Lessons from 25 Years of Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • Ever wondered what it takes to sustain a loving, committed marriage for 25 years? Join us on this special anniversary episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, where we share 25 essential marriage principles that have helped us thrive. From navigating the turbulent early years to developing spiritual maturity, we reflect on our journey and offer insights that can help you deepen your relationship with both God and your loved ones.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 66

  • @jesusislord81
    @jesusislord81 3 місяці тому +4

    I enjoy watching you guys podcast, but if I had to say one thing is please let Tabitha finish a sentence if you ask her a question, I would really like to hear her feedback as a woman who needs the help. Thanks God bless

  • @miastrongarayasunshine
    @miastrongarayasunshine 3 місяці тому +9

    Men and women don’t think alike so women don’t usually use a rating system in that way…. So I understand Tabatha’s response. ❤

  • @TheLittlePrayerCafe
    @TheLittlePrayerCafe 3 місяці тому +27

    You asked her a question and should’ve accepted her answer. An 8.5 was completely accurate. She said the first two years you was 1-2. So yes that make sense. You started off bad, that negated from the 10. If you ask her to be honest, let her tell you without criticizing her. That negated from this episode. Accept her honest view of you. It’s called constructive criticism and for you to work forward. Being married for that long is a milestone. If you ask her for her opinion, allow her just that.

    • @jordanmontay9877
      @jordanmontay9877 3 місяці тому +1

      That didn’t take away from the episode at all for me, that was minuscule. They’ve been married 25 years, you don’t stay married that long worrying about little stuff like that. 8.5 was accurate, he was wrong but so what lol they’re allowed to be wrong or disagree sometimes

    • @TheLittlePrayerCafe
      @TheLittlePrayerCafe 3 місяці тому +2

      @@jordanmontay9877That’s your opinion. You can’t tell me what I felt. Hes did this in multiple episodes where he don’t like her responses. You cannot come under my comment telling me how to feel. I didn’t even finish the episode because he got offended by her honest truth. His ego is showing. Pride. All men want the truth and then most act like this when we give them their answers. She answered the question with GRACE considering he was requesting divorce in the beginning stages of their marriage. He still can’t take her honest opinion which is Pride (Leviathan) puffing his chest out. When you ask your wife for her opinion, don’t try to say something doesn’t make sense or attempt to demean their answer because you felt you should’ve gotten a higher rating. He asked her questions and told her to be honest and should’ve accepted her honesty without any rebuttal. Sit with her answer and listen to why she gave you that. A 8.5 is very high considering how he talks about how trash he was in the first 2 years. She rated him fairly high and answered his questions but him criticizing negated heavily from this episode for me. You go create your own comment. Good day sir.

    • @joycewatt8289
      @joycewatt8289 3 місяці тому +1

      @@TheLittlePrayerCafe
      Pride is a HUGE STUMBLING BLOCK for a lot of people even AND ESPECIALLY IN MARRIAGE!
      Married only 16 years here. I’m dealing with it too 🤦🏽‍♀️
      As Christians Pride SHOULD NOT BE A PART OF OUR CHARACTER!
      God says He HATES PRIDE 🙏🏽

    • @jordanmontay9877
      @jordanmontay9877 2 місяці тому +4

      I didn’t tell you how to feel I told you how I felt..you commented under their video and told him what he needed to do when they seem happy and have had a 25 year marriage. If you can comment under their video with your opinion I can reply to your comment with mine. You have something to say about what he says but can’t take when someone has something to say about what you say. The same way you told me not to comment and make my own post is the same way you could’ve not commented to them and made your own video…or go watch someone that you don’t think is “prideful”…but It’s really not as serious as you’re making it lol I pray you get through whatever may be going but you don’t need to be in the comments judging them if you can’t even take someone having a different opinion than you…you can always not watch their videos if you have that much of an issue with him…but you have a good day as well. God bless

    • @TariFamily-w8h
      @TariFamily-w8h Місяць тому

      ​@@jordanmontay9877 bro you arguing like a prissy girl, 😂calm down be a man it ain't that serious

  • @EBM0424
    @EBM0424 3 місяці тому +2

    What 25 years?????! 😮 you both got married at 5? Never seen such a young looking couple in my life.

  • @zealreel3407
    @zealreel3407 3 місяці тому +2

    That was so good y’all! Thank you for sharing! Happy Happy Anniversary! May the good Lord continue to bless y’all!

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 3 місяці тому +1

    19:33
    Yesssss
    Communication
    Communication
    Communication
    Is HUGE in MARRIAGE!
    You are 💯 correct!
    We NEED communication classes! 🙏🏽

  • @jeimyreyestv
    @jeimyreyestv 2 місяці тому +1

    I am with Tabatha there if I am not in the mood I want you to get me in the mood

  • @zvikomboreromac1635
    @zvikomboreromac1635 3 місяці тому +13

    8.5 rating is actually almost accurate if you were a 2 for 2 years and 9 for 23. Turns out the rating is 8.4! Thank you all for the wonderful episode. Congratulations and God bless you!

  • @lucybendolph
    @lucybendolph 3 місяці тому +1

    Happy 25th Anniversary to you both GOD BLESS YALL I love it ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @deniseslaughter1965
    @deniseslaughter1965 3 місяці тому +1

    Great episode...AGAIN! Happy 25th Anniversary to the BOTH of you! May the next 25-50 years, if the Lord tarries, BE NOTHING SHORT OF FANTABULOUS!! Kingdom Blessings!

  • @annembugua6266
    @annembugua6266 Місяць тому

    Congratulations, such a great episode

  • @deva5696
    @deva5696 2 місяці тому +1

    Happy anniversary! Our anniversary is also on July 3rd. We are celebrating three years of marriage. Our first two years were absolutely miserable as well. We are finally producing and eating good fruit in the land of the living. Thanks to your podcasts, Ken’s consistency & righteous pursuit of God and Tabatha’s gentle humility & honesty, I am growing-we are growing and the best is yet to come!

  • @blessingnjeri9823
    @blessingnjeri9823 3 місяці тому +1

    You guys are such a blessing 😊,, thank you allowing us learn from the wells of wisdom that you both posses ❤️. May God continuously bless you richly 😊.

  • @FunnyDinosaur-so1jw
    @FunnyDinosaur-so1jw 3 місяці тому +1

    Happy 25th anniversary GOD bless your family and continue to do what God is showing you to do for his people

  • @eri_hapeti
    @eri_hapeti 3 місяці тому +1

    God bless you both and happy 25 years of marriage, what a blessing 🤍 I’m 25 years old and I married the man of my dreams in April and you both have given me so much advice and wisdom to live a God first/Christian marriage 🥰 love this podcast, one of my favs! 🫶🏽

  • @tashanifrater4028
    @tashanifrater4028 3 місяці тому +1

    May our Heavenly Father continue to bless y’all Union. You guys are an inspiration. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @miastrongarayasunshine
    @miastrongarayasunshine 3 місяці тому +2

    Blessings to you both! 25 years…God is good! 😊

  • @chaelatv5144
    @chaelatv5144 3 місяці тому +1

    i dont know how i found this podcast ,but I know it was God. I found this sometime in the beginning of this year when my boyfriend and I started our walk and journey with Christ and began to start working towards marriage and you guys are like our online parents! We watch you together and individually while spending time with God. We thank you both for the encouragement and inspiration you provide to us because one day we will be married in Jesus Name and able to implement these principles (some we have begin to work on already) and congratulations on hitting 25 years of marriage you all make a beautiful couple! I thank the Lord that I found this the day that I did because we leave every episode feeling blessed & refreshed and with a renewed perspective & we greatly appreciate it. This podcast means so much to us and we hope to meet you all in person one day to tell you thank you!

  • @lebohangmakhoana_LPH
    @lebohangmakhoana_LPH 3 місяці тому +1

    All across 🇿🇦 Congratulations to 25 years of godly marriage

  • @Fearlesslyme463
    @Fearlesslyme463 3 місяці тому

    1 Corinthians 7:4
    The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife.

  • @Jesseniaa19
    @Jesseniaa19 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤ Happy 25th anniversary!!!!!

  • @kourtneyhooks305
    @kourtneyhooks305 3 місяці тому +1

    Happy Anniversary!!!

  • @antoniapinnix8321
    @antoniapinnix8321 2 місяці тому

    There was a church play entitled "GLORY TRAIN." I'm just trying to make it in. I enjoy your podcast. When I come to FL, I'd love to visit.

  • @kerryg3885
    @kerryg3885 2 місяці тому

    Happy Anniversary guys! ❤❤ May Gods hand continue to cover you! Thank you for your obedience and for all your wisdom🙌🏽❤️

  • @IndhiraDeLaRosa
    @IndhiraDeLaRosa 3 місяці тому

    YOU GUYS ARE AMAZING and hilarious! Love the love you have for one another. Continue showing other that long last relationships exist. May you guys continue to impact life by sharing your own. God bless.

  • @AmandaRentzYeshuasaves
    @AmandaRentzYeshuasaves 3 місяці тому

    Thank y'all! And Tabitha your so beautiful. I love your smile. He's a blessed husband!! And your a blessed wife

  • @exclusiveflavahh831
    @exclusiveflavahh831 3 місяці тому

    First of all, HAPPY 25th ANNIVERSARY!!! I love watching your videos and this one has taught me so much. May God bless you both and everyone watching or listening. 🙏🏾❤

  • @elizabethlee6670
    @elizabethlee6670 2 місяці тому

    Happy anniversary, God bless you, and I pray for 25 more years of a thriving marriage. Keep fighting the good fight, you both are doing Gods will, and it’s a blessing to see. ❤️🙏🏾🙌🏾💐

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 3 місяці тому

    I’m watching this
    July 3, 2024
    Happy 25th Anniversary
    Congratulations 🎊🎉
    To God Be The Glory 🙏🏽
    Blessings to you Tabitha as a cancer survivor. I work with cancer patients so my prayers are with you🙏🏽

  • @christopherrose7785
    @christopherrose7785 3 місяці тому

    Truly solid advice for Christian marriage. Just powerful words I needed to hear Ken & Tabatha. God bless you both. ♥️🙏🏾

  • @thyramccray724
    @thyramccray724 3 місяці тому

    Congratulations on your 25 years Anniversary ,knowing God’s Blessings is on your marriage and you will have many more wonderful years love you and her very much ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 3 місяці тому

    35:46
    I agree 💯
    Typically it’s women who do that but…my husband does this so men can be guilty too.

  • @brightstar4576
    @brightstar4576 3 місяці тому

    Congratulations you guys new to your channel thank you for the great advice beautiful couple ❤

  • @kolynslester6858
    @kolynslester6858 3 місяці тому

    Incredible people. one of my favorite podcast on youtube!!

  • @PoleCatDaPimp
    @PoleCatDaPimp 3 місяці тому

    Im very upset and i feel like giving up on my wife who won't let her past go

    • @mongiwamabaleka4820
      @mongiwamabaleka4820 3 місяці тому

      Pray and ask God for wisdom. It works for me all the time

  • @nadysincere1492
    @nadysincere1492 2 місяці тому

    I love you both thank you for your lovely podcast ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @venussailorluv5094
    @venussailorluv5094 2 місяці тому

    Love this episode, confirmation and vibes were there. 🧡🕊

  • @msbarnes780
    @msbarnes780 2 місяці тому

    Happy anniversary 25 + you guys are the best.

  • @davidn.12
    @davidn.12 3 місяці тому

    God Bless you both Pastor Ken and Pastor Tabatha 🙏

  • @alexisstrickland1820
    @alexisstrickland1820 3 місяці тому

    I love this, God has blessed you two and your union.

  • @deva5696
    @deva5696 2 місяці тому

    I caught that 😂 lol @ Peaches 🍑 ‼️ #comingtoamerica

  • @Fearlesslyme463
    @Fearlesslyme463 3 місяці тому

    Happy 25th anniversary ❤🎉

  • @lizjackson3269
    @lizjackson3269 3 місяці тому

    Thank you!! Congrats!! ❤❤.

  • @priscillafumadorh7186
    @priscillafumadorh7186 3 місяці тому

    So good!
    Thank you so much Ken & Tabatha

  • @JulianaBwanika-by5cg
    @JulianaBwanika-by5cg 3 місяці тому

    So blessed by you guys. Serving my man oh yeah😊

  • @noms3841
    @noms3841 3 місяці тому

    Tabatha looking gorgeous❤

  • @tashanifrater4028
    @tashanifrater4028 3 місяці тому

    Happy Anniversay🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @CateWisdom-df8wl
    @CateWisdom-df8wl 3 місяці тому

    Happy anniversary 🎊🎉 in advance 😊

  • @mirandamaxwell7858
    @mirandamaxwell7858 3 місяці тому

    Happy Anniversary!!!!

  • @ReggieMarcus
    @ReggieMarcus 3 місяці тому

    That drumroll though!

  • @TeeWord
    @TeeWord 3 місяці тому

    Congrats on 25 years!

  • @RollanskyDarote
    @RollanskyDarote 3 місяці тому

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @jasminesmith913
    @jasminesmith913 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤🎉

  • @JoshuaHairiston
    @JoshuaHairiston 3 місяці тому

    this is so good

  • @InT3graTi-Of-Pur3InH3arT
    @InT3graTi-Of-Pur3InH3arT 3 місяці тому

    AMEN 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 TRUTH 💯

  • @BMSALTer
    @BMSALTer 3 місяці тому

    MIGHTY RICH

  • @nitseybellefleur5717
    @nitseybellefleur5717 3 місяці тому

    Kaiiiii 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nitseybellefleur5717
    @nitseybellefleur5717 3 місяці тому

    Amennnnnn

  • @eveperry1172
    @eveperry1172 2 місяці тому

    Yes Yes Yes

    • @eveperry1172
      @eveperry1172 2 місяці тому

      Communication is ESSENTIAL