesome video xox 💖💕
My baby's dad stopped talking to me altogether when I was almost 3mo pregnant. I haven't talked to him since, I kind of just gave up trying to involve him and left the ball in his court... and now I'm due the beginning of August and he hasn't helped with A.NY.thing..... if he never speaks to me or tries to be involved in our child's life should I even try to collect child support from him? Or should I just count myself lucky that he's not making my life or my daughter's life miserable and leave it be?
Do whatever you think is right. But dont be ashamed of child support, that why it was created for dead beats.
What great advice!
Hello
God heals all wounds in time❤🙏
Loved this
I needed this..❤️
I am glad i am not alone In this Cause i dont have mom friends and I needed this message Cause i was told i was a bad mom and etc and i started to believe it And i got depressed and etc.
Don’t believe those lies!!! It’s projection. You are a good mom & deserve to be happy!!! 🙏💪🥰
I need this cause i am going threw it now
You’ve got this girl 🙏❤️❤️❤️ Sending you virtual hugs. It is completely possible for it to get better
I am also Sky 😭
I try yo not be bitter and Allow god to Help me But its hard sometimes i want to Lash out and scream And etc cause we got in a fight on father day
Oh man do I know exactly what you mean. It’s hard! Sometimes it helps me to word vomit all over a trusted friend 🤣 through texts or a private phone call etc. haha Just to get it out is healing. Also try so hard to breathe & pray.
Believe me Haley without men you live much better and more peaceful😍👍
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Can you do more hour of cleaning videos and speed yourself up a lot faster than your other one? They are so fun to watch!
Very important video
I absolutely love you !! You're such an inspiration, for so long I resented my baby daddy for abandoning me and my baby and deniying her as his own , but your courage to speak up has helped me. Thank you so much because you have given me the courage to open my own UA-cam channel and encourage young mothers like me, can you guys please check it out ❤️
Wow what's your link ?
I just viewed your channel you really have great content
Such a touching story , I don't know how you survived
This helps so much!
Thank you 🙏🏾
Can I send you message pls? I am divorced from my ex. I am going through it so much.