Biblical Parenting, Part 1: Selfless Parenting
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- Опубліковано 28 лис 2015
- The first part in a series by Pastor Steve and Bobi Whinery about how to raise children of all ages in a godly manner with practical examples and a biblical foundation. From Sunday, September 20, 2015.
Praise God for raising his children to be good witnesses of what happens around one! I therefore bind to hell every expectation of getting all and immediately what one wants in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ while binding one to expect resistance for bad and evil behavior, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone expecting to get all and immediately what one wants while lacking to expect resistance for bad and evil behavior, in accordance with this word and 1 peter 2:11-12, 1 peter 3:9-16, 1 peter 3:1-5, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤
You know when some one says " Warning I am about to offend some of you." There probably Going to tell you some truth. Lets be real though, The truth hurts.
16:03 😅 16:13 qq++
Wish I had heard this 18 years ago when my first daughter was born. I pray God forgives me for the late start.
I’d say amen to comment
And it’s by Gods grace and timing that you have heard from Him in His word through the practicality of parenting and this pastor. We have the time we have before us and while we cannot go back we have regrets. Some that linger. But praise God for His living word and that He gives hearing and understanding! My prayer is that you and I alike act on the remaining days years minutes whatever His will is, of the amount of time before us (Heb 9:27 see) and by His Spirit alone may we read and understand and apply and appropriate these gems found in His word!
i m so worried and ashamed
.i have not raised my kids well ..with biblical values enough...they don t care about God now...and don t want to hear.. i haven t been very good in showing faith ..
@@marziaturello3387 Know that this is entirely up to God to call them to faith. Two things we can do: 1) Pray everyday that God saves them. 2) Continue to share biblical teachings and set true Christian examples for them. You don't have to force it but do be clear with them on the gospel. Be honest. Be straight forward. They need to know that without repentance and belief in Christ as Lord and Savior, hell awaits.
Praying for you and your family.
In Christ...
Thank you so much for this ministry, I might not know where to look but have been searching for ministry about raising my daughter biblically and found little to no resources this has blessed me I have a true medical miracle daughter and from the day I found out I was pregnant I surrounded her to God and asked him to guide me in scripture and through Holy Spirit to bring her up not according to the world but according to the Bible. But I am so aware of my iniquities and I need ministry like this to confirm the truth not shy away from it.
Thank you for this brother. I know that if i take advice from God, even if, its correction, things will be ok. ❤
I love this teaching. It blessed my family. Thank you sir
Blessed by the message thank you Holy spirit. For directing me
Proverbs 22:6 King James Version (KJV)
6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
How long does this take? Lol
CheriByGrace
Sometimes to the brink of death, unfortunately.
@@BlessedBaubles If the question is how long the training takes, its the duration of a child's life with the with the severest punitive methods applied early childhood or the preteen years to result in mild misbehaviour at the teenage stage. If this is not done then substantial rebellion is to be expected during adolescence.
Great word ❤
Love love love this! ❤️ thank you for this guidance! Am I the only one hearing talking in the background??
I remember reading scriptures of my own parenting one day
"Honor your father and your mother so the Lord will give you life in the land you live;
If he who is not with sin let him be the first to throw a stone."
If I was father I'd never want to throw a stone to my own son or daughters I don't want them to remember me as a mad father I keep loving them as I love my girlfriend who I hope to have her as my wife.
A very good exercise to do is break a calendar down into awake hours per day and identify how much time your children are being discipled by other people, and try to identify where you actually fit in on raiding and discipling your children. Luke 6:40 tells us “A student is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher.” Are you able to compete adequately for the minds of your children? How can you get more time with them?
This is an exercise to do alone and ideally if you’re married, to do with your partner.
Even though my husband and I are both Christians we don't see eye to eye on parenting. We are a blended family and he believes that his children are his children and not our children and because he is the head of the home, that he should be able to parent them however he chooses to do so with no regards to how I feel about it. As much as I tried to be submissive and quiet about his lax approach to parenting I could no longer keep quiet when a certain incident happened with his teen daughter and I expressed to him in a calm way that I felt like his "punishment" was too light on her. Because I do not agree with how he disciplines his children he has asked for a divorce and refuses to work it out. For anyone reading this, please pray for us, please pray for the Lord to soften his heart and for YHWH to remove any blockages that he has spiritually. Thank you.
This is why it is so important to fully understand the we are going to spend the rest of our lives with. What I have gathered from your brief account of the disciplining episode with his daughter is that his punitive measure was too mild. The question to ask is how serious a Christian is he? If he believes in the God of the bible who is the God of creation then resorting to a divorce for the smallest disagreement does not reflect a mind set that takes the issue of marriage as seriously as God would have them. But then I am only privy to one side of the matter.
Love, honestly, respect, faith, forgiveness,..
Good message. I have a temper, an easy thing to have with three toddlers, but it is unacceptable to God. I need to do better. I'm going to make a huge picture in a main area that says "love joy peace PATIENCE KINDNESS goodness faithfulness GENTLENESS and SELF CONTROL" Maybe that will help me remember to stop and pray about it.
“Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen"
your sins are already forgiven! Jesus died for the sins of the world. God doesn't have a problem with sin - he took it out of the way. Jesus didn't come to make bad people good, he came to make dead people alive!
Amen
This is vary good expecally in recent days of the world
Wow... “woe be unto women/moms”...
I am confused about how much the grandparents should be involved in the kids. I believe that grandparents should be involved, but not to the point of enabling the parents responsibility . I know grandparents should love and support a Godly life. But in some cases it's easier for the parents to allow the grandparents to do the will of God and actually have to raise them. So my question is how far is the grandparents to go before you're actually enabled the parents? My wife and grandparent puts the kids first and being a wife last. Am I wrong, as I have prayed about this for years? Help my marriage and family as what is the will of God on this topic!!! God bless all!!!
Steven Lewis
God says in Matthew 19:4,5 as God created man and woman leave your Mother and Father behind...also Ephesians 5:25 love and treat your Wife as Christ loved the church giving himself up...pretty powerful...God gave a Mom and Dad as primary disciplinarian for their children. yes Grandparents who are Christians are family but the first and last resort is Husband and Wife
I'm not a grandparent yet,but a mother of two and a biblical counselor. Concerning grandparent involvement, in opinion, you are right in the big direction. It's best not to discipline your grandkids without your son/daughter's permission. Unless it's at a physically dangerous situation, try to step back from getting too involved. If you observe something that grieve you , it's probably better to talk to your son/daughter about it. If needed, you may point out biblical principles on the issue/issues. Good parenting books and seminars could be introduced to your children too. The Bible is the living Word, so that's THE book you'd draw your principles (not the world's ). One last thing (not exhaustive here ), is to pray for them. Prayers is power!
If you put your parents in the position of parents by having them do the job of parents, then they will act like them. It is the older men and women who teach us younger than they how to parent and not parenting for us. Grandparents should be cheerleaders, cheering us on and teachers by teaching us how to do it ourselves not taking that yoke upon themselves. They should be putting you before the grandchildren and these days people are doing the complete opposite and loving their grandchildren more than they love their own children, having failed raising their own children they try to have a new start with their grandchildren. You and your wife should be putting the kids first and your jobs for each other and your children are concurrent not under or over one another. This is taught a lot but not scriptural in my opinion. You can be very selfish even when it comes to your marriage for the sake of the supposed health of your marriage. Some fathers even insisting their children be gone for many days just to have "alone time." The bible does not mandate this. You are not owed this. Join your wife in loving your children and nuture and cherish her so she can love you and the children rightly and also pray for her and confront her with the love of God.
The Gospel of salvation of our souls: 💜💕💜💖💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,
Are you washed in the Blood of the Lamb ?
1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV
Romans 5:9 KJV
Where does the Bible say that God wants your kids to be Evangelists??
Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
Matthew 28:19
We are all called to be evangelists for the Kingdom
First off, Judas Iscariot did humble himself and repented from his actions and look where that got him. When you truly repent you repent unto God not thyself. So how can this be accomplished if you haven’t believed in him FIRST?
The only reason a parent would resent a child doing what they want and going thier own way is if the parent is dissatisfied with the amount of children they have.
If they had more children, they would be satisfied with them because one would come along and fit the description of what they are missing out on.
Huh?
I second the Huh???
@@ovin3912 Its not normal for parents to have few children. We've become authoritarian, materialistic, and infertile in the west. People who grew up in the 1950s and 60s have the attitude of "ill do what I want" Thanks for asking! Honest inquiry is a beautiful thing.
John 4:7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
I know my Father is incomplete without my Mother, and I would not have been raised in heaven on earth without my Father treating my Mother how he would want to be treated. The spirit of God is not restricted to a specific gender. It moves through every living thing.
God is life, and through love the spirit is expressed by the combination of all three. When my Father, and Mother where married she took his name. Jesus is a man, and he was hung on the cross for the sin of inequity. He was betrayed, and the truth was silenced. I come in peace sent by the deeds of my Father. I am NOT here to change Moses law, and I mean you no harm.
John 4:4 We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.
Keep in mind the disciples did betray Jesus, and a Father who loves his children respects the Mother of his children. He would not hollow out her value, and replace it with a ceramic statue. We are children of God. God is love not suffering, and death.
The Father contains the spirit of Jesus. The Mother is the Lord. Christ are the children on earth. Together as one body we are the Lord Jesus Christ. I heal you, and keep you safe from harm. I am forgiving, and I love unconditionally. I grew up to be just like my parents.
John 4:13 We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.
The subconscious of humanity has been reprogrammed to put the son in the place of the female. As a result you have transgender bathrooms, older men molesting boys, sex change operations, gay marriages, the mother's are doing the Father's job, children are left unsupervised to raise themselves, the whole world is tilting on it's axis, the climate is bad, we are all starving for love, and everyone is wondering where is God. The opposite polarity is missing from the trinity.
What is my name? Any guesses?
You have it somewhat wrong, the male gender was designed to represent God directly and the female to represent mankind in relation to God (His wife). Since the fall there are now two classes of man; they who serve God (the virgin, bride, wife, the true church) and those who do not (the harlot, the false church, non Christian religions, the secular and the atheist). These all constitute the Harlot.
Children represent converts that are the product of God (male) and His church (female) coming together in missionary venture that have reached a person or persons.
Wow. You don't seem very humble. Do you always want to be right? It seems it is impossible to please you. Sounds like you want a project or a convert not a child and parent relationship. I will pray for you and your family.