This is the 21st century now, let this story be a lesson. When nobody can accept you, you do what’s best for you and whatever makes you happy. You’re right sister, these Hmong traditions are unfair. I’m glad you found someone who love you and respect you.
It's about time someone came out with a story like this one! I agree 100% with everything! Do as your husband does, they say... but when Hmong women do it, they're in the wrong! Why is it okay for Hmong men to abuse, cheat and marry multiple wives? Why do Hmong women have to put in all the effort and wait years for their husband to change??? Why do some moms (who are women) side with men? Some things of the Hmong culture/tradition needs to change! I'm glad this woman stood up for herself and for Hmong women!
Thank you Dr Yang for your far-sight, encouragement and wisdom. Vision is always so much clearer then the journey. We are moving slowly just like slavery and racial rights in the US. Even in the US culture, we are no where close to equality. As integration continues, I am afraid that many good and decent cultural qualities will be lost. The Hmong's biggest challenge may be its lack of unification in beliefs and practices. Every Clan has some unique(but undocumented) remedy of aligning connections in religion, and it would be close to impossible to account and appease all. It may be this push and pull that is a major cause of our stagnation. It's very simple in vision: world peace is only equality, respect, and helping. Yet as intelligent as the human race is, we have not made this journey. It's sad to think that men may have destroyed it to the point of unsavable. (If true, in my next life, I want to come back as a woman to avoid this sin, 😉) To all, go to school and learn humanity. It will save your life and guide you to enrichment. Dr Yang could not have done this without it.
Txoj neej neeg no thuam yuav kawg ma tu siab tshaj li os cas yuav tu siab ua luaj ua tiam no yug los yuam kev yg ib tug ntxhais hmoob kv yg ib tug nkauj hmoob plog hmoob plog ma tseem saib tsis tau cov ntxhais tshaj li
1100% correct sis!! Not trying to disrespect the hmong traditions but these stupid OG words gotta go!! So proud of you & your accomplishments! Keep on moving forward with your life with or without these negative people in your life. Tolerate what you can & drop of negativity.
My spouse and I did not collect dowry when our daughter got married. We believe no money can buy a life. We want our daughter to live freely and not feeling like someone's property because they paid for her head. We gave our house key to her so she can visit whenever she wants. Our door is open 24 hours if her marriage doesn't work out. Every house we bought, we make sure it has an extra room for her. She's married and had her own children but she's still our little girl.
My parents wanted a Hmong vauv. That's what I gave them, and they didn't want the dowry. However, my husband's side insisted they wanted to pay the dowry. Otherwise, they couldn't handle the cost of the wedding banquet my side was requesting. My parent's other 2 daughters just ran off with other races without a dowry. When my parents jokingly ask, they get yelled at and insulted. I wish they're still with me. Even though my mom collected the dowry, she gifted it all back.
Gosh, this sister must've received so much love from her parents before marriage for her to keep going back to consult with them. I think I'm pretty lucky to have my parents always telling me that I'm a girl and I'm worthless so I need to work extra hard and need to be independent from an early age. All of my life, I've known I can't rely on anyone but myself. Cheating is one of my non-negotiable, if my spouse decided to be with someone else, that's the end of our marriage contract. I'm an adult, no need to consult with anyone. Ladies, stop going back to your relatives to help you make those decisions. Know your worth and stop wasting time continuing some of the BS Hmong custom. At the end of the day, they won't come rescue you or your kids. Do what's best for you and your children and move on as quickly as possible from a cheater. Your future is not any brighter with a loser/cheater so stop wasting time. In this day and age, time is money and a valuable commodity.
When people do not clip our wings, we have so much potential! You are a great example of that. When you find the right person who supports you, you can be so much better! Thanks for sharing your story ❤
I have always thought the same as this sister. Kudos for having the same thought and mindset. Gladly my father supported me and taught me to not return to my ex when they ask me to go back. I took my dad's advice because I knew my worth and I'm fortunate my dad had my back and told me beforehand and that gave me so much more strength of my worth to feel okay to say I'm not going back.
Lub neej nyob mekas teb es Nej tseem coj tau lub hlwb ruam2 xyoo 1900 cov neej Tsa no mas txhob hu ua neej Tsa muab hu ua neej qhau no nawb tus neej Tsa coj ncaj ces yog police xwb
Agreed. Please people raise your sons right! Let go of these horrible rules that serve no purpose but to oppress women! That dont work anymore when your daughters are as educated or even more educated than your sons. Do better!
Koj hais yog lawm kawg os viv ncaus aw!!!!! Txiv neej hmoob muab cov poj niam thiab cov ntxhais saib Qi’s dhau lawm…. Nco qab ntsoo tias tsis tau muaj ib tug txiv neej hmoob los yog tub hmoob nto npe thoob qab Ntuj li hos cov ntxhais mas twb muaj , SUNY Lee and Payingra Lor lawm nawb….
This is so critical for our community to revisit, revise and make the changes. Not only equality for both parties also change the harsh words used and the sexiest point of view. Be better and do better.
Those parents who insist their daughter stay put in an abusive relationship (that's right, cheating is abusive---it's abusive to the mind, emotions, and soul) don't truly love their daughter or want happiness for their daughter. As for marriage, marry whomever loves and respects you, regardless of their race/ethnicity because true love is color blind.
I’m proud of what you did. Happy that you made the right choice to not go back to that ex husband. I believe that Hmong need to change and treat the girls/daughters the same as the boys/sons.
I'm 110% agree with you Dr. Yang/?, Hmoob men won't chang then we women change for them...we the young and old women have to respect, love, suport each orther, and no more 2nd wife shits... let's start educate our girls... including Hmoob Lao...
Zoo kawg uas yog tsev hmoob nyob throb qab ntuj no hloov tau. Ntawm kuv tus kheej kuv yeej hloov rau kuv siv lawm. Kuv cov tub nyab ntxhais vauv kuv yeej phua lub txim Kom ncaj rau ob sab, kuv tsis tau xav tias yuav hlub tus kuv yug es tsuj lawv tus, vim tus nyab thiab tus vauv los yeej yog kuv tus me nyuam ib yam. Leej twg ua txhaum ces nws yuav tau txais nws Lee's txais qhov txhaum.
Dr. Yang, you are truly an inspiration. I too have a similar story to yours. I stay strong because I know there’s strong Hmong women like you that been through worst! I see many older Hmong women that married outside of their race for 40 years and they’re still going strong. They defy the stereotypes of “white men only want you when you’re young and when you’re old they’ll get rid of you.” Listening to all these stories, it’s beginning to sound like the latter. Thank you for sharing your story and advices.
txiv neej ce yug tau tub los nim tia tub li tub yug ntxhais los nim toa ntxhais li ntxhais txiv neej feem tsawg thiaj tsis hais los no xwb os uv kom kawg txog thaum tsis yuav lawm ce mam mu nom tswv xwb thiaj ncaj ncee rau yu ib khub txij nkawm os
Doughter Dr. Every things you said is truly, I am believed you. The hmong culture same is good the most it was bad. So happy for you did the right thing. Good job!
Kuv yog koj ce kuv tu siab nro tia kuv tsi muaj niam muaj txiv lawm vim lawv tsuas muab yus thawb tag zog rau lub qhov tuag xwb tsi yog niam txiv hlub yus
Sad to say but the patha will not be the change we want to see…patha are patha quav cawv quav beer and party only…they don’t do anything to benefit the Hmong community. This will really hurt some patha heart that sees this but this is our reality!
Peb cov tub cov ntxhais yeej tsis paub meej koob lawv cov paj lug li os vim peb tsis xav tub sab ne yog kuv Tus txiv ua tub sab ces kawg nrauj xwb peb tsis yog cov thaum 75 lawm os
Changes have long been overdue. Men support and enjoy the norms, they wanted no change. Our educated women today must take the initiative and push for the way.
This is USA, I’m completely agree with you and I’m so proud of you. A husband cheated on you, he’ll continue cheating and will never stop. Do what’s best for you cuz soon your parents will pass away and you need someone who love and care for you. Good job Sis😊
Haiv Hmoob lub hlwb 75 hlwb 90 tiam twg los hlwb rwj,, kuv g qhuas nej cov hlwb rwj kiag, thov tig los kho hlub tej ntxhais txhob tsa txiv dev cai lawm, txiav txim kom yog thiab lau.
My husband isn’t Hmong either and I’m always telling him these stories. I’m always annoyed and anger by how our Hmong elders don’t value their daughter’s life. I have daughters and I will fight to the end for their safety. My husband says it’s our culture, we see women as property not a life. Us Hmong needs to stop the caveman thinking and start loving and caring for our daughters. I hope this message will not fall on on deaf ears. It’s time for a major change in our community.
Yes, yes, YES! You are so right!! Do what is best for you, don’t care about what the OG says. This is 21st Century, USA we all have equal rights. 👏👏👍👍 If he cheat, you can go cheat too! If you want divorce, no one can make you stay with him. It’s not their life, it’s yours. Good choice and bless you and your new husband for supporting you through school. 👏👏👍👍🙏🙏
Hmoob cov mejkoob, txiv xaiv, txiv dab thiab txiv muam yog ib co neeg drinkers thiab uneducated people xwb. Lawv yuav ua cas muaj kev txawj ntse los qhuab ntuas nej rau tiam neeg 21 no nas.
Hopefully one day, one powerful woman come out and lead us fight the men to make an equal rights for us all like the Americans in the 1800 or 1900’s something. That time Meka were like our Hmoob men now
This story is gets my blood boil. But I'm blessed my parents never told me to hold on to my marriage even if I'm not happy. If anything my parents encourage me, if he ain't treating you right you leave lol. My dad always told me his door will always be open for his daughter. I admit I have loving parents. But I see and know people who went thru your path sis. I'm so glad you stood up for yourself.
This story is true, but there are some daughters who refuse to leave their husbands even when the parents are on their side. It’s best for each individual to decide for themselves
Hmoob CES yeej muab txhua2 yam los tib tug Niag Neeg phem CES koj txawm yuav yug Tau ib pab tub Los yeej hais tias tsis muaj ntxhais txawm yuav muaj tub muaj ntxhais los yeej nrhiav lwm yam Los tib li ko ntag los mas hmoob aw.
Yog kawg… Kuv txiv ntxhawm yug tau 3 tug tub thiab 2 tug ntxhais es nws ntib tias yoog neej tsa es yog noob phem xwb nwj tij tham hluas nkauj tas li xwb.
I’m going to take this into consideration when my daughter gets married. It is true that during a Hmong wedding it’s always the daughter that gets the worst end of the stick. Getting lecture to death. I’ve never heard of relatives lecturing the son to be a good husband, don’t cheat and always look out for your wife.
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This is the 21st century now, let this story be a lesson. When nobody can accept you, you do what’s best for you and whatever makes you happy. You’re right sister, these Hmong traditions are unfair. I’m glad you found someone who love you and respect you.
It's about time someone came out with a story like this one! I agree 100% with everything! Do as your husband does, they say... but when Hmong women do it, they're in the wrong! Why is it okay for Hmong men to abuse, cheat and marry multiple wives? Why do Hmong women have to put in all the effort and wait years for their husband to change??? Why do some moms (who are women) side with men? Some things of the Hmong culture/tradition needs to change! I'm glad this woman stood up for herself and for Hmong women!
I hate it when the Mom's side with the cheating sons.
Hai yog tshaj li os niam lau Aw txiv neej hmoob ce coj tsi ncaj nruab nrab li os
Thank you Dr Yang for your far-sight, encouragement and wisdom. Vision is always so much clearer then the journey. We are moving slowly just like slavery and racial rights in the US. Even in the US culture, we are no where close to equality. As integration continues, I am afraid that many good and decent cultural qualities will be lost. The Hmong's biggest challenge may be its lack of unification in beliefs and practices. Every Clan has some unique(but undocumented) remedy of aligning connections in religion, and it would be close to impossible to account and appease all. It may be this push and pull that is a major cause of our stagnation.
It's very simple in vision: world peace is only equality, respect, and helping. Yet as intelligent as the human race is, we have not made this journey. It's sad to think that men may have destroyed it to the point of unsavable. (If true, in my next life, I want to come back as a woman to avoid this sin, 😉)
To all, go to school and learn humanity. It will save your life and guide you to enrichment. Dr Yang could not have done this without it.
Your statement is very true and well stated, brother.
Dr. Yang thank you for your story. You are such an inspiration. I agreed 💯 on what still need to be change in the Hmong community for Hmong women.
Ua lub ntuj tsaug uas peb tau tuaj nyob twb chaw no lawm os. Thov lub ntuj kom hmoob txoj cai dev ploj mus kom tu qab
Txoj neej neeg no thuam yuav kawg ma tu siab tshaj li os cas yuav tu siab ua luaj ua tiam no yug los yuam kev yg ib tug ntxhais hmoob kv yg ib tug nkauj hmoob plog hmoob plog ma tseem saib tsis tau cov ntxhais tshaj li
1100% correct sis!! Not trying to disrespect the hmong traditions but these stupid OG words gotta go!!
So proud of you & your accomplishments! Keep on moving forward with your life with or without these negative people in your life. Tolerate what you can & drop of negativity.
My spouse and I did not collect dowry when our daughter got married. We believe no money can buy a life. We want our daughter to live freely and not feeling like someone's property because they paid for her head. We gave our house key to her so she can visit whenever she wants. Our door is open 24 hours if her marriage doesn't work out. Every house we bought, we make sure it has an extra room for her. She's married and had her own children but she's still our little girl.
Xav kom leej twg los zoo li neb xwb os
When my husband says he bought me, my reply is - your 4 grand is long used up. Don’t mention it
My parents wanted a Hmong vauv. That's what I gave them, and they didn't want the dowry. However, my husband's side insisted they wanted to pay the dowry. Otherwise, they couldn't handle the cost of the wedding banquet my side was requesting. My parent's other 2 daughters just ran off with other races without a dowry. When my parents jokingly ask, they get yelled at and insulted. I wish they're still with me. Even though my mom collected the dowry, she gifted it all back.
Gosh, this sister must've received so much love from her parents before marriage for her to keep going back to consult with them. I think I'm pretty lucky to have my parents always telling me that I'm a girl and I'm worthless so I need to work extra hard and need to be independent from an early age. All of my life, I've known I can't rely on anyone but myself. Cheating is one of my non-negotiable, if my spouse decided to be with someone else, that's the end of our marriage contract. I'm an adult, no need to consult with anyone. Ladies, stop going back to your relatives to help you make those decisions. Know your worth and stop wasting time continuing some of the BS Hmong custom. At the end of the day, they won't come rescue you or your kids. Do what's best for you and your children and move on as quickly as possible from a cheater. Your future is not any brighter with a loser/cheater so stop wasting time. In this day and age, time is money and a valuable commodity.
When people do not clip our wings, we have so much potential! You are a great example of that. When you find the right person who supports you, you can be so much better! Thanks for sharing your story ❤
Bravo 👏 👏👏👏👏ua tsaug koj tseem tuaj muab koj li opinión nawb! Txhua yam yeej muaj tsheeb hmoob yeej tsis tau hloov kiag!!
I have always thought the same as this sister. Kudos for having the same thought and mindset. Gladly my father supported me and taught me to not return to my ex when they ask me to go back. I took my dad's advice because I knew my worth and I'm fortunate my dad had my back and told me beforehand and that gave me so much more strength of my worth to feel okay to say I'm not going back.
Lub neej nyob mekas teb es Nej tseem coj tau lub hlwb ruam2 xyoo 1900 cov neej Tsa no mas txhob hu ua neej Tsa muab hu ua neej qhau no nawb tus neej Tsa coj ncaj ces yog police xwb
Tsis yog neej tsa os, lawv yog tsa nees xwb os. Tos koj tus vauv muab tus ntxhais tsim kom tuag kiag es mam li mus tsa nees xwb os.
Koj hais yog kawg yug los ua ntxhais hmoob ces yeej tsis muaj nqes li no xwb os peb cov ntxhais hmoob aw
ON POINT!! THIS IS WHAT I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR. EVEYTHING YOU SAY IS SO RIGHT AND JUSTICE. THANKYOU...BEAUTIFULLY SAID.
Hai yog lawm os
Agreed. Please people raise your sons right! Let go of these horrible rules that serve no purpose but to oppress women! That dont work anymore when your daughters are as educated or even more educated than your sons. Do better!
Dr. Yang, you’re on point. Thank you for sharing your story. This advice should be for both husband and wife. Hmong folks should be more open minded.
Zaj no raug siab tiag tiag li naw hai yg tshaj plaw
Thank you for your story and your advice. In this time and age, we women can survive without a man.
Well said! I’m happy you stand strong for us women❤
Koj hais yog lawm kawg os viv ncaus aw!!!!! Txiv neej hmoob muab cov poj niam thiab cov ntxhais saib Qi’s dhau lawm…. Nco qab ntsoo tias tsis tau muaj ib tug txiv neej hmoob los yog tub hmoob nto npe thoob qab Ntuj li hos cov ntxhais mas twb muaj , SUNY Lee and Payingra Lor lawm nawb….
Zoo heev li qhia tau yog tshaj plaws
So true what you said..I agree
Hmoob man needs to change
Thank you Dr. Yang for sharing your story; You’ve given many Hmong womxn confidence and encouragement.
Glad it was helpful!
This is so critical for our community to revisit, revise and make the changes. Not only equality for both parties also change the harsh words used and the sexiest point of view. Be better and do better.
Those parents who insist their daughter stay put in an abusive relationship (that's right, cheating is abusive---it's abusive to the mind, emotions, and soul) don't truly love their daughter or want happiness for their daughter. As for marriage, marry whomever loves and respects you, regardless of their race/ethnicity because true love is color blind.
Tus siab kawg tiam no yug los ua ib tug ntxhais hmoob thiab los ua ib tug nyab hmoob txoj kev lwj siab txom nyem siab suav tsis txheeb li os
Sister koj hais yog kawg
Hais tau zoo heev thiab koj zoo tau ntxim hlub tiag li
Great daughter. I agree and support you 100%
I’m proud of what you did. Happy that you made the right choice to not go back to that ex husband. I believe that Hmong need to change and treat the girls/daughters the same as the boys/sons.
I'm 110% agree with you Dr. Yang/?, Hmoob men won't chang then we women change for them...we the young and old women have to respect, love, suport each orther, and no more 2nd wife shits... let's start educate our girls... including Hmoob Lao...
Zoo kawg uas yog tsev hmoob nyob throb qab ntuj no hloov tau. Ntawm kuv tus kheej kuv yeej hloov rau kuv siv lawm. Kuv cov tub nyab ntxhais vauv kuv yeej phua lub txim Kom ncaj rau ob sab, kuv tsis tau xav tias yuav hlub tus kuv yug es tsuj lawv tus, vim tus nyab thiab tus vauv los yeej yog kuv tus me nyuam ib yam. Leej twg ua txhaum ces nws yuav tau txais nws Lee's txais qhov txhaum.
Dr. Yang, you are truly an inspiration. I too have a similar story to yours. I stay strong because I know there’s strong Hmong women like you that been through worst! I see many older Hmong women that married outside of their race for 40 years and they’re still going strong. They defy the stereotypes of “white men only want you when you’re young and when you’re old they’ll get rid of you.” Listening to all these stories, it’s beginning to sound like the latter. Thank you for sharing your story and advices.
Agreed!
She right good for u sister do what u do. 👏🏻👏🏻
Peb cov txivneej Hmoob pheej saib ntxhais qis2 tsis muaj nqis, ces kuj txhob yuav pojniam, kuj mus yuav txivneej xwb. Cov ntxhais tsis tau mus zip txivneej, quab yuam yuav, pe thov los ua txivtsev rau tus ntxhais li cov tub.
Nkauj hmoob hais lus zoo ua luaj li xav tias koj yuav tsawj sib txiag tiag li thiab koj lub me paum yuav ntxim hlub tiag li
Yog lov mas pebcov hmoob es yeej nyiam hai li no tiag2 li o niam tshuab teev aws peb cov neej tsas hmoob yeej zoo li koj hai no tiag2 hos
Rov qab los cuag Nej tus Vajtswv Tswv Ntuj nawb mog
M.V. Kuv nyiam koj thiab Kuv nyiam koj hais koj hais Kuv thiaj li xav nloog. Kuv nloog los yeej tsis dhuav. Cia Kuv koom nrog koj Chanel UA-cam conference thiab nawv.
Koj hais yog lawm os
I'm super happy my parents are very supportive
Tu me viv ncaus aw koj hai yog tshaj plaw li lawm os mog
Good Good Good Good luck
Yog luss 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
txiv neej ce yug tau tub los nim tia tub li tub yug ntxhais los nim toa ntxhais li ntxhais txiv neej feem tsawg thiaj tsis hais los no xwb os uv kom kawg txog thaum tsis yuav lawm ce mam mu nom tswv xwb thiaj ncaj ncee rau yu ib khub txij nkawm os
Good job sister
Doughter Dr. Every things you said is truly, I am believed you. The hmong culture same is good the most it was bad. So happy for you did the right thing. Good job!
Zaj no raug siab kawg
xav kom peb cov ntxhais hmoob ua tau li koj ua xwb os niam laus aw cas peb cov ntxhais mas uv qhov tus txiv ua hluas ib sim neej xwb
Txhua yam koj hais yeej yog lawm os yog txhua tus ua tau li koj hais ces peb pojniam yuav tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab lawm os
Kuv yog koj ce kuv tu siab nro tia kuv tsi muaj niam muaj txiv lawm vim lawv tsuas muab yus thawb tag zog rau lub qhov tuag xwb tsi yog niam txiv hlub yus
Sad to say but the patha will not be the change we want to see…patha are patha quav cawv quav beer and party only…they don’t do anything to benefit the Hmong community. This will really hurt some patha heart that sees this but this is our reality!
🙏🏻👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 yeah I agree 💯
👏 👏 👏
zaj dab neeg no hai tau zoo tshaj nplawb li
yg ưa Ntxais yeej tu siab tshaj
Pab koj tu siab vim koj cov neej tsa ruam hlwb rwj heev...
I so proud u sister
Viv ncaus ntawm zaj neej neeg no nas koj hais yog lawm Viv ncaus kuv pom zoo li koj hais thiab.
cov laus
Cov lus ko tsi yog mej koob Cov os Cov lus ko yog neej tsa cov xwb tsi txhob muab Liam rau mej koob nawb mej koob yeej tsi paub cov lus ko li naw
Preach sister!! You are spot on with everything!
I agree 100% peb yuav tau ntuas li ko mas kuv yeej hais tias kuv cov kuv yeej hais li ko
Peb cov tub cov ntxhais yeej tsis paub meej koob lawv cov paj lug li os vim peb tsis xav tub sab ne yog kuv Tus txiv ua tub sab ces kawg nrauj xwb peb tsis yog cov thaum 75 lawm os
Changes have long been overdue. Men support and enjoy the norms, they wanted no change. Our educated women today must take the initiative and push for the way.
Kuv muaj ib cov dab laug ma tseem siv cov lus qub22 npab2 nauj no
This is USA, I’m completely agree with you and I’m so proud of you. A husband cheated on you, he’ll continue cheating and will never stop. Do what’s best for you cuz soon your parents will pass away and you need someone who love and care for you. Good job Sis😊
Haiv Hmoob lub hlwb 75 hlwb 90 tiam twg los hlwb rwj,, kuv g qhuas nej cov hlwb rwj kiag, thov tig los kho hlub tej ntxhais txhob tsa txiv dev cai lawm, txiav txim kom yog thiab lau.
YES! I applaud your strength and wisdom.
I love it
My husband isn’t Hmong either and I’m always telling him these stories. I’m always annoyed and anger by how our Hmong elders don’t value their daughter’s life. I have daughters and I will fight to the end for their safety. My husband says it’s our culture, we see women as property not a life. Us Hmong needs to stop the caveman thinking and start loving and caring for our daughters. I hope this message will not fall on on deaf ears. It’s time for a major change in our community.
Tus niam tsev aw cov mejkoob yuav ua cas ntua li koj hais na, cov tham hluas nkauj ua ntej twb yog lawv ntag ne.
Koj ruam koj ib leeg xwb os
Dhuav hmoob txojj kev cai kawg li poj njam ces ua nyuj ua neeg rau lawv xwb tsi muaj nqis ib qho me me li
Yes, yes, YES! You are so right!! Do what is best for you, don’t care about what the OG says. This is 21st Century, USA we all have equal rights. 👏👏👍👍
If he cheat, you can go cheat too! If you want divorce, no one can make you stay with him. It’s not their life, it’s yours.
Good choice and bless you and your new husband for supporting you through school. 👏👏👍👍🙏🙏
A story worth listening to. Go ahead sister!! We support you!
Cov pab thas xab maim Nov tib cov pab thas quav beer thiab cov pab thas qab choj xwb kho tsi tau dab tsi lawm os hehehehe
Nrog koj zoo siab os sister proud of you.
Hmoob cov mejkoob, txiv xaiv, txiv dab thiab txiv muam yog ib co neeg drinkers thiab uneducated people xwb. Lawv yuav ua cas muaj kev txawj ntse los qhuab ntuas nej rau tiam neeg 21 no nas.
Me koo yog txiv neej hmoob os... txiv neej hmoob yog ib tug lej.. hmoob tsis muaj teb chaws vim hmoob tsis txawj sib hlub thiab hmoob hlub tsis tau tus sab nraum.. kawg tus ntxhais, cov niam thiab cov txiv twb hlub thiab pab tsis tau.. lwm tus ces tsis hais txog... hmoob yeej tsis muaj qhov yuav hloov tau os.. yog hloov tau ces twb hloov ntev lawm os... txiv neej hmoob yog ib tug lej..
Well said it! Totally agree your words encourage to our hmong women's side.
Hopefully one day, one powerful woman come out and lead us fight the men to make an equal rights for us all like the Americans in the 1800 or 1900’s something. That time Meka were like our Hmoob men now
🤣🤣🤣🤣aws nwg taab tom nyob sau kuv plaab caib nreeg kuv tag! Puas khib koj!🤣🤣
I agreed with you 💯. I will be the first Hmong mom to advise my daughter and son in law a equally.
This story is gets my blood boil. But I'm blessed my parents never told me to hold on to my marriage even if I'm not happy. If anything my parents encourage me, if he ain't treating you right you leave lol. My dad always told me his door will always be open for his daughter. I admit I have loving parents. But I see and know people who went thru your path sis. I'm so glad you stood up for yourself.
I live you're inspiration story.❤
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May, you look especially beautiful in this photo.
Thank you! 😊
I agree with you sister.
100% true
ใช่มากเลยค่ะผู้หญิงม้งอยู่ใต้ฝ่าเท้าผู้ชายเข้าอย่าเหรียบก้อเหรียบผู้ชายม้งสมัยเก่ามันเห็นแก่ตัวจนถึงปัจจุบันผู้ชายม้งไม่ปรับปรุงหลอกเพราะเคยชินกับการนิสัยไม่ดี
This story is true, but there are some daughters who refuse to leave their husbands even when the parents are on their side. It’s best for each individual to decide for themselves
Doctor yang u are right I agree with u hmoob men's rule is very so wrong they treat us hmoob women s so low n wrong.
Hmoob CES yeej muab txhua2 yam los tib tug Niag Neeg phem CES koj txawm yuav yug Tau ib pab tub Los yeej hais tias tsis muaj ntxhais txawm yuav muaj tub muaj ntxhais los yeej nrhiav lwm yam Los tib li ko ntag los mas hmoob aw.
Yog kawg… Kuv txiv ntxhawm yug tau 3 tug tub thiab 2 tug ntxhais es nws ntib tias yoog neej tsa es yog noob phem xwb nwj tij tham hluas nkauj tas li xwb.
Amen sister!👏👏👏👏👏
I Agee with this story 100%. We change for the better.
I’m going to take this into consideration when my daughter gets married. It is true that during a Hmong wedding it’s always the daughter that gets the worst end of the stick. Getting lecture to death. I’ve never heard of relatives lecturing the son to be a good husband, don’t cheat and always look out for your wife.
Nice perspective. Here I am feeling bad I didn’t get lectures like the rest of the girls. Now I feel better I didn’t get lectures.