MY JOURNEY TO MARRIAGE AND SURROGACY (Full Interview)
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- Biola Adebayo opened it all in this exclusive interview on how the milestones in her life were made possible through personal efforts and of course the intervention of the creator. Nothing but truth laden, intriguing and lessons to learn from... ENJOY!
Thank you for blessing us with your story but one important question the interviewer didn’t ask is “how did your inlaw receive the surrogacy news?” Please share; it will go a long way in enlightening our parents and in-laws too because they play a major role too in this decision. Thank you.
Sorry we skipped that part, it was actually my sister in law that suggested it first, she even sort for the number of a particular surrogate agent but couldn’t use them because they were too expensive until my friend introduced me to the doctor that did this.
After the 1st failed attempt, I didn’t tell my sister in law anything until the last one and we’re already at 32 weeks before mentioned it to her.
I’m just blessed with amazing in laws, through out my waiting period, none of them asked me a single question(not even his dad) they only prayed along with us.
We broke the news to them the day our baby came and till today, all they do is check up on their son, pray for us and support us. There was never any serious questioning from any of the family members both mine and his, there were no pressure at all.
Honestly I couldn’t have asked for a better in laws.
@@abiolaadebayo1 You’re blessed sis,God’s blessings and protection on your family..♥️🥰
Oh wow your indeed bless. 😘😘
Congratulations sis. and thanks for sharing, this is very encouraging.
Congratulations again ❤❤❤ thank you for counting us worthy of your story.
I have loved you since eyin oka, and i still do❤ may God forever bless your home 🙏
Thanks so much Aunty Biola I really appreciate you may God watch over Ur family 🙏.. I knw one day I'll tell my story too...I'll be 38 by August... I've been married for 8yrs And I've never been pregnant in my entire life I waited this long bcos my husband and I can't afford surrogacy and ivf is said to be 50/50. But as God will have it, I'm in my second trimester as I type...you see when it's ur time eh, even your clock will work without ba3
Thank you Jesus! I rejoice with you ma’am
Awwwww
Congratulations to you ma
Am so happy for you
Your testimony shall be permanent in Jesus name❤❤❤❤❤
The Joy shall be permanent
Hallelujah, safe delivery in Jesus name ❤
Congratulations.... you joy shall be full❤❤😊
Thank you everyone for the love. If you need my surrogate Doctor’s number, kindly send me a dm on my Instagram page. Please just go straight to the point and ask for the contact, I’ll gladly share with you. I won’t be able to answer too many questions but trust me the doctor will educate you more. God bless you all.
This woman is actually a blessings I like he the fact that she enlightened woman out there God bless you and keep your family happy 😆 we love you asha mum
I am so happy for you. I served in Mr Seyi's company and I can attest he is a good man
Thank God for you. Ma.
Can l have your instagram link
I need the advise from the doctor.
I need the doctor's number.God bless you🙏
congrats my dear- u are a very honest person. May almighty God bless u kore n more and answer all ur silent prayers. you are a good ROLE MODEL for your generation
No wonder. She's a born again Christian, no wonder she's so proper, so sane, so matured. One of Nigeria's best actors. Very intelligent too. To the interviewer, please please and please stop saying "permit me to..." you are in charge, you don't ask anyone, nobody, for permission. YOU ARE IN CHARGE!. It's like you're a driver, there are people in the bus, you're asking your passengers to permit you to apply the brakes, or change speed or indicate when you're to change lanes, you don't, you just do what is necessary.
You are a very organized person. I don’t blame you for not sharing with people.I did IVF five times. The fourth one worked, but I lost the pregnancy very early. The fifth one yielded my beautiful and blessed son. Thank God for the wisdom He has given doctors and researchers.
I wish my self and husband can afford ivf,I know God will bless my womb this year
I'm happy for you❤❤❤❤
@bukolaolanike2688 Amen.
May God answer your prayers.
@@bukolaolanike2688 Amen, in Jesus’ Name.
@@favourmercy2048 Thank you…😘
Biola, I blessed God for your life. Thank you for coming out to share your surrogacy journey.
I have a similar experience. I have been married twice and non produce any baby. I was single and decided to explore the surrogacy route. Guess what? I got two girls out of it.
My prayers for you is that the Lord will give you and your husband peace in your union.
Greetings.
This is very impactful Aunty Biola!!!Thank you for sharing this beautiful story with us,especially we the TTC Mother..I have had to do IUI twice,and it failed,it’s a lot for me and my husband,it’s 4yrs in our marriage and we are still trying…We looking up to God for the fruit of the womb are going through a lot,but people don’t understand…You cant be too happy,you can’t dress nice,you can’t post people’s babies in peace…They always look at you as not being serious with having a child…Someone even asked me Don’t I want to give birth??? I laughed and replied how can you even ask me that…People aren’t sensitive about this issues…I pray God Answers us all looking for the fruit of the womb!!We shall be celebrated soon
Amen!!!❤️❤️❤️
Hmmmm 😢😢 this is me.... It's been 5 years. I pray God answer us and wipe our tears with twins/triplet 🙏
Amen
@@adebayoaderonke7043 Amen!!!!Wont he do it???He will surely do it!!!I held on to someone also in this story that “Olorun o da Agan”..Let’s stay hopeful ❤️❤️❤️
Held on to a sentence ***
God will answer your secret prayers and make every crooked way straight for you. You will come back and remember this day for good. You will birth nations. Ephrathah be open( your womb be opened in Jesus name.) no more tears, no more sorrow in Jesus name
Wow! Abiola, I came across your program on you tube when I was looking for something. Firstly, it erased all my misconception about you because of nonsense I had read about you on social media. You are really a gem. Since yesterday I have watched most of the episodes. You are doing well. Please, keep it up. I love you.
This is really encouraging 🙏
God bless you Aunty Biola ❤️❤️❤️
I can't wait to share my testimony after nine years of waiting. No pregnancy, no abortion, no medical issues from both sides yet will waited and believe in God time 😅😅😅😅😅 He answered pregnant now, God is giving us Triple Joy, Triple Smile, Triple Testimony. Indeed God time is the Prefect time.
Congratulations,you will deliver save by God's grace.
Congratulations 👏
Since when I was in high school you have been my role model…you makes me to understand that someone can be decent and still be famous…I so much love your lifestyle I do tell my dad Bobo B you most call Aunty Biola on my wedding day ooo…everyone in my house even in my office know how much I love you 😘❤️💕 thanks for been a blessings to us…God protection will be over Baby TA and he will be great among his peers ijn🙏🙏
Honestly,words fail me. I can't believe i actually watched this interview from A-Z without skipping any part.
Thanks for sharing.
You won't labor in vain.
Im a fan. K love you
Thank you so much ma 🙏 I cherish the way you talked about Jesus and today am making a decision to be more closer to God because of your story. Thanks once again God bless baby Asher❤
Mummy TA God bless your home forever dear
I appreciate your efforts,
Tanx for your counsel,
Hummmm
Is good you share your journey with us,alot is happening in our life,but, we can't share it all
I cried 😢everyday
Marriage without baby is a BIG CHALLENGE 😢😢but not all understand, they taught we aee Happy about it
My Marriage is 12years now
Hummmm
Am still here,
Am 43years already
But, I still believe n have faith in God, he will never fails me n my husband,
I learnt from you, 😢😢😢😢surrogacy is a good idea,only issues is,what people will say
But, has it now,
Mi o ni care mo oooo
I am going into it😢😢😢😢😢
So help me God
Amen
Blessed us all with our heart desires Amin
Mrs Akinrinde God bless you sweetheart Daddy TA tanx so much for d 💖 n your full support sir
This is the Godly Biola I knew way back, she's so unique in her own way. A true lover of God. Congratulations to you darling Sis, I celebrate with you.
I Love this Aunty for the fact that she's not living a social media life, all those commentators are so annoying , infact I used to pity celebrities a lot of times, they don't have any private life, they can't post or do anything in peace without receiving any sort of backlash without knowing what they're going through. It is well.. May the Lord continue to be with your family and may the Lord keep the baby for you in Jesus name
God bless your home
For real she’s one of the Decent Lady in Yoruba movie industry ❤ I love her ❤
Some people don’t have their husbands support too! Nobody can tell your story like you are!!! Thank God for your husband support🙌
Hey sis @biolaadebayo, you're so unique among your peers . God bless you for this wisdom. I thought of it back in the bible, Mary the mother of Jesus was kind of a surrogate mum, she helped God carry baby Jesus in her womb (a deep thought) and I've heard pastor Mildred Okonkwo too talked about it. So you haven't committed any sin. There are somethings that are morally alright...and I think this is part of it. God bless your son and family
You got is ma’am. Mary was Jesus surrogate mom. If we can trust God enough through science for healings, why not for babies? The womb of the surrogate mom was only borrowed for 9/10 months and nothing more. I pray people get the understanding.
Hmmmm, wisdom!
Judge you ke, a lot of people here are in the web of what will the society say but putting your story out here is going to liberate a lot of them. So thank you very much for sharing this intimate part of your life with us ma.
Honestly you are really an eye opener,I have been wallowing and crying for 16 years,I wish can try this but unfortunately I can't afford it,all the same thanks so much for your Advice and encouragement 🙏❤️
Your tears is over. May God show up in your life, your testimonies are near🙏🙏
@@temmz1814Amen
It is well😢
Wow. I have never tried IVF before but from ur story I can imagine what late IBIDUNI IGODALO went through . " she said when she was alive that IVF is a roaster collar " imagine what this has done to her health emotionally and otherwise. God bless u sis
Biola, God bless you. Thank you for your honesty, and I am so happy you are a born again Christian. It is nice to see a Christian in your industry.
I have always loved Biola Adebayo right from the days of the Movie Eyin Oka and still loving and will always love her for her transparency, energy, acting skills and many more.
She's as well my sake and I can relate with some of her attributes.
May the good Lord forever bless your home and keep you and all yours from evil in Jesus mighty name 🙏 ❤
A woman of virtue, a woman that knows who she is❤️❤️❤️
My love for you has increased by 100% after watching this..😍😍😍😍😍😍. Most women are scared that the surrogate will come later in the future to claim the child; i am sure you have enlightened them with your story. God bless you sis!🤩🤩🤩. I am in my mid 30s going to my late 30, and just about to marry, this has really lifted my spirit. Thank you very much!
Do your research legally the surrogate mother and the parents are never allowed to have contact once the deal has been done. So where is she even going to find the child. In honest ask any DR the baby belongs to the egg donors not the carrier if you go for a DNA the blood in the baby is that of its parents not the surrogate mother. it is well jare may God help everybody.
@@estherelufowoju3166 That simply means the surrogate will have the child as CS to show the identical of the child.
Thank you so much for sharing..I am emotional 😭 though....I waited for 8yrs and ended up leaving the marriage.....Age is not on my side , but with dis interview, I am so sure my time is now.
❤❤❤❤may GOD bless you and answer your prayers
@@adeolaadeoba amen
May God remember you for good. May he restore all you have lost in double folds. You will laugh last and share your testimonies soon in Jesus name.
@@abiolaamosu1408 Amen ... thanks so much
Am so happy this interview is coming up directly from aunty biola, with this so many people would understand who is aunty biola and know she does everything with reasons, I knew loving you is not a mistakes and have never for once regretted knowing you. It's a great thing to study people you loved genuinely and know how you can relate well with them. I learnt so much from this interview even though have learnt so much from you before now even without talking everytime, aunty biola you are a blessing to the whole world and my prayer for you as always is more grace and strength to keep going and continue in the Lord. You are loved and we appreciate your honesty and integrity all the time. Love you so much mummy TIOLUWANIMI 💕💕💕💕
This interview is so powerful and educative, thank you for sharing your journey with us.
Abiola Adebayo... you are a hero! Absolutely you are a hero. Your life is so beautiful. I am going through it and I need this information. Your life has been a source of blessing to me. You did this for humanity and for me. Abiola o yaa agan sii ibi kan-kan oo. You are a fruitful mother of children. Haleluyah 💕
Abiola thank you so much you said it all I cried because you spoke for us all who are still waiting and getting ready for the steps you took God bless you darling sister wish you and your family all the best congratulations 🎉❤
I love you so much Abiola Adebayo for your simplicity and been a bonifade child of God❤
The part of surrogacy touched me,waoooo,it made me cry and I love your courage....pls any woman that falls in this should pls go for it
I like the fact that you carry your belief with your full chest. You know who you are in Christ. It shows in every word and every scenario. God bless your family 👪
Keep basking in God's love
I respect you why, the fact that you didn't lie about it. When your hubby was even feeling uncomfortable have you forgotten that people did not see you pregnant, so where would you say you got the baby from. A lot of Nigerians are now into it jare and they come out as if they had the baby naturally. God bless you and your family people will only talk for a while but the joy is yours forever.
I am not evn crying oo😩😩😩😩😩😩God bless you nd also keep blessing our doctors wit more wisdom nd understanding
I feel you sister. You have indeed gone through the waiting period. Every point you are making is exactly the way it is in the journey of waiting. Only those that have gone through it and those that can empathize will understand your view and position. Keep the good work on sis. LOVE U ALWAYS
Word failed me, you are a warrior . May God’s grace continue to hold you.
👏👏👏I am so impressed with you. Indeed, your surrogate story will liberate many. God bless you, your home and baby 🙏
Am very very happy.
Mummy Nimi you share light to infertility.
May God bless your family.
God bless you for this honest interview🙏🏼......surrogacy is sure the way to go, better than older women risking their lives carrying pregnancy, it pains my heart to hear stories of 50years plus women having complications or even dying in pregnancy all in the name of I must carry my baby myself.
This is so liberating, and I really enjoyed this session. I am not rushing too, God that did your home will do mine in Jesus name. Amen
I really want to say a big that to that your friend for not being selfish and doesn’t think you belong to him no matter what! He has your interest at heart! Some men will never talk good about someone they ask out and it’s not working. God bless your marriage! 🙌
I'm glad I patiently watch to this moment because I'm learning more on privacy. God bless you Aunty Biola❤
Biola you are indeed a very strong woman solidly backed by the most high God.
Love you so much my Darling❤
Almighty God will continue to hold your home with His ABLE HANDS.
You're truly A Woman of virtue...May God continue to bless your home 🙏
Let them live.......TTC mum life matters....the pressure is draining on them. Family, Neighbours, Coworkers,Friends learn to pray for them instead of gossiping about them.
I’ve always admired this woman but my admiration just went up by 100!
Goosebumps God gave the doctors the wisdom and understanding to help the people in need. God bless u and my love for u just increased. God bless u and ur family and the little one
I don’t know why that simple truth is difficult to understand. We’ll, I know some people do not accept CS or blood transfusion till now. What do you call that? Ignorance sis!
Hmmmmmmm!!! This means a lot to me…. Learnt a lot most especially on a marital side… henceforth I refuse to settle for less!!!🥰
I feel blessed watching this. God bless you ma.
You are one of this people that I like so much. I'm very happy for you and your husband. I pray that the Lord continue to keep you all in Jesus name, amen! Much love to you all ❤❤❤
I swear to God she is my role model any day I met her I will huge her seriously water might even come out from my eyes I really love aunty biola
Deeply thankful for sharing this. It's so much like the self in me. I've made a mistake of taking a counsel I should not have taken but your story is a hope renewal for me.
Thank you so much, Ma'am.
Thank you for being vulnerable with us. I or we do not take it for granted. Where people say there is a casting down yours shall be there is lifting up in Jesus' name, Amen. Greetings to Baby Asher he will do exploits for God. Loads of Love from my family to ours.
This is very encouraging,thanks ma'am for coming out to give us the courage and making us have the believe that there is nothing God can not do. God bless baby TA
Such a huge fan now. Thank you so much for sharing. Learnt a lot even as a single lady. I pray for all the best in your union, and in being a parent. ❤️❤️
For me, I'm inspired by your waiting time b4 marriage and the meeting process.
Thanks for sharing the honest truth
Your joy is permanent in Jesus name sis🙏 I always call you my role model ever since I'm child from the first time I watch your movie I love you 💯 and I will continue do.... There's nothing anyone can say about you that will make me hate, dislike or talk bad about you.... Bcos when you announced about your baby I heard so much from people even my friends that knows I like you bcos I do call you (Aunty mi) when I see you in a movie so they where like why did your sister go for surrogacy you know so many questions. but I know it has reason then I kept telling them, It your choice nd also am sure there's a reason for that so when you announced this interview I was happy and I told them to watch. To cut the story short am so happy for you and you will never no sorrow in your life 🙏🙏🙏 continue being who you are ❤️😘💋
You r so strong sis! More love for you
Congratulations mama, u are a super woman..only few women can relate to d world like u do.. God bless toluwani ijn..u are so rare and bold
Thanks so very much for the advice ma,may Almighty Allah bless you more I really appreciate you ❤❤❤❤❤
Very educative session. In western countries , a child is allowed to even know and have relationships with there surrogates mother. So not a big deal anymore. If I have my way I will go for surrogacy.
I watched this with an applause for you and all that you stand for.Greater grace and glory..God will keep you and yours..Ire oooo
You are indeed a strong woman,a Christian among Nollywood,your light will continue to shine brighter and brighter in Jesus name
God bless you my favorite actress ❤ your marriage will be fruitful and full of peace ijn❤
Biola, this interview reflects most of the characteristics of the characters you take on in your movies. Do you consider this before accepting your roles? You’re one of my favourite Yoruba actors in Nollywood. Keep shining and stay blessed.
I love your courage maami
You are just a perfect example and liberty to women out there ,who think they are barren
Thanks so much for this knowledge
More grace ma
I love you so much and wish to meet you one day❤
The interviewer was always interrupting her conversation. i didn't like that. Aunty Abiola you are a rare gem.
She wants to prove smart to her Oga ni😅
Too much interruptions jare
Wow! I really learnt alot from this interview,i wish every single lady will learn one or two as a take home...i had alot to put down....
Sincerely u are right with all the people who pray ignorantly for waiting mother's,I've been there they do a lot of damage to the mind of the woman than they intend to do, many times I weep after those prayers but I thank God that is in the past now.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. You have no idea how you have encouraged and liberated so many woman. More grace mama and blessings on your home
Thank you Aunty Biola for sharing this cos I no it will really go a long way to help and encourage all the waiting mothers and singles out there. God will continue to uphold ur family ijn
I salute you sis for coming out to share. God bless you and preserve your blessings
Honestly this is impactful and the facts that Anty Biola stands on her feet is awesome . May God bless you,your child and your lovely husband. I love you Anty Biola.
I love this woman so much. I dropped a tear watching this, I can’t relate because I’m not married, but this video and the comments made me so emotional. Congratulations once again sis🎉😊
Waoooo am so impressed
But my av been waiting for 7yrs now, i cry as i listening to ur interview, is not too easy for me as a waiting morher, but is not as easy as u mention because my husband never accept that and financially boyant
i so much love this woman my husband wife because my husband love her in yoruba movies so i call her my husband wife much love Sister..
Honestly you are truly a virtue woman,I really learnt alot of lessons
May the Lord continue to blees you and your family ma
Aunty biola I just love u my mentol can't do without watching ur movie may God continue to bless ur home MA my mentol in industry I wish to train under u but I don't know people that know u but I have faith that I will one day because am upcoming comedian I love u mummy toluwani always love you ma
Very inspiring! Making this information public is the best decision you made for yourself. Now, media has no hold on you. You liberated yourself ❤❤❤
I can't wait to watch this finish and learn from this wonderful story of a beautiful woman. I pray God continue to watch over this family and may God love never depart from the family.
My woman never disappoint.
Thanks so much for enlighten the women all over the world. This goes along way for some marriage suffering from bullying of having a child of their own
May God continue to bless you my woman and my baby TA
To God to the glory, thank you for sharing this amazing story and journey with us ma. Your joy shall be permanent in Jesus name. Amen
Congratulations once again madam.
Momma you are a blessing to the nation i love u unconditionally
Thank you very much for coming out clean and sharing ur journey with, I sincerely you raised my hope and encouraged alot of TTC mom's myself inclusive. Am so grateful. God bless you & ur supportive hubby. Baby Asher shall become very great
Amen in Jesus name.
Wow!
This is really encouraging, thank you for sharing this piece.i pray for the grace to put smile on TTC mums faces by been a carrier.
Most decent and respectful young woman in Nollyhoow.
A very rich interview, you are indeed liberating some homes. God bless you and yours ❤
Abiola I so much like your courage the baby will live long & will not die young Tolu will excel in life IJN 💕 you dearie blessings of God to you & your household kip it up.
God bless our guest and d presenter,ds is a very interesting episode and it's very relaxing and calming 💯💓💕💖
Kai,Aunty Biola❤❤❤❤You are loved beyond description. God bless you,Your Son and Dad TA loruko Jesu. Ayo yin oni di Ibaje Lori Omo yin loruko Jesu. Love you loads ❤❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing sis, I respect your courage and i honour your believe, your testimony shall be permanent in jesus name, I LOVE you sis❤
You're a Gem! A great one at that. God bless you and your family, ma'am.
I have been waiting for this❤❤❤❤
Congratulations once again ma’am
I just love this...We really need to watch the words of our mouth with those TTC, it applies also to those waiting on God for life partners.People should always choose the right kind of words....God help us all.
Thanks for encouraging many people out there..
Biola you are so amazing and I also thanks you so much you did great excellent job to enlighten all woman that is in your shoes to give them encouragement to remove the stress on them for this God almighty will continue bless you and grant you more wisdom knowledge and understanding you are so amazing once again thanks so much and God almighty will bless your marriage, Toluwanimi a dirun a digba you already knows his beginning by the special grace of God almighty you won't know his end in the mighty name of our Lord Jesus Christ Amen 🙏 love you so much
Mehn, have learnt one or two here oo, especially from the reply to the first questions.. You waiting for what you wanted regardless.
God bless you ma, I'm inspired
Abiola, I really love you for being so sincere, honestly, you are a very strong woman. You are a proactive person & do not care about what some women who are supposed to support others like to say to move move you. You greatly blessed.
My strong woman I always respect u ever since am young watching your film I look up to you
All I have to say is Alhamdulilah robil alemin
And am grateful that you have a great husband and give you full support ❤❤❤❤
Well done ma’am
I love you 😘
The interviewer is good 👍 ❤
Oh my God I need ur help dis almost 12years of waiting on to the Lord, God show me mercy provide of my needs to just do dis ivf .crying
Watching you on set, I presume you are a disciplined and determined woman, and yes you proved it in this interview.
You are a true child of God, God bless you ma'am for sharing this with the world, so much to learn from, even the tiniest detail about your journey to marriage and surrogacy is powerful and has a lot of lessons to learn from. May Asher grow in the light and wisdom of the Lord🙏 Keep being YOU😊