After nearly 50 years I have arrived at a conclusion. There is no single aspect of my life that would become easier, cheaper, more fulfilling, quieter, or less annoying by adding a woman to it.
28 But if you do get married, it is not a sin. And if a young woman gets married, it is not a sin. However, those who get married at this time will have troubles, and I am trying to spare you those problems. 1 Corinthians 7:28
It only took me one wife to figure out that wmn can not love. They can't even detect love. I married my high school sweetheart. I made several permanent, life changing sacrifices for her. I dedicated all I had and all I could do for her benefit. After five years of building our lives together, she asked me, "What do I have to do to make you love me?" That was the moment when I knew she could not love. She couldn't even detect love.
Women are narcissists. They think life revolves around them. Women are used to getting attention and free things all the time. So it takes a lot of effort to keep impressing her. Men understand that if a person chooses to remain by your side, that person really cares about you. Women don't understand this.
Two things a woman cannot do without, in slightly varying degrees, are lots of affection and resources. I'm 73, married and divorced twice. My first wife could take or leave the affection and didn't care for sex, but she loved the resources and didn't mind that I practically lived on the job. My second wife was a pretty good fit for about 10 or twelve years and two kids, but she seemed to become bored with the relationship. She no longer wanted affection nor sex, at least from me. After helping her get a career started as a nurse she left me for a doctor. They eventually married but from what I hear, they argue constantly. The grass is not always greener in another pasture.
🙂 my first second third wife were fairly affectionate, but the fourth wife was definitely something wrong with her from the start, she could smile and pretend to be affectionate a little bit but for the most part she was unemotional and stoic, i interpreted it wrong and thought that it was a sign of maturity but only till after its over i realized that she was either sick or just born to be bad like The Omen, i feel sorry for my Son cause thats his mother, one day I gotta explain this to him and I don't know if he's going to believe me
And that's why Love for men is a SACRIFICE. What we want in return is RESPECT and LOYALTY because women cant love. But nowadays women cant even show respect nor loyalty.
I would add Gratitude to that list as well gratitude is everything even above loyalty because if she is grateful you never have to worry about loyalty ever being an issue.
Narcissists have no empathy towards anyone. They are grandiose, entitled, selfish, and see others as objects to worship them. This seems to fit most of them, sadly. Stay single.
Woman are full of love. For shopping. For hairstyles and clothing styles. For social media. For complaining. For their pets and sometimes on and off their own children.
oh come on. I know deep down you don't believe it. You are just rationalizing something. The problem is "Women aren't capable of loving men." The solution already exists within our DNA. This is a problem that has recurred in cycles throughout history, since before written history. The solution has already been selected for over and over. All we need to do as humans is to "Remember" that feeling deep down, remember the struggles our ancient ancestors faced, and remember the feeling of their victories. Our DNA remembers, we need to let our DNA take control of our conscious minds and guide us to the solutions of our problems.
@@LeonardNemoy Wish I were. Hypergamy and loyalty do not go together. The moment a man falls ill, or loses his job, the woman will monkey-branch to the next guy (that she has already lined up, btw). And she will have no qualms about it, either. You could say modern women are only loyal to themselves (in their quest to find the best guy). Which is just a fancy way of saying women are not loyal at all. I know deep down you know it's true. I do think women can love, btw; their children, most notably. But, as a man, at best your relationship with her is tentative: while you keep 'doing' for her, or until a better guy comes along.
@@gladosadoree Do you have memories of being a child yourself? A woman could love the child-like part of you, perhaps. I refuse to believe in the hopelessness of Modern Love and Dating. I believe it is all an insane trick, a sick game to be played. And you win the game when you feel the feeling (I cannot say what it is; completeness? True Love? I don't know.) We all have the power within ourselves and I refuse to let anyone have doubt about it
I married my wife because she was honest and strong. I remember when my wife divorced me - She said she never loved me. That truth spilt my heart. Never again.
The only woman who ever helped me was my Mother, and that is a fact. My wife went dark after only a 7 year marriage. She started an affair with a co-worker and together they concocted a scheme to put me in jail, take my kids and my house away from me....and they did, but I got it all back. My sister, in charge of my mothers estate, tried to screw me and my brother out of everything she could, but I fought that too, and won. And my last job, a woman at work claimed harassment, and got me fired. And the truth was, I NEVER SAID A WORD TO HER! From what I can see, women DO NOT ENHANCE A MANS LIFE AT ALL, JUST THE OPPOSITE.
@@madhatter9001 Not really. Being deceived by a serpent does not really connect to how wmn are in reality. The epic of Gilgamesh does more to "Red Pill" us about them!
They believe that because as usual they're projecting themselves onto men; it's they themselves that are incapable of love, but instead mistakenly assume their train wreck of infatuations is love.
Their sociopathic mentality is due to their arrested emotional and moral development; it typically stops at level 3 of Kohlberg’s 6 Stages Of Moral Development.
It’s common for relationships to hit rough patches, yet there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage faced serious obstacles, but with the right support, my wife and I overcame them and grew closer. With effort and teamwork, solutions are possible. Don’t give up-answers are attainable.
I’m struggling with significant issues in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her so much, and I’m prepared to do anything to bring her back into my life. I’d be very thankful for any help or advice you could offer.
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
@bassk1000o there isn't really. Other than long long vetting stages. And that's not going to happen through dating apps only through knowing someone for along time which is why I dont date at all and haven't for a years anf a half. If I meet someone and know them for a long time I might consider it but I'm saving my money otherwise. There are far more important females in my life that deserve it. Mother, sister, daughters. Strangers won't get that privilege of time and until they are vetted and cecome important. Which is the way it was always meant to be. Organic is always best
Women can love ... themselves ... A woman loves the false image or idea of her man, but she doesn't really love him in the truest sense. Almost every ancient culture has described women as evil or chaotic.
"Far from Eden" is putting herself in a man's shoes to understand women. Eye opening, isn't it. Nora Vicent, wrote a book trying to understand from a man's perspective it depressed her so bad, she never recovered and she offed herself. Also values like: "honesty" "honor" "accountability" "loyalty" "love" are foreign concepts to women. These are higher purpose that ONLY men can understand and achieve. And here is something only men knows deep down, you are born alone and you will die alone and everything that is truly yours that nobody can take away is your word.
@@stpfs9281I'm reminded about Job because that's the book the kids are learning in Children's ministry. Don't forget, Satan didn't kill off Jobs wife whom told him to curse God and die.
Look at all the love songs men have written over the years. The longing, the desire that men have for women. When women write love songs it’s all about how he wronged her, (see Taylor Swift). Women don’t love, they need. Men fulfilling a women’s needs. That’s love to a woman.
And women "love" songs are usually about being abandoned or him leaving for another, which could be understood "the supply dried up, and now I'm angry"
They don't understand what true love is, they only know one perspective, their own...to such a degree that they will unalive their own children for convenience's sake, en masse.
I have a box...but it is full of things from my first marriage. My second wife knew about it, understanding they were things I held dear. You see, my first wife passed away a little over two years after we were married. My second wife never begrudged me about having that box. The only time I went through my box while married to my second wife was when we went through it together. She understood. She cried with me and for me. She understood why I didn't remarry for over 20 years.
"Every woman I have ever met was a natural born lier. Glad to know it's no different with the Sisterhood." Clint Eastwood in Two Miles for Sister Sarah.
I’m 51 divorced and I’ve never felt truly loved. I loved my wife and she used that fact against till one day I’d had enough. I then met a woman I truly adored she was my absolute world, but after 15 years she ended it will a single text. It completely destroyed me, so yes men can love women just knock it out of us. I am now alone and I will die alone.
The wife of basketball legend Shaquille O'Neal, Shaunie O'Neal, wrote a book after divorcing him in which she admitted that she never loved him; this was after she had bore him five children and had him adopt her son from a failed relationship. It wasn't enough to divorce him and use the children to enrich herself, she had to humiliate him and break his spirit. Grandma Jenna is doing a bad job at pretending that she forgot about those love letters from her multiple lovers; I know that she kept them as souvenirs to reminisce about her glory days as a 304 and to make her decision to settle for her husband more bearable.
Well said. Yes, to then write a book and belittle him, the father of the children she bore to him. Disgusting, despicable filth. And then, to have to give her all of the spoils of divorce, at the point of a gun, is the depths of injustice. Any man who puts himself into the position Where he can be dragged into a courtroom and have his family and life destroyed, is a fool, knowing what we now know. Don't do it gents.
@@IamDoogy"Any man who puts themselves in a position..." Yeah I'm in the latter half of my life. I realize that there is no point in risking what i got and need now and gamble it all away for stuff (women) that i dont need. Dont put yourself in a position to lose. That's all there is to it.
Women can love but they must be taught. ". . . teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.”
Alan, thou hast done well to point to scripture. The world is, to its hurt, woefully ignorant of the same. It wasn’t until I got saved that I could make sense of things. And not I, but rather the Word made sense of things. Not justifying things, but making sense of how we got in this mess, and how to un-get in this mess.
Hence the reason they get much of their dating advice from other women. Comfortable lies are preferred to women over uncomfortable truths. We didn't have a simp epidemic or people calling traditionalists "incels" when the patriarchy existed.
Sometimes people only want to believe the lies, the "half-baked ideas", and other distortions because of a vast sense of emptiness and insecurities. My prayer is that ALL women begin to realize this, and make amends.
@@derp8575 It's not that 'all women are like that' but that any woman at any time can be exactly like that without any repercussions and plenty of financial rewards and incentive, even at the expense of their own children and that doesn't seem to bother 10/10 them whatsoever. The institution of marriage itself was corrupted long ago and anyone who takes this sham seriously, at this point, deserves to get dragged through the broken glass.
Whatever the percentage, it only makes sense when you realize how low their self esteem and self regard is in many cases. It's immeasurably low compared to the average man who would never marry for money or pair up for life or for decades with someone he didn't have any feelings for. Even men in the bottom 10% of self esteem are higher than the large majority of women.
"the bible commands women to obey their husbands... not love them" respect is the word you are looking for. and yes, women have absolutely no idea what that means.
It's also not something natural for a man to love his wife, as Christ loved the church, and gave himself for it, but it's still taught in Ephesians 5:25. It's not natural to be self sacrificial, but to be self gratifying.But, just because it's not inherent, does not mean that it can't be done. And, even if it is inherent (like, cooking), one does need teaching to be done, properly.
There's no such thing as unconditional love between a man and women sweetheart. Turning a man down for sex constantly is grounds for divorce as far as I'm concerned. If she does she doesn't love you.
Years later my current pastor confirmed this for me. I was committed thinking I couldn’t divorce for religious reasons but it is a form of abandonment.
98% of NICE GUYS will Always Finish Last . . with Commitment, and Especially with-in a marriage. MGTOW 4 Life Way back = up to 1990... i WAS There also. Sex maybe twice a year - n That also was with NO kids. All the Material Benefits + CA$H never dissipated from Her Thoughts that she Deserved it all
Thank you so much for speaking about this. I am married to this... 31 years. I have taken much abuse, accusations of all the things she is doing, but I get blamed. I have been committed, and she expects it of me, but she is unwilling to commit to me. I have never given up on her, keep forgiving her even for horrendous things, continue treating her as I want to be treated, and this is only reason we are still together. She knows she has it good, yet she does not appreciate or love. It is so encouraging to me to hear your message, to have someone affirm what I know in my heart, that it is not me. Sometimes I have wondered if I am just that deceived, that it is me, yet I know it is not. Thank you! And I'm glad there is at least one woman who is better than these deceived women who try in all the wrong ways to find happiness and fulfilment, yet it eludes them and they find themselves miserable.
@@Nyt250 You exist to Him. There are currently married men going through terrible times that most single men could never imagine. Jesus still exists, regardless of what someone is going through.
If you seek God earnestly, you will find Him. God is real regardless of how we feel about Him, and we'll all have to stand before Him one day. Truly, God is the only one who can fully understand us. No woman nor mortal man has the ability to. God is who taught me that love isn't a feeling, inherently, it's a choice to do right by someone continually. I began listening to an audio Bible on my work commutes at the recommendation of a coworker, and it began to change me. As I truly made God my Lord and began to follow His commands as best I knew how, I began to actually feel love toward God, and I can feel that God loves me. It's both bizarre and amazing. I understand that I'm not a good person, nor is anyone but God, but God saved me by His abundant grace and mercy, just as He did with my earthly father before me. Though, my father's testimony is more intense. Many years ago my father was a wayward soul. He was going to a church even though he wasn't saved yet, though he had read the Bible looking for answers to life's questions. During one particular sermon, he started hearing a powerful voice speak to him, addressing him by name and saying "You cannot resist your Father's love another day." He looked around, and no one else could hear it. He said he knew that if he left that church that day without being saved, he would die. He didn't know how, but he felt it was a certainty. I would have thought such an experience would have been scary for him, but he said he wasn't afraid because in that moment he could feel the overwhelming love and mercy of God, and he was baptized that day. I assure you, my father is a practical and sane man. I believe his testimony. In some ways, it's not dissimilar to how Christ confronted the apostle Paul and temporarily blinded him when he had been persecuting Christians, and Paul gave up his high worldly position and turned away from his those he had known and worked with to instead spread the gospel--eventually leading him to die a martyr for Christ. I've made my peace with the fact that I may never find a woman. That I will never truly be understood by anyone in this walk of life. No one else can look in my head or see my spirit. No one has the ability to understand everything about me. What motivates me. What my fears and concerns are. The overwhelming loneliness I bore for much of my early life. No one but God. No one but my Lord and Savior can truly see me for all that I am. I still falter at times, I know He loves me more than I love Him, and I still make mistakes. While I sometimes betray Him, I know He won't betray me. There is no love greater than God's. "The one who has My Commands and keeps them is the one who loves Me. And the one who loves Me will be loved by My Father. I also will love him and will reveal Myself to him." - Jesus the Christ, John 14:21, Holman Christian Standard Bible* *I recommend the HCSB/CSB and ESV Bibles. They translate the original Greek, Hebrew, and Aramaic into understandable modern English. There's a good UA-cam playlist for the ESV audio Bible.
I have never heard of a man ever having a box of love trinkets and letters from an ex. Wait, she keeps the box under the bed? That's even more creepy. If it means nothing get rid of it. But you won't.
Two movies that women have really liked, Bridges of Madison County and Shirley Valentine, have basically the same premise, women 'trapped' in a life/marriage and wanting 'more'. The woman in Bridges has an affair with a photographer and keeps a diary (her box) which her daughters discover after her death. She describes the affair, of course the daughters admire her 'escape' from her married life for that time her husband was away. He wasn't a bad husband she just wanted 'more'. In Shirley Valentine the woman is married to what she considers a boring man and leaves him for love and adventure to fulfill herself. To me this speaks to a woman's insatiable desire to keep seeking 'more', no matter the cost or wreckage it causes. Don't get me started on 50 shades of Grey.
And those stories never show her withholding affection and sex from her husband for years or decades while she pines away to escape for something "more"
Many women never have enough of anything, whether it is clothes, other things like nicknacks, attention, validation, etc...they can truly be like emotional vampires and it is a sickness with them. The more you give, the more they want.
Sometimes I go _"a woman wrote this."_ There is a lot of women out there who resent men because their relationships ended and they couldn't get the guy they wanted. And they talk to other women with the same issues, become feminists and write vitriol. Women have such a hard time getting over their exes, and they think getting over an ex means to sleep with another guy like it proves they've healed or are rdy to move on, which opens up a whole can of worms for them and repeats the cycle of dating-go-bad thus men-bad.
I have written this 1 million times before on your channel and I’ll write it and million times more! You are an absolute legend!!! Thank you so much for showing true respect to men!!! I don’t personally believe we need to be admired even if that might be nice… But we absolutely need to be respected and I think women like you for showing that!!!
your channel is so refreshing...you are what women should be. There are very few women out here saying the things that you are, so thank you so much for even taking the time...I can see it; you're doing it because it's right, and it's the truth, and if things are *ever* going to get any better, then we need more people who are willing to speak the truth, *especially* women. I used to think that women could love, but now I am honestly reconsidering that, esp after this video...and from everything I have seen...
I can only speak for my situation: I do believe my wife was trauma bonded to her father (and mother) and I thought this was a loving close knit family while dating though she didn’t do well with her older sister. With me? I do believe she did love me however what percentage was love versus trauma-bond? I don’t know. G-d knows her heart better than me and I knew about her childhood and her life with me for 45 years. I refuse to throw her on the scrap heap knowing I’ll face G-d and her in the future for eternity. I miss her. Knowing her life causes me not to consider relationships going forward, I have no desire for messes and drama.
That is insanity and definitely anti-family - I would even say demonic. You can change your name to one of the other gender - but a wife cannot take her husbands name?
Oh my god Save my Boys, from feminized psycho generational ideas... & while there pls save my girls too. Thank God too for sane anchors like this channel.
"You cared more about her, than she did you." My son said to me, he had asked me about a very old flame who I was in love with before I meet his mother. I let him read my story and his words "You cared more about her, then she did you." was illuminating and I saw the walls of my prison.
This reminds me of an immature little girl with keepsakes and unicorns in her jewelry box. But these keepsakes are of previous lovers? It is really sick. You are right. This really gross, narcissistic behavior.
Love is ABSOLUTELY a decision- it remains even when the emotions aren't there to support it. Emotions are inherently unreliable. It's a shame that women don't see this. The promises of women today are virtually meaningless.
🇦🇺😎👍I’ve been divorced for 24 years and I’ve chosen to be absent from the opposite sex since then. . Very messy divorce.. When I listen to both of these women talk it reminds me of my x-wife and all of her nasty ways . Once you’ve lost your children , your partner , your family home and pretty much everything else you will never be the same again. . . Never !.. .Keep up the good work little buddy , thanks for caring about us all
Really? You think they "engineered" the contempt that both women AND men feel towards wordy, twaddling little wannabe men who try to fall back on the "good of others" while having no dog in the race?
I actually DO have a box. Let's see: 1. Nintendo and 6 games to it. 2. A knife with self carved handle 3. a harmonica that tastes like ash 4. Notes from first grade. 5. School photos 6. Biker mice from mars, Vinnie figure. It has more junk in it. I actually have multiple boxes. It's called storage. But I do have memories that are in my head. Boys record events with girls really well because of the power of impact into their mind. But it's just a stamp, nothing more.
@@mrblank-zh1xy People are "not God". So, you won't sacrifice for them? You ALREADY do. Cain and Abel might not have to do with how people are towards each other(I think it does). But this: "If you do what is right, wont you be accepted?" That statement applies to all sorts of things. Not just Humans and God.
Of Course Women are capable of Love a lot of them just made the choice not to because they think it will make them look weak and be taken advantage of, that same message was also fed to Men so now both sexes are scared of expressing how they truly feel.
Great video!! Women have one set of rules for them, and another set of rules for men. My ex wife had two sets of rules, that's why I eventually divorced her. She was also a guilt tripper, and liked to manipulate.
The Greeks supposedly have no less than six words that all translate into the single English word: Love. I think it's fairly evident that men and women are talking about different things even though they're using the same word. A man is probably talking about a combination of _eros_ and _agape._ Meanwhile, women frequently are talking about _ludos_ and _pragma._ But using just one word is causing confusion.
You are right when it commands a woman to submit and obey her husband. It does not say one time that women need to love their husbands. It takes it a step further and even says there is no wickedness like a woman. The meaning behind this is every decision a woman will make is 99% selfish, short sighted and/or is out of fear. The point of having a husband is to protect you from those things that you don't see due to not having that sort of awareness. You can rail against it all you want but if you take a step back and really take a hard look you can just look at the state of the US. Men that have daughters: if your daughters aren't learning how to take care of her husband from her mom that is your failure for picking the wrong person to be an example for your daughter.
Watching this only validates my great decision to never marry. 61 years old and still single. I look after myself. I eat well. Don’t drink, wh#re or gamble. Just avoid toxic women.
Some of us men do have boxes. To remind us of the game we had, proud of the women we pulled, just in case we need reassurance of a time when we were once loved. To reminisce on good times.
I don't think it's an inability to love, but I do think that women only love their children unconditionally. The war brides phenomenon is a clear example of a woman's love being highly conditional. That doesn't mean the emotion doesn't exist, but it does mean that love isn't as enduring as they like to pretend.
Erin , I have benn feeding the wild cotton tails in the yard , for a couple of generations, I have a little bun that's been commingfor dinner every day at dusk , tonight there's two buns out on the paver in front of my door where I put down the plain oats, Walgreens closed early at 6:00, so I can't feed them, and they don't like corn blacks or raisen bran flakes , I feel horrible they are standing and waiting.
About 6-1/2 yrs ago I was out in my back yard with my two cats when I saw a oddly saw a skunk in the yard - odd because it was like 11am and they are usually nocturnal. I of course looked for the cats - both were just watching from the deck so I went to the stairs and we just watched a bit, and I noticed the skunk was limping, avoiding using it's left front leg... And noticed when it turned it had a reddish brown stain - I figured blood/bite wound. So I ducked I sure and grabbed a small plastic container and some cat kibble and tossed some in the lawn by it - freaked it out for a second but then it was excited over the food. From then on every day I would leave a small dish of food out for it in the morning, and when I was out there I'd watch it come eat - maybe even toss some table scraps I'd saved out for it... It got to the point I could walk right up and add food to the dish and it wouldn't flinch. The leg got better and it gradually drifted over say 6 months more towards coming at dusk (and any food left would get eaten by other critters overnight), but I kept putting food out there for it daily for 3 years. Last time I saw it, it had just snowed (like 10") and I'd shoveled out my car and path to the driveway, and i saw it cross the street (always came from my neighbors yard) to my driveway, so I grabbed fresh food for it and waited for it to come eat. I'm presuming it died (they only live 2-3 years in the wild) since then - that summer I spent many nights outside feeding racoons, possum, skunks that would show up but I never saw that skunk again.
@captainz9 yea , alot of them are nocturnal and you don't realize they are there unless you go out in the early morning, it's the middle of their day, Rabbits ,everything is a predator to them ,squrills and mice even bully them off their dinner 🍽 spot ,and I shoe them away, usually I just give the buns another helping after the other ones hijacked their dinner or breakfast, those bunnies 🐰 were hungry tonight, I think beacuse it's getting colder
Get a dog and never be disappointed. Top it off with a Porsche, and live life in the fast lane! Women will destroy you one way or another! Dump them and live happily ever after!!😎
Erin, if you are capable of love. Then yes, Women are capable of it. Don't grift and say they can't, when the truth is it's the upbringing that defines whether they will choose materialism.
"Women aren't romantic. They just want us to be." - My Dad
I've suspected this.
After nearly 50 years I have arrived at a conclusion. There is no single aspect of my life that would become easier, cheaper, more fulfilling, quieter, or less annoying by adding a woman to it.
not one? No girl smiles at you ?
@@jeremycole3008Smiles are better from afar
@@nerychristian point taken
I have discovered a wise, godly woman can bring excellent insight into our lives.
28 But if you do get married, it is not a sin. And if a young woman gets married, it is not a sin. However, those who get married at this time will have troubles, and I am trying to spare you those problems.
1 Corinthians 7:28
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It only took me one wife to figure out that wmn can not love. They can't even detect love. I married my high school sweetheart. I made several permanent, life changing sacrifices for her. I dedicated all I had and all I could do for her benefit. After five years of building our lives together, she asked me, "What do I have to do to make you love me?" That was the moment when I knew she could not love. She couldn't even detect love.
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Women are narcissists. They think life revolves around them. Women are used to getting attention and free things all the time. So it takes a lot of effort to keep impressing her. Men understand that if a person chooses to remain by your side, that person really cares about you. Women don't understand this.
Two things a woman cannot do without, in slightly varying degrees, are lots of affection and resources. I'm 73, married and divorced twice. My first wife could take or leave the affection and didn't care for sex, but she loved the resources and didn't mind that I practically lived on the job. My second wife was a pretty good fit for about 10 or twelve years and two kids, but she seemed to become bored with the relationship. She no longer wanted affection nor sex, at least from me. After helping her get a career started as a nurse she left me for a doctor. They eventually married but from what I hear, they argue constantly. The grass is not always greener in another pasture.
@@TERRY-cb2ku Sure are alot of alley cats out there
🙂 my first second third wife were fairly affectionate, but the fourth wife was definitely something wrong with her from the start, she could smile and pretend to be affectionate a little bit but for the most part she was unemotional and stoic, i interpreted it wrong and thought that it was a sign of maturity but only till after its over i realized that she was either sick or just born to be bad like The Omen, i feel sorry for my Son cause thats his mother, one day I gotta explain this to him and I don't know if he's going to believe me
And that's why Love for men is a SACRIFICE. What we want in return is RESPECT and LOYALTY because women cant love. But nowadays women cant even show respect nor loyalty.
I would add Gratitude to that list as well gratitude is everything even above loyalty because if she is grateful you never have to worry about loyalty ever being an issue.
@bartsullivan4866 very good point!
Narcissists have no empathy towards anyone. They are grandiose, entitled, selfish, and see others as objects to worship them. This seems to fit most of them, sadly. Stay single.
No good dude goes unpunished.
Great take on that expression!!
Woman are full of love. For shopping. For hairstyles and clothing styles. For social media. For complaining. For their pets and sometimes on and off their own children.
Spot on
That's called lust, not love!
Only women and children are loved unconditionally. Or, as they say, "Men love women for who they are. A woman loves a man for what he can do for her."
oh come on. I know deep down you don't believe it. You are just rationalizing something. The problem is "Women aren't capable of loving men." The solution already exists within our DNA. This is a problem that has recurred in cycles throughout history, since before written history. The solution has already been selected for over and over. All we need to do as humans is to "Remember" that feeling deep down, remember the struggles our ancient ancestors faced, and remember the feeling of their victories. Our DNA remembers, we need to let our DNA take control of our conscious minds and guide us to the solutions of our problems.
@@LeonardNemoy Wish I were. Hypergamy and loyalty do not go together. The moment a man falls ill, or loses his job, the woman will monkey-branch to the next guy (that she has already lined up, btw). And she will have no qualms about it, either. You could say modern women are only loyal to themselves (in their quest to find the best guy). Which is just a fancy way of saying women are not loyal at all. I know deep down you know it's true.
I do think women can love, btw; their children, most notably. But, as a man, at best your relationship with her is tentative: while you keep 'doing' for her, or until a better guy comes along.
@@gladosadoree Do you have memories of being a child yourself? A woman could love the child-like part of you, perhaps. I refuse to believe in the hopelessness of Modern Love and Dating. I believe it is all an insane trick, a sick game to be played. And you win the game when you feel the feeling (I cannot say what it is; completeness? True Love? I don't know.) We all have the power within ourselves and I refuse to let anyone have doubt about it
It’s 100% true.
Damn Skippy my friend very true.
I married my wife because she was honest and strong. I remember when my wife divorced me - She said she never loved me.
That truth spilt my heart.
Never again.
"They accuse you of doing what they are doing". Spot on.
Women love Satan 👺
The only woman who ever helped me was my Mother, and that is a fact. My wife went dark after only a 7 year marriage. She started an affair with a co-worker and together they concocted a scheme to put me in jail, take my kids and my house away from me....and they did, but I got it all back. My sister, in charge of my mothers estate, tried to screw me and my brother out of everything she could, but I fought that too, and won. And my last job, a woman at work claimed harassment, and got me fired. And the truth was, I NEVER SAID A WORD TO HER! From what I can see, women DO NOT ENHANCE A MANS LIFE AT ALL, JUST THE OPPOSITE.
You're lucky to at least have your mom's support.
This is all very saddening. Women are not at all what I thought they were. I wasted my life believing a lie.
We all did
Me too, Brothers.
What a shame mothers don't warn sons in the way dads counsel daughters.
Yup We all did.
I think we projected our good intentions onto women.
Men are direct and upfront, But women ain't like that.
Has anyone ever told you the story of Adam and Eve? that is all you need to know to open your eyes.
@@madhatter9001
Not really.
Being deceived by a serpent does not really connect to how wmn are in reality.
The epic of Gilgamesh does more to "Red Pill" us about them!
Women love what men can do for them.
Not even, they just love the attention that men give them. They have no respect for what men do for them
My girl you are one of the most awakened individuals I have ever watched!!
She saw how her mother destroyed her father. She is a rarity for sure.
She is. True treasure
That she is.👍👍
They believe that because as usual they're projecting themselves onto men; it's they themselves that are incapable of love, but instead mistakenly assume their train wreck of infatuations is love.
Their sociopathic mentality is due to their arrested emotional and moral development; it typically stops at level 3 of Kohlberg’s 6 Stages Of Moral Development.
It’s common for relationships to hit rough patches, yet there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage faced serious obstacles, but with the right support, my wife and I overcame them and grew closer. With effort and teamwork, solutions are possible. Don’t give up-answers are attainable.
I’m struggling with significant issues in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her so much, and I’m prepared to do anything to bring her back into my life. I’d be very thankful for any help or advice you could offer.
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
You should
Modern women don't see a relationship as a partnership anymore.
Men can love. But getting burnt a few times will stop you allowing yourself to be vulnerable which is trust. Key component.
This is why women have high bodies. Because the OG Chad hurt her. What a life.
yeah and i dont see a way around this
@bassk1000o there isn't really. Other than long long vetting stages. And that's not going to happen through dating apps only through knowing someone for along time which is why I dont date at all and haven't for a years anf a half. If I meet someone and know them for a long time I might consider it but I'm saving my money otherwise. There are far more important females in my life that deserve it. Mother, sister, daughters. Strangers won't get that privilege of time and until they are vetted and cecome important. Which is the way it was always meant to be. Organic is always best
Women can love ... themselves ... A woman loves the false image or idea of her man, but she doesn't really love him in the truest sense. Almost every ancient culture has described women as evil or chaotic.
Soo taking care of an animal is now more rewarding then a relationship with a woman. Let that sink in.
Always was.
Better Bachelor interview was great, when's the part two?
"Far from Eden" is putting herself in a man's shoes to understand women. Eye opening, isn't it. Nora Vicent, wrote a book trying to understand from a man's perspective it depressed her so bad, she never recovered and she offed herself.
Also values like: "honesty" "honor" "accountability" "loyalty" "love" are foreign concepts to women. These are higher purpose that ONLY men can understand and achieve. And here is something only men knows deep down, you are born alone and you will die alone and everything that is truly yours that nobody can take away is your word.
I'm always amazed at how women tell on themselves and then try to spin the narrative.
"The Box"! Why? Why did she keep it, that is being dishonest to her partner, effectively cheating.
@@stpfs9281I'm reminded about Job because that's the book the kids are learning in Children's ministry. Don't forget, Satan didn't kill off Jobs wife whom told him to curse God and die.
Look at all the love songs men have written over the years. The longing, the desire that men have for women. When women write love songs it’s all about how he wronged her, (see Taylor Swift). Women don’t love, they need. Men fulfilling a women’s needs. That’s love to a woman.
And women "love" songs are usually about being abandoned or him leaving for another, which could be understood "the supply dried up, and now I'm angry"
Men no longer write those songs about women, for a reason.
Everything with woman is conditional.
They don't understand what true love is, they only know one perspective, their own...to such a degree that they will unalive their own children for convenience's sake, en masse.
I have a box...but it is full of things from my first marriage. My second wife knew about it, understanding they were things I held dear. You see, my first wife passed away a little over two years after we were married. My second wife never begrudged me about having that box.
The only time I went through my box while married to my second wife was when we went through it together. She understood. She cried with me and for me. She understood why I didn't remarry for over 20 years.
They don't leave, and they don't fully commit either - Women simply use men up until the trade out or trade up.
"Every woman I have ever met was a natural born lier. Glad to know it's no different with the Sisterhood."
Clint Eastwood in Two Miles for Sister Sarah.
I’m 51 divorced and I’ve never felt truly loved. I loved my wife and she used that fact against till one day I’d had enough. I then met a woman I truly adored she was my absolute world, but after 15 years she ended it will a single text. It completely destroyed me, so yes men can love women just knock it out of us. I am now alone and I will die alone.
Ill never date a liar a greedy person a fake or a person who are a self serving pos. So I'm never dating any women ever again.
The wife of basketball legend Shaquille O'Neal, Shaunie O'Neal, wrote a book after divorcing him in which she admitted that she never loved him; this was after she had bore him five children and had him adopt her son from a failed relationship. It wasn't enough to divorce him and use the children to enrich herself, she had to humiliate him and break his spirit. Grandma Jenna is doing a bad job at pretending that she forgot about those love letters from her multiple lovers; I know that she kept them as souvenirs to reminisce about her glory days as a 304 and to make her decision to settle for her husband more bearable.
Bring back that chicken ranch in Texas, and one the guys get rid of their "nut-fog", they wont be persuing these women who cant reciprocate
Tyrese Gibsons ex wife, Samantha Lee is the same kind of piece of work. Absolute scum.
Well said.
Yes, to then write a book and belittle him, the father of the children she bore to him.
Disgusting, despicable filth.
And then, to have to give her all of the spoils of divorce, at the point of a gun, is the depths of injustice.
Any man who puts himself into the position Where he can be dragged into a courtroom and have his family and life destroyed, is a fool, knowing what we now know.
Don't do it gents.
@@IamDoogy"Any man who puts themselves in a position..."
Yeah I'm in the latter half of my life. I realize that there is no point in risking what i got and need now and gamble it all away for stuff (women) that i dont need.
Dont put yourself in a position to lose. That's all there is to it.
@@IamDoogy Every man is an Island, until he has a family, then he's fucked.
Women can love but they must be taught. ". . . teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.”
Take it easy Alan, you don't need to break out the chastity belts
They can just wait till they're hags, then walk away.
@@brianbard3410 Taha-Funny Made me giggle
Alan, thou hast done well to point to scripture. The world is, to its hurt, woefully ignorant of the same.
It wasn’t until I got saved that I could make sense of things. And not I, but rather the Word made sense of things. Not justifying things, but making sense of how we got in this mess, and how to un-get in this mess.
Most women are incapable of love because they have not known God. There is no love apart from God.
"Her box is well used" ouch! Well said.
This woman is amazing! I wish I knew her 🙏
Same here
All they have to do is _ask._ But if they do, they likely will not believe the answer.
Hence the reason they get much of their dating advice from other women. Comfortable lies are preferred to women over uncomfortable truths. We didn't have a simp epidemic or people calling traditionalists "incels" when the patriarchy existed.
God bless you Erin. Putting the truth out there in spite of all the name throwers
Women: throws away men's stuff
Women: don't you dare throw away my old ex's love letters!
Sometimes people only want to believe the lies, the "half-baked ideas", and other distortions because of a vast sense of emptiness and insecurities. My prayer is that ALL women begin to realize this, and make amends.
The odds are astronomical to find a good woman.sad.
That's the problem with the logic of those who say "choose wisely". Most men would not be able to find a good woman.
@@derp8575 It's not that 'all women are like that' but that any woman at any time can be exactly like that without any repercussions and plenty of financial rewards and incentive, even at the expense of their own children and that doesn't seem to bother 10/10 them whatsoever. The institution of marriage itself was corrupted long ago and anyone who takes this sham seriously, at this point, deserves to get dragged through the broken glass.
@@derp8575that's why the book of proverbs says that finding a good woman, a wife of noble character is akin to finding favor from the lord.
Erin you are so correct , the world would be such a better place if all the women were like you . thank you
well maybe the drunk version anyhow
I had a girlfriend that told me that only about 20 percent of women love their husbAnds.
And even she was lying. If at all, it is much much lower.
Whatever the percentage, it only makes sense when you realize how low their self esteem and self regard is in many cases. It's immeasurably low compared to the average man who would never marry for money or pair up for life or for decades with someone he didn't have any feelings for. Even men in the bottom 10% of self esteem are higher than the large majority of women.
Most men don't get our first pick either it's just that we know we're not a 10 either. Many of them don't seem to realize this.
Men fall in love. Women fall in lust.
Men are in love - women are in business.
They just falsely accuse and leave- whilst garnering full support from church and community
"the bible commands women to obey their husbands... not love them"
respect is the word you are looking for. and yes, women have absolutely no idea what that means.
Titus 2:4 says that older women are to teach younger women "to love their husbands and to love their children."
@@drystkrab269yes, they have to be taught. It's not natural for most of them.
@@michaelbradley6004 - Notice that they have to be taught to love their children also.
Feminism was terrorism from its inception. It worked incredibly well.
It's also not something natural for a man to love his wife, as Christ loved the church, and gave himself for it, but it's still taught in Ephesians 5:25. It's not natural to be self sacrificial, but to be self gratifying.But, just because it's not inherent, does not mean that it can't be done. And, even if it is inherent (like, cooking), one does need teaching to be done, properly.
It's nice to see a woman looking from a man's perspective. Your charming and feisty moments are also entertaining. Good channel.
Sadly a story we hear all too often.
There's no such thing as unconditional love between a man and women sweetheart. Turning a man down for sex constantly is grounds for divorce as far as I'm concerned. If she does she doesn't love you.
Years later my current pastor confirmed this for me. I was committed thinking I couldn’t divorce for religious reasons but it is a form of abandonment.
98% of NICE GUYS will Always Finish Last . . with Commitment, and Especially with-in a marriage. MGTOW 4 Life
Way back = up to 1990... i WAS There also. Sex maybe twice a year - n That also was with NO kids. All the Material Benefits + CA$H never dissipated from Her Thoughts that she Deserved it all
If she wouldn't let him have "a box" then she knows it's bad. She just doesn’t respect him.
Alpha Widow.
She's not with the man she WANTS she with the man who offered.
Feel sorry for her husband
Most of the time the dude wasn’t even alpha either…just very arousingly or attractively out of her league.
Thank you so much for speaking about this. I am married to this... 31 years. I have taken much abuse, accusations of all the things she is doing, but I get blamed. I have been committed, and she expects it of me, but she is unwilling to commit to me. I have never given up on her, keep forgiving her even for horrendous things, continue treating her as I want to be treated, and this is only reason we are still together. She knows she has it good, yet she does not appreciate or love. It is so encouraging to me to hear your message, to have someone affirm what I know in my heart, that it is not me. Sometimes I have wondered if I am just that deceived, that it is me, yet I know it is not. Thank you! And I'm glad there is at least one woman who is better than these deceived women who try in all the wrong ways to find happiness and fulfilment, yet it eludes them and they find themselves miserable.
If men have no feelings - 6 names to consider; Byron, Shelley, Keats, Tennyson, Wordsworth, Burns
Why are all the great Romantic poets men?
Not only would discovering that box hurt her guy, but it also diminishes her standing in his eyes. Women always fail to consider or understand that.
Never been loved, never known love, no money. What a world we live in
Jesus loves you.
That's ALL you need ❤
@@AndrewFosterSheff69 He doesnt exist for me.
@@Nyt250 You exist to Him. There are currently married men going through terrible times that most single men could never imagine. Jesus still exists, regardless of what someone is going through.
If you seek God earnestly, you will find Him. God is real regardless of how we feel about Him, and we'll all have to stand before Him one day. Truly, God is the only one who can fully understand us. No woman nor mortal man has the ability to.
God is who taught me that love isn't a feeling, inherently, it's a choice to do right by someone continually. I began listening to an audio Bible on my work commutes at the recommendation of a coworker, and it began to change me. As I truly made God my Lord and began to follow His commands as best I knew how, I began to actually feel love toward God, and I can feel that God loves me. It's both bizarre and amazing. I understand that I'm not a good person, nor is anyone but God, but God saved me by His abundant grace and mercy, just as He did with my earthly father before me. Though, my father's testimony is more intense.
Many years ago my father was a wayward soul. He was going to a church even though he wasn't saved yet, though he had read the Bible looking for answers to life's questions. During one particular sermon, he started hearing a powerful voice speak to him, addressing him by name and saying "You cannot resist your Father's love another day." He looked around, and no one else could hear it. He said he knew that if he left that church that day without being saved, he would die. He didn't know how, but he felt it was a certainty. I would have thought such an experience would have been scary for him, but he said he wasn't afraid because in that moment he could feel the overwhelming love and mercy of God, and he was baptized that day. I assure you, my father is a practical and sane man. I believe his testimony. In some ways, it's not dissimilar to how Christ confronted the apostle Paul and temporarily blinded him when he had been persecuting Christians, and Paul gave up his high worldly position and turned away from his those he had known and worked with to instead spread the gospel--eventually leading him to die a martyr for Christ.
I've made my peace with the fact that I may never find a woman. That I will never truly be understood by anyone in this walk of life. No one else can look in my head or see my spirit. No one has the ability to understand everything about me. What motivates me. What my fears and concerns are. The overwhelming loneliness I bore for much of my early life. No one but God. No one but my Lord and Savior can truly see me for all that I am. I still falter at times, I know He loves me more than I love Him, and I still make mistakes. While I sometimes betray Him, I know He won't betray me. There is no love greater than God's.
"The one who has My Commands and keeps them is the one who loves Me. And the one who loves Me will be loved by My Father. I also will love him and will reveal Myself to him." - Jesus the Christ, John 14:21, Holman Christian Standard Bible*
*I recommend the HCSB/CSB and ESV Bibles. They translate the original Greek, Hebrew, and Aramaic into understandable modern English. There's a good UA-cam playlist for the ESV audio Bible.
@@Nyt250 Jesus loves you he loved you before you were even created he knows all your worries just come to him and he can heal you my friend❤
I have never heard of a man ever having a box of love trinkets and letters from an ex.
Wait, she keeps the box under the bed? That's even more creepy.
If it means nothing get rid of it. But you won't.
Two movies that women have really liked, Bridges of Madison County and Shirley Valentine, have basically the same premise, women 'trapped' in a life/marriage and wanting 'more'. The woman in Bridges has an affair with a photographer and keeps a diary (her box) which her daughters discover after her death. She describes the affair, of course the daughters admire her 'escape' from her married life for that time her husband was away. He wasn't a bad husband she just wanted 'more'. In Shirley Valentine the woman is married to what she considers a boring man and leaves him for love and adventure to fulfill herself. To me this speaks to a woman's insatiable desire to keep seeking 'more', no matter the cost or wreckage it causes. Don't get me started on 50 shades of Grey.
And those stories never show her withholding affection and sex from her husband for years or decades while she pines away to escape for something "more"
I'll get you instead with titanic
Many women never have enough of anything, whether it is clothes, other things like nicknacks, attention, validation, etc...they can truly be like emotional vampires and it is a sickness with them. The more you give, the more they want.
Awesome commentary. Terrific analysis. Uncommon sense.
Sometimes I go _"a woman wrote this."_ There is a lot of women out there who resent men because their relationships ended and they couldn't get the guy they wanted. And they talk to other women with the same issues, become feminists and write vitriol. Women have such a hard time getting over their exes, and they think getting over an ex means to sleep with another guy like it proves they've healed or are rdy to move on, which opens up a whole can of worms for them and repeats the cycle of dating-go-bad thus men-bad.
I have written this 1 million times before on your channel and I’ll write it and million times more! You are an absolute legend!!! Thank you so much for showing true respect to men!!! I don’t personally believe we need to be admired even if that might be nice… But we absolutely need to be respected and I think women like you for showing that!!!
SIMP
This is the most on point video I've ever seen.
your channel is so refreshing...you are what women should be. There are very few women out here saying the things that you are, so thank you so much for even taking the time...I can see it; you're doing it because it's right, and it's the truth, and if things are *ever* going to get any better, then we need more people who are willing to speak the truth, *especially* women. I used to think that women could love, but now I am honestly reconsidering that, esp after this video...and from everything I have seen...
You are a breath of fresh air, good job 👍
I can only speak for my situation: I do believe my wife was trauma bonded to her father (and mother) and I thought this was a loving close knit family while dating though she didn’t do well with her older sister. With me? I do believe she did love me however what percentage was love versus trauma-bond? I don’t know. G-d knows her heart better than me and I knew about her childhood and her life with me for 45 years. I refuse to throw her on the scrap heap knowing I’ll face G-d and her in the future for eternity. I miss her.
Knowing her life causes me not to consider relationships going forward, I have no desire for messes and drama.
alot of women do seem to have scorched marks on them, besides the body ink
Trauma bond is just some bullshit that some psychologist made up in order to excuse women's behavior
Totally agree.
It's the women who don't/can't love.
In Canada pre 1970 you had to have an act of Parliament to get a divorce!
Now where I live a woman is NOT ALLOWED to take a man's last name!!!!
The laws and the social values of the past existed for a reason(s).
@@jasonbourneistreadstone Among other things to prevent western civilization becoming a gynocracy!!! OOOPS!
That is insanity and definitely anti-family - I would even say demonic. You can change your name to one of the other gender - but a wife cannot take her husbands name?
What??? You're kidding me.
@@wingnut71 No sadly not!
Love is not an emotion, is devotion
bingo.
Oh my god Save my Boys, from feminized psycho generational ideas... & while there pls save my girls too. Thank God too for sane anchors like this channel.
"You cared more about her, than she did you." My son said to me, he had asked me about a very old flame who I was in love with before I meet his mother. I let him read my story and his words "You cared more about her, then she did you." was illuminating and I saw the walls of my prison.
You are lovely and refreshing.
This reminds me of an immature little girl with keepsakes and unicorns in her jewelry box. But these keepsakes are of previous lovers? It is really sick. You are right. This really gross, narcissistic behavior.
Thanks for being truthful about 304s and their toxicity.
My understanding of Bible: Husbands are to LOVE their wives, wives are to RESPECT their husbands. A difference.
Wives are to SUBMIT to their husbands
women love chad and tyrone
Hahaha, the box thing 👌, excellent observation.
Love is ABSOLUTELY a decision- it remains even when the emotions aren't there to support it. Emotions are inherently unreliable. It's a shame that women don't see this.
The promises of women today are virtually meaningless.
Thank you for your understanding.
🇦🇺😎👍I’ve been divorced for 24 years and I’ve chosen to be absent from the opposite sex since then. . Very messy divorce.. When I listen to both of these women talk it reminds me of my x-wife and all of her nasty ways . Once you’ve lost your children , your partner , your family home and pretty much everything else you will never be the same again. . . Never !..
.Keep up the good work little buddy , thanks for caring about us all
“If you LOVE me you will keep my commandments (John 14:15).”
-MCS, MD
The social engineers are social engineering the masses.
Really? You think they "engineered" the contempt that both women AND men feel towards wordy, twaddling little wannabe men who try to fall back on the "good of others" while having no dog in the race?
I actually DO have a box. Let's see:
1. Nintendo and 6 games to it.
2. A knife with self carved handle
3. a harmonica that tastes like ash
4. Notes from first grade.
5. School photos
6. Biker mice from mars, Vinnie figure.
It has more junk in it. I actually have multiple boxes. It's called storage.
But I do have memories that are in my head. Boys record events with girls really well because of the power of impact into their mind.
But it's just a stamp, nothing more.
They love what can give them!
Love is sacrifice. Full stop. If you cannot sacrifice, you cannot love.
Whats love go to do with it, like the song ya know.
@madhatter9001 well if you're like Tina Turner and dismissing love to entertain a fukboi, then you can say that.
Some people have vegetables, and some people have meat. Cain vs Abel. Who's sacrifice was worthy? "If you do what is right, will you not be accepted?"
@@BobBurnham-o6w If you've learned anything from the Bible, you've learned that people are not God.
@@mrblank-zh1xy People are "not God".
So, you won't sacrifice for them? You ALREADY do.
Cain and Abel might not have to do with how people are towards each other(I think it does).
But this: "If you do what is right, wont you be accepted?" That statement applies to all sorts of things. Not just Humans and God.
Of Course Women are capable of Love a lot of them just made the choice not to because they think it will make them look weak and be taken advantage of, that same message was also fed to Men so now both sexes are scared of expressing how they truly feel.
Great video!! Women have one set of rules for them, and another set of rules for men. My ex wife had two sets of rules, that's why I eventually divorced her. She was also a guilt tripper, and liked to manipulate.
The Greeks supposedly have no less than six words that all translate into the single English word: Love.
I think it's fairly evident that men and women are talking about different things even though they're using the same word. A man is probably talking about a combination of _eros_ and _agape._ Meanwhile, women frequently are talking about _ludos_ and _pragma._ But using just one word is causing confusion.
You are right when it commands a woman to submit and obey her husband. It does not say one time that women need to love their husbands. It takes it a step further and even says there is no wickedness like a woman. The meaning behind this is every decision a woman will make is 99% selfish, short sighted and/or is out of fear. The point of having a husband is to protect you from those things that you don't see due to not having that sort of awareness. You can rail against it all you want but if you take a step back and really take a hard look you can just look at the state of the US. Men that have daughters: if your daughters aren't learning how to take care of her husband from her mom that is your failure for picking the wrong person to be an example for your daughter.
Poor husband been through it for years!!! Clearly shes the dom of that relationship. Results of being a nice guy.
Watching this only validates my great decision to never marry. 61 years old and still single. I look after myself. I eat well. Don’t drink, wh#re or gamble. Just avoid toxic women.
Some of us men do have boxes. To remind us of the game we had, proud of the women we pulled, just in case we need reassurance of a time when we were once loved. To reminisce on good times.
Men love their wives unconditionally, women don't love their husbands unconditionally, but do love their children unconditionally.
There's no such thing as "unconditional" love, doesn't matter who you're talking about.
@jakeand9020 As a man, I can say that I love my girlfriend unconditionally. There isn't anything that she can say, or do that would change that.
@@jqxznetwork😅 hillarious! When she sucks on someone elses… you will sing a new tune
Have you seen how many times women have abused and deleted their own children for selfish reasons?
Love is complicated, but action is at its core. Action requires decision.
Try talking to a gamer about his favorite video game memories, and you'll see just how sentimental a man can be!
Love has become a black hole of frustration men still "fall in" that is hard to get out of. Watch your step.
I say it this way.
Real love is a conscious act of the will. I choose to love my wife.
I don't think it's an inability to love, but I do think that women only love their children unconditionally. The war brides phenomenon is a clear example of a woman's love being highly conditional. That doesn't mean the emotion doesn't exist, but it does mean that love isn't as enduring as they like to pretend.
I think babies unconditionally, but not children.
Erin , I have benn feeding the wild cotton tails in the yard , for a couple of generations, I have a little bun that's been commingfor dinner every day at dusk , tonight there's two buns out on the paver in front of my door where I put down the plain oats, Walgreens closed early at 6:00, so I can't feed them, and they don't like corn blacks or raisen bran flakes , I feel horrible they are standing and waiting.
About 6-1/2 yrs ago I was out in my back yard with my two cats when I saw a oddly saw a skunk in the yard - odd because it was like 11am and they are usually nocturnal. I of course looked for the cats - both were just watching from the deck so I went to the stairs and we just watched a bit, and I noticed the skunk was limping, avoiding using it's left front leg... And noticed when it turned it had a reddish brown stain - I figured blood/bite wound. So I ducked I sure and grabbed a small plastic container and some cat kibble and tossed some in the lawn by it - freaked it out for a second but then it was excited over the food.
From then on every day I would leave a small dish of food out for it in the morning, and when I was out there I'd watch it come eat - maybe even toss some table scraps I'd saved out for it... It got to the point I could walk right up and add food to the dish and it wouldn't flinch. The leg got better and it gradually drifted over say 6 months more towards coming at dusk (and any food left would get eaten by other critters overnight), but I kept putting food out there for it daily for 3 years. Last time I saw it, it had just snowed (like 10") and I'd shoveled out my car and path to the driveway, and i saw it cross the street (always came from my neighbors yard) to my driveway, so I grabbed fresh food for it and waited for it to come eat. I'm presuming it died (they only live 2-3 years in the wild) since then - that summer I spent many nights outside feeding racoons, possum, skunks that would show up but I never saw that skunk again.
@captainz9 yea , alot of them are nocturnal and you don't realize they are there unless you go out in the early morning, it's the middle of their day, Rabbits ,everything is a predator to them ,squrills and mice even bully them off their dinner 🍽 spot ,and I shoe them away, usually I just give the buns another helping after the other ones hijacked their dinner or breakfast, those bunnies 🐰 were hungry tonight, I think beacuse it's getting colder
@captainz9 Nice work captain. So nuff shine.
Get a dog and never be disappointed. Top it off with a Porsche, and live life in the fast lane! Women will destroy you one way or another! Dump them and live happily ever after!!😎
Another great vid, beautiful lady. Way to call out the rampant hypocrisy & continue to red pill us outta the matrix
Always grateful for these reminders of why I wrote off relationships two decades ago.
My reaction to the title of the video:
"I know 😢"
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The f u think was gonna happen after decades of being clubed, now they want to go to the club.
@@Banned4honesty "decades of being clubed"?
Care to explain?
Erin, if you are capable of love. Then yes, Women are capable of it. Don't grift and say they can't, when the truth is it's the upbringing that defines whether they will choose materialism.
If I break up with her, I purge her from everything... only bit I'd believe is if he kept naughty pics etc. That men might keep.