Pastor Deitrick Haddon ENCOURAGES 'Shacking Up' Before Marriage For Engaged Couples

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  • @gottaluvpink89
    @gottaluvpink89 6 років тому +177

    Engage or not, if that’s not your husband and you’re having intercourse, your living in sin. Period!

  • @MayaDTV
    @MayaDTV 6 років тому +323

    Let me just put to "bed" this whole entire video! You ready? When you allow God to choose your husband AKA King you won't have to wonder or put them on a trial basis to find out if they really are the right fit for you! Because in your spirit God will confirm that is indeed your husband & you won't have the need to live with them first to get to know them to find out. That is a WORDLY NOT CHRISTIAN CUSTOM.

    • @rodwilliams7457
      @rodwilliams7457 6 років тому +15

      MayaD TV yes! Preach on it sister! I felt that in my spirit

    • @brandonsellers1076
      @brandonsellers1076 6 років тому +1

      MayaD TV are you married?

    • @dianagillespie2304
      @dianagillespie2304 6 років тому +11

      Amen!! fornication sin simple as that. People read your bible.

    • @journeytopurpose7553
      @journeytopurpose7553 6 років тому +11

      Yes. MayaD. Ruth was doing what God told her to do which was work and tend to her mother-in-law, in her obedience her husband found her. We can not afford to compromise if we are living for God.

    • @Mrs_Canary
      @Mrs_Canary 6 років тому +3

      I don't have enough fingers and toes yo count the times grown adults said God told them to get married 2 so n so and they ended up divorced. If ur not living 2 gether u r lusting which is the same as adultery. U will never know a person's sin unless u see it or know them personally.

  • @calvthomas6153
    @calvthomas6153 6 років тому +275

    The word “cocaine” is not in the Bible either but a servant of God knows to stay away right? What is the point here?

    • @calvthomas6153
      @calvthomas6153 6 років тому +21

      That’s the exact point I was making. The word “cocaine” is not mentioned, but Bible principles like the one you mentioned, and others like 2 Cor 7:1, help us to see that even though there are no finite laws in the Bible mentioning the word “cocaine”, we can still conclude that this is not something our Heavenly Father would want his servants involving themselves in. The above video makes it seem like because the words “shacking up” are not specifically mentioned in the Bible, that excuses the act itself. There are definitely enough laws and principles in the Bible that would help us too see God’s view on the matter instead of our own misguided view.

    • @MeekSpirit1
      @MeekSpirit1 6 років тому +7

      Deez nuts are just trying to justify sin. That's all.

    • @ChristSaves88
      @ChristSaves88 6 років тому +2

      Cal V Thomas Exactly!! Just because it’s not technically in the Bible doesn’t mean it’s ok.

    • @casandramorrow3201
      @casandramorrow3201 6 років тому +2

      Cal V Thomas ...He's trying to switch the word of God around for his own satisfication.As a child of God,we know this word shacking is not in the bible,but we do know fornication is.And he knows the life he lived bfre he got married was wrong.And they're trying to tell ppl,that a man nd woman can live together nd not be tempted of one another,that they can keep themslves.I see he didn't nd her too,so what does that tell you about them.And if u are a Christian then u know it's wrong to shack up meaning live together nd not be married.It doesn't matter if your a Christian or not,it's wrong to live together,hve sex,nd get pregnant if you are not married.

    • @78vette11
      @78vette11 6 років тому +1

      MeekSpirit1 Exactly. They spent 2 hrs trying to justify sin instead of coming under correction. This is a true example of pride & arrogance that says my way is better than God's

  • @joyfulcst
    @joyfulcst 6 років тому +113

    Remember the Words said we will know them by their fruit...

  • @amandasdelights8185
    @amandasdelights8185 6 років тому +96

    Sounds like their trying to justify what they are doing wrong, and even trying to go so far as convincing themselves that what they are doing is right!! #Deceived

    • @sharonvinson8012
      @sharonvinson8012 4 роки тому

      Exactly!!

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 3 роки тому +1

      He is very unchristian Christian man - and for the record I don’t even claim to be Christian. He claims to be Christian but if you break down a lot of the stuff he says it’s very worldly

  • @josephinecannon228
    @josephinecannon228 6 років тому +249

    God words shall not be altered or changed

    • @crystalgrose
      @crystalgrose 6 років тому +1

      AMEN!!!!

    • @taylornicole3123
      @taylornicole3123 6 років тому

      AMEN!!!

    • @sweetsopcomedy1458
      @sweetsopcomedy1458 4 роки тому

      AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAmen

    • @erinjones5165
      @erinjones5165 3 роки тому +2

      GOD going to deal with Detrick Haddon for marrying another woman while his first wife is still living. GOD hates divorces. And the wife he with now is committing fornication

    • @travelguide10124
      @travelguide10124 2 роки тому

      Are they Gods words though? I don’t believe people ever ask God questions themselves. We assume everything that’s written is 100% truth. And if we question it then we are wrong .

  • @Forever_yours44
    @Forever_yours44 6 років тому +146

    I’m dogmatic, lol no sex before marriage (and yes I abstained) it can be done.

    • @jelicianorwood24
      @jelicianorwood24 6 років тому +11

      leemah beemah Me and my husband are waiting till marriage for sex. I've been abstaining for marriage for like 9 months now before I met him so its easy for us.

    • @blessedlauralee
      @blessedlauralee 6 років тому +21

      leemah beemah yes it can be done.. I waited until I was married. My husband and I dated for 2 yr. I was a virgin on our honeymoon. That was 32yrs ago and we are still in love . God is good !!!

    • @emmalyedmon3586
      @emmalyedmon3586 6 років тому +6

      leemah beemah AMEN!!! If God made the body, he can KEEP the body you just gotta wanna be Kept!!

    • @unchainyourbrain3312
      @unchainyourbrain3312 6 років тому

      leemah beemah ...💞Im inspired by you.Im not having sex now,lol,but this is still encouraging.

    • @VCRighteous
      @VCRighteous 6 років тому +3

      leemah beemah you are not dogmatic sis you are scriptural.

  • @Simplewisdomwithandrea
    @Simplewisdomwithandrea 6 років тому +297

    Its hard to watch this! It's not about judgement or condemnation for their life choices. It's the fact that he as a Pastor is leading folks astray from the word of God. My goodness...

    • @keishabeingforreal8626
      @keishabeingforreal8626 6 років тому +9

      Andrea Williams Sad ain't it! Our people parish for the lack of knowledge

    • @MsJas-nh7mq
      @MsJas-nh7mq 6 років тому +2

      Andrea Williams Amen

    • @lenayoung1497
      @lenayoung1497 6 років тому +1

      Andrea Williams: that's ONLY if they listen... And if they hear and follow his teaching... They're just line him.

    • @casandramorrow3201
      @casandramorrow3201 6 років тому +3

      Andrea Williams ...he can only lead ppl astray if they choose to receive him.And it's sad to say,alot of them don't know God as well as he don't.Sp it would be very easy to lead a sinner astray or a Christian that is not prayed up nd focus.To me he is no preacher,if you are not a child of God,then you are none of his.And everything that your doing that ur claiming that your doing for God,it's all a deception nd in vain.

    • @commess1
      @commess1 6 років тому +7

      Andrea Williams First off he is not a pastor just masquerading as one. Second, this is why you have to know God for yourself. Yes you go to church and group meetings and so on but along with that YOU meaning us all have to read and study God's word to know Him ourselves so that these false people don't cause us to stray. No one can cause you to stray if you are developing a true and genuine relationship with God. You have to get to know Him.

  • @jasmineblack3435
    @jasmineblack3435 6 років тому +35

    We need to pray for him and the people that follow them ♥️🙏🏾

    • @anniekanguru8260
      @anniekanguru8260 6 місяців тому

      What do you mean??? Pray for him about what? He knows better, if he didn't, that's a different case altogether, you cannot worship God the way you want or how it suits you, God is worshiped the way He has instructed. Keep pushing the boundary, sooner or later your cup will be full Haddon, and then....... 😢

  • @Lavonson
    @Lavonson 6 років тому +78

    Why get saved if you can do all the same stuff in the church?
    The church is in such a sad state now-a-days but the bible spoke of this day:
    2 Timothy 4:3-4
    3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears
    4 And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.

    • @jelicianorwood24
      @jelicianorwood24 6 років тому +2

      I know right I never get that. Like change is good. People don't like change.

    • @YouTubehatesconservativespeech
      @YouTubehatesconservativespeech 6 років тому +1

      I give you a BIG AMEN!

    • @gtminton8164
      @gtminton8164 5 років тому +2

      I will say in the famous words of Spike Lee famous Malcolm X movie GODS WORD AINT NO CON man and woman of GOD and there shall be a difference between clean and unclean if you don't start out right you ain't gone end up right , This is a perfect example of being lifted up in pride. Stop calling right wrong and calling wrong right!

    • @sharonvinson8012
      @sharonvinson8012 4 роки тому +1

      Amen!

    • @chranag2514
      @chranag2514 4 роки тому +1

      Mr. N3K Amen and it is so beautiful to hear a man of God speak this. What did our Lord and Saviour suffer and give up his life for if we can do the same as the world. The word says, to live in the world but, don’t be part of it. Let’s pray the Holy Spirit will open both their eyes. They have so much influence on so many young people.

  • @juanettethompson7801
    @juanettethompson7801 6 років тому +289

    This is why u don't follow man u follow and be lead by God.. he wants to justify his wrong doing.. glad I know the bible and Jesus for myself... after he divorced his first wife and got on that show which I NEVER watched he has lost his mind...Praying for him for real

    • @xo_fattie
      @xo_fattie 6 років тому +2

      Juanette Thompson Girllll....preach!!!! Glad I know the word for myself as well

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 6 років тому +1

      Riiiiggght!!!!

    • @letsstophighexpectationsfr7754
      @letsstophighexpectationsfr7754 6 років тому +2

      Juanette Thompson Just cause you were raised to believe something doesn’t mean it’s right.Cant say if he right or wrong but I’m pretty sure if he is asking you to show it to him in the Bible that it isn’t there

    • @juanettethompson7801
      @juanettethompson7801 6 років тому +10

      Lets stop HIGH EXPECTATIONS from small individuals let me say this if u can't stand on if something is wrong or right don't say anything to me because you're confused I know where I stand when it comes to the bible and the scriptures everything isn't just word for word in the bible.. there is no scripture in the bible that says not to shack with someone... but it does talk about.. fornication which is sex before marriage..so if u live or shack with someone you're going to be having sex so it's best not to live together to avoid the temptation of fornication ...u can read between the lines your a smart person..he just trying to justify his wrong doing ..getting her pregnant..living together their not married it's all wrong.. I've done it I'm not perfect but I dare not tell people that it's ok because it's not and he will have to answer to God for leading people the wrong way... please believe me it's WRONG .....hope u understand what I'm saying...👍❤

    • @trishalachell
      @trishalachell 6 років тому +4

      Juanette Thompson Say it for the people in the back...in case they didn't hear you👏👏👏👏

  • @TheYafnit
    @TheYafnit 6 років тому +420

    I just can't take a person seriously who proclaims to be a man of God, has at least one affair we know of, and has had his genitalia slung all over social media.
    Also, he knows very well "shacking" is not stated verbatim in the Bible. Not only is it a contemporary euphemism, its modern-day English, a language not spoken during the age of the Bible.
    I loathe the fact that he's attempting to pervert the word of God, and lead others astray, for his own selfish whims.
    Furthermore, he calls marriage a "lifelong agreement" but the women you're sitting next to isn't your 1st wife. Hypocrite!

    • @LailahLynnTV
      @LailahLynnTV  6 років тому +20

      I forgot all about those pictures!! That was crazy!!

    • @TheYafnit
      @TheYafnit 6 років тому +6

      Lailah Lynn Sis, I wish I could forget!

    • @phenomenalwoman6893
      @phenomenalwoman6893 6 років тому +13

      TheYafnit Say what I'm not on social media other than You Tube and i did not know that 😲

    • @fanofnone2635
      @fanofnone2635 6 років тому +3

      Facts!

    • @TheYafnit
      @TheYafnit 6 років тому +20

      Phenomenal Woman Yes ma'am, mainly on Twitter, Tumblr, TSR, World Star, and other blog sites. That man is a false prophet and an abomination.

  • @TheBarloboat
    @TheBarloboat 6 років тому +233

    People make me sick with that.."you can't find it in the bible" mess. You can't find brushing your teeth in there either, but you still do it because you know it's what you're supposed to for your dental health. I mean, if you wanna nit pick everything that you're doing then no you won't find EVERYTHING in there! He knows he's just trying to justify him being a false prophet. Smh...

    • @xo_fattie
      @xo_fattie 6 років тому +5

      Jenb B RIGHT! That gets on my nerves!!!!

    • @ErinBR
      @ErinBR 6 років тому +4

      Yes!!!!!! Call them out on their own words!!! You so right!!! 🙌💯

    • @1goddessy193
      @1goddessy193 6 років тому +1

      Lol right

    • @letsstophighexpectationsfr7754
      @letsstophighexpectationsfr7754 6 років тому +3

      Jenb B If it’s not there what makes it wrong?Just because the elders said it

    • @usedbyjesus
      @usedbyjesus 6 років тому +1

      Jenb B Good no Great Answer!!!!

  • @heavenlybskyzz7213
    @heavenlybskyzz7213 6 років тому +60

    Wow and he's laughing about having sex before marriage?? I am so disappointed in him with this. I loved his music, man this sucks! I see there are not many good role models for God anymore to teach people the right way to live, that's why people are confused now and don't believe in God anymore. So sad. This is awful, I'm no longer fan, these are surley the last days, many shall turn from God and teach false doctrine.. End of story, good bye..case closed! 🙁

    • @saintepatie
      @saintepatie 5 років тому

      Heavenly Bskyzz Listen to Pastor Chris Oyakilhome it may help you ❤️

    • @matlhogonoloreitumetse9828
      @matlhogonoloreitumetse9828 3 роки тому

      Guys judge not bcoz the bible says it is for God to judge but instead you as an individual ask God to direct you on the right path and pray that we may not be lead into temptation but be delivered from all evil

  • @heathervictorieuxgordon1845
    @heathervictorieuxgordon1845 6 років тому +18

    Couples don't need to live together to know about each other.

  • @Syld0103
    @Syld0103 6 років тому +512

    Perfect example of end time false teacher and wolf in sheep's clothing. What an absolute joke! May God forgive him

    • @boomboom177
      @boomboom177 6 років тому +5

      Sylvie D B AMEN!!....

    • @eboniblack6326
      @eboniblack6326 6 років тому +11

      This is nothing but the devil

    • @Syld0103
      @Syld0103 6 років тому +2

      Eboni Black 👍👍

    • @MississippiGirl0013
      @MississippiGirl0013 6 років тому +3

      Sylvie D B but people laugh when we say signs of time... 😏 this isn't all thats going to come to pass... This weather scaring me I'm in Mississippi and it's extremely cold here we usually have sun and all that it's cold here we still running our heaters like it's December... This here don't bother me at all because I don't watch people like him or the others because it's all for Money ALL OF THEM!

    • @Syld0103
      @Syld0103 6 років тому +5

      Yolanda Cole let them laugh, we can't convince them only the Holy Spirit can. We can only point them to Christ in love. Another sign of the times according to scriptures is the heart of men being more hardened and unpenetrable. Let us ALL put our houses in order. Be blessed my dear

  • @AshleyJohnson-xd1ei
    @AshleyJohnson-xd1ei 6 років тому +213

    Anything to make their sinful ways acceptable....boy bye...ain't no shacking here. Too much temptation

    • @rodwilliams7457
      @rodwilliams7457 6 років тому +8

      Ashley Johnson ikr! Lol I'm not even playing lol we know we shouldn't be shacking up! Lol they think the slick! Lol

    • @AshleyJohnson-xd1ei
      @AshleyJohnson-xd1ei 6 років тому +7

      Rod Williams right lol...I know we ALL fall short of the glory of the Lord but for him to try and justify the sin is just wrong.

    • @krisv1991
      @krisv1991 6 років тому +1

      Ashley Johnson Lol its temptation when you go to the movies and see a man with his shirt off. It’s temptation when you go to the gym and beach and see muscles and abs. Sssoooo are you going to avoid those places, as well? He has a point. Snacking ISNT in the Bible and it’s not a sin. We must endeavor to become students of the scripture to not just know what it says but to know what it MEANS!!!

    • @jefflewis9154
      @jefflewis9154 6 років тому +3

      Ashley Johnson Luke 2:5 New International Version (NIV)
      5 He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. By your understanding, according to the scriptures are you saying Mary and Joseph shacked up? because the book says she was pregnant while engaged

    • @jefflewis9154
      @jefflewis9154 6 років тому

      Ashley Johnson This should show that we serve a God that puts measures in place to take temptation away. When one is engaged, one can have sex with and live with thier significant other. The scriptures clearly show this. Mary and Joseph lived together and was expecting a baby while engaged.

  • @Kenlasdar
    @Kenlasdar 6 років тому +117

    Actually the term, "First lady" is not biblical and that is being used heavily. This is very contradictory and confusing...and we all know that God is not the author of confusion...now that's biblical. Smh🙄

    • @pdg1021
      @pdg1021 6 років тому +6

      Don’t call her a First Lady! It takes a certain women to be a First Lady and she ain’t it! Not setting an example for young women at all, and talk like a fool each time she opens her mouth! Crazy!

    • @GiveYaLifeToJesus
      @GiveYaLifeToJesus 6 років тому +11

      K. LaSean right.. I dont like the term "first lady" never have .. Its Man made.. Smh

    • @klementine4422
      @klementine4422 6 років тому +2

      Two thumbs up!! 👍🏼👍🏼

    • @casandramorrow3201
      @casandramorrow3201 6 років тому +3

      K. LaSean ...yes true,nd she definitely is no first lady or is he a pastor.U got to be called to preach,you got to be

    • @producersco
      @producersco 6 років тому

      K. LaSean the bible has a lot of confusing quotes, theres a passage where god says, I AM GOOD AND EVIL😞 elaborate?

  • @lastofatruebreed
    @lastofatruebreed 6 років тому +52

    Y'all are living proof that you can't live together before marriage.

  • @MsNyree
    @MsNyree 6 років тому +120

    Molesting is not in the bible either, but it's not right!!

    • @jadamcmullen588
      @jadamcmullen588 6 років тому +2

      Ms. Nyree this doesn’t have enough likes

    • @bahplusten2934
      @bahplusten2934 6 років тому +12

      AMEN, SMOKING CRACK AINT IN THE BIBLE EITHER, BUT ITS WRONG!!! This man and his mistress are not saved, so why follow them. Whats he been saved from???

    • @bahplusten2934
      @bahplusten2934 6 років тому +7

      They think its funny, dont compare him to David, David repented and God killed Davids baby he had with Basheeba.

    • @ALLTHINGSCINEMA24
      @ALLTHINGSCINEMA24 5 років тому +8

      That is a FORM of Fornication and LUST to theoretically it IS in the Bible... but I know where you were trying to get at.

    • @stacim7845
      @stacim7845 5 років тому +2

      It is I the bible.

  • @mariedames3240
    @mariedames3240 6 років тому +86

    The Bible says shun the appearance of evil and do not give room to the devil.

    • @producersco
      @producersco 6 років тому

      Yvonne Greene but he also say I am good and evil

    • @BabeKay01
      @BabeKay01 6 років тому +1

      +Sco Esq. who said they were good & evil? Not Christ, he said Created good & evil. God is righteous

    • @jefflewis5799
      @jefflewis5799 6 років тому

      BabeKay01 Does it look like evil when Mary was pregnant and engaged?

  • @Evagheadley768
    @Evagheadley768 6 років тому +131

    She’s talking about self discipline. They did not have it so how can they be preaching it.

    • @CuteLifeonaBudget
      @CuteLifeonaBudget 6 років тому

      Eva Headley riiiiight?!! 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @angell504
      @angell504 6 років тому +7

      Eva Headley right. Every pastor in UA-cam advises single women to sleep alone until a man is willing to put a ring on it and walk down the aisle first. That’s more logical.

    • @kwatoniazakiyyahanderson8091
      @kwatoniazakiyyahanderson8091 6 років тому +3

      Right they are hypocrites

    • @foreigncarsrule
      @foreigncarsrule 6 років тому +2

      They don't take the Bible seriously Christianity or those paying them any mind that's how! What more do they need to do or say to get everyone to see how it is just for show and out of tradition and for money and fame?! Deitrick looks bad here and so does Dominique physically I am more concerned about that than their souls because they don't even care about their souls at this point. Christianity is on life support in America in 2018!

    • @michellemartin8826
      @michellemartin8826 5 років тому

      Exactly Yes

  • @kre.7339
    @kre.7339 6 років тому +58

    Deidrick trying to justify sin. A so-called pastor misleading the sheep. Marriage, not fornication/ living together. Have several seats with this falsehood. The Word of God is what it is forever.

    • @emilio2647
      @emilio2647 5 років тому +3

      Deidrick Haddon is a false prophet.

    • @NO-he4de
      @NO-he4de 3 роки тому

      What a load of nonsense Dietrick Haddon is talking about

  • @lesliebaker2589
    @lesliebaker2589 6 років тому +23

    Deitrick and Dominique Haddon, God has called us, as Christians to Holiness without it no one Will see the Lord... It's either holiness or hell

  • @thomasfrimpong6636
    @thomasfrimpong6636 6 років тому +8

    people around the world lets pray for this man!!!

  • @ErickaJ954
    @ErickaJ954 6 років тому +63

    Why would God tell us to wait for marriage TO PROTECT US, and then turn around and say yeah go ahead and live with that person before y'all get married 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔😑😐 Come on now! Don't put your confidence into your flesh but into your spirit. Temptation is real out here. Don't fool yourself.

    • @tonyadaughtry8624
      @tonyadaughtry8624 6 років тому +2

      Shacking is not in the bible but, fornication is, if you are trying to live save and holy living together before marriage is not the way. God is not please with that at all and bragging about shacking. The bible said: it's a lot of false prophets in this world please people don't have itchy ears and allow anything to stir in your spirit.

  • @IBT13
    @IBT13 6 років тому +69

    It's TRULY praying TIME! This is a contradiction to the word of God! Living together before marriage is wrong.. PERIOD!

    • @sweetsopcomedy1458
      @sweetsopcomedy1458 4 роки тому

      AAAAAAAMEN. Jesus is coming soon for sure, trying to cover-up their sins and justify it. That will not work!

  • @ddogg71
    @ddogg71 6 років тому +180

    DON'T PLAY WITH GOD!!!!!

  • @missest.d.3387
    @missest.d.3387 5 років тому +8

    Literally shaking my head! I am a faith walking, Holy ghost filled Woman of God and I know that no matter how long you've abstained from sex or how discipline you think you are your flesh can still get weak.. Come on now, how long do you think you can shack up before sexual things start to happen.

  • @toofast7789
    @toofast7789 6 років тому +29

    This makes me sad

  • @simpleme5719
    @simpleme5719 6 років тому +74

    Judgement day is going to be HOT.

    • @lisapierce737
      @lisapierce737 6 років тому +4

      Simple Me
      LOL YOU BETTER STOP IT...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Hesimms
      @Hesimms 6 років тому

      So you saying he going to hell because he fall short ?

    • @daryleballard4912
      @daryleballard4912 6 років тому

      Simple Me 😒--"Yea. You ready?"

    • @tyshondrabarnes7631
      @tyshondrabarnes7631 6 років тому

      Simple Me " Oh yes

    • @danasummers2091
      @danasummers2091 6 років тому

      say it louder sis for the spiritually blinded folks in the back📣

  • @suewat394
    @suewat394 6 років тому +30

    They do'n the most. God says avoid the appearance of evil. Living together, so you can know each other? Deitrick, and his wife sound like people of the world, choosing your own mate, and not hearing God at all! So, they're saying God don't love me enough to give me a man that bathes? Deitrick, and his current wife sinned. Now they want to fodder a corrupt word and expect people to feed on it. God made Eve for Adam, and It was good. It was their responsibility to protect their union, and it's the responsibility of every married couple today.

  • @RDCFemmes
    @RDCFemmes 6 років тому +32

    The way us african say it is, when you put a goat and leaves in the same room, what happens? The goat will eat the leaves!!!!!!

  • @diduknowfacts101
    @diduknowfacts101 6 років тому +30

    Say what you want but the bible does say in 1 Thessalonians 5:22 “Abstain from all appearance of evil.” So you choosing to live with someone who will cause you to lust based on the fact that he or she is right there, is in itself wrong. Why not just live separately & make it easier to please God & keep your mind on God? This entire conversation is unproductive. I’m sure there are more relevant topics you could discuss that edifies people.

    • @sarahchristopher436
      @sarahchristopher436 4 роки тому

      Yea. I was wondering what the point of this video was. They actually look and act like they are under the influence of some substance.

  • @GuerlyneBel
    @GuerlyneBel 6 років тому +13

    As for myself i would not be shacking up before getting married... "All i can say is wow"

  • @DelGloTa
    @DelGloTa 6 років тому +31

    Um... didn't she get pregnant BEFORE they got married? So obviously abstinence didn't work out well for them.

    • @CuteLifeonaBudget
      @CuteLifeonaBudget 6 років тому +2

      DelGloTa 🤣🤣 right!? I’m like if they believe this can be done why they didn’t do it? 🤔🤔

  • @charliechoconut7865
    @charliechoconut7865 6 років тому +205

    So he is justifying his actions by "amending" the bible, which also states to turn away from temptation. I do not need to put my hand in fire to prove how hot it is. Since the show i looked at him sideways, he makes the bible seem out of date yet he wants to preach about it.

    • @tierneemalinadeveaux4421
      @tierneemalinadeveaux4421 6 років тому +15

      Also, the bible says to abstain from the appearance of evil. If he lives with his girlfriend, the natural assumption is that they are physically active. So he is not abstaining, and he is in sin, and he is disqualified from pastoral ministry because of his sin.

    • @ohheybih
      @ohheybih 6 років тому +7

      Charlie Choconut he always did this... he will argue for hours trying to justify his BS.

    • @sirbey9608
      @sirbey9608 6 років тому

      Charlie Choconut well is shakin in the bible ???

    • @charliechoconut7865
      @charliechoconut7865 6 років тому +3

      Sir Bey he himself agrees that the concept or principles of shacking up is in the bible. The word itself won't be in the bible as it is a modern day euphemism.

    • @tierneemalinadeveaux4421
      @tierneemalinadeveaux4421 6 років тому +3

      Sir Bey, the word rapture is not in the Bible. Would any rational Christian want to be left behind when Jesus "raptures" the church just because the word is not in the Bible? The word Bible is not in the Bible...would any rational Christian distance him/herself from the Bible because the word is not in the Bible? I'm just asking...

  • @jacs3241
    @jacs3241 6 років тому +49

    All this foolery is being recorded and YES, he will stand before the Lord for this. You can't and will not make a fool out of God! Boy Bye!

    • @melthomas6519
      @melthomas6519 6 років тому

      Jacs amen!!!!!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @judybrigham2766
      @judybrigham2766 5 років тому +5

      Amen He knew exactly what this man was talking about when he asked him are you shacking. Don't play with God This is not funny or cute, you and your wife laughing trying to make light of the situation. Nobody is trying to judge you, if you don't repent, judgement day you are going to have to answer to God.

  • @ritahurn909
    @ritahurn909 6 років тому +29

    Shacking in the Bible, John 4:17-18. Jesus didn't condemn her but He did call her out.

    • @lindadavis3908
      @lindadavis3908 6 років тому

      Went friend that be a boyfriend. In my boyfriend. Girlfriend

  • @cuevaswalker
    @cuevaswalker 6 років тому +9

    "Lead us not into temptation"
    Living with someone you are dating will lead you into temptation..
    "Stay above reproach"...
    To joke about something as serious as lust..

  • @esthera4710
    @esthera4710 6 років тому +24

    If you're already living together, having sex, doing wifely and husbandly duties day in & day out, making babies...what's left to look forward to? Really and honestly, what would be the point in getting married? Because if you're already his wife in practice, why would he make you his wife in truth?

    • @JamesCH08
      @JamesCH08 6 років тому +2

      Esther A Because if she's being a great wife in practice. Your sure as a man that you'll want to marry and really be with her, for a lifetime. Love and the practicing of love and marriage is a job and unfortunately allot of men and women don't know how to be those things.

    • @esthera4710
      @esthera4710 6 років тому +7

      Omar Jo this is true, but my point is simply that while he'll see that you meet his criteria, he'll have no reason to marry you if you've been living with him for years on end and doing all the things a wife is supposed to do. Why buy the cow when he can get the milk & beef for free? 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @JamesCH08
      @JamesCH08 6 років тому +2

      Esther A That's true for some men, mostly younger men or immature men. Once men get into their 30's even some of us our late 20's we usually begin to mature and see the value in marriage. And as a man matures he'll begin to know his worth, if he's a great provider, protector, gives you plenty of attention & time, affection, sex, if he can handle chores weather it be cleaning, cooking, or fixing and repairing around the house to simply tasks like taking out the trash, food shopping, & laundry, and can keep his physical appearance up, then he should have an equal in his marriage. People can appear to be great when you don't live with them, but when you live with them your can see how they handle all of this stuff and more. And if this is supposed to last a life time, I'd much rather spend a year or two getting to know each other or at least trying to get it right before we make that leap towards forever. I believe that's what he was trying to say

    • @joicefreeman
      @joicefreeman 6 років тому +2

      Omar Jo - your understanding is worldly. You want to sample the goods before you buy them right? Where else can you legally do this in any other area of life? You can't! You clearly have an unrealistic understanding of how it is because ppl are fluid meaning they are in motion evolving changing. The person you get with today will be - I guarantee a different person in a year. It is the willingness to commit to "the covenant of marriage" it is the only permanent thing that covers the relationship.
      Our society has romanticized marriage and sexualized it so much so it is doomed for failure.
      Romance and sex play their part but it will not hold you during the trying times, but your covenant will.

    • @JamesCH08
      @JamesCH08 6 років тому +2

      joicefreeman So what are you saying? Stay with someone regardless of what they are or who they'll become? I do believe people may change in time, but overall they're core character, and core values may not. My mother was abused by my drug addicted, alcoholic step father, when I was a child. I'm talking when I was 3-8 years old, I'm close to 40 now and can still remember this and the impact it had on my mom and my family. My mother was married to him, and we (me and my mother) went to church all the time, and she was told by the church and fellow family members who were church goers, something I believe is similar to what I believe your saying, stay with him (despite the abuse). After many horrible things that are to many for me to talk about here, she finally left and divorced him. She didn't, SHACK UP, with him, instead she followed that script thru and thru. I'm not saying you shouldn't follow the Bible or allot of what it says. But some things I believe just don't make sense to follow like it says. My mother could have been killed the way he beat her, we were left in poverty after having to move 13 times in 5 years, having to hide from him, and someone burned our house down and we were left homeless, I believe it was him. I'm sorry I just don't believe everything in the Bible as far as rules go are always so black & white. An I know quite a few other people who have suffered similar tragedies, by not, SHACKING UP, and really getting to know the person, there's allot of people who don't go into marriage for the right reasons, instead that person they thought they knew are really demons in disguise, I'M SORRY BUT GET TO KNOW WHO YOUR MARRYING.

  • @stevenasdfghwilliamsitsme8437
    @stevenasdfghwilliamsitsme8437 6 років тому +60

    Stop rewriting the bible

  • @PoeticallyInMotion
    @PoeticallyInMotion 6 років тому +142

    With how sloppy he handled the last marriage, why would anyone be surprised with his stance on this issue?

    • @lovereva5632
      @lovereva5632 6 років тому +5

      PoeticallyInMotion how did he handle his last marriage? You do know his wife cheated on him which is why they got divorced! Y'all so quick they want to criticize somebody else's way of thinking when you don't even know everything that went on to bring them to this point and just because you don't agree with his thoughts doesn't make them wrong

    • @lovereva5632
      @lovereva5632 6 років тому +4

      I've been a fan forever and I followed him and his ex on social media I may not have all the answers or info and I'm sure he played a part in the demise of the marriage but it ultimately ended due to infidelity in the wife's part you can look that up

    • @softcaramel53jab58
      @softcaramel53jab58 6 років тому

      Alana Williams. So is she the wife with the two girls , when he was doing the preacher show?

    • @PoeticallyInMotion
      @PoeticallyInMotion 6 років тому +7

      Alana Williams
      Dominique wasn't the first woman Deitrick had an affair with over the course of the marriage to Damita. She loved him and wanted to fight for their marriage. Deitrick led her to believe they were going to work through their marital issues by agreeing to go to counseling. Damita was totally blind-sided by not only this last affair resulting in the birth of Destin but learning of his engagement to Dominique while still married to her - sloppy...

    • @PoeticallyInMotion
      @PoeticallyInMotion 6 років тому +3

      jadenight0
      She's not just missing elements, she missed the full story, which I took the liberty of posting in the above reply. Deitrick had been cheating for many years on Damita and she quietly persevered forgiving him over and over again. I can't say I blame Damita for getting some much needed loving from Isaac Carree...lol

  • @charmaynesterling8768
    @charmaynesterling8768 4 роки тому +2

    As soon as you said, "it's not biblical," you turn your back towards God. It grieves my spirit when folk have this much influence over folk and yet they come with a lie and deceive many. PEOPLE WAKE UP! KNOW THE TRUTH OF GOD FOR YOURSELVES!

    • @charmaynesterling8768
      @charmaynesterling8768 3 роки тому +1

      As soon as you said it's not biblical, you turned your back towards God. It grieves my heart when people have as much influence over people from a platform and yet speak lies deceiving the people.. AGAIN PEOPLE of GOD WAKE UP know the truth of God for yourselves. Eve cause Adam to be deceived Jezebel cause King Ahab to be deceived Delilah had a huge influence over Sampson. Men of God, let not the influence of a woman/sex strip you of your strength. Get a grip💪🏾

  • @LyssieLysse
    @LyssieLysse 6 років тому +4

    They were trying to make it sound so convincing by talking in circles. I'm still not shacking up no matter how much self control I think I have. The flesh is weak and no amount of self control can control the attraction between two people.

  • @ReneeNow
    @ReneeNow 6 років тому +47

    No words! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️. This is ignorant

  • @cocomamacita365
    @cocomamacita365 6 років тому +98

    Why say yes about abstaining when she wasnt. *Theyre trying to justify their lifestyle choices that put them in the predicament that they're in*

    • @LadyRenada
      @LadyRenada 6 років тому +1

      Nikki St. Clair YUP!!

    • @yanikeonpurpose
      @yanikeonpurpose 6 років тому +5

      That’s what I was just thinking!? What kind of retarded logic is this?!!! You’re condoning “shacking” on the basis that abstinence is feasible as long as you are disciplined & will not cross that line-- yet they proved they themselves could not achieve this. They need to study this life path of Christianity that they have elected to follow a bit more than this!

    • @onlyoldnavy
      @onlyoldnavy 6 років тому +1

      Not only that but they brought a child into their mess.

    • @DueinOct24
      @DueinOct24 6 років тому

      Nikki St. Clair Exactly

    • @amandasdelights8185
      @amandasdelights8185 6 років тому

      Nikki St. Clair Right

  • @neciejamess943
    @neciejamess943 6 років тому +31

    How can someone encourage others to live together and abstain when they did not have the ability to do so themselves. This is laughable Bye!

  • @evernechatman1590
    @evernechatman1590 2 роки тому +1

    I agree with the voice over, when she said if you think you can't be tempted you thinking too highly of yourself.

  • @krystaldumdei1819
    @krystaldumdei1819 2 роки тому +1

    What?? They keep saying that if you have discipline, you can live together….. they had absolutely NO discipline and didn’t live together in the first place🙄 It’s pretty impossible. Do they know what they’re saying? They’re just trying to confuse others further to justify what they did.

  • @sassybdiy7565
    @sassybdiy7565 6 років тому +108

    Deitrick should not be taken seriously... like at all! I'm all for doing whatever you want to do in life and not having to answer to anyone however, he is a "supposed man of the cloth" so he has some type of moral responsibility to guide his followers correctly....
    Honestly nothing He will say will make me pause and clutch my pearls lmbo.... he is a WILD CARD!

    • @rasheenas_show1187
      @rasheenas_show1187 6 років тому +6

      Brandie Ephron I'd NEVER follow a so called pastor like this. Smh

    • @sassybdiy7565
      @sassybdiy7565 6 років тому +6

      OVERCOMER by the Blood lol they're abundant out here, no joke... that's why I've learned not to put too much stock in what people say, I'd rather research and read on my own... you get me?

    • @sayless644
      @sayless644 6 років тому +3

      very much so. lol he makes he's on rules for sure

    • @sassybdiy7565
      @sassybdiy7565 6 років тому +1

      OVERCOMER by the Blood did you watch the preachers show? He was...hmmm... interesting on there

    • @rasheenas_show1187
      @rasheenas_show1187 6 років тому +3

      Brandie Ephron i feel you 1000900000% lol. And yes, i watched him up there. I was sickened by his arrogance.

  • @angiemaq
    @angiemaq 6 років тому +44

    Since he wants to "leave a foundation for the conversation"...then I would like to give my "Interpretation of the situation"....these lukewarm Christians are going to, die sad deaths. Is the word lesbian in the bible? I mean really...I can not with these new fangled christians. They will bend and twist the scriptures in the bible to suit whatever nonsense they are promoting. From the false prophets to the pulpit pimps to the singers who should have just stayed in the choir.....they are all leading people down the wrong path. This happens when you do not know The Most High for yourself. The path is narrow enough as it is...why increase your chances of being stuck here by misinterpreting instructions for whatever reason and listening to experienced fools? This is merely of sign of the times we are in and unfortunately it will not be getting better.

    • @MsSchelle87
      @MsSchelle87 6 років тому +1

      Doagae Porbeni SCREAMING A BIG AMEN

    • @darianme6929
      @darianme6929 6 років тому

      Doagae Porbeni lesbian is not but other words are like homosexual

  • @kimberlymurray3748
    @kimberlymurray3748 6 років тому +37

    If you are a member of these two people church, please run for your life. Really does he even carry his self like a man of God, please wake up. The blind lead the blind.

    • @46sdavis
      @46sdavis 6 років тому

      Kimberly Murray

    • @nynandranynandra2429
      @nynandranynandra2429 6 років тому

      runnnnnnnn!!!! get from under his false teaching! And they are making light of this subject.

  • @cawatson7616
    @cawatson7616 2 роки тому +1

    Of course he would think that he divorced his wife got her pregnant then shacked up with her🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @shebajefferson3730
    @shebajefferson3730 2 роки тому +1

    1 Thessalonians 5:22
    King James Version
    22 Abstain from all appearance of evil. This is what I was told when I asked about living together before marriage. Although everyone is not a Christian; God calls those who are to a higher standard.
    Then, if you are honest with one another, you know about taxes, bill, etc. No, you ask God for discernment and guidance. Lord, I'm talking to God; I could not sit under them. I'll be living with everyone I date.

  • @4SuccessOnlee
    @4SuccessOnlee 6 років тому +15

    This is a prime example of the blind leading the blind. Please people read the Word for yourself. They are truly blind d and need the true light of the Lord. Pray for them!!!

  • @SoFrolushesTV
    @SoFrolushesTV 6 років тому +365

    I thought when a man and woman is bethrothed to a man. The man goes away to prepare a room for his wife. The soon to be wife in the meantime prepares herself and gets prepared for when her soon to be husband returns to get her after their initial meeting. This example is given in the parable of Ten Bridesmaids.

  • @tiagirl757
    @tiagirl757 6 років тому +36

    The term rapture isn't in the bible either but I'm sure he's used the term. I'm not surprised by this at all.
    Mathew 7:22 ".....many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?' 23. And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness."

    • @daryleballard4912
      @daryleballard4912 6 років тому +1

      Morgan's Life 😕But Yeshua was talking about the people that called His name but didn't feed the poor and didnt take care of the homeless though. ✔

  • @GODSlove1358
    @GODSlove1358 6 років тому +23

    Why he shaking his voice like that? Doesn't mean your point is valid because you quiver and shiver your voice😂

    • @sarahchristopher436
      @sarahchristopher436 4 роки тому

      He’s mimicking how some church leaders speak at the pulpit.

  • @jessicaturman8526
    @jessicaturman8526 6 років тому +4

    I always asked God to help me with my music choices because God knows I love music and I love to shake my hips and bob my head; so when I brought this man’s cd around 2008 I had an unexpected distaste for it even though the beat was right. So I got rid of it not knowing all this was going on or about to go on. I am so sorry that this young men has been mislead in many areas; I will pray for him and his wife because it is never to late to repent or change your mind; and I love all my brothers and sisters in Christ because that is the heart of God that none would be lost.

  • @nedrashereadywilliams9496
    @nedrashereadywilliams9496 6 років тому +96

    Wasn't she pregnant with the second child before marriage too? One thing that I will say is they playing too much in this video.

    • @ob2be1
      @ob2be1 6 років тому +10

      Nedra She Ready Williams yesssss. I remember that episode and was so shame for the white pastor that married them bc it was a total set-up lol. Bishop Jones was supposed to marry them and had supposedly done the premarital counseling. But I think he knew they were pregnant and conveniently couldn't make it back to the country the day of the wedding. The look on that pastors face when he found out they were preggers after he had married them lmbo. Chile🤣🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @pdg1021
      @pdg1021 6 років тому +4

      Yes, she was! Both of them sound dumb!

    • @FatemaAries
      @FatemaAries 6 років тому +2

      Nedra She Ready Williams If you watched every episode of the show. They were already married before that wedding. They got married in her mother’s backyard.

    • @nedrashereadywilliams9496
      @nedrashereadywilliams9496 6 років тому +3

      Fatema Aries yes they did but she was pregnant already. They got married to move in the house together because of the scrutiny of the pastors.

    • @FatemaAries
      @FatemaAries 6 років тому

      Nedra She Ready Williams I had to do some searching....they got married in 2013. I know from watching the show they had married before the wedding. So that’s the part I’m still tryna figure out.....when did they actually get married? But so far what I seen they tied the knot in July of 2013.....but that was when they had the actual Wedding. And that 2nd baby was born January of 2014. So yea if that’s the case, you right she would have been already pregnant.

  • @CeeJay611
    @CeeJay611 6 років тому +34

    Abstain from the very presence of evil. Shacking isn't in the Bible but do we really need the specific word to be in there in order to know that putting yourself in temptation will only push you into fornication. Sometimes being technical with specific words is why ppl get in trouble.

    • @charliehinds700
      @charliehinds700 6 років тому

      Thank you. They try 2 say things to make themselves feel good. He need true deliverance!

    • @jsharne
      @jsharne 2 роки тому

      I think he’s trying to say that there is a difference in
      two people of the opposite sex living together, where there is NO SEXUAL ACTIVITY involved and the two have agreed to wait until marriage (which is considered shacking-because they sleep in the same bed)
      Versus
      living with someone of the opposite sex and engaging in sexual activity prior to marriage (fornication- which is actually in the Bible)

  • @daenerysstormborn5557
    @daenerysstormborn5557 6 років тому +21

    You are a Man of God. There is no shacking fornicating none of that you supposed to stand for God. Kingdom of Heaven is at hand....

  • @dearpastorr
    @dearpastorr 6 років тому +18

    I love it when he turned to her and said 'FIRST LADY' at the end of his sentence. First lady of what?!?!? It's so pathetic that it's funny!

    • @sarahchristopher436
      @sarahchristopher436 4 роки тому +1

      That confused me as well. She’s just a child. They are really pitiful.

    • @matlhogonoloreitumetse9828
      @matlhogonoloreitumetse9828 3 роки тому +1

      He made a mistake and fonicated and you don't know his standing with God, question is have you looked at your sin, instead of judging him maybe you shud pray for him, bcoz God said we must pray for one another

  • @joannaseverin-nichol6115
    @joannaseverin-nichol6115 Рік тому +1

    Some people aren't called to be ministers or pastors. You betta have your own relationship with God and Jesus Christ. Read The Word for yourself or else be led all the way to hell. What a mess.

  • @cece82gemini27
    @cece82gemini27 6 років тому +177

    His hair is distracting me

    • @ladytosha15
      @ladytosha15 6 років тому +3

      Cicely Williams
      Lol

    • @mika6516
      @mika6516 6 років тому +3

      Cicely Williams Me too

    • @princesskaha
      @princesskaha 6 років тому +4

      😂😂😂

    • @katb2440
      @katb2440 6 років тому +7

      A gazoo hairdo 🤥

    • @Ash2beauty
      @Ash2beauty 6 років тому +7

      Kat B 🤣🤣🤣🤣Next Caaaaaaase!

  • @trishs7863
    @trishs7863 6 років тому +21

    Is he a real pastor? Nowadays, these artists are coming out calling themselves Pastors, Bishops, and Reverends but do not have the credentials.

    • @henrywashington3732
      @henrywashington3732 6 років тому +3

      Trish S That's what I'm saying. Just because we like you for your singing doesn't mean God called you to preach.

    • @rodwilliams7457
      @rodwilliams7457 6 років тому +1

      Chiiiile!

    • @blackbutterflylove2758
      @blackbutterflylove2758 6 років тому

      Trish S since Martin Luther King aka michael

  • @Michelle-yj1mp
    @Michelle-yj1mp 6 років тому +53

    Both of you need to go before God and truly repent. Instead you're trying to justify you're actions. You should have never been reinstated to preach to the people of God. God say to abstain from the appearance of evil/ sin.

    • @administrativeprofessionalsllc
      @administrativeprofessionalsllc 6 років тому

      Michelle Penn. Amen!

    • @GiveYaLifeToJesus
      @GiveYaLifeToJesus 6 років тому

      Michelle Penn Aman!!

    • @LadyDae
      @LadyDae 6 років тому

      I’m sure they already did and now they are married

    • @Michelle-yj1mp
      @Michelle-yj1mp 6 років тому +3

      Chardae Harvey They haven't if he or both are speaking that which is in contrast to the word of God. If such repentance has occurred he would talk on the grace that was shown, and caution other against during their own will.

    • @frederickweeksjr.1189
      @frederickweeksjr.1189 6 років тому

      Michelle Penn EXACTLY my sister. I've met him many years before the Preachers of LA... Seemed like a nice dude. Met his brother Gerald ( Whom I will say is an upstanding brother) while he was a minister of music at City of Refuge. Detrik is messing up. They DO need to repent. This is one of reasons why people don't want to be Christians, for they're looking for genuine Christians. I hope they get it together.

  • @princesspastortelaine8689
    @princesspastortelaine8689 5 років тому +1

    I rebuke every demonic sexual advice that has been spoken by these two. I cancel the plan of the enemy in Jesus name. Please Lord bless those who have heard these voices... May YOUR CHILDREN hear words of purity, discipline, patience and SPIRITUAL common sense.

  • @awillis244
    @awillis244 3 роки тому +1

    That’s because he and wife Dominique lived together before they married.

  • @DeepThoughtsAndUpgrades
    @DeepThoughtsAndUpgrades 6 років тому +32

    Lailah, I agree with your position and I love It! I am the same way, and practice abstinence as well. I wish people like this would stop twisting the word in order to make their life choices seem acceptable..People love to twist the word in order to make it seem like it has to say a specific word. Smh...It doesn't tell you not to do drugs, but even a non-Christian would know that there are consequences, and it says to obey the laws of the land.

  • @bonafide4615
    @bonafide4615 6 років тому +57

    Do not follow Deitrick and Dominique Haddon. They are lost souls. Pray for them. Love them.

    • @suewat394
      @suewat394 6 років тому +5

      Bona Fide, God says follow them as they follow Christ. It's evident that he has not followed Christ for a while, so we must depart and pray.

    • @loveisallthatmatters1768
      @loveisallthatmatters1768 6 років тому +1

      Bona Fide Absolutely!

  • @DeepThoughtsAndUpgrades
    @DeepThoughtsAndUpgrades 6 років тому +32

    These people can't even explain this right...smh...

  • @SamanthaHardmon
    @SamanthaHardmon 3 роки тому +1

    Dominique was obviously proud of her sin! SMH!

  • @ritahurn909
    @ritahurn909 6 років тому +13

    When you love someone and you guys believe God brought you two together, you don't need to know every single thing about that person. You may decide that you don't want to marry that person because they forgot to put the cap back on the toothpaste. That would not be a good reason to decide not to marry someone. But maybe you are a type "A" personality. You like the top put back on the toothpaste. A marriage consist of finding out things about a person and deciding to continue to love that person anyway. You may not like what they do but you two are a team. You make each other better. And those trials and tribulations which the Word of God said we will have, you two along with God's help will come through victoriously. I don't care how many people you live with you will never find a perfect person because it was only one perfect person on the face of the planet and His name is Jesus. I believe Christians are suppose to walk by faith. Don't the Word say " Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding. And in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path". Where do we get off thinking that we know better than God? Part of getting to know each other is having a made up mind about staying together despite the quirks, likes and dislikes you may have about each other. Be honest with each other and talk to each other. I'm not an expert but those are the qualities I believe a lasting relationship is built on. I don't believe shacking up or living together is a smart idea at all. Who remembers the book of Hosea? When God told him to marry a prostitute. God didn't tell Hosea to go live with the prostitute first to see if she was suitable for him. I believe we should wait on God and be lead by the Spirit of God before getting married. We should not go by what we think, see or feel. My pastor said that he wasn't in love with his wife and she wasn't in love with him but God told him to marry her and God told her to marry him. Now they really are in love with one another. We are always growing and gaining wisdom and knowledge. Wouldn't it be awesome to have someone to share life with while we continue to grow and become more Christ like? From glory to glory! People seem to take marriage lightly now a days. If they don't like it they want out for any little thing.

    • @anntowns2582
      @anntowns2582 6 років тому +1

      Rita Hurn ...Amen and Amen and Amen again... This is half of my story and testimony... & this is how we grew & are continuing to grow, all I can say again is THANK YOU JESUS FOR SAVING SUCH A RENCH LIKE ME, I ONCE WAS LOST BUT THANK GOD I WAS FOUND! AMEN 😇

    • @helenadair32
      @helenadair32 5 років тому

      Preach my sister !!!

    • @sweetsopcomedy1458
      @sweetsopcomedy1458 4 роки тому

      Amen! Because the world has cheapened it and the Church is falling inside their web. So unfortunate!

  • @veronicaevans8600
    @veronicaevans8600 6 років тому +40

    That's why the church is a hot mess today.people don't fear the Lord any more.from these so call pastor to the choir members and usher and gospel artist it's a shame before God. Judgement will start at the house of God first.the church has allowed the world to manipulate the gospel to fit their sin.

    • @producersco
      @producersco 6 років тому

      Veronica Evans but you still go to church and listen and sing there music😞

    • @veronicaevans8600
      @veronicaevans8600 6 років тому +3

      No I go to get a word from God period. I don't care about if the pastor shows up or the choir sings as long as Jesus shows up.

    • @ShaiC52
      @ShaiC52 6 років тому +1

      Veronica now adays we all better watch and sincerely pray, the devil is destroying the people through these pastors that have not been called by God nor sent, Paul said not to even let an angel come to us preaching another gospel, these people are teaching the doctrines of men and only those that are spiritual will not be deceived, the Bible says even the anti christ will decieve God's elect "if it were possible", but it is not possible because Jesus said, " my sheep know my voice and a stranger they will not follow", we have to be in the spirit and surely watch and pray.

    • @FirsfruitsArmyGal
      @FirsfruitsArmyGal 6 років тому

      Veronica Evans Wow, I totally agree with you !!!

    • @rodwilliams7457
      @rodwilliams7457 6 років тому

      Its a good thing God gave us all a brain to know right from wrong and we have the word to guide us huh. There's no excuse.

  • @vasti4239
    @vasti4239 6 років тому +13

    They both seem to have no Fear nor Dread of Almighty God and what He will allow to come upon them or their household when He decides to serve JUSTICE!!! Pride goes before a DESTRUCTION, and a HAUGHTY SPIRIT before a FALL (Proverb 16:18). This is INEVITABLE. This is the WORD of GOD !!!!

  • @snob-iana
    @snob-iana 6 років тому +217

    I'm just waiting on him to Come Out of The Closet..💅

  • @syreetagamble
    @syreetagamble 6 років тому +20

    YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED.....U HAVE A RIDICULOUS ARGUMENT!!

  • @independentgospelrap
    @independentgospelrap 6 років тому +10

    You may not find the Word “Shacking”. But you will find the scripture, “Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
    Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.”
    ‭1 Corinthians 7:1-2 KJV‬
    So, therefore, we are not able to shack
    🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @kees8835
    @kees8835 6 років тому +13

    My response is now we see why he ended up in the situation he was in. You can do all the due diligence in the world and a person could still be hiding stuff about themselves. Instead of marrying who you think you should marry try marrying who God ordained for you to marry. Oh and laying next to someone in bed thinking oh I'm just going to go to sleep that's funny. That's how a few babies ended up being conceived because you thought you had self control. In all realness stop putting yourself in these type of situations then you won't have to do the walk of shame in church or having people blasting you in these streets. Oh and if you think after you get married folks will stop talking about you that's a lie. They still do even after your dead.

  • @roxanag5592
    @roxanag5592 6 років тому +23

    You have leaders that God is getting ready to deal with because God is not getting ready to have all of this foolishness if you want to be like the world go into the world stay in the world don't bring it in the church

  • @DD9773H
    @DD9773H 6 років тому +51

    I cannot take him serious. He's living his life on loopholes in the Bible. They are so casual talking about their previous sex life that it just seems like they just put on their socks today. It seems like if they had a chance to do it all over again, they would... But he had to pay the ultimate price of losing his position in the church because of it and his Father did that... But of course he was welcomed back into the church on the preacher's show. I don't think he learned anything as a result of what his earthly Father did and whats in the Bible. But he'll pay in the end because you will see your heavenly Father one day soon.

    • @LailahLynnTV
      @LailahLynnTV  6 років тому +6

      I was surprised at how casually they were talking too. Like, wow!

    • @MoneyComethToshelia
      @MoneyComethToshelia 6 років тому

      Who is his earthy father?

    • @DD9773H
      @DD9773H 6 років тому

      Victoria Lee His Father here on earth, which is his adopted Father.

    • @Queenofdacastle
      @Queenofdacastle 6 років тому

      Victoria Lee His mother's husband raised him, if I'm not mistaken.

  • @bj77755
    @bj77755 6 років тому +10

    S.A.T.A.N STILL GOT THIS M.A.N ..

  • @kemiomopekuncowans3086
    @kemiomopekuncowans3086 2 роки тому +1

    He will be held accountable for how he chose to lead and not leave. He knows that it is a sin to be living with someone who is not your spouse and this is a perfect example of it because they couldn't even withhold from temptation. The sad thing is he is causing delete others a stray with these statements

  • @rasheenas_show1187
    @rasheenas_show1187 6 років тому +157

    The great falling away

    • @paulettehatfield685
      @paulettehatfield685 6 років тому +6

      OVERCOMER by the Blood 📌Yes, because people are using all kinds of excuses in order to justify their mess!!!📌

    • @GiveYaLifeToJesus
      @GiveYaLifeToJesus 6 років тому +1

      OVERCOMER by the Blood Aman!!!

    • @frenchenaganus1590
      @frenchenaganus1590 6 років тому +1

      OVERCOMER by the Blood Exactly. Stay tuned. There's more to come. He's definitely not the only one.

    • @rasheenas_show1187
      @rasheenas_show1187 6 років тому

      Paulette Hatfield preach!!

    • @rasheenas_show1187
      @rasheenas_show1187 6 років тому

      Frenchena Ganus i believe it

  • @SarahSarah-lh8vb
    @SarahSarah-lh8vb 6 років тому +108

    Thats why people dont buy his music.... he always speaking with a double tongue.

    • @chikFromMTL
      @chikFromMTL 6 років тому +1

      #ThatPart

    • @chanta6116
      @chanta6116 6 років тому

      Exactly

    • @Queenofdacastle
      @Queenofdacastle 6 років тому +1

      Sarah Smith the music sounds like R and B ... or secular period. I've only ever listened to a handful of his songs but, couldn't find the worship or praise in it 🤷🏽‍♀️😏

  • @SHutchinson
    @SHutchinson 6 років тому +279

    He is always saying some dumb stuff. Also with his title don't speak the word and then go say all this other stuff. He was saying so much stuff on that show, I watched it every week and It really showed me how he was.

    • @rasheenas_show1187
      @rasheenas_show1187 6 років тому +17

      S_Hutchinson exactly. Showed his true colors for real. I'm appalled.

    • @TheMsklg1981
      @TheMsklg1981 6 років тому +16

      Same here. Sometimes I wish I didn't bc it makes me look at him in a totally different light now.

    • @504girl3rd
      @504girl3rd 6 років тому +15

      He's arrogant and flamboyant, I didn't care for him too much.

    • @kaycee1500
      @kaycee1500 6 років тому +19

      They never should’ve got on here and had that conversation..And his wife knows better...don’t say that people can live together and have passion for one another and not have sex with each other....they weren’t even living together and let her tell it they were having sex like rabbits!

    • @thereisashifting
      @thereisashifting 6 років тому +25

      S_Hutchinson I'm telling you. Never ceases to amaze me how these present day church "leaders" always trying to justify their foolishness and their sin. Reminds me of the Snoop Dog project. The church is in critical condition. And something big is coming and the church will NOT be ready for it. I've never seen God expose the fraudulent and deception in the church to this degree EVER! It's all around us. "Christians" are living double lived and condoning it......Smh😩

  • @Mr_burke90
    @Mr_burke90 6 років тому +27

    Honestly, my wife and I were engaged and lived together, saved by the blood and all. Let me tell you, the temptation is real, thank God we're married now. Nonetheless I do not believe it is a good idea. God bless Deitrick Haddon.

    • @CryptoJenn
      @CryptoJenn 6 років тому +2

      Eazy Mac then y'all were good roommates!

    • @nicholeb1100
      @nicholeb1100 6 років тому

      I understood Derrick Haddon message. He confessed his short comings with fornication. Us Christians all have struggles BUT GOD IS AWESOME AND WILL SET US FREE!!! continue derrick to speak the truth 👌👍💛💜

    • @aldavisforever333
      @aldavisforever333 6 років тому +1

      Yes sir me and my wife didn't live together have sex or even kiss before marriage I think people are being really harsh on him I however thank God for your heart on here I encourage you to keep that heart cause I kno Jesus would have done it the same way

  • @annabanna1873
    @annabanna1873 5 років тому +2

    I see why Deitrick likes Dominique. She feeds his ego. SMH.

  • @ErickaJ954
    @ErickaJ954 6 років тому +27

    Deitrick made some mistakes, which is normal because we're all human but WHY is he acting as if these mistakes were nothing serious and trying to lead people astray? They clearly said they spent the night together so basically ended up having sex but y'all expect people to live together and not do it? Ok. Stop fooling around with God's grace because you're blessed to still be here.

  • @MISSDEEDEVINE1
    @MISSDEEDEVINE1 6 років тому +29

    so maybe the term shacking is not in the Bible. He is correct on that point. But it clearly says the fornication is and that's exactly what him and his wife were doing and that's a sin before God. I never watched the preacher show but I did have some of his music in my playlist... give me a moment while I go ahead and delete it. People like him give Christians who love the Lord and who are striving to do the right thing a bad name. what's also in the Bible is beware of false teachers. this is where I'm going to file him

    • @jamojayj
      @jamojayj 6 років тому

      debbie gee And he also leaves out the scripture as to causing another to stumble. So embarrassing.

    • @AlwaysStephanie
      @AlwaysStephanie 6 років тому +1

      debbie gee no one is perfect

    • @MISSDEEDEVINE1
      @MISSDEEDEVINE1 6 років тому

      The Curliest Girl that is absolutely correct however, when you are a public figure AND professing man of God you have to step up your game.. This is messy and the God I serve is not messy. Perhaps the god he serves is

    • @BootyWarrior80892
      @BootyWarrior80892 6 років тому

      debbie gee save that bullshit because I can point out 4357622574213789053 things in the Bible you don’t follow, ignore or unaware of that you partake nevertheless all the atrocities in the Bible thatvyall sweep under the wrong but “god forbid” (no pun” two people who love each other to shackle before marriage like it’s going to end the world 🙄
      I swear you religious folks scrutinize some of the stupidest, futile shit that has no affect on your daily life and if I was god I don’t see why it would anger me either but I guess I think logically here

    • @MISSDEEDEVINE1
      @MISSDEEDEVINE1 6 років тому

      Logical Fallacy Detector it's obvious that you know neither the mind or the heart of God. It is perfectly okay that you disagree with me. We are both entitled to our opinions, which we both voiced . In the meantime you have a blessed day

  • @HebrewGyalJo
    @HebrewGyalJo 6 років тому +42

    No one follow them. Since he brought it up, the "Jewish" betrothal custom was actually the legal marriage between a couple. At the point of betrothal, the groom would offer a gift for the bride and the her and her family would accept, at that point she would be legally married to him and belong to him only. The wedding ceremony would come later. The betrothal was more important than the wedding at that time because of the "purchasing" of his bride. She still would live in her father's house though until the time of the ceremony.
    "At the betrothal the woman was legally married, although she still remained in her father’s house. She could not belong to another man unless she was divorced from her betrothed. The wedding meant only that the betrothed woman, accompanied by a colorful procession, was brought from her father’s house to the house of her groom, and the legal tie with him was consummated. ----- This betrothal was followed by the wedding, when the bride was brought into the home of the groom, who took actual possession of her." Source: www.myjewishlearning.com/article/ancient-jewish-marriage/

    • @joicefreeman
      @joicefreeman 6 років тому +3

      Hebrew Gyal Jo! - Teach! this is the truth about the process that's is missing. We know so little about our own culture.

    • @GiveYaLifeToJesus
      @GiveYaLifeToJesus 6 років тому +1

      Hebrew Gyal Jo! Thank you.. This is so helpful!!

    • @onlyoldnavy
      @onlyoldnavy 6 років тому

      Hebrew Gyal, I don't follow Hebrew customs the Messiah has already arrived and atoned for the sins of mankind. I don't know why Dietrich brought that up when he ascribeds to Christianity unless he's in the demonic Hebrew Roots movement now. Talk about twice dead and damned.

    • @joicefreeman
      @joicefreeman 6 років тому

      onlyoldnavy - My ppl perish from a lack of knowledge.
      Isn't Christianity's foundation suppose to be built upon the whole bible? Both old and new!
      Keeping marriage traditions, which should be drawn from the scritpures relate to the culture of the Hebrews. The bible describes the process when Joseph took Mary into his house as his wife.
      In regards to being dbl Damned.
      For those who believe the entire bible no further evidence is required. For the unbelievers no evidence no matter how compelling will be enough
      Romans 11:25 Lest you be self-opinionated (wise in your own conceits), I do not want you to miss this hidden truth and mystery, brethren: a hardening (insensibility) has [temporarily] befallen a part of Israel [to last] until the full number of the ingathering of the Gentiles has come in.
      Colossians 1:26 That Truth which has been hidden from former ages and generations. But now it has been revealed to God's People.
      Israel will be blind.....until
      Rev 14:12 - Here is the patience of the saints:
      1) here are they that keep "the commandments of God",
      2) and "the faith of Jesus".
      Matt 22:29 - Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God.
      Mark 8:11- The Pharisees came and began to question Jesus. To test him, they asked him for a sign from heaven.
      12 He sighed deeply and said, “Why does this generation ask for a sign? Truly I tell you, no sign will be given to it.” 13 Then he left them, got back into the boat and crossed to the other side.
      14The disciples had forgotten to bring bread, except for one loaf they had with them in the boat.
      15“Be careful,” Jesus warned them. “Watch out for the yeast of the Pharisees and that of Herod.
      2 Cor 11:22 - (Paul speaking) Are they Hebrews? So am I.
      Are they Israelites? So am I.
      Are they Abraham's descendants? So am I.
      Be careful not to be guilty of the leaven of the Pharisee so quick to Judge a move of God without honestly looking at what their saying. Be a good Berean.
      Acts 17:1 Now the Berean Jews were of more noble character than those in Thessalonica, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true.
      Was not Jesus and the diciples ministry in the face of traditional religion of that day.
      Jesus entire ministry was to reach the lost tribes of Israel and to fulfil prophecy.
      Though the Israelite movement is being rejected by Mainstream Christianity .....because of some of their foolishness.......
      Be careful not to misjudge a move of God in its infancy. Because it sounds strange and you don't understand it. Look beyond the rhetoric, look at the substance of it, look deeper. Check the scriptures to see if what they are saying is true.
      1 Corinthians 2:14 ) For the natural man is not able to take in the things of the Spirit of God: for they seem foolish to him, and he is not able to have knowledge of them, because such knowledge comes only through the Spirit.

    • @ceasercharisma1335
      @ceasercharisma1335 6 років тому

      This is exactly how it's done in my culture/tribe back home

  • @btrue1030
    @btrue1030 6 років тому +8

    HE'S CROOKED LIKE THOSE PICTURES ON HIS WALL.
    AND HE'S A PASTOR? SOUNDS FLESHY TO ME!

  • @newsflash1014
    @newsflash1014 6 років тому +2

    I encourage Marriage before living together. Thats really what the Lord wants for us. Once we sin, we should try to work towards becoming a unit. before sin gets worst.

  • @luvingg
    @luvingg 6 років тому +7

    All active and deliberate sinners have this same argument to self assure themselves that their actions are justified. Of course he said that. Why would he feel any different? He and his now wife’s shacked up and was having sex prior to marriage. I wouldn’t attend or follow him or his church. My pastor has something for ppl like him.

  • @KoziRootz
    @KoziRootz 6 років тому +24

    Um there was a lot of double talk and backpedaling, forward pedaling and side pedaling going on. I really could not follow what this whole thing was about. Im not sure what the point of this whole thing was either. LOL....19 minutes of.. "What is going on here"? The confusion really kicked in when his wife started talking, and God is not the author of confusion. So Im going to pray for both of them and while i'm at it ill go on and delete those few songs I have of him in my itunes. No buddy something ain't right.

  • @B.Christine_W222
    @B.Christine_W222 6 років тому +123

    Stay away from evil appearances Deitrick🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @shantelhobson6282
      @shantelhobson6282 6 років тому +2

      B. Christine without truth light god 1 Lord 1 baptism were all evil we serve a god but one we fall in mind sets Jesus compared it as the same sin
      what are the things you desired??🤔🤐😒😏😇🤗
      I don't agree with them but we re all falling short including everyone commenting some aren't real honest too accept their own flaws and imperfections

    • @chrissyshay8539
      @chrissyshay8539 6 років тому

      B. Christine why put yourself in tempting situations. You're setting yourself up to fornicate.

    • @aderlinejohnson8566
      @aderlinejohnson8566 6 років тому

      Shantel Hobson. he's a preacher which means he should follow the word fully

    • @aderlinejohnson8566
      @aderlinejohnson8566 6 років тому

      B. Christine. girl he is the evil

  • @ecshelheadley8869
    @ecshelheadley8869 4 роки тому +1

    Sex before marriage is a sin period yet majority of us do it

  • @mmalawasebilo
    @mmalawasebilo 5 років тому +1

    I'm not Christian or even religious at all but I was turned off by this. 1. The undermining of principles he claims to stand for. 2. The vanity - very evident in both of them. 3. Preaching what they couldn't practice. 4. The arrogance - Dominique could not slot in a word edgewise and she's humiliated. i suppose calling her First Lady covers it up smh Conmastery 101. Disappointed. I'm not Christian but if they say they are - God save them. they need more prayer than condemnation I suppose. So my Christian brothers and sisters, pray for your brother and sister.. "Don't leave them" in their time of need..