How to Help a Narcissist Heal | Dr. David Hawkins
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- In this video, Dr. David B. Hawkins, Director of The Marriage Recovery Center, shares how to help the Narcissist to heal, through bringing the bottom to him. Many Narcissists are very dependent on their mate and when that bond is threatened they will be motivated to change!
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The internet is inundated with hyperbole and misinformation about narcissism, leaving many people confused and hopeless. Get the facts about narcissism and emotional abuse from someone who has been researching, writing about and treating narcissism and emotional abuse for over a decade.
Dr. Hawkins is a best-selling author and clinical psychologist with over three decades of experience helping people break unhealthy patterns and build healthier relationships. He is the founder and director of the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute which offers education, training and counseling for people who want to break free of, and heal from, emotional abuse.
Whether the perpetrator of the abuse is your spouse, partner, parent, boss, friend or family member, we offer practical advice for anyone trapped in a toxic, destructive relationship. In addition to narcissism & emotional abuse, topics include covert, reactive, spiritual, secondary, relationship trauma and more.
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I like the Spiritual point of view in therapy,because I think a lot of emotional problems come about because of fear. And if we connect with our divine nature and function from there, we CAN heal. It is very painful to see ourselves, but for any psychosis to be effective there has to be a willing partner.
My grandmother had this wisdom, and she was raised in a rural area where they had outhouses. And the outhouses toilet had covers.( This is in Europe) My grandmother used to say," for every hole there is a cover,they cannot exist without the other". I know this is a crude analogy, but even if you put it in sophisticated terms it is still true.
"bring about the breakdown that leads to his breakthrough."
What if he discards you and doesn't know he needs help?
unfortunately, most narcissists will exploit the fact that you are willing to help them or at least point them in the right direction. It speaks to your co-dependency.. it is best to consider the discard a massive favor and move on with renew realization that you are very important, which you are and continue your journey of self love.
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how do i do this for with best friend who just lost his gf
I disagree Dr. Hawkins. I was a CLASSIC codependent woman and left my diagnosed Dr.ex husband a narcissistic deviant psychopath over 10 years ago after 17 years of marriage. I agreed to counseling with him at the time, but he wanted me to own that it was OUR problem and approach the kids together. I agreed to talk to the kids but not own HIS problem' Mind you this was prior to the evaluations which he insisted we have AFTER I DISAGREED with him this sparked his anger and he set out determined to bring me down at ALL COSTS and prove I was erratic and unstable. He stated he would just find someone else because It was too much trouble and if we weren't going to be together then it was not worth it to him because WE had a problem together, not him alone.
I've been picking up the pieces ever since. We have four adult children who have ALL been affected and still deal with the repurcussions. I am sick of how sick he really is and how he uses the kids against each other on a regular basis and his only goal is to make me pay for what I did. Left him. His sickness is so pervasive and never ending I am permanently affected and exhausted by it. Our 23 year old has since been estranged from me for the past 3 years as he manipulates with MONEY and covert manipulations.
Therefore, I disagree this could even be a remote possibility. He has since remarried and we call her EDITH BUNKER if that tells you anything. He replaced me and everything is ok in his mind. Everything in his life is unstable except his practice.Everything that involves him causes such anxiety and stress for all.
I could go on and make your head spin but I will not.
With all due respect, good luck rehabilitating the ones that come to you!
❤ so happy to find this - THANK YOU ❤