It's me. I didn't run I walked. It was pretty much mutual that I leave. It was a secret because my tf is married with 3 adult kids one with a rare disease. I know the whole immediate family, parents, cousins, aunt's and uncles. I had Culture shock with them 40 years ago. Got over that fear after years of building my self esteem. Now I just let everyone clean up their own messes. I was miss fix it. Well I got burned out.
Thank you for making this video. My dm is running 🏃♀️ and you explained that he's running from himself. I knew he loved me but, wasn't doing his shadow work. I understand why. His childhood trauma was severe physical/mental & emotional abuse 😢 I'm praying he can heal because our separation is hurting us both 💔
Yup that’s me and that’s also my twin. We ran at the same time 😂 we have so much fear about coming back together and even more when union is mentioned. It’s absolutely insane!
after three months of her telling me she wants to spend the rest of her life with me, making plans with me like all but saying she wants a family with me, wants to live with me, marry me etc etc etc, she runs for the hills and will barely speak to me at all anymore even though she knows i'm ging through hell and back. but today, and here's the kicker. she messages me because she's having a bad day LMAO, like me going through two weeks of hell because of her leaving or taking a step back even if it is because she's scared, doesn't matter, but her bad day does
The runner often does get mistaken for a narcissist ...and occasionally vice versa. Soon the narc accusation gets thrown about among all who seem to need to get involved. Reactive narcissism is also a factor that can occur in the runner or chaser or both. What a need to sort out!
The runner not feeling worthy of my love, is the hardest smack and spitball to my face. And I don't appreciate that one bit 😤😤 I'm done chasing, my fucking feet are tired. Imma just have to recover until she ready to come back. I take myself out on lunch dates, and enjoy my own company for now. How often do I get to spend time with myself. Being codependent, gets heavy on my heart. I wanna feel whole and achieve my financial and emotional stability regardless. I don't reject her, but chasing her is chasing myself. I need me more if I gotta continue to chase the runner. I hate tag, my demon needed attention. So I'm taming her lil badass. My runner will be back, and so will my soulflame
This is so interesting makes a lot of sense . Recently went through this for months . Hideous time but learnt a lot during the time 💕 and I know reunion will be so much better now !! What can one do to help the runner feel worthy of love. Everything you said makes sooooo much sense to me . Bang on
I believe my twin is experiencing this because he can’t believe I actually walked away from him again. He’s like how dare her. Who does she think she is? It’s actually all about him running away from himself yes. Time for this realization yes. I know I triggered this because Spirit told me it was time for this crazy cycle to end.Just remembered talking with him last time that I needed closure about our marriage ending and he was like huh why do you want closure? lol I actually got to express my spiritual awakening truth to him after 20 years and I know I shocked him. He was looking for me to stroke his ego sexually and I told him no. I said I’m not rebuilding on sex but love this time. Again this shocked him. Sex was a big big part of our old codependent relationship. I think the hardest part for my dm is knowing I don’t need him anymore to be a whole complete person on my own without him. He’s definitely shocked!
Resonate with me my dm is the runner but I have let go lots of intense and triggers and signs believe me I reach a point more now of stronger peace with in me I am loving my self going out doing my missionary work going out in nature and being happy with self great message miss thank you 💝💯☯️🙏👍
Since I'm an Taurus I'm very impatient because I'm naturally an Bull and I can't stand pain and rejection!!! But she'z an cancer and we're an complete match made in heaven!!!
What happens to the runner when the chaser comes into her own truth and courage and feels a shift of consciousness putting her into clarity and peace? Does the runner feel the shift?
My counterpart actually tore a huge chunk out of my soul because we had already soulmerged when she began cheating and running. And it resulted in severe life threatening physical injuries because the soul is the energetic blueprint for the physical. I quit chasing once I realized she had offended her soul, which left, so she wasn't her true self anymore.
Soul shock is so awful. I never want to experience it again. Thankfully, I'm optimistic that I won't have to, given that I got through it (the second time) in only a couple of hours.
Excellent video ! My TF at the height of need for me and sincerely telling me I was the most precious person in her life , now we have yet to meet in person just 5 months of online magic and bliss, then abruptly ran and , disappeared , I wrote her politely several times she finally just blocked me “ ouch “ been 7 months but the telepathic communication is intense and physically quite intense my whole body shakes when she is upset, and nearly every day, she will scream and cry how sorry she is. And beg Please don’t give up on me “ but my question all this telepathic communication is with the subconscious ego while her waking ego I can only wonder what she is feeling..Im Sure something similar but is repressing for all the obvious reasons mentioned here.
I inner-stand your pain. I've been in a 6month separation from my dm. He had a crush on me since 7th grade. I moved in 10th grade. Lost each other for 30 yrs & GOD brought us back together as TF'S!! We were together long distance for 3yrs. He told me everyday how much he loved me & wanted me with him!! I went to see him for his birthday last June. He barely interacted with me & would ignore me to play video games on his 📲 I flew home and things fell apart. He became angry & lashed out at me. I wanted to get over him but, the Universe & his higher self keep giving me Signs all the time, they never stop ✋️ tomorrow is our 4yr Anniversary. I did my Shadow work and begged him many times to do his. He's not running from me, he's running from himself!! All I do is send him messages telepathically to do his work, then we can be together, not till then!! Good luck to you with your tf and your journey... I pray it gets easier 🙏
I find it mystifying and if concern that I DONT find any old issues to bring up. I just don't seem to have skeletons in my closet. I didn't have crappy parents or upbringing, so I reckon that just makes Sense. However, I'm definitely a misfit in this area then. Can't fix what isn't there either.
its relayed to past lives and a deep trauma regards separation. To safeguard oneself, we end up isolating ourselves, our heart so well that that pain cannot appear again. However, it does, when one of the two senses the other, both sense and the trigger sets of protection alarms that are deep rooted. One will chase, the other will run ... the only way is for both to heal and it can only come by the grace of God because such instances are rare and divine ... both will self harm, like Romeo and Juliet because they cannot live without the other.
I am finding it so hard to forgive my twin for rejecting me. He is leaving and was going to take me with him, then he changed his mind and is moving interstate without me. It has felt like I'm being ripped apart and he's hasn't even left yet. I have reached out and we are on speaking terms again, but due to my intense fear of rejection, I have become the runner. I can't seem to get past this. In 5D we are at peace, in 3D we are both in turmoil and keep switching between runner and chaser. I want to break the cycle but can't seem to forgive him. Does anyone have any advice 😢
All of you “twin flame runner” people are actually narcissists and need to seek forgiveness from God about the way that you abuse others. Jesus loves you
there is no such thing thing as twinflames. the people who call themselfes cheasers are just obsessing about people who are not ment for them. the ones they call runners are in most cases just not interested. often they have a family already and the so called cheaser does not accept it. they are obsessing to a point there it is basically mental illness already. it is all only in the cheasers head. nothing of it is real.
Twin flames are scared of being vulnerable and hurt. Twin flame connections are overwhelming and its a process that both are involved in Those who ghost or high tail it out of relationships. They usually do it because they're cowards or players. A player who deliberately does it and doesn't care may have a personality disorder. These things are not the same
Been trueeee a hell...🤮👹👹👹👹👹👹👹🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍 Cheating🤮 unfaithful 🤮betrayd,🤮 backstabbed me in my back with another women for 1 years?... Lies lies lies... Talking bullshit, spread rumors.... Jelous, envy........ 💔💔💔😭😭😭
Let me know in the comments if you or your twin flame runner is dealing with soul shock
Please Can I get a psychic reading from you?
@Gigi Grant Wdym?
It's me. I didn't run I walked. It was pretty much mutual that I leave. It was a secret because my tf is married with 3 adult kids one with a rare disease. I know the whole immediate family, parents, cousins, aunt's and uncles. I had Culture shock with them 40 years ago. Got over that fear after years of building my self esteem. Now I just let everyone clean up their own messes. I was miss fix it. Well I got burned out.
Yes my runner is feeling it
And im the chaser and i am definately feeling it
Thank you for making this video. My dm is running 🏃♀️ and you explained that he's running from himself. I knew he loved me but, wasn't doing his shadow work. I understand why. His childhood trauma was severe physical/mental & emotional abuse 😢 I'm praying he can heal because our separation is hurting us both 💔
So beautifully articulated. The truth you speak is giving me a bit of a soul shock 😅 Moved to tears. Thank you.
Soul shock...7 minutes of describing the indescribable to a T. Thank you for your kind and heartfelt support in the making of these videos. ✨💕
Yup that’s me and that’s also my twin. We ran at the same time 😂 we have so much fear about coming back together and even more when union is mentioned. It’s absolutely insane!
I now realize that I was the runner.
Me too
after three months of her telling me she wants to spend the rest of her life with me, making plans with me like all but saying she wants a family with me, wants to live with me, marry me etc etc etc, she runs for the hills and will barely speak to me at all anymore even though she knows i'm ging through hell and back. but today, and here's the kicker. she messages me because she's having a bad day LMAO, like me going through two weeks of hell because of her leaving or taking a step back even if it is because she's scared, doesn't matter, but her bad day does
Shes a narc
She's a narc so is he . Left out bits there didn't ya ?
mental issues, not twin flames
The runner often does get mistaken for a narcissist ...and occasionally vice versa. Soon the narc accusation gets thrown about among all who seem to need to get involved. Reactive narcissism is also a factor that can occur in the runner or chaser or both. What a need to sort out!
2 weeks? Try 3 years, honey. And the longer it takes, the more it hurts.
The runner not feeling worthy of my love, is the hardest smack and spitball to my face. And I don't appreciate that one bit 😤😤 I'm done chasing, my fucking feet are tired. Imma just have to recover until she ready to come back. I take myself out on lunch dates, and enjoy my own company for now. How often do I get to spend time with myself. Being codependent, gets heavy on my heart. I wanna feel whole and achieve my financial and emotional stability regardless. I don't reject her, but chasing her is chasing myself. I need me more if I gotta continue to chase the runner. I hate tag, my demon needed attention. So I'm taming her lil badass. My runner will be back, and so will my soulflame
This is so interesting makes a lot of sense . Recently went through this for months . Hideous time but learnt a lot during the time 💕 and I know reunion will be so much better now !! What can one do to help the runner feel worthy of love. Everything you said makes sooooo much sense to me . Bang on
I believe my twin is experiencing this because he can’t believe I actually walked away from him again. He’s like how dare her. Who does she think she is? It’s actually all about him running away from himself yes. Time for this realization yes. I know I triggered this because Spirit told me it was time for this crazy cycle to end.Just remembered talking with him last time that I needed closure about our marriage ending and he was like huh why do you want closure? lol I actually got to express my spiritual awakening truth to him after 20 years and I know I shocked him. He was looking for me to stroke his ego sexually and I told him no. I said I’m not rebuilding on sex but love this time. Again this shocked him. Sex was a big big part of our old codependent relationship. I think the hardest part for my dm is knowing I don’t need him anymore to be a whole complete person on my own without him. He’s definitely shocked!
Resonate with me my dm is the runner but I have let go lots of intense and triggers and signs believe me I reach a point more now of stronger peace with in me I am loving my self going out doing my missionary work going out in nature and being happy with self great message miss thank you 💝💯☯️🙏👍
Since I'm an Taurus I'm very impatient because I'm naturally an Bull and I can't stand pain and rejection!!! But she'z an cancer and we're an complete match made in heaven!!!
Hope it workout the perfect match is a painful break away
What happens to the runner when the chaser comes into her own truth and courage and feels a shift of consciousness putting her into clarity and peace? Does the runner feel the shift?
My counterpart actually tore a huge chunk out of my soul because we had already soulmerged when she began cheating and running. And it resulted in severe life threatening physical injuries because the soul is the energetic blueprint for the physical.
I quit chasing once I realized she had offended her soul, which left, so she wasn't her true self anymore.
Soul shock is so awful. I never want to experience it again. Thankfully, I'm optimistic that I won't have to, given that I got through it (the second time) in only a couple of hours.
It wasn't it
@@gunfugames7430 Why do you say that?
@@gunfugames7430 i agree ... i am 4400 days in exile and know its eternal death ... hours..sheesh!!
@@yinyangphoenix its not it
Thank you so much💐💐💐
Excellent video ! My TF at the height of need for me and sincerely telling me I was the most precious person in her life , now we have yet to meet in person just 5 months of online magic and bliss, then abruptly ran and , disappeared , I wrote her politely several times she finally just blocked me “ ouch “ been 7 months but the telepathic communication is intense and physically quite intense my whole body shakes when she is upset, and nearly every day, she will scream and cry how sorry she is. And beg Please don’t give up on me “ but my question all this telepathic communication is with the subconscious ego while her waking ego I can only wonder what she is feeling..Im Sure something similar but is repressing for all the obvious reasons mentioned here.
I inner-stand your pain. I've been in a 6month separation from my dm. He had a crush on me since 7th grade. I moved in 10th grade. Lost each other for 30 yrs & GOD brought us back together as TF'S!! We were together long distance for 3yrs. He told me everyday how much he loved me & wanted me with him!! I went to see him for his birthday last June. He barely interacted with me & would ignore me to play video games on his 📲 I flew home and things fell apart. He became angry & lashed out at me. I wanted to get over him but, the Universe & his higher self keep giving me Signs all the time, they never stop ✋️ tomorrow is our 4yr Anniversary. I did my Shadow work and begged him many times to do his. He's not running from me, he's running from himself!! All I do is send him messages telepathically to do his work, then we can be together, not till then!! Good luck to you with your tf and your journey... I pray it gets easier 🙏
I find it mystifying and if concern that I DONT find any old issues to bring up.
I just don't seem to have skeletons in my closet. I didn't have crappy parents or upbringing, so I reckon that just makes Sense. However, I'm definitely a misfit in this area then. Can't fix what isn't there either.
I am protecting you my Tf sru chechi. I am always be with you
Now that we are in union I wonder if I was the runnier all these years
After two-and-a-half years I feel so heartbroken and angry. I want to forget him. Everything reminds me of him.
I know. It's difficult. Just be the best version of you.
Year 9 here.
Thanks so much!💗💗💗❤️🤍❤️💙
I had no idea other people felt this.
The " Twin Flame Journey " is a Soul Trap.
What do you mean
How can this happen when someone?....half of their soul loves them so much❤❤
That is it, the amount and intensity of the love...
its relayed to past lives and a deep trauma regards separation. To safeguard oneself, we end up isolating ourselves, our heart so well that that pain cannot appear again. However, it does, when one of the two senses the other, both sense and the trigger sets of protection alarms that are deep rooted. One will chase, the other will run ... the only way is for both to heal and it can only come by the grace of God because such instances are rare and divine ... both will self harm, like Romeo and Juliet because they cannot live without the other.
Great video 👍
I am finding it so hard to forgive my twin for rejecting me. He is leaving and was going to take me with him, then he changed his mind and is moving interstate without me. It has felt like I'm being ripped apart and he's hasn't even left yet. I have reached out and we are on speaking terms again, but due to my intense fear of rejection, I have become the runner. I can't seem to get past this. In 5D we are at peace, in 3D we are both in turmoil and keep switching between runner and chaser. I want to break the cycle but can't seem to forgive him. Does anyone have any advice 😢
In one word : auto sabotage 😮
My twin keeps sending me songs
Thats. Actualy….. kinda cute 😂😂
@@RitchieStones
Yes it is , he’s aware of what he’s got to do though 😂, communication 💪
An cancer+Taurus Luv Compatibility is 100%!!!
18/07/16😓😢😢
I'M OFFICIALLY DONE WITH THIS BULLSHIT.DONT BOTHER ME EVER AGAIN.YOU CAN FIND SOMEBODY ELSE.MAYBE IN THE NEXT LIFE BUT I DOUBT IT.GOODBYE
It is so bad
Lies, you're just making things up.
All of you “twin flame runner” people are actually narcissists and need to seek forgiveness from God about the way that you abuse others. Jesus loves you
Not totally disagreeing with you.
there is no such thing thing as twinflames. the people who call themselfes cheasers are just obsessing about people who are not ment for them. the ones they call runners are in most cases just not interested. often they have a family already and the so called cheaser does not accept it. they are obsessing to a point there it is basically mental illness already. it is all only in the cheasers head. nothing of it is real.
Twin flames are scared of being vulnerable and hurt. Twin flame connections are overwhelming and its a process that both are involved in
Those who ghost or high tail it out of relationships. They usually do it because they're cowards or players. A player who deliberately does it and doesn't care may have a personality disorder.
These things are not the same
Been trueeee a hell...🤮👹👹👹👹👹👹👹🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍 Cheating🤮 unfaithful 🤮betrayd,🤮 backstabbed me in my back with another women for 1 years?... Lies lies lies... Talking bullshit, spread rumors.... Jelous, envy........ 💔💔💔😭😭😭
God bless 🙏🏼 😊