Nick & Ant On Our Gay Wedding, Exposing Our Relationship & Gay Marriage Evolution
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- In this heartfelt episode of Old Gays, New Gays, Nick and Ant share their deeply personal journey through the planning and celebration of their gay wedding. Joined by Dan and Frank, two seasoned members of the LGBTQ+ community, they provide a rich, multi-generational perspective on the evolution of gay marriage and same-sex marriage.
Dan and Frank recount their experiences of navigating love and commitment during a time when gay marriage was not yet legalized, offering poignant insights into the struggles and triumphs of the past. In contrast, Nick and Ant share a fascinating story about meeting the first couple to the cutest gay proposal when ant proposed to legally marry in Scotland during a chance encounter at a restaurant while on holiday.
The episode delves into the fears and anxieties that still persist within the gay community around marriage, including the emotional impact of their first public kiss at their wedding. Nick and Ant also open up about their relationship, revealing the truths behind their marriage and the challenges they face.
Tune in for a candid and enlightening conversation that explores the personal and societal milestones of gay marriage, the progress made, and the road still ahead. This episode is a testament to love, resilience, and the ongoing fight for equality in the LGBTQ+ community.
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FYI: We have been together for 40 years, married in Massachusetts a few months after it became legal in this state. We had about 50 guests at our wedding which was at the home of a good friend. We wish you all a long, happy, healthy life together. All of your programs are well done with a good mix of information and humor.
wow! Congratulations ❤❤❤
What the hell is wrong with you
I love watching these podcasts. Love the New Gay Old Gay concept. I am one of the Old Gays at 60
We love this! And we love the Old gays ahah 💖
What's what the hell's wrong with all of these people in this community?!??
This podcast is my favourite. Absolutely love listening to you all talk on various different topics. I think Frank & Dan are wonderful too! Thanks for bringing this podcast into my life 😊
The video of Nick & Ant kissing in front of protesters at London Pride was EVERYTHING! 🏳️🌈
Awe thank you so so much
What you guys did in Pride - running hand in hand - twirling and kissing was fantastic ….and had a massive effect on the crowd, the fans and the protesters!!! IMO it was incredibly brave of you …and in no way were you being disrespectful to the protesters!!
💥🌟🥇🏆👬🏆🥇🌟💥I read through all the comments and quite a number of people remarked that Jesus does not hate gays!!… Often homophobic people unjustifiably shelter behind Jesus or some other religious belief. In their minds they create a God who is homophobic, which is outrageous!!You helped to confirm all this!! 👏👏👏
Very meaningful comment Steve, thank you so much!
Thanks Frank and Dan for sharing some photos. ❤
This is the only podcast I listen to and I love it. It’s so informative and intelligent and helpful.
Awe wow thank you so much
What's the hell are you saying that's so helpful?!!
We’re celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary at the end of this month! Even though it wasn’t technically legal in Atlanta in 1999, we still count it. The ordained Methodist minister wasn’t supposed to do it but did it anyways after making us attend all the weekly marriage classes the straight couple had to. The ceremony was in a chapel (we call it our white wedding) followed by a reception with a 450lb drag queen southern gospel singer providing the entertainment all night. When civil unions first became legal (in Vermont) one year later we went and had our “white trash” wedding on our anniversary date with the Justice of the Peace in the gazebo in the center of the small town of Stowe. When it became legal in our new home state of NH in 2009, we did it again and again on our anniversary date and then married again in 2015 when the US Supreme Court struck all state bans. It’s been a long journey but the same day every time.
What a great example you are!
Wow thats amazing, Happy anniversary ❤
@@TDonnelly1 marriage was not instituted by man but by god do not try to re define it/ simple husband and wife/ man and man is something else call it what u want ok
@@alanaban1840 You can believe whatever you want but why not keep it to yourself. It’s our marriage. It’s our commitment. Go have a happy life.
@@TDonnelly1 do want is correct/ and they will be less probably/ put thing on places they were design for / do not use exit for entrance/ do not twist things / like charges repel each other/ you came into the world as a result of natural order not dis order/ take a cue from you parents/ they is a right and a wrong way
In regards to gay marriage in the US. It is fully legal in all 50 states as of 2015. If you does get appealed, The Respect for Marriage Act requires each states to recognized any gay marriage that is performed.
Ah interesting! We weren't too sure but thank you for this!
Dan & Frank, your wedding photos are lovely! Thank you for sharing ❤❤
Awee. Thanks
We have been together 19 years now and married 7. Me 74 and husband 55. We we decided to get married, my daughter (from marriage in my trying to be straight days in my 20"s) had it all worked out in just days. No big plans, just close friends. Like Dan and Frank, I did what society expected of me..
Love this podcast. And I love the video of you both kissing at pride. It was a beautiful depiction showing that love always wins even in the face of diversity. Sending love from South Carolina.
Awe thank you becky!!
I think.
All of these people wanted a chat are so gay
Such an informative, fun and down to earth podcast today. You always talk such factual truths and give useful knowledge so people can research for themselves. Love all your podcasts. Ur both great and send you both much love and best wishes for your life. Xxx🤗
Thanks for being here! ❤ Amazing to hear this!!
Over and over I love all 4 of you. This was another great podcast. Frank was right, there is never a defined time to get married. Do it on your own time and own terms.
Thank you so much for listening :)
Aaaah i can't wait!! ❤
Finally! Its here, did you enjoy todays episode? ❤️
@@ItsJustNick_ so much!
Another enjoyable episode. I very much enjoyed your appearance at Pride, very brave and inspiring. I hope that you get your wish of having a 'Big Gay Wedding' someday soon. Love and best wishes to all four of you. ❤❤❤❤👬🏻👬🏻
Awe thank you Micky!
Love this story, so sweet!!
Thank you Judy 🥰
Thank you for ur amazing podcast I love them so much and I think they help people who can relate to you guys. Hope you guys have an amazing July!! Love you ❤
Can't hank you enough for watching!
Another wonderful and informative show, thank you!!
Thank you so much for watching! 😍
Hey guys. I was in a bit of a funk early this week so missed the premier. This was a lovely podcast and I thank you very much for it. I live in the US and I fear not only for gays but for all of us. It's true, what has been given can be taken away. It's so easy to see instances of this. Take love ya all and see ya next time.
so interesting 😮thank you for this superb podcast ❤
Thank you for watching!
Loving these podcasts. Though I find Ant and Nick's weeding photos so classy and tasteful. I'm a minimalist, so to me, those are perfection.
I really enjoyed today’s discussion. I always wanted to get married but never got close to that much love. Oh well, too late now. I’m just another old gay.
Its never too late!!
Nick, I can't believe you and your husband, Anthony are talking to Dan and Frank about your gay wedding, exploring your relationship and gay evolution on this video, I'm proud of you for that as a gay men!! 😮 #LGBTQPodcast #gaywedding #GayDatingAdvice
Hehe, thanks so much!
First I LOVE this podcast! Nick and Ant, I’ve followed you for a long time and you guys and you’re both awesome!!!!
In the US gay marriage is actually legal in all fifty states…on June 26, 2015 the US Supreme Court struck down all state bans on same-sex marriages and required all states to honor out-of-state same-sex marriage licenses. The case was Obergefell v. Hodges. Though I completely agree that the US is sliding backwards and as a gay man I’m fearful, but also hopeful that we will hold onto the rights we’ve gained here in the US!
Also, Congress passed a law requiring all states to recognize marriages that were legally entered into in other states, so even if the Supreme Court reversed itself in the future, and allowed states to restrict who they let marry, they would still have to recognize legal out-of-state marriages.
Owwn i loved that episode ❤
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Ok... Who else wants an invite? 👇🏼
I have been waiting for this
LovelyOnes!!!! Always!!!! With Lovely People!!!!
Awe! Thanks for being here! ❤️
I was one of the volunteers at London pride and I saw you guys lol
omg hey!
I can’t wait
thank you for another lovely episode!!💙💙 anyone else thinks dan looks like chandler in the wedding photos?
Beautiful wedding photos of the Old Gays
Another great video. Thanks, guys. In the US homosexuality was considered a mental disorder until 1973 when it was taken out of the DSM (a compendium of mental disorders.) Same-sex sexual activity was also illegal in many states until the Supreme Court declared such laws as being unconstitutional in 2003. Then, in 2015, the Supreme Court determined that it is "a fundamental right" for same-sex couples to marry, making it legal in all 50 states. That's quite a change in approx. 30 years. It's really awesome to see you two couples being in such committed (and legally recognized) relationships. I've been following Nick and Ant for some time now, and have absolutely no doubt about their committed, solidly loving relationship. The 2013 film "Bridegroom" is a tragic showing of what happened when a gay couple weren't married and didn't have the necessary rights. Looking forward to the next podcast.
It would be interesting to hear young/old discussion about the Sketch situation.
Absolutely! Thank you for mentioning this
U both are perfect for each other....ur podcasts are absolutely great
Wonderful video! Also, same sex marriage in the United States has been nationally legal since June 2015 🏳️🌈 ❤️
Hopefully it stays that way.
Thank you!!
Negative comments come from people who are envious of what you have. Some people just can’t feel happy for someone else’s happiness or success😟😟 so sad!
100% agree, this goes back to our homophobia episode but If they feel so passionately about the LGBTQ and how we live our lives, there's probably a call coming from inside the house 🤫
@@ItsJustNick_ 100%❣️
Just a correction. Marriage equality marriage equality is in every state it is not on a case-by-case or state-by-state basis. That has been since June 26th 2015. The current supreme Court could try to change that but they will need a case
I got married at 19. Im straightish but ive been with my h7sband for 22 years and married for 21 years. There is no time. As long as you know its uour person. Its a feeling you get. I also can say we have been through hell and back but still we are married some how. Not many would survive our marriage but we have.
I support you all and O so happy you all were able to experience love and ant and nick I loved you kissing in feont of the protesters it was beautiful!!! Love is love
If love is love then water is water drink from it toilet😂😂😂😂😂😂
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@@Mariam_rudberg why do you mean by it your comment make no sense
I can't wait
Woah you're super quick!
The thing that was missing from my wedding was my mom since she had passed away. A week before me and husband got married back in 2015 i had an emergency c section with my oldest kiddo also my only daughter i have a daughter and two sons. My blood pressure had skyrocketed so they had to do an energency c section she was six weeks early. My two oldest kiddos where priemes and my youngest was full term . But i feel like my momma is very much my guardian angel
I love this podcast ❤
Thanks so much for listening!
People just need to be happy who ever makes you happy you should marry and live a good life together no one should judge anybody
Couldn't have said it better myself 😄
My Chinese friend gao and I been together for many years . I don’t really care what people think . Gao completes me and he is also martial art teacher . When anyone finds someone to complete each other they should be able to find happiness. Many of my straight friends are usually breaking up and cheating. GAO and I have disagreements but never will break up . I know deep down gao is my soul mate and soon will be married
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Thats what alot of people said about me and my husband cause we got married at 20 years old we are 29 and still married
I have been married to my husband for nine years and we have been together for 10 years
Iam happy for you guys
And congratulations on your alls marriage
this is original idea and interesting. much better than the damn pranks.
Can you make a review of project 2025 seems like I think you should review it…
Married March 28th 2008 in Canada
Marriage is a federal right in the US.... it is not state by state. It has been that way since 2015....
Good correction. Let’s hope it stays that way! Supreme Court hasn’t been so kind to women’s fed rights.
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I am sorry, but my group Pride was to show that we will not die in silence. I met two men that were at stonewall. They told us that almost every night the police were killing one of us. Till they get tired of being afraid, and started fighting back loudly. They told us we have to make sure that all the gays killed before Stonewall are not forgotten, like in the Holocaust. Most don’t know we get the black, and pink triangles from there. Gays and lesbians went to the prison camps and were killed there with a pink triangle for gays, and lesbians had a black triangle, and were killed in Germany.
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What happened to the audio at 6:08 to 6:13?
We both american and married in Canada
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Actually gay marriage is fully legal in the US. Every state. Recognized on a federal level.
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Gay marriage is still legal in all US states.
Love is love thats what matters i think the places where gay people cant married isnt right it shouldnt being an issue gay people should have all the same rights
If love is love then water is water drink from it toilet😂😂😂😂😂😂
What you just said in reply doesnt matter cause its childish and immature
I am pansexual i want to go to pride i have never been
Why is gay and I hate this so freaking much🤬🤬🤬
No
That is what i an getting at they is more to marrage than just love / if is just love that matters y sister and brother that love each other is not allow to marry/ marrage is also about the ability to procrate / meaning only a man and woman can do/ see the body parts was design for that purpose / sane sex annot fit in that catagoury
Nick’s voice is so feminine 😂😂😂
if you can identify as anything you want then I'm Taylor swift
They are ( two consenting adults ) in the same as a sister and a brother / ( if they love each other (as u say) y stop then from marrage ./ Do not try to evade it. marrage is husband and wife You do not under stand the purpose of marrage in its totality it is more than love / you what also procration and other things
You perception of marriage is twisted/ the creator way is husband and wife/ not husband and husband/ husband and husband is not marriage/ put things in places it was design for /
It's not twisted what so ever. If you love each other, would do anything for each other, regardless of sex you should have the right to marriage. Its why most if not all progressive countries now have it legalized
@@ItsJustNick_ if you standard is just love / if I love my sister and we both love each other we also should have the right to marry/ it goes for mother and son/ they are universal laws
The world does not revolve around Christian values.
Of course you are welcomed to vote for same-sex marriage to become illegal again.
@@alanaban1840That’s incest, which is wrong in itself. Two men or women who are adults, and in love, and consent to getting married is NOT the same thing. I suggest you educate yourself before commenting.
@@ItsJustNick_ do not use the progressive argument/ because it is not / in the same way abortion is in readymade
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A great concept & informative while entertaining 🫶