Footballer's Fiancée Goes WAY OVER BUDGET Spending Over $40,000! | Say Yes To The Dress

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  • @TheReelLifeOfStacey
    @TheReelLifeOfStacey Рік тому +2041

    You can’t convince me that there was ever really a budget. No one jumps from 6000 to over 7x that amount without batting an eye. THERE NEVER WAS A BUDGET!

    • @ambam562
      @ambam562 Рік тому +32

      That's exactly what I said!!

    • @rachelmm05
      @rachelmm05 Рік тому +65

      Exactly as soon as they (the Kleinfield staff) heard she was coming in and who her fiance was they automatically went to the ridiculously expensive section. Smh

    • @Midlife_Manical_Mayhem
      @Midlife_Manical_Mayhem Рік тому +36

      it'd be willing the groom set the budget before she left and the bride just smiled "whatever you say baby" and said, come on akeem, lets look fabulous.

    • @djjones7039
      @djjones7039 Рік тому +67

      @@rachelmm05no her “event planner/stylist” pulled the dress $26,100 if ya don’t recall 🙄

    • @TheReelLifeOfStacey
      @TheReelLifeOfStacey Рік тому +2

      @belltowndaisy and you sound like you have a hard time comprehending comments on UA-cam videos

  • @AFAskygoddess
    @AFAskygoddess Рік тому +3007

    Honestly, if I were to win a billion dollars in the lottery, I still couldn't justify spending $40K on two dresses that I would only wear one time. It's so wasteful.

    • @sunoori
      @sunoori Рік тому +100

      Idk with a billion I would 100% buy over the top expensive dresses

    • @susiegross1853
      @susiegross1853 Рік тому +14

      Me either

    • @mrfsealah
      @mrfsealah Рік тому +12

      Totally agree!

    • @elizabethn7024
      @elizabethn7024 Рік тому +29

      Me neither, All that money for 2 dresses crazy, I wore the same dress I got married in Church to our reception as well x

    • @michellemeyer1649
      @michellemeyer1649 Рік тому +15

      I literally just said to my husband. What a waste.

  • @AmyB369
    @AmyB369 Рік тому +798

    The consultant really owes that planner big time he increased her commission big time!

    • @sparklemotion86
      @sparklemotion86 Рік тому +38

      That was just insane. I think it was about the ego of the man who dresses her! He wanted her to spend more money!

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 11 місяців тому +6

      Yes, he certainly was right on Tamika’s taste.

    • @AshleyfromTX
      @AshleyfromTX 10 місяців тому +18

      Her husband is an NFL player, there’s no way in hell they didn’t plan to dramatize the whole appointment for the sake of the show. lol

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 10 місяців тому +23

      @@AshleyfromTX Well, they never married and are still together more than 12 years later. I don’t know if she ever got the dresses or paid to her planner.

    • @canucksgirl25
      @canucksgirl25 9 місяців тому +2

      She paid him $100k for his job with the wedding

  • @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja
    @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja Рік тому +445

    WE NEED FINANCIAL MATURITY BEFORE DECIDING TO GET MARRIED!!!

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому +17

      Exactly! That wreaked my cousin’s marriage. She was high maintenance and her husband was poor. Not a good combination at all which is why they did not last.

    • @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja
      @mohammadangginugrohomcjogja Рік тому +3

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Sorry to hear that!

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому +4

      @@mohammadangginugrohomcjogjaIt is sad but hopefully my cousin learned a lesson since she is with someone else now.

    • @suzannesenser607
      @suzannesenser607 Рік тому +4

      Well said!

    • @01379
      @01379 9 місяців тому +4

      That money could've easily gone to their son's college fund🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @malindarayallen
    @malindarayallen Рік тому +118

    When the person selling to you is uncomfortable with the expense, you know something's up.

  • @jeswainston
    @jeswainston Рік тому +553

    This wedding planner is real generous with someone else’s money….I hate him! LOL

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому +27

      Yes and he is not paying.

    • @viviangod_win
      @viviangod_win 10 місяців тому +32

      Fiancé probably agrees but honestly? I don’t think there was a budget. She didn’t bat an eye and planner was super confident. That’s not the behavior of people, especially a bride to be, who knows this is going to cause conflict and may even cause her the marriage proposal

    • @JudyBadd
      @JudyBadd 8 місяців тому

      Yeah he worked me😂

    • @juanitat2957
      @juanitat2957 7 місяців тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 rite 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @knequestrian93
    @knequestrian93 Рік тому +564

    My sister's entire wedding cost a little less than the second dress. $40k on the dress(es) alone? That to me is insane

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Рік тому

      my entire wedding cost less than some of the cheap dresses in kleinfeld's, some of these brides have more money than brain cells.

    • @amesappreciated5823
      @amesappreciated5823 Рік тому +3

      My cousin’s catering cost 38k not even including the ceremony.
      …I was trying to put on a reception for a tenth of the catering price. But our reception never happened. As it was, my divorce was more than ten times of my wedding itself. 2k.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому +4

      Exactly and those marriages usually end up in divorce a short time later.

    • @rainbowpride4766
      @rainbowpride4766 Рік тому +4

      I went to a Indian wedding(Indian and western) that cost less. This included accomodation and flight tickets for family too. Lol

    • @iriemo721
      @iriemo721 Рік тому +6

      If they can afford it or aren’t asking you to pay for it, what does it matter?

  • @nancysmith4529
    @nancysmith4529 Рік тому +375

    From 6000 to 40000. That’s crazy amount of money for two dresses. I wonder what the future groom will think about the prices. He better have a long career with her taste.

    • @udhaya1srinivasan198
      @udhaya1srinivasan198 Рік тому +24

      It's also better for that family to give up Hakim.

    • @robinking6342
      @robinking6342 9 місяців тому

      It's akeem but yeah ​@@udhaya1srinivasan198

    • @mmm_1927
      @mmm_1927 6 місяців тому +4

      She had her own businesses and career at this time. Not just his income.

    • @alymetz2020
      @alymetz2020 6 місяців тому +2

      @@udhaya1srinivasan198all he did was pick out what he knew she’d like. SHE decided to spend that money.

  • @jeswainston
    @jeswainston Рік тому +280

    The groom obviously likes/wants a high maintenance woman, many men in the spotlight want this as she’s good for his public image and he feels he deserves someone like that.

    • @HannHio-kv1ky
      @HannHio-kv1ky Рік тому +24

      Imagine being so sad you marry someone for our public image rather than love
      Anyways he probably just wants to make her happy

    • @jeswainston
      @jeswainston Рік тому +18

      @@HannHio-kv1ky I totally agree, it’s why so many famous marriages fail (not all obviously) but they marry for publicity or public image or career boost, and then in a few years it’s over. I’m sure he wants to make her happy and she will be for awhile, until he makes her unhappy then the fights start and pretty divorce.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Рік тому +25

      @@jeswainston he'll make her happy until he runs out of money

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому +8

      That is why many of those marriages never last or are blissful. They are too superficial and money oriented. There is a saying, a man’s character is tested when he is rich and a woman’s character is tested when she is poor.

    • @JJ-zh9fm
      @JJ-zh9fm Рік тому +5

      Soo.. basically a trophy wife?

  • @kwest5171
    @kwest5171 Рік тому +326

    A wedding planner with a cracked phone, lol. No sir.

    • @daliaruiz7276
      @daliaruiz7276 Рік тому +10

      😂😂😂😂 right

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому

      He was an idiot!

    • @itsknotmagic
      @itsknotmagic 11 місяців тому +9

      Maybe he's just starting out?

    • @kwest5171
      @kwest5171 11 місяців тому +11

      @@itsknotmagic Not an excuse. I want a professionally planned wedding by a wedding planning professional. If you can't take care of your phone or go as far as to replace a broken one, I can't trust you with my wedding.
      And even if he just broke it, leave that cracked phone in your pocket or briefcase. Don't be bringing it out in public. A nice notebook will suffice.

    • @dominiquejenkins5495
      @dominiquejenkins5495 9 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jeswainston
    @jeswainston Рік тому +357

    And the fact that the bride doesn’t really know what she wants is also a problem. I feel bad for Randy and the team.

    • @me2cb488
      @me2cb488 Рік тому +30

      Why feel bad for the team? In fact this is a nice surprise to them. It’s an unexpected big sale. A sale is a sale and the bride is very happy. Everyone wins.

    • @jeswainston
      @jeswainston Рік тому

      @@me2cb488 a big sale that comes with a big headache…I’ve done sales, it’s never worth it.

    • @scooterbaby1
      @scooterbaby1 Рік тому +12

      i feel bad for the dudes bank account she just tore thru

  • @zjjir
    @zjjir 9 місяців тому +98

    whew the vocal fry on the girls at the end.. killing me

    • @foxjacket
      @foxjacket 8 місяців тому +6

      Me too! The red shoes were gorgeous though

    • @mstines
      @mstines 7 місяців тому +14

      Me too!! And the elongated vowels, the uptalk and also wordchoice.. Urrgh, she sounds like she's in high school...

    • @gillianferrara6209
      @gillianferrara6209 7 місяців тому +9

      i was looking for a comment that mentioned this, lmao

    • @fatengh5946
      @fatengh5946 6 місяців тому +5

      omg that drove me crazy!!! why they gotta elongate the last letter in every sentence??!!

    • @Laura_heart
      @Laura_heart 4 місяці тому +3

      Yes I cringed soo much, why are they speaking like that?😭

  • @a.schmidt3096
    @a.schmidt3096 Рік тому +92

    The bride seems to just be doing along with what her event planners say, doesn’t have her own opinion, won’t stand up for herself even though they are working for her and totally disregarding her budget…it’s hard to watch

  • @jenniferbene
    @jenniferbene Рік тому +642

    Spending x10 over her budget for 2 dresses… their marriage won’t last long. Sickening to spend $28,000 for a dress you wear for 1 hour.

    • @figmo397
      @figmo397 Рік тому +52

      She's marrying a pro football player. From what I've heard, brides of professional athletes are expected to go over the top with their weddings.

    • @marty0063
      @marty0063 Рік тому +38

      They’ve also been together for 12 years or more and have a child or children.

    • @jh76103
      @jh76103 Рік тому +54

      ​@@marty0063Around the 1:15 mark she says they've been together 4.5 years with a small son.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому +37

      @@figmo397That is BS to me and it is like saying an engagement ring has to cost at least $10,000. You can spend a little or a lot like you want but who said you had to spend that much regardless of who you marry. It is not a requirement.

    • @Johnnohn
      @Johnnohn Рік тому +15

      What’s wrong with you . Why’d you say that for someone. Just because you cannot afford it doesn’t means no one should buy it. Your mindset is sickening!

  • @TightyWhiteyTrash
    @TightyWhiteyTrash Рік тому +18

    1st bride’s voice is soft & delicate. I feel like she could have a nice singing voice. Especially when describing her man. Not the 2nd one tho. 7:00 “Oct. seeehhcond.”

  • @vidaholmes
    @vidaholmes 10 місяців тому +30

    He's trying to dress for himself 😂😂😂😂😂 you feel me 😂😂

  • @sunflowerbaby1853
    @sunflowerbaby1853 Рік тому +117

    I would prefer a $40,000 diamond wedding ring.

    • @01379
      @01379 9 місяців тому +24

      $40K in gold and/or property would be even better

    • @jourdorae3229
      @jourdorae3229 3 місяці тому +1

      Agreed! If we’re spending 40k on an apparel item make it my wedding ring!

  • @ravenkushner
    @ravenkushner Рік тому +199

    I think this is one of the little-talked-about reasons why so many athletes go broke.

    • @sharisss2608
      @sharisss2608 10 місяців тому +19

      It’s always talked about that’s why they call the wives gold diggers. Most time when they find love after getting successful this happens. Most smart athletes lock their wife down before college is done.

    • @oldageisdumb
      @oldageisdumb 9 місяців тому +19

      It’s not the wives… it’s what happens when you take people out of a poor socioeconomic background and suddenly give them millions of dollars. They have no concept how to budget/save/spend responsibly because it’s something they never dealt with. You don’t hear about it in baseball because baseball is a rich man’s sport where athletes buy their way into the game ( and if you don’t believe me, then you’ve never had a kid in competitive baseball through the high school level)

    • @cheymac7633
      @cheymac7633 7 місяців тому +11

      She is actually a close very friend of mine. I know her personally. She bought those two dresses that day with her money because she is also very successful. I guess you just assumed that her husband was paying for it because he's an athlete. It seems as though you've never known successful black people before. I'm pretty sure her son has more funds then you right now. I'll leave it at that, have a blessed day! 🙌🏾

    • @cherishisgrace
      @cherishisgrace 7 місяців тому +1

      ​​@@oldageisdumbYes you do, you just don't want to hear about, there have been plenty of baseball players who have gone broke.
      Also, you thinking everyone who goes broke is from a poor socioeconomic background is HILARIOUS, there are individuals who are from a wealthy background, who can't manage their money.

    • @cherishisgrace
      @cherishisgrace 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@cheymac7633 Exactly, the person above assumed they were from a poor socioeconomic background and lacks money management skills, and we all know where that conclusion came from.

  • @AS-yz2iz
    @AS-yz2iz Рік тому +63

    Oooh my goooooshaaa...the last girls were like, sooo annooooyingggga....

  • @berthagreen1620
    @berthagreen1620 Рік тому +127

    Omg. What a spoiled girl. Budget is 6000.00 and she spends so much more. Poor guy better have a great career.

    • @queensheem3337
      @queensheem3337 Рік тому +5

      Agreed , I think she sees the price and automatically want it

    • @beverlythacker4426
      @beverlythacker4426 10 місяців тому +3

      Hopefully he is smart and got a prenup done as well!!

    • @chriscampbell6272
      @chriscampbell6272 5 місяців тому

      If you listened he's a pro football player for the Atlanta falcons. So yes he has money.

  • @marysheffield190
    @marysheffield190 Рік тому +60

    Hakim was a horrible wedding planner, simply by disregarding her fiancé’s budget. I wonder if those two will still get married after he see’s his CC bill?

    • @AnoinTingsFlow
      @AnoinTingsFlow 11 місяців тому +6

      He's giving a high priced scammer. Her wedding is a come up for him

  • @SavannahSteel
    @SavannahSteel 5 місяців тому +5

    That first dress is absolutely gorgeous on her! Soft yet dramatic. Perfect.

  • @hlondon2408
    @hlondon2408 Рік тому +115

    Honestly, the skirt looks like a glob of cake frosting. This dress is so overwhelming that it distracts from the bride's face. I actually started to count all those flowers.

    • @RuthNdawana
      @RuthNdawana 11 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @happylucky7354
      @happylucky7354 6 місяців тому +3

      I think its spectacular

    • @UnscrupulousAgitator
      @UnscrupulousAgitator 6 місяців тому

      I love it!
      She has the personality to wear it.
      Me? I'd be invisible 😂

  • @SalkisRe
    @SalkisRe Рік тому +268

    The expensive dresses never fail to disappoint. Ugly must go with the extra fabric from these costumes

  • @ladyjustice1474
    @ladyjustice1474 Рік тому +141

    The groom needs to run far and run fast. $40,000? I could buy a used car and still have money left over. The idea of spending that on 2 dresses your only wearing once makes me feel extremely uneasy.

    • @kitcat9245
      @kitcat9245 Рік тому +20

      He used to play for the NFL my guy. He’s investing in the mother of his kids and his partner for life- he can afford it!!!

    • @KaylaBuhdayla
      @KaylaBuhdayla Рік тому +22

      You could buy a NEW car and have money left over.

    • @Alinasinging
      @Alinasinging Рік тому +16

      I think he has to run from Akeem 😂 she’s easily influenced

    • @Alinasinging
      @Alinasinging Рік тому +4

      I’d like to be able to afford dresses with the price tag like that (I don’t like any of them though), but I’d never spend that much money on a dress

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Рік тому +19

      @@kitcat9245 key word: USED TO. don't assume he's making the same bank as he was in his prime. also women aren't "investments" wtf???

  • @riennekoh3901
    @riennekoh3901 Рік тому +26

    A wedding planner who does not take clients' budget into consideration is unprofessional and reckless. Hope his clients have all that money. If the wedding dresses exceed budget just to fit his ideal vision, I would hazard a guess that other wedding items may very well exceed budget too.

  • @dillonsullivan5063
    @dillonsullivan5063 Рік тому +9

    The girls at the end sounded like Valley Girls. WAY!!!

  • @lpruitt4163
    @lpruitt4163 Рік тому +46

    More money than sense. Weddings are way over the top these days when I was married “back in the day” my dress was on sale for $100 it was originally $500 and that was fifty years ago. It was a beautiful gown and I still have it to this day.

    • @mariacherrington61920
      @mariacherrington61920 Рік тому

      🥰 congratulations on 50 years of wedded bliss ♥️

    • @thehungrygoldfish
      @thehungrygoldfish Рік тому +3

      I got married one second ago and my dress was 20 cents! The original dress was 500,billion! Beat that, Grandma!

    • @ohno-wi1vb
      @ohno-wi1vb 10 місяців тому +4

      In today’s dollars, your dress was originally $2884 but you bought it for $577

  • @Kittyxandra19
    @Kittyxandra19 11 місяців тому +12

    The second bride is so 2010s it’s painful

  • @mtspp5801
    @mtspp5801 Рік тому +19

    Hakeem isn't much of a stylist if he can't do his job without blowing out the client's budget.

  • @vsbaretummysugastonguetech1540
    @vsbaretummysugastonguetech1540 Рік тому +42

    5k is the avg price of a wedding dress. Her fiancée most likely makes millions, and they’ll be in the limelight, unlike regular brides. 40k is totally justifiable, imo.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому +11

      Who said any wedding dress had to cost $5000? My friend bought a nice one for only $980. My other friend got a beautiful one for only $400.

    • @oldageisdumb
      @oldageisdumb 9 місяців тому +2

      I would love to see the stats to back up your comment. If you google it (I totally did lol) the average dress in the U.S. (where this show takes place) is $1000-$1900

    • @faithbustos611
      @faithbustos611 4 місяці тому

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjI spent $2,800 on mine lol.. it’s all personal preference..

  • @Lilohilo97
    @Lilohilo97 Рік тому +46

    this is one of my favorite episodes! Both dressing are beautiful and I love the rose skirt theme and the slightly ivory and slightly silver colors. I need an unlimited budget too 😂

  • @shellykevinbaumgartner7612
    @shellykevinbaumgartner7612 Рік тому +35

    Spending 24k on a dress she'll wear for 2 hours only to change into another for the reception. Ridiculous.
    I wish her fiance luck.

    • @inomu9129
      @inomu9129 Рік тому

      “I wish her fiancé luck” ☠️? The fiance was the one that picked them out

    • @firebenderkitty313
      @firebenderkitty313 Рік тому +7

      @@inomu9129that wasn’t her fiancé. That was her stylist/friend.

    • @lisafreebairn7736
      @lisafreebairn7736 10 місяців тому +2

      It is absurd to go this much over the budget.

  • @KMC597
    @KMC597 Рік тому +31

    That’s not the wedding, that’s the dress......

  • @jeswainston
    @jeswainston Рік тому +56

    Oh dear, Hakeem involving himself so much…well, this is what you get when you let someone else plan your wedding.

    • @laurellane1721
      @laurellane1721 Рік тому +4

      She could have said no.

    • @jeswainston
      @jeswainston Рік тому +2

      @@laurellane1721 lol how can she say no when she doesn’t even know what she wants?

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому +1

      I would plan everything myself and keep it simple.

    • @happylucky7354
      @happylucky7354 6 місяців тому

      ​@@jeswainstonshe does actually

    • @jeswainston
      @jeswainston 6 місяців тому

      @@happylucky7354 lol I don’t care!

  • @SayYestotheDress
    @SayYestotheDress  Рік тому +2

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  • @hcklberypinkbrownies5170
    @hcklberypinkbrownies5170 Рік тому +15

    And he has a cracked phone. Wow. What a wedding planner.

  • @jemma-joon
    @jemma-joon Рік тому +15

    7:32 bride pulls the words awfully. Expecteeeeed

    • @mstines
      @mstines 7 місяців тому +1

      The vocal fry, elongated vowels, uptalk, word choices. She sounds so immature when she talks.

  • @Ksenia1988-e7z
    @Ksenia1988-e7z Рік тому +27

    No way I would spend so much money on two, even one wedding dress. But it's not my money...^^ However, I would kick out the weddingplaner haha

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому

      At our weddings, we would wear 3-4 dresses but they of course would not cost anywhere close to this much. My former friend spent only around $2000 for all 4 of her dresses and they were all nice too.

    • @laurellane1721
      @laurellane1721 Рік тому +1

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Why so many dresses?

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому +1

      @@laurellane1721It is a part of our culture. The white wedding dress is for the ceremony. The cake cutting gown is for cutting the cake and dancing. The other is a wedding dress from our culture and we wear that when greeting each table. If you marry a guy from another culture, then you wear a wedding dress from his culture that you can wear during the tea ceremony or when you dance.

    • @laurellane1721
      @laurellane1721 Рік тому +1

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Thank you for your explanation. Is it alright if I ask which culture? Since you mentioned tea ceremony, I'm thinking Japan?

  • @marloespeters8404
    @marloespeters8404 Рік тому +19

    I don't like the weddingplanner 2:27 the bride has to wear the dress and have her dreamdress

  • @sureillbethere
    @sureillbethere Рік тому +45

    Ok, would have been good to do one of those follow up clips. If the fiance could have afforded 40,000 then they wouldn't have walked in with 6. 🤔 (I also think Hakeens styling career might be shorter than he wants if he's blowing budgets like that 😬)

  • @beccaadams6168
    @beccaadams6168 5 місяців тому +1

    That rainbow dress at the end was always one of my favorites. I love when people do unique dresses that aren’t too ridiculous that they wind up looking like a costume. And I remember their wedding being very young and fun with everyone wearing cute sunglasses and holding pinwheels down by the water’s edge.

  • @MadMadamGrimm
    @MadMadamGrimm Рік тому +19

    I hope the planner is helping to pay for both dresses. Sheesh.

  • @Na_weid
    @Na_weid Рік тому +8

    That's the budget of a full wedding and honeymoon lol

  • @thayeramar-garrett7331
    @thayeramar-garrett7331 Рік тому +14

    Gown shopping is for the bride...never take an entourage of critics, it's the bride's day and choice period!!!

  • @melissajones1564
    @melissajones1564 11 місяців тому +10

    $25,000 for a damn dress is freakin ridiculous

  • @dietotaku
    @dietotaku Рік тому +43

    oh my god do those changing room doors not have locks?! the nerve of that man busting in on a ladies' changing room because he's so far up himself he can't let them talk about what the bride wants without his opinion being heard. it worked to TAMIKA'S benefit?! because she spent 4x her budget on ONE dress? no, honey, that was to YOUR benefit, for that obscene commission you just made. god help that poor fiance.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Рік тому +5

      i LOVE the rainbow sparkle tulle dress, though, but i think it looked better with her original shoes

  • @flagal519
    @flagal519 Рік тому +95

    The two gowns she chose, were really beautiful and LOOKED expensive. Her fiance is in the NFL and probably money was no object, plus this wedding, no doubt, was going to be filled with NFL players, team owners and celebrities as well....and videos and photos live on forever ! She looked polished, classy and rich.

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 11 місяців тому +3

      Absolutely right.

    • @catgirl6803
      @catgirl6803 8 місяців тому +5

      A lot of NFL players go bankrupt because they spend lavishly and then something happens that ends their career. It’s hard for them to get other jobs because football is all they focused on. They get paid so much because they need to earn enough for their entire lifetime within a short amount of time.

    • @SS-qx7nh
      @SS-qx7nh 8 місяців тому +3

      Most NFL players are not at all as rich as they think they are. Most don’t make big bucks for many years and/or go on to broadcast careers. An injury can ruin them. It’s sad, really.

    • @emeraldeleven8197
      @emeraldeleven8197 Місяць тому

      ​@@catgirl6803she is an actress and has her own money.

  • @karenacton3854
    @karenacton3854 Рік тому +45

    I truly hope her honey is aware of what she spent 😳😳

  • @1cannedpeaches
    @1cannedpeaches Рік тому +33

    The two girls at the end were adorable I love their friendship 😂❤

    • @BricksBricks
      @BricksBricks Рік тому +6

      Those 2 girls were not the brightest bulbs on the Christmas tree....

    • @thehungrygoldfish
      @thehungrygoldfish Рік тому

      @@BricksBricksBrighter than you at least! 😂

    • @oldageisdumb
      @oldageisdumb 9 місяців тому +3

      I could not handle their voices

  • @wallaced.2243
    @wallaced.2243 Рік тому +8

    Omfgggg the second brides voice is killing me

  • @shawnshawntheleprecaun4887
    @shawnshawntheleprecaun4887 6 місяців тому +3

    Jillian likes Hakim too because he's gonna get her a huge commission. 😀😀😀

  • @NH-tb2sm
    @NH-tb2sm Рік тому +9

    Whenever a bride brings her stylist the stylist is always dressed like an out of style circus clown.

  • @donnaparker6409
    @donnaparker6409 Рік тому +48

    He should leave her before they get married. High maintenance

    • @julieoliva8615
      @julieoliva8615 Рік тому

      But he chose the dress

    • @marloespeters8404
      @marloespeters8404 Рік тому +5

      4 times the budget whuttttt 😱😭 and then comes the second dress for the party Oh my goodness

    • @HannHio-kv1ky
      @HannHio-kv1ky Рік тому +1

      Not high maintenance💀
      Is she a car?

    • @donnaparker6409
      @donnaparker6409 Рік тому +3

      @@julieoliva8615 not him .. believe the guy was her wedding planner

    • @donnaparker6409
      @donnaparker6409 Рік тому +4

      @@HannHio-kv1ky it’s a saying when people have expensive tastes that they are high maintenance

  • @andreamorgan5945
    @andreamorgan5945 Рік тому +18

    For all of us wondering, I’ve googled a lot and neither Tamika or her fiancé mention being married these days. The only credit listed for both is their son.
    Are any of us really shocked?

  • @kimberpas2907
    @kimberpas2907 Рік тому +79

    Judging by the size of her gorgeous ring and being with her fiancée for over four years the bride knew her budget was unlimited…and why not? If one can afford it, get what you want. Best wishes to them.

    • @carmeng5421
      @carmeng5421 Рік тому +1

      I dont agree. It's just ONE DAY!! At least the ring is forever!

    • @kimberpas2907
      @kimberpas2907 Рік тому +5

      @@carmeng5421 ultimately, it’s her wedding and her & fiancées decision on what they could afford.

    • @shendisackett
      @shendisackett Рік тому +1

      ​@@kimberpas2907I think the budget was unlimited but she didn't want to say that as she wanted to see a range of dresses. If you tell sales people unlimited they will try to sell you the whole store!

    • @kimberpas2907
      @kimberpas2907 Рік тому +1

      @@shendisackett well of course they do lol…they most likely work on commission.

    • @shendisackett
      @shendisackett Рік тому

      @@kimberpas2907 I know that which is why I wrote that the bride just didn't want to say unlimited.

  • @annacerrone6396
    @annacerrone6396 Рік тому +15

    Second bride is so bloody annoying with how she stretches every word I just can’t watch it

  • @--_-_-_-74..
    @--_-_-_-74.. Рік тому +12

    The first dress was awesome but the bottom should come off for a whole new look ... Then you only need one dress..

  • @elizaharr
    @elizaharr Рік тому +3

    Just as well the second bride's friend had telepathic senses, they could have been there all day picking shoes ;-)

  • @Chanelnumber7394
    @Chanelnumber7394 Рік тому +2

    It’s nice to see that regardless of the the stylist it was the consultant who picked the 1st right dress for her

  • @catherinesmalley8587
    @catherinesmalley8587 Рік тому +187

    That's shocking! 😮 Those dresses were awful! As if he would know what's best for the bride...he obviously didn't! She had no clue what she wanted but how can she have any opinions of her own when he just takes over and does what he wants?!! Spending all that money on one dress, let alone two! Hope he was paying... The only people benefitting here were Kleinfelds - I bet Randy was rubbing his hands with glee!
    And as for the second bride...her voice was so annoying! The way she elongated the last syllable of every last word of a sentence was just cringeworthy! 😬

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird Рік тому +4

      Event planners generally go for the audacious

    • @gabygaby5701
      @gabygaby5701 Рік тому

      Her and her friend are insufferable. Super annoying

    • @gizmo8361
      @gizmo8361 Рік тому +15

      “better than I expectaaaaaaaaaaddd”

    • @cathybaldry7822
      @cathybaldry7822 Рік тому +12

      Umm no this planner had spent enough time with her to know exactly what she was looking for and not have their time wasted. It was clear that the consultant from the store was not so good at reading the bride as every dress she chose was a dud for the bride where as Every dress Akeem picked was a winner. This planner knows his job and is very good at it

  • @lauraevans555
    @lauraevans555 Рік тому +14

    Someone please for gods sake stop bringing along these so called designers, i really just want to scream at the screen

  • @lisaperea5151
    @lisaperea5151 Рік тому +9

    If she had a budget and goes over budget, it would be disrespectful, especially if it's not her money.

  • @laurenl.8799
    @laurenl.8799 Рік тому +1

    The fitting rainbow dress: tell me you got married in 2010’s without telling me you got married in 2010’s

  • @alexrusso6503
    @alexrusso6503 Рік тому +8

    The worst thing is im sure they have a similar dress for much less. Of course its not gonna be that ornate but when the budget was $6k for both and now we are looking at $25k just for 1 something is wrong. Only if all those other similar dresses fail and the birde oks it should those kinda dresses be pulled.

  • @cathybaldry7822
    @cathybaldry7822 Рік тому +37

    Akeem really knows his clients very very well. I would consider him for the job of wedding planner

    • @bonniemcmaken3966
      @bonniemcmaken3966 Рік тому +14

      I would if I didn't care about blowing my budget.

    • @jenniferchildears5355
      @jenniferchildears5355 10 місяців тому +1

      But she’s been to 6 stores already…..if he knew she’d be done at the first store.

  • @mellowqueen7838
    @mellowqueen7838 Рік тому +1

    The wedding planner phone is broken?? How well off is he if his basic ass phone is broke?!!! He’s just acting likes he’s all that😅

  • @majamarple8936
    @majamarple8936 Рік тому +10

    That second briiiiideee,and her frieeeeends 😳 were talking so annoyingly that I couldn't listen 😳

  • @CeltycSparrow
    @CeltycSparrow 10 місяців тому +1

    HOWWW does this bride choose a dress that is FOUR TIMES what her budget is...and yet, she STILL wants ANOTHER dress on top of the one she's paying $25,000 for....and then, we have Rainbow Brite getting married downstairs in a rainbow tulle gown and candy apple red pumps.

  • @mns24
    @mns24 Рік тому +9

    This is maddening. Why would she let the planner take over? This guy made it worse

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 11 місяців тому

      No. He knew what she liked and delivered.

  • @angelic8026
    @angelic8026 9 місяців тому +1

    The first bride doesn't have a mind of her own. She just picks whichever her stylist chose for her.

  • @cristina709
    @cristina709 Рік тому +2

    I would love the commission on that sale 😂

  • @KatAnne17
    @KatAnne17 Рік тому +6

    Their money is not going to last long with spending on dresses that carelessly.

  • @Shr00mbunny
    @Shr00mbunny Рік тому +5

    Why does everyone care so much how much they spent, it’s their own damn money! Y’all ain’t entitled to say where THEIR money goes 😂😂

  • @firesignstudio
    @firesignstudio Рік тому +10

    Wow. Love the first dress. The second is amazing too.... but i'd rather put a down payment on a vacation house. 🤺

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku Рік тому +3

      i've seen houses for sale for less than that. they're usually small and need repairs, and tend to be out in the sticks but a whole-ass house for $40k, yes please

  • @donnac.1609
    @donnac.1609 Рік тому +8

    The future husband better keep making big money. Seems like his future wife has very expensive test with zero concern for holding back!

  • @mirjammirjam2435
    @mirjammirjam2435 Рік тому +4

    2 minutes in... and Hakeem needs to know his place.

  • @shawnshawntheleprecaun4887
    @shawnshawntheleprecaun4887 6 місяців тому +1

    Part of the NFL training are classes/lessons about these kind of women. But not about their wedding planning best friend. 😂

  • @michellejalbert-deen1329
    @michellejalbert-deen1329 Рік тому +5

    Our WHOLE WEDDING was under $5000!

  • @shawnshawntheleprecaun4887
    @shawnshawntheleprecaun4887 6 місяців тому +1

    See her face when Randy said $24,000? She has no rules. Zero. $15,000 reception dress!!! Wut!? $6000 budget.
    Run footballer run.

  • @MysticDawnASMR
    @MysticDawnASMR Рік тому +13

    Regardless how much money I have do you know what I could do with the amount she spent on just the one of those dresses?

    • @evelynbonner3908
      @evelynbonner3908 Рік тому +2

      I hear you, girl.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Рік тому +2

      I agree and even if I was wealthy, I can’t ever spend so much on a dress I will only wear once.

  • @sherburck
    @sherburck Рік тому +2

    Love the first dress…second not so much! But she is a beautiful bride and seems like a sweetheart

  • @korallynnchinn8679
    @korallynnchinn8679 Рік тому +3

    She spent literally double on 2 dresses than what I paid for my whole wedding and honeymoon

  • @callananddahlia
    @callananddahlia Рік тому +22

    She is crazy to spend so much on a dress and she’s gonna wear is for a day! This is insane.

    • @carmeng5421
      @carmeng5421 Рік тому

      There are alot of women like that!
      Some might have low self esteem if it takes one day of your life to make you feel so special.

  • @Lightcode
    @Lightcode 9 місяців тому

    There is an old saying “made for tv” and the entire experience of Tamika felt like a perfect example

  • @Therese88
    @Therese88 Рік тому +1

    How old is this episode? The second bride och friend outfits gave me such a 2004 vibe😂

  • @sharinej1324
    @sharinej1324 Рік тому +11

    40,000 for two dresses girl

  • @JoSimpson-gn4gs
    @JoSimpson-gn4gs Рік тому +6

    Think the wedding coordinator might have been on commission from a designer! Isn't it their job to keep to a budget? He was the one pulling the expensive dresses not the consultants....

  • @jyiahosbornes1461
    @jyiahosbornes1461 6 місяців тому +1

    Why are you guys hating?? She bought a dress she loves and can afford. My budget is around 15k and I don’t have nearly as much as her. The dress is the dress. Priceless 💛

  • @tinaakers1752
    @tinaakers1752 8 місяців тому +1

    Second Brides Dress looks like a Prom Dress

  • @dawnbaker9274
    @dawnbaker9274 Рік тому +10

    $40,000?!😮 I didn't earn that much in a year before I retired and I raised a kid.

  • @tobylouckes2514
    @tobylouckes2514 Рік тому +5

    Why would you pick such a gorgeous dress then take it off for another dress. That’s sad.

  • @lianasokara3963
    @lianasokara3963 Рік тому

    Well... The groom will have a heart attack 😂

  • @l.c.3150
    @l.c.3150 8 місяців тому +2

    What a waste of money.
    How does a budget of $6k become $40k??

  • @CatherineAnderson-k1w
    @CatherineAnderson-k1w Рік тому +5

    The wedding planner needs to pay for it if that's what he

  • @queenchaeyeon
    @queenchaeyeon Рік тому +4

    Randy to the rescue

  • @whitterbug
    @whitterbug Рік тому +7

    This is going to sound weird, but when I want to spend a lot of money (that I have available to spend) on something, I try to spend only half instead and either save the other half or donate it to charity. I feel so much better about a want (instead of need) large purchase when I donate or put into savings.

  • @sherryflaman3449
    @sherryflaman3449 Рік тому +2

    Im a wedding and event coordinator and the most important part of my job is to stay within or under budget. Im sorry but he really did not do his job. Not cool!!

  • @mmm_1927
    @mmm_1927 6 місяців тому

    The second bride! The way she talked drove me insane

  • @Pech9
    @Pech9 День тому

    I think the rainbow dress would have looked better with the white top layer hiked up on one side or something to show off the layers underneath a bit more