On the Sofa: Slow Living

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  • @artemis818
    @artemis818 4 місяці тому +12

    You look very refreshed! I love your new blouse.

  • @lindacapen500
    @lindacapen500 4 місяці тому +54

    Vivi, I am so sorry cyber bullies were doing that to you. Please ignore idiots like that. You are a wonderful person and they just need to get over themselves. I am glad you gave yourself a break. I like to watch you because you are real and a caring person. Have a lovely day.

    • @janegoodfellow1529
      @janegoodfellow1529 4 місяці тому +15

      Vivi is the best kind of human, and we're so lucky to have her in our lives, lifting our spirits and influencing us for the better ❤🤗🙏

    • @marilyn9155
      @marilyn9155 4 місяці тому +8

      Hear hear ❤️

    • @traceyelliott2902
      @traceyelliott2902 4 місяці тому +2

      First off, I'm so very happy to hear your voice again!
      Also, I'm so sick of mean hearted, viper tongue, jackals!! It's quite depressing seeing it so often!
      Third, though id love to sit and actually have a coffee with you, I'll happily "buy" you a coffee now and then!

  • @janegoodfellow1529
    @janegoodfellow1529 4 місяці тому +13

    No matter what you're talking about, you make me feel safe & included & comfortable. Your content is always interesting and relevant and helpful, but just your presence, your voice, and your turn of phrase is like therapy for me, and many others I'm sure.
    I wish our affection for you could cancel out the hatefulness. Never forget how loved and respected you are, and how precious you are to us.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much Jane. 😊

    • @kerrybyers257
      @kerrybyers257 4 місяці тому +1

      Btw, Vivi, that lovely blouse you’ve found is a winner. Very flattering cut & color. Looks like a cool cotton.
      Rarely, these days, do you find such nicely book-matched pattern placement on anything but “slow” couture (is it?). Great wardrobe score! 👍Kerry

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +3

      @@kerrybyers257 It's actually a dress......and cheap as chips..... on offer.......a couple of girlfriends treated me to a couple of dresses as an early birthday present. 💖

  • @helenjeindl524
    @helenjeindl524 4 місяці тому +11

    I have been living slow for a number of years and it is the most wonderful way to live. I just wish I had found it earlier 🥰😻😻☕

  • @mariac3534
    @mariac3534 4 місяці тому +12

    You're so loved and appreciated for your sincerity and realness. Please never change. If I lived in England I know we would be great friends. Unfortunately there are too many hateful people in the world.

  • @kerrybyers257
    @kerrybyers257 4 місяці тому +7

    Vivi! You’re back! And looking lovely, refreshed and reenergized! Perfect call to “uni-task”,refocus…and WRITE. ❤️
    I very much miss the sounds of slow living….floor sweeping, kitchen chopping and whisking, construction hammering and sawing……and the sound of a record changing on a turntable creating a moment of anticipation. I think the Amish are on to something. Carriages and clomping hooves anyone!✋
    BMAC link didn’t work (? could be me), so going conventional route. Enjoy & thank you. 😉❤️

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +4

      Hahaha.....you have, unwittingly, just laid out all my next videos......I think, going by this comment, that you'll enjoy them. 😉

    • @kerrybyers257
      @kerrybyers257 4 місяці тому +1

      I’m ready for some “slow” viewing. Can’t wait.

  • @bybeccalewis
    @bybeccalewis 4 місяці тому +16

    So lovely to have you back. I am so glad that you have had a chance to recharge the batteries.

  • @lynnpurfield9430
    @lynnpurfield9430 4 місяці тому +8

    Oh Vivi, I am so sorry to hear this. Some youtubers who talk of their own lives attract those types who used to watch Coronation Street, East Enders etc...they are right there in the lounge and some get so caught up in the stories they can't differentiate between themselves and the story teller...like they make them family or friends who they feel they can judge as their own (not that that is right either, but humans judge).
    Do you recall how Dirty Den got loads of death threats? People get lost in their own beliefs and you are right there in their house. I know it is insane, but, don't ever take it personally. It is about them not you.
    Also, if there is a bully or narcissist, he/she will spot any 'vulnerabilty' in a person being natural, open and caring.

  • @SandyKleins
    @SandyKleins 4 місяці тому +6

    Move when you are ready. Don't rush to find your home take your time. The right home will come when its ready.

  • @sarahm9651
    @sarahm9651 4 місяці тому +9

    Fantastic to have you back on our screens. Your break has clearly had the desired effect as your inner peace and contentment were shining out from within. I find single tasking rather than multi tasking so much more rewarding as it gives me more focus and lessens the feeling of being overwhelmed by a big to do list.

  • @Briardie
    @Briardie 4 місяці тому +5

    While you have been away I have been watching and writing down as many of your cooking videos as I can. They have been great.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much lovely, I've really appreciated it. 😊

  • @marilyn9155
    @marilyn9155 4 місяці тому +7

    Great to see you !!! I love your vibrant blouse- the color and style suit .
    It sounds like your break did you the world of good to refresh your state of mind, to be introspective . Terrible that folks derive satisfaction from trashing people . All YT -ers must need to be pretty thick- skinned .I am not , unfortunately .
    I always enjoy your openness and honesty and can’t wait for the upcoming videos you ‘tease’ !!!
    Got up early to watch Trooping of the
    Colors ! I love the pageantry . The Family are looking well .
    Look forward to seeing you again soon !
    ❤Marilyn xx

  • @lulucly
    @lulucly 4 місяці тому +9

    I was tickled when I saw your post this morning! Welcome back! Wish we could band together and crowd the trolls back to their dark alleys.

  • @anitaevans2432
    @anitaevans2432 4 місяці тому +6

    What a lovely blouse Vivi. It really suits you.

  • @kathleensmith6200
    @kathleensmith6200 4 місяці тому +8

    So glad you're back! Glad that youtube started having your very old videos pop up from 6 and 7 years ago so was able to keep watching. I don't watch regular tv and now being retired it's nice to have something to watch from time to time that isn't about our current state of the world and country. So sorry about those hateful people, but I totally understand and in fact can relate. I'm a retired nurse and my last job was in telephone care. After I injured my shoulder doing compressions for cpr training, and added stress from the job changes we were having, I decided to retire. A big part of that was the nearly everyday cussing and screaming from patients I was trying to help. It wears you down even if you try not to take it personally, you can't help it.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +2

      Exactly. Hurrah for a more peaceful life now. X

  • @janegoodfellow1529
    @janegoodfellow1529 4 місяці тому +7

    So happy to see you again ❤

  • @jenniferwilliams7
    @jenniferwilliams7 4 місяці тому +6

    What a wonderful video and chat! You look well and lovely. 😊 Thank you for the slow living reminder. I needed that! 💕

  • @SW-cu6bw
    @SW-cu6bw 4 місяці тому +8

    Hello dear Vivi, so lovely to have you back looking so refreshed and looking radiant in a beautiful top. The colours really suit you. Just delete any troll instantly. They are not wanted here! I can never understand why people are in such a hurry for you to move. You have addressed this on a few occasions and it will happen when YOU have your flat prepared and YOU are ready to put it on the market for sale. Also do not worry about the Buy me a Coffee option. At least you are not flogging something you would never use yourself. I appreciate your honesty in letting us know about it. Sending big hugs as always, Sophie in the Norfolk Broads. X

  • @Briardie
    @Briardie 4 місяці тому +5

    You certainly look so much brighter. The small break has done you good. It needs to be repeated as needed. Like self prescription. I am delighted to hear you are being creative. You need to strengthen that muscle. Big hugs. Today, I am being a lazy git. Unashamedly so. I am embracing it. It impacts no one but me. Social media has a negative side. However, the enormous plus is I have found you and your channel. One thought - keep off following the news. It is fear corn. Knowing about horror when you cannot do anything about it to help the situation, drains our vital energy. It is not good for our own health. Keep off the news.Positivity is the message of this video.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +2

      Yay to that! Hahahaha.....enjoy your fabulous lazy git day! 💖

  • @marianne8280
    @marianne8280 4 місяці тому +5

    You look good Vivi, glad you are back! Send the trolls to the Swedish forests, where they belong.Don´t let them get to you, the unfortunate ones.

  • @scot.in.de.9013
    @scot.in.de.9013 4 місяці тому +6

    Good to see you again Vivi! ❤

  • @AJJ500
    @AJJ500 4 місяці тому +5

    Missed you Vivi, and absolutely love you blouse. Glad you’re back x

  • @60th60th
    @60th60th 4 місяці тому +4

    Folding laundry and brewing coffee whilst listening to this. Slow living is all I do now! Thanks, Vivi. Take care!

  • @jabronvidra475
    @jabronvidra475 4 місяці тому +9

    So very good to see you.

  • @lisasprite3322
    @lisasprite3322 4 місяці тому +4

    You look well dear Vivi - taking time is so needed.
    Looking forward to catching up on your channel X
    🩷

  • @sarahamilton7903
    @sarahamilton7903 4 місяці тому +4

    Simple fact..the trolls are wrong..We Love your posts and you are truly a kind and lovely person. Our positive comments will drown out their cr*p . Your looking good girl

  • @Maria-hm1pi
    @Maria-hm1pi 4 місяці тому +4

    It's lovely to see you back Vivi. Stay positive and keep smiling. 😁

  • @karenbell6800
    @karenbell6800 4 місяці тому +3

    I was just thinking about you today! So sad to hear that people have been nasty. You’re such a lovely and inspiring person - keep going. So many people here love you xxx

  • @moyrainbow5674
    @moyrainbow5674 4 місяці тому +4

    Lovely to see you back! My kids say 'haters gonna hate' complete this statement with an eyeroll🙄. Just block them Vivi. I wish you could get a gig recording audio books with your lovely voice. An old college friend of mine does that and it's funny she's so RADA'd these days that the first time I listened to one I didn't twig it was her. Looking forward to the mystery videos....and totally enjoying immersing myself figuratively into 'At The Pond'!

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +2

      Hahaha.....chuckling at your RADA reference.......I trained at Webber Douglas.......a wonderful drama school.....but always second best to RADA. 😉

  • @lindacase4245
    @lindacase4245 4 місяці тому +8

    Vivi, block the nasty bastards! You are magnificent, and they are jealous!

  • @taracat7141
    @taracat7141 4 місяці тому +5

    It blows my mind that people find or probably even seek out content they are not interested in, dont connect with, are just living not their best lives and then attack and dump their crap onto that creator.
    Surely they could find another video to watch or just turn off social media.....
    Humans have always been very complex strange creatures. I wish they would just move on...
    Apparently, Vincent Van Gough said "If you truly love nature, you will find beauty everywhere"
    Love your work
    🧡🙏🧡

  • @antoniaparsons7457
    @antoniaparsons7457 4 місяці тому +7

    Lovely to see you again vivi. Could someone else monitor your comments for you? I hate that you go through this x

  • @SandyKleins
    @SandyKleins 4 місяці тому +3

    So good to see you back and hope you had a lovely break. Have missed you. We love to watch your channel. We understand how hard it must be so hard to have those nasty people putting you down. Know you are great and loved, we love watching you and your channel. You are strong and know your worth. Please keep making videos.
    I watched Princess Catherine and her children at Trouping of the color today. She has been under attack. But look how beautiful she is and her beautiful children.
    I have been watching you since you started your UA-cam channel, and we love you. xx

  • @Sweetie8387
    @Sweetie8387 4 місяці тому +4

    So chuffed you’re back and that you’ve had a lovely break, you deserve it lovely lady x

  • @djf8619
    @djf8619 4 місяці тому +3

    Writing is such a nice release. Good for you for taking the time to do it. Our society is geared to "Instant" everything. We are not meant to be running at top speed all the time. That is what causes burnout. Slow living makes complete sense. Everyone should try it.

  • @marywilliams7112
    @marywilliams7112 3 місяці тому +3

    Oh Vivi, people can be so hurtful. Ignore as best you can and just enjoy life. We enjoy watching you and about your life, delete the idiots😊 x

  • @NataliePopovic
    @NataliePopovic 4 місяці тому +4

    I really like your top. The colours and pattern look very nice on you

  • @9FatraBbits
    @9FatraBbits 4 місяці тому +3

    Lovely to see you looking and sounding so well. Slow living or slow anything is appreciation and gratitude in the moment. Technology is amazing but we are not technology-we can go as slow as we want! We can savour the time spent. I’m looking forward to seeing coming videos!🐇🩷

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +1

      Exactly....tech can be a wonderful aid........but time without can be sooooo lovely.....

  • @simplyjulie1612
    @simplyjulie1612 4 місяці тому +5

    Oh Viv! The thought of anyone saying something hateful to you! You are so sweet and funny and honest. It's unconscionable. I hate to say this but I literally think many of those people are mentally ill. And that's why you get all the advice to "just ignore them." Because what else can you do about a deranged crazy person with a keyboard? Block them and move on. I know you'll still have thoughts that linger but there were so many people I loved online who went offline permanently because of the trolls. I hope that never happens with you. Meditate on the good comments because I know you get many more of those. 💛

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому

      Hear, hear! Thank you lovely. x

    • @janegoodfellow1529
      @janegoodfellow1529 4 місяці тому +1

      The trolls are certainly damaged and unhappy. Not so sure about being mentally ill. Plenty of people with mental illnesses would never dream of being unkind to others. And tbh we have enough to do, coping with our symptoms, without using up precious energy lashing out.
      But they are deeply troubled, with darkness in their hearts, that's for sure.

  • @marilynwatson7151
    @marilynwatson7151 4 місяці тому +3

    Glad u enjoyed your break and feel refreshed.looking forward to your videos.so horrible people out there but please remember more people like you than hate you !

  • @wallissmithson2098
    @wallissmithson2098 4 місяці тому +3

    WE all love you Vivi, really like your top xxx

  • @angebeesley9036
    @angebeesley9036 4 місяці тому +4

    So good to see your back Vivi ... glad to hear you did what you needed too.. sorry to hear that you had some horrible things said .. you bring joy and fab practical information and cheer people up.. look forward to your next vlog take care 😊

  • @Michelle-bk5uq
    @Michelle-bk5uq 4 місяці тому +4

    Happy to hear you had a lovely break!

  • @shirleymcmurtrie7853
    @shirleymcmurtrie7853 4 місяці тому +3

    It all makes perfect sense, Vivi. ❤

  • @grumpy_poo
    @grumpy_poo 4 місяці тому +3

    Welcome back. Lovely top, you look refreshed. Sometimes one has to have a little 'me ' time...

  • @cindytennessee
    @cindytennessee 4 місяці тому +4

    How delightful to see you Vivi! So sorry you experience cyber bullying. I’m so glad you took proper care of yourself! Those of us who are ‘not bullies’ love you dearly my friend. Take care Vivi! 🥰😘

  • @irenesmith5676
    @irenesmith5676 4 місяці тому +5

    Hi vivi lovely to see you back lv Irene xx

  • @lonapritchett7786
    @lonapritchett7786 4 місяці тому +5

    Good morning Lovely from Georgia USA! I missed you!

  • @dawndexter9779
    @dawndexter9779 4 місяці тому +4

    Love your pretty top, suits you so much. Welcome back ❤😊

  • @DonnaLatty-kh6db
    @DonnaLatty-kh6db 4 місяці тому +4

    Vivi you look happy and rested 👍❤️🙏

  • @lisafenn4238
    @lisafenn4238 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi my dear Vivi. It is wonderful to have you back. You have been very missed. You look rested and I love the top you are wearing... very cheerful. Sending my love as always xxxxxx

  • @MoonSpinners
    @MoonSpinners 4 місяці тому +3

    Blimey, it’s good to have you back! It’s so easy to say ignore the trolls, but they really get into your head don’t they? Just remember that you have more people here who like you than the uneducated fools who don’t like you. ❤🤗

  • @Barneysma
    @Barneysma 4 місяці тому +4

    So lovely to see you back Vivi, looking fresh and invigorated and happy. I am continually amazed by how vile and brainless so many people can be online, and eternally grateful that they aren’t in my immediate circle in real life. I am so sorry for the abuse you contend with Vivi, you are a beautiful human being, and well loved by many of us and perhaps it is envy of that which sets them off. I understand your reluctance for Patreon, but it would be a way to block the trolls. Big hugs lovely lady, so glad that you enjoyed your break. Xx

  • @grumpy_poo
    @grumpy_poo 4 місяці тому +5

    Your new home plans, to be quite frank, are nobody else's business... this is YOUR life and any decisions regarding where you will live for the rest of your days, have to be considered carefully..... totally agree, take your time . Don't let the ba**ards grind you down...

  • @mlbonventi
    @mlbonventi 4 місяці тому +6

    You look brilliant! ❤

  • @wyyeti4004
    @wyyeti4004 4 місяці тому +9

    Hi from toasty Wyoming! That blouse is absolutely you. 👍😁
    As for trolls…unfortunately, there are many frustrated and bitter people out there, with nowhere else to vent. They can’t see a different path. It is incredibly sad.
    You NEVER need to justify yourself and what you do. Your work ethic and integrity are out there for everyone to see.
    Keep the positivity, Vivi. You are a beautiful soul. :0)

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you lovely....I wish I could fling my arms around you for a massive hug. 😊

    • @wyyeti4004
      @wyyeti4004 4 місяці тому +1

      @@WhatVivididnext 🤗🙂👍

  • @mlbonventi
    @mlbonventi 4 місяці тому +4

    Trolling - that's horrendous 😢. I can't understand why people have to be so negative, hurtful and hollow to try to bring others down....evil, horrible individuals. Glad you looked after you. Many of us here are so grateful to you for being so generous and sharing your life, your passions, ideas and your preferences. I genuinely missed you and your content. Thank you for you.

  • @loveconnection1118
    @loveconnection1118 4 місяці тому +3

    Wonderful video I am glad to have you back x

  • @joanneguarnaccia7133
    @joanneguarnaccia7133 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi Vivi! So nice to see you back from your social media holiday! Hope you accomplished all you wanted to during the last 2 weeks. I really missed your presence here. Regarding your trolls... I don't understand why people waste their time being mean if they don't enjoy a persons content or dislike/hate the content creator. I dont get it???? You are far from hated...infact for those of us who enjoy what you post, you are part of a family who loves you. ❤️ have a great weekend, my lovely!!

  • @HilltopFarmHomestead
    @HilltopFarmHomestead 4 місяці тому +2

    Great to see you back Vivi. You do look relaxed and well. About "Coffee", "Patreon"! I used to hate the idea of having one of those accounts. Felt like I would be holding a begging bowl until I heard one UA-camrs view on it. He said think of it as a tip jar. You offer a service. Those that want to can show their appreciation by throwing something in the jar. Those that don't want to don't have too. Or if you're Richard, you're a pole dancer and "Coffee" is your G-string. A place to leave your dollar bill! lol. Jokes aside, I hope you get my meaning.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +1

      I love the idea of the 'tips jar'......hahah, yes......YT pay me even less than if I was waiting tables so it's a great analogy. Thank you lovely! X

  • @DonnaLatty-kh6db
    @DonnaLatty-kh6db 4 місяці тому +4

    Vivi more content creators àre dealing with these hateful types of viewers! Very sad that some have no life without thinking this vileness👍❤️🙏

  • @1sweffling
    @1sweffling 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi Vivi, the colours in your top really suit your colouring. You are looking so pretty today:)

  • @karenabendshien846
    @karenabendshien846 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi Vivi. I'm glad you're back and that your break was refreshing! I like the blouse you are wearing, it's a nice color for you. Take care!

  • @Debbieanne51
    @Debbieanne51 3 місяці тому +4

    Oh vivi....for every 1 nasty troll you have 100 people who love your channel !! How awful for you. I for one love your channel xx

  • @dinglehopperdaydreamer9882
    @dinglehopperdaydreamer9882 4 місяці тому +3

    Such a shame you've had to put up with all of that Vivi, it's hard putting up with other peoples issues being projected on to you, people can be horrible sometimes. Sending love lovely, lovely to see you back looking refreshed and very pretty top xxX

  • @shivakat2297
    @shivakat2297 4 місяці тому +1

    Im always amazed at how people can see themselves so entitled that it's ok to be rude to others. They seem very self absorbed and completely ignorant to the fact there are two sides to every story. You have every right to stand back and let those folks slide right on by. By the way that top is beautiful on you.😊

  • @judimantos904
    @judimantos904 4 місяці тому +6

    Missed you more than I can say! Thanks for coming back, but so glad you had a wonderful break. ❤

  • @vickyjones3196
    @vickyjones3196 4 місяці тому +3

    I’ve tried to think about how it must be for content creators to be trolled, on one hand you must think I really don’t care who you are or what you think but on the other hand we are human and do care - we care that some people are hateful and want go get them to stop. So you must want to give them a proper piece of your mind at the same time as trying not to let it affect you! I think it would eat away at me too, it’s those little conversations you have in your head that can be difficult to catch and pull yourself back from.
    Judging by the comments you’ve had you should put that top up for auction, it really is lovely!

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +2

      Hahaha....no auctioning this lovely dress.....a recent gift (early birthday present) and I love it. 😊

    • @janegoodfellow1529
      @janegoodfellow1529 4 місяці тому +1

      Somehow the trolls want to drive away or destroy goodness. It's so odd, and so disturbing. What they say has no relevance or truth but they choose the most hurtful words their mixed up brains can come up with, and it must be the hardest thing not to be affected by their spite.

  • @conniewinter5154
    @conniewinter5154 4 місяці тому +2

    Lovely to see you back.

  • @susancheveralllong7694
    @susancheveralllong7694 4 місяці тому +2

    Im glad you took a time out. You do look rested. You needed that break 😉

  • @drrebeccawilliamsdinsdale
    @drrebeccawilliamsdinsdale 4 місяці тому +2

    Missed you! Welcome back xxx

  • @milda0820
    @milda0820 4 місяці тому +2

    Happy to see you back lovely💖💖💖

  • @rough-hewnhomestead5737
    @rough-hewnhomestead5737 4 місяці тому +1

    Im glad you had a break! I completely understand about slow living. I was washing peas and getting them ready to freeze while listening to this video. Slow living is wonderful!

  • @elizabethfairlie8296
    @elizabethfairlie8296 4 місяці тому +4

    I think the French also do slow food extremely well also. As for bullies i find their comments say more about who they are. Bile ejectors.

  • @growingandlearning164
    @growingandlearning164 4 місяці тому +2

    So happy to see you Vivi❤🎉

  • @pamelafreeman4548
    @pamelafreeman4548 4 місяці тому +3

    Love your top..you look pretty in red! Enjoyed your vlog. You do you..ignore the naysayers!!😊

  • @KarenBowers4
    @KarenBowers4 4 місяці тому +6

    Vivi we aren't friends as in face to face but I still call you my friend when I talk about your videos. I know bullies can be upsetting, but please think about all of us who adore you. Think of the people you interact with daily or weekly in your town. What do those peop!e think of you, that is the measure of who you are. I wish I could hug you and tell you how special you are to so many of us.

    • @mlbonventi
      @mlbonventi 4 місяці тому +3

      Lovely words and you made me smile because when I quote Vivi, or let someone know about Vivi I say the same.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much lovely. 😊

  • @elizabethwilson1357
    @elizabethwilson1357 4 місяці тому +1

    Lovely to see you looking so refreshed and happy Vivi! Your top is lovely, really suits you! Ignore the trolls, not easy I know, but there are many more people who love you and love your channel than the nasty trolls!
    Looking forward to your next videos 😊x

  • @caroldaviddaviejohnson2225
    @caroldaviddaviejohnson2225 4 місяці тому +1

    Hello Vivi! Great to see you back. Trolls, they're ugly on the inside as well as the outside, whether that's the mythical ones or the keyboard ones! Slow living is the way to go. It makes for a more rewarding, satisfying and gratitude filled life. Just stopping to fully engage in whatever we're doing, by taking the time and being mindful and in the moment stops that whizzing brain of to do lists that we think need rapidly completing. Looking forward to your upcoming videos, ❤

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +1

      Three cheers to slowing down and being immersed in the moment. 😊

  • @beverley1539
    @beverley1539 4 місяці тому +2

    Hiya. Vivi nice to see you. You’re looking good a bit sunkissed. Blessings luv southern Ontario Canada 🇨🇦🐝

  • @vannesagannon4555
    @vannesagannon4555 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤fantastic

  • @Myhippiehomesteaduk
    @Myhippiehomesteaduk 4 місяці тому +3

    Trolls are evil! I remember being told by a troll on my channel that I will never be debt free along with many other nasty things…. On Friday I made my very last debt payment! There is nothing wrong with Buy me a coffee, I see it as a way people can say thank you, support us for maybe making them think or even saving them money because we make them think about something ❤

  • @joannelandriault7715
    @joannelandriault7715 4 місяці тому +3

    Vivi you look fab…new top? Glad the time away helped. Missed you. Bought you five coffees!!! You deserve our support! I will touch base on the 18th.🌟❤️

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much beautiful! Hahaha.....I'll have a caffeine rush! 😉 The top is actually a dress.....an early birthday present and already my favourite thing. 😊

  • @maryfennell9672
    @maryfennell9672 4 місяці тому +1

    Good to see you back Vivi and refreshed. Everyone needs a break from time to time. As for the trolls well they can just clear off into cyberspace and back into the holes they crawled out of!!

  • @marylynch2510
    @marylynch2510 4 місяці тому +2

    Just love you Vivi !!! ,trolls are sad individuals, they must lead boring lives❤❤❤❤❤

  • @TheSpottedBoot
    @TheSpottedBoot 3 місяці тому +2

    People being mean to you breaks my heart. I'm sorry their misery spills over on you. Imagine living with them 24x7 😳😱 Stay sweet. Stay kind and keep sharing, because I, for one, look forward to our chats .
    PS that color is lovely on you. Really brightens your complexion.

  • @kathymc1863
    @kathymc1863 4 місяці тому +1

    So pleased to see you back Vivi and looking so lovely after your socials break… it’s obviously done you good 😊

  • @lynnoorman2144
    @lynnoorman2144 4 місяці тому +1

    Hwy Vivi - trying to do 'slow living' here, too! After volunteering at the Foodbank this morning and working during the week ive had an afternoon nap! You very much soothe me off to sleep, your voice is so lovely. So when i 'come to' i rewind the video to hear the message that you have to say! Lol!
    As for the trolls and the ' get a real job' folk out there i feel sorry for them. They seem to range from those with mental health issues to those who havent got the cognitive capacity to understand your valient stance on not going on the dole but trying to do it yourself. Bravo for Vivi!!!

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому

      Yay, cheers lovely.....and hurrah to afternoon naps.....I love them! 😊

  • @marianneteasdale4950
    @marianneteasdale4950 4 місяці тому +1

    So pleased to have you back, you do look rested. I've missed you and looking forward to listening to your chitchat. It's like having a best friend sitting on my counter while I work.

  • @carolinebooth3378
    @carolinebooth3378 4 місяці тому +1

    Lovely to see you back, Vivi! I hope you'll continue to take time out when you need it to decompress and look after yourself. I'm sorry you've been targeted by trolls - take comfort in the fact that the majority of your viewers love and look forward to your content ❤😊

  • @lindastone9385
    @lindastone9385 4 місяці тому +1

    Thankyou so much Vivi. I am so glad you took a break. You look very refreshed. You are so inspiring in your attitude to life. Next month I get my state pension.( I am one of the WASPI women so have had to wait). I have wound up the curtain making business and intend to start up a little website to sell my few knitty/fibre bits and bobs. Found that certain websites had become very greedy with their commission rates! You have really inspired me to do this. But it will slow and joyful, because that is what puts a smile on my face.
    Looking forward to your next vlog. Xx

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому

      Yay for slow and joyful......enjoy that first pension cheque!

    • @lindastone9385
      @lindastone9385 4 місяці тому

      Thankyou lovely lady.🎉

  • @bobbidazzler1343
    @bobbidazzler1343 4 місяці тому +1

    I think you look so well Vivi. Love the new top! ❤

  • @angelenaboden
    @angelenaboden 4 місяці тому +13

    Ive decided to move from my lovely country cottage because of a bullying neighbour. Ive helped her so much since she moved in 3 years ago. My nerves are so bad.😢 why are people so nasty these days.

    • @SW-cu6bw
      @SW-cu6bw 4 місяці тому +7

      Hi Angela, so sorry you are having to move. I moved nearly three years ago from the city to the countryside into a cottage in a small hamlet on the Norfolk Broads due to antisocial activity where I used to live. I hope you will found a better place. The world is filled with some lovely people out there. The nastier ones are outnumbered! Sending virtual hugs to you. Sophie.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому +7

      Oh that's awful.......I simply do not understand how people can be so vile. I wish you a peaceful happy home when you move with loving, caring neighbours. X

    • @angelenaboden
      @angelenaboden 4 місяці тому +4

      ​@@SW-cu6bw what sweet thing to say. You are clearly one of the lovely people.
      .

    • @angelenaboden
      @angelenaboden 4 місяці тому +4

      ​@@WhatVivididnext thank you Vivi. Xx

  • @rickiwinter1587
    @rickiwinter1587 4 місяці тому +1

    So sorry about the Trolls. Glad you enjoyed your time out. Lovely to see you back again ,looking forward to your upcoming vlogs

  • @ibislife
    @ibislife 4 місяці тому +2

    Hello Vivi, nice to see you again. You look so fresh and well. Your sm silence must have done you good! 😘 I am watching a lot of videos for inspiration today, its grey and pouring rain outside. I have big garden news. I am about to build my dream greenhouse this summer! Or maybe the right word will be my "she-shed". Been watching your shed as well. So cozy, and a way to enjoy the garden and planting - no matter the weather! I am looking for a no chimney fireplace, maybe a bioethanol or electric one. I was at a 60th Birthday in January, it was freezing cold, around -15c, but we were in the greenhouse! It was so nice. 🥰 I am so sorry for what you have experienced. I hope you can ignore them, your lovely group of YT friends are much much larger! Go away trolls- if you have nothing nice to say, dont say it!

    • @ibislife
      @ibislife 4 місяці тому

      Strange, some of my message has been lined out. Maybe its because I tried to put a - before the 15c? or did I write something that was not allowed?

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  4 місяці тому

      @@ibislife I have no idea how the line happens......it happened to Marylin too. ?

  • @kathrynhall4775
    @kathrynhall4775 3 місяці тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @SuperNorini
    @SuperNorini 4 місяці тому

    I stamp on the toe of anyone who gives you grief 💕 Sorry you have been on the receiving end of these bowzies (I love that word!!!) Great to hear from you Vivi. You are so loved, you lovely soul! ❤

  • @CeliaMoore-b6p
    @CeliaMoore-b6p 4 місяці тому

    Vivi-I thought you looked so relaxed and rejuvenated you clearly made the right choice. More power to your elbow!

  • @StitchyJam_Knitting_Podcast
    @StitchyJam_Knitting_Podcast 4 місяці тому

    I’m
    Sorry you’ve been getting such negative energy, I’m happy to hear you’ve been taking care of yourself!
    I find the “fastness” overwhelming and it takes the joy out of knitting at times because our minds are being programmed to finish quickly and finish a lot of projects in a small amount of time… I’m also trying to slow down and enjoy the process which is the exact reason I started knitting in the first place, to be in that moment

  • @aileengasson3541
    @aileengasson3541 4 місяці тому +1

    Yay, great to see you and, if I may say so, looking very refreshed. I was only thinking about you the other day and for some reason thinking you should make yourself have a couple of days to yourself each week - no filming at all. After all, most working people get weekends etc. When you are self-employed I know there is a temptation to keep on keeping on but you do have a lot on your plate. Anyway, sorry to hear the trolls have been getting to you but pleased you have gone down the buy me a coffee route. Why not - you work hard to produce content for us and especially for people like me who can't get out so much it's like having a good neighbour and I enjoy your chats very much. You are so interesting, informative, relateable and, most of all, uplifting in a world which quite frankly has enough crap and doom-mongers in it. So keep up the good work but make sure you take time to yourself. Best wishes.