Psychology of Rapists | How Rapists Think

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • Rocked by the recent brutal rapes, India is debating about different questions. What punishment do the rapists deserve? What can the women do to protect themselves. But to solve this problem, we need to know the answer to an important question: Why do men rape?
    #Rapists #SexualAssault #MohakMangal
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    Captions: Dhruv Bambhaniya ( / dhruvkumar_2920 )
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    Sources:
    1. Introduction
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    2. ‘Normal’ People:
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    3. No remorse
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    theconversatio...
    www.ncbi.nlm.n...
    4. Biological vs Cultural
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    5. What can be done?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 10 тис.

  • @stanyoonjinforeheads1618
    @stanyoonjinforeheads1618 3 роки тому +29181

    I saw this somewhere and I'd like to share it:
    "Rape is becoming so common that only the brutal ones shock us."

    • @gloomie1299
      @gloomie1299 3 роки тому +541

      True😡

    • @chandrashekharshinde9861
      @chandrashekharshinde9861 3 роки тому +610

      @@8adarshikasingh302 what the hell? Look at what the video is about and the atmosphere. This becomes irritating after a while stop it! I am an ARMY too and don't want you to ruin our Fandom name

    • @caddythanks6712
      @caddythanks6712 3 роки тому +291

      @@chandrashekharshinde9861 yes sometimes this also angers me . this was just out of nowhere .

    • @coolNerdnextdoor
      @coolNerdnextdoor 3 роки тому +429

      @@8adarshikasingh302 Dude seriously? I mean why bring up Bts everywhere, even in such an important video?

    • @erikerikson5434
      @erikerikson5434 3 роки тому +205

      Rape has become common because sexual content has also become normal in india. Hence, boy's mind has become even more dirty.

  • @adilansari3227
    @adilansari3227 3 роки тому +11785

    Boys and girls should be made comfortable to interact,sit with each other so that they can understand the feelings of each other. Our so-called Uncle aunties make both of them uncomfortable.

    • @sakshamtyagi7347
      @sakshamtyagi7347 3 роки тому +127

      Please, end sexual repression in our society.

    • @sakshamtyagi7347
      @sakshamtyagi7347 3 роки тому +175

      @SAKSHAM MISHRA vahi bro ki don't talk about sex and stuff at all, girls and boys arr made to sit separately in schools, made to walk in separate lines. All this bullshit is just making our generations sexually repressed.

    • @adilansari3227
      @adilansari3227 3 роки тому +88

      @SAKSHAM MISHRA bilkul sahi bola bhai

    • @antifeminist_x
      @antifeminist_x 3 роки тому +502

      This is the reason that i can't sit or talk with any girl i never talked with them and now it's too late. Anyways even though all of this i still respect womens

    • @adilansari3227
      @adilansari3227 3 роки тому +15

      @@sakshamtyagi7347 correct

  • @watcherolic9930
    @watcherolic9930 3 роки тому +9403

    The meaning of "Consent"- has to be taught starting from primary schools itself

    • @akanetsukino9939
      @akanetsukino9939 3 роки тому +146

      As a student currently in Australia, if anyone want to work or even volunteer for something, they need to do a small course on consent. You learn everything from what is consent, why it's important and to tell the signs of consent or not. It also taught the ethical side of everything. Basically, everyone has to learn this. I was impressed when I had to do this in the beginning.

    • @sudeepsingh9337
      @sudeepsingh9337 3 роки тому +58

      If only teaching person , solves the problem then there might not be any rape , society plays a major role in one's. Mentality and many other factors including mental health and other

    • @aanisahjahan7058
      @aanisahjahan7058 3 роки тому +55

      @@sudeepsingh9337 you me are society, teach yourself first then the people around you. This is how societal change works and yes education matters. Teaching people near you about consent will be a big change.

    • @sudeepsingh9337
      @sudeepsingh9337 3 роки тому +15

      @@aanisahjahan7058 but that won't solve the problem , knowing the reasons are still important , places where rape rate is minimum need not be literate , but how the people think and how surrounding influences including stress and all plays a major role we can't ignore them

    • @NiceEyeballs
      @NiceEyeballs 3 роки тому +24

      hey not from that young age, when they don't even know what sex is. Should teach to understand and respect others thats all at younger ages. And instead of telling schools what to teach Im gonna teach my kids how to perceive everything.

  • @loveyourself-ye2js
    @loveyourself-ye2js Рік тому +4464

    Rape can never be a mistake it's always a crime.

    • @indogreek5565
      @indogreek5565 Рік тому

      now a days rape is happening due to sex video of pornstar on internet . Before internet rape was not there .That time male only married to reproduce . Think ...

    • @ambikamaharaj904
      @ambikamaharaj904 Рік тому +65

      True indeed.

    • @satyamverma04
      @satyamverma04 Рік тому +38

      It can be a mistake

    • @soul.narendra1321
      @soul.narendra1321 Рік тому +41

      Ladki OYO mein jaye apni marji se aur baad mein palat Jaye....relation mein,shaadi nahi ki toh rape case kar dungi toh yeh crime kaise hua??

    • @aerashin7
      @aerashin7 Рік тому +199

      ​@@satyamverma04nope, can't be. RAPE IS RAPE NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES WERE/ARE

  • @NR-hj2es
    @NR-hj2es 3 роки тому +5653

    The saddest part is when this video was getting played by so many people, somewhere in India a girl might be getting raped and still no one will take strict action against them

    • @Aditya.sajjai
      @Aditya.sajjai 3 роки тому +29

      Yeah man

    • @idgaf4691
      @idgaf4691 3 роки тому +232

      @Rohan 12 that's just excuse

    • @srija275
      @srija275 3 роки тому +123

      Yes...exactly..I don't feel proud to be Indian!!

    • @NR-hj2es
      @NR-hj2es 3 роки тому +96

      @Rohan 12 we can do a lot if we want too but no one is willing to do it

    • @KFCG427
      @KFCG427 3 роки тому +56

      Im younger than u ppl perhaps and dont mind if im wrong but India s education system needs to be changed from the earliest stages,also ppl need to be more fragile and i feel ppl wont do bad actions when they realize the whole outcome and understand that the satisfication aint worth.Also btw lol i dont watch Hentai or Porn.Just anime is ❤️

  • @shifujikafan3720
    @shifujikafan3720 3 роки тому +7462

    First boycott Kabir Singh
    He met his stranger girl for first time and then said 'Ye meri bandi hai'
    As if she is his ancestral property
    Edit:I never got 1.2K likes

  • @Basha108
    @Basha108 3 роки тому +1470

    Internet and Indian cinema(Which showcase women as a doll) has major psychologic impact in most of the Indian minds. This should be looked in to.Over generations this two has upgradation from private to public.

    • @kakalimukhopadhyay15yearsa48
      @kakalimukhopadhyay15yearsa48 3 роки тому +48

      Only Indian cinema !?
      Talk about age restricted videos of UA-cam !!
      Kids know how to off restricted 'mode' !!

    • @Takeshwarsahu-m2c
      @Takeshwarsahu-m2c 3 роки тому +6

      True

    • @SanilJadhav711
      @SanilJadhav711 2 роки тому +23

      Lol y'all tripping, banning porn, item songs, hentai and literally banning any pervy media won't do jackshit about rape problems
      As Richa said above, rapes have been happening since dark ages when humans hardly started speaking in coherent sentences to communicate, rape is more about a person going through egotistical issues with themselves and needing to burst it all on a helpless victim

    • @shiny70175
      @shiny70175 2 роки тому +4

      That is the main problem with bollywood. It normalises rapes.

    • @shivamgusain5185
      @shivamgusain5185 2 роки тому +19

      Bro why only Exaggerating Indian cinema haven't you seen Hollywood they have literal porn scenes in their movies and like american pie, fifty shades of grey etc their movies show women like a chick who is crazy for sex and men like totally focused people faltu me har cheez ke aage indian lagane ki zaroorat nhi hai cool dikhne ke liye

  • @maithreyiray8869
    @maithreyiray8869 Рік тому +124

    The best part about this video is that He himself is a Man and is speaking for Women. This is the kind of change we need in our society>>>>>

    • @9_9435
      @9_9435 4 місяці тому +1

      Yes,you are correct

  • @bhavin769
    @bhavin769 3 роки тому +5391

    How come a man is greater than a woman if he himself is born from one
    ~swami vivekanand

    • @factshouse3690
      @factshouse3690 3 роки тому +80

      I don't believe this shit

    • @babuchakjheta9291
      @babuchakjheta9291 3 роки тому +280

      Both are not greater than each other both are important for the process

    • @Neha-ue3uk
      @Neha-ue3uk 3 роки тому +430

      @Yash Hengne a woman breastfeeds their child, carries them in their bodies for 9 months, goes through a very intense labour process, possibly post partum depression etc. and all the guy has to do it give the sperm....you and i both know women put in most of the work into the whole birthing process of the child. however, both genders are equally important and are as valuable in life as each other

    • @sohan-IA
      @sohan-IA 3 роки тому +48

      @@Neha-ue3uk yes womens are greatest contributors we respect girls and also sex

    • @bhavin769
      @bhavin769 3 роки тому +134

      @@sohan-IA That's why he is written in history and you are not

  • @rs-sl1tn
    @rs-sl1tn 4 роки тому +8355

    I as a tax payer would like the government to feed beggars than rapists

    • @green___apple
      @green___apple 4 роки тому +468

      But there are more mps who are rapists and not beggars. MPs take your money more than anyone.

    • @Cyanide_Mallika
      @Cyanide_Mallika 4 роки тому +56

      Then the only way out is to evade tax.

    • @kbnprasad978
      @kbnprasad978 4 роки тому +90

      Aren't you satisfied with your money given to the poor and making them lazy till date? Do you know much farmer or cloth waver gets to pay? Do you know how much scarcity of electricians, labourers, plumbers, ...
      Govt is not accommodating them in 5-star hotels, see any convicts videos. If we hang everyone without a proper trial then where is justice in it?
      If you really want to see change then go to slums and try to change their perspective.

    • @kbnprasad978
      @kbnprasad978 4 роки тому +12

      escapism is a bad option.

    • @Areallykissablecactus
      @Areallykissablecactus 3 роки тому +1

      @akshay Viswambharan My stepfather

  • @manasviigoel
    @manasviigoel 3 роки тому +17709

    Let's stay aware of the 660 people who disliked this video

    • @revolt3566
      @revolt3566 3 роки тому +272

      But how to identity them!??

    • @Rythm_1125
      @Rythm_1125 3 роки тому +184

      700 now 😔😔

    • @Ace-xt9lt
      @Ace-xt9lt 3 роки тому +108

      Ha ha 714 right now.

    • @PrithaBhowmick-cb1cz
      @PrithaBhowmick-cb1cz 3 роки тому +78

      757 it's now.

    • @animesea9342
      @animesea9342 3 роки тому +104

      @Iᴄʜɪɢᴏ Kᴜʀᴀsᴀᴋɪ there is nothing to lol about

  • @_anjelina_6988
    @_anjelina_6988 Рік тому +224

    After being caught by the cops, when the rapists say "Galti ho geyi sahab, maf kar dijiye" it makes my eyes pop up....
    Rape can't be a mistake, it's a CRIME.. Girls or women aren't just play things for those monsters

    • @ADITYAayayayay
      @ADITYAayayayay Рік тому +2

      Yeah it's crime done by mistake

    • @ADITYAayayayay
      @ADITYAayayayay Рік тому +2

      What about girls or so called models who sexualise their bodies on Instagram?

    • @IvyGlimses
      @IvyGlimses Рік тому +35

      ​@@ADITYAayayayay It is called having a career and regardless she does it for her career or simply for herself, there is a thing called consent. I think you should research more on it.
      (And I'll turn my notification off because I simply don't want to engage in a conversation debating on a simple thing such as respect. You simply asked and I replied. That is it. )

    • @Rihana4265
      @Rihana4265 Рік тому +20

      why that man are getting seduces by child ?

    • @pratibhakushwaha6491
      @pratibhakushwaha6491 Рік тому +15

      ​@@ADITYAayayayayand what about boys showing their 6 abs on insta .....

  • @Random-fw4cq
    @Random-fw4cq 2 роки тому +2587

    In my opinion 2 reasons that are really important to address in order to face this issue are -
    1. Normalize boy girl casual friendly relationship (which is completely opposite in our society).
    2.effect of porn, erotica and bollywood(these videos create a fake image in the mind of watcher than these things can happen in real life which might lead to in extreme cases - rape)

    • @Tushar_Talwar_09
      @Tushar_Talwar_09 2 роки тому +3

      Im waiting for the why women rape video.
      Im tired of rape being used as a facade for bashing men.
      Male Feminists have become so blinded by their natural instinct to protect women that they have forgotten that men can be victims too.
      If mohak was really worth his salt he would mention that In 2014, as per a report submitted by Delhi Commission for women 53% of reported rapes in 2012-13 were found to be 'false'.
      Check google if you doubt this information, I am sure that majority rape cases in India are fake and not only rape cases but also dowry cases and molestation cases too.. women also force for divorce from their well earning husbands purposefully so as to capture their half income and property (called Alimony) like Jeff Bezos's wife did.
      Yeah not all women do that, but beware of the women you are with and also beware of any such women who can potentially send you to jail misusing Indian laws

    • @Random-fw4cq
      @Random-fw4cq 2 роки тому +3

      @@Tushar_Talwar_09 That is a prevalent issue too, it is often seen that many females take advantage of the situation by victimising themselves and the feminist come to the rescue bashing the accused without any proof or conviction. It ruins the image and life of the accused, I saw a ted talk related to this too where a boy explained how a false rape case by a girl ruined his life. The main reason for this our nature to take abrupt decisions without having the patience to comprehend any situation fully.

    • @davidgeorge6066
      @davidgeorge6066 2 роки тому +35

      @@Random-fw4cq Yeah maybe those rape cases are false but the thing is that not a lot of women who actually get raped file such cases as they are traumatized and lack the support that they need.

    • @drReetHooda
      @drReetHooda 2 роки тому +1

      Problem is that boys and girls don't know how to maintain "friendship" without being attracted to one another. I won't say all of these cases are bad but only when you become mature you understand that friendship with another gender needs some boundaries and lots of self control.. young people don't have it at all. There is a reason why parents are afraid of these friendships. But it's their fault to some extent too when they don't teach their kids what boundaries look like and YOU CAN SAY NO TO PEOPLE. Too often girls get trapped in situations where they intent to not get involved in anything more than friendship but it doesn't favor them.

    • @nini_chu_9569
      @nini_chu_9569 2 роки тому +1

      True

  • @stuthijha2994
    @stuthijha2994 3 роки тому +1705

    I highly believe that society is responsible for the mindset of many men. Everyone tells them to man up but never tell the solution to the situation due to which little boys often think that toughness and violence is solution to everything.
    Edit: never expected to get this much attention. Thank you everyone for giving their views.

    • @bruh4196
      @bruh4196 3 роки тому +13

      True.

    • @bruh4196
      @bruh4196 3 роки тому +39

      Society needs to normalise many things.
      Anywhere bw a toughness of man or a girl talking to a boy needs to be normal.

    • @user-ml4ps5cq3v
      @user-ml4ps5cq3v 3 роки тому +20

      @shrey jauhari obviously the parents will tell their girls to stay away from guys. It's literally how women have to live, how does one know whether a certain man is good or no? It's India.

    • @user-ml4ps5cq3v
      @user-ml4ps5cq3v 3 роки тому +26

      @shrey jauhari lol what? I would rather get robbed than raped. Obviously if you're a "decent" Guy which is the barr minimum, why would have they stay away? The basis is sex education, in India from a young age women are shown to boys like some treat or an object not a human. From a very young age we should be encouraged to play together, and this seems impossible but ban any shitty Bollywood movies,

    • @formidablefoe157
      @formidablefoe157 3 роки тому +4

      @shrey jauhari 49 last for women
      No laws for men
      But
      Whatever

  • @andromeda2420
    @andromeda2420 Рік тому +316

    As a man I can't be enough sorry for my sisters who have faced this disaster. I can't even explain how shameful this things are for high value men.

    • @devikrishna.s.r7570
      @devikrishna.s.r7570 Рік тому +2

      Hi, where are you from?

    • @devikrishna.s.r7570
      @devikrishna.s.r7570 Рік тому +1

      Your comment says a lot about you❣️. It is really genuine. You are indeed a gentleman 😊 in a dark world. You are a high value man. Because high value men don't like to have casual sex or one night stands.

    • @Inspiring_Minds545
      @Inspiring_Minds545 11 місяців тому +3

      Men🤡

    • @cyphex9809
      @cyphex9809 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Inspiring_Minds545women ☕☕

    • @occultsupport
      @occultsupport 7 місяців тому +3

      "high value men" tf u on about

  • @swagatikananda7994
    @swagatikananda7994 2 роки тому +699

    Warning ⚠️: Stay aware of this 1.5k people who disliked this video. They are still in our society. 😰

    • @varunrao007
      @varunrao007 2 роки тому +27

      The more you like the video the more the UA-cam algorithm picks up the video.

    • @vivekkrishna6238
      @vivekkrishna6238 2 роки тому +1

      They are going to death now 😠

    • @deadshot3693
      @deadshot3693 2 роки тому +4

      Can't believe

    • @themedicospoint2424
      @themedicospoint2424 2 роки тому +5

      @@varunrao007 logical

    • @sroy7982
      @sroy7982 2 роки тому +6

      @@vivekkrishna6238 I disliked it lol😂

  • @yelleobunny6332
    @yelleobunny6332 Місяць тому +41

    I'm scared from the 5k people who disliked the video.

  • @Ankit-rq7yd
    @Ankit-rq7yd 3 роки тому +633

    Credit goes to our movies also because in 90s most of the movies were not done without a rape case

  • @lopamudrabeura9176
    @lopamudrabeura9176 Рік тому +318

    Rape is not just a crime, It's a weapon used to limit women accomplishments by some regressive people.

  • @syedtalib75
    @syedtalib75 2 роки тому +96

    Ye bollywood movies bhi... No means YES.... Ka concept yahin se aaya.... Almost har movie LOVE story hoti hai aur Heroine ke manaa karne ke baad bhi Hero uska peechha nahi chhodta... 1960s, 70s, 80s...till date yahi chalta aa raha hai....

    • @sroy7982
      @sroy7982 2 роки тому

      Rape was still an issue even before bollywood

    • @sunidhimishra6431
      @sunidhimishra6431 2 роки тому +2

      Yes aap shi ho

    • @rajnishyadav8436
      @rajnishyadav8436 Рік тому

      Wo har jagah hai
      Mai to movies dekhta hi nahi 2016 ke baad

  • @sudhanshukhemariya9729
    @sudhanshukhemariya9729 4 роки тому +927

    When someone asked, "show me the world best channel I show them this channel" 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @green___apple
    @green___apple 4 роки тому +1164

    Ravish needs to invite this guy on Prime time #NDTV

  • @neelamadhikari3205
    @neelamadhikari3205 3 роки тому +808

    It comes with education. Women r objectified for sex. Cultural intervene plays a very important role. The education has to start from childhood before school. Parent should teach Thier son how to respect, educate, nuture, empower woman.

    • @xxgreekgodxx3289
      @xxgreekgodxx3289 3 роки тому +46

      Bollywood,advertisements,Porn and Netflix?? Educate ur damn self First...

    • @KFCG427
      @KFCG427 3 роки тому +24

      Please dont mind if im wrong or anything cause my knowledge still not enough but i always felt,Our educational system is kind of trash and needs to gp through much changes and if ppl from earlier classes could learn more about things that we in India dont talk often,India needs to be more fragile.Also i dont watch porn or hentai,but real love to anime or such...i also have fantesies like others but i see the meaning hence is why i dont like or watch porn or any such.

    • @neelamadhikari3205
      @neelamadhikari3205 3 роки тому +19

      @@xxgreekgodxx3289 looking at ur comment.looks u know lot about bollywood, netflix so on. So y don't u keep urself away from all these social media. Baseline of education starts from home. U need to understand this.

    • @neelamadhikari3205
      @neelamadhikari3205 3 роки тому +8

      @@xxgreekgodxx3289 when comes to education. I'm from a place where woman takes care of everything. Woman are given preference first for inheritance. Woman can marry a man n get him to her place. So I don't need education.

    • @neelamadhikari3205
      @neelamadhikari3205 3 роки тому +15

      @Sameer Sonawane I think u r getting ur personnel reason here. Bro, grow up. If u really want to feel what girls has to go through then talk to few ladies. U will get the best knowledge n Truth u never thought of n yes talking to other will connect u more. U might have seen one girl girl been nutured. But the percentage of man getting everything is in every house is more. We r talking how woman r objectified. That mind set has to be changed.

  • @tarunpundhir1194
    @tarunpundhir1194 Рік тому +223

    To any girl reading this, I am not sure about if you have experienced some sort of harassment in your life but all i wanna say is that you are very strong.Yes you read that right! I believe in you. There might be a lot of problems both internal and external going on in your life but trust me everything is gonna be okay! Dont ever under estimate yourself. If u want you can do anything. Much more power to all the sisters out there!! Keep Shining And Never lose your smile! Its the greatest makeup you can ever have!!

    • @academixzoe
      @academixzoe Рік тому +6

      Thank you so muchhhhh man ✨👏

    • @sushilatripathy5672
      @sushilatripathy5672 Рік тому +3

      Thank you so much Bhai.🙇🙇🙇🙇🙏🙌

    • @curlyfries2956
      @curlyfries2956 Рік тому +9

      Even though I’m a boy I have to say thank you. I have gone through these sorts of experiences and it hurts me every day

    • @mariahlavacova-tx2fy
      @mariahlavacova-tx2fy Рік тому +1

      I was forced for sex by my ex don’t want to talk about 😢😢

    • @ansumanmohapatra9632
      @ansumanmohapatra9632 11 місяців тому

      One thing you are raised by a queen as I am

  • @Vaibhav_Mohite
    @Vaibhav_Mohite 4 роки тому +514

    "सोच" सोचने पर मजबूर कर देता है

  • @ghaniehsan3096
    @ghaniehsan3096 4 роки тому +225

    This is a perfect example of a good educational channel on every social issue.

  • @Unavailableayush
    @Unavailableayush Рік тому +90

    I am extremely saddened to see that Some males are blaming girls for wearing short dresses 😞 .
    Shame on their mentality.

    • @self-proclaimedanimator
      @self-proclaimedanimator Рік тому +3

      Man men should wear short dresses
      Imagine shorts with crop tops
      Specially the gym guys
      😋🤤

    • @masterbateman2686
      @masterbateman2686 Рік тому +5

      Shame on their short dresses also

    • @Sarah-17svt
      @Sarah-17svt Рік тому +1

      @@masterbateman2686 girls can wear whatever they want to grow up dude

    • @Jia-san
      @Jia-san Рік тому +21

      ​@@masterbateman2686Shame on your self control

    • @shashwatsingh9092
      @shashwatsingh9092 Рік тому

      ​@@Jia-sanshame on your western colonial mindset.

  • @9_9435
    @9_9435 4 місяці тому +13

    Please read till end
    Some people says that this happen due to wearing shorts then why 5 year old kid was raped and also girls in burkha.
    Yes,shorts are not Indian culture but why its only said to girls not to boys
    Is jeans, shirt, t-shirt,shoes,shocks,under wear are Indian culture
    If girl should wear a traditional dress then a boy also wear dhoti,kharam,kundal etc

  • @Rika-ir2wq
    @Rika-ir2wq 3 роки тому +38

    We should also talk about casual sexism (catcalls, openly checking out a female making her uncomfortable, groping, yelling at, treating as an inferior at home or at work, calling an aging woman a hag or a witch, commenting on their bodies) and how its prevalence in society can lead to some of the people becoming rapists. Capital punishment for rapists may not be a solution but neither is overpopulating prisons and feeding rapists on taxpayers money just for him to be released later and commit further crimes. I shudder to think about having pedophiles out and about in the society and do not believe that pedos can be rehabilitated. It would still be too much of a risk to have one out again waiting to prey on kids.

  • @theone7359
    @theone7359 4 роки тому +195

    Not only rapes but other violent crimes should also be stopped

    • @ikonic5641
      @ikonic5641 3 роки тому +17

      You're right but rape cases are really major in india

    • @Lilygirl6085
      @Lilygirl6085 3 роки тому +2

      @@jasrajsingh24 😂🤣secureless woman are more in ancient time, but it didnt become a heading in newspaper

  • @violeenayesmin9316
    @violeenayesmin9316 Рік тому +28

    Posting this type of videos can really help our society to grow and it's really good that people like you are discussing this topic which is really common

  • @thanos2077
    @thanos2077 4 роки тому +63

    Highly under-rated channel ☹️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @spacedaway
    @spacedaway 3 роки тому +121

    If schools stop segregating girls and boys and teach them to live comfortably with each other and make them sit next to each other from a young age, it would make tons of difference too.

    • @WolvaroGaming
      @WolvaroGaming 2 роки тому

      Yes

    • @spacedaway
      @spacedaway 2 роки тому

      Good point.

    • @Coolguy-or8ex
      @Coolguy-or8ex 2 роки тому +3

      Sorry no offense this is the most bs solution ever

    • @spacedaway
      @spacedaway 2 роки тому +3

      @@Coolguy-or8ex What would you suggest, otherwise?

    • @mrk5216
      @mrk5216 7 місяців тому

      Its a great solution only problem is it would be uncomfortable to sit with a girl and I don't like to go to jail

  • @anjalivermasinger1689
    @anjalivermasinger1689 3 роки тому +333

    So society should not differentiate between a girl or boy everyone should be equal n interaction between girl and boy is really important to know each other and to control this problem in society.

    • @formidablefoe157
      @formidablefoe157 3 роки тому +6

      Pls don't bring society here
      Society Is the main reason for our live being hell

    • @formidablefoe157
      @formidablefoe157 3 роки тому +6

      @Uchiha Sasuke cuz my mom

    • @sanjaymahato7138
      @sanjaymahato7138 3 роки тому +1

      @@formidablefoe157 A Society is the reason we are civilized. U cant get the picture now but without it we will be just like animals which will be worse.. And i know there are bad people but there are lot more good people. That's why the world is still going on.. Think about it

    • @sanjaymahato7138
      @sanjaymahato7138 3 роки тому +5

      @@formidablefoe157 😔 I can feel that. I have been there. The thing is that in reality, there is no equality there is only superiority or inferiority over the other.. and of course victim card(u know what i am talking about). And it's a fact.

    • @formidablefoe157
      @formidablefoe157 3 роки тому

      @@sanjaymahato7138 🙏🏻

  • @kawaiiichannel
    @kawaiiichannel Рік тому +54

    It all starts from the environment/people around him, the person living with

  • @DebalinaBose-xv4yb
    @DebalinaBose-xv4yb Рік тому +13

    Actually this is true....Boys always get much preference from the family side and also from the society side.

  • @DrRitul
    @DrRitul 3 роки тому +65

    I believe that cultural and society factor dominates!

  • @shimanshuyadav7404
    @shimanshuyadav7404 4 роки тому +482

    Bhai your thought's are revolutionary.....
    It changed my way of looking thinghs

    • @undercutsoul898
      @undercutsoul898 4 роки тому +5

      Try watching MIND HUNTER and you will understand a bit the psychology of criminal behavior. you will need patience though

    • @shuvamgadal4110
      @shuvamgadal4110 4 роки тому +2

      N bhai ur thoughts are assoholic...

    • @alanthampi4718
      @alanthampi4718 4 роки тому +2

      @@shuvamgadal4110 kya ? Kyu?

    • @shuvamgadal4110
      @shuvamgadal4110 4 роки тому +1

      Aise tho murderurs bhi sahi hai...terorist kahenge ki hame dhrm bachana hai wo bhi sahi hai...bomb blast v sahi hai...modi ko air strike aur surgikal strike bhi galat hai pakistaniyo ne wo kashmir pane ke liya kiya...bhai reason dhundna bandh karo aur solution dhundo...aise reaction channels se dur Raho...action ki socho..

  • @ds4537
    @ds4537 Рік тому +8

    How can we make change in the society? Ans 1-Mother teaching her own son to respect every woman and 2-by not asking a Bride on her 'Suhagraat' to abide her husband's every command and satisfy him.

    • @Penny-x6o
      @Penny-x6o 10 місяців тому

      as a girl i request that same should be taught to girls as well lets not forget false rape cases as well as men and boys being raped if u think this will help improve society no cuz those b****** type exist as well both should be given education then only conditions will improve and if u think i am saying false go do google search as well

  • @saswata13
    @saswata13 2 роки тому +195

    I remember one of my friends talking about girls wearing short dresses to provoke men in form of temptation,he said that girls feel nice as they want to reveal themselves in front of men in a luscious manner.I was stunned hearing this from him as he was the topper of the class and is an would be doctor,well I'm pretty sure that he won't rape anyone but academic education can only prevent you from doing the crime but it's the larger upbringing and understanding of things and values that actually extinguishes the criminal thinking from your mind.Rape karne wale to criminal hain he,lekin waisa soch rakhne wale vi kam doshi nehi.

    • @lilicake4208
      @lilicake4208 2 роки тому +34

      @Fabian Kirchgessner Wtf no??? Wanting to FEEL sexy and being objectified are two separate things. Clothes don't mean consent. And what are your sources that you can state such things with confidence???

    • @lilicake4208
      @lilicake4208 2 роки тому +20

      @Fabian Kirchgessner No one likes being objectified. Do you even know what obejctifying someone means??

    • @lilicake4208
      @lilicake4208 2 роки тому

      @Fabian Kirchgessner Don't tell me to
      " Do what you are told ". Besides what scientific literature are you referring to? Psychological or Biological literature? If so there has never been an extensive study about the pleasures of being objectified by either sex. You say that being a provider is de facto slavery while conveniently forgetting that men created that society for themselves and that women and children were considered mere properties.
      It would seem that you are the one living under a rock, not understanding sociology or human psychology. Since you cannot even grasp the concept of the uniqueness of human consciousness and our inherent desire to be respected as individuals and not non living objects. By the way, to objectify someone is to reduce them to a non human entity. Apparently you cannot even seem to grasp what that meant

    • @aditisk99
      @aditisk99 2 роки тому +13

      @Fabian Kirchgessner I don't understand how taking care of your family is "being objectified"?

    • @armybts3493
      @armybts3493 2 роки тому +2

      @@lilicake4208 yes not all girls are like taht

  • @locketsammy
    @locketsammy 8 місяців тому +6

    i think the law needs to be more strict with such cases and also the education system should improve.
    as a girl, it's shameful that sometimes, i wish i wasn't a girl. not feeling safe in your own skin, what home do you have if your body is a prison you were born into?
    and because of the fact that these things generally don't affect the other gender, they have even less empathy towards people it does happen to. some boys that i know even go as far as making disgusting jokes about this.
    it's not an issue that can be resolved in a day. i actually don't see it happening in the near future.
    so, please, if you're seeing this, stay safe and keep your loved ones very very close to you.

  • @vipin3463
    @vipin3463 3 роки тому +34

    Lets make this video viral ...this video is more important than any other trending videos❤

    • @KFCG427
      @KFCG427 3 роки тому +2

      I dont watch porn or hentai even if i have fantesies when watching anime or u k women but i see no interest in why to waste time on porn lol

    • @imbored908
      @imbored908 3 роки тому +2

      Naruto ❤️

  • @TheRealGod18
    @TheRealGod18 2 роки тому +59

    There are hardly any Indian young youtuber talking and explaining this topic at such lengths.
    Kudos dear.

  • @Omkar-iq1on
    @Omkar-iq1on Рік тому +9

    A good step towards a reform.... I always thought of seeing societal changes which you depicted clearly.. Looking forward to see the growth of youtubers like you

  • @rishabhrajrishu_
    @rishabhrajrishu_ 4 роки тому +41

    Ek no bhai, commenting only for supporting you for youtube algorithm

  • @zafiraworld979
    @zafiraworld979 3 роки тому +40

    So genuine and true... I think students from childhood should be thought about consent and women's safety.......

    • @-SimonRiley
      @-SimonRiley 2 роки тому

      Why only women's safety? Do men not deserve safety?

  • @sargamdubey2895
    @sargamdubey2895 Рік тому +17

    Not all men, but always men

    • @self-proclaimedanimator
      @self-proclaimedanimator Рік тому +1

      Man they should do sex ed in school
      Like in 8th std
      Make pairs of students and teach em to mate
      While teaching em contraceptive methods
      2 teachers should do it in front of em for example
      And zey will do it as a practical
      If kids have hands on experience of coitus from a young age
      And we normalize mating instead of making it a Taboo
      I think this can prevent Vape
      I mean ppl do kind of get attracted to stuff that is kept secret by society

  • @onekawaiibento7725
    @onekawaiibento7725 3 роки тому +32

    Gosh I really like how you explained it I wish more people would see it the way it actually is in a logical sense rather than victimblaming

    • @avikabunty
      @avikabunty 2 роки тому

      Lol it means they're innocent? Crime mean crime

  • @shahsahil9707
    @shahsahil9707 Рік тому +14

    But at this time no one takes these things serious that is main cause of increasing in rape cases

  • @pragya7149
    @pragya7149 3 роки тому +7

    See....this is our India... here a small kid from chattisgarh..sung a idiotic song.."Bachpan ka pyaar"...he got fame, viral ...award from CM and many interviews......
    And this video's is. thousands times needed in our growing society....we need to talk openly....but... neither government nor media...is ready to openly talk about this...
    ....and
    Any misshapen happend....then...all medja and government... raise their Voices...but after some weeks... they all forget...
    Hatts of u ...

    • @mountainaustin
      @mountainaustin 2 роки тому

      @@Virtual___World behen toh hai nikal ja na yha se? Tmhare jaiso ki waise v zrurat nhi kisi ko...
      Bs rote rehte hain

  • @harshshukla9589
    @harshshukla9589 2 роки тому +38

    Truth be told, still in my college (I'm doing PG from a reputed university) when a person talk to another gender, people in my batch consider that as something fishy is definitely going b/w them 🤣, see even our young generation at such a mature age can't able to comprehend the meaning of causal talk or friendship between different genders... In a class except few small groups (who are already been set🙂), male and female hardly sit on a single seat, they all sit separately... Maybe small city, that's why

    • @aditisk99
      @aditisk99 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah that's usually the case in small cities.

  • @chris_sapkota
    @chris_sapkota 4 роки тому +21

    Seriously your contents are amazingly different thanx for the hard work

  • @_aaryajha_
    @_aaryajha_ Рік тому +3

    The fact that this video has been uploaded 3 yr ago and still no change has taken place in our society.

  • @sayanphilia
    @sayanphilia 2 роки тому +43

    The problem is the perspective. We want to always see someone(male/female) with the same preconceived perspective. If only we could drop those preconceived ideas for a moment and try to understand them beyond what we are already convinced is going to happen, can bring a change in our limited mindsets.

  • @snehroxs04
    @snehroxs04 Рік тому +1

    Salute to u brother.. most important topics which u explain ..non. Of one want to talk about it

  • @rahulbagul6980
    @rahulbagul6980 4 роки тому +25

    This is why i love ur channel ! No other YT channel would even think of a subject matter like this !

  • @Beastwadhai3463
    @Beastwadhai3463 2 роки тому +13

    Exactly.... I would like to tell you my personal experience. I was in 10th whenever I have to read and understand those concepts, I had to go either in a room or a place where nobody will interrupt. I'm currently preparing for exams in which there is detailed chapters but in spite of being 21 yrs old I feel even awkward to open those pages(diagrams) in front of my parents. And the reason to that is lack of sex education and lack of being free to discuss such topics with our elders.

  • @rodomondater1057
    @rodomondater1057 4 роки тому +27

    Thought provoking, enough research had to be done on this subject, meanwhile until now the best option is to give more regards to forensic evidence and fast disposal of rape cases with maximum convictions and strong deterrents in society.

  • @UltraKey7
    @UltraKey7 Рік тому +5

    The statement by police said women to stay in crowded place as if crowd protects the women if something bad happens with them..
    The real shameless is that crowd which speaks only AFTER things like that happens with women and don't try to protect women right at the time when it's needed...
    I hate those Men who justify their acts by saying that man can't control their desires, these all are just nonsense,
    Just because a man is having desires doesn't means he can do anything with anyone, i will recommend all men that if you can't control your feelings, then better go to some psychiatrist or isolate yourself or if nothing, then suicide, but you have no right to do injustice with anyone just coz of your so called desires...

  • @utsavisingh3324
    @utsavisingh3324 3 роки тому +18

    This deserve more attention

  • @hijratshah3377
    @hijratshah3377 4 роки тому +79

    A fan from Pakistan...

    • @TayyabEdits007
      @TayyabEdits007 4 роки тому +5

      @Shaurya Joshi HET STREET SHITTER, YOU ARE EVRYWHERE

    • @dr.octopush
      @dr.octopush 4 роки тому +5

      @Shaurya Joshi because you are modi's morning shit.

    • @anshumanmullick3894
      @anshumanmullick3894 4 роки тому

      @Shaurya Joshi who says am gae

    • @innocentgirl4169
      @innocentgirl4169 4 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/0dMISR83UPw/v-deo.html

    • @hijratshah3377
      @hijratshah3377 4 роки тому +1

      @@innocentgirl4169 why you are brainless or what..

  • @SolopoloLol
    @SolopoloLol Місяць тому +7

    Also rapists are majorly lower class... illiterate peole to unko ye campaigns samjh bhi mhi ane... ground level par jo government school ya lower class ya low grade entertainment ye sab consume karte hain unko direct educate aware kiya jaye in sab chizon se

  • @justicedoesntexist1919
    @justicedoesntexist1919 2 роки тому +8

    India does focus on victim and her character more than an accused. Accused even get mercy at times while a victim never gets that chance. Better to leave.

  • @aeri2222
    @aeri2222 Рік тому +3

    Parenting n education plays the biggest role here

  • @---ji9vi
    @---ji9vi 2 роки тому +18

    We gotta realise if,for a girl,it's "No",then it means "No". The obsolete declaration that defines Consent. We have no right to go beyond that.

    • @sandiego2380
      @sandiego2380 2 роки тому +6

      no means no for anyone regardless of gender.

  • @Jivi_Galaxy
    @Jivi_Galaxy 3 роки тому +11

    5:23 so VIRGINITY is more important than girl's life.

  • @nehapatel3036
    @nehapatel3036 2 роки тому +10

    I am 13 year old and I have so many expectations from our youth so many really and I think my expectations will not disappoint me 💜

  • @s0c1al_sl0th
    @s0c1al_sl0th Рік тому +4

    The root still lies in parenting & I can't be convinced otherwise. And obviously the way man's need for domination has been normalized. More than inability to control, I've always believed, rape & sexual abuses are manifestations of the perpetrators' need to be in charge & exercise control over someone.
    Parents need to teach their children empathy, probably the first thing that needs to be done.

  • @shivangithakur6408
    @shivangithakur6408 3 роки тому +9

    Why this channel and this video is so so much underrated 🥺..

  • @NithinAnnamalai
    @NithinAnnamalai 2 місяці тому +3

    Reason is we know more about stuffs through internet and not through schools or society.

  • @apoorvakhare6251
    @apoorvakhare6251 2 роки тому +7

    i think it is important to develop sensitivity amongst children on concepts like consent ,touch and privacy . it is interesting to note that many people and especially children don't even realise something happened to them and even if they do, they are afraid to accept it or share it.
    therefore , it is important to be vocal about it and make our society sensitive enough to talk about it in the open and
    above all let's stop glorifying , mocking and normalising rape culture and sexual objectification of both men and women via advertisments, movies and songs .

  • @vineelavini105
    @vineelavini105 3 роки тому +25

    Our holy books should be also studied by students to tell that when someone touches a girl's respect how their life gonna end with mahabharat and Ramayana. Parenting also play a key role. So that our next generations girls can be protected from abuses , rapes

    • @riyaansheikh7470
      @riyaansheikh7470 Рік тому +1

      Well, unfortunately, nowadays, many people don't focus on religion much, and so they tend to go astray and do such things

  • @13jhelum
    @13jhelum 4 роки тому +43

    Reminding me of MindHunters series

  • @voteforbest6318
    @voteforbest6318 4 роки тому +40

    *Brother iska part 2 bnao plz... Ye to short me btaya h apne*

  • @9_9435
    @9_9435 4 місяці тому +4

    If you are reading this and you have children than please treat them equally because parent are first teacher always

  • @yournoona581
    @yournoona581 2 роки тому +7

    I'm in class 8th and I'm really thankful for my science teacher for teaching us adult things. For what i know, my seniors, who used to be in our class too, said that their science teacher totally skipped the chapter. As much as i know, sex education is really important, and what's good and bad touch too. Teacher shouldn't ignore this, it is really important. Lol this is how they will teach us?

  • @the_epic_shits
    @the_epic_shits Рік тому +2

    Rape is not a male arrogance word
    It should be used in equality !!!!!

  • @deepankarroy774
    @deepankarroy774 4 роки тому +35

    This video's probably going to demonetize by UA-cam in spite of the quality of the content

  • @barnaliadhikary9421
    @barnaliadhikary9421 2 роки тому +6

    This is problematic...when males wear shorts , revealing attires, or tight dresses showing up bare bodies, or go topless in public or movies frequently, in songs, scenes, or in real life..why don't we say that "males are being objectified"... Or they are catering to the female gazes or female sexual attention???
    When women wear short dresses, tight outfits, like in item songs or even non item songs, or in any normal scene of the movies or in real life...why do we claim they are self objectifying themselves for make gazes or attention?
    Then anytime a woman wear anything revealing or tight, she can be tagged as "self objectifying for male gaze or attention & catering to make sexual desire"... But anytime a man wears anything revealing or tight we won't tag him claiming " he is self objectifying himself to catch female attention or female gaze & catering to female sexual desires"
    Why so?
    Why our mentality is like men can wear anything for themselves feeling good but females wear anything to cater to make sexual desires???
    Our mentality or thinking perspectives are the biggest culprits that snatches women's body autonomy and agency from them.

  • @vismaytiwari2954
    @vismaytiwari2954 4 роки тому +33

    Those asking for quick excution of criminals without any trials have the same mindset of those criminals,they want to solve problem quickly with out actually realizing any long term effects of those decisions just like those criminals satisfy there hunger of sexual need ,this people want to satisfy there anger.

  • @Woman_OfGod14.
    @Woman_OfGod14. Рік тому +4

    “why do men-“ erm the real question is why do PEOPLE- women can do it to bro

    • @meghanarora4136
      @meghanarora4136 Рік тому +6

      It's men in majority cases. There is a problem with men which needs to be addressed. The way they think they are above women and can do anything they want with them

    • @abbiesocker4803
      @abbiesocker4803 Рік тому +4

      ​@@meghanarora4136
      ..Right you are...I agree... . 👍🏼

    • @Tamil_Atheist2023
      @Tamil_Atheist2023 Рік тому +3

      It's men in majority mainly ,you. Do know women are weak unless they are thought and learned martial arts properly ,that's why women in Manipur are raped and brutally killed by men

  • @bhargabmajumdar8020
    @bhargabmajumdar8020 3 роки тому +7

    Everything this guy said is completely true and based on human psychology. Not only men but also women too can be guilty of rape. Every psychological aspect mentioned in the video answers the question for child sexual abuse on both genders. I'd like to say it would be much better if you can include these parts too and count it all as human violence

  • @deepchunia2044
    @deepchunia2044 3 місяці тому +3

    I am psychology student and I hope I can give my contribution to mental health of india 😀🙂

  • @akshitkumar6536
    @akshitkumar6536 3 роки тому +13

    Finally, someone did what i wanted to do. Thank you brother, everyone is tell you to be scared or to prevent. Not how to spot these mentality of the person. I got my own point maybe in future

  • @kyojuroswife4112
    @kyojuroswife4112 Рік тому +3

    The funny thing is society still believes if women r covered, from head to toe, rapes won't happen 😄 & that both have equal involvements in crimes like these😀

  • @Khushboogurbani
    @Khushboogurbani 2 роки тому +6

    I was really not knowing that there are also some reasons behind the rapes.. which is very clearly & beautifully narrated in the video Tysm Sir for the awareness 💙

  • @aliyakhan398
    @aliyakhan398 2 роки тому +11

    Capital punishment part I didn't like... Someone who does evil should be punished there is no way they live freely even after committing this heinous crime... Justice should be prevailed and hanging to death is the best option... And India delays the justice for too longer which is a negative point obviously... But only if they are punished other men out there fear to do such crimes..

  • @falgunisolanki8868
    @falgunisolanki8868 Рік тому +2

    nirbhaya and girja tikku case are still traumatic for me...well now we are aware that no man or woman is trustworthy...

  • @mdirfan4394
    @mdirfan4394 2 роки тому +9

    Pornography is also one of the reasons for rape.

  • @rajbeersingh6246
    @rajbeersingh6246 Рік тому +1

    A brave and sophisticated analysis, which was much needed in our country! I hope you gain more traction.

  • @arpitraj3636
    @arpitraj3636 Рік тому +9

    Please blame the person who rape, not the gender. It creates disrespect between both the gender...I am really pissed when i saw thumbnail "why MEN rape" means its just disrespectful for men in India who had made many laws to advantage women and girls over men and also lakhs of Indian men today stood up against and demonstrate if something bad happens to a women or girl child .😊😢

    • @kaosooll
      @kaosooll Рік тому +3

      There should be a death penalty for pedophilia and rape. They never change.

    • @Master_Unknown
      @Master_Unknown 6 місяців тому +1

      Don't expect anything about "rape of men" from the creator of this video. He is just a simp who is hungry of female attention.

  • @kumkum_2848
    @kumkum_2848 3 роки тому +11675

    It starts from the parents who treat their sons and daughters differently.

    • @ShivaniSharma-jb1zq
      @ShivaniSharma-jb1zq 3 роки тому +198

      Your right after this video I feel really insured. And scared to repist. I hope everyone is always be safe.

    • @ShivaniSharma-jb1zq
      @ShivaniSharma-jb1zq 3 роки тому +63

      @sinless potato brother your right. I hope I will become more powerful and strong. Jai bhavani 🙏

    • @mahika6200
      @mahika6200 3 роки тому +305

      Exactly! There's nothing wrong in asking your son to do the dishes and your daughter to carry the heavy bags and stuff. It starts from the home.

    • @kabulchandgurjar2741
      @kabulchandgurjar2741 3 роки тому +26

      Ya.. & 100% agree wid u!

    • @nirajpathak99
      @nirajpathak99 2 роки тому +5

      It starts with pre-natal testosterone in womb. Well, your room temperature IQ and ideological brain incapable of reason is another matter. 😎

  • @rakeshandey8203
    @rakeshandey8203 4 роки тому +7693

    Parenting is playing a major role!

    • @jennykhan5
      @jennykhan5 3 роки тому +84

      Nope!
      Not 100%

    • @Xavier-gk7cz
      @Xavier-gk7cz 3 роки тому +64

      Every mom in India now days do makeup and tiktok and dads romancing the moms

    • @idgaf4691
      @idgaf4691 3 роки тому +162

      @@Xavier-gk7cz wtf u are here too because of your dad romancing 💩

    • @idgaf4691
      @idgaf4691 3 роки тому +242

      @@Xavier-gk7cz what's wrong in doing makeup 🙄🙄🙄

    • @anupamaMall
      @anupamaMall 3 роки тому +55

      And education, friends and the mindset of the person.

  • @thegreatestchampion356
    @thegreatestchampion356 4 роки тому +652

    In North India when a girl gets raped, people say “izath loot liya”. Why would a girl loose her respect if she got raped!! Unless we change the rhetoric and society’s thinking, the problem will persist.

    • @acknowledge3868
      @acknowledge3868 2 роки тому +18

      Yup😑

    • @okay123hj
      @okay123hj 2 роки тому +19

      That needs to change.

    • @Shadowcat561
      @Shadowcat561 2 роки тому +6

      Bhai its like a word for rape victims ki "Izzat lut liya" or "izzat pe hath dalna".

    • @Tushar_Talwar_09
      @Tushar_Talwar_09 2 роки тому

      Im waiting for the why women rape video.
      Im tired of rape being used as a facade for bashing men.
      Male Feminists have become so blinded by their natural instinct to protect women that they have forgotten that men can be victims too.
      If mohak was really worth his salt he would mention that In 2014, as per a report submitted by Delhi Commission for women 53% of reported rapes in 2012-13 were found to be 'false'.
      Check google if you doubt this information, I am sure that majority rape cases in India are fake and not only rape cases but also dowry cases and molestation cases too.. women also force for divorce from their well earning husbands purposefully so as to capture their half income and property (called Alimony) like Jeff Bezos's wife did.
      Yeah not all women do that, but beware of the women you are with and also beware of any such women who can potentially send you to jail misusing Indian laws

    • @furiousgaming3965
      @furiousgaming3965 2 роки тому +24

      @@Tushar_Talwar_09 exactly this issue is not gender specific. Both genders should learn to respect each other.

  • @ritz5744
    @ritz5744 3 роки тому +14513

    I would like to narrate an incident here:
    This happened when I was in 10th standard, we had this chapter on reproduction in human beings and sexual health, which our biology teacher completely skipped. On being questioned she raised fingers at US and complained to our class teacher who in turn questioned us "what is so interesting that you need to read the chapter, we didnot learn this when we were in school" and much more along of the lines of the same.
    This is the kind of awareness we are receiving in our schools, where students should be learning. These are our teachers. What will the youth be and what will we expect??

    • @arushis7144
      @arushis7144 3 роки тому +978

      They should teach about consent. Sex ed is very important

    • @smirtibc7578
      @smirtibc7578 3 роки тому +667

      Could't agree more!
      When i were in 10th std, the teacher sarcastically said that it was our favourite topic and that there is no need to explain it to us.

    • @ddm1912
      @ddm1912 3 роки тому +276

      That's ridiculous

    • @priya-xr3rr
      @priya-xr3rr 3 роки тому +117

      many of these will be the same teachers who'll b responsible for marital rape coz their tr did the same

    • @Segen_Bell
      @Segen_Bell 3 роки тому +353

      Seriously? My teacher taught me about that in 10th grade. Now, I'm grateful.

  • @ranjanpal663
    @ranjanpal663 4 роки тому +8127

    such a underrated channel ..i guess people dont like logical things..

    • @indrasenmaurya7774
      @indrasenmaurya7774 4 роки тому +174

      ranjan pal gadariya bhai apne desh me logic nahi magic aur emotional drama chalta hai

    • @SandeepKumar-tj1jz
      @SandeepKumar-tj1jz 4 роки тому +108

      People are watching junk by Ekta Kapoor.

    • @sarathmr7829
      @sarathmr7829 4 роки тому +5

      Exactly

    • @biswajeet9826
      @biswajeet9826 4 роки тому +2

      Very true

    • @mayukh_
      @mayukh_ 4 роки тому +7

      That's r the bitter truth about Indians

  • @jairohilla5304
    @jairohilla5304 4 роки тому +8210

    I was shocked to see so many logical comments in the box. This made me realise there are youth who dont believe in bashing and abusing without understanding any context or even text.

    • @justicebydeathnote
      @justicebydeathnote 3 роки тому +42

      :-) thanks

    • @proffesorp3026
      @proffesorp3026 3 роки тому +62

      God See All
      God punish All

    • @idgaf4691
      @idgaf4691 3 роки тому +117

      @@proffesorp3026 there is no god

    • @theonewhoisfluff745
      @theonewhoisfluff745 3 роки тому +127

      @@proffesorp3026 it's okay to have your beliefs you don't have to say them out loud on the internet lmao people would fuck w you and you wouldn't even understand. Just keep them in your pocket or something.

    • @bavekoof
      @bavekoof 3 роки тому +39

      @@idgaf4691 It's just a "saying" or a way to say.. GOD is hope no one knows JYADA "EDGY " na bna kro

  • @noelsmaison685
    @noelsmaison685 3 роки тому +8639

    If it was only about sex, then men could easily go to prostitutes or even get one night stands on dating websites/apps these days. Rape is more about men being insensitive towards women, it’s more so about the power dynamic and ego satisfaction. It’s sad to say that I myself have been harassed by someone that I love, someone that I was dating with. He really didn’t understand the subject of consent and boundaries. All he thought was that I was his girlfriend so he was allowed to touch me whenever he wants even if I was saying no. One day, I was fed up and confronted him. That’s when I learned that he was just unaware that this is disrespectful and it shouldn’t be done. Most Men in this society don’t really understand the concept of consent. They just convince themselves that doing this is the right thing because nobody in their entire life truly, fully confronted them or taught them about respect, consent and boundaries. Most men go into marriage thinking that now they can have sex anytime they want because legally, or according to the society they have a wife. They don’t even realise what they do is forceful and wrong because they are convinced that what they do is justified. They have no idea of marital rape. The person who harassed me was responsible for his actions and he realised his crimes when I confronted him. He was truly guilty and apologised to me, even started doing his best to make me feel comfortable and not to cross my boundaries like that ever again. I’m not saying that he was innocent, but as a society, we have failed because we aren’t unable to teach our children about such important topics. Because I didn’t even realise that this was harassment until one and half years later of being repeatedly harassed. I was afraid to call it sexual harassment because I was never taught that your boyfriend touching you even when you don’t want him to, when you are uncomfortable with it is considered as harassment. It is crossing you boundaries. And this is just glorified by bollywood. It is considered attractive or cool in movies when guys try to charm their way into a girl’s heart/pants by being a douche, by catcalling them or forcefully touching them. We MUST educate ourselves and people around us on such topics to reduce the chances of such crimes.

    • @hopeworldbaseline843
      @hopeworldbaseline843 3 роки тому +545

      This should be the top comment!

    • @vanshtheone
      @vanshtheone 3 роки тому +114

      Typical Western mind. Not the solution at all.

    • @malkatabassum6708
      @malkatabassum6708 3 роки тому +700

      @@vanshtheonebut better than yours

    • @bharatbaswana7953
      @bharatbaswana7953 3 роки тому +411

      That's true my friend!!! Bollywood and easily accessible porn plays a crucial role in all this. Even some of my friends think that sex is all what we see in porn, that all women are always ready for it or I should say hungry for it and all they need to do is to start doing something stupid, what we see Bollywood actors doing around actresses to impress them but if you tell them that they are being really cheap and annoying for someone then they will consider YOU a stupid🤦

    • @AshishPanthee62
      @AshishPanthee62 3 роки тому +87

      Yeah Even i think the same.
      Dono agar khush na ho toh koi kaam nahi aisa sex karne se achha masturbation hota hai

  • @vansipo
    @vansipo Рік тому +944

    Heard a quote by some psychologist year back, I think it sums up pretty good: "rape is not a violent manifestation of sexual behaviour but a sexual manifestation of violent behaviour"

    • @anushreenair6241
      @anushreenair6241 Рік тому +34

      True....especially when done by someone in authority...its not lack of impulse control but an attempt to control, humiliate, terrorize and blackmail and some sick people use that as a means to punish.

    • @karantikoo9302
      @karantikoo9302 Рік тому +5

      exactly

    • @Linaelinaeya
      @Linaelinaeya Рік тому +7

      Oooh that makes sense.

    • @anuragbhattacharjee144
      @anuragbhattacharjee144 Місяць тому

      so should men practice some other hobbies like high impact violent sports like boxing so as to have an outlet for their violent tendencies? genuinely curious

  • @Anjali-fg1dg
    @Anjali-fg1dg 3 роки тому +6969

    The most important statement "India me zyada focus victims pe hota h rapist pe nhi". Each and every family should teach the moral values to EACH member of the family 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @chotug1695
      @chotug1695 3 роки тому +40

      It not about Teaching!!
      Its about actual practices to apply to release sexual urges

    • @whatif6170
      @whatif6170 3 роки тому +18

      Right....moral values & understnding of physical need is most important to stop this kind of incidents.

    • @buildingblocks001
      @buildingblocks001 3 роки тому +14

      u r right
      our entire tv system is responsibly for this.

    • @pranavghorpade0866
      @pranavghorpade0866 2 роки тому +17

      parents openly sex ki baatein nahi karte waha kya koi sexual knowledge dega ya kuchh bata paayega, maa baap sharmaate he sex ki baatein karne ke liye bachcho ke saamne, to kya batayengeye

    • @carloversjaihind5772
      @carloversjaihind5772 2 роки тому +4

      Jaise hi Tumhara comment aaya unhone bhi same time pe bola 😂