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YES AILEEN! Thank you, Aileen (: You are always hitting the right spots! "Worth is immeasurable" "Do not base worth on external validations, other people and things." "Stop putting your worth on productivity." "Stop putting your worth on performance." I jotted these tips in my journal which led to free style writing. Love how the recent videos got me writing more! And I am definitely healing as nightmares are slowly turning into dreams. (:
Every time I get older, I care less of what others think of me. But I'm still a work in progress especially when someone praises me, I think I don't deserve to be praised. I don't accept their compliments. Thank you for this video Ms. Aileen.
"we're putting ourselves down because we don't believe in ourselves", well that words hit my heart so much This video really show up the deepest feeling from my heart. So inspiring!
Make sure you catch the next video in this series: how to stop feeling insecure | bit.ly/2I6xDwb It was actually a part of this video, but the video ended up being so long I decided to split it into two :) Hope you guys are enjoying this self worth series!
ohmygod im literally sobbing !! i discovered your channel just now bc i wanted to buy your new notebook so i can start journaling, and then when i decided to explore the creator of the notebook's channel, im dumbfounded on how peaceful and inspirational and motivating your videos are !! wow im so happy rn
Thanks for sharing x...for the question about self worth after a traumatic experience: I agree with everything you said. Ultimately the experience is not about YOU, it’s not YOU, YOU can choose your response. I wanted to add also maybe to recognise that you have come through the experience, YOU are still here, still alive and still have worth. An experience does not have to take anything from you, it can add, you can choose to learn something, or not. It also sometimes helps me to remember that everyone is and can only do the best they can given who they are in that moment. So be kind to yourself...bit all over the place but hopefully there is something helpful there for someone...
I normally don't have problems with my self love and self acceptance, but I love this video because it showed me how other people feel and what are their struggles. It showed me how I can help other people (friends and family) to love themselves more. Thank u, Aileen! You're such a light! ⭐
Thank you for stating that trauma can make you a stronger person. You've been through a traumatic experience, you're healing and finding yourself again. Although unexpected, you actually become a stronger person.
i'm so insecure that yesterday i almost cried because i couldn't answer a question my classmate asked me about one of our classes. Like i knew the answer, but couldn't express myself. i could barely hold back my tears, hah. I've been fighting against self-hatred for almost six years now (i'm 23) to no avail, but i recently found your channel and maybe, just maybe, I'll be able to get better.
This really was needed for me today. I recently transitioned off my antidepressants and it's been harder to find my self worth through myself and not through external factors. This was nice and good for me. Thank you ❤️
This video is so true, real, beautiful and important. There are so many of us who have problem with self-worth and self-image, etc. We all do the best we can in life. Love the example with the worthy baby, very true.
I just want to say something.. I need you in my life and thank God I found you, I can't thank you enough for everything you do, you're changing me, you're teaching me how to LIVE, please don't ever change.
I really love your videos...since I started watching them I have made so much progress in discovering my dream life...what I want in life and now this self worth series is really helping me to really have the self love that I need in life...thank you so much Aileen❤
Woow... i just found out the root cause of my mental issues because of this video. I’m so excited about your new series, perfect timing! thank you so much for your motivation! You are a real inspiration❤️
Dear Aileen , i wanted to say thank you so much for this amazing, beautiful & extremely valuable content ❤ ever since i found your channel 3 years ago, you helped me so much in my self love journey and all the positive changes that shaped me to who i am today ! i'm now an independent young woman, i know my worth, i learned how to love and take care of myself & i'm so happy and proud of it =) but to be honest, i still have some insecurities and sometimes i feel down and tend to be harsh on myself, so watching this video made me feel at peace again ! it was like a precious reminder and definetely lifted up my spirit ! i can't wait to watch the rest of the videos related to this topic ! you're such a beautiful soul i'm so glad i got to know you ! sending you lots of love ❤ ❤
Yep. Need to fix my self esteem when it comes to my work performance. I feel I'm unqualified for the job force and tbh compare myself bc I'm not like others. I struggle and complain about things even teens are like totally up for. I do my work with 100% effort but I think its still not good enough for their standards. And I feel no matter where I go or what I do I'll still be the same. Not reaching the basic standard even teens can reach, its really a deep rooted insecurity of mine. I get bad anxiety over it too
@@F0reverblessed I'm trying. I went to my 1st therapy session to work on it. I gotta work through how I talk to myself and about myself. Thanks, I just gotta focus on the task and do it regardless of how others view me.
You give me so much light & love & support!! I am struggling with my anxiety, and self esteem right now and when i see your videos i feel very empowered. Thank you.❤️
Thanks for the video. There are persons who want to care for each other, though with self care, too. I think both ourselves and others are important. We live in a team. If someone hope not bother us depends: either forgive, find out why or don't care about that person. Thanks Aileen for the opportunity to analyze the other and self care, though caring for others should not be a bother.
I've been having a handful of bad months and around March, when we all had to undergo quarantine, I just bursted with all of these uncomfortable emotions. I lost my strength and my self-worth, I didn't realize it until I had bad anxiety and panic attacks. Your videos has been helping me A LOT, thank you. 💛 Your channel probably made me cry more than all of the movies & series I have watched combined. 🤣
She read your mind just because you‘re not alone in this! Out there are so many people who feel the same and we need to push each other and help each other to start to believe more in ourselves 🥰 Lydia, you are amazing ❤️
PS: I'm subscribed by almost two years and I think that in the beauty area you're really in your best now. You're glowing, using colors and clothes that make you even prettier and you're more confident, too! You have learned a lot, appreciating your own unique beauty. I hope that one day I can do this, too. 💜
I have a similar view, I say that self worth is the essence. Totally agree that we totally compare ourselves. And women, and how we look.. so much to be said there. Self worth is spiritual , and the other one is ego based. Love the vid. So well explained.
I truly love this...ik this will sound cheesy but I already feel so much better☺️you say everything just right and I jus wanna say thank you so much for uploading this because it makes me realize how much I have to be thankful for😁I think you shud become a theripast🥰
Thank you so much, Aileen. I struggle with physical insecurities because of the standard of beauty. I love that you are an Asian woman speaking on this topic because it makes it so much more relatable!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I truly needed this!
Thank you for this talk to let me see myself and see I overcome so much I don’t even remember how much I do. Thank you very much❤❤I will start look at myself today and always tell myself affirmation words and unstoppable, positive beliefs, growth mindset
Thank you for captivating our hearts beautifully and rekindling our motivation to better ourselves each day. Soothing voice and so much wisdom! All the love and light back to u, Aileen💖💖
Thank you so much aileen. i have been looking forward to these kinds of videos that would make me change my perspective and love myself. i have learned a lot from you 🥺💓
I love the part where you explain about emotional (in)dependence. I have been struggling with this for quite a while now (or probably always, just I’ve only recently become aware of this). I have some challenges to face regarding this topic with my bf. It gives me a lot of hope that you’ve been able to overcome this while being in a relationship. Thank you. ❤️
Your videos are SO SO SO inspiring & motivating & i LOVEEE your podcasts!! Keep spreading love and your advices are detailed, understandable. Love youuu ❤❤❤
This was the perfect time for Ur video. Very soon my results are gonna come out and i know that I didn't do very well in the exams. But since I was always a very good or like A grade scoring student in the school, my parents have very high expectations for me. Yesterday accidentally my mom said that she knows my results are gonna be awesome. And i just started doubting myself. I have been crying the whole night thinking that I am not worthy or I don't deserve such good parents. I have my birthday next month and I don't know why but i feel like I don't deserve any gifts or wishes. The thing is I know my results are not gonna be what everyone is expecting it to be. But I have accepted that. My only fear is that my parents are not gonna accept that or they will be shameful when they will hear the results of their friends' kids, who will score more than me. I have been telling them that I am not going to score what they are expecting. But they still don't believe me. They still think that their daughter is very intelligent and can score A grade in every exam.
Thank you for this ! I honestly been going through so much that I felt that I was breaking from my life. This is helping to overcome my insecurities and fears from life. Love your talks! Wish all is well for you !
You know what? I'm struggling with these issues and I'm gonna take a note from this video (and the part 2) everyday to remind myself that I'm worthy, enough, and beautiful :") Truly a magnificent video, thank you very much that you shared this with us, Aileen! I love you, and keep being you because you're awesome! Also to whoever who might read this, you're not alone, and you are awesome! 💜✨
My sister showed me this channel and I really needed this video. I have moments of low self esteem and I need to think about the reasons behind those moments
This video was so eye opening! I'm so emotional dependent that I almost closed my UA-cam channel because of this. I have a terrible time giving myself love, I always thing exactly what you said. "I don't deserve self love because I'm not perfect" and I'm my major enemy. About the compliments, I could never believe when someone told me that I was beautiful, even my husband, like "oh, he's just saying It because he wants to see me happy" And yes, I would love a video about imposter syndrome! 💜 Thank you a lot for this amazing video, I will make a entry in my journal about it. You're amazing, Aileen 💜
I’ve struggled and I’m still struggling with knowing my self-worth and it stems from childhood and school. It’s not easy to acknowledge all of my positive traits, but I’m finding out that I have more of them than I realize and I try to bring those to light now. I deserve more than what I give myself credit for and it took over 20 years for me to figure this out. I can’t wait for the next video! It’s going to be the best birthday present since my goal this year is to have more self confidence and be less insecure. 😁
Perfect time to watch this video. Working on self-love after verbal abused and dealing with panic & anxiety. My health got affected. I'm trying to do more meditation for healing. :)
Thank you Aileen you're such an inspiration❤ helping me to heal, grow and know more about myself. Thanks for putting out these experiences and advice. Much Love❤
Thank you for answering my question! I completely understand what you’re saying and it’s something i never thought of in that way regarding trauma and abuse but this video really opened my eyes and made me feel so hopeful at a time when needed most💖 Thank you For all that you do Aileen!🌸 Sending love and light
I was the person behind the survivingthroughart user name, thank you so much for answering my question! I always come back to this video whenever I'm feeling insecure. I'll be working on my insecurities for the rest of my life but I'm so glad there's people like you out there who can help me on this journey
Ive watched your videos before about self-love and all of that. It really helped. I did feel comfortable in my own skin. But growing up, my friends started talking about my appearance. They told me my eyes are so small, my nose is big and ugly, my forehead is too wide,... just nearly my whole face! Then I felt so bad about myself. I always want to make others feel good but they didn’t seem to want to do the same. I know nobody’s perfect but... when a boy told me that I am cute. I’m so shocked. I considered myself everything but cute. Back when I was younger, I do think I look fine just like others. Now I just feel it unbelievable every time sb complement me on my look. When a boy liked me, I felt so insecure that I kept asking myself that if he knew my “real” self would he stop liking me, if some days he realized I’m not pretty would he leave me. I really need to stop thinking like that. Now I have to start to train my self-love again. Thanks for the videos. It’s so great and helpful! ❤️
I love this video. Even though I make content to encourage other’s to improve the quality of their lives, I too sometimes feel unworthy. I guess it’s just a human thing. We just gotta reminded ourselves that we are incredible and amazing. It’s not wise to compare our paths to others, instead, focus creating a path that can help others.
Thank you for this video ate Aileen. Its really helpful especially to someone like me. Im really working on it at the same time enjoying the process. Means a lot.😊❤
Hi Lavendaire. Thank you so much for this video. I'm one of those people who downplay compliments and am constantly comparing myself to others. Hearing what you said helped give me a new perspective on how I can change my thinking. Thank you again (also, side note, it was cool to see my question in the thumbnail, so thank you for that).
Omg it was soo good. I have took a lot of notes. I'm glad that I could interconnect the points you mentioned . I got to know that due to my certain traumatic depressing experiences I have grown stronger and this made me emotionally independent. I also got to realize that I have to work on my mental independence. Thank you so much.💞💞💞💞
My dearest Sister, I love you so much😘. You changed my life. Your valuable knowledge is important for me to change my life. Thank you so much sis. I have no words to tell my appreciation for you. Lavendaire is my favourite you tube channel.💞 Good luck sis for your future 💞
Wow!! This is my favorite video of yours 🥰 I’m so excited for this series; it’s come at the perfect time for me and I can’t wait for the next video. Thank you so much, Aileen! 💕
This is a very good video. It speaks to me in special towards the very end. The most important is not allowing anymore others to define my self-worth, because it has more to do with what their issues they realize they could deal with themselves for comparing themselves when around someone they just hate. I celebrate beauty at any age, in spite of the damage caused and the pain which I opt to leave behind for I am worthy, I love myself just too much to continue allowing a narcissist hindering me from pursuing my future. Thank you so much for creating this video. Perhaps it would be a good idea to create a new one about hacking and the psychogical effects on the victims of cyberbullying. God bless you!
I thought u did a great job- u choose ur words wisely and I respect what u say. I have a feeling you practice what you preach and that comes across. I just discovered your podcast thru instagram but I have been watching your UA-cams for about a year- even bought ur workbook to the "Artists Way". I use your reflection wheel monthly to check where I am in my life and where I need to pay more attention to- it's awesome!
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When you said you've been with Wilson for 12 years, I paused the video and thought for a while. I aspire to be at that level in a relationship
Same
That is actually the goal 💓
Same
Interesting, maintaining a relationship means that level of achievement in the west :).
YOUR VIDEOS PUT ME IN SUCH A PEACEFUL HEADSPACE!💜💜💜💜
LifeWithLyric She’s so great at that!
Okay. This is literally one of my favorite videos that Aileen has made. This is actually really therapeutic, thank you so much😭
aww happy to hear that 💕
Wise words.Thank you:)
YES AILEEN! Thank you, Aileen (: You are always hitting the right spots!
"Worth is immeasurable"
"Do not base worth on external validations, other people and things."
"Stop putting your worth on productivity."
"Stop putting your worth on performance."
I jotted these tips in my journal which led to free style writing. Love how the recent videos got me writing more! And I am definitely healing as nightmares are slowly turning into dreams. (:
yesss girl 💕 happy i could inspire your writing too, that's amazing
❤️❤️
Every time I get older, I care less of what others think of me. But I'm still a work in progress especially when someone praises me, I think I don't deserve to be praised. I don't accept their compliments. Thank you for this video Ms. Aileen.
keep working at it, dear 💕 love you
Lavendaire , thank you so much. 😘
Can we just appreciate the consistency and the subtitles in All the videos. I love her
"we're putting ourselves down because we don't believe in ourselves", well that words hit my heart so much
This video really show up the deepest feeling from my heart. So inspiring!
Make sure you catch the next video in this series: how to stop feeling insecure | bit.ly/2I6xDwb
It was actually a part of this video, but the video ended up being so long I decided to split it into two :) Hope you guys are enjoying this self worth series!
Lavendaire can't wait 😀really thank you so much for everything I love you💜
Thank you a lot, this self worth series are awesome♡
NANII INSECURITIES I NEED SOME ADVICES FOR THAAT 😭😭😭
Personally, am getting so much more than enjoying. Good work.
Looking forward to today's
ohmygod im literally sobbing !! i discovered your channel just now bc i wanted to buy your new notebook so i can start journaling, and then when i decided to explore the creator of the notebook's channel, im dumbfounded on how peaceful and inspirational and motivating your videos are !! wow im so happy rn
Aww 💕💕
Thanks for sharing x...for the question about self worth after a traumatic experience: I agree with everything you said. Ultimately the experience is not about YOU, it’s not YOU, YOU can choose your response. I wanted to add also maybe to recognise that you have come through the experience, YOU are still here, still alive and still have worth. An experience does not have to take anything from you, it can add, you can choose to learn something, or not. It also sometimes helps me to remember that everyone is and can only do the best they can given who they are in that moment. So be kind to yourself...bit all over the place but hopefully there is something helpful there for someone...
YES! so true. thank you for sharing & adding that 💕
I normally don't have problems with my self love and self acceptance, but I love this video because it showed me how other people feel and what are their struggles. It showed me how I can help other people (friends and family) to love themselves more. Thank u, Aileen! You're such a light! ⭐
Thank you for stating that trauma can make you a stronger person. You've been through a traumatic experience, you're healing and finding yourself again. Although unexpected, you actually become a stronger person.
Aileen: you can skip to the section you are interested in !
Me: no need I'm interested in this whole video thank you very much...
I laughed when she said that
hahah love u 💕
@@lavendaire Aileen ☺😘🤪❤
I love this video it helped
i'm so insecure that yesterday i almost cried because i couldn't answer a question my classmate asked me about one of our classes. Like i knew the answer, but couldn't express myself. i could barely hold back my tears, hah. I've been fighting against self-hatred for almost six years now (i'm 23) to no avail, but i recently found your channel and maybe, just maybe, I'll be able to get better.
This really was needed for me today. I recently transitioned off my antidepressants and it's been harder to find my self worth through myself and not through external factors. This was nice and good for me. Thank you ❤️
You are beautiful, you are strong, you are worthy, and you are more than enough.💜 to everyone.
YES 💕💕 love this empowerment, thank u for sharing
Lavendaire no problem Aileen, gotta spread those positive vibes✨
Even when i'm not listening - i am listening! Magical Voice ....
This video is so true, real, beautiful and important. There are so many of us who have problem with self-worth and self-image, etc. We all do the best we can in life. Love the example with the worthy baby, very true.
You might not know how much inspiration you give out!
I just want to say something.. I need you in my life and thank God I found you, I can't thank you enough for everything you do, you're changing me, you're teaching me how to LIVE, please don't ever change.
I really love your videos...since I started watching them I have made so much progress in discovering my dream life...what I want in life and now this self worth series is really helping me to really have the self love that I need in life...thank you so much Aileen❤
Woow... i just found out the root cause of my mental issues because of this video. I’m so excited about your new series, perfect timing! thank you so much for your motivation! You are a real inspiration❤️
That’s amazing ❤️❤️ happy for you
that example of a baby... its just a living being...that was so simple yet so deep...
YES. once i thought of it that way, it changed everything. 💕
Dear Aileen , i wanted to say thank you so much for this amazing, beautiful & extremely valuable content ❤ ever since i found your channel 3 years ago, you helped me so much in my self love journey and all the positive changes that shaped me to who i am today ! i'm now an independent young woman, i know my worth, i learned how to love and take care of myself & i'm so happy and proud of it =) but to be honest, i still have some insecurities and sometimes i feel down and tend to be harsh on myself, so watching this video made me feel at peace again ! it was like a precious reminder and definetely lifted up my spirit ! i can't wait to watch the rest of the videos related to this topic ! you're such a beautiful soul i'm so glad i got to know you ! sending you lots of love ❤ ❤
Yep. Need to fix my self esteem when it comes to my work performance. I feel I'm unqualified for the job force and tbh compare myself bc I'm not like others. I struggle and complain about things even teens are like totally up for. I do my work with 100% effort but I think its still not good enough for their standards. And I feel no matter where I go or what I do I'll still be the same. Not reaching the basic standard even teens can reach, its really a deep rooted insecurity of mine. I get bad anxiety over it too
awkwardnchey Don’t compre your work to others. Whatever you don’t like about it change it. Stay focus and keep working. You got this!
@@F0reverblessed I'm trying. I went to my 1st therapy session to work on it. I gotta work through how I talk to myself and about myself. Thanks, I just gotta focus on the task and do it regardless of how others view me.
awkwardnchey It’s a process. It takes time. You got this! 💕
You give me so much light & love & support!! I am struggling with my anxiety, and self esteem right now and when i see your videos i feel very empowered. Thank you.❤️
Thanks for the video. There are persons who want to care for each other, though with self care, too. I think both ourselves and others are important. We live in a team. If someone hope not bother us depends: either forgive, find out why or don't care about that person. Thanks Aileen for the opportunity to analyze the other and self care, though caring for others should not be a bother.
I've been having a handful of bad months and around March, when we all had to undergo quarantine, I just bursted with all of these uncomfortable emotions. I lost my strength and my self-worth, I didn't realize it until I had bad anxiety and panic attacks. Your videos has been helping me A LOT, thank you. 💛 Your channel probably made me cry more than all of the movies & series I have watched combined. 🤣
It's like you read my mind. This is something I've been struggling with so much lately. Thank you. 🖤
She read your mind just because you‘re not alone in this! Out there are so many people who feel the same and we need to push each other and help each other to start to believe more in ourselves 🥰 Lydia, you are amazing ❤️
Claudia is right - you're not alone :) everyone deals with this. grateful to have you here 💕
Whenever i watch u, i feel there's someone who understands me❤️
PS: I'm subscribed by almost two years and I think that in the beauty area you're really in your best now. You're glowing, using colors and clothes that make you even prettier and you're more confident, too! You have learned a lot, appreciating your own unique beauty. I hope that one day I can do this, too. 💜
So self worth is just blind negligence of what you hate about yourself to sike yourself into having motivation and self control. Got it.
I have a similar view, I say that self worth is the essence. Totally agree that we totally compare ourselves. And women, and how we look.. so much to be said there. Self worth is spiritual , and the other one is ego based. Love the vid. So well explained.
One of the most positive channels on UA-cam
I truly love this...ik this will sound cheesy but I already feel so much better☺️you say everything just right and I jus wanna say thank you so much for uploading this because it makes me realize how much I have to be thankful for😁I think you shud become a theripast🥰
i'm holding my tears while listening to you, i'm having a really rough day thank God i got here.
Thank you so much, Aileen. I struggle with physical insecurities because of the standard of beauty. I love that you are an Asian woman speaking on this topic because it makes it so much more relatable!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I truly needed this!
Girl you are gorgeous af 💘
Excellent advice. I shared it with a friend that needed to hear this!!! Very proud of you!!!
Read your email!
Very sweet of you to send to a friend in need! They’re lucky to have you!
Thank you
Thank you for this talk to let me see myself and see I overcome so much I don’t even remember how much I do. Thank you very much❤❤I will start look at myself today and always tell myself affirmation words and unstoppable, positive beliefs, growth mindset
i appreciate you 💓
Thank you for captivating our hearts beautifully and rekindling our motivation to better ourselves each day. Soothing voice and so much wisdom! All the love and light back to u, Aileen💖💖
Thank you so much aileen. i have been looking forward to these kinds of videos that would make me change my perspective and love myself. i have learned a lot from you 🥺💓
I love the part where you explain about emotional (in)dependence. I have been struggling with this for quite a while now (or probably always, just I’ve only recently become aware of this). I have some challenges to face regarding this topic with my bf. It gives me a lot of hope that you’ve been able to overcome this while being in a relationship. Thank you. ❤️
This video literally has me in tears..I just feel so touched. Thank you so much for the time you put into your videos. I appreciate you so much🙏🏽
Your videos are SO SO SO inspiring & motivating & i LOVEEE your podcasts!! Keep spreading love and your advices are detailed, understandable. Love youuu ❤❤❤
yayy thank you dear ^_^
This was the perfect time for Ur video. Very soon my results are gonna come out and i know that I didn't do very well in the exams. But since I was always a very good or like A grade scoring student in the school, my parents have very high expectations for me. Yesterday accidentally my mom said that she knows my results are gonna be awesome. And i just started doubting myself. I have been crying the whole night thinking that I am not worthy or I don't deserve such good parents. I have my birthday next month and I don't know why but i feel like I don't deserve any gifts or wishes. The thing is I know my results are not gonna be what everyone is expecting it to be. But I have accepted that. My only fear is that my parents are not gonna accept that or they will be shameful when they will hear the results of their friends' kids, who will score more than me. I have been telling them that I am not going to score what they are expecting. But they still don't believe me. They still think that their daughter is very intelligent and can score A grade in every exam.
I normally don't comment on videos but this was really one of the best videos I've come across on YT
Xindy Xin Er Choo definitely a great video!
Thank you for this ! I honestly been going through so much that I felt that I was breaking from my life. This is helping to overcome my insecurities and fears from life. Love your talks! Wish all is well for you !
Thank you for all the positivity that you share everyday
You never disappoint me Lavendaire. Looking forward to your upcoming videos. I’m now inspired. Thank you for being soo light and amazing. 😍😍😍
Loving this Aileen!
Rosegold Mermaid indeed!
Gosh...you are too good in explaining things that you make me feel so positive about myself and things going on in my life. Thankyou.
You know what? I'm struggling with these issues and I'm gonna take a note from this video (and the part 2) everyday to remind myself that I'm worthy, enough, and beautiful :") Truly a magnificent video, thank you very much that you shared this with us, Aileen! I love you, and keep being you because you're awesome! Also to whoever who might read this, you're not alone, and you are awesome! 💜✨
Thank you for this video. It was emotionally touching (I cried halfway through lol). I love your channel, these videos are so inspiring!
My sister showed me this channel and I really needed this video. I have moments of low self esteem and I need to think about the reasons behind those moments
This video was so eye opening! I'm so emotional dependent that I almost closed my UA-cam channel because of this. I have a terrible time giving myself love, I always thing exactly what you said. "I don't deserve self love because I'm not perfect" and I'm my major enemy.
About the compliments, I could never believe when someone told me that I was beautiful, even my husband, like "oh, he's just saying It because he wants to see me happy"
And yes, I would love a video about imposter syndrome! 💜
Thank you a lot for this amazing video, I will make a entry in my journal about it. You're amazing, Aileen 💜
Thank you so much for making this video! You shed so much light & positivity into the world
Thank you so much for this series. I don't think I needed this more than I do right now in my life 🙏💖🌹 #grateful
Gwendolyn Vaughn The universe responded to your vibrations! :)
It most certainly did! 😊
We only feel worthy when we are productive or doing well in school, I felt that
your videos are like meditation to me. loved this one too!
This is the best video I've seen in my entire life, I really appreciate this, Thank you sou much for making this kind of video for us..💞💞💞💞💞💞
One of your best videos of all time (yet)!!
I’ve struggled and I’m still struggling with knowing my self-worth and it stems from childhood and school. It’s not easy to acknowledge all of my positive traits, but I’m finding out that I have more of them than I realize and I try to bring those to light now. I deserve more than what I give myself credit for and it took over 20 years for me to figure this out. I can’t wait for the next video! It’s going to be the best birthday present since my goal this year is to have more self confidence and be less insecure. 😁
Loved it!!💓💕💖I think this is in one of the best videos you hav ever made!!! Thankyou😍😍
*Thank you for this series! I feel like this could definitely be a whole solo podcast. I can't wait to see and hear more from you.*
Perfect time to watch this video. Working on self-love after verbal abused and dealing with panic & anxiety. My health got affected. I'm trying to do more meditation for healing. :)
Thank you Aileen you're such an inspiration❤ helping me to heal, grow and know more about myself. Thanks for putting out these experiences and advice. Much Love❤
thanks for your support 💖
loved the art (or animation whatever you say) that you've added in between and the last one that's the cutest ❤️️
Your videos are God sent! So need this😊😊
I became inactive on your channel for a year cause I'm busy. I'm glad to be back and be inspired by your motivational videos. ❤
Perfect timing,, I really needed this video,, thanks so much 😊
Perfect timing Lavendaire...
I am so grateful for you..
Love from Kenya..
Lounchelleh Adams 🦋
Thank you for answering my question! I completely understand what you’re saying and it’s something i never thought of in that way regarding trauma and abuse but this video really opened my eyes and made me feel so hopeful at a time when needed most💖 Thank you For all that you do Aileen!🌸 Sending love and light
Thank you for asking a question ❤️❤️
I was the person behind the survivingthroughart user name, thank you so much for answering my question! I always come back to this video whenever I'm feeling insecure. I'll be working on my insecurities for the rest of my life but I'm so glad there's people like you out there who can help me on this journey
No matter what the topic is...I always love your videos
it is addictive
It makes me happy every time you post a new video ❤️❤️
aw I'm saving this cause this is seriously what I needed to hear ❤️ thank you so much aileen for this video!
You give the best advice and uplifting words ever❤️ Thank you so much for making my day with this video!
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Aileen, thank you so much for your work! You help me so much and I am so much inspired by you ! I really really respect you!
I'm so glad and grateful i found your channel! You're so amazing thank you so much😢💜
Ive watched your videos before about self-love and all of that. It really helped. I did feel comfortable in my own skin. But growing up, my friends started talking about my appearance. They told me my eyes are so small, my nose is big and ugly, my forehead is too wide,... just nearly my whole face! Then I felt so bad about myself. I always want to make others feel good but they didn’t seem to want to do the same. I know nobody’s perfect but... when a boy told me that I am cute. I’m so shocked. I considered myself everything but cute. Back when I was younger, I do think I look fine just like others. Now I just feel it unbelievable every time sb complement me on my look. When a boy liked me, I felt so insecure that I kept asking myself that if he knew my “real” self would he stop liking me, if some days he realized I’m not pretty would he leave me.
I really need to stop thinking like that.
Now I have to start to train my self-love again.
Thanks for the videos. It’s so great and helpful! ❤️
i'm really happy you're learning to see your own beauty & love yourself 💕 keep going. love you!
Loving this series
Wow, can't believe we uploaded videos on the same day talking about almost the same exact things!
Whoops, one day apart hahaha but still-- what a neat coincidence!
I love this video. Even though I make content to encourage other’s to improve the quality of their lives, I too sometimes feel unworthy. I guess it’s just a human thing. We just gotta reminded ourselves that we are incredible and amazing. It’s not wise to compare our paths to others, instead, focus creating a path that can help others.
Thank you for this video ate Aileen. Its really helpful especially to someone like me. Im really working on it at the same time enjoying the process. Means a lot.😊❤
This video is so good that I went to go like it, but then I realized I had already liked it.
Hi Lavendaire. Thank you so much for this video. I'm one of those people who downplay compliments and am constantly comparing myself to others. Hearing what you said helped give me a new perspective on how I can change my thinking. Thank you again (also, side note, it was cool to see my question in the thumbnail, so thank you for that).
i'm so happy you got to see yourself from a new perspective. and thanks for sending a question in ^_^
Thank you for doing what you do Aileen! ❤️
Aileen you never fail at inspiring me , thank you 😘😘😘😘😘
Your videos are so peaceful to watch! Love what you are wearing here too : )
Omg it was soo good. I have took a lot of notes. I'm glad that I could interconnect the points you mentioned . I got to know that due to my certain traumatic depressing experiences I have grown stronger and this made me emotionally independent. I also got to realize that I have to work on my mental independence. Thank you so much.💞💞💞💞
Great video!!!
Love&respect from Syria❤😘
My dearest Sister, I love you so much😘. You changed my life. Your valuable knowledge is important for me to change my life. Thank you so much sis. I have no words to tell my appreciation for you. Lavendaire is my favourite you tube channel.💞 Good luck sis for your future 💞
This is so so valuable... particularly the part about being born loved. Thank you Aileen. This is so wonderful and impactful. 💜
Wow!! This is my favorite video of yours 🥰 I’m so excited for this series; it’s come at the perfect time for me and I can’t wait for the next video. Thank you so much, Aileen! 💕
this improved my mood so much- thankyou Aileen !
thank you for being the big sister we never had 💕
Hii. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. I really love your videos. ❤ It's worth watching for. 😍
This is a very good video. It speaks to me in special towards the very end. The most important is not allowing anymore others to define my self-worth, because it has more to do with what their issues they realize they could deal with themselves for comparing themselves when around someone they just hate. I celebrate beauty at any age, in spite of the damage caused and the pain which I opt to leave behind for I am worthy, I love myself just too much to continue allowing a narcissist hindering me from pursuing my future. Thank you so much for creating this video. Perhaps it would be a good idea to create a new one about hacking and the psychogical effects on the victims of cyberbullying. God bless you!
yes you are 💕💕
@@lavendaire Yes! Haters can only push me up to make me Greater👏.
I thought u did a great job- u choose ur words wisely and I respect what u say. I have a feeling you practice what you preach and that comes across. I just discovered your podcast thru instagram but I have been watching your UA-cams for about a year- even bought ur workbook to the "Artists Way". I use your reflection wheel monthly to check where I am in my life and where I need to pay more attention to- it's awesome!