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  • @Being_Fola
    @Being_Fola Рік тому +5

    Nigerians oooo😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣 Chaiii women get issues.
    But thank God for the Good ones out there. May we continue to meet them. But mehn, the bad ones can make you feel sooo bad. That lady at the party, why do I have a feeling that she also has a good business, hence why she was mean🤣🤣🤣Maybe she felt threatened! Nenye now added her own cooking skills with beauty 🤣🤣🤣
    Nenye steady pressing necks. Just keep being yourself, stay nice, humble, God fearing and true to yourself and by Gods grace you will continue prospering.

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Chaiiiii I just have to pin this comment! 😜 comments like this make me smile see as you dey make me dey blush for night 😂😂😂 thank you so much beautiful! I appreciate you watching 🥰🥰🥰

  • @olumidebabarinsa5320
    @olumidebabarinsa5320 Рік тому +22

    Competition is our culture as Nigerians. I have been blessed by lots of Nigerians here. I got my second job through a Nigerian. I also helped another Nigerian.

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому +1

      God bless you! May God continue to enrich you! Amen 🙏🏻 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @icequeen491
    @icequeen491 Рік тому +6

    Lovely Video. You are very beautiful ❤
    Just listened to the entire message and you are totally right.
    I lived in Canada from 2005-2012 before I moved to the UK.
    Basically I am like you, pretty, positive, admired by men etc.
    What I faced would fill an entire book if I were to share all. Basically Nigerian girls hated me (I was an international student living with other students at the time in BC), they would spread false rumours about me (like oh she’s a Pros”) I had a lot of guys who wanted to date me but I was focused on studies. Eventually the other students ganged up to make sure I was being sent out of the place I was staying by making false claims to the woman who was the Guardian. I was casted out by my own, no work permit only a one yr student visa didn’t know anyone else but I survived and I went towards Canadians and from that point I have been very white Canadian in my mannerisms and being. I worked for Canadian salons and lived in upscale areas where blacks weren’t and I had my peace. On the few occasions I friended an African (Nigerian or another Africa person) it was jealousy, backbiting etc. I no longer have any black friends because it seems to be a general behaviour amongst blacks. But since this video is about Nigerians I can fully confirm that you are right, the ladies are haters if you are pretty, married, successful, but if you are ugly, struggling, single and broke then you will have lots of them in your life. I’m 39yrs and I own my salon in London, all my clients are non blacks and I earn well.
    Take it as a compliment when they reject you it means you are destined for greatness. Meet and befriend other races and encourage them to try your catering services, you might be surprised by how far you go with many supportive friends from different races who will love and appreciate you.😊 ❤❤❤

  • @Teetee_oyin
    @Teetee_oyin Рік тому +7

    But because 2 people looked at you in a way you go ahead to conclude that a whole country is wicked. Na you try pass o…You are probably getting such stares because you are very beautiful. If someone sizes you up, you ignore them. It shouldn’t bother you so much.
    Anyway, we know it’s all for content. But other Africans say we are competitive just because we are always aspiring to be better, we should be defending our own not adding to the wrong narratives about Nigerians.
    This video is not giving sha 👎

  • @Journeywithlovely.
    @Journeywithlovely. Рік тому +3

    Nne you’re not wrong. And the competition is the reason we don’t grow as a community, because they feel like if they help you you’d be better than them, which I don’t understand. And when you help some of them, they want to push you out and take your place it’s so disturbing and it tells a lot about us as a nation and later they want to talk about racism. It’s also a problem here in the uk and I’ve had my own fair share that I’m now legit avoiding them. I’d rather now be friends with other Africans than my fellow Nigerians and it’s so sad😩

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries Рік тому +10

    My gender never disappoints with their competition,there are still good people out there and may we continue to meet them.

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Amennnn 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thank you Mama🥰🥰🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @keneokafor5794
    @keneokafor5794 Рік тому +8

    Your caption "Nigerians in Canada are wicked" is too bad .
    It is an individual thing, good and bad people are everywhere.
    It depends on how you interpret people's actions and carry yourself around people but I also think you will examine yourself, manner of approach matters a lot.

    • @enotesmusic
      @enotesmusic Рік тому

      I felt bad too when I read it.
      She generalized it and that's not good.
      I've had some experiences here in Canada, but I can't say that "Nigerians in Canada are bad",
      thats not nice.

    • @busayofunmilayo7137
      @busayofunmilayo7137 Рік тому

      I cannot agree less

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      The topic seems generalized but you need to watch this video to the end to understand me better. Thanks

    • @busayofunmilayo7137
      @busayofunmilayo7137 Рік тому

      @@NenyeTheBrand God helps us all! Ire o!

  • @Tonia_Kal
    @Tonia_Kal Рік тому +8

    You’re right Nenye, I don’t go for any gatherings at all cos the first one I went to they used bombastic side eye to look at me and my kids. I even met one Lady at Canadian store and I greeted her next thing she told was” it seems you guys are new here and I said yes , next thing was no wonder you’re looking fresh like this, very soon you will look like the rest 🤣.

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      What???? Why would she say that?This right here is a hate comment…Let’s do better please guyssss

    • @nmg1909
      @nmg1909 Рік тому

      And you didn't return her bad comment? Don't allow anyone to make bad pronouncements about you. I don't tolerate any nonsense from anyone. What she said is very strong.

  • @adelekepeter7672
    @adelekepeter7672 Рік тому +9

    I know it was painful but we shouldn't generalize it as you did mentioned that you met good ones,i believe you are good too, let each of us within our circles begin to change the narratives by doing the right thing to our fellow Nigerians,sky is your limit

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Yup that’s exactly what I’m doing, but if you watched the video well you will see when I said “SOME NIGERIANS” I stressed on the word “some”

  • @barbiesmiles
    @barbiesmiles Рік тому +9

    Nigerians and competition are best friends. My experience so far has been more of good tho.
    But they like to show off and give you d attitude of I WAS HERE BEFORE YOU… I AM BETTER THAN YOU and all
    Just ignore and move
    Everybody know Watin dem come find.
    And again, you are so pretty 🤩 so I smell jealousy from those two.

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Thank you darl for engaging! I appreciate this 🥰🥰🥰The competition part is something that is very disturbing to me! Omo it is well oooo! Chai the compliments 🥰 Thank you darl🥰

  • @ChinenyeAgba
    @ChinenyeAgba Рік тому +5

    Heheheh…, welcome to Canada/ Canadian youtube Nenye 🙂. From another Nenye to you, I respect your experience on this topic tbh. Those who say otherwise don’t know the half of it 😂. All I will say is, try not to give them your energy or even the light of day. Bond with those that match your energy. This Canada, everybody will be alright eventually 🤭.

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Chai! Just what I was looking for! Thank yuh so much for this comment! And you fished out the solution, Bond with those that match your energy! Thank you dear for watching 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @victorchuksozonuwe1047
    @victorchuksozonuwe1047 Рік тому +2

    My first time and just subscribed

  • @TosTosTV1
    @TosTosTV1 Рік тому +3

    Wow! Your experiences have me dumbfounded sha, because I typically feel that for the most part the perception that Nigerians are not nice to one another is unfounded , but these your experiences are not cool.

  • @oyindamolaayodeleayodele2573
    @oyindamolaayodeleayodele2573 Рік тому +5

    Me I cannot relate to this o, I am new here as well and this is coming as a shock to me because Nigerians here are like Godsent…The best sef

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Awwww that must be beautiful! Like I said in the video “SOME NIGERIANS” thanks so much for watching 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @SandraAnetor
    @SandraAnetor Рік тому +6

    Heheheheh. They’re intimated by your beauty na. Beautiful mama with beautiful kids, what do you expect from people with low self esteem. God will take you to the right people 🙏🏻

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому +1

      Lol 😂😂😂😂 Amen oooo 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Thank you beautiful for watching and also engaging 🥰🥰

  • @gertrudeezimorah7804
    @gertrudeezimorah7804 Рік тому +3

    In marketing such negative response is called an objection, and I. Marketing it means tell me more! For instance your intro with the lady that you met at the party, should have gone like did you get to taste the egusi soup? I made it, something in that line, to get her to tell you more, .so keep marketing and don't let there countenance demoralize you ok

  • @Becca-licious01
    @Becca-licious01 Рік тому +7

    Maybe una for Calgary o, Nigerian in Edmonton are angels

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Awwww that’s beautiful, but remember I said SOME

  • @otubanjo
    @otubanjo Рік тому +4

    I just got my green card after a long time. So I go out more. I didn't know there were a lot of Nigerians here. What's wrong with lagos? I left when I was young too. Nigerians don't know how to express love like other cultures. It's the suffering they suffered in the past. It's good to see Nigerians here and they brought my ogbono. You'll find nice friends in church. Bible has already said do not unequally yoked so I tend not to look anywhere else for friends. I am the only girl so I'm used to keeping to myself.

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Awww! Yes I believe some good friends can be found in the church too! Thank you for watching 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @leostellaglobaltv2220
    @leostellaglobaltv2220 Рік тому +3

    Nenye the table shaker 😂😂😂😂
    You are right dear, there are still nice Nigerians out there willing to assist and help genuinely though.
    But for some of the bad wagons, they will never change o, no matter where they are, I think its common to get better information from another nationality that our own people.
    It's well o, God over all❤🙏

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      We will be alright las las😅😅😃 thank you mama for watching 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Tonias.Corner
    @Tonias.Corner Рік тому +3

    Chai😂😂😂 My country
    You will keep meeting good people dear😊

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Lol😂😂 My dear ooo! Thanks so much for watching 🥰🥰

  • @sallygabrielnwan3700
    @sallygabrielnwan3700 Рік тому +5

    U are so pretty may be it is ur beauty that is disturbing.pls don't let anyone make u feel bad.dont worry God will bring the right people ur way.❤❤❤

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Amen and Amen thank you very much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🥰

  • @LuvlyGift
    @LuvlyGift Рік тому +3

    You look good hun 🥰

  • @Teetee_oyin
    @Teetee_oyin Рік тому +6

    I can’t relate to this at all. I am sorry about your experience and obviously your caption is a clickbait. I have met amazing Nigerians. You attract who you are. If anyone gives you a bad vibe, that is not enough reason to say Nigerians in canada are wicked or are competitive. Everyone is running their own race here and no one should be intimidated or intimidate another.

    • @busayofunmilayo7137
      @busayofunmilayo7137 Рік тому +1

      At first I felt I was the only one seeing this Topic has harsh. Now I see I am normal. I will coming to Canada soon and I know I will meet good people. We attract what we are!

  • @busayofunmilayo7137
    @busayofunmilayo7137 Рік тому +8

    Sincerely,in as much as you want to share your experience,we shouldn't spoil our reputations in the social world. This topic alone is very alarming and if others ( I mean none Nigerians) see this , do you think they will welcome us and not segregate us? Please let's wash our dirty linen inside abeg.. don't bring this shaming to the social world please. It defames our community the more..

    • @nuelnuel3359
      @nuelnuel3359 Рік тому

      You can imagine,,, She's so stupid for saying that

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      You’re talking about reputation? You need to be here to relate to what I’m saying, I made this video for NIGERIANS! If you watch the video well you will see where I said let’s do better, it doesn’t take anything to be kind. This video is more of my experience and advice to the said issue, So denting any image isn’t the point of my video please. I’ll be making another video to talk more on this.

    • @busayofunmilayo7137
      @busayofunmilayo7137 Рік тому +2

      The intention of this topic is to attract views,not to share your experience alone! The topic can be better please. You are also a Nigerian and in turn you're also painting yourself.. Please understand my point of view. No hate here trust me! I am in diaspora too and what my fellow Nigerian has done to me is way worse than this your experience. The Topic is harsh that's all ..

    • @nuelnuel3359
      @nuelnuel3359 Рік тому

      @@busayofunmilayo7137 is she the first or the last person to be in abroad?? I once based in Malaysia 🇲🇾 as well, we all have one or two to say about our experience on our follow Nigerians but coming out here in global social media saying such is too bad of her @NenyeEze, if she don't take it down in next 24hr, i will report this stupid page of yours, every mumu wants to be a blog, this is how you guys made a lot of people to be having issues in UK 🇬🇧

  • @marriageandrelationshipinf444
    @marriageandrelationshipinf444 Рік тому +2

    no i believe they are afraid not to be in trouble, if you check it most of them may not have there documents

  • @nanyascorner
    @nanyascorner Рік тому +5

    Maybe the lady that ignored you at the party is jealous because you are doing what she couldn’t do. Imagine starting a business almost immediately you landed. Wishing you the best of everything in Canada ❤

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Awww Nanya🥰🥰 thank you so much! I appreciate this so much! God bless you dear

  • @floraschudy3780
    @floraschudy3780 Рік тому +4

    Same here in Germany, competition every where.

  • @sayestthou
    @sayestthou Рік тому +3

    Biko, where is this wig from?

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      I bought it from one ig vendor Wiigsbyrez. 2 years ago sha

  • @lilmizzije
    @lilmizzije Рік тому +2

    Jealousy and insecurity. Wait till you go to a wedding, you'll experience dirty looks times two!

  • @JustinClark-r4z
    @JustinClark-r4z Рік тому +2

    Nenye can we hook up for more chat?

  • @tammysinger-ys9gt
    @tammysinger-ys9gt Рік тому +4

    Yh I experienced it first class 😢😢😢

  • @enjaysings6173
    @enjaysings6173 Рік тому +3

    Looking pretty,seems you lost weight 👍👍

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Thank you so much!! Yes I lost some weight due to dieting.

  • @dekachis8795
    @dekachis8795 Рік тому +4

    Nawaooooo, Nigerians eh, women and jealousy, it is well my dear, may God direct us to the right people.

  • @hilaryjoseph9706
    @hilaryjoseph9706 Рік тому +5

    Its a black thing..not Nigerian only

  • @Themercy_o
    @Themercy_o Рік тому +4

    New sub 🤎

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Yay💃💃💃💃💃💃 thank you so much for subscribing!!!!! Welcome to the family girl!!

  • @penielsummerchi2239
    @penielsummerchi2239 Рік тому +4

    But u ignored me cos i asked where u are from, its a harmless question i just wanted to know as u are Igbo na just nonsense curiosity make me dey ask. You are so beautiful thats why i was curious to know the state that birthed such beauty anyway as u no answer it doesn't matter u look good though❤

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому

      Oh really??? I didn’t see the question sorry, I’m Chinenye from Anambra state, married to my husband from Enugu state. Thank you so much engaging 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @princejohn654
    @princejohn654 10 місяців тому

    Nigerians always compete everywhere, everything.

  • @stellzluchii
    @stellzluchii Рік тому +3

    lol our gender!!!!!

  • @yfvbmj
    @yfvbmj Рік тому +6

    You see the Nigerian that were mean to you were maybe jealous that you are already succeeding the moment you land in Canada. There are actually Nigerians here that are suffering. You have to be careful of how you communicate your achievements in Canada and so maybe the way you communicated it annoyed some people, for instance i was pretty surprised you got a job before you landed in canada and that you already have a business, not that i was jealous. I have a long way. I am still in the morning stages of my life. There are Nigerian that are struggling who didnt have it as easy as you. The eyes they were giving you shows they were very angry. Please be careful
    But congrats

    • @NenyeTheBrand
      @NenyeTheBrand  Рік тому +4

      Thank you very much my dear but we only show what we want to be seen! I’m still struggling myself but in all I give all I still pick up myself and not allow it break me or even pass frustration on people around me…that’s the point I was trying to make, the country is hard already so at least being kind will go a long way.

  • @MikeJones-on6hc
    @MikeJones-on6hc 8 місяців тому

    They live for drama not peace