Attraction to Others After Meeting the Twin Flame

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  • Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
  • What happens when you try to date someone else after meeting your Twin Flame? Why isn't the attraction there? Why can't anyone else fulfill what the Twin did? There are 5 main things that happen when you try to date after meeting your Twin, and in this video I tell you what they are.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 141

  • @AnamCara53
    @AnamCara53 10 місяців тому +31

    I feel the truth in every word!
    Thank you for your videos!
    My twin had all the same realisations during our first separation.
    He eventually came back because he had no energy left to fight our connection any longer (after 6 months). He also experienced that the connection is reinforced when he tried to distract himself or pull away further. The connection to his karmic felt dull as well... after breaking up with her he even told her that nothing compares to this depth. He can't explain it.
    We're on our second separation now. Going into another layer of things that want to be released I guess.
    After the initial shock of separation I've calmed down so much in knowing about the depth of our connection. I know he can't break it. And I feel him close to me every day. He will be back when he's ready. And we're already one. I feel that in my heart and in my bones!
    What a curious journey and blessing this is! ❤

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  10 місяців тому +5

      YES! All of my best and highest vibrations to you on your TF journey

  • @cottonmouthxx7828
    @cottonmouthxx7828 Рік тому +23

    Yea this definitely resonates a lot. After about a year and half or so I dipped my toes into trying to date. Not only did the universe seem to sabotage things (like having my cat pee in my wheelchair right before having to leave 😂) and other silly things. And on dates I would just feel so disinterested, wether thinking of my twin or not I'd just dissociate. I'd feel so bored and mentally/ emotionally bored.

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +1

      🙂🙏

    • @daniistorm468
      @daniistorm468 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah me too thats whats going on with me. I just dont know who the fucking guy is. But like. I just have no energy and nobody really interests me. Its just like every guy is just a dumb waste of time. Fucking boring.

  • @asandakom8448
    @asandakom8448 6 місяців тому +10

    If the twin flame journey wasn't a divine choice, I'd say it's a sick trap. 😢😢😅

    • @mrsallexx
      @mrsallexx 2 місяці тому

      What does divine choice mean

  • @cancerlight7842
    @cancerlight7842 Рік тому +9

    Ah this was soooo helpful. I have been trying to get rid of my twin because of the karmic situation. He is really resisting this. I have separated myself but i just didn't want the pain anymore. It is getting easier. Its just annoying that i cant date anyone else. No one compares. I hope he is seeing that too now.

  • @PhillP3833
    @PhillP3833 Рік тому +6

    Wow!! Totally resonating with you. Funny (not funny) how new people show up when you're ready to hear what they have to say. Thank you! 🙏

  • @e.o9470
    @e.o9470 Рік тому +7

    This aka TF connection is super weird and mysterious

  • @vakaliarelis
    @vakaliarelis 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for your knowledge. So easily explained. 💜🙏🏼🙌🌗 x

  • @eternalharmony-978
    @eternalharmony-978 4 місяці тому +3

    Know that your work matters, Its impact is intense, ACTUALLY INTENSE and MEANINGFUL--Helping one self-actualize.

  • @drewrites4613
    @drewrites4613 Місяць тому +1

    Circling back to this video after a few months. I feel particularly vulnerable today regarding my TF who Im not in contact with and I have no idea why. It’s odd anyway, for a few months I’ve been entertaining others just soaking up the attention and ego gratification I guess but just like my original comment that stuff doesn’t last at all but I accept them for what they are which are distractions.

  • @Trailblazer82
    @Trailblazer82 3 місяці тому +2

    I was awakened to the twin flame journey in 2010. Soon after we separated, I got into a relationship to try to forget about him. We even had a baby. I couldn’t forget, and the relationship was horribly wrong. 3.5 years later, I had 3 dreams about him. I broke the relationship off, then my tf came over for a visit. That was the last time. We both got into a relationship and married that person. Well, I just divorced my husband in April after 7 years and realized that he was a covert narcissist.(definitely a karmic relationship). I have learned a lot. And I can tell you that there is no 3D relationship that can compare. However, at the time, my soul was not ready for the twin flame connection. I actually moved with my husband, 1000 miles away. Since I decided I was going to get divorced, I started having sensations in my body and realized that he was communicating with me in the 5D. I am moving back home in a couple of weeks and I know I will run into him at some point. He is still married, but I am in a state of surrender and trying to keep my energy neutralized.

  • @murrayeaston2359
    @murrayeaston2359 Місяць тому

    This is all too much. 1 year into this and it's all but defined me, and despite a knowing certainty of the connection (I a 45 year old Male 'DF', she a 29 year old female 'DM'), I still hold a doubts that I'm crazy, been bewitched or something spiritually nefarious. We are both musicians and have been playing a bit together but she insists she has no feelings for me despite the electric atmosphere when together, the eye contact, magnetic attraction. Others mention it too, who thought it an absurd 'match' until they saw us together. She has the past bad relationship/childhood bullying trauma/massive body insecurities, me abandonment/over emotional/lack of confidence stuff.
    She has a 'boyfriend' she says she loves but is not 'in love' with.
    I instigated a separation after not being able to take her denial any more, her seeming to always make jibes (jokes), always mentioning past lovers etc, having me never sure if I'm just being played, used. The synchronicities are just astounding.
    Wouldn't wish it on anyone, the most beautiful/frustrating thing ever experienced (save a conversation to spiritual understanding after a meditation course at 17).
    Sometimes I think she actually knows what this is but neither has explicitly said 'twin flame', I've told her just that I love her too much to pretend were just peculiar friends.
    Thanks for your videos, they are much more spiritually authentic and sober than a lot of the rather eyebrow-raising stuff out there on this subject. What I wouldn't do to have someone to correspond with about this, just an ear that could understand without all the backstory/detail needed to do this justice.
    Om Shanti

  • @didilove378
    @didilove378 Місяць тому

    Twin flame is not healthy relacionship.Dont do that to yourself

  • @user-nz8vd7es7k
    @user-nz8vd7es7k Рік тому +3

    So as this sounds unless we’re with our twin no other relationship will ever compare, satisfy, be worth wile…!? Very depressing! I actually agree! It’s HORRIBLE because often they don’t come back in the same lifetime!

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +9

      That's why it's important to remember union is with the Self, not with a 3D person 🙂🙏

  • @cmscior
    @cmscior 8 місяців тому +2

    I’m experiencing all these things 4.5 years after separating from my twin flame. On the ego level, I don’t think about him anymore, but when I meditate and dream I still see him and sometimes in dreams feel resentful at my current partner for not being my twin. 😢

  • @drewrites4613
    @drewrites4613 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m going through this. My TF isn’t ready for us to start on a relationship path and I’m trying to move on. It sucks. My ego was satiated while entertaining others at first but that didn’t last. I’m clueless right now.

  • @NishaRao-w1g
    @NishaRao-w1g Місяць тому

    Hey alexx just came across your channel and wanted to say how authentic it seemed and i am desperately trying to find some answers… i was going through the comments and saw something on here which was similar to mine that the chaser is now with someone else and actually maybe likes that person but runner my twin flame is at the back of my head always(dk if its a tf to begin with but yeah he is) I haven’t forgotten about him but this i have feelings for this new person and idk if my tf if just at the back of my head because of me reading and seeing so much on it and also maybe feeling guilty about moving on… but yeah this other person i am with i cant completely be open there nor is my tf with me… but as i said as a chaser i do like someone but my tf is always at the back of my head or so i think he is.. can you pls tell me if this person is even a true tf or not to begin with and also idk if i have feelings for this person anymore now that i am talking to someone else but its usually the runner and not the chaser so idk and idk if I remember him by feelings or habit but its like something holds me and i want to give away and move on and if i want to do that and i just am remembering of this person while being another cause i am guilty and dont know if i miss the connection that is there what could that mean? Is this person a true tf? Keeping in mind one, I genuinely might have feelings with this other person and two the thought of my apparent tf might just be out of guilt and no connection as such and how i only think about wanting him back to maybe see as an ego validation and nothing else? So idk what this person is if remembering is from a connection pov or from just guilt of moving on and not having what i thought while i am with someone else.. i really wish you can help and tell me who this person is now that i am attracted to someone else and with someone else not in a relationship per se but could be and should i wait for my this person in the back of my head and what if still never works out now that its been more than 2.5 years???

  • @DianeFaceReader
    @DianeFaceReader Місяць тому

    Yes 100% sabotage from the universe in my dating life since then!! 😂

  • @god_unlimited777
    @god_unlimited777 7 місяців тому +1

    Lol have you seen those cords? Can you verify that you have seen those cords if not why u preach about it the truth is there are no cords

  • @dvotii
    @dvotii Рік тому +7

    Thank you ❤

  • @Lucida1818
    @Lucida1818 10 місяців тому +1

    No wonder I was never really that interested in all the karmic men I dated. Yeahhhh they were all boring 😅

  • @joancabarrus8918
    @joancabarrus8918 Рік тому +5

    Does this happen even the twin flames just briefly met? No physical intimacy or romantic relationship established?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +3

      It CAN, but it's more likely to happen after there's been some form of romantic relationship

    • @joancabarrus8918
      @joancabarrus8918 Рік тому +1

      @@wearethesamenergy ah ok thank you.

    • @kyte.the.adventurer9748
      @kyte.the.adventurer9748 Рік тому

      Thanks for asking that... bec I have also been struggling with this.

    • @andreamessiasgomes7118
      @andreamessiasgomes7118 10 місяців тому

      ​@@wearethesamenergy what if it's LDR but they didn't meet for so many years yet.

    • @pumpkinspice5229
      @pumpkinspice5229 4 місяці тому

      Trust me, it can!!

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm 8 місяців тому +2

    If it's not mutual I will not consider her my "twin flame" anymore or anything else and will move on to someone who loves me back.

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  8 місяців тому +2

      If it's not mutual, it's not a Twin Flame anyway, but more likely a Karmic

  • @3-y86
    @3-y86 Місяць тому

    witchcraft nothing more

  • @IshaaSuri
    @IshaaSuri Місяць тому

    Hey alexx!! Thanks for the informative video i though had a small question.. so if the chaser is now involved with someone else sexually and emotionally and is actually considering this other person to be someone they can be with and is also maybe treating them in a nicer way and i also feel secure in it than i did with the guy i thought of as the runner or my tf… and a part of me is only thinking about the runner as a guilt conscience of now being with someone else and considering being with else and so if the chaser which is me here is now with someone else and thinking their runner tf was never a tf to begin with doesn’t it mean that they actually werent my twin flame? Cause usually its the runner tf that is in different relationships with people and idk about him but i am now after more than 2.5 years of on and off and so maybe he just was an experience and not a tf cause ig because of the pain and my issues of acceptance i labelled it that as some hope of him coming back while he just could be someone toxic and me being with someone else physically and considering the seriousness in that means that this person who i thought of as my tf isnt my tf right? And lastly i used to have a feeling he was my tf but now with this other person i dont anymore and only maybe the guilt keeps me tied to him and the hope and if i dont feel like this person is my tf and i am also with someone else and feel the emotions then they never were my twin flame right?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Місяць тому

      You are most likely correct in your assumption. If it's easy for you to forget about the person with the introduction of a new person, it wasn't your TF but a Karmic. All of my best and highest vibrations to you on your new journey!

  • @awakening2love
    @awakening2love Рік тому +7

    I'm definitely seeing this play out. Just today, my twin 'finally' answered my 10yr old daughter's call after 8 months of no contact with her as well. They had always had a relationship independent of me but when she separated from me, she included my daughter. In light of that, your video kind of speaks to the fact that she is not finding out there (thinking she could easily move on from us both)...what she had in our relationship dynamic. Not to mention, in these months apart, I've met at least 6 women that had 'all the appearance' of being an upgrade in inner beauty, their connection to the Divine, and just overall amazing-ness over my twin only to see them start with so much promise...only just to fizzled out later..because they were not my twin.

  • @stephaniewood7611
    @stephaniewood7611 Рік тому +2

    Omg I have so much I wish I could share right now

  • @SpeakinTruths
    @SpeakinTruths Рік тому +2

    I resonate with this… but we don’t need to agree on anything… every journey is different… all the information you need comes from within…

  • @denisewilliams454
    @denisewilliams454 2 місяці тому

    There is no other than your twin flame 🔥. You are locked into that flame 🔥 or I am . Even if I tried I couldn’t get out of this connection or Bond with Aaron. I would burn up I am sure 🙏👩‍❤️‍👨😇🫶🤗😃🔥❤️🤩😀🤞🏽

  • @Creatrix11
    @Creatrix11 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you❤🙏

  • @loa4441
    @loa4441 Рік тому +1

    He must be my twin, he keeps me at arms length and suffers with depression. Exhaustion, lack of sleep. All those symptoms

  • @matanatarot
    @matanatarot 2 місяці тому

    I've known this in the first half year. Now, 6 years later, I still choose him above any other person.
    He even told me, after 2 years apart. ' In the other relationship I was board".
    But he couldn't see the connection between that feeling and us yet. He's still running.
    I am done chasing, living my live. Let him go in love. I can only think of him with love and affection.
    Even with all the bullshit he's doing to himself and the affect it has on his live and our relationship.
    I don't 'miss him' anymore like I used to, no 24/7 thinking anymore, nonfear of losing him anymore. Why should I? If I think of him, shivers going through my body and I feel happy. That will do for now!

  • @toti6788
    @toti6788 10 місяців тому +3

    Can’t I escape this !!!

  • @vinothkumar-uw2ts
    @vinothkumar-uw2ts 2 місяці тому

    I m from South India. I m in separation, this video gives me some relaxation.And there must be a reason to watch this video at this time. Now only I know there is separation between TF, After separation😢

  • @Progrssn
    @Progrssn 2 місяці тому

    Excellent. Ive been able to describe a couple of these points to few who understand. These were explained very well.

  • @lydiacherrington-en6pr
    @lydiacherrington-en6pr 4 місяці тому

    I’ve tried leaving my twin and dating others so many times and I can just never stick it out. I get pulled back to him every time. And every time I do it, it pushes my twin further and further away. It’s like he won’t do the healing and I feel lost and hurt so I look to another man to get my needs met and then get pulled back to my twin. Like this vicious cycle. When finally I healed and learned I need to give myself what I’m searching for from outside myself. It was such a chaotic mess our relationship and now I’m finally at a good place and healed all my shit and he hates me! He will ever come back…..

  • @asmaezerouali4678
    @asmaezerouali4678 3 місяці тому

    I've experienced most of this things without knowing i am in this journey.my ego tired to convince me to start dating,in order to run away from the pain.but i just couldn't and honestly I wasn't that attractive to others either

  • @BlessingsfromBridget
    @BlessingsfromBridget 5 місяців тому

    I’m in twin flame separation. I’m attracted to a UA-camr of all people. It doesn’t help that I’m on his Patreon and communicate with him, but I feel such a relationship is unrealistic. He lives on the other side of the country anyway but I don’t feel like stopping watching his channel. And I don’t feel like forgetting my twin flame.

  • @LightersWorld
    @LightersWorld 2 місяці тому

    Beautiful, hope everything settles soon of all ❤

  • @yasminpinarsoy1715
    @yasminpinarsoy1715 4 місяці тому +1

    So True

  • @susansnyder854
    @susansnyder854 Місяць тому

    Wow I'm just finding this 2024, and you are so accurate in what you are saying! No one else seems to get this....thank u for sharing this. 🙏💖

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Місяць тому +1

      Glad it resonated! 🙏

    • @susansnyder854
      @susansnyder854 Місяць тому

      @@wearethesamenergy glad you are out there putting out this info!!!! ❤️

  • @TheHouseOfduToit6688
    @TheHouseOfduToit6688 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you

  • @IvanaXavierFanCRO
    @IvanaXavierFanCRO 7 місяців тому +1

    So so true

  • @deminnie5838
    @deminnie5838 Рік тому +1

    So cord cutting doesn't work and can actually make it worse? Is there a way I can reverse it? I just had someone do it about a month ago

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому

      And do you feel any better after it?

    • @deminnie5838
      @deminnie5838 Рік тому

      @@wearethesamenergy I was actually gradually feeling better since March. It's definitely been slowly but surely, but from March up to now I know I've done a lot of purging and releasing without forcing it, it kinda just happened naturally. But I did the cutting in early June, after hearing so much about it I figured maybe it would be a final step. Since then, I continue to feel better and more like myself again week to week, but I guess I really don't know if thats just me doing my thing or from doing the cutting. I will say that then towards the end of June and early July I KNOW I was channelling a lot of his anxiety and fear, to the point that it was waking me in the morning and it took a lot of meditation and breathing exercises to make it stop. It finally stopped around the 6th or 7th. But I knew it was his stuff and not mine because I had otherwise been looking forward to the future and feeling really excited about different personal things I had going on and I was not focused on him. So when I was getting those heavy anxiety/panic hits on those random mornings it was really confusing to me

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +1

      All of that intense connection energy you're feeling is the bond getting stronger. You should watch my videos "How to Break the Twin Flame Bond" and also "Signs of Twin Flame Connection (During Separation)"

  • @filisje6129
    @filisje6129 4 місяці тому

    my twin flame has not been able to understand my love for him. even when this was clearly present. He is now dating on Tinder and meeting new people. Even though it hurts, I let it go. I can't do more than that. also he has removed me from everything. I don't know if he will ever realize that we are twin souls, but I wish him all the best. And I wish nothing less for myself...
    Feedback

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  4 місяці тому

      Yeah, sounds about on par. My book talks about the Runner in detail, including this aspect. Also, my videos "Why Your TF Runs," and a few coming out in the next couple of months.

  • @mary-anneb2614
    @mary-anneb2614 3 місяці тому

    My tf is married to a karmic soulmate. I moved on energetically and distanced myself to protect my self but indeed I feel depleted energetically. I don’t know how to remain attached in this situsation. What is the tf who is aware it is tf connection supposed to do in this situation?.

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  3 місяці тому

      I would suggest watching my series on my website "The Chaser Series"

  • @Nancy-w6i
    @Nancy-w6i Місяць тому

    Need a little guidance here alexx😓, i was going through the comments and have seen mostly all your videos and i don’t understand how to differentiate who is what and if the person who i think of as my tf even is so and with the comments on this one i related to one of them where you mention about going through maybe what all the soul family members are trying to teach you.. so i thought i had a tf and thought i went through all the pain regarding it and didnt like anyone while he was coming and going but now suddenly i have been physically involved with someone else and may even like this person and if the person who i thought of as my true tf was actually so would i one like someone else and two get physically involved and maybe i was always like this dont even think it was an ego degradation was just maybe a painful experience that i am unable to let go of even if i like someone else cause again my ego is used to that identity and not like it stands true though so if that and me just obsessing over the identity while not growing and being physically involved with someone else and the pain of the last was just karmic or something else cause if it was a true tf would i not be scared to like someone else and even be physically involved with someone else and maybe i just think about my tf cause i am in habit of while i actually like this other person and if i say so means it is so and not accepting it doesn’t change it and if i just want the label with no growth and nothing else means it cant be a tf right? You mention in your videos how this person could be a karmic or tf or someone else now is my apparent tf not my tf and some other member cause of my behaviour now and that maybe i was stuck on and off cause he came back and otherwise i dont care cause now suddenly i am attracted to someone else and now he is gone and will never come back or is this new person for me a soul family member or i guess i am just labelling when no one is anything? And if by choice i initiate stuff with others that means who i thought of as my tf was never so..

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Місяць тому +1

      In the end, do the titles really matter to anything but the Ego? As long as you're growing, expanding, and learning...

  • @Herkimerdiamond
    @Herkimerdiamond Рік тому

    If we are the universe in all forms….why don’t we feel fulfilled or complete with any soul? Why do we just feel complete with our twin flame? What do they have in special that differentiates from other people?
    If we are the universe and the creators in the first place of everything and e everyone…why are we so unhappy? Why is God unhappy?
    Do you understand what I mean?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому

      All of your questions have to do with Ego. You're thinking with Ego, you're feeling with Ego, you're rationalizing with Ego, you're wishing with Ego. You're clearly smart, but your Ego will more than likely drive you a bit nutty if you don't learn to calm it down. 🙏🙏

  • @LizzyBobbySofie
    @LizzyBobbySofie Рік тому +5

    Is it possible that I am done with my TF after more than two years? I still think about him everyday during the day but I am tired and I don’t feel in love anymore…I think..😅(dreamed about him last night🤣)

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +6

      The beautiful power of free choice. You don't "need" to be in love with your 3D Twin. You ARE your Twin!

    • @LizzyBobbySofie
      @LizzyBobbySofie Рік тому +2

      True, that’s the weird expercience of the illusion of separation…I have made more than a dozen psychedelic trips… still the ego is a huge thing😅. Thanks for your reaction. ♥️

  • @Returntolove123
    @Returntolove123 7 місяців тому

    Hmmn, not sure about there not being enough attraction?? The DM or runner seems to escape into relationship as a way of coping. And also, is being in a soul mate or karmic relationship as you mentioned later not a contradiction?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  7 місяців тому

      Just because the Runner enters into Third Party relationships doesn't mean it's as clear as it seems via your Ego's perception. One can choose to be with a Soulmate or Karmic instead of their TF, but again, that doesn't mean the attraction will ever be the same as it is with the Twin. I have another video "Choosing a Soulmate Over a Twin Flame" that talks about this as well.

  • @Flufero23
    @Flufero23 5 місяців тому

    As I move along my spiritual journey, I understand my twin’s third party situation. I can now see it as positive in that he is able to learn whatever lessons necessary. The separation is also allowing me to continue the path to awakening. I was unhappy the way we were. I am now able to focus on my life and my journey in peace and love.

    • @Flufero23
      @Flufero23 8 днів тому

      Revisiting this video. It’s been a little over a year since he left. I have been doing inner work which is paying off. I have no desire for dating or a soulmate. Although I am focusing on my life, I feel my twin’s presence, even if I’m not thinking about him. It’s okay.❤🙏

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm 8 місяців тому

    It sounds like for some the twin flame dream is a great excuse to not date. So a person who doesn't really want to be in a relationship hangs on to the twin flame dream and is happy being single if the twin flame relationship doesn't happen. I think some people really need to take a step back and be honest with themselves.

    • @alchemicalsoul
      @alchemicalsoul 2 місяці тому +1

      Single and celibate is also a state of being and reality. Everyone is not here for 3D relations.

  • @shristipriya2409
    @shristipriya2409 8 місяців тому

    Will breaking up with the soulmate upon this realisation create a karma?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  8 місяців тому

      You may want to watch my video "What is Karma?" to answer this question

  • @Aubrie_Love_Tarot
    @Aubrie_Love_Tarot 4 місяці тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @SahilKaul-v6k
    @SahilKaul-v6k Місяць тому

    Hey alexx!! Great video.. i had a few things i wanted to ask though.. new here😅i am a 22 year old male chaser or so i think i just wanted to ask a few things as I haven’t really heard much about male chasers ig.. so hoping you can help
    so my question would be after maybe knowing and on and off for about 3 years with my tf(not sure) I recently after our last separation maybe (more than a month ago) met someone or maybe more than one person that i have been attracted to and physically involved with as well.. sometimes i think i have forgotten all about my this person i thought of as my twin flame and before i met these other people i was consistently in a lot of pain and a part of me thought that there is no healing happening as well if i still am getting attracted to maybe unhealthy stuff and just using the others for physical distraction as well sometimes i think it could be real feelings also and i have read and heard you cant have real feelings for anyone except your twin flame so now i question if the person i was pining over was even a tf to begin with or was a karmic and my brain and ego is just obsessing over my unhealthy attachment issues and if in so long also i haven’t done the healing or hasnt come to me after so many apparent separations mean that they could just be toxic and also liking and getting attracted and being physically involved with someone else and feeling no connection with the twin and a part of me thinking that they never were my twin to begin with but what my ego made up to combat the hurt seems like a part of me knows the truth just isnt ready to accept and they(runner)also said to me i dont feel the intense connection with you to be committed and if i like else one cant be my tf and maybe just identity with the label to much to let it go if i dont feel pain or anything and want my ego to be satisfied to see if he comes back and not actually heal and if the former is what i want and think about and by actions do as well then they cant be a tf right? Being involved with someone else getting feelings forgetting and also thinking all you thought about your tf was a lie while knowing and not aligning when you thought they would be with you a part of you didn’t believe they can ever be and that would mean its not who I thought it was right? And the runner states they can’t be with you stating no feelings not like they are scared and run cause of a third party which makes it more of a place to think that it’s not a tf and i saw your other videos too could be some other soul family or karmic member but which one is which?
    And i mean just could be toxic and not a true tf cause one would a runner actually say that and not run cause of fear and two would i suddenly be involved with other people feel nothing for the runner and just guilt about moving on and if i am doing so i am just scared to let go of the identity right which already tells me i am just obsessing and not growing.??

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Місяць тому

      Please watch more videos on my different playlists, including "DM and DF Aren't Real"

    • @SahilKaul-v6k
      @SahilKaul-v6k Місяць тому

      @@wearethesamenergy okay thankyou but then what about what this person is and my feeling that they can never be a tf after my actions and what they have said..

  • @freealternativestreaming2404

    Well, so I thought. Until I recently entered a mirrored soul dynamic with another person and my twin's physical absence was not helpful at all to prevent me from tuning into sth more interesting than hesitations, doubts, and constant fear of love and passion in my daily life due to my masculine's conscious choices with other people. After so many years on this path, I realize I can keep the connection and share deep love and affection with other souls. Still, I confirm many things that you have said on the topic, mainly the cord cuttings (they cause deep physical pain and instability of the vitals).

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +1

      Of course you can keep deep love and connections; you are your Twin and Union is within the Self!

  • @btsforever5190
    @btsforever5190 2 місяці тому

    That is so true🥰

  • @archangelwassup
    @archangelwassup 8 місяців тому

    so if someone did try to break the bond is there a way to reverse the symptoms?

  • @Heather25430
    @Heather25430 Рік тому

    Is there a way to contact you that is not public (on UA-cam)?

  • @sunray9941
    @sunray9941 9 місяців тому

    what that means, "experiencing yourself through human ego"? why is needed a physical body to place there soul and ego, so later soul would struggle with ego and kill ego eventually through meeting twin soul.. wow! so convoluted.. but I am just a simple peasant girl, who happened to met her twin soul and now lost in these convoluted ideas. wow. used to love was so simple..and actually pleasant. nothing like nowadays. he likes you, you like him, that was it. use to gentleman enjoyed the ladies company, nowadays they are running from ... LOL what a love story - concept we imported!

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  9 місяців тому

      No Soul. I don't ever speak about a Soul vs Ego. You are the entire universe and the creator of everything.

    • @GemD333
      @GemD333 5 місяців тому

      @@wearethesamenergyhi can u explain if there is no soul ,where is the soul family coming from? i understand we are the same and we are all one part of the creater and create our own reality,but are we still a different soul- spirit being?

    • @GemD333
      @GemD333 5 місяців тому

      @@wearethesamenergyin my understanding,each soul are one part of the creator but we have experience different life time ,some soul-spirit experienced 100 times might some experienced 10000times. Once we experienced awaken ,we realized this life is not real. we get our information from our high self which is our soul-spirit guide from our higher self to finish the lesson our soul want us to learn , each soul is different but we do came from the creator the one. Can u pls explain ur point of view. ?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  5 місяців тому

      @@GemD333 I would suggest reading my book!

  • @999_loved
    @999_loved Рік тому

    Thanks.
    What about the runner if they choose to stay with their soul mates/karmic?
    It means that they are not always meant to end up together?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +5

      Then they haven't learned the lessons they're meant to be learning.

    • @999_loved
      @999_loved Рік тому

      @@wearethesamenergy then the other party has,to wait till they learn their lessons. Maybe they don't learn their lessons for decades.

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому

      Nope. The other party doesn't HAVE to wait for anything. The other party may choose to wait, but it's still a choice. You may want to watch my video "Twin Flame Separation (an important message)"

    • @999_loved
      @999_loved Рік тому

      @@wearethesamenergy thanks.
      I have done meditation for many years. How do we know that our frequency is high?

  • @Nitrochic73
    @Nitrochic73 6 місяців тому

    So I have a quick question if they aren't attracted to other people what if they're both married what if that twin flame is married are they attracted to their spouse still or does that fade throughout time

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  6 місяців тому +1

      Once anyone learns the lessons the Soul Family member is showing them, the attraction will always fade. I would suggest reading my book because I talk about this in every section

    • @Nitrochic73
      @Nitrochic73 6 місяців тому

      @@wearethesamenergy ok I'll look for your book. Thank you

    • @Nitrochic73
      @Nitrochic73 6 місяців тому

      @@wearethesamenergy can you send me the link to your book cuz I can't find it

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  6 місяців тому

      @@Nitrochic73 It's on description part of every video plus on my channel homepage and my website, but just for convenience here: books2read.com/thesoulfamily

    • @Nitrochic73
      @Nitrochic73 6 місяців тому

      @@wearethesamenergy sorry and thank you

  • @delorenzo47
    @delorenzo47 Рік тому

    1.1k views posted 11 days ago

  • @Herkimerdiamond
    @Herkimerdiamond Рік тому

    When one person is interested in find their twin flame, that is symptom that their twin flame exists right now encarnated and they want the same thing even subconsciously?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому

      No, it means the person is too much in their Ego

    • @Herkimerdiamond
      @Herkimerdiamond Рік тому

      @@wearethesamenergy but if one finds the twin flame, that means that it was an ego desire? Why cannot be an higher self desire?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +2

      Your question was if someone is interested in finding their TF if that means that their TF exists and just needs to be "found." That's a desire by the Ego because you're hoping that finding this person can solve all your problems, or give you a love like you've never had before, or enlighten you, etc. A TF is merely a reflection of you. You have to do all of those things for yourself.

    • @Herkimerdiamond
      @Herkimerdiamond Рік тому

      @@wearethesamenergy if I could do the things for myself…I didn’t need my twin flame. Twin flames help us to heal and grow. That’s a beautiful thing to desire.

    • @magdalenawiko5158
      @magdalenawiko5158 Рік тому

      ​@@HerkimerdiamondI could share my story. But it would be a lot of writing. I don't think TF does anything for us. nothing. I found new job. I want to find a new partner. I already knew what kind of partner I needed because at the age of 20 I chose differently than one chooses at the age of 40. Everything appeared in one manifestation. I didn't know it was a manifestation, but let's call it that. quite a nice candidate for a partner (apart from the age gap) and work. I was left with nothing. my counterpart could have helped me but didn't lift a finger. very difficult lesson. In fact, previous lessons don't get attached helped me through this. otherwise I would be devastated. and Alex worried me that if I'm not attached, Twin can die quickly. I try not to take responsibility for it. these are difficult situations. I try not to give up. don't think about it, forget it and move forward in small steps

  • @geeblock6789
    @geeblock6789 Рік тому +3

    Thanks, this makes sense

  • @notearz76
    @notearz76 Рік тому +1

    I knew this once I heard it. SMH
    Learning the illusion of ego is a tough thing to navigate.
    Glad to hear June was …busy for you.
    Vacation is amazing. The book is amazing, but wow, is it deep to get through. Distractions with the family makes it difficult to read through.
    Much gratitude and appreciation!! Keep being our guide for this!!
    -The Universe

  • @soulbabe79
    @soulbabe79 Рік тому +1

    I can't agree with any of this
    .. I met a soul mate a few months after twin ran and I have fallen so deeply in love with him and I'm more attracted to the soul mate than the twin. I actually don't feel anything for my twin other than peace and love. Whereas for my soul mate, who doesn't want a relationship but we are in close contact, I feel such an intense bond and passion for.
    It is very much possible to be attracted and happy with another person. I do think of my twin now and then but there's no emotion there.

    • @InnerUnionEva
      @InnerUnionEva Рік тому +8

      But is madly in love not an ego thing? I also feel at peace when I'm with my twin. It's a feeling of coming home and deep love which made me no longer be interested in the feeling of falling in love with another person again. Because when I'm in love, I feel disconnected from myself and when the feelings for that person fade away, suddenly I see this person more clear and realise we don't match at all. My twin will always bring me in a state of coming home, the deep KNOWING and just being in peace (with myself) and that's all I ever long for in life. But that's just my perspective 😊 And after all, the ego doesn't always have to be seen as a bad thing.

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +2

      @evaflowt 🙏🙏 Well said

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +2

      @lois-loves I wish you nothing but the absolute BEST on your Soulmate journey! 🙏🙏

    • @selorasoulstice
      @selorasoulstice Рік тому +2

      ​@wearethesamenergy I feel such peace and love and a feeling of being Home while IN my twins presence, but when we are not in each other's presence I feel very triggered by his choices and ways of communicating. Any thoughts on this?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Рік тому +2

      @selorasoulstice Try watching my video "Letting Go of Expectations." 💜

  • @Hans-q2t7i
    @Hans-q2t7i 6 місяців тому +1

    Its kinda suck, my twin flame lives in Russia and i live in Holland. Never feel this kind of connection before, but my God its hard about to think about the future because of the conflict between nato and the kremlin..

  • @KritikaSharma-u2l
    @KritikaSharma-u2l Місяць тому

    Hey alexx!! This might be a little long but i am desperate 🥲I was going through multiple video’s of twin flames and what happens when another person comes from maybe the side of the chaser and also the runner idk about this person though ( who i think as my apparent tf) and i just found your video which has helped me more than the others i have seen but i still have a few things maybe i didn’t understand and hoping you could shed some light on this so.. i had met someone and not been able to get over this person and we never dated and the pain was also a lot and so i thought they could be a same soul connection but then after multiple on and off situations i am exhausted and i dont know if i feel like he is my same soul anymore as you have also mentioned you just know when they are the same soul i thought i did but now i dont think anymore and also because i was physically recently involved with someone else and was tired of waiting on him but also couldnt stop thinking about this person i thought as same soul but thats because its after a long time i was involved with someone else and maybe just cause i am used to thinking about this person so much cause one if it truly was a same soul connection would i be involved or feel towards someone else and two i wouldnt start feeling nothing suddenly No connection and no knowing that he is a same soul as well. Can you pls help me understand what this is and if i am involved with someone else can this other person be my same soul or ever come back?
    But i don’t understand how i am just okay with being with others and actually finding them attractive and feeling like this person just cant be and never was my tf? And if i feel like he cant be cause he never loved me or showed those signs and have feelings for else while think about the tf concept cause its hard for the ego to let go of that means its not a tf right? Or idk?

    • @wearethesamenergy
      @wearethesamenergy  Місяць тому

      I suggest watching videos on all of my playlists to get a deeper understanding of what I speak about and all of the members of the Soul Family