YES, YES AND YES! he does not notice and if he did, I don't think he would care. His eyebrows are crazy and he thinks it's funny when the hairdresser clips them. If he's not working he dresses like a homeless person, and honestly if I'm working hard I don't think about it either and he doesn't seem to care. You make me laugh sometimes at the similarities.
Even recently I started doing something like wearing pj's for 3 days in a row. He must notice, yet says nothing. Just accepts it. In some ways I don't think they're as judgmental the way other people can be.
@myntndmarriage absolutely agree 100% I've come to learn that when he says something doesn't matter, he means it. He's way less concerned with the little things than most people are, that is a good thing a lot of the time. He doesn't think about things as deep as most people do, very defined black and white thoughts. If I said the guy looked sad, he would reply, why do you say that? Sometimes the reply would be... he didn't say that, don't assume it, I see now that's mind blindness, before that I would say what are you talking about just look at the guy 🤣
YES, YES AND YES! he does not notice and if he did, I don't think he would care. His eyebrows are crazy and he thinks it's funny when the hairdresser clips them. If he's not working he dresses like a homeless person, and honestly if I'm working hard I don't think about it either and he doesn't seem to care. You make me laugh sometimes at the similarities.
Even recently I started doing something like wearing pj's for 3 days in a row. He must notice, yet says nothing. Just accepts it. In some ways I don't think they're as judgmental the way other people can be.
@myntndmarriage absolutely agree 100% I've come to learn that when he says something doesn't matter, he means it. He's way less concerned with the little things than most people are, that is a good thing a lot of the time. He doesn't think about things as deep as most people do, very defined black and white thoughts. If I said the guy looked sad, he would reply, why do you say that? Sometimes the reply would be... he didn't say that, don't assume it, I see now that's mind blindness, before that I would say what are you talking about just look at the guy 🤣