I used to feel so bad for Rasheeda and then I watched the reunion when she didn’t believe K.Michelle’s abuse story and now I am so conflicted...
This is her karma. She was too involved in that story, and drugged K Michelle's name through the mud. So for me, them tears meant absolutely nothing. This wasn't the 1st time that man humiliated her on national television and she continues to keep taking him back. She's weak, pathetic, and is reaping what she sewed. Cry me a river.
God will humble you. I saw Memphis go off on Toya and wondered what Rasheeda thought about that...
Exactly how K Michelle felt when she didn't believe her.
Not really, K Michelle had an abuse situation and no one believed her, Rasheeda had a cheating situation and she got sympathy from it. I feel bad but they're different situations
@@Maso_Prince Cheating on your wife who had been nothing but a wonderful partner to you plus getting the other woman pregnant is mental and emotional abuse and that’s no better than physical abuse. Abuse is abuse.
"Not only did you hurt me but you broke me", that part is so sad
tea foster I know... I only love my son more than me x I like her she is a lovely lady x
@@job2358 I dont judge them from what I see on tv but her goin back after all he's done makes me not respect her.
tea foster I don’t but I see it in her... she is different resin x tbh I ended my marriage when I found out what he did to me (similar to what Kirk did to her) I have to be honest we weren’t together as long as her and Kirk but my self respect was worth more than any man
I wish Rasheeda would leave this fool. Kirk sees his wife overwhelmed to the point of tears, and he still has a straight face??
Fikayomi Fatiregun He feels like shit..you can tell on his face.. Shame like a dog.
All the other fuckin men in the room are crying and they're not even married to her. They haven't spent 18 years with this woman. They've never had children by this woman. And experienced her love and affection but yet they still felt empathy and sadness for her and they're not even in a relationship with her! Now please what does that tell you about Kirk's character...
Imani Smith Exactly,I noticed that too! It was really painful to watch .He sat up there like he has no soul. I remember when he got caught with those girls in the jacuzzi years ago.This is way too much and She is a gorgeous. girl. It is no way anybody in any part of the world and not feel her pain.
I could NEVA feel bad for Rasheeda after what she told K. Michelle about not being abused!
Right and I don’t remember her ever saying sorry karlie ass said that too
I get you. I feel sympathetic to her but the shit she said to Kimberly pops into my head and I feel less for her
Omfg why was I also thinking that lmao I wanted to feel bad but in my head I was thinking about how she did k Michelle that’s why she said Kirk had 3 earrings cuz fuck y’all 😂😂😂🤷🏽♀️
@@Shestheman013 what you feel sorry for could have left that man if she wanted it not like she just like the fake and shit she get with Kirk and his three earring can go to with his grooming ass which is the only thing I sympathize with
Right here with you.. the tables always turn. Rasheeda doesn’t deserve nobody sympathy she’s touched in the head and chose that life.
Did all that crying just to defend him and stay with him.
Exactly! Did all of that just to stay and look dumb talking about “we celebrate 20 years”. She can have that
He threw away 17 years down the drain over 30 minutes of pleasure and he don't care I'm about to go break down and cry
Damn you got Scrappy and Joc crying and everything 😭😭
Kiki Luv Girlllllllll my ass was trying to gather my thoughts and emotions 😭😭😭
Man... I shed a few tears for her and I don't even know her! Poor Rasheeda! :(
Everybody crying and feeling bad for Rasheeda except Kirk himself I swear.....😒
Kay Nova it's harder than one would think. Hopefully you'll never be in her shoes.
Elizabeth Clarke I don't feel bad, this is not the first time this has happened, yet she stays. He's shown her that he's gonna stray. Why pretend it's gonna be different.
Kirk is a fool. not just a fool a damn fool to hurt rasheeda
If Rasheeda cheated too, she wouldn’t be this broken. This just proves my point, she lied to protect Kirk🤦🏿♂️
Facts🤦🏾♂️ I been saying that… I’m actually close with a cousin & he’s VERY abusive
@@melissamanigo4548 he has issues, I think on his part he feels extremely inferior to her. Because she is the bread winner & has been throughout 19 years of their relationship… it’s almost as he that he should’ve been the big famous rapper (he use to rap)
When she says she grew up with him she literally means it cause she was a whole teenager when he got with her while he was a grown man 25, I think he has perfectly groomed her to be the woman he wants her to be cause look , she still with him and maybe that has more to do with them needing to have a storyline for the show in the end but I think he has groomed Rasheeda to be his doormat.
Yes he did groom her into his door mat. And she allows it. Men like that are energy vampires. He gets a high off manipulating her and tearing her down because people like her are weak minded.
Dime love Rasheeda so much.
@@vw7402 Dime always had her back on the show. She dragged a bitch for Rasheeda. Supported her business ventures, and they are friends to this day
He didn't even care omg
I see a face of hurt as well..Kirk's... like Man have you really Hurd a grown man cry?... it's it's.. just.. smh.. you don't want to... it's deep down inside...👻
Janelle Allen if he cares he wouldn’t have wasted 17 years for a piece of ass. Excuse my language
Joslynn Banks two folk said that to me when I said my ex was just using me for wooha they was like we don’t stick around that long for ass I said shiddddd😖
I’m starting to think marriage ain’t for me... I understand you’re supposed to fight for your marriage but baby I would’ve been LONG GONE!
Damn her last words hit hard " Not only did you hurt me, but you broke me!" A broken female is the toughest to convince that love is real and trust is easy, when its shown.
dont blame rasheeda, sometimes when you love someone so bad, you just cant let them go even tho you know they are not good for you...its really a sad situation
agreed, Unless she stays again. then after that your just hurting yourself.
EBIN J i do blame her she could have divorced his bitch ass got a little money and found someone who isnt goin to make an ass of her on national tv. shits on her face bx she knew to leave
True especially when kids are involved. sometimes you are over a person but when your children ask where's daddy it's like you don't want to do that to them. Rasheeda at this point is probably thinking about her children
Kirk's 49 yrs old and still playing. What?!
@Auset Ausar yes girl my kids father is 52 running around like he 18.
Some MFs don't want to grow up. Just sucking the life out of every woman they get involved with because they only care about themselves.
I genuinely do not care about how many years we have, the connection we have. All of that goes down the drain when somebody cheats. I will NEVER take no man back if he cheats. That isn’t love!
This person that says you’re not all in- and have one foot in the door-
Ummm hello! A person cheating on you is literal proof that they don’t have their all in- and they are actively seeking something else while with you!!!!
Men love to say oh we don’t care about sex, we can have it with whoever and not care- but beware because when a man says that, he’s telling you that the same goes for you. Hence why he is comfortable enough to go get in another woman’s bed then come back and hop into YOURS!
I've known LOVE and HURT like this before.
And sometimes it's sad that it has to take the BIGGEST BETRAYAL (Even though NOTHING is BIGGER than your husband having a WHOLE CHILD on you!!!!) in the world for a woman to say "You know WHAT...... ENOUGH is ENOUGH!!!!" My biggest betrayal was my SO-CALLED BEST FRIEND sleeping with and literally starting a relationship with my SUPPOSED TO BE FIANCEE.
And even AFTER introducing them to each other WITH titles, the STORY and SO-CALLED REASON for her doing what she did had me so heated that I was LITERALLY ready to take JAIL time for BEATING both of them. But when I hung up the phone with her after our conversation which I told her to NEVER dial my number again as long as it was ACTIVE and could reach ME. That I would NEVER speak to again even if one of us was on our DEATH BEDS because in my heart that was just how badly SHE had hurt ME!!!!!
I didn't care about him betraying me but her betraying me hurt more because I had known her longer than I knew him and we were supposed to be like SISTERS!!!!!!
She tried to contact me through mutual friends for over a year but when she saw I was going for it, she finally backed off. However the one good thing I can say that came from that experience is Me being able to meet the man that became my best friend.
That's why I will NEVER understand why LITTLE BOYS will throw away GREAT WOMEN and why GREAT WOMEN take as much BULL from LITTLE BOYS that we do until we get so FED UP that there's NO GET BACK!!!
When she said not only you hurt me but you broke me 🥺😔-that hit different 😭
I've been waiting for Rasheeda to leave Kirks ugly self and karlie red sitting there tryna push tears out her eyes😂 aw man gotta love this show
J .ox 😂😂 I was thinking the same thing about Karli..I'm just like "Ugh, shut up Karli witcho fake ass"😂😂!!
@@Senoj715 yes hunny..she just urks me sometimes..I understand she was trying to help rashedda out but damn take a break and mind your business sometimes..she is too damn messy
Nah Karlie cared, shes messy but she has a good heart and no one wants to see your mentor couple's entire marriage crumble in front of your face. And I agree he is an insecure, moron; but I felt like he looked ashamed and he probably bottles his emotions. It was killing him to see how humiliated she was.
I can't feel sorry for a woman who can, but doesn't leave...
Why is everybody crying like this the first time he did her wrong 😭😭😭
This is beyond a broke heart...this is to the soul. Too many people know her pain.
When you cheat its wrong but sometimes you can put it in the past try and move forward but when a baby is the result of it that's a different kind of hurt you have a living breathing walking talking reminder in your face she really loves him to stick with him she's a strong faithful ass woman but she need to leave him his woman cried her heart out in pain and he didn't shed a tear it should hurt your soulmate when you hurt and he just sat there lookin dumb at this point he knows she won't leave he's all to familiar with the tears and the speeches
“You broke me” that’s the realist shit a woman can tell a man when in situations like this! Pure Damage!
"Iconic couple." That part was out of line 😭😭😭
I feel bad for Rasheeda. Everyone on stage is crying except for Kirk himself 😒
@@anthonyaccurate not necessarily. you don’t live her life to understand why she put this man on a pedestal and before herself. it’s very sad. he took advantage of a great woman who just wanted the best for him and tried her hardest to see the good in him. they got kids too. that’s odee.
Y'all wanna know why Kirk ass ain't crying? Cause homeboy know that even in the mist of those tears she gonna take his ass back and the cycle will continue. Do better sis 😕 How many times you gonna allow him to break you mama?
Cause kirk a real ass nigga. A straight up G. He know know he got his bitch on lock. She ain't letting him go no where. He can do her how ever he wants and she'll always be back and that's some real nigga shit right there. So you you tell me, How that look him crying like a straight bitch, you damn right he gone do her like that. You'll understand when you grow up. You gotta lie to these hoes to get what you want.
Ironic how all the men on the stage are brought to tears, except for Kirk
I feel for Rasheeda. I come from a home too where my parents would argue to the point I wished they would just separate. I also know how it feels like to see someone crying over someone they should have left a long time ago, only to go back and defend them. I wish Rasheeda would see her worth...
as many times as he cheated on her she still got back with him. I understand they have children but my God how many times are you going to let this man break you?
Drop him he don't even give af he still guna b cheating
They have children and he’s messin up like I don’t understand why he would do dat #dumphisass
The saddest part about this is that Mimi understands and knows how she feels about this
This Couple have such a Beautiful energy together. They were the first people I seeked out to meet in Atlanta.
They are meant to be together believe or not very loving and inspiring u have to be in their presence to witness❤️😘🙏🔥💯
I don't think that man will ever be remorseful.He bothers me.
Wow it’s 2020 and tears 😭 still came out my eyes watching this episode.... GOD CAN HEAL YOUR PAIN!!! GOD BLESS EVERYONE AND STAY SAFE!!
@@twilight6779 IF YOU DONT LIKE ME SPEAKING ON GOD DONT READ MY POST SATAN)… HAVE A BLESSED DAY EVERYONE!!
Agreed Rasheeda!.. I went through the same thing still hurts till this day but it did make me stronger💪💪💪 Stand tall keep ya head up and 10 toes down baby cause we got this sis!🙌👏❤💃
Kirk is a FOOL to cheat on Rasheeda
Milly Milly You think it’s all about looks? She’s beautiful, she’s a businesswoman and a good mother from what we’ve seen. That’s why he would be considered a fool. It doesn’t have to be based solely off of looks.
HE isn't the fool. SHE is. He knows he'll get away with cheating because the fool will take him back every time. She's a damn fool.
What broke me is when she said "we have kids that look up to you like a superhero
This episode has brought to tears, Rasheeda is a beautiful woman and she deserves better!!
Awww " it's never easy to mend a broken heart " time heals all wounds!
Ladies choose happiness over history. Stop believing that a strong relationship is built on your endurance of infidelity and/or abuse...the first time he cheats its his fault, any time after that its yours.
Damn. “The first time is his fault. Any time after that it’s yours” 😩
@@samanthastephens9720 yep, if you leave them the first time, you dont give them an opportunity for a second time.
im crying right now because i can relate when she said he hurt me and at the same time he made me grow
Going through the same thing. I feel her pain. No one can understand how hard it is to leave when you still have feeling for the person.
I been threw the same storm! So I can relate to resheeda! It was a lesson for me to learn! I rather be a young fool! Instead of being a old fool! I thank my ex husband looking back that made me be a stronger woman! My husband now treats me like a queen in a castle! He's a real man,husband,and best friend! God wanted better for me now I got a good husband.
Kaleah Cox well done keep respecting your husband and never take God's grace for granted, you were given a second chance, that other people would die for, and never forget where you come from in that way you will remain grounded and grateful for your new journey.
I was starting to tear up, then cracked the hell up when I saw that fake ass “awe” from that guy on the far right side on 0:37 😂😂😂😂
"Not only did you hurt me, but you broke me"! POWERFUL WORDS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Heartbreaks are the worst painful things to go through in life .. real talk! It ain't that easy as a human being
So kirk smashed keanna had a baby with jasmine plus he did cheat in the past season in the cabin wood...thats 3 times AND RASHEEDA ARE YOU BLIND???????
did anyone else noticed her and Kirk had matching outfits on??
Its amazing how the entire cast of love n hiphop get emotional seeing any of the members break or going through somethin. Look at joc's reaction on seein rasheeda cry. I think at this point they have become like a big family cuz they been doing this show from years now
I, absolutely, adore Rasheeda. She's beautiful, loyal, genuine and honest. I've been a fan for many years and I'll continue being her fan for years to come. #RealastheyCome
I can't even sit up here and act like I haven't done the same thing!! stayed with a man who had not 1 but two babies even after I lost mine. it's hard to leave what you've known almost your adult life! it hurts but guess what it'll all be OK!! I moved on I'm married and all. I just pray she gets that closure!
I just love it when my black queens get a happy ending ❤ may God continue to bless you
I'm never getting married going thru a heart break after you invest your entire life into someone also have kids by them has to be the worst feeling ever i rather just be single deadass fuk it
THEKING I agree. I was married he cheated multiple times. I divorced him of course. and I still haven’t felt the urge to move on. Heartbreak is something painful and embarrassing.
THEKING. I agree you only been with one person and gave youre all. If we married and you cheat DIVORCE because if you get a second chance ots gonna happen again
Purple lilies you’re right and it did again and again but Kirk never got up to hug rasheda or to console her.
And then other men felt her pain but they cheat on their significant others too but doesn’t seem to care about their feelings.
I used to think the same thing, but I was falling for the trap. Things don't just happen, there are red flags everywhere and your instinct tells you who is safe to trust. Kirk probably been cheating on Rasheeda from day 1 and she's not strong enough to leave him. Sniffing out a bad person and getting away from them is a skill that takes developing.
Wow she made me cry because I could feel her pain when she talked to him! Nobody wants to be hurt.
Man I have felt this pain. I’ve gone thru something like this. The betrayal actually broke me
Me too girl...this has been the hardest experience I have ever faced. It cuts real deep to the core..but we will get thru this be strong sis
Rasheeda Be Strong... you got people who truly Love you... this one of the Realest Moments and Lessons that Heartbreak is Serious and it shouldnt be taken lightly
2021 n im there sis
Ugh men
But love U girl always
This is wat happens when yu “put it on him make yu wanna marry yu”😂she allows this bs
Captain Kirk don't care he knows he doesn't even have to fight to get Rasheeda back, she is already waiting on him. And he will keep on being Captain save a hoe Kirk.
This is so beyond fucked up that they are even mentioned as an "iconic" culture in a subsection of pop culture....this is what people are looking up to??? This relationship is an example of everything a relationship SHOULD NOT be
I love this cast cuz they standing together! One hurt they all hurt
I KNOW THIS FEELING! I'M GOING THROUGH IT NOW. THIS A PAIN THAT NO WOMEN OR MEN SHOULDN'T GO THROUGH! IT'S PAINFUL
I definitely can relate, feel your pain sweetie also for everyone who has and are going through this. Good News: We end up Fabulous 💝💟Love yourself, First...
Rasheed got alot love from her friends! Everybody on stage crying!!!!
Even though, this is an old episode. Every time, I look at it. I cry because Rasheeda was there. Also, as she said, she grew up with Kirk. Besides God and her mom, he helped in her becoming the woman she is. I know that feeling. I dealt with my son's father for 17yrs off and on. Whenever he came my door was open. But he married someone else. It broke me but made me strong. It didn't harden my heart to love. But it hurt me to the core of my soul. I don't hate my son's father. However, I don't do him. Period!!!! But watching Rasheeda and Kirk mend their friendship, companionship, and marriage. It gave hope and faith of knowing my husband is out there.
I no longer have any sympathy for Rasheeda she allows Kirk to treat her the way he does. People can only do what you allow, you give them permission to disrespect you period...
Same , she did all that crying for nothing she still with him, he knew she wasn't going anywhere that's why he didn't have no emotions at the reuion
She right heart break is the hardest thing to get over. I went through it was hard but I did it
That just makes you reflect on how someone has hurt 😞 you.. heartbreak is the absolute worse!! 😭
I might be the only one that comes back to re watch this just to cry 🥺🥴🤣
OMG! I felt her pain and pray that things work out for her and her family ❤
rasheeda a good woman
Rasheeda is not stupid. This is what a godly woman does....forgive.
That last part "not only did you hurt me, but you broke me"... Summed it all up right there. For her to say some deep shit like that, that means she was beyond hurt. I know how it feels to be hurt by someone you love so much... And it is one of the worst feelings in this world. She has a slash so deep in her heart, that nobody but God will be able to fix. No matter what Kirk tries to do to make it up to Rasheeda, that part of her heart will always be in pain bc of him.. Every time she thinks about it, it'll hurt all over again! But I pray that God has healed her to where, whenever she thinks about it she'll be able to dismiss it right out of her head. And I pray that He truly brought her comfort during that tough time.. If I was Rasheeda tho, I would've been longggg gone by now!
Years later & I then burst into tears watching this 🤦🏾♀️
Why does it look like Kirk wanted to laugh??? 1:09
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She laughed at Tonys wife Kaleena. when she was going through here tough times
Yep she definitely did Kaleens wrong! Was a fake friend. Karma comes back in all types of ways and least when expected fr
I felt her pain so much 😥Black men grow up you never know how bless you all are when you have a good black woman. Well some need to grow up
She could’ve moved on with anyone she’s so pretty
Ok.... But when are you going to finally file for divorce?
Nope!! She going to keep being a silly woman.. she's going to stay "for the kids"...
okay who sat this bowl of Onions in front of me lol 😢 so sad I feel sorry for her this Gon make her even Stronger let go and let God
Every time this video was suggested I avoided it like a plague. I finally watched it and wished I kept scrolling. My heart breaks for Rasheeda. I don’t ever wish to experience this in a relationship let alone a marriage. I know we always wanna say what we would or wouldn’t do but in all reality it easier said than done especially after investing so many years. I just pray I never have to go through this.
To see her cry is heartbreaking bc she is a very good woman, she is a keeper, hope he could see that
Yes rasheeda you can be hurt but there is a difference between being hurt & going on with it or being hurt & walking away from it, you keep coming back with him & accepting his bs.... yes you're married for years but how can you accept all his lies & problems throughout those years.. learn to walk away & be happy for you & your children horrible example for your kids.
Esperanza Alvarado lol. I believe it's hard for her to believe someone she's grown up with could do something like that to her. I think she sees what the naked eye (us) can't see. Which is why she keeps going back. Marriage isn't like boyfriend & girlfriend stuff.. can't just leave after you've built SO much on top of your foundation. I get where she's coming from but I get your point somewhat as well.
If you're treating your spouse like Kirk treats Rasheeda, your foundation is cracked, homie. Time to move.
Esperanza Zarate are you basically saying that she got what she deserved because she tried to make marriage work??? Shes in the wrong for trying to give her husband the benefit of the doubt? People are fuckin stupid and heartless. Clearly you haven't been married before!
She’s trying to keep her family together, it would break them apart and hurt her children. She looks like she’s past her breaking point and of course she would want to leave but she has to think of her family and what would happen for them
Suzie cute Actually I am married. There is respect between me and my husband there is a solid foundation built on respect love and trust. Not lies. Rasheeda has given him chance after chance & she still comes back .. of course if you’re married you’ll try to work things out but if it happens multiple times. Even if you are married ring & all its time to move on.
I feel Bad For Rasheeda Then Again I mean "you Only allow with what you can put up with" Yessss so That's Her Hubby I'm sure she had that Feeling but to Be played on National T.v That's Not Kool Shows he had Little to no respect for Rasheeda Now she got This drama With her Son who may or may not be Gay, Lord have Mercy...Also if Joseline is Out I won't be watching LHH Atlanta
It’s 2020 and the pain is radiating
This scene always tears.me.up 🥺🥺
Wtf does Treasure have on?!
lmao
I can't feel sorry for her, I still remember how mean she was to Kaleeena and she knows Kirk is trash so wtv
MélissaEnvy i said the same. She was evil straight up mean girl to Kaleena when she had post partum.. but its all just a reflection of deep insecurities and low self esteem. Kaleena was in a weak spot, Rasheeda is a weak individual period
And accused K Michelle of lying about being abused like who does that ?!
Boom!! The way she treats other i have a hard time feeling sorry for her.
Yes Kaleena had PPD and Rasheeda cared not one bit. As a mother, you just shouldn't do that. Even Karlie got real serious about it. I've had PPD and that was hard to watch.
I had it too and it can be difficult to climb out of. I was pissed when she thought PPD was a joke when it was mentioned smh. The wrong doings you do to others and yourself will come around. As far as this video, a man does what his girl/wife allows. Every time Kirk does something, in his mind he is thinking “ok she gone get mad an cry a little bit, put me out for a few days, then she gone take me back”. Same cycle.
This woman is stunning she is probably one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen on TV.
She is such a lovely person. Rasheeda, i love and respect you.
Y'all stay blessed
That pain run deep. I know cause I'm married and I feel the pain and I'm a MAN. #blessingsSis 🙏🏼💪🏽
In this video you just feel the love everyone has for Rasheeda
I made me sad to see her cry....no one deserves heart break like that. It's heavy
Kirk just has one of those annoying faces you wanna hit every time you see it lol
Danielle Campbell He's a bitch
I really cannot stand his ass! My heart aches for her... :(
Danielle Campbell lolllllllllllllll true
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