Whenever I'm having a bad day and feeling like I'm too unattractive for women, your videos always lift me up to go out and try again. Then when I get rejected a few more times, the cycle repeats lol.
Don't let these hoes bring you down man, don't let them discourage you and make you feel insignificant. You know your worth, you're probably a great guy. It's their loss, focus on yourself.
The thing that sets Jack apart from others in this area of content is he gives you real things you can try in conversations that also aren't cringe. I think there is real value to this channel for those that feel stuck.
this guy just feels natural man, I can't even explain it, he's just so chill and casual and that makes it even better than the other guys like todd v etc
This film literally flew from sky to me. I'm sitting here and ovethinking what to text to the girl I'm meeting this weekend right now and in desperete need to find out how to stop thinking about it. Thank You again Jack.
If women were good people you wouldn’t have to worry so hard about texting the wrong thing. It should be as simple as text what you mean and straight to the point. The fact that we have to be so careful of what we text and say indicates how easily offended they are and how easily they scare.
I'm far from an expert in this, but I feel like a lot of guys fear that elementary school "eww" reaction from women upon them revealing that they're interested. Even though I've been rejected like seven out of eight times, very rarely has a girl seemed awkward or uncomfortable by the fact that I expressed interest. I still remember confessing to my fourth grade crush and just seeing that freaked out look on her face. It was so embarrassing. I don't worry about that anymore because that was eleven years ago. Once you get more practice, you understand that more often than not, they're not gonna feel awkward just because you chatted with them. Put your defenses down and just throw yourself out there. The water's fine.
That "freaked out look" is a biggggggg reason for my anxiety with girls till this day. Some a-hole friends of mine wrote a note to my school crush without my consent, confessing my love to her, and she proceeded to verbally abuse me in class while having the most disgusted look on her face as she tore me down. I'm scared of girls till today, and I'm in my 20s. However I'm gradually getting over it, thankfully
@@zebra7578 although the fear and anxiety are irrational, it is not uncommon. Fear of rejection is a very real thing and the only way to get over it really is to just talk women up first and then ask for their number second. The unfortunate truth is that if you are lacking in the looks department you will get a lot more rejection from women. I speak from experience on this one as someone who is short and started balding at a pretty young age. I later found out at high school and college reunions that a lot of women liked me but I just didn't have the guts to ask them out. Don't miss out on opportunities like I did!!!!
@@zebra7578 Develop a better wit so if another girl ever tries something similar you’ll know you can rip her a new baby hole. Here’s some very related inspirational music ua-cam.com/video/-e6abXmMqz4/v-deo.html
Overthinking, heart palpitations, fear... it's not a matter of "choice", but in most cases it's about traumas from an earlier age... I think that first of all it is necessary to solve these traumas, a bad self-image. Not in the way that we actually unconsciously seek the "approval" of others by approaching, etc. But by accepting ourselves first of all.
I was really anxious from childhood traumas aswell. But i saw a video somewhere that writing down your feelings actually helps. I started writing in my notes app about how i act and how i think i can fix it and i had so many revelations of why i act the way i do from relating it to past traumas. I suggest anyone to write down their feelings.
My good friend had this issue with women in college. Would by visibly shaking talking to any attractive girl. Immersion therapy worked for him. He just forced himself to do it regardless of what happened and within 1 year at college he was good to go and actually going on dates. Sometimes you just gotta face it head on.
@@schroederluck7984 That only works if you’re lucky. The shaking nervous guy is very lucky. It could have just as easily been that he creeped out several girls with his nervousness while doing his immersion therapy causing them to gang up and stigmatize him as the campus weirdo who hits on girls. If that happened it would have been literally over for him.
*Overthinking can really cloud judgment and lead to unnecessary anxiety. It’s crucial for guys to remember that interactions should feel natural, not like a high-stakes game. Just being authentic can make all the difference!*
I assume that what you're saying, in a nutshell, is no matter who you are, you're going to get rejected more times than not, that comes with the game, but it's the guys who have the balls to try who win the biggest, at the end of the day! It's a life lesson I've learned! Love the content
Thank you man, you have helped me a lot. I'm no longer shy to speak to women, I'm now confident as ever and that's thanks to you. I'm a black South African 🇿🇦 male in my late 20s by the way.
Great reminder for me! Been struggling with this as the only relationship I had in the past was because the girl told me she was interested (thru her friend) since then subconsciously I've been waiting for girls to come to me like that when it super rarely happens as you said. I need to take action!
Hey Jack! Funny enough, today I was the laziest as ever, a friend haven't met 3 months invited me to go outside something I don't usually do at these cold times. For some God knows reason I went outside with the boys, walked around the city and coincidentally I met the girl that I was always afraid to talk to (Being frozen like you described... Fuck.) is with someone else. I came back, took it as a lesson to even further boost my confidence, make myself a better person and never miss a chance without overthinking it. Seeing this video after the event that happened today is nothing but a Godsend and thank you so much for this video.
Life changing video Jack bro..May God bless you with all the happiness in the world 😊 "Perfect moment takes place only in movies", you have absolutely killed it bro.
@@Denmosocial just because I waited for the perfect moment, i missed out on thousands of opportunities till date. Anyways bro, just tell me how you recollect yourself mentally immediately moments after a girl behaved cold and then approach the next girl the very next moment.
Hey brother! Been spending these past 2 weeks binge watching these channels after my break up and yesterday I finally manned up and approached 3 women! Great interactions, we laughed I teased and flirted w all three. Two had bf but were very sweet and one texted me she wasn’t ready but overall very proud of myself to finally man up and approach women. Thank you sm for these videos !🤘🏽
You know what? I watched some videos already and today I made progress. I was using Tinder to get dates but it was a waste of time. I got some dates but there wasnt anything exciting in particular. Some of them were rather dull and talk could be weird sometimes Today I went to the shop with motorcycle gear and I met cute, short girl behind the counter. We were vibing all the time, just the two of us (shop was totaly empty). I bought some stuff and before I left I ask for her number and guess what? I got it. I wasnt nervous at all because she was such cute, talkative women and we were totally chilling there. I was somewhat scared of rejection or approach itself but I was just stupid. No regrets after today Thx Denmo
after watching your videos, i have gained a lot more confidence in approaching girls, my only regret i had the last time was not talking this girl for longer as i reliased there was so much more we could have talked about. but that will come with more practice. Cheers Jack!
It's so simple it hurts. Literally approach the women, be yourself (and work on making that self a self you like being, that's happy and confident), and if you like each other, keep talking. If you don't, move on.
Even if you politely move on once you get the message she’s not interested, she’ll still bitch and cry to her friends about the creepy guy she doesn’t know who tried to hit on her. Thus further ruining your chances with them. Girls are very hive minded in this way.
Started listening to your videos as I workout, it's definitely helped get me out of my headspace and saying hey to people. Literally would only say the bare minimum before watching your videos. Have been feeling a lot more outgoing and confident after seeing your stuff. So yeah lots of value in these videos.
@@Denmosocial for sure, sort of just messed up a interaction with someone. but like you said, can't get better at something if you aren't willing go out and fail at it first.
Been rizzing up this cute librarian when I go study. Listened to what you said in the monk mode, and yes my phone is on black & white I go study at the library rather than my house so I get more done, and I’m not relaxed like the way I’d be at my house, and I get out the house I also listened to what you said in your video about picking up girls at the gym about how you mentioned that if you see her often, build it overtime so with the cute librarian I just been taking it slow, making small talk, and build it up.
just wanted to pop in and say Hi before you become too famous to reply to all these comments, you're a really amazing man giving out true advice to help us men succeed thank you
Ngl Denmos been helping me with my girl troubles. I’m still on stage 1 lmao, but I’ve gotten a bit better at initiating conversation quicker and letting nervousness go away. Like just an hour ago at work I saw her walk by me at break, I got my ass up and I spoke to her. Didn’t go anywhere cuz I didn’t ask for a date and I technically got her number already but she never responded. Point being I actually got up and spoke to her instantly and it didn’t go horribly wrong. Gotta thank Jack 💪🏿
Huge fan, Denmo. Saw lot of your videos and went up trying. So I went up this restobar near my house and there were two girls entering same time. One of them went to counter for billing and was standing behind me, I gave her the place with a nice smile so that she can order while I was paying. She went on to sit with her friend and I went on next seat to them asking if They are going to smoke because I am a non-smoker and wanted to sit here, all politely and with a smiling face. They said it's fine with a little giggling on their face. They were chatting, I sat on my table drinking my tea. After a while she built up a boat from her paper receipt. I thought maybe I can initiate or restart the paused conversation here. I asked her, "excuse me you built a good boat, could you please teach me that too while giving my receipt paper to her? I really l liked it. " And then she replied "You can just keep mine, giving me her boat and asked Why don't you google it" (Shit Test)? And I was like stumped thinking what to say now.... I said Google doesn't give perfect answers so may be a practical would be better, like you could teach me how and where to fold the paper. She replied "she doesn't take classes". And then after a while I said "Ok, no worries What's your name?" She replied politely "Why for? I don't give my name to strangers" while her friend was giggling and then I was like "Okkayy, No Problem" and then I went silent. All this happened while I was smiling, talking politely, kind of bit confident too but was not too loud like "Hey Yo Girls, Whatsupp?" as didn't want to disturb others. However I did not left my place after all that making it more embarrassing and kept sitting there like nothing has happened. Both of them were talking while laughing. Her friend was telling her that I can feel/understand you while she was whispering her something. They left after some time and once they reached the parking she was like looking at me from her bike, I looked at her and then moved my eye from her. They moved afterwards. Only thing I could get from all this was I failed her shit test, maybe I was not confident or witty enough even though I was having a smiling face. I could had said I want your name to look on google for names' build a boat company. Didn't came in mind though. However I will keep trying, may be someday soon I will crack this.
my problem is that most of the times I don't feel like talking to girls even if I know I wouldn't be rejected. Yesterday I was at a party, the girlfriend of a friend of mine told me there were like 3 girls interested in me, especially 1, and she was also pretty, but I still did nothing and I don't know why
I can really relate to this. I'm known as the guy who rejects almost everyone just because he doesn't care about girls all that much. When I have a crush I will obsess over them though. Actually, I obsess over them so much that I fuck up my moves on them even if they liked me back. Perhaps approaching girls I don't have a crush on isn't such a bad idea, even if it is just to get more comfortable with girls and dating in general.
i'm a damn good strategist when it comes to games or how i plan my life. most of the time it is you wait for a step and get going. on the subject with women, i mostly rush it and leave myself 0 space for time and steps. The worst when you are really close and dude i just need to feel and kiss you. no, at the moment billions of thoughts. what if she doesn't like it and breaks off contact because of it. then let it better be but you can't live like that. So stop thinking about everything great video❤️👌👌👌
When people see you stopping walking girls on the sidewalk to chat them up, what’s your advice for guys who every single time they try that the girl looks visibly uncomfortable or refuses to stop at all or even speeds up? That’s the reality for most of us.
@@viktor2338 If you talk to one or more girl unsuccessfully in a coffee shop they will complain about the weird guy to the managers or owners and then you aren’t allowed back. That’s how that works.
If women really wanted to meet a guy, they could go up to guys and have such an easy time. The reason they dont is they don't want to give up the advantage they have, they have the high ground, they can sit back, let guys put in all the work, just to say either yes or no.
Overthinking is an attempt to control the outcome of a conversation. Don't be manipulative, just walk to a girl and say whatever you WANT to say when you had the thought to go talk to her and let the outcome be whatever. Just keep in mind that people are generally busy during daytime so don't take to long., go direct to the point. " _Hi, you're really cute. I'm Mark btw, what's your name...._ " Then just go from there. Notice that most people run out of things to say because while the person is talking they are not really paying attention, they are thinking what to say next., so it's helpful if you adopt a really curious mindset and show real interest on what the person is telling you.
I have my phone on black and white since last week . After I saw your video and the main thing is I have not watched Netflix on my phone . Since all is black and white . And I once switched my color back on to send a photo . I mean I never knew colors were so vibrant man 😂. Will continue it and see how it goes and will share maybe after a month or 2 of doing it
I’m buying your course next week after the mortgage, I split with my ex wife about 4 years ago. I picked up a few strays here and there but I’m ready for a long term gig. My late teens and early 20’s were spent with my ex wife so I never really got that “experience” with women that I needed I’m hoping your course gives me some tools I can use to my advantage
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Im a german guy. What means "weekend girlfriend" ? Google say thats like only meet for sex, but if we in germeny say in the first minutes we only want to meet for sex that would be a deal brealer because its very crude
I’m not familiar with the phrase as an American but we have what’s called “hookups” here or “one night stand” which is like a girlfriend for one night you know? I actually think it’s pretty crude universally, I’m 23 and I’ve never had a one night stand I’ve spoken to all the women I hooked up with for more than a week lol I would be embarrassed to treat anyone like that.
This video kind of reminds me of the song from Cody Johnson “Til’ You Can’t”. What you can take from that song is that you will regret not taking chances that are given to you.
7:39 you grossly underestimate the sheer power of female disgust for guys they perceive as suboptimal. Chicks would literally rather soak in heavy rain than get within umbrella range of a guy they aren’t attracted to. She knows he’ll bother her by trying to strike up a conversation.
Something I struggle with. I worry about the convo dying, or running out of shit to say. The small talk essentially. Also don’t wnana randomly approach them… and they think it’s random or weird. Overthinking is an issue. When I did have a perfect opportunity, I bailed as I wasn’t focused. I was busy. She fucking looked at me a smiled… and I blanked her. I was too focused on what I was doing, and no until after I realised I fucked up lol
so, i have no problems getting the number and such, but its the keeping her interest part that i fuck things up, i recently identified that IRL i talk a bit too much, and also that i also fuck things up over text so i try to avoid texting, but i really don't know how to tease properly, i think i always tend to make the tease stale or a bit offensive? please help. (Also, my community is still a bit more on the conservative side and people don't sleep around and it is very shunned, alchohol is prohibited as well, and the common mindset is that you cant really rush into a relationship so most of the advice i get online needs to get watered down a bit as well)
When you just own your desires and say whatever’s on your mind you’ll get attraction fast. Especially when you stop jerking off 🔑😉. Also, rejection isn’t possible if you’re doing it for yourself having fun being authentic bc that means it just wasnt a match. We all have an internal dating checklist being projected out.
Hello Jack, a while ago I commented and asked you if there is any hope for short guys like me. Well, I got a lot of motivation from your videos and decided to get out of my comfort zone, so not only did I go and talk to a girl, but I wanted to really test myself so I went for a girl that's like 4 inches taller than me, and guess what? She wants to go out on a date with me tomorrow.
Yeah, hate to say it but it's too easy for girls. I saw a girl from my hall and shes somehow always with a different guy. Being a blunt guy, I straight up asked if any one of them are her boyfriend, but she apparently has them all deep in the friendzone. Also, she gives misleading signals, I realized whenever I talked with her, she was always giggling and laughing, and niceguys would not know better and think "oh yeah she's into me" Tbf, I also have a female friend like that. She caught my interest because I wanna see if I can actually get her, but I'm not interested in her that way.
Amazing Video Denmo!! I'm picking up what you're putting down. *But...* Where do I find settings to bump into woman? The only place I go to that has woman are grocery stores lol. (Could work!) Highschool was great for meeting others, but now I'm at a loss for locations. 🤷
@@Denmosocial how many chances do you get to talk to talk to women in those places before the staff starts catching onto the reason you’re there and ban you? All it takes is one girl to claim you made her uncomfortable to get kicked out and trespassed from the property. They will do this even if all you did was make a simple harmless mistake. It’s ironic how you say to not overthink things and just go for it when not thinking things through ahead of time is exactly what makes you end up saying something stupid and getting kicked out.
girls are incapable of initial social interactions so guys if you are waiting for them your gonna be waiting forever. you have to initiate and carry the conversation until she warms up to you. guys just talk to them worst case scenario they hate you. if you are respectful in your approach really the worst case is she rejects you and you move on who cares in most cases they are doing you a favor. guys need to stop feeling like women are the prize. guys YOU are the prize. if you start to value yourself and realize you are doing them a favor being with them then the dynamic will change and women will WANT YOU. women are people just like us they arent a prize. often times your going to have alot more to offer than she will. be patient put yourself out there. i promise you will find someone
@@Denmosocial you the best on youtube for this kind of content and even though i know alot of what you talk about hearing you say it lets me know im on the right path. keep up the good work brother!
@@pazeros6424 because they are incapable of doing so. if men never approached women we wouldnt be here to have this conversation lol. just because men approach women doesnt mean they have more to offer. ill take my own situation i have a great job im in great shape i have my own house nice new car a dog no drugs no drinking no smoking. now for me other than companionship a woman really cant offer me much i dont have/do for myself already. for them i can offer them a massive quality of life improvement as well as companionship. know your worth brother and dont be afraid to be picky. there are tons of single women out there its not like just guys are single the population numbers dont work like that. if there are a ton of single dudes theres a ton of single chicks. social media and online dating has ruined both men and womens ability to interact with each other socially. its become almost weird to randomly approach new people not just of the opposite sex either. you need to understand you will likely be uncomfortable approaching and they will be uncomfortable being approached. its ok! know your value be confident in yourself and really the worst case is you get rejected move on their loss really. this is why denmo talks about self improvement alot. hes not wrong. when your life is in a good place outside of relationships its alot easier to be confident in meeting women because you will know you are a high value man. looks really arent everything, does it help yes, but if you are a better than average guy with your life even half way sorted you have alottttttt more to offer than 90% of women you will meet, and as you age the ratio gets even worse for women. by the time you are in your 30's most of these women are single moms with tons of baggage. thats a tough sell and alot of men in their 30's are just hitting their stride. keep at it you are the prize trust that
@@TheCivicsiep3 a fine comment, I was just trying to say that most of the women have nothing to offer, nothing that I would need. The thing I don't understand is that guys treat girls in general as something extraordinary whereas it us who carry the boats, build houses and take risk of moreless everything in life. Maann...they should chase us like shit, why is it opposite?
It's not the approach I'm afraid of, it's the sense of inevitable betrayal (true or not) that I feel because cheating has become so normalized. Also the prospect of men with guns that are willing to put me in a cage with men that will try to kill or defile me to keep me from my kids.
I have a friend who does this everytime we go approaching during the day in our city. He'll just stall and wait for the "perfect moment" or thing to say but never take the plunge.
I was a victim of one-itis for a very long time. I got very attached to 1 girl and the truth of the matter is, the world is a big place. There are plenty of attractive women across the globe, honestly if you miss out on 1, there are new girls turning 18 every day. If you miss out on someone who you think is your ideal girl, there are always other good options, and chances are you'll find someone else very similar, if not almost identical to her somewhere else. Not saying I'm some kind of expert, but never throw in the towel because you messed up with 1 hot girl. There are tons of attractive girls everywhere if you know where to look. Also remember, every girl hits the wall eventually, no matter how hot she is at a young age.
The problem is im a nice looking guy average maybe and the girl that a metaphorically like is a girl that is like a solid 9. I just dont talk because regretting not talking her is better than some bad gesture that i get from her.
aight bro im gonna head out next time its raining to walk along as many bus stops I can find as long as it rains. matter fact im gonna do it even without rain and act like its raining
Did you know that looking at women can land you in prison now in London? There’s no such law in the states but that’s the type of mentality we’re dealing with worldwide.
Not worldwide, my friend. I live in Poland and there is no such sick mentality you are speaking of. Approaching the girls with actually good intentions and attitude isn't something inappropriate. If you live in the UK, speak for yourself and do not generalize. Anyway at least you tried approaching the girls, so you have passed those baby steps, congrats mate 😉
Its pretty easy to talk to them in isolation. But it's actually hard when they're in a mall, or they're in a large group or walking along the street
its easier actually when they're with friends. Cause its much safer
@@Denmosocial teach us the ways jack. How do you get them all involved
@@Denmosocial no way. If one of them things you’re ugly, they all thinking that. Most can’t think for themselves
@@mac6417 Yes, I can agree with this one.
@@Denmosocial That's actually a good point. Didn't think about it that way,
Whenever I'm having a bad day and feeling like I'm too unattractive for women, your videos always lift me up to go out and try again. Then when I get rejected a few more times, the cycle repeats lol.
keep up the good work bro well motivate you in the discord too
Don't let these hoes bring you down man, don't let them discourage you and make you feel insignificant. You know your worth, you're probably a great guy. It's their loss, focus on yourself.
😂 that's pretty much my story as well 😛
well gym could make you happier and more attractive 😉
Most women don’t want to be approached in person lol
The thing that sets Jack apart from others in this area of content is he gives you real things you can try in conversations that also aren't cringe. I think there is real value to this channel for those that feel stuck.
only channel actually showing videos out here
@@Denmosocial freal no cap
Jack has a perfect balding pattern, it's over for me
@@chumbucket6184 wear a hat that's what I do
this guy just feels natural man, I can't even explain it, he's just so chill and casual and that makes it even better than the other guys like todd v etc
This film literally flew from sky to me. I'm sitting here and ovethinking what to text to the girl I'm meeting this weekend right now and in desperete need to find out how to stop thinking about it. Thank You again Jack.
Why you want to text her?
@@deniskasperovich8251 Problem solved itself, she texted me first
@@sansum1245 So you still go out with her? :)
cheers bro
If women were good people you wouldn’t have to worry so hard about texting the wrong thing. It should be as simple as text what you mean and straight to the point. The fact that we have to be so careful of what we text and say indicates how easily offended they are and how easily they scare.
I'm far from an expert in this, but I feel like a lot of guys fear that elementary school "eww" reaction from women upon them revealing that they're interested. Even though I've been rejected like seven out of eight times, very rarely has a girl seemed awkward or uncomfortable by the fact that I expressed interest. I still remember confessing to my fourth grade crush and just seeing that freaked out look on her face. It was so embarrassing. I don't worry about that anymore because that was eleven years ago.
Once you get more practice, you understand that more often than not, they're not gonna feel awkward just because you chatted with them. Put your defenses down and just throw yourself out there. The water's fine.
keep up the good work homie thanks for sharing
That "freaked out look" is a biggggggg reason for my anxiety with girls till this day.
Some a-hole friends of mine wrote a note to my school crush without my consent, confessing my love to her, and she proceeded to verbally abuse me in class while having the most disgusted look on her face as she tore me down.
I'm scared of girls till today, and I'm in my 20s. However I'm gradually getting over it, thankfully
@@zebra7578 although the fear and anxiety are irrational, it is not uncommon. Fear of rejection is a very real thing and the only way to get over it really is to just talk women up first and then ask for their number second.
The unfortunate truth is that if you are lacking in the looks department you will get a lot more rejection from women. I speak from experience on this one as someone who is short and started balding at a pretty young age. I later found out at high school and college reunions that a lot of women liked me but I just didn't have the guts to ask them out.
Don't miss out on opportunities like I did!!!!
@@zebra7578
Develop a better wit so if another girl ever tries something similar you’ll know you can rip her a new baby hole.
Here’s some very related inspirational music ua-cam.com/video/-e6abXmMqz4/v-deo.html
You're lucky that you rarely get this sort of reaction. For those of us who are neurodivergent, it happens a lot more often
Overthinking, heart palpitations, fear... it's not a matter of "choice", but in most cases it's about traumas from an earlier age... I think that first of all it is necessary to solve these traumas, a bad self-image. Not in the way that we actually unconsciously seek the "approval" of others by approaching, etc. But by accepting ourselves first of all.
we gotta accept those traumas and move on brotha
I was really anxious from childhood traumas aswell. But i saw a video somewhere that writing down your feelings actually helps. I started writing in my notes app about how i act and how i think i can fix it and i had so many revelations of why i act the way i do from relating it to past traumas. I suggest anyone to write down their feelings.
therapist my guy
My good friend had this issue with women in college. Would by visibly shaking talking to any attractive girl. Immersion therapy worked for him. He just forced himself to do it regardless of what happened and within 1 year at college he was good to go and actually going on dates. Sometimes you just gotta face it head on.
@@schroederluck7984
That only works if you’re lucky. The shaking nervous guy is very lucky. It could have just as easily been that he creeped out several girls with his nervousness while doing his immersion therapy causing them to gang up and stigmatize him as the campus weirdo who hits on girls. If that happened it would have been literally over for him.
*Overthinking can really cloud judgment and lead to unnecessary anxiety. It’s crucial for guys to remember that interactions should feel natural, not like a high-stakes game. Just being authentic can make all the difference!*
I assume that what you're saying, in a nutshell, is no matter who you are, you're going to get rejected more times than not, that comes with the game, but it's the guys who have the balls to try who win the biggest, at the end of the day!
It's a life lesson I've learned! Love the content
glad this helped man send it to your friends to help them too
Thank you man, you have helped me a lot. I'm no longer shy to speak to women, I'm now confident as ever and that's thanks to you. I'm a black South African 🇿🇦 male in my late 20s by the way.
cheers brother. Cool name btw
@@Denmosocial thank you it means " hope".
Jack at it again dropping another banger
gotta inspire you lads
Literally all I said to my crush was “how’s it going”. It’s that simple guys
And then what?
Then he woke up
@@freshuniversegaming and then we just had like a quick 2 minute conversation before heading off to class. There’s nothing fancy to it
@@UserRobot215 I already have her number. We’ve hung out before
this guy gets it
Great reminder for me! Been struggling with this as the only relationship I had in the past was because the girl told me she was interested (thru her friend) since then subconsciously I've been waiting for girls to come to me like that when it super rarely happens as you said. I need to take action!
you got this bro. Good luck
Hey Jack! Funny enough, today I was the laziest as ever, a friend haven't met 3 months invited me to go outside something I don't usually do at these cold times. For some God knows reason I went outside with the boys, walked around the city and coincidentally I met the girl that I was always afraid to talk to (Being frozen like you described... Fuck.) is with someone else. I came back, took it as a lesson to even further boost my confidence, make myself a better person and never miss a chance without overthinking it. Seeing this video after the event that happened today is nothing but a Godsend and thank you so much for this video.
boom there you go
Life changing video Jack bro..May God bless you with all the happiness in the world 😊
"Perfect moment takes place only in movies", you have absolutely killed it bro.
bless you sir
@@Denmosocial just because I waited for the perfect moment, i missed out on thousands of opportunities till date.
Anyways bro, just tell me how you recollect yourself mentally immediately moments after a girl behaved cold and then approach the next girl the very next moment.
Hey brother! Been spending these past 2 weeks binge watching these channels after my break up and yesterday I finally manned up and approached 3 women! Great interactions, we laughed I teased and flirted w all three. Two had bf but were very sweet and one texted me she wasn’t ready but overall very proud of myself to finally man up and approach women. Thank you sm for these videos !🤘🏽
thats awesome bro. look forward to you joining my socializer community and sharing W's as you improve
You know what? I watched some videos already and today I made progress. I was using Tinder to get dates but it was a waste of time. I got some dates but there wasnt anything exciting in particular. Some of them were rather dull and talk could be weird sometimes
Today I went to the shop with motorcycle gear and I met cute, short girl behind the counter. We were vibing all the time, just the two of us (shop was totaly empty). I bought some stuff and before I left I ask for her number and guess what? I got it. I wasnt nervous at all because she was such cute, talkative women and we were totally chilling there.
I was somewhat scared of rejection or approach itself but I was just stupid. No regrets after today
Thx Denmo
THATS MY MAN! give this guy some love
win
My respect 🤝
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after watching your videos, i have gained a lot more confidence in approaching girls, my only regret i had the last time was not talking this girl for longer as i reliased there was so much more we could have talked about. but that will come with more practice. Cheers Jack!
all good bro now you know. Go make some moves baby
This advice could be used for a lot of situations. Overthinking anything can really ruin them.
absolutely- here to help bro
It's so simple it hurts. Literally approach the women, be yourself (and work on making that self a self you like being, that's happy and confident), and if you like each other, keep talking. If you don't, move on.
now you must act my man
Even if you politely move on once you get the message she’s not interested, she’ll still bitch and cry to her friends about the creepy guy she doesn’t know who tried to hit on her. Thus further ruining your chances with them. Girls are very hive minded in this way.
Be yourself if you are good looking, otherwise fake it till you make it.
@@honkhonk5181 so you think it’s better to just not even make the attempt ?
@@andrewgonzalez9002 depends how much you value your reputation, depends how good looking you are, depends what you’re willing to risk
Started listening to your videos as I workout, it's definitely helped get me out of my headspace and saying hey to people. Literally would only say the bare minimum before watching your videos. Have been feeling a lot more outgoing and confident after seeing your stuff. So yeah lots of value in these videos.
atta boy that fires me up
@@Denmosocial for sure, sort of just messed up a interaction with someone. but like you said, can't get better at something if you aren't willing go out and fail at it first.
Been rizzing up this cute librarian when I go study. Listened to what you said in the monk mode, and yes my phone is on black & white I go study at the library rather than my house so I get more done, and I’m not relaxed like the way I’d be at my house, and I get out the house I also listened to what you said in your video about picking up girls at the gym about how you mentioned that if you see her often, build it overtime so with the cute librarian I just been taking it slow, making small talk, and build it up.
You INSPIRE ME TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN! Your advice HELPS ME SO MUCH
glad to hear that bro
Jack these videos are so helpful! Kepp it going
jack u are the real bro, thank u for being a mega supporter for us!!
here to help
thanks, i needed this
just wanted to pop in and say Hi before you become too famous to reply to all these comments, you're a really amazing man giving out true advice to help us men succeed
thank you
cheers bro thanks for supporting me early on
Ngl Denmos been helping me with my girl troubles. I’m still on stage 1 lmao, but I’ve gotten a bit better at initiating conversation quicker and letting nervousness go away. Like just an hour ago at work I saw her walk by me at break, I got my ass up and I spoke to her. Didn’t go anywhere cuz I didn’t ask for a date and I technically got her number already but she never responded. Point being I actually got up and spoke to her instantly and it didn’t go horribly wrong. Gotta thank Jack 💪🏿
Huge fan, Denmo. Saw lot of your videos and went up trying.
So I went up this restobar near my house and there were two girls entering same time. One of them went to counter for billing and was standing behind me, I gave her the place with a nice smile so that she can order while I was paying. She went on to sit with her friend and I went on next seat to them asking if They are going to smoke because I am a non-smoker and wanted to sit here, all politely and with a smiling face. They said it's fine with a little giggling on their face. They were chatting, I sat on my table drinking my tea. After a while she built up a boat from her paper receipt. I thought maybe I can initiate or restart the paused conversation here. I asked her, "excuse me you built a good boat, could you please teach me that too while giving my receipt paper to her? I really l liked it. " And then she replied "You can just keep mine, giving me her boat and asked Why don't you google it" (Shit Test)? And I was like stumped thinking what to say now.... I said Google doesn't give perfect answers so may be a practical would be better, like you could teach me how and where to fold the paper. She replied "she doesn't take classes". And then after a while I said "Ok, no worries What's your name?" She replied politely "Why for? I don't give my name to strangers" while her friend was giggling and then I was like "Okkayy, No Problem" and then I went silent. All this happened while I was smiling, talking politely, kind of bit confident too but was not too loud like "Hey Yo Girls, Whatsupp?" as didn't want to disturb others.
However I did not left my place after all that making it more embarrassing and kept sitting there like nothing has happened. Both of them were talking while laughing. Her friend was telling her that I can feel/understand you while she was whispering her something. They left after some time and once they reached the parking she was like looking at me from her bike, I looked at her and then moved my eye from her. They moved afterwards.
Only thing I could get from all this was I failed her shit test, maybe I was not confident or witty enough even though I was having a smiling face. I could had said I want your name to look on google for names' build a boat company. Didn't came in mind though. However I will keep trying, may be someday soon I will crack this.
Thanks man..I don't have time now but I will watch all Ur videos when I'm free..❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍
new favorite youtuber, ur so personable i feel like ive known you for years but i started watching you yesterday
look forward to making content for you homie
@@Denmosocial thanks jack
"Worst thing that could happen is you get rejected"
Yeah, about that. Im gonna need ya to bail me outa jail and pay for my lawyer
Don't worry man I got a shovel. I'm going to get you out of jail
my problem is that most of the times I don't feel like talking to girls even if I know I wouldn't be rejected. Yesterday I was at a party, the girlfriend of a friend of mine told me there were like 3 girls interested in me, especially 1, and she was also pretty, but I still did nothing and I don't know why
I can really relate to this. I'm known as the guy who rejects almost everyone just because he doesn't care about girls all that much. When I have a crush I will obsess over them though. Actually, I obsess over them so much that I fuck up my moves on them even if they liked me back. Perhaps approaching girls I don't have a crush on isn't such a bad idea, even if it is just to get more comfortable with girls and dating in general.
Jack, blessings from Venezuela, keep the good content!
shoutout to Venezuela
i'm a damn good strategist when it comes to games or how i plan my life. most of the time it is you wait for a step and get going. on the subject with women, i mostly rush it and leave myself 0 space for time and steps. The worst when you are really close and dude i just need to feel and kiss you. no, at the moment billions of thoughts. what if she doesn't like it and breaks off contact because of it. then let it better be but you can't live like that. So stop thinking about everything great video❤️👌👌👌
You`Re the Best!
Never stop doing These Videos
you got it brother
Great Video Advice Jack
When people see you stopping walking girls on the sidewalk to chat them up, what’s your advice for guys who every single time they try that the girl looks visibly uncomfortable or refuses to stop at all or even speeds up? That’s the reality for most of us.
Let them walk away
@@Cerc5789
Jack doesn’t let them walk away until he’s damn well finished. He keeps talking to them. How do you make them stay?
@@honkhonk5181 I thin it is better to approach girls for example in coffee, Park or other place where they are not in hurry
Be taller and more attractive... Duh...
@@viktor2338
If you talk to one or more girl unsuccessfully in a coffee shop they will complain about the weird guy to the managers or owners and then you aren’t allowed back. That’s how that works.
omfg the cs joke got me so deep. I played competetively from 2006 to 2012. fucking legend dude, like a few people get that.
haha cheers homie
Thanks as always jack!
no worries brother
If women really wanted to meet a guy, they could go up to guys and have such an easy time. The reason they dont is they don't want to give up the advantage they have, they have the high ground, they can sit back, let guys put in all the work, just to say either yes or no.
Overthinking is an attempt to control the outcome of a conversation. Don't be manipulative, just walk to a girl and say whatever you WANT to say when you had the thought to go talk to her and let the outcome be whatever.
Just keep in mind that people are generally busy during daytime so don't take to long., go direct to the point.
" _Hi, you're really cute. I'm Mark btw, what's your name...._ " Then just go from there.
Notice that most people run out of things to say because while the person is talking they are not really paying attention, they are thinking what to say next., so it's helpful if you adopt a really curious mindset and show real interest on what the person is telling you.
Love your work bro!
u helped me approach, now u help me stop overthinking..
next I help you find purpose
I have my phone on black and white since last week . After I saw your video and the main thing is I have not watched Netflix on my phone . Since all is black and white .
And I once switched my color back on to send a photo .
I mean I never knew colors were so vibrant man 😂.
Will continue it and see how it goes and will share maybe after a month or 2 of doing it
atta boy keep up the good work
I’m buying your course next week after the mortgage, I split with my ex wife about 4 years ago. I picked up a few strays here and there but I’m ready for a long term gig. My late teens and early 20’s were spent with my ex wife so I never really got that “experience” with women that I needed I’m hoping your course gives me some tools I can use to my advantage
Remember fellas, there are plenty of fish in the sea
watching this video in black and white thanks to you i finally stopped my addiction to computer screens, thank you all your videos are super helpfull
no worries bro here to help
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Has it been a week already?
More than a week changed everything
Right here lmao
You promised the discord link in the top pinned comment bro
How
Not going to overthink anymore
my man
beautiful. Im buying ur course even if I dont need it.
One big problem...I am 5'6"...no chance for me it seems
Im a german guy. What means "weekend girlfriend" ? Google say thats like only meet for sex, but if we in germeny say in the first minutes we only want to meet for sex that would be a deal brealer because its very crude
Seemed off to me too as a native speaker, but im from canada. Maybe in his area its a more normal phrase.
I’m not familiar with the phrase as an American but we have what’s called “hookups” here or “one night stand” which is like a girlfriend for one night you know? I actually think it’s pretty crude universally, I’m 23 and I’ve never had a one night stand I’ve spoken to all the women I hooked up with for more than a week lol I would be embarrassed to treat anyone like that.
Eine Freundin nur für das Wochenende!
This video kind of reminds me of the song from Cody Johnson “Til’ You Can’t”. What you can take from that song is that you will regret not taking chances that are given to you.
7:39 you grossly underestimate the sheer power of female disgust for guys they perceive as suboptimal. Chicks would literally rather soak in heavy rain than get within umbrella range of a guy they aren’t attracted to. She knows he’ll bother her by trying to strike up a conversation.
Are you sure about that bro
You sound like a total defeatist.
Bro
Something I struggle with. I worry about the convo dying, or running out of shit to say. The small talk essentially. Also don’t wnana randomly approach them… and they think it’s random or weird. Overthinking is an issue.
When I did have a perfect opportunity, I bailed as I wasn’t focused. I was busy. She fucking looked at me a smiled… and I blanked her. I was too focused on what I was doing, and no until after I realised I fucked up lol
agreed. If you still need help, check out my course homie
The backpack is a nice touch here Jack.
i wear backpacks everywhere
so, i have no problems getting the number and such, but its the keeping her interest part that i fuck things up, i recently identified that IRL i talk a bit too much, and also that i also fuck things up over text so i try to avoid texting, but i really don't know how to tease properly, i think i always tend to make the tease stale or a bit offensive? please help. (Also, my community is still a bit more on the conservative side and people don't sleep around and it is very shunned, alchohol is prohibited as well, and the common mindset is that you cant really rush into a relationship so most of the advice i get online needs to get watered down a bit as well)
Hey this girl you even approached in your old videos.Thats why she was surprised.I think in your other channel.
Legendary Rizz.
Thank you I needed this🤙🏼🫡🍒
you got it homie
The only video on how to pick up girls that actually made me laugh. lmao gg
When you just own your desires and say whatever’s on your mind you’ll get attraction fast. Especially when you stop jerking off 🔑😉. Also, rejection isn’t possible if you’re doing it for yourself having fun being authentic bc that means it just wasnt a match.
We all have an internal dating checklist being projected out.
These videos are so much better in black and white
Hello Jack, a while ago I commented and asked you if there is any hope for short guys like me. Well, I got a lot of motivation from your videos and decided to get out of my comfort zone, so not only did I go and talk to a girl, but I wanted to really test myself so I went for a girl that's like 4 inches taller than me, and guess what? She wants to go out on a date with me tomorrow.
BROOO! GOTTA KEEP THE BOYS IN THE DISCORD POSTED
“There you are!”
“Do I know you?”
“No, but there you are!”
Boom ice broken
JUST SAW YOU HIT 100K! GZ
ayyyyyyyyyyyy
1:50 props for the StarCraft reference
Yeah, hate to say it but it's too easy for girls. I saw a girl from my hall and shes somehow always with a different guy. Being a blunt guy, I straight up asked if any one of them are her boyfriend, but she apparently has them all deep in the friendzone. Also, she gives misleading signals, I realized whenever I talked with her, she was always giggling and laughing, and niceguys would not know better and think "oh yeah she's into me" Tbf, I also have a female friend like that.
She caught my interest because I wanna see if I can actually get her, but I'm not interested in her that way.
life is easier until men acquire status and wealth in their 30s... then it switches homie
1:13 bro almost ruined the rizz
Amazing Video Denmo!! I'm picking up what you're putting down. *But...*
Where do I find settings to bump into woman? The only place I go to that has woman are grocery stores lol. (Could work!)
Highschool was great for meeting others, but now I'm at a loss for locations. 🤷
coffee shops, restaurants, libraries, bookstores, festivals
@@Denmosocial Speedy and solid response, thanks!! 👍🌟
@@Denmosocial how many chances do you get to talk to talk to women in those places before the staff starts catching onto the reason you’re there and ban you? All it takes is one girl to claim you made her uncomfortable to get kicked out and trespassed from the property. They will do this even if all you did was make a simple harmless mistake. It’s ironic how you say to not overthink things and just go for it when not thinking things through ahead of time is exactly what makes you end up saying something stupid and getting kicked out.
That black dot at the top...
"What do you do on weekends?"
"Homework.."
"Well, do you want to change it up a little bit and have a drink with me instead?"
sure bro
girls are incapable of initial social interactions so guys if you are waiting for them your gonna be waiting forever. you have to initiate and carry the conversation until she warms up to you. guys just talk to them worst case scenario they hate you. if you are respectful in your approach really the worst case is she rejects you and you move on who cares in most cases they are doing you a favor. guys need to stop feeling like women are the prize. guys YOU are the prize. if you start to value yourself and realize you are doing them a favor being with them then the dynamic will change and women will WANT YOU. women are people just like us they arent a prize. often times your going to have alot more to offer than she will. be patient put yourself out there. i promise you will find someone
thanks for sharing homie
@@Denmosocial you the best on youtube for this kind of content and even though i know alot of what you talk about hearing you say it lets me know im on the right path. keep up the good work brother!
The thing is, if WE are the prize, why do WE have to approach? It doesn't make sense, kinda.
@@pazeros6424 because they are incapable of doing so. if men never approached women we wouldnt be here to have this conversation lol. just because men approach women doesnt mean they have more to offer. ill take my own situation i have a great job im in great shape i have my own house nice new car a dog no drugs no drinking no smoking. now for me other than companionship a woman really cant offer me much i dont have/do for myself already. for them i can offer them a massive quality of life improvement as well as companionship. know your worth brother and dont be afraid to be picky. there are tons of single women out there its not like just guys are single the population numbers dont work like that. if there are a ton of single dudes theres a ton of single chicks. social media and online dating has ruined both men and womens ability to interact with each other socially. its become almost weird to randomly approach new people not just of the opposite sex either. you need to understand you will likely be uncomfortable approaching and they will be uncomfortable being approached. its ok! know your value be confident in yourself and really the worst case is you get rejected move on their loss really. this is why denmo talks about self improvement alot. hes not wrong. when your life is in a good place outside of relationships its alot easier to be confident in meeting women because you will know you are a high value man. looks really arent everything, does it help yes, but if you are a better than average guy with your life even half way sorted you have alottttttt more to offer than 90% of women you will meet, and as you age the ratio gets even worse for women. by the time you are in your 30's most of these women are single moms with tons of baggage. thats a tough sell and alot of men in their 30's are just hitting their stride. keep at it you are the prize trust that
@@TheCivicsiep3 a fine comment, I was just trying to say that most of the women have nothing to offer, nothing that I would need. The thing I don't understand is that guys treat girls in general as something extraordinary whereas it us who carry the boats, build houses and take risk of moreless everything in life. Maann...they should chase us like shit, why is it opposite?
Coming up to women is just like a sales pitch .
Almost 100K!
It's not the approach I'm afraid of, it's the sense of inevitable betrayal (true or not) that I feel because cheating has become so normalized. Also the prospect of men with guns that are willing to put me in a cage with men that will try to kill or defile me to keep me from my kids.
stf up u schizo rtard and talk to a woman
I have a friend who does this everytime we go approaching during the day in our city. He'll just stall and wait for the "perfect moment" or thing to say but never take the plunge.
classic
I was a victim of one-itis for a very long time. I got very attached to 1 girl and the truth of the matter is, the world is a big place. There are plenty of attractive women across the globe, honestly if you miss out on 1, there are new girls turning 18 every day. If you miss out on someone who you think is your ideal girl, there are always other good options, and chances are you'll find someone else very similar, if not almost identical to her somewhere else.
Not saying I'm some kind of expert, but never throw in the towel because you messed up with 1 hot girl. There are tons of attractive girls everywhere if you know where to look.
Also remember, every girl hits the wall eventually, no matter how hot she is at a young age.
" if you know where to look" , thats my issue where do I find attractive girls other than the streets
two girl's numbers today boys
I love you dude
He's Canadian, he shows euros 5:15 , All of us in Europe , he has us covered too, respect
canada baby
2:00 got me dying bro💀
bro i like him so much⚡
Lets pick up some girl tommorow
how about today homie
@@Denmosocial omg the big man replied🤴
BANGER
100k by the end of the week??? I believe it will happen :)
ROAD TO 100
Denmo it’s day 2 of the black and white screen challenge and my sleep already improved by 30 mins and I’m more motivated to do assignments at school
absolute legend
what’s that challenge?
Niceee
I just can't hold a conversation. It's like, I can observe and pick something... but I can't think of what to say...
Same...
What they are wearing pick up line is goated
The problem is im a nice looking guy average maybe and the girl that a metaphorically like is a girl that is like a solid 9. I just dont talk because regretting not talking her is better than some bad gesture that i get from her.
Yeah bro I’m just gonna walk up to that girl in my class I’ve been procrastinating it for way too long
WE GOT THIS BOYS
Let us know how did it go
How it did go
@@viktor2338 I don’t have class again till tommorow since it was the weekend
100k by the end of the week!
lets goooooooo
hey jack hope youre good
aight bro im gonna head out next time its raining to walk along as many bus stops I can find as long as it rains.
matter fact im gonna do it even without rain and act like its raining
Yo! What are your thoughts on improv classes ? Thinking of taking some to get out of my head. What’s the value of that? Would it help?
highly recommend them bro
The coolest thing about girls and love is - you can be wierd alien and still you can probably find a lover - the same wierd alien
absolutely
"there's one out there for everyone" 😂😂😂shut the fk up with that utter bullshit
not
"probably"💀
God that fan of yours was killing you on camera, you handled that so well. I assume he's a fan and will learn his lesson seeing himself on cam
guy messed up lol
Did you know that looking at women can land you in prison now in London? There’s no such law in the states but that’s the type of mentality we’re dealing with worldwide.
Not worldwide, my friend. I live in Poland and there is no such sick mentality you are speaking of. Approaching the girls with actually good intentions and attitude isn't something inappropriate. If you live in the UK, speak for yourself and do not generalize.
Anyway at least you tried approaching the girls, so you have passed those baby steps, congrats mate 😉
1:59 why did I laugh so hard at this 😂😭
I like how denmo will do something so cringy i have to pause the video multiple times and still get the girl. Crazy.
I sacrifice myself to help you guys
Just like Top Gun Maverick "Don't think, just do" hahaha
well said brother
Hope your watching this in black and white
i am G