It’s Really Hard I Need Help!!! Fighting With My Husband

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  • @theresa805
    @theresa805 11 місяців тому +88

    It is amazing how your Chinese is improving to communicate better and more with your Mama. Well done 👍 😊

    • @hileniitewa9221
      @hileniitewa9221 11 місяців тому +2

      Be strong for your baby, it's going to stop. Some people look for muddy sand to eat. Just try eat something the more you throw up.

    • @gracenanfuka2223
      @gracenanfuka2223 11 місяців тому +1

      That’s good practice so not give up❤🇺🇬

  • @heinrichschnitzel7032
    @heinrichschnitzel7032 11 місяців тому +44

    Stop crying dear, look your mother in law is always there for you be strong gal ❤

  • @theresa805
    @theresa805 11 місяців тому +89

    Be strong Gladys dear. Crying so much is not healthy for your baby especially in the first semester. Try to occupy your mind with positivity though sometimes it is not easy for the sake of your health and the baby's. May God"s divine healing power be upon you and remember the "Joy of the Lord is your strength" 🙏💪

    • @deniseloua8625
      @deniseloua8625 11 місяців тому +9

      Absolutely true! Gladys, this is sound advice. Please try to have a positive mindset because the stress will affect the baby. Try to focus on your spiritual beliefs, Google and read materials on first child birth experiences for mothers! Sending you love and prayers. Lean on your Mother in law more for support. As you know, she’s there for you! God bless.❤️🙏🏽

    • @lamaibrahaim9529
      @lamaibrahaim9529 11 місяців тому +4

      تستطيعي الذهاب للجاليه الاوغنديه وتجدي عندهم نصايح لتمري بفتره اول الحمل فهي مزعجه قليلا لكنها تمر ونحن على يقين بأن الله سوف يعطيك ابنا جميلا متميز ا ومحبا لامه المتميزه ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @lamaibrahaim9529
      @lamaibrahaim9529 11 місяців тому +3

      الخبز الجاف مفيد جدا

    • @anamargarida2363
      @anamargarida2363 11 місяців тому +2

      Oi Gladys força menina tu não está só tua sogra e uma mãe e outra procura falar com a rose que ela também está grávida do segundo filho ela pode te dar umas dicas e pare de chorar isso não faz bem aí bebê não é fácil mais tu queria tanto o bebe procura falar com a rose tu desistiu de encontrar ela vamos gelados reaja 😮❤❤❤ aqui do Brasil ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉❤❤🎉❤🎉❤❤

    • @sandraatkins2539
      @sandraatkins2539 11 місяців тому

      ​@@lamaibrahaim9529Ms. Lin does not need to bring a lot of outsiders into her marriage. This is interference and jealousy starts problems in a marriage. The fewer people involved the better.

  • @chiomaonuigbo8538
    @chiomaonuigbo8538 11 місяців тому +17

    Your mother Inlaw is a super woman, she is awesome. May God bless and keep her healthy to see her grandchildren. Please maintain the good relationship. She is a super mummy

  • @kassimjamiu9538
    @kassimjamiu9538 11 місяців тому +38

    Gladys honestly it is not easy being a first timer but with God on your side, Lovely husband and a very friendly and sweet mother in law, you will be alright.Cheer up.🎉❤

  • @sweetsushanna-ahh
    @sweetsushanna-ahh 11 місяців тому +22

    I’m so sorry you are having a hard time Gladys...when I was pregnant with my daughter I felt bad every day, for the first trimester and a half, I could only drink soups. Things will improve eventually, praying for you 🙏🏾.

  • @NoëlineDABAKA
    @NoëlineDABAKA 11 місяців тому +13

    Bonjour Gladys. C'est une maman malgache qui t'écris.
    Je ne suis pas bonne en anglais, donc je t'écris en Français.
    Pour la majorité des grossesses, les trois premiers mois ne sont toujours pas faciles.
    Vous avez voulu cet enfant, Dieu merci, il est là.
    Sache que la vie d'une maman n'est pas facile et ça commence par cette grossesse.
    S'il te plaît, arrête de pleurer car c'est pas bon pour toi et pour le bébé. Donc, vis cette grossesse dans la joie et prie beaucoup. Tu verras que ça ira à partir du 4ème mois.
    Suis tes traitements, manges beaucoup, bois beaucoup. Ce bébé a besoin de toi pour son développement.
    Sois forte, c'est ça "être" maman. Tu as ton mari et ta belle mère qui t'aiment beaucoup, donc courage.
    Gros bisous à toi et à ta famille.
    Une maman de Madagascar ❤❤

  • @ajoo6907
    @ajoo6907 11 місяців тому +23

    Hang in there beloved 😅 When you lay eyes on your baby it'll be worth every sick moment you've endured. You'll come to know a love like never before. Pregnancy is a journey of discomfort for some of us but the reward is priceless 🙏❤️

  • @tabitadidi4879
    @tabitadidi4879 11 місяців тому +21

    Please don't get upset my darling, not good for the baby. We are praying for you and your baby. You will be fine.

    • @essy8840
      @essy8840 11 місяців тому +4

      Its not easy but pls don't be to hard on him, its very normal in about 2months you will eat everything, be patient

  • @laurauwera2831
    @laurauwera2831 11 місяців тому +8

    Your mother in law and your husband love you soooo much so please don’t be angry and sad, the baby is feeling it ok?? Look after yourself 💖🌷💖

  • @Lluv-p8w
    @Lluv-p8w 11 місяців тому +35

    Gladys you got this. When I was pregnant with my baby I vomit the entire nine months. It wasn’t easy. However, my daughter ended up weighing almost 8lbs. You just need to relax and you will eventually find the foods that your baby does like. Those will become your staple foods

    • @ItsOnlyJunie
      @ItsOnlyJunie 11 місяців тому +4

      Same, my son was 8.8lbs

    • @shuhuang9780
      @shuhuang9780 11 місяців тому +5

      @@ItsOnlyJunie yes and I'm listening to the whole "vomiting 9 months" and nausea for MANY of the preggers. 1) it makes it really hard to work 2) which is why I'm working on the whole #shutdownforthood in the U.S. and diverting some of the funds over to preggers America. We talked about it yesterday in my Bradley class - the whole postpartum care situation in the United States is disgusting. So I cause a LOT of #goodtrouble right now :)

    • @ItsOnlyJunie
      @ItsOnlyJunie 11 місяців тому +3

      @@shuhuang9780 Great! You’re paving the way, it’s not easy. Keep doing what you’re doing 😊

    • @womanishways
      @womanishways 11 місяців тому +4

      I was only really sick with my first pregnancy in the first trimester. Some people eat saltine crackers, but lemon water or lemons followed by water helped me. No greasy food but plain stuff during the first trimester may help along with your vitamins (on a full stomach) and iron on an empty stomach with orange juice. Moving around and walking will change your mood. I pray that you will get fresh air and be blessed by God!!

    • @debraspearman6222
      @debraspearman6222 11 місяців тому +1

      I 🙏 pray for you to be strong in the LORD and in the power of his might. Call home to UGANDA ask a relative or a friend to send you food from Uganda . I. Pray. They can send you , 3 months worth of food. Then you can freeze it. When ever you get a taste for Uganda food you will have it. It is part of your food you are craving. Also have someone else to help you ,or do it yourself start a go fund me page.,TO get a box of food from Uganda. I will pray 🙏 for you. Amen.❤ TRUST IN JESUS HE WILL MAKE A. WAY. I pray for your husband to be more patient, caring and supportive, and understanding

  • @ambyramenra
    @ambyramenra 11 місяців тому +27

    Oh Gladys. I'm sorry that you're having such a tough time. It sounds like you have hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) and that can be REALLY hard. I had it and it always made me very sad too. I tried all kinds of treatments - prescriptions, acupuncture (sometimes the sea sickness bands can help), sour pregnancy candies (I had the best success with these), ginger, motion sickness chews, having a lot of protein in the morning, cow liver, you name it, I tried it. Unfortunately, mine stuck around my entire pregnancies (often letting up significantly around 25/27 weeks) - I have 3 healthy babies now. If you're lucky - at the end of your first trimester/beginning of your second - you will start to get some relief and your energy will come back too. Feel how you need to feel - there is nothing worse that trying to stop yourself from feeling bad when you can't help but feel bad. Your baby is going to take what it needs from your body - but you do need to make sure you're putting all those nutrients back. Sometimes, taking your prenatal at night before bed helps. You can also cut it in half and take it with your later meals. Rice and beans/peas and pizza were my two favorite meals for keeping my nausea at bay - but you have to find what looks, smells and tastes good for you. Make sure you get some extra calcium too. I hope you feel better soon. Been there, mama and it SUCKS to feel this bad when all you want to do is be happy about the life growing inside you. Don't beat yourself up.

    • @shuhuang9780
      @shuhuang9780 11 місяців тому +2

      did u try "green apple"? 1) I didn't have HG 2) but it me like 2 years to figure out that answer for seasickness nausea, which I later used during my own pregnancy, and it worked. Green apple first thing in the morning, on the actual empty stomach.

    • @ambyramenra
      @ambyramenra 10 місяців тому +1

      @@shuhuang9780 no, but I'll try it for motion and sea sickness. No more babies for me. :-)

  • @alismith7861
    @alismith7861 11 місяців тому +19

    Pregnancy hormones can make you emotional, especially if you are feeling nauseous.

    • @gracenanfuka2223
      @gracenanfuka2223 11 місяців тому +2

      Take care of your self Bambi, do not say all that, because of the love your hubby and mother are giving you can help you move on positively. Stop overthinking. Keep strong.
      Criying will never help you
      Ate munange tebakabira ku mwana, bambi to musa amaziga ago. Be careful dear❤️🇺🇬

  • @palmpalm5131
    @palmpalm5131 11 місяців тому +8

    You got this, girl! Try to be positive during these challenging days. They say stronger symptoms of nausea could mean a stronger pregnancy. That’s what I’ve heard when a friend of mine was struggling to get pregnant. When she had strong morning sickness she was so happy. Your pregnancy is a blessing. Try to be positive since your emotions will have an affect on the baby. This is a difficult time for you and it’s also a difficult time for your husband as well. He is away from home, he wants to please you but his hands are tied and must be feeling helpless. Just remember that his time will eventually pass. Enjoy the journey of pregnancy..even with all its ups and downs. It is a blessing. You are blessed to have this baby and to have this beautiful family. ❤

  • @namwanjesharie6330
    @namwanjesharie6330 11 місяців тому +8

    But my friend crying is not the solution, just keep on praying to God other than crying , u lucky coz u have someone to help you , I was in condition not eating, bringing back balance even water could come back but when I reached 3month God helped me just because i never gt tired ov praying other than crying

    • @magimagi234
      @magimagi234 11 місяців тому

      She is not crying because she wants to. It's part of pregnancy symptoms.

    • @elenaperez4803
      @elenaperez4803 11 місяців тому +1

      Yes i was gonna tell her the say thing.

  • @deniseloua8625
    @deniseloua8625 11 місяців тому +16

    Gladys, please try not to say things like “you have to survive”! Your thoughts are very important. Push those kinds of thoughts out of your mind. This is typical morning sickness. Some woman have a more challenging time than others. Remember positive thoughts are very important!❤️🙏🏽

    • @shuhuang9780
      @shuhuang9780 11 місяців тому +5

      :) yes and depending on the woman, sometimes the body has multiple "test flights" with pregnancies before it gives the green light. at this early stage, I agree with positivity for the mom, keep the preggers happy & keep her healthy and teach her how to figure out which foods to eat... which reminds me. maybe have Gladys go to the supermarket & SNIFF around and see what her nose tells her!

  • @Roseflowers4
    @Roseflowers4 11 місяців тому +11

    Advice is to take little meals but more often. Start early morning. Avoid greasy meals

  • @marylovuvolt9392
    @marylovuvolt9392 11 місяців тому +8

    These are mood swings of pregnancy. You’re got this girl hang in there. Everything will seem to be annoying. It will go away trust in God.

  • @pearlali136
    @pearlali136 11 місяців тому +6

    Gladys, take it easy please, I’m sorry you’re going through a tough time but please don’t be sad and crying, try your best!!! We all want a sweet happy baby. Eat saltines with jam in the morning especially, it’s not a pregnancy for you but think about how much you wanted this baby, all the happy times with Lin when trying, whenever you feel sad. It’s tough for him too, his first time as well, I feel sad for both of you but Mom is is there helping you which is a great thing, appreciate her help,in the end when baby Lin comes you’ll forget all this, I promise. Keep vlogging with us, you do have company, I look forward to see your videos every day, try to be calm, please not too much crying, we all love you and your family. Hugs to you and baby.

  • @KathyGodsgirl
    @KathyGodsgirl 11 місяців тому +3

    It’s a blessing to be able to carry a child…it’s a miracle…I pray your peace and joy at such a joyous occasion ❤🙏 Play some worship music and lift your spirits…the dr can give you something for help with morning sickness ❤

  • @amanikeotto7257
    @amanikeotto7257 11 місяців тому +12

    Continue to be strong. Drink black tea with ginger and bread. That helped me a lot ofcourse everyone is different and every pregnancy is different too. You will be well after the first trimester. Wishing you well and bundles of love to you.

    • @charlottesn8643
      @charlottesn8643 11 місяців тому

      Maybe try toasted bread and see what will happen.

    • @abitegekajanepher315
      @abitegekajanepher315 10 місяців тому

      You can't drink anything while your vomiting but she needs to be strong until 9 month but she have to eat will vomiting.

  • @semakulaedie5758
    @semakulaedie5758 11 місяців тому +10

    Yes i know what your going through, sorry,but try to control your anger because you still have a long journey with those emotions, try not to scold him when you feel like at least don't pick his calls or just stay quite you'll get used to eat ,hang in there my name sake love you binji 🙌

  • @yvetteflagg1898
    @yvetteflagg1898 10 місяців тому +1

    Im sorry that you are having a difficult time in your pregnancy. It is normal for pregnancy.
    I had a difficult time as well when I was pregnant with my daughter, I had to go the hospital and they gave me clear soup, tea, and ice cream. It helped me. My 2nd pregnancy I was pregnant with my son and I nauseated and I could not eat my favorite foods. I had to ask my husband what foods that he want to eat and I cooked these foods and I ate them and I did not get sick any more Also it is very good to drink water so you and your baby can stay healthy. May God bless you, your baby, and your marriage in Jesus name amen.

  • @shellychelle5781
    @shellychelle5781 11 місяців тому +11

    Hang in there dear ❤🙏 sending hugs and prayers, this is all morning sickness and your hormones are all over the place, try to have some patience and don’t let this bring you down

  • @tracikennedy7833
    @tracikennedy7833 11 місяців тому +8

    Feel better Gladys. The sickness will leave sooner. Try not to cry too much too much stress is not good for either of you. Love you 🥰

  • @sylviahall214
    @sylviahall214 11 місяців тому +1

    Go easy on your husband Gladis.Don't be too harsh with him. My sister had that same problem when she was pregnant with her first child.If your stomach can't take the heavy food please try blending some fruits and drink it.or you can even cook up some soup too and drink.Gladis you will soon overcome that sickness.crying too much do not help the situation.

  • @Rita_Aine
    @Rita_Aine 11 місяців тому +6

    Hang in there mukazi. Be strong for the baby.
    Drink some millet porridge with no sugar if you can find it. It will help with the vomiting. It also helps with iron.
    I hope your husband can spare some time and come be with you. Wishing you the best of luck and a safe pregnancy journey.

    • @judithokafor1843
      @judithokafor1843 11 місяців тому

      Thank you for this advice. Tasteless food especially pudding is very helpful when one is vomiting a lot.

  • @evelynamalu-ix8jz
    @evelynamalu-ix8jz 11 місяців тому +4

    Gladys, the first trimester is the most challenging. Its due to the hormonal changes your body is going through right now. Be encouraged, things will improve. Please try and get out in the fresh air as much as you can to get some exercise and a change of scenery. Praying for you .

  • @olgamartha5727
    @olgamartha5727 11 місяців тому +2

    ❤Gladys, this too shall pass! Please hang in there trusting God to bring you through. Can you order Matoke from Uganda? Can you try drinking some hot Peppermint tea? I can fully empathize with what you’re experiencing now…. I went through it for the NINE months of my first pregnancy up until right after delivery!! So please don’t give up or any thing. YOU WILL COME THROUGH by the grace of God. He won’t put on you more than you can bear.❤❤ 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @bobbettewilliamson2850
    @bobbettewilliamson2850 11 місяців тому +3

    Hi Gladys good morning, hush girl pregnancy is not a bed of rose all mothers have to go through that rough road be patience it will soon be over, stay strong for u and baby pregnancy goes stage by stage that is u first stage God bless and keep u. 🇯🇲

  • @Brendah312
    @Brendah312 11 місяців тому +5

    Lekelawo ekyekyo mukwano ❤stop crying bby gal 😢we all pass though that 😊every success comes in excruciating ❤peace ✌

    • @abitegekajanepher315
      @abitegekajanepher315 10 місяців тому

      My dear i used to cry so please advise her instead of commenting like this dear

  • @kathyhammond4157
    @kathyhammond4157 11 місяців тому +7

    Its OK Gladys the body is going through changes. Your hormones are having you very sentivte right now. Hopeful it will stop after the first treimester . God bless you, hang in there. You need to get a book so you can see what's happening to you body, DSO you can unstand it better.

  • @jaesmiles5325
    @jaesmiles5325 11 місяців тому +3

    i don't know where you are in China, but I looked up african food/restaurants in China online. it came up with some restaurants in China. You may want to go online and search.

  • @Glenb56
    @Glenb56 11 місяців тому +2

    You have such an amazing mother inlaw. Please be gentle with her ...she has to cook. I was the same but it went away after three months. Praying for you.

  • @lindas.4198
    @lindas.4198 11 місяців тому +3

    When I was pregnant, I ate a lot of crackers like saltines with a little peanut butter on them. Maybe peanuts will help. You have to have some protein. Not cracker's with lots of oil in them. Also try to focus on other things. Read books to your baby. Sing to your baby also. When you get dressed, wear a thick pad in your underwear to catch the urine when you throw up. The ones women use when they have their period. Hope things get better for you and your baby. Hope the doctor is giving you vitamins to take.
    Be well and try to focus on things your baby will need , such as a name,where it will sleep, will you breastfeed or not. I do advocate breastfeeding because it's the best milk for your baby. I breastfed mine and it was a wonderful experience. It gave us bonding time.
    Gladys, continue to stay strong. This too shall pass.❤❤❤

  • @beramyers8873
    @beramyers8873 11 місяців тому +5

    I love how you talk to your baby. I did this, too, as well as read to her.

  • @joyabuah9636
    @joyabuah9636 11 місяців тому +3

    Gladys what you are experiencing is pregnancy sickness but most importantly you are homesick. In a few weeks time all these will be over and you will enjoy your pregnancy. We will keep you in prayers dear.

  • @moniquefrisch-dreischor4716
    @moniquefrisch-dreischor4716 11 місяців тому +10

    Hi Gladys, I think you are homesick. Call your mom and family as often as you can. Sending love and luck to you❤

    • @nanagladys582
      @nanagladys582 11 місяців тому +1

      She is an orphan reason why must of the time sad. But she have to be strong..though..more prayers.

    • @moniquefrisch-dreischor4716
      @moniquefrisch-dreischor4716 11 місяців тому

      @@nanagladys582 I am sorry, I didn't know that. I know that she has friends at home so maybe she can call them when she is feeling loonely and tired when her husband is away for work❤️

    • @moniquefrisch-dreischor4716
      @moniquefrisch-dreischor4716 11 місяців тому +1

      I also moved away from home and followed my husband oversea and was and still are homesick even after 31 years. When I was pregnant of my twin my mom came and stayed a few months and that was a blessing. Gladys, I feel you and I am sending you blessings🫂🙏🏽❤️

    • @atukwatsedaphine9727
      @atukwatsedaphine9727 11 місяців тому

      ​@nanagladys582 yes she lost her mum but her dad is still alive and stays in Uganda

    • @nanagladys582
      @nanagladys582 11 місяців тому +1

      @@atukwatsedaphine9727 she is introvert by nature..she is trying well now. More prayers AMEN

  • @Corri.dr.K
    @Corri.dr.K 11 місяців тому +2

    Gladys, it is very difficult, we are sending you love and support. You are a strong beautiful woman and you can do this. It is not easy but you can do it. Sending prayers to strengthen you and the baby. Don't let anyone tell you it's not okay to cry and release those emotions. It is fine; continue with the positive words and positive thoughts, even with crying. It will get better.

  • @lenorasmith9104
    @lenorasmith9104 11 місяців тому +4

    Sweet heart ❤️ this is a part being pregnant 🤰 your emotions will have you All over The place ❤ sending blessings to you ❤

  • @theresajones8376
    @theresajones8376 11 місяців тому +2

    Hi! Try drinking some water mix with two spoon of baking soda together, before or after you eat when feel the need, it's good for nauseous/nausea. Drinking some Honey Ginger Tea is also helpful for the nausea.🙏God bless you!💖♥️💖 Soon you and baby will be loving all the food! This is just the beginning pregnancy some women including myself had to go through. Don't worry all is a blessing,Amen.❤

  • @EmpressLindaRyan
    @EmpressLindaRyan 11 місяців тому +4

    Praying for you Gladys 🙏🏽 you'll make it!! Hang in there sis ❤

  • @SharonAhebwa
    @SharonAhebwa 11 місяців тому +2

    I know it's hard time but try to cool to your husband u know u are very far away every problem has a solution in life but not in that way,May God strengthens u❤❤❤❤

  • @oyellaAziza
    @oyellaAziza 11 місяців тому +6

    Our dear it happens some time but be strong its the stage but with Gods will all shall be well

  • @MalbaMedina
    @MalbaMedina 11 місяців тому +2

    Good day my dear Gladys,be strong everything will be fine,it does happen sometime with the pregnants women does get symental

  • @nanagladys582
    @nanagladys582 11 місяців тому +1

    My namesake where is the lime or lemon slice?.. stop the cry .we are very far Away ,& waiting for ur baby.. Add peper it help Thanks to Mum really. Be more than Strong.. More prayers AMEN

  • @wandahoward9636
    @wandahoward9636 11 місяців тому +9

    Sending love and prayers, sweetie.💖🙏🏽

  • @Ilovewinty
    @Ilovewinty 10 місяців тому

    My love I’m praying for you. The first trimester can be super rough as your body adjusts to your little one inside. Praying it will be easier very soon sis! It’s hard living in a new country where cultural cuisines don’t exist. Travelling may not be a wise choice right now love but how about s family member coming over for a few months to cook the foods you want and love. Hang in there my love. I went through the same things in my first trimester. Do not worry try taking materna or other pregnancy multivitamins 💖🩷💖

  • @charlottesn8643
    @charlottesn8643 11 місяців тому +1

    Try irish potatoes too. Sweet potatoes, pumpkin too or have them delivered from Uganda very young ones for matooke. Your relatives can find out why how they can send it. Try to be nice to your husband Gladys. You might even go to Uganda and not eat it. Pregnancy craving are weird. Take care.

  • @EdithBABALOLAMRS
    @EdithBABALOLAMRS 11 місяців тому +2

    I went through this and it was really hard. But my sister in law who is a nurse advised me to avoid warm food, but to eat very hot or very icy food and it worked. I was able to keep my food down after that...

  • @angela10491
    @angela10491 11 місяців тому +1

    Hormones makes us emotional and moody. He is trying to help. Cravings is part of hormonal is going thru moods. I got emotional because I couldn't get a sheet set.

  • @phylliskinman4159
    @phylliskinman4159 7 місяців тому

    Hi Gladys please be strong for your baby and pray and trust in God that everything will be fine. Your Chinese is getting better.

  • @tsitsidzumbunu7968
    @tsitsidzumbunu7968 11 місяців тому

    Sweet dont cry plz u broke my heart its not easy bt yu will conquer sweet.its not good for the baby if u continue to cry all will be well sweet sis Gladys

  • @karenbrown3465
    @karenbrown3465 11 місяців тому +2

    Gladys you are going to feel crazy in the first few months its a weird sensation being pregnant but it will pass please talk to your mom inlaw when you find the strength its just hormones and being on your own it will be alright its true eating was a problem for me too but i did not stop trying i only liked junk food in small amounts and lots of water... dont give up when is your next scan? could be Twins..***?? I am in the coments xx

  • @faithfoodandfunover50
    @faithfoodandfunover50 11 місяців тому +1

    For now even of you may not like it but try ensure or boost they're nutritional drinks have with a beef or chicken broth broth ,these are light alternatives May God be with you in this difficult time,you're in my prayers pray with your husband and mommy in law everyday #1

  • @paulineomari3345
    @paulineomari3345 11 місяців тому +1

    Gladys I wish understand the hormones changes it's a rollercoaster look for millet or sorghum make porridge and add a little bit of cloves and lemon, try it.

  • @sandratepanyoni5076
    @sandratepanyoni5076 10 місяців тому

    Your husband is blessed to have you and the cherry on top is you are friends wuth mama that is a blessing

  • @spiritharris1080
    @spiritharris1080 11 місяців тому +1

    Gladys the nausea and vomiting can be hard. Do your research so that you can understand why it’s occurring. Usually at the beginning of your fourth month the nausea and vomiting subsides. Try not to eat large meals but small light meals. Maybe broth. Keep taking your vitamins also. Try to stay calm and put things into perspective. Just try to rest. Get some crackers and ginger-ale. Also dry toast might help.

  • @ayahblandinesan6665
    @ayahblandinesan6665 11 місяців тому +3

    The first trimester is not easy at all may God make it easy for you dear love from ivory coast ❤️

  • @TotemYT2025
    @TotemYT2025 10 місяців тому +1

    You are so blessed to have such a kind and caring mother in law. She is a true mother. May God continue to bless your home and bless you with a healthy pregnancy. Hopefully this challenging part of the pregnancy passes soon and you enjoy the rest of the pregnancy peacefully. May God bless you with a healthy baby at the end of this journey. God be with you all 🙏🏽

  • @memorybanda9277
    @memorybanda9277 11 місяців тому +1

    Don't cry my dear Gladys it's not good for you and the baby's healthy, be strong and pray everything will be ok

  • @lifewiththerichies5075
    @lifewiththerichies5075 11 місяців тому +2

    Hello Gladys, with all the encouraging comments, I pray you are finding peace. More than anything with the LORD on your side HE is your Peace and will help get you through this 1st trimester. Every woman is different and we all have a story to tell about our 1st pregnancy. The beautiful thing about this is we all got through it…and so will you! Stay strong my sweet friend..this will pass, and before long you’ll be holding your beautiful baby in your arms. Everything is going to be alright!❤

  • @beramyers8873
    @beramyers8873 11 місяців тому +1

    You may be okay with the noodles. You were able to still love the smell. I only wanted chicken and dumplings with my first. They would come back up, but I kept eating just to feed baby. Keep trying. Fighting.

  • @sylviaudoka9502
    @sylviaudoka9502 11 місяців тому +3

    Pls we know what ur going through now but pls try to be calm with ur hubby ok
    U wil be fine u don't need to cry again
    Just be happy in a few weeks time u wil be more better ok❤❤❤❤❤

  • @henriettamoroka3089
    @henriettamoroka3089 11 місяців тому +2

    Don't worry the stage will come to pass. That's part of you being a women.❤❤❤❤we are with in this pregnancy

  • @Tobeesho
    @Tobeesho 11 місяців тому +3

    Hang in there dear. The days are passing fast. Speaking of which, fast forward to when baby comes out! All of this will be a blur as you hold your miracle in your arms. Oh, the Joy!

  • @evelynamalu-ix8jz
    @evelynamalu-ix8jz 10 місяців тому +1

    Gladys, try eating smaller meals at a time. Praying for the Lord to strengthen you, and give you peace and calm.
    Grandma Evelyn, Texas USA.

  • @elizabethndahalele5759
    @elizabethndahalele5759 11 місяців тому +2

    Ur hubby is patient...don't b hard on him pls darling...u want t g to Uganda...then when u a there ...ull want to come back to China again....just send ur matoke sweetie....I think u miss ur hubby also....ah ....hes so happy abt the baby.hes teasing u indirectly.....just hang in there...keep lemons at ur bedside......sour sweets....drink lots of water after vomiting.....evrthing will be fine...

  • @naluleesther2474
    @naluleesther2474 11 місяців тому +3

    Eat fruits, vegetables, water to keep you strong it's important for your baby growth

  • @sherrygrant2070
    @sherrygrant2070 10 місяців тому

    Hi Glady, I know you got this it’s never really easy with your first baby but you’ll be fine by God help and you have a beautiful family your husband and mother-in-law, so just hang in there my God grace

  • @giadella5929
    @giadella5929 10 місяців тому

    Congratulations dear,Im so happy for you,you are going to be fine,I had the same problem 27 years ago,after 3 months all those bad feelings are supposed to go away,after vomiting to much I had to go to the hospital and stay there,eat the things that you only want to eat,here they give me magnesia and suppository for the vomiting,use ice,eat ice and if you are vomiting to much,you need to go to the hospital,in our case we eat mint candy or chew gums it might help you,try to eat soup

  • @laurauwera2831
    @laurauwera2831 11 місяців тому

    You made me cry Gladys😭Please be strong sweet heart, you will be ok after a little while. I am really praying for you🙏🙏🙏I think the hospital must keep you until you stop vomiting🙏🙏🙏

  • @nalukwagohajira8806
    @nalukwagohajira8806 11 місяців тому +5

    Stop crying, traditionally its not good to cry when pregnant.Stay strong,we all went through and mine was worse.eat the small you can and take warm water in the mornings when still in bed.

    • @nakazziesther4987
      @nakazziesther4987 11 місяців тому

      Munange nange yansobera buli sawa abeera mukukaaba oba kiki fena twaliko embuto banangee akususa

    • @Rita_Aine
      @Rita_Aine 11 місяців тому

      @@nakazziesther4987I don’t blame her.
      It’s her first time and she is even far away from home she can’t get every food she would want. It’s mixed feelings. She will be be used.
      She is just home sick because the pain can be bearable

  • @fatufofanah4515
    @fatufofanah4515 11 місяців тому

    Gladys You have to be strong all woman’s go through this process, I remember going through this and my doctor prescribed nausea medicine and I was talking one every morning if not I will able to eat or keep food in my stomach the nausea medicine helps .

  • @chiomaonuigbo8538
    @chiomaonuigbo8538 11 місяців тому +4

    Gladys put yourself together, it’s normal every woman goes through this. Please stop this and endure it will stop within few months. Don’t put your husband in a fix, he can’t give what he don’t have.
    Please relax and eat whatever you have , what you are going through is a phase , it will pass away, in the next three months you will be fine
    Handle this with live , it’s not a hard time you are making it difficult for yourself. I am a mother and I am advising as a mother. Don’t do this again

    • @lovewindycity
      @lovewindycity 10 місяців тому

      Great straight forward advice, I feel sorry for the husband and mother in law because they're great people who are worried about Gladys. They love her dearly and will do whatever humanly possible to make her happy!!!!

    • @thefleming7950
      @thefleming7950 10 місяців тому

      You are not in her body, and do not know how she is feeling; she has every right to express any emotions and pain or illness that comes with her pregnancy. We have no right to tell her how she herself should feel nor how to express those feelings. It is her body. She loves her husband and mother in law. Every woman expresses emotions differently during pregnancy. Some of us act different because of the hormonal imbalance. Leave her alone, please.

  • @damselevans5468
    @damselevans5468 11 місяців тому +3

    With all the information and food videos on UA-cam I think that you (or your husband or mother in law) can get the ingredients and you make it yourself. There are a lot of UA-cam videos showing how to make this etc. You can also learn how to cook African food from African youtubers (there are a lot of them). From watching your videos I think you should learn how to make Chinese dishes as well because 1) your husband is Chinese and 2) you live in China with them. It's good to have a balance. You grew up on African food and they grew up on Chinese food. I think you should put a lot more effort into learning (whatever you have to learn) otherwise you will not survive and you will feel to give up easily. Rose and Felista (Africans living in China with husbands and their children - and they are some really hard working women speaking Chinese and cooking both Chinese (mainly) and African food) would have had to put in that same effort in order to be where they are now.

  • @kyosimiremaureen5978
    @kyosimiremaureen5978 10 місяців тому

    The way you communicate with bby as early as this..means a lot..u will be the best mum for your him/ her...loving mum,

  • @beckybulus
    @beckybulus 11 місяців тому +1

    Stay strong Gladys, the Lord is your strength sis. I'm praying for you dear 🙏

  • @aberjacquelyn3889
    @aberjacquelyn3889 11 місяців тому

    Gladys u r making me cry too. Take heart and be strong for urself and ur child 🙏.

  • @chichisouder6480
    @chichisouder6480 10 місяців тому

    Gladys please be strong for your baby & yourself if you want Uganda food try to get the ingredients & make it for yourself. It will help you feel better by just getting & making your food that you like from your home. Pregnancy is hard & a lot of men don’t understand the ups & downs that go with it. Cry if you need to tell your hubby how you feel you are one in this marriage. If you feel like you need to go home to Africa for a bit then go only if the doctor says it’s ok for you & the baby. Living in a foreign country is hard away from your family & friends. IDK if pregnant woman can take Zofran it’s for nausea & it works wonders. But this time will pass just stay strong pray & ask God to deliver you from your systems. I’m praying for you too sweetheart. Blessings & Love Always 🙏🏽💙💚💛🥰

  • @PeerLinkInitiativeUganda
    @PeerLinkInitiativeUganda 11 місяців тому

    Beans are ok. You can also try oranges and tangerine if you dont have ulcers. Ate eyo walabika teli katunkuma and egg plants. Can you access millet flour and you make porridge. Try to get off sugar and sweet things for the time being save for sugar from fruits. Get off fried foods as well. You will stabilize soon dont worry.

  • @faithfoodandfunover50
    @faithfoodandfunover50 11 місяців тому +2

    Pray often and HE will give you the wisdom that you need to overcome this. love you❤😊

  • @lillianwesonga2601
    @lillianwesonga2601 10 місяців тому

    I love your mother inlaw, she's trying her best, including your husband,try to be good to your mother inlaw as always appreciate her effort and i pray for twins,thats my wish you will be fine in Jesus name Amen 🙏🙏

  • @riamhills11
    @riamhills11 11 місяців тому

    Gladys ago mayanzi si nsenene 😂 anyway how does it taste? It seems u enjoyed it😉
    For the vomiting you can try bbumba and see, very many pregnant women chew bbumba (clay/soil) to prevent the salivas and vomiting. You too can try
    But Gladys please reduce or get rid of the crying dear, it's not good for both you and junior, may God keep strengthening you and provide you a better health 🙏 💙

  • @AdaiahsFolktalesWorld
    @AdaiahsFolktalesWorld 11 місяців тому +1

    Gladys, you need pregnancy vitamins at this time. A lot of iron supplements will help with the food aversions and cravings. Take a high dose of folic acid. I know of situations of African women in the diaspora when they are pregnant, they have their families back home cook African dishes for them, freeze and ship them in cooling bags to wherever they are. If your family back home in Uganda can cook up some meals for you, freeze them and ship them in cooling bags to China for you please let them do.... that is if you find it difficult to leave China at this time. I really wish you get over this on time. This is one aspect of pregnancy I do not like.

  • @socialwork63
    @socialwork63 10 місяців тому +1

    I feel bad for her, this must be frustrating and grating even. He doesn't understand your plight.

  • @Chach-se4nq
    @Chach-se4nq 11 місяців тому +2

    Have never been pregnant. But if I suggest - you take drinks and fruits. Can't the throwing up reduce some how??

  • @shanaazduplessis2398
    @shanaazduplessis2398 11 місяців тому +1

    stay strong for you and baby Gladys, the pregnancy will get better🙏🏼sending lot of big hugs ❤️

  • @GladysEnorense435
    @GladysEnorense435 11 місяців тому

    You have to be strong my name, same. I am Gladys too. Thy lord is with you in this beautiful life you have. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @babiryezurah8387
    @babiryezurah8387 11 місяців тому

    Bambi i can feel what you are going through. My first trimester i couldn't eat all day long and yet i would vomit sooo much. Arrggg😢.but finally you will be fine dia. Love u

  • @AyebaleProssy-e1j
    @AyebaleProssy-e1j 11 місяців тому

    My dear be strong me I vomited from day to nine months and even one day l prayed to God to take me so that I can have peace I was very soooo week without eating anything but through

  • @NakigandaRobert
    @NakigandaRobert 11 місяців тому +2

    Go to Guangzhou they are Ugandan people bringing matooke to china they stay at 2 minutes hotel if you can access them it will good for you they have some food stuff from Uganda

  • @Sandy.TX5050
    @Sandy.TX5050 10 місяців тому

    Hey…….i know it’s hard but try to hang in there……GOD Bless♥️🙏🏼

  • @rosawilliams4625
    @rosawilliams4625 11 місяців тому +1

    Ask your Dr what Wii help you don’t want to get dehydrated you are vomiting maybe to much May God Help you to feel better and stronger 🙏🏾🌹

  • @josephineusui1114
    @josephineusui1114 10 місяців тому

    Galdys please this morning sickness will soon be over.be strong.you really have been waiting for this pregnancy.i pray that God's grace is going to be sufficient for you through out the pregnancy.

  • @janetkisaakye9108
    @janetkisaakye9108 11 місяців тому

    Hello baby gal , sorry the way yo feeling dear but don't cry dear be strong like african women and yo so lucky Gladys that your mother in law is always there for you , and take some ice cubes they will help to stop you from throwing up all the time.

  • @VeraEkwa
    @VeraEkwa 11 місяців тому +2

    Kudos to all the ladies pregnancy is no joke. My darling no crying please please. I know it is frustrating as you really want your matoke but is no where around you. Poor hubby he got scolded 😂

  • @angellafrancis9401
    @angellafrancis9401 11 місяців тому +1

    That was my first pregnancy. When my husband is was cooking I would lock myself in the room, stuff towel under the door to keep out the smell. After three months it was over.

  • @mpondangwira
    @mpondangwira 11 місяців тому

    Dear Gladys,be strong and i am with you in prayer,don't stress yourself all crying alot because can affect the baby and you too. In the first semester of pregynancy this happen. You are not alone God is with you dear. Go to the hospital maybe they will help you. Take care. Love you.❤

  • @sharonchelangat2041
    @sharonchelangat2041 11 місяців тому

    You got this Gladys .Try food that your baby like i struggle too in my first trimester finding what i could hold in my stomach since i was voming alot but you will be alright