I understand this man. I know someone who went through something similar. Their parents split when they were 3 and 4. The dad got kicked out the house but kept coming back to see the children but the mom restricted him. If he called she would hang up on him and when he showed up she would call the police. The dad ended up traveling back to his country and ended up being there for years. He would write the children letters but the mom wouldn't give them to the children. As the children grew the mother told the them that their dad abandoned them to go start another family. The dad eventually came back into the country and made several attempts to be a part of his children's life but the mother kept calling police on him. During one of the police incidents the officer told the dad that he thought it was messed up that the mother wouldn't let him see the children. He advised the dad to step back and wait till the children were older because if he ever came back to the property, the dad would be arrested. Even though the mother didn't want the children to have anything to do with their dad, there wasn't much she could do when they got older. Sadly so much damage had already been done by then. Parents need to remember that their relationship with the other parent is completely different from the relationship of the child and the parent. Why would Ella's mom lie and say that man was dead???? Did someone tell her that the man was dead? She knew that man was still alive. To me it looks like Ella's mom didn't want to have anything to do with the guy. If he had abansoned her then she should have been able tell Ella that. Instead she told that girl that her father was dead. No excuse, none! Fast forward the mom is behaving very immaturely. No one in their right mind attacks a stranger, yet she says that she doesn't know the man. For the sake of Ella, I pray that they figure it out sooner than later. Ella deserves the truth and healing; they all do.
It has happened you guys have handled a lot of such issues and I trust and believe in you. Do your usual thing DNA as the man said he can sponsor it please. We Love you guys 🙏🏼
Julie things might seem complicated but I do not think it is so . There are some people who can not accept little mistake. Julie more grace to do what you know how to do it better
Julie you are just saying funny Tina what do you think they nee a DNA to🎉make sure he the dad sit Ella down Ladies and convince her to do DNA if positive ask her to forgive ers dad watching from UK
Julie this is not a case for people of your level because you are not yet a parent. I know a lot of women with that kind of character like Ella's mother. Its a very wrong idea when mothers tries to build their children against one of the parents. Ella too should understand that she needs her father. What if something happens to Ella's mother in the future, does it means she will remain alone like an orphan when her father is still alive?? Common!
But if the man denied the pregnancy at first Will she not live her life If is not social media where he see her I know the lady is annoyed but look into the matter how about the man family @@cathyjoenganje3978
My mother single handed trained me and my father came when I was 23 and I accepted him and for gave him but he just have to know where he stand with me because my mom comes first in everything and ever ways. For give but don't forget
With the type of violent mother Ella has, the man is not lying. Please Julie take Funny Tina out of this case, she does not has the capacity for case like this. Ella mum said Ella father has kpai, what about his relatives. It's Ella mum that is lying.
Agreed. The same attitude that the man was describing of Ella's mother back then, is the same behavior she is displaying now. The man allegedly kpai but there were no relatives? Notice how she cannot even state the details of the death. Usually people mention the cause of death and age. 😂😂😂 Ella's mom gave not one detail or specific, instead she is behaving irrationally. 😂 I beg leave our Tina o! She dey learn work!!😊
This man is saying the woman restrained him from seeing her . This mighty have made the man to keep away Ella mum might have something in her mind for doing this
Jullie, I believe this Man, with the attitude of Ella's Mother, she has been hostile to that man, that woman is stone hearted, she drove that man away. The man has always believe that a day like this will come that the Ella will know the truth and would want to know her Dad.
What do you mean she needs her Dad especially nonsense so she doesn't need her mum who raise her? are you serious where was he 19yrs ago. Please dont make comments that will make the mother feel not appreciated
The simple truth here is that this is Ella's father but due to one or two things that happened in the past between her mum and dad, her mum is still very angry with her dad. Until her mum forgives her dad, nothing will ever happen between them, period!!
I think he's telling the truth. He may not be very eloquent in doing so, but the mother is bitter towards him, maybe for something that's even not his fault
Why do we Africans loves judging people without having a complete knowledge of what really happened?? There are different circumstances in life. If Ella did not need her father, then she wouldn't have called out her mother. The problem now is Ella's mother who doesn't want her to recognize her father for one reason or the other. Conflict between parents are not supposed to concern their children because every child needs their both parents.
The man can now provide a much more comfortable life for them. Ela can continue her studies at the university. Ela's mother, now at an older age, can no longer work as hard as she used to. She needs to relax and enjoy life with her daughter and Ela's father. While some may try to deceive themselves, the undeniable fact remains that this man is Ela's father. Watching from the UK 🇬🇧
With that woman’s attitude she is just bitter over something but I believe this man is telling you people the truth. Ella’s mother is lying about the death issue. She is bitter. If Ella doesn’t want him she should go with her mother and not to insult him. Julie investigate this matter dig deep in to it. You will know that the woman is a problematic person.
Julie you are not talking sense. Ella’s mom is poisoning her mind against the dad that woman is so unhinged and bitter. Mother and daughter should calm down and Julie stop being a ad judge. The mother pushed the dad away period
Some men don't have sense just imagine 18 years, just like that, you want to take the child because is your child, like that? , 9 months pregnant both clinics, and labour room, and up till today now the woman suffered to take care now you want to take her Okay DNA test if the results say is your daughter then you collect her Mr man you do well Nigeria men i throw away salute thanks
Ella's mom is naturally temperamental, aggressive and quarrelsome. Who knows, the mom might have decided from the outset to keep Ella and bear her own father's name. The man is not completely wrong.
Truth be told, if this man had done his worst, she would have said what he did… until the mother doesn’t come clean then the man word stands 🤷🏽♂️ All this ranting is not helping situation
Oga Daddy Ella you appear to be truthful but you didn't try enough. Even if mumy Ella is very violent and stubborn didn't you know any of her family that can talk to her or even reach your daughter later. Is there no one in your family that can meet up with her family and make peace. Though the woman is terribly stubborn violent selfish inconsiderate and proud now. Go involve your families if you sincerely want resolution of this issue
Tomorrow is pregnant! Mama Ella should understand that she is not being fair to Ella. Truth be told, most decent families don't want to have anything to do with a girl raised by a single mother as daughter -in-law. So, she's got to think & allow Ella to blend with her roots, no matter what, Ella needs her paternal family, otherwise she may be labeled an OUTCAST. Mama Ella I beg.
You know this is the mistake many Nigerian men make. The will abandon their children and come back to claim afterwards especially when they now realise that they cannot father other children. One can see that Ella mother is very bitter. On the other hand every child suppose to know their root. It is true that Ella is 18 years old, let her have her father now in her life after DNA has been conducted and he can now carry on to pay for her university etc. mistakes has been made but life has to move on.
JULIE, I IN MY OWN OPINION ELA'S MOTHER WITH HER BEHAVIOUR SHOWS THAT SHE SAW THE MAN AS A POOR MAN AND SHE DECIDED TO DO IT ALONE BY MOVING OUT OF WHERE SHE WAS STAYING WITH THIS MAN. BUT I MUST TELL YOU ELA'S MOTHER DID A GOOD JOB ON ELA RAISING HER SINGLE-HANDEDLY BECAUSE ELA'S DAD WAS POOR. THAT IS WHY SHE DON'T WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH ELA'S DAD. NOW THE WOMAN SHOULD LOWER HER PRIDE AND ANGER TO DO THE RIGHT THING. HE'S BACK FROM THE DIASPORA WITH MONEY. THIS IS THE TIME FOR THE WOMAN TO ENJOY ALL SHE HAD SUFFERED FOR ALL THESE YEARS
Julie, to be honest there are so many mothers out there who always stand between children and fathers to cause hatred especially if there are misunderstandings between them. From the beginning Ella's Mother actions showed that she is lying and not telling the truth
Julie tried to talk with the mother, secondly talk with the man who is claiming to be the father to get the full story if he is the father, he should do the right thing. I have seen many cases like this, Ella will finally choose to go with him, if that man is the father.
Julie ask this man where is his family, for somebody abandoned a woman for 18years and come back is not ordinary apart from he wants a girl he didn't spend a penny on. Is it carma dealing with him?
when my girl take in her father wanted to arrest me so i hav to run away and come back after meny years so pls many men are goin tru dat let ELLA came down and understabd the man
Need some tolerance and intelligence here from Mother and daughter of they can find it. Horrible behavior, hear each other out, yoo much arrogance and madness. We're human beings please act in accordance. Animals do better, learn from them. God has given humans brains to communicate use it effectively instead of acting like deranged people
This man has told 4 different versions of what happened between him and Ella's mum. The mother's reaction shows that she was deeply hurt by this man. 18 years and he is not married???
Ella you should not for any reason leave your mom that passed through hell to give you life. You come back to look for her and will never see her to forgive you. You will cry 😭 but will not see tears 😭. Your life will be very miserable. Then it will be late for you to ammend 18 years of struggle is not 18 days. Ella be careful. THIS MAN FROM NO WHERE WILL DESTROY YOUR LIFEoooooh.
I understand this man. I know someone who went through something similar. Their parents split when they were 3 and 4. The dad got kicked out the house but kept coming back to see the children but the mom restricted him. If he called she would hang up on him and when he showed up she would call the police. The dad ended up traveling back to his country and ended up being there for years. He would write the children letters but the mom wouldn't give them to the children. As the children grew the mother told the them that their dad abandoned them to go start another family. The dad eventually came back into the country and made several attempts to be a part of his children's life but the mother kept calling police on him. During one of the police incidents the officer told the dad that he thought it was messed up that the mother wouldn't let him see the children. He advised the dad to step back and wait till the children were older because if he ever came back to the property, the dad would be arrested. Even though the mother didn't want the children to have anything to do with their dad, there wasn't much she could do when they got older. Sadly so much damage had already been done by then.
Parents need to remember that their relationship with the other parent is completely different from the relationship of the child and the parent. Why would Ella's mom lie and say that man was dead???? Did someone tell her that the man was dead? She knew that man was still alive. To me it looks like Ella's mom didn't want to have anything to do with the guy. If he had abansoned her then she should have been able tell Ella that. Instead she told that girl that her father was dead. No excuse, none!
Fast forward the mom is behaving very immaturely. No one in their right mind attacks a stranger, yet she says that she doesn't know the man. For the sake of Ella, I pray that they figure it out sooner than later. Ella deserves the truth and healing; they all do.
True talk
It has happened you guys have handled a lot of such issues and I trust and believe in you. Do your usual thing DNA as the man said he can sponsor it please. We Love you guys 🙏🏼
I believe the man every thing he said
Yes me to❤❤
Funny Tina, you are shinning.
This man is not lieing this girl looks like his dad.
He is telling the truth ,, by mom reaction you can tell she is not an easy lady to talk too . I do believe him
Julie DNA
Does dna train a child so after 18yrs you will come and do dna
Continue digging Julie until the truth is unveiled. God bless you tremendously.
Julie things might seem complicated but I do not think it is so . There are some people who can not accept little mistake.
Julie more grace to do what you know how to do it better
May God expose the truth, let father and daughter do DNA first since Ellah decided to know her Daddy ❤
Julie you are just saying funny Tina what do you think they nee a DNA to🎉make sure he the dad sit Ella down Ladies and convince her to do DNA if positive ask her to forgive ers dad watching from UK
Do DNA first Ladies if positive then persuade Ella to be with her dad then mum will not lie that he is dead
@@gracemushariwa5627 thanks God bless you, the man look responsible to be a Dad, I wish daughter and mother to forgive him 🇺🇸❤️
The only thing that would make a mother this angry and bitter towards a man is if he denied the pregnancy
Watching you from Zambia the me is saying the truth
This funnytina na wah ooo
😂😂😂😂 dont mind her
Julie this is not a case for people of your level because you are not yet a parent. I know a lot of women with that kind of character like Ella's mother. Its a very wrong idea when mothers tries to build their children against one of the parents. Ella too should understand that she needs her father. What if something happens to Ella's mother in the future, does it means she will remain alone like an orphan when her father is still alive?? Common!
Well said
But if the man denied the pregnancy at first
Will she not live her life
If is not social media where he see her
I know the lady is annoyed but look into the matter how about the man family
@@cathyjoenganje3978
The man is saying nothing but the truth
yes Tina is very right
My mother single handed trained me and my father came when I was 23 and I accepted him and for gave him but he just have to know where he stand with me because my mom comes first in everything and ever ways. For give but don't forget
That is your story, which doesn't mean the same for everyone
With the type of violent mother Ella has, the man is not lying. Please Julie take Funny Tina out of this case, she does not has the capacity for case like this. Ella mum said Ella father has kpai, what about his relatives. It's Ella mum that is lying.
Agreed. The same attitude that the man was describing of Ella's mother back then, is the same behavior she is displaying now. The man allegedly kpai but there were no relatives? Notice how she cannot even state the details of the death. Usually people mention the cause of death and age.
😂😂😂 Ella's mom gave not one detail or specific, instead she is behaving irrationally.
😂 I beg leave our Tina o! She dey learn work!!😊
Ella and the man look alike
Wooow!!this is serious oooooh
I like Fanny Tina dearly ❤ more especially when she's crying after pranked😊
The Man is saying truth, Ella's mum is telling lies.
She doesn't want the truth to come out, see how she is behaving
Are you sure you're normal? How can you say the man is saying the truthand Ella's mom is lying. May be the folish man is your brother
This man is saying the woman restrained him from seeing her . This mighty have made the man to keep away Ella mum might have something in her mind for doing this
You are talking sense here. I also believe the man stayed away because Ella's mother didn't want him around the child.
Ella is the the right person he should be speaking to, he should speak to Ella's mum
Accept oooo❤
The man is not lying the young lady is his child i am just saying
Jullie, I believe this Man, with the attitude of Ella's Mother, she has been hostile to that man, that woman is stone hearted, she drove that man away.
The man has always believe that a day like this will come that the Ella will know the truth and would want to know her Dad.
That man must have denied the pregnancy at the earlier stage, because he want to travel out of the country to look for a green pastures
Lord, help this innocent girl she needs her parents especially her father. Julie, thank you for all you do.
What do you mean she needs her Dad especially nonsense so she doesn't need her mum who raise her? are you serious where was he 19yrs ago. Please dont make comments that will make the mother feel not appreciated
The simple truth here is that this is Ella's father but due to one or two things that happened in the past between her mum and dad, her mum is still very angry with her dad. Until her mum forgives her dad, nothing will ever happen between them, period!!
Jullie, I think you guys should try to find out why is that woman so bitter?
Is getting interesting
This issue is between Ella’s mother and this man
This man is Funny oo
I think he's telling the truth. He may not be very eloquent in doing so, but the mother is bitter towards him, maybe for something that's even not his fault
This man is funny. For 18 years you were sleeping but now you woke up
Don't mind him , he's lying 🤥
Why do we Africans loves judging people without having a complete knowledge of what really happened?? There are different circumstances in life. If Ella did not need her father, then she wouldn't have called out her mother. The problem now is Ella's mother who doesn't want her to recognize her father for one reason or the other. Conflict between parents are not supposed to concern their children because every child needs their both parents.
She is as angry as her mum......ella hs bn wanting to kno who d man is...now d man is trying to explain...she stomped out.
Am with u in ur opinions funny Tina
The man can now provide a much more comfortable life for them. Ela can continue her studies at the university.
Ela's mother, now at an older age, can no longer work as hard as she used to. She needs to relax and enjoy life with her daughter and Ela's father.
While some may try to deceive themselves, the undeniable fact remains that this man is Ela's father.
Watching from the UK 🇬🇧
Everything is not money but love I know Africa like money
With that woman’s attitude she is just bitter over something but I believe this man is telling you people the truth. Ella’s mother is lying about the death issue. She is bitter. If Ella doesn’t want him she should go with her mother and not to insult him. Julie investigate this matter dig deep in to it. You will know that the woman is a problematic person.
Julie you are not talking sense. Ella’s mom is poisoning her mind against the dad that woman is so unhinged and bitter. Mother and daughter should calm down and Julie stop being a ad judge. The mother pushed the dad away period
Girl calm down you need both parents in your life , I just pray you find a common ground to resolve the issues
Julie , please encourage them to do the DNA to know the paternity check. Then you will know the next step to take please
HE HAS MONEY..
DNA DNA 🧬 OOO to end up these dramatic events?? Tina listen to man too.. I will run too seeing this mother’s attitude..???
Some men don't have sense just imagine
18 years, just like that, you want to take the child because is your child, like that? , 9 months pregnant both clinics, and labour room, and up till today now the woman suffered to take care now you want to take her
Okay DNA test if the results say is your daughter then you collect her
Mr man you do well
Nigeria men i throw away salute thanks
Nice one, see and hear the lier, he keeps changing the hospital
Julie listing to this man. He said they are loving together before. Talk to woman so he can get the baby back. I trust u.
Ella's mom is naturally temperamental, aggressive and quarrelsome. Who knows, the mom might have decided from the outset to keep Ella and bear her own father's name. The man is not completely wrong.
Where did he travel to?
Paroling Julie,dig it out😂😂
Has he ever bought the child a toy?
I believe this man,, the woman don't want to see the man what did you want this to do
The man is better off starting with apologies to Ella's mother and then to Ella herself.
DNA TEST IS NEEDED HERE
This woman is too harsh
This man might be saying the truth
DNA,PART OF THIS CASE WILL BE SOLVED,PATIENCE IS KEY
Good , let's see how it goes .
This ella is like wizzy first wife with everything the voice and the look , Julie with is going on
Yesooooo you are correct she really looks like her with same voice
😂😂😂 This is CLEARLY not Grace
Waiting for next episode drama
Let this man take easy with this lady,it may take time to get her back,let him first get the woman so that the woman will introduce Ella to him
The man is making sense
Truth be told, if this man had done his worst, she would have said what he did… until the mother doesn’t come clean then the man word stands 🤷🏽♂️
All this ranting is not helping situation
Let him pay for the DNA TEST.
Oga Daddy Ella you appear to be truthful but you didn't try enough. Even if mumy Ella is very violent and stubborn didn't you know any of her family that can talk to her or even reach your daughter later. Is there no one in your family that can meet up with her family and make peace. Though the woman is terribly stubborn violent selfish inconsiderate and proud now. Go involve your families if you sincerely want resolution of this issue
What do you mean by is not possible is possible
Ella's mummy never believed this man will make it in life. That's why she told Ella her father died.
Tomorrow is pregnant! Mama Ella should understand that she is not being fair to Ella. Truth be told, most decent families don't want to have anything to do with a girl raised by a single mother as daughter -in-law. So, she's got to think & allow Ella to blend with her roots, no matter what, Ella needs her paternal family, otherwise she may be labeled an OUTCAST. Mama Ella I beg.
You know this is the mistake many Nigerian men make. The will abandon their children and come back to claim afterwards especially when they now realise that they cannot father other children. One can see that Ella mother is very bitter. On the other hand every child suppose to know their root. It is true that Ella is 18 years old, let her have her father now in her life after DNA has been conducted and he can now carry on to pay for her university etc. mistakes has been made but life has to move on.
Instead of humbling himself he is accusing and bad mouthing the mother...he is arrogant and lack compassion
JULIE, I IN MY OWN OPINION ELA'S MOTHER WITH HER BEHAVIOUR SHOWS THAT SHE SAW THE MAN AS A POOR MAN AND SHE DECIDED TO DO IT ALONE BY MOVING OUT OF WHERE SHE WAS STAYING WITH THIS MAN. BUT I MUST TELL YOU ELA'S MOTHER DID A GOOD JOB ON ELA RAISING HER SINGLE-HANDEDLY BECAUSE ELA'S DAD WAS POOR. THAT IS WHY SHE DON'T WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH ELA'S DAD.
NOW THE WOMAN SHOULD LOWER HER PRIDE AND ANGER TO DO THE RIGHT THING. HE'S BACK FROM THE DIASPORA WITH MONEY. THIS IS THE TIME FOR THE WOMAN TO ENJOY ALL SHE HAD SUFFERED FOR ALL THESE YEARS
I can see why Ella's Mother was very angry.
Let us know what happened between both of them.
Do the DNA first.
He is just there to marry ella out.
Julie you asked the wright question,
What’s his intention
This guy doesn't know how to come clean and beg the daughter
Julie, to be honest there are so many mothers out there who always stand between children and fathers to cause hatred especially if there are misunderstandings between them. From the beginning Ella's Mother actions showed that she is lying and not telling the truth
First the man has to reconcile with Ella’s mother.
We need to hear from the mother
Julie tried to talk with the mother, secondly talk with the man who is claiming to be the father to get the full story if he is the father, he should do the right thing. I have seen many cases like this, Ella will finally choose to go with him, if that man is the father.
Is this not Grace?
Julie ask this man where is his family, for somebody abandoned a woman for 18years and come back is not ordinary apart from he wants a girl he didn't spend a penny on. Is it carma dealing with him?
That guy ask for Blood test do it he say he have money can pay
This man is crazy he leave her mother from she was baby and 18yrs later he’s telling Ella that he’s her Father I believe he abundant them
No matter the situation the girl has no respect for a grown up
when my girl take in her father wanted to arrest me so i hav to run away and come back after meny years so pls many men are goin tru dat let ELLA came down and understabd the man
Need some tolerance and intelligence here from Mother and daughter of they can find it. Horrible behavior, hear each other out, yoo much arrogance and madness. We're human beings please act in accordance. Animals do better, learn from them. God has given humans brains to communicate use it effectively instead of acting like deranged people
Did u pay the mother bride price if no u are not the father
This man has told 4 different versions of what happened between him and Ella's mum. The mother's reaction shows that she was deeply hurt by this man.
18 years and he is not married???
Foolish man
18 years now he comes back and destroying the relationship between a mother and a daughter built over 18 years
That guy is a shameless full. Where was he in the last 18years
This shows how irresponsible he is. Men will never surprise me again
Julie please, the DNA will prove that he is or is not the father of this girl
Why Ella sound like grace for whisky
This guy is sick. This girl should listen to her mom and block this rubbish man. After 18 years you are coming to pick your daughter? Wow.
Ella you should not for any reason leave your mom that passed through hell to give you life. You come back to look for her and will never see her to forgive you. You will cry 😭 but will not see tears 😭. Your life will be very miserable. Then it will be late for you to ammend 18 years of struggle is not 18 days. Ella be careful. THIS MAN FROM NO WHERE WILL DESTROY YOUR LIFEoooooh.
Get Ela mon in present then DNA
This man
Hello Tina ,how are you? How is Mr justice? How is Sampson?