New bill hopes to reverse Missouri law not allowing women to file divorce while pregnant

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  • Опубліковано 16 тра 2024
  • A decades-old law in Missouri does not allow women to file for divorce while they are pregnant, even in cases of domestic violence. The law requires women to disclose whether they are pregnant while filing for the divorce. A new bill introduced by Rep. Ashley Aune is hoping to change that.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 202

  • @NoIDontActuallyLiveInSeattle
    @NoIDontActuallyLiveInSeattle 21 день тому +188

    Pregnancy is the most dangerous time for women especially because of domestic violence. This is so backwards.

  • @leosicairos1135
    @leosicairos1135 20 днів тому +96

    Another reason is why marriage is not seen as an attractive investment anymore.

  • @carminaburana9765
    @carminaburana9765 21 день тому +92

    If a woman decides it's more important to escape the marriage before giving birth than to keep the financial protection of marriage, that should be her choice and the government should make sure help is available.

    • @stevenluo9516
      @stevenluo9516 20 днів тому +3

      What is alimony good for?

    • @noirefit5954
      @noirefit5954 20 днів тому +8

      You don’t know if marriage provides financial protection

  • @HKim0072
    @HKim0072 21 день тому +102

    Wait, what happened to limited government?

    • @lyraserpentine894
      @lyraserpentine894 21 день тому +33

      Only for thee, not for me.

    • @MF-ty2zn
      @MF-ty2zn 20 днів тому

      Only applies to billionaires, so they can rip us off.

    • @amethystflower8799
      @amethystflower8799 17 днів тому

      Do you not want any legal protections for spouses and children? Do you not want divorce courts? What are you getting at?

  • @44zeex
    @44zeex 21 день тому +82

    There is no reason for this law not to be abolished!!

  • @kenofken9458
    @kenofken9458 21 день тому +85

    Ladies, you better flee the Republic of Gilead while you still can. You have a matter of months. A year at the outside before you're fitted with monitors and subject to 24/7 sureveillance.

    • @Vale10952
      @Vale10952 18 днів тому

      Hope you're pays for it.

  • @LaoTzudonym
    @LaoTzudonym 21 день тому +72

    I'd have to commit perjury. "I'm not pregnant, it's just gas."

    • @Mandy87Marie
      @Mandy87Marie 20 днів тому +11

      I’m just fat lol!

    • @beth8775
      @beth8775 20 днів тому +7

      I'd be foraging for some specific herbs.

  • @duckdodgers2647
    @duckdodgers2647 20 днів тому +30

    I live in Texas & had no idea this was a law here too! This is horrible.

  • @jaece1256
    @jaece1256 21 день тому +41

    This Law is ridiculous!! I'm shocked.

  • @doricetimko5403
    @doricetimko5403 20 днів тому +28

    I find it astounding that this is a law. Insanity.

    • @madge2114
      @madge2114 16 днів тому

      The law was used to make sure babies weren't born out of wedlock, so they could force father to support it, so no one could honestly call it a bass tart.
      No wonder more pregnant people die of homocide than any other cause now. Wonder what the suicide stat is.
      I think if men were the only ones penalized for medical termination of pregnancy, a lot of problems would go away.

  • @om-nj2hw
    @om-nj2hw 20 днів тому +17

    Hard to believe this is America!

  • @minhtran1960
    @minhtran1960 21 день тому +63

    What's with these people? Limit government only applies to men in the south I guess

    • @NopeUghUghAbsolutelyNot
      @NopeUghUghAbsolutelyNot 21 день тому +15

      Limited gov only applies to the feds with these people. They only yell small gov because there is a gov bigger than them. If they were already at the top they wouldn't yell limit anything as far as their power goes.

    • @MichaelDeHaven
      @MichaelDeHaven 21 день тому

      It doesn't even apply to the Federal level. They'll gladly override county and city too. They have no real consistency of principle, just power and control.

  • @blossom30x4
    @blossom30x4 19 днів тому +11

    So they won’t make a decision for the people unless their party brings it forward. That’s so sad.

  • @joeanderson8839
    @joeanderson8839 21 день тому +40

    I will never move to Missouri.

    • @JeantheSecond-ip7qm
      @JeantheSecond-ip7qm 19 днів тому +5

      I moved away from Missouri and I’m glad I did.

    • @Vale10952
      @Vale10952 18 днів тому +5

      I don't think anyone moves there on purpose. That state has the most animal abuse cases in the USA, that place is a sh1thole.

    • @AB-mx1de
      @AB-mx1de 17 днів тому +1

      @@Vale10952yes it is. I wasn’t even surprised that this headline was about Missouri

    • @elizabethbrauer1118
      @elizabethbrauer1118 15 днів тому

      misery

    • @JeantheSecond-ip7qm
      @JeantheSecond-ip7qm 15 днів тому +1

      @@elizabethbrauer1118 I used to roll my eyes at that, back when Missouri was a purple state. We were the “show me” state, pragmatic, rational. Now they’re all in on right wing lunacy.

  • @leamcconnell6302
    @leamcconnell6302 21 день тому +76

    That’s an insane, horrible law.Can’t they just make the. men pay child support when they father a child.DNA test to prove paternity.

    • @amethystflower8799
      @amethystflower8799 17 днів тому

      No, marriage during conception and/or birth establishes paternity

    • @madge2114
      @madge2114 16 днів тому +2

      Why do you think murder is the highest cause of death for those who are pregnant?

  • @BriannaJames-dk6yn
    @BriannaJames-dk6yn 17 днів тому +12

    Women have fought for freedoms and rights forever. We will never stop fighting

  • @melissabruhn1429
    @melissabruhn1429 21 день тому +34

    Thank you for highlighting this egregious law. Thank you to the MO Democrat elected fighting for this change.
    Everyone deserves to live without fear. Everyone deserves freedom.

  • @lauren6509
    @lauren6509 20 днів тому +14

    Murdering your baby mama is some nasty work.

    • @Vale10952
      @Vale10952 18 днів тому

      Over using slang you heard on tiktok "is nasty work"

    • @justanawkwardnerd
      @justanawkwardnerd 18 днів тому +10

      @@Vale10952 Dude, the term is over 20 years old, if not over 30. It's not a new thing. Young people on TikTok discovering it doesn't make it TikTok slang. And even if it was, attacking someone for using an easy-to-understand term in the correct context while they were expressing sympathy and horror is pretty mean-spirited of you.

  • @vladimirenlow4388
    @vladimirenlow4388 19 днів тому +17

    It's a crying shame that there are members of the Missouri state legislature who are automatically going to turn their nose up at this bill because a Democrat proposed it.

    • @AliciaGuitar
      @AliciaGuitar 19 днів тому +1

      I agree. Better not be crying about TDS! Hypocrites exist on both sides

    • @satellitestargazer2770
      @satellitestargazer2770 11 днів тому

      Just proves Trumpanzees don't vote in favor of laws that help them, as long as they are "sticking it to the libs!!!"

  • @crismcdonough2804
    @crismcdonough2804 19 днів тому +13

    Just another reason to never get married

  • @kathleen2080
    @kathleen2080 21 день тому +23

    Is there a women’s shelter that could take her and her child? Or they have been outlawed also?🤔

    • @tss9886
      @tss9886 20 днів тому +5

      There are never enough beds in women's shelters and you need to know how to access one.

    • @masquarra
      @masquarra 19 днів тому +9

      Also, if a woman goes to one. Her child is automatically given to the father because he has a home. The laws do not work for fleeing women

  • @LostChildOfTime
    @LostChildOfTime 20 днів тому +15

    Missouri truly loves company.

  • @moonshoes11
    @moonshoes11 21 день тому +77

    Religion truly poisons everything.

    • @aholmes3028
      @aholmes3028 20 днів тому +5

      Right? Gets in the way of pragmatism and logic at every turn, there is some wisdom in religions but in all of them, not just one

    • @MsLollipopgirl27
      @MsLollipopgirl27 20 днів тому

      *christianity, specifically fundamentalist sects that literally rule your country

    • @TheCc064
      @TheCc064 20 днів тому +8

      Patriarchy poisons everything

    • @moonshoes11
      @moonshoes11 20 днів тому +7

      @@TheCc064
      Most major Religions embrace patriarchy.

    • @amandalorian8317
      @amandalorian8317 20 днів тому

      Only when people make laws asserting their own interpretation of religious texts.

  • @NopeUghUghAbsolutelyNot
    @NopeUghUghAbsolutelyNot 21 день тому +18

    This has the sent of a Roe v. Wade reaction all over it

    • @heathervandewalle8954
      @heathervandewalle8954 19 днів тому

      The law existed prior to Roe. Apparently the Republican party has been working a long time to reverse womens rights and safety.

  • @karmafairy351
    @karmafairy351 21 день тому +86

    The south is just getting more backward each day. Southern folks must feel so proud of themselves. 😂

    • @charmedlilsis1
      @charmedlilsis1 20 днів тому +4

      This is in Missouri....Missouri isnt in the South.

    • @karenwhite4453
      @karenwhite4453 20 днів тому +1

      Did you not see the southern states mentioned? Last time I checked Texas and Florida are in the South

    • @karenwhite4453
      @karenwhite4453 20 днів тому

      @user-ro2mh6gf3z But Texas and Florida are

    • @gingerr9004
      @gingerr9004 20 днів тому +3

      No. They feel scared. No matter which side you’re on. That’s why all the guns. And I don’t think it matter where you live in the country, if you’re not scared then you’re not paying attention.

    • @kgs2280
      @kgs2280 20 днів тому +4

      @@gingerr9004That is very true. I’m in CA and I’m very scared; not for my state but for my country and our democracy. If the November election goes wrong, I may move to another country.

  • @karenwhite4453
    @karenwhite4453 20 днів тому +10

    There's that control over women

  • @Rachelvander
    @Rachelvander 21 день тому +12

    Wait that’s the law in most states not just red/republican states. I live in Washington which is a democratic state and I wasn’t able to get a divorce until I gave birth.

    • @fueymanchoo1291
      @fueymanchoo1291 21 день тому +8

      Not sure what year that was but yes you can. If a Judge or other official tries to delay or deny you, there are legal remedies$$$

    • @lamiagumbo
      @lamiagumbo 20 днів тому

      BS- I live in Washington state and I've known several people who got divorced while pregnant. You're flat out lying.

    • @Crimson171
      @Crimson171 19 днів тому

      The only reason for this law is bc they can only get money from child support after the birth of the child, if the woman divorce before birthing, the court doesn't get to steal money.

    • @crismcdonough2804
      @crismcdonough2804 19 днів тому

      Not in PA

    • @MsJones-js6cq
      @MsJones-js6cq 17 днів тому

      Whats the reasoning?

  • @joehogan3691
    @joehogan3691 19 днів тому +4

    Oh that's good..as soon as your wife mentions divorce you just need to "get" her pregnant..what a lovely state to raise a daughter.

  • @anastasiabeaverhausen5467
    @anastasiabeaverhausen5467 18 днів тому +4

    So message is, just don’t get married.

  • @nildarivera2403
    @nildarivera2403 12 днів тому +1

    How can anyone defend this law?!

  • @bearswithglasses
    @bearswithglasses 19 днів тому +8

    So much for being pro life.

    • @amethystflower8799
      @amethystflower8799 17 днів тому

      This has nothing to do with that debate and I'm pro choice.

  • @erinnorwood6124
    @erinnorwood6124 20 днів тому +5

    😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢protect the abused!!!!!

  • @winning3329
    @winning3329 19 днів тому +5

    Glad I am single ❤

  • @DarthJay91
    @DarthJay91 21 день тому +2

    Let's see if it passes.

  • @lauratejeda8188
    @lauratejeda8188 19 днів тому +4

    Just get out the VOTE

  • @JAlexisG221
    @JAlexisG221 13 днів тому

    So messed up...

  • @saraxdouglas8577
    @saraxdouglas8577 20 днів тому +7

    Good Lord ......you mean to tell me a woman couldn't get a divorce if she is pregnant...!? Insane! Men can be the most abusive when their partner is pregnant.....not sure why but it's true. 💙☮️🙏🇺🇸🤪

  • @RachelAmmons
    @RachelAmmons 12 днів тому

    This is insane.

  • @amethystflower8799
    @amethystflower8799 17 днів тому +1

    Are any of these people speaking lawyers? Seems to me the most reasonable thing to do would be to get input from a family law attorney.

  • @briachan
    @briachan 18 днів тому

    Keep making slides to explain current events/media history to the family. Love it

  • @naiyang888
    @naiyang888 21 день тому +5

    Yes!
    That’s another point for religious oppression!
    Take that progress!

  • @Rachelvander
    @Rachelvander 21 день тому +8

    This was me

    • @izzy9114
      @izzy9114 21 день тому +5

      ✊🏽 hope things have gotten better for you since ❤️

    • @GEECHIEGirl
      @GEECHIEGirl 21 день тому +2

      How did you vote? Not being mean, I truly would like to know.🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @FirstnameLastnames
      @FirstnameLastnames 20 днів тому +1

      That's so messed up, I'm very sorry to hear that.

  • @simonfox_8559
    @simonfox_8559 2 дні тому +1

    The government should allow divorce for any reason, and then allow both parties to deal with the social and financial consequences of the divorce. Forcing people together doesn't force them to care for children or promote good family values.

  • @NekoKuroNeko
    @NekoKuroNeko 16 днів тому +4

    A good idea is a good idea no matter who says it. It’s ridiculous that republicans didn’t support a bill because a democrat put it forward.

  • @mermaidreviews4693
    @mermaidreviews4693 21 день тому

    What

  • @Logical_magic19
    @Logical_magic19 16 днів тому +2

    The land of the "free"

  • @melanieroberts2221
    @melanieroberts2221 11 днів тому

    Tennessee is the same. I consealed my pregnancy

  • @MR-rj2qw
    @MR-rj2qw 14 днів тому

    So if any women (under 50 or something like that) wants to file for divorce, do they have to provide a recent negative pregnancy statement from a doctor? This whole thing is unbelievable to my European brain.

  • @amethystflower8799
    @amethystflower8799 17 днів тому

    The law only says a divorce cannot be finalized during pregnancy, it does say no one can file during pregnancy. DOM's often take months to years to play out. There is the legal issue of paternity being established by marriage. It is common practice to disclose whether the wife is expecting another child in all jurisdictions I am aware of.

  • @sativadiva2389
    @sativadiva2389 14 днів тому

    My mom was a victim of this. She had to wait to give birth to me before filing for divorce :(

  • @vuksgitau
    @vuksgitau 21 день тому +2

    😱😱😱😱😱😱😱

  • @hayaq9991
    @hayaq9991 20 днів тому +1

    That’s actual funny bc that’s an Islamic law.. protecting women financially and emotionally.. not saying she have to stay in an abusive relationship… she could go back to her family, and he is obligated to pay

    • @heathervandewalle8954
      @heathervandewalle8954 19 днів тому +3

      In an abusive relationship, the abuser makes leaving very difficult if not impossible. Not everyone has an adequate support network to rely on.

  • @ivybee347
    @ivybee347 14 днів тому

    America, the land of the free*.

  • @noneshere
    @noneshere 21 день тому +23

    Don't get married guys.
    It's not worth it.

    • @jalex4251
      @jalex4251 21 день тому +3

      Seriously. I don’t think humans were meant to be married. If it’s not the man it’s the woman. Were awful to each other

    • @leighannsoles8432
      @leighannsoles8432 21 день тому

      Practice celibacy, ladies, it's our only chance in this redhat world.

    • @kgs2280
      @kgs2280 20 днів тому +4

      The 4B Movement is looking better every day. (If you don’t know what that is, look it up)

  • @Pedro-ew7nc
    @Pedro-ew7nc 8 днів тому

    the land of freedom lol

  • @elizabethbrauer1118
    @elizabethbrauer1118 15 днів тому

    Misery sucks.

  • @investined
    @investined 16 днів тому

    Why do you people continue to live these insane states or countries

  • @somphanhsoukhaseum7006
    @somphanhsoukhaseum7006 21 день тому

    We just take our own hand by not to live with that evil guy.

  • @Balletcalvero
    @Balletcalvero 20 днів тому +1

    Why didn't she go to a shelter with her child? Oh that's absolutely heartbreaking. What an upside down law

    • @foolishlyfoolhardy6004
      @foolishlyfoolhardy6004 20 днів тому +4

      Probably full or she otherwise can't access it (lack of transport for example)

    • @AmyEugene
      @AmyEugene 19 днів тому +5

      Probably also brings up issue of custody. I'm guessing that a judge who wouldn't allow a pregnant woman to divorce her abusive partner, would probably think a women's shelter is a worse environment for a child than at home with the other parent. The more I think about it, just imagine what would've happened before women had the right to vote and that is the outcome desired by conservatives.

    • @heathervandewalle8954
      @heathervandewalle8954 19 днів тому +4

      Abusers manipulate situations so the abused is unable to leave... money, transportation, support system. They make sure those are not available. I know this from experience.

    • @Balletcalvero
      @Balletcalvero 18 днів тому

      @@AmyEugene can a judge really take a kid away from the mother who's living in a shelter? I feel like that defeats the purpose of a women's shelter 😣

    • @isabodarnall1876
      @isabodarnall1876 18 днів тому +1

      Yes they can take a child away using the fact that she is in a shelter to show she is unable to provide an adequate home for the child and then deeming her unfit because of it...even if she is at the shelter to get away from abuse and she can even have a job too.​@@Balletcalvero

  • @amethystflower8799
    @amethystflower8799 17 днів тому

    Imagine creating two children with such a monster. Its her fault too

  • @windyhawthorn7387
    @windyhawthorn7387 19 днів тому

    This story makes no sense. Is there a law saying that people who are married have to live together? Why would she have to live with her husband while she's getting an divorce just waiting for the baby to be born for it to be finalized. Isn't there family, friends, battered women shelters or get a job and rent a place to live.

    • @phuck8627
      @phuck8627 19 днів тому

      People can't just "get a job and rent a place" overnight

  • @blessedfire365xgf
    @blessedfire365xgf 17 днів тому

    In the name of Jesus Christ our lord may our marriages be protected and children cherished

  • @moonshoes11
    @moonshoes11 21 день тому +3

    All pregnancies should require paternity testing.

    • @annat6249
      @annat6249 21 день тому +9

      Sound like you have trust issues. But yeah, you can pay paternity test for all your children.

    • @moonshoes11
      @moonshoes11 20 днів тому

      @@annat6249
      Sounds like you’re a cheater and want to continue getting away with it.

    • @Ninsidhe
      @Ninsidhe 20 днів тому

      Hilarious how keen you are for the govt to have the DNA profile of every citizen on record before they’re even born. Women need to quit on relationships entirely and just use sperm banks for conception, easiest thing all round- men can discover just how useless to the global community the majority of them are all on their own. 💜

    • @milkchan202
      @milkchan202 19 днів тому +1

      @@moonshoes11this is like some weird incel fantasy. that women are running around rampant with other mens children. it's weird and not a very common thing...

    • @phuck8627
      @phuck8627 19 днів тому

      ​@@moonshoes11how does it sound like that? Mandatory testing is unnecessary. If you have access to your child then you can do a test yourself. Instead of crying to everyone about how you "just know the kid isn't yours" yet refusing to take the test because you know you're wrong...then blaming everyone else because "it should always be done anyway so I just refuse to do it 😡"

  • @BonusFiddle
    @BonusFiddle 20 днів тому

    Something is missing….even if not divorced , why not move out?

    • @stevenluo9516
      @stevenluo9516 20 днів тому +8

      It's not that simple. It's a question very well studied.

    • @ariaflame-au
      @ariaflame-au 20 днів тому +7

      Abusers also do financial control. Where would you go when pregnant, with a child and no money?

  • @marcosreyes6485
    @marcosreyes6485 21 день тому

    Must obey and respect a man of god. Bible belt. 🤠

  • @DG-hw8it
    @DG-hw8it 21 день тому +3

    Plenty of young wife material outside the US! Choose for strong family. 🍀❤️

    • @Bella-cb5xe
      @Bella-cb5xe 21 день тому +37

      What is wrong with you? This is about spousal abuse! So we women are supposed to tolerate being beaten in the name of a “strong family “? I’m grateful every day for my kind husband.

    • @lyraserpentine894
      @lyraserpentine894 21 день тому +19

      Plenty of real men outside the US who make great fathers and husbands. I encourage US women to look them up if they want a happy, healthy relationship.

    • @coreytomison3292
      @coreytomison3292 19 днів тому +5

      Why would a woman want to come to this country to be married knowing this law is on the books? That’s horrifying!

    • @DG-hw8it
      @DG-hw8it 19 днів тому

      @@coreytomison3292 Because by nature, it's a man's world. 🌻

    • @AmyEugene
      @AmyEugene 19 днів тому +3

      🤮

  • @purpleknight8017
    @purpleknight8017 9 днів тому +1

    2:23 this literally shows this government is failing because one side can't cooperate with another side. Im so sick of it.

  • @mosheshekelsteinspanbergbl5624
    @mosheshekelsteinspanbergbl5624 21 день тому

    Women shouldn't be allowed to initiate divorce ever.

    • @moonshoes11
      @moonshoes11 21 день тому +29

      Get sober.

    • @reemagee4828
      @reemagee4828 21 день тому +14

      That seems to be the way things are headed. How dreadful. There will be no marriages and no babies if they keep this up...

    • @moonshoes11
      @moonshoes11 21 день тому +4

      @@reemagee4828
      lol. Is that seriously a real fear of yours? There will be no babies? No marriages?

    • @667SatansNeighbor
      @667SatansNeighbor 20 днів тому +1

      Wow...
      Now do voting, driving, buying a house, etc...
      Ahhhh... I see... Now I know what the "again" in "MAGA" means...
      again = before 1950.
      Unless you are a sexist AND racist, then it's before 1865.

    • @Ninsidhe
      @Ninsidhe 20 днів тому

      @@moonshoes11 here are some fun facts for you- birth rates around the world are bottoming out because- guess what?- women around the world are discovering that marriage, relationships, dating, birthing babies, raising children in cultures that hate women and children and associating with men is rarely in their favour. It’s all been built by men FOR men at the expense of women. Also fun fact- worldwide sperm counts have fallen to 50%, at which point many men are considered functionally infertile- and its falling 1% every year (as it has been for the past 50), so in 50 years infertile men will be the norm. What men will discover at this time is that it doesn’t actually take a world full of men to keep the genetic viability of the species alive and that in fact the world will thrive without so many aggressive, war mongering, patriarchally obsessed male cult participants. Fun times to look forward to indeed! Women don’t need men, men absolutely do need women and demonstrate this every day.

  • @factsbyflores
    @factsbyflores 21 день тому +10

    Remember all things are in accordance to the Will of God. Even women being beaten, abused and murdered. Got to love the American Christian Evangelicals

    • @LostChildOfTime
      @LostChildOfTime 20 днів тому +3

      Those are men, and rarely women, playing god.

  • @GEECHIEGirl
    @GEECHIEGirl 21 день тому

    How did SHE VOTE??