Should a Woman Propose to a Man? | Is There a Gender War Happening? | Let's Talk About It Podcast

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  • @ShawndaandMichael
    @ShawndaandMichael  11 місяців тому +2

    TikToks:
    Would You Peel My Orange: www.tiktok.com/@ceciliaregina275/video/7324132518045699370
    Women Proposals:
    www.tiktok.com/@bwdivest/video/7315143504408186142
    www.tiktok.com/@danieljean5656/video/7007874254259703045
    www.tiktok.com/@mrtwentyfours/video/7325877573777411361
    Proposal Gone Wrong:
    www.tiktok.com/@ameelzonweelz/video/7325689569163136258

    • @DaVoize
      @DaVoize 11 місяців тому

      Great

  • @Everyoneisanartist776
    @Everyoneisanartist776 7 місяців тому +1

    So I haven’t been in a relationship for yearsss, and to see the differences does give insight into what you’ve been accepting overtime. You get to ask, when did we get here? I can’t believe he has been so consistent for so long or wow! He kept his promise to change.
    I generally don’t believe in testing people, but it might give you the answer or that push you need to just LEAVE.

  • @onlyme9747
    @onlyme9747 9 місяців тому +1

    Hello Shawnda and Michael....I came across your videos last night for the first. I must truly say since then and now I have watched almost all ..... awe inspiring. You both are "God Made" beautiful souls, undeniable love and respect for each other, great personalities, beautiful family, supportive, compassionate...I could go on and on. I admire the way communication flows between you both. I am truly inspired by both your life stories. Shawnda you got me tearing up when Michael was sharing his journey overcoming alcoholism , the love, support and compassion was just beaming from you.....Michael blessing to you for yielding to the amazing power of the Holy Spirit.....not to mention the playful giddiness being with your son. All the boys around each other are awesome. This just a "note" to let you both know I am looking forward to supporting your channel as the power of God continues to bless your family all your endeavours through life's journey. Abundance of blessings, love and light..🙏❤🌻🌹👏

    • @ShawndaandMichael
      @ShawndaandMichael  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for the support. It really is a blessing to have such wonderful people cheering us on. It has been a journey for sure. It is nice to be able to be open and vulnerable to help out others. I would have to agree that communication is so important. Thank you for this beautiful comment.

  • @deeg5588
    @deeg5588 11 місяців тому +2

    Hey y’all 👋 it’s been forever since anything came over from you guys! I wasn’t getting any notifications at all!!! So happy this popped up! 👍 I’m from the old school! I guess very traditional when it comes to a man asking for my hand in marriage!! I think a man needs to be treated and respected as a man and if women takes on the role of a man then he’s going to eventually feel inadequate, but that’s my opinion! I just think if we’re both speaking the same love language, then it’s understood!! We both understand the assignment, but we have to learn how to communicate with our partners and not assume we are always on the same page. As for telling me what to wear, it definitely depends! I love dressing my man and picking out his smell goods and he doesn’t have any issues with me doing that. But just as much as he doesn’t mine, he does his own thing! However, he considers me and values my opinion on what he’s wearing and I appreciate that and he does the same with me!! It’s about being your authentic self even in your relationship! Don’t lose yourself/identity in your spouse/partner!! Just be yourself and always have respect for each other and I think that’s the key to a healthy and loving relationship. 💯

  • @DaVoize
    @DaVoize 11 місяців тому

    This was awesome! Thanks for sharing! Definitely great topic

  • @reginabyers5378
    @reginabyers5378 11 місяців тому +2

    No, let the man pop the question.

  • @Pieface342
    @Pieface342 11 місяців тому +3

    The man should propose.

  • @youloveyah2222
    @youloveyah2222 11 місяців тому +2

    Not! No! It's when a "Man" findeth a wife, hello!

  • @youloveyah2222
    @youloveyah2222 11 місяців тому +2

    that guy was a "Jerk" she should leave it! (orange or no, chil' please go)

  • @jonathan6008
    @jonathan6008 11 місяців тому

    I won't get too much in to proposals, but in general, I've gotten rejected here and there, but I've rejected women too. It's not fair when one gender is at the mercy of the other. At the mercy of the other meaning, one gender makes known that they are interested, and the other gender has control of the situation, they say, "yes I am, or no I'm not interested". The person that says, "yes, I'm interested or no I'm not" has the veto power, or holds the rejection card, and the person that risks their feelings and makes known that they are interested, is at the mercy of the other, they have to hope that the other person is interested back. Any guy that's been rejected shouldn't wish they held the rejection card all the time, and were the one's doing the rejecting either, it's not easy rejecting women, believe me.

    • @Everyoneisanartist776
      @Everyoneisanartist776 7 місяців тому

      It your responsibility to have health communication with this love interest and to be absolutely sure, what it is she desires.
      If someone is not be receptive or reciprocal towards you, then there is no reason to put yourself out there like that.

  • @reginabyers5378
    @reginabyers5378 11 місяців тому +1

    Whenever you see a well dressed man out with his wife most of the time she picked out what he is wearing because she knows what looks good on him, ( most men are clueless ). But the guy asked he did not tell. Her reaction was awful. I see divorce before they even say I do.

  • @dorisweems1510
    @dorisweems1510 11 місяців тому

    Hey guys, one of my favorite couples. I don't see why a woman can't propose to a man, but personally I would prefer to be asked because I would be too shy to ask him. You guys are such a beautiful couple, love you ❤️❤️

  • @jonathan6008
    @jonathan6008 11 місяців тому +1

    Marriage is something a couple decides together. You're already in a relationship that's leading to marriage, yes?

  • @vanessadobbins2963
    @vanessadobbins2963 10 місяців тому

    Micheal is very funny and Shawnda I love your laugh!!! At the end of the day it's each person's perspective and opinion. That being said, a man should be the one to propose. The peeling the orange thing should not be a thing (should not be a topic)! As for telling someone what to wear; that could be a slippery slope (it's how you say it). God bless you both🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @salomethomas2087
    @salomethomas2087 2 місяці тому

    Michael I agree 💯

  • @sonyahferris5510
    @sonyahferris5510 7 місяців тому

    The man should propose Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife.....❤❤❤

  • @silviaaouuyeaa5686
    @silviaaouuyeaa5686 11 місяців тому +1

    I disagree with your opinion about women proposing to men. I don't think it is particularly men's duty and I don't t see why if she is the one proposing it means things are bad between them or she is pressuring him to get married. I think a woman can perfectly propose to her boyfriend just because she feels it and doesn't care about gender roles and as she knows neither does he, he will not be ofended by seeing her propose to him.

  • @evelynprice3976
    @evelynprice3976 11 місяців тому

    Just love you guys 😊😊you ❤️ 😘

  • @youloveyah2222
    @youloveyah2222 11 місяців тому

    what's wrong with suggestions....what someone likes to see one in, wow

  • @samonehammond5324
    @samonehammond5324 11 місяців тому

    Hey yall❤

  • @evelynprice3976
    @evelynprice3976 11 місяців тому +1

    No I still say that the man should be the one to ask , I agree with Mike ,10 years??? Come on give me a brake 😊😊😊

  • @wWashington-i2j
    @wWashington-i2j 11 місяців тому +1

    Man proposes

  • @salomethomas2087
    @salomethomas2087 2 місяці тому

    Beautiful couple 😘

  • @youloveyah2222
    @youloveyah2222 11 місяців тому +1

    Hello all