it's crazy how you can think "this is it" when you get into your dream school, but then when you actually get there you have so many new doubts you had not foreseen AT ALL. Actually, this is not crazy, this is absolutely human...even the best of us doubt themselves and fear they won't be enough, but I am CONVINCED you will make this work and figure all of this out along the way :) I know that right now it's all blurry and scary, but just remember that you were accepted for a GOOD REASON. they did not accept you to be nice, or because they have this image of you which isn't you, they accepted you because you DESERVE it, you absolutely do, and because they think that however younger you are, YOU CAN DO THIS. I am sure you can, and you will. This is something you are passionate about, and so you will STRIVE to be the best, like you always have. And in a few years you'll look back at this video and smile benignly at 22-year-old Vee, so worried and so willing to do well that she kept on striving, did not take her dream school for granted and proved them all that if you want something and if you work hard for it, and persevere through whatever storms come your way, you CAN DO IT. We're all behind you Vee, you're going to be GREAT !! xx
Honestly, the fact that you have these worries in the first place shows that you don’t need to worry. It’s always the people who aren’t worried about having a good schedule that have a bad one! because they don’t care enough. All your anxieties are completely justified, but just know that your fear of disappointment means that you will not allow yourself to slip into a bad place and get really behind. I’m sure it won’t be easy, but your anxieties come from caring so much, and caring so much means that you will succeed.
"so young and unexperienced".. but so smart and determined!! Your passion and love for the people and the cause that you are educating yourself for will make you sharp and so involved that you will rapidly forget these fears.. It will be great! You will be great! And you will love every subject and every second of your online lectures, I'm sure..
As a 50 something old dear about to embark on a Masters with the OU I totally get this. The difference is that I will be looking at all the bright young things and their young brains and thinking that I can’t possibly keep up. You will succeed because your motivation is pure. You care which is why you’re nervous. There is nothing wrong with that. Channel those nerves and that passion and never be afraid of being young!!! Go smash it.
I think being young, optimistic and fresh out of undergrad is actually one of your biggest strengths. You are likely right in that most of your peers will be older and have more experience, but that will be something that make the experience more valuable, since you’ll be hearing so many new perspectives and learning from them as well as your professors. I think the same can be said for you as well! You are bright, incredibly intelligent and full of optimism and your experience with Oxford and this channel have given you a perspective your classmates deserve to hear! Even though it’s scary, You need to face that fear of not sounding intelligent enough and share your thoughts, as they are sure to benefit others as well. Harvard took you for a reason and the fact that you are young and ambitious is certainly part of it! Best of luck Vee! I know you are going to be wonderful :)
I spent the whole year worrying I will spell colour instead of color. Switching my computer’s region to the US was helpful. Vee, everything you’re experiencing is so natural, shopping week is one of the most stressful experiences, once you have your schedule down and get used to how things work you will have the mental space and time to make the most of it! *big hug*
Vee, the scheduling of classes is NOT your responsibility! It’s THEIRS. They will not schedule anything that is at 3am in UK! Don’t worry . You will make the most of it, because you always have!
Also, I think what Vee meant was something like what if a professor told that there was going to be a mandatory lecture or exam, but announced it when Vee was sleeping? When she wakes up she'll possibly have a panic attack due to the few hours left to prepare :(
@@taniamanik2012 the UK is 5-9 hours ahead of the US, depending on where in the US we're talking about, so any morning things will be at a decent time in the UK. But I see how the later things would be a concern
taniamanik2012 I don’t think that Harvard Uni has not factored in these things. I’m sure they’d have a plan and would give a decent amount of time and a proper schedule. Also the last line can be triggering for people who are already stressed but ok, it’s your call.
by the sheer fact that you are worried about taking your opportunity for granted, it’s clear you aren’t and that you won’t!! While it’s so normal to have all these concerns (I deffo do for going into my second year of under grad all online) you are going to absolutely THRIVE and do so well and make yourself so proud!☺️
Hey Vee. I can really understand how you feel. - Next week I'm moving to another country, to study my dream career (classical Piano). I'm moving to a place where the culture is different than mine, where the language is German instead of English or Spanish which is my mother language. - The fear of being unaccepted is so normal in situations like this. In my experience, I tend to worry a lot, and after, once I'm in the situation everything it's and get's better. All my best energy to you, and sending a virtual hug :-D.
The fact you are the youngest is incredibly impressive and I totally think that people generally do take younger people under their wing also don't let imposter syndrome get to you!
11. Finally, rest assured. Your professors DO NOT want you to fail!!! AT ALL! If you are confused or behind or ANYTHING - use the option to ask questions. If there isn’t time in class, or you would prefer not to in front of everyone else - USE those office hours AND, as this time it is all online, USE the Discussion section of your classes AND use the email contacts provided too. Professors and Lecturers WANT to help their students succeed! I promise!!
I started my master's last year, when I was 22 as well (I'm from Brazil, my university is USP). I was the youngest of my group. I felt this sense of impropriety a lot! Very insecure, questioning what I was doing, what was the point, etc. However, what has kept me going is the constant exercise of being kind to myself, realizing that Master's is a learning oportunity. I feel like i've learned more in a year of masters than 4 years of undergraduate. I am sure that you will succed! You are so mature and hard-working! Don't worry and keep going.
What you said at the beginning is so true - it’s so true that hearing someone else is experiencing the same things is weirdly ‘comforting’. I’m starting Oxford in October, and am sharing a lot of the same fears! You’ll smash Harvard :)
Hey! I'm in the exact same boat, starting Oxford in October (unless I defer - still haven't decided and the deadline is tomorrow!) I feel just the same and it's so nice to see this community in the comments all sharing the same feelings!
@@naomiworth4551 Hi! Which college and what subject?! Good luck with the decision!! I'm doing chemistry at Pembroke, and we weren't given the option to defer, they just took more people which I am kinda glad about! Good luck with your decision!!
Hello! I am going to do Maths and Philosophy at Corpus Christi. I thought everyone could choose. I guess it would be easier not to have any option but it's a privileged choice to get to make so I still feel really blessed.
7. So, unlike in England, your grade DOES NOT simply come down to a set of single exams!!!! You will have classwork, group work, reports, projects and exams, all of which will come together to form your grade. Now, as things are all online this year, you may not end up with much in the way of group work, but everything else WILL be outlines for you on the syllabus so DON’T miss the first days of class FOR SURE.
Vee please remember that you were selected for Harvard because they deemed you talented enough to be there and do this course! You have accomplished so so much, it's so easy to slip into not feeling like you will add enough to the conversation especially when age is brought into it but you are more than capable 💛💛 it's a shame that you can't be in Harvard at the moment but you never know - maybe there will be the chance to visit later on in the academic year and your passion and drive will definitely shine through! You can do this!💖💖
vee, i don’t have any inspirational or mind blowing advice but i KNOW you’re gonna do great. my first impression of you almost a year ago was literally “wow, she’e so humble and bubbly but also incredibly smart” and still is. this is just another chapter of your life that you’ll look back and be proud of in the future. i know you’ll do great! good luck ❤️
You're such a ray of sunshine. Because people harbour their own fear, it's so much easier for them to disassociate from their true worth. You are wonderful and I have no doubt you are going to thrive throughout your course - Harvard wouldn't have accepted you otherwise. Right now, fear and growing pains are overwhelming but only resilience and growth will come out of it xx
I think how you're feeling is completely normal, I'm feeling the same way and it was comforting to hear that I am not completely alone in that feeling. I'll be starting my post-grad course at Cambridge in the next week and the anxiety is real. But you've just got to keep in mind that you are living the dreams of your past self, and you are capable of more than you know! Thank you for uploading this, it's been a big help!
You seem to be the kind of person that thrives when presented with a challenge. Look how far you have come. You deserve this and deserve to be confident that you belong there. On contributing ideas remember that your not only there to learn from the professor but the students too. As much as you will be interested in their ideas they will be interesting in yours. The best piece of advice i ever had is not to forget who you are and what you can do. On a side note you skin is glowing!
Girl I feel you 1000%. I decided to have a gap year after graduating university before I start my postgrad next year. I have no regrets for my decisions, especially considering how a bit crazy the world is at the moment, but I feel very uncertain (or even insecure) about whether I can catch up with the academic environment and whether I am capable of carrying on to higher level. It seems to me that you have a very clear vision of what you want to do and I believe that will be a huge motivator for you. You are a clever young woman and you have at least 160k people who support you ❤️ I personally hope I can find my own vision for life soon so I can have at least a bit more certainty or confidence with my postgrad 😅
You were so right about sharing this! I wish I could give you a hug... Selfdoubt is a part of life. I've always been that one girl who doesn't know the practical details, but I've experienced that passion for what you're doing goes above all else. I wish you all the best
When we feel scared out of our depth it's a sign that we're taking a plunge into *Growth*. You have an amazing opportunity ahead of you, and being scared means you're taking it seriously. It's totally normal to be scared! But make sure that fear becomes a motivation to learn and grow and not something that holds you back. Masters programmes are difficult in normal years (mine definitely was), let alone in 2020, and it will be difficult and you will make mistakes. But you will also learn a lot from what you do, and you will grow from it. And that's the most exciting thing. So embrace that fear, and transform it into your motivation to grow into someone wiser and learn new things about your subject and yourself. Go get 'em!!
Hi Vee, I'm starting HGSE with you in a couple days (MBE woot!). I completely resonate with all of your fears, especially the one about falling behind. Our Slack channel moves so quickly, I hope our classes aren't the same way 😔 I've spoken to a couple classmates and we all feel this way, you aren't the only one. We got this!
Hi Vee, First of all I wish you all the goodluck and I'm sure you're gonna smash it! Trust me when I say I know what you're going trough right now, I'm too about to start in two days (I am Studyding European Studies, which is for me another 4 years of education and it will be completely in English, as a Dutch girl this makes me feel overwhelmed and nervous). Just know that if you're determined and you give it you 100% then there is nothing stopping you from getting that diploma.❤💪🏻 *Sending you a virtual hug from The Netherlands*
It is indeed very comforting to know that even the people I look out to (you) have the same feelings and insecurities. Thanks for sharing this with us. I wish you could see yourself through our eyes for one minute. We all here are pretty sure you will thrive ✨
You are an inspiration!!! I’m currently in college too working on an Associates and to transfer and I’m in the same boat of feeling like my time management and the feeling of being so overwhelmed all goes into my stress of what my transcript will look like. But the days keep going and they don’t stop going, so it will be a challenge but it’s human! You are so much more than capable and willing! I love your videos they’ve helped me so much
You got this Vee! I kinda relate in the sense of having older classmates. I started at a community college at 19 and most of my peers were 3-10 years older than me. Even with that said, we got along great, and we became close friends. Being young doesn't mean you're not capable, and you will change the world!
Vee, thank you so much for sharing this! I am also starting my master's this year - I'll be going to Oxford as a Canadian student. I am feeling every single thing you've mentioned, so I really appreciate hearing you speak so candidly about your fears. You are such an inspiration and it is so nice to know that we're feeling the same way! Harvard is lucky to have you! 💕
Vee, you beat out 95-98% of other applicants for your spot. Know that you KILLED it these past four years, and that you'll kill it during grad school. You're one step closer to changing the world for the better, and we are all so happy for you! You deserve this so so much, and you should know that! You're going to be incredible!
I’m just starting this video now, but I know this is going to be so comforting. I’m starting midwifery next month and I’m terrified, being online is daunting, and my course in general is daunting too. Thank you for sharing I know this will help me hearing someone is worried too.
Thanks for sharing your fears Vee because I’m feeling the exact same way. This video and the comment section really helped me calm down and focus on what’s important, why I’m doing this and what I’ll do to get there. If I can just take little steps every day I’m sure I’ll get to the end of my first year and think, you got there in the end :)
I've been feeling bad all day (and week tbh) about school starting tomorrow. like you said as well, I just don't feel like myself. thank you so much for this. I'm sure we're both just worrying about nothing and everything will turn out fine tomorrow. I wish u the best and again thank you for this xxx
Vee, your jitters and nervousness are perfectly normal. Just remember that you aren't alone, other people in the world are in the same situation as you. At the end of the day, a person can only handle so much and if you make a mistake, well then you learn from it and move on like a boss. Be the confident boss queen I know you are and remember all the positiveness. If you are ever down, look through the comments and you will be surrounded by the positive feedback from your fans. I'm a Junior in High School and I was sooooo nervous and terrified, but you will build trust with other fellow colleagues. Just remember YOU GOT THIS!
well, I relate to your fears so much... especially the feeling young, being afraid to speak up as I also went directly from undergrad to graduate school last year...although I still feel a bit like that, with thesis writing and all, I will tell you what some of my colleagues told me: "no one does what you do like you. That's valuable." Your perspectives on things are framed by your background, and that's valuable. you can do it! ✨ You have the most important thing: passion! (even if something doesn't go according to plan, hang on to that passion and you'll always be able to redraw your path)
If it helps in any way at all, just know that even if you feel unprepared, there are others who look at you and see the wonderful amazing lady who's going to change the world! Last semester I began grad school for engineering. I won't lie, it's been very rough. I won't bore you with details but I do suffer from ADHD, depression, and general financial difficulties. I've fought every step of the way to get to where I am and sometimes my determination seems to run out, like a sputtering engine. I discovered your channel around last March. I don't know how to describe it, but with every video you upload, I've been reminded of why I love learning and why education is so important. You just have this incredible healing energy about you. Your hard working ethic, even when faced with stressful situations, are so raw and powerful. I value not only the videos where you give us helpful information but also the ones where you choose to let us see you struggle through your assignments. Not because I like you struggling - I wish you could have a stress-free life as much as possible - but because seeing you persevere despite it all reminds me of the feats women can accomplish when they set their minds to it. Thank you for sharing your life with us
Wishing you the best as you begin your studies at Harvard Vee!!! You will excel! I know that you’ll learn from fellow students you mentioned will being years of experience in the education field to graduate study, but always remember that you have a REALLY innovative and creative and bold platform where you’ve been working as an advocate for students, inspiring a community from around the world, hosting events, collaborating with companies like LinkedIn - your fellow graduate students will want to hear about your innovation and perspective, education needs this now, I’d argue more than ever, you are bringing so much to the space. Thanks for sharing your honest feelings in this video, you’re encouraging so many people getting ready for something new by letting them know they’re not alone. Looking forward to updates!!!
Tysm vee u have honestly made me consider harvard i have always wanted to apply for oxford but some people dont really believe in me but you have inspired me to even strive for harvard!!! Thank you so much you dont know how helpful you are!
Hi Vee: I am going to do my best to help with some of those fears and anxieties, as an American, who went to graduate school a little bit older (in America), who was working a full time job simultaneously and whose background degree was in Microbiology and Immunology but graduate degree was in Clinical Child Psychology. Yes - it was a passion and I chose purposefully. So: 1. The MOST IMPORTANT information to know for your program is: Everyone is just as overwhelmed as you. No matter their age, MOST people have not done a graduate degree yet when they choose to do a Master. Yes, some of them will have worked in education already- but more on that in a moment - but none of them will have done a Masters in Education whether from Harvard or anywhere else, so they may “seem” to know what they are doing - they do not - they are starting fresh from the same point as you.
It's so comforting to know that someone else feels a similar way !! I'm starting Oxford in October as a first year and I fELT you on these worries so thank you for being so honest and vulnerable about this x
My lovely, you work so dam hard you’ve got the grades to get in and the work ethic and you are going to use this masters to change the world around you. You deserve to be there. You will get used to the new work flow but please please don’t burn your self out remember rest when you can! Sending virtual hugs ❤️
All your feelings are valid!!!!!, I've been watching you for so long and you've always been so brave and strong, glad and honoured to see you break down ur walls for us, ur like a role model to me and I will pray for you that God helps you ease ur nerves. Love you Vee🥺👉🏾👈🏾💖
Ahh Vee! Thank you for making this video! I'm applying for postgrad and have similar worries, but you're so right about strength and comfort in numbers. :) It's okay to be nervous but I think you're going to do really well! You've accomplished amazing things already and have the experience!
Vee, your intellect, passion, drive and sincerity surpass every fear you've mentioned today!!! Take each day as it comes, youre going to be amazing 👏 we're rooting for you x
Hi Vee! First, you really do seem to be glowing and thriving, despite your anxiousness due to the topic of the video! Second, I’m so glad that I’m starting this journey with you in a sense; I am also starting my postgrad in a couple weeks, straight out of undergrad. I can relate to so much of what you said, but now I’m also thinking about my own specific fears. In any case, continue thriving!!
We believe in you, Vee! We know that you will ace Harvard! Worries and fears are normal especially you are entering a new chapter of your life, but always remember that we are always here for you! You can do it! Fighting! 💪🏻😊
Hi Vee! Only thing that I want to say to you is You're my best inspiration. Now I'm in high school. I have been watching u for 1 year and I can say you thought me a lot. Thank u for this and good luck at Harvard!
Hi Vee! I’m also starting at HGSE this fall (Language & Literacy) and found your channel recently. I am feeling the exact same way about missing dates and meetings-I think a lot of us are feeling confused and overwhelmed right now. We’re all kind of figuring it out as we go-you’ve got this! And as a student who is above 25 (I’m 27), I will say that you definitely have an advantage going right from undergrad to a graduate program. I have to learn how to be a student all over again! One thing I really love about HGSE so far is that everyone brings their own experience, background, and ideas to the community and together we can all learn from each other. So even if you’re a younger student, you still bring your own ideas and perspective, and that is really really important! Rooting for you. 💕
Oh Vee, thanks for sharing your fears with us. You are the definition of feeling the fear and doing it anyway. You belong at Harvard and you are encouraging so many people to strive for it as well. So excited for you!
Vee, you are a PHENOMENAL student! You, an individual from a deprived area, progressed onto not only Oxford, but also Harvard?! You have the academic capabilities and drive to thrive in the Harvard environment. I wish you the best of luck and thank you for everything you have done for me so far ❤️
Girl I totally feel you, you’re not alone! I started my new school year three weeks ago and I was also nervous but because it is now my second year I’m not that scared but still I have some self doubt on some days! I’m watching this on my lunch break because I too need some enlightenment but I didn’t expect the little scream at the end and I just winced and had to laugh about it! I didn’t care for the people who were passing me in that moment. So BIG thank you and I know this is a long text but if you read I wish you THE BEST for Harvard! You certainly do it❤️❤️
I am new to education and will be going through this year with vee for the first time and the reason for this is cause I've been watching your videos on and off and you've been inspiring me I've never seen no one work as hard and enjoys it like you. Vee God won't give you more than you can handle, I am nervous too but hey let's do this togheder.
I really feel you- I’m going into my final year studying Education and I feel under pressure to go straight into classrooms and teach for the rest of my life... when I really want to study a masters in Educational Disadvantage and Inequality and make a change at a systemic level. That’s where my passion and aspirations lie but I also know that a lot of people on the prospective masters courses have gotten so much life and academic experience under their belt. You are voicing all my concerns and helping me to feel more at ease- thank you for sharing 🥰
OMG, I studied History and Education. So I'm a History Teacher but I don't felt really comfortable teaching big schools but people believe that I studied like the wrong subject but most I like is about the same that you. I really want to work helping disadvantaged students in their education. I really feel your comment.
Nataly Ramirez I am similar too. I will be studying a Masters in Education but with the aim of working in the special educational needs and disabilities (pastoral/academic support/administration) field as opposed to teaching!
Sorry but I'm really interest in your master idea about Education and Inequality. Have you see some universities?? I'M from from South America so I only know the most famous ones but it sounds what I want.
Nataly Ramirez I’m from Ireland so it’s a specialist route you can do in various universities such as University College Dublin or Trinity College Dublin 🥰
Vee, thank you for making this video. I am starting a new graduate program at Harvard too (not the same one). I have a lot of the same worries as you. I don't really have any wise advice to give because I'm in the same position as you with the same fears, but I just wanted to let you (and anyone else who relates to this video) know that you are not alone and that many many many people are feeling this way. We will make the most of each day as it comes and in doing that, one day at a time, we will have made the most of the whole year.
Hi Vee, I am going to Corpus Christi Oxford to do Maths and Philosophy. This is a huge dream of mine and I am so nervous about it. This video really helped me. Your content has helped give me the confidence to feel that Oxford is accessible to me. Seeing you struggle with the exact same thoughts and the same overthinking in loops over and over really helped me to feel like I'm not alone! Thank you so much Vee - you are an inspiration!!! ❤️❤️❤️😊 God bless you! You are going to smash it and I'm so happy for you!
I spent a term studying in Canada, which I believe is very similar to the US in how you study (I studied History and just graduated!). I would highly recommend checking on the Harvard website to see if they have a writing centre, where you can book in and have them check over your work. I found this particularly helpful because in Canada I had to find a new style of writing, as we had to create reports and feedback on books - very different from UK essays! The writing centre checked over my work to make sure it was suitable, and helped me check my references etc. Also, ask your professors there! They are usually happy to help international students. Best of luck x
you are an inspiration! i hope in a year from now when you’ve graduated and are on your way to changing the world you react to this video and laugh at all the nerves. Keep killing it!❤️and thank you for all your videos
Thank you for doing this. So important to know that you’re normal and feel just as scared as everyone else! It’s completely normal but we all convince ourselves we’re the only ones. You’re amazing, start believing it!
I just want to let u know WE KNOW THAT U CAN DO IT!! Ur such an inspiration for me and I look up to u so much! This is such a big opportunity, try to not overthink it and just enjoy the ride!❤️
Thank you for sharing that!! It's so awesome to see that I am not alone in this overthinking kinda situation. And yes, you are not alone in this too, buttt all of these fears are fake, you are going to do great!! Such an inspiration to me, good luck! ☺️❤️
Thank you so much for being so vulnerable Vee. As someone who cares deeply about academia but also gets really anxious and doubts myself this is really comforting. Love you❤️❤️
I’m moving to Liverpool next week for my masters & I feel you, girl! I’m 21, fresh out of undergrad and definitely have no idea what I’m doing. I’m scared of not keeping up & having to hold down my part-time job at same time. Keeping my fingers crossed for you
All the bestt Vee. You will figure things out as you go and become more familiar with working on a masters level. I am currently doing my first year of a masters degree in South Africa and I had to adapt with working under lockdown regulation. Remember that when doing a masters time management is super important.
Thanks so much for making this video, Vee. I think as girls especially we all feel imposter syndrome at times even if we are more than qualified to do what we’re doing, LIKE YOU ARE, VEE!!! You’re gonna absolutely ace Harvard, and I can’t wait to see where this journey takes you 🤗✨
Hi Vee! I am about to start my postgrad at UCL in September which is mainly going to be delivered online. I feel the exact same way as you and your video was so relatable! Hopefully we will be able to figure it out :)x
I'm starting uni in October. I'm going to study Finnish philology in one of the best universities in my country. I'm VERY nervous and anxious. I'm stressed that I won't keep up, people will be much better, much confident than me. I'm afraid I won't be able to open myself and speak during classes. I also feel like I won't meet anyone in a totally new city, that I'll be alone. Ahhh! But trying to stay positive. We all will be great (I hope so)!! :)
Girl you’ve literally listed all my fears. Thanks for sharing! I feel just so done of the hole social media facade, but with you I do feel a connection and admiration because I can relate not only in the goods but in the bads. You’re gonna kill it, have fun and be the most hardworking. 😘😘😘😘😘😘
Vee, my older sister felt the exact same way you did when she got into her pHD program. She was the youngest person in her cohort and she was scared that she would be looked down upon by her peers. This had the opposite effect where it actually made her look more impressive in their eyes because they had work experiences and life experiences that made them candidates in the eyes of William and Mary (the uni she goes to) and yet she didn't have those and just breezed through her undergraduate, masters, and now was working on her pHD with diligence. I'm sure your peers will look at you and see the smart, resilient, hardworking, and passionate side of you when they see you. Of course there will be a gap between you and them but there are gaps between them and everyone else too. All that matters is that you find the people who you will get along with the best and make sure you create those connections because they may last for the rest of your life. Hope that helps :)
Vee!! Thank you so much for uploading this! You are such an inspiration to me and you have motivated me to be a better student ! I am starting my second year of undergrad and I have never been more stressed! However your video has made me feel so much better knowing I’m not the only one feeling all of these feelings! But we GOT this! Best of luck!
Vee, I’m in a similar situation, I’m about to start my engineering undergraduate degree at UEA and I’m terrified. Thanks for sharing your thoughts I’m glad I’m not the only one feeling this way. Good luck I’m sure you will smash it at Harvard ❤️
Vee, you're such an inspiration for me. Thanks for making this video, and mannn I'm scared as well even for undergrad! In life we can be certain of anything, but personally I trust God is looking after us, and we'll be find doing our best! While God do the rest!
Hey, I just wanted to drop this message to wish you good luck for this morning (as you’re starting your course in a few hours time). You’re going to be/ do amazing (your best is enough). Thank you for your energy, I look forward to the next update. x
Hey Vee - I’m due to start my masters at Cambridge in October and I’m feeling exactly the same. Thank you so much for making this video - it’s really helped me to feel that I’m not on my own in feeling so apprehensive
You'll be alright I wrote this for myself so that I don't lose focus "so many new things to learn, filling in the bigger picture, making so much sense" We. All. Believe. In. You 🌌
OMG!! I literally cried, i'm going through the exact feelings. Please allow me to share my fears here. I'm an international student who will be travelling to the UK to study M.A in Education too, and it scares me that I haven't gotten my visa yet, scared of being in a total new place, doubting if it is really worth it? as I'm relying solely on my personal savings. Scared of feeling "not good enough". Also I don't know if I should have studied online instead of travelling abroad! the list can go on and on :( ...... hope this makes you feel better lol.
I'm sure you'll do amazing in England it takes a lot of courage to move to another country. I hope you get your visa soon and education is an investment so although it will expensive I hope it pays off and provides you with new opportunities. Sending you lots of love. I'll be starting uni in September too 😊.
hey Vee, take a deep breath because you everything is going to be ok. Just be sure that you are capable of doing Harvard. It’s okay to feel nervous and overwhelmed. We’re all with you and we all got your back :)
thank you for sharing your fears! i'm starting my PhD program online next week and am nervous about starting online as well. i can only imagine the extra stress from being abroad on top of it. I'm wishing you luck and I know you've got this! you'll figure it all out, just take it one day at a time.
Hey Vee, I’m starting (remotely) at MIT grad school tomorrow too.. very scared and overwhelmed about it, I appreciate you sharing your fears (which I also have) as I felt like I wasn’t going through this alone. Thank you
I am currently in my 3rd week in a new job and honestly so many of the fears you shared align with my fears and stress with a new, unfamiliar job. Thank you for sharing ❤️
I am on my second semester of my postgraduate degree and I just literally asked for a week extension on my first assignment because I am so unwell mentally, emotionally, intelectually and academically, so here I am. Thank you for sharing your insecurities and fears, Vee. You are an inspiration.
Oh my, you read this! If I may add, Vee, it's not like I'm afraid I will fail. I can graduate first class from the marks I got in the first semester. Maybe I am perfectionist. But I know when I am unwell and I decide to put myself first because I am the one who need to do this degree. If I am to help others, I will start with taking a very good care of myself. :)
Hey Vee, even tho everyone else is much older and more experienced than you look at this an opportunity to elevate yourself much more than you would had in a class with people that come from a similar background than you. It might be tough at first but that’s because you just need to learn. You able, capable, intelligent and know when to speak up when you need help. Use that to your advantage and you will grow and make it through ❤️
I feel you. I am starting my gcse's and I have more or less the same fears but I cannot compare how stressed you are compared to my situation as you are literally going to HARVARD like WHAT?? We are all right behind you here and we are supporting you the whole way as you have helped to support us through your videos!!!
I felt SO ill when I started my MA, the imposter syndrome was overwhelming because most of my cohort were older/sponsored by NATO/their home country government etc. But I had to realise that I was accepted for a reason, and I could only do the best I could do and that’s okay! Enjoy what you’re learning and follow your own interests, don’t allow yourself to compare what you want to know to what someone else already knows - they also had to learn it at one point!
Hi Vee fellow Zimbabwean woman living in Canada here. This year I got accepted into my dream medical school. I had (and still have) all of the “imposter” feelings and fears you’re experiencing. It’s normal to feel that way and remember that you’re on this path for a reason- trust yourself, trust the path your ancestors guided you towards. You were chosen out of many because you deserve to be there. Once you start classes you’ll realize you are exactly where you’re meant to be. You are going to do amazing and incredible things!!! You’re also going to meet incredible people (btw not everybody has it together as they make it seem). Never let go of your passion of wanting to change the world. I believe that you absolutely will!!! ❤️
“The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do”
Remember that ❤️
Vee, you are such an inspiration and I'm positive you're going to STRIVE at Harvard. We believe in you!!! :)
Yeaaaaaaa😎 you're right.
Vee Kativhu ❤️❤️
@@drveekativhu love u too😽😽
it's crazy how you can think "this is it" when you get into your dream school, but then when you actually get there you have so many new doubts you had not foreseen AT ALL. Actually, this is not crazy, this is absolutely human...even the best of us doubt themselves and fear they won't be enough, but I am CONVINCED you will make this work and figure all of this out along the way :) I know that right now it's all blurry and scary, but just remember that you were accepted for a GOOD REASON. they did not accept you to be nice, or because they have this image of you which isn't you, they accepted you because you DESERVE it, you absolutely do, and because they think that however younger you are, YOU CAN DO THIS. I am sure you can, and you will. This is something you are passionate about, and so you will STRIVE to be the best, like you always have. And in a few years you'll look back at this video and smile benignly at 22-year-old Vee, so worried and so willing to do well that she kept on striving, did not take her dream school for granted and proved them all that if you want something and if you work hard for it, and persevere through whatever storms come your way, you CAN DO IT. We're all behind you Vee, you're going to be GREAT !! xx
Honestly, the fact that you have these worries in the first place shows that you don’t need to worry. It’s always the people who aren’t worried about having a good schedule that have a bad one! because they don’t care enough. All your anxieties are completely justified, but just know that your fear of disappointment means that you will not allow yourself to slip into a bad place and get really behind. I’m sure it won’t be easy, but your anxieties come from caring so much, and caring so much means that you will succeed.
"so young and unexperienced".. but so smart and determined!! Your passion and love for the people and the cause that you are educating yourself for will make you sharp and so involved that you will rapidly forget these fears.. It will be great! You will be great! And you will love every subject and every second of your online lectures, I'm sure..
@@drveekativhu ❤
As a 50 something old dear about to embark on a Masters with the OU I totally get this. The difference is that I will be looking at all the bright young things and their young brains and thinking that I can’t possibly keep up.
You will succeed because your motivation is pure. You care which is why you’re nervous. There is nothing wrong with that. Channel those nerves and that passion and never be afraid of being young!!! Go smash it.
I think being young, optimistic and fresh out of undergrad is actually one of your biggest strengths. You are likely right in that most of your peers will be older and have more experience, but that will be something that make the experience more valuable, since you’ll be hearing so many new perspectives and learning from them as well as your professors. I think the same can be said for you as well! You are bright, incredibly intelligent and full of optimism and your experience with Oxford and this channel have given you a perspective your classmates deserve to hear! Even though it’s scary, You need to face that fear of not sounding intelligent enough and share your thoughts, as they are sure to benefit others as well. Harvard took you for a reason and the fact that you are young and ambitious is certainly part of it! Best of luck Vee! I know you are going to be wonderful :)
I spent the whole year worrying I will spell colour instead of color. Switching my computer’s region to the US was helpful.
Vee, everything you’re experiencing is so natural, shopping week is one of the most stressful experiences, once you have your schedule down and get used to how things work you will have the mental space and time to make the most of it! *big hug*
Vee, the scheduling of classes is NOT your responsibility! It’s THEIRS. They will not schedule anything that is at 3am in UK! Don’t worry . You will make the most of it, because you always have!
I don't want to be a downer but some well known unis have held exams on Saturday and Sunday mornings so I'm not sure about this...
Also, I think what Vee meant was something like what if a professor told that there was going to be a mandatory lecture or exam, but announced it when Vee was sleeping? When she wakes up she'll possibly have a panic attack due to the few hours left to prepare :(
@@taniamanik2012 the UK is 5-9 hours ahead of the US, depending on where in the US we're talking about, so any morning things will be at a decent time in the UK. But I see how the later things would be a concern
taniamanik2012 I don’t think that Harvard Uni has not factored in these things. I’m sure they’d have a plan and would give a decent amount of time and a proper schedule. Also the last line can be triggering for people who are already stressed but ok, it’s your call.
@@aradhanavarma5109 Sorry, I wasn't intending on triggering anyone :( I was just trying to state what might possibly happen in a worst case scenario
by the sheer fact that you are worried about taking your opportunity for granted, it’s clear you aren’t and that you won’t!! While it’s so normal to have all these concerns (I deffo do for going into my second year of under grad all online) you are going to absolutely THRIVE and do so well and make yourself so proud!☺️
Hey Vee. I can really understand how you feel. - Next week I'm moving to another country, to study my dream career (classical Piano).
I'm moving to a place where the culture is different than mine, where the language is German instead of English or Spanish which is my mother language. - The fear of being unaccepted is so normal in situations like this. In my experience, I tend to worry a lot, and after, once I'm in the situation everything it's and get's better.
All my best energy to you, and sending a virtual hug :-D.
The fact you are the youngest is incredibly impressive and I totally think that people generally do take younger people under their wing also don't let imposter syndrome get to you!
Lol we have the same name its rare that I see someone with the same name as me
@@e.1544 Oh my goodness Yes I have met one person and though lovely she was 70!
@@ruthblack8411 Good you have a lovely hope you know what it means lol
11. Finally, rest assured. Your professors DO NOT want you to fail!!! AT ALL! If you are confused or behind or ANYTHING - use the option to ask questions. If there isn’t time in class, or you would prefer not to in front of everyone else - USE those office hours AND, as this time it is all online, USE the Discussion section of your classes AND use the email contacts provided too. Professors and Lecturers WANT to help their students succeed! I promise!!
I started my master's last year, when I was 22 as well (I'm from Brazil, my university is USP). I was the youngest of my group. I felt this sense of impropriety a lot! Very insecure, questioning what I was doing, what was the point, etc. However, what has kept me going is the constant exercise of being kind to myself, realizing that Master's is a learning oportunity. I feel like i've learned more in a year of masters than 4 years of undergraduate. I am sure that you will succed! You are so mature and hard-working! Don't worry and keep going.
What you said at the beginning is so true - it’s so true that hearing someone else is experiencing the same things is weirdly ‘comforting’. I’m starting Oxford in October, and am sharing a lot of the same fears! You’ll smash Harvard :)
Hey! I'm in the exact same boat, starting Oxford in October (unless I defer - still haven't decided and the deadline is tomorrow!) I feel just the same and it's so nice to see this community in the comments all sharing the same feelings!
@@naomiworth4551 Hi! Which college and what subject?! Good luck with the decision!! I'm doing chemistry at Pembroke, and we weren't given the option to defer, they just took more people which I am kinda glad about! Good luck with your decision!!
Hello! I am going to do Maths and Philosophy at Corpus Christi. I thought everyone could choose. I guess it would be easier not to have any option but it's a privileged choice to get to make so I still feel really blessed.
@@naomiworth4551 Good luck with the decision :), maybe I'll see you over the next few years!!
@@EllaGreenwood22 Thanks, I've decided not to defer. So maybe I'll see you around at Ox this year! :)
7. So, unlike in England, your grade DOES NOT simply come down to a set of single exams!!!! You will have classwork, group work, reports, projects and exams, all of which will come together to form your grade. Now, as things are all online this year, you may not end up with much in the way of group work, but everything else WILL be outlines for you on the syllabus so DON’T miss the first days of class FOR SURE.
Vee please remember that you were selected for Harvard because they deemed you talented enough to be there and do this course! You have accomplished so so much, it's so easy to slip into not feeling like you will add enough to the conversation especially when age is brought into it but you are more than capable 💛💛 it's a shame that you can't be in Harvard at the moment but you never know - maybe there will be the chance to visit later on in the academic year and your passion and drive will definitely shine through! You can do this!💖💖
vee, i don’t have any inspirational or mind blowing advice but i KNOW you’re gonna do great. my first impression of you almost a year ago was literally “wow, she’e so humble and bubbly but also incredibly smart” and still is. this is just another chapter of your life that you’ll look back and be proud of in the future. i know you’ll do great! good luck ❤️
You're such a ray of sunshine. Because people harbour their own fear, it's so much easier for them to disassociate from their true worth. You are wonderful and I have no doubt you are going to thrive throughout your course - Harvard wouldn't have accepted you otherwise. Right now, fear and growing pains are overwhelming but only resilience and growth will come out of it xx
I think how you're feeling is completely normal, I'm feeling the same way and it was comforting to hear that I am not completely alone in that feeling. I'll be starting my post-grad course at Cambridge in the next week and the anxiety is real. But you've just got to keep in mind that you are living the dreams of your past self, and you are capable of more than you know! Thank you for uploading this, it's been a big help!
You seem to be the kind of person that thrives when presented with a challenge. Look how far you have come. You deserve this and deserve to be confident that you belong there. On contributing ideas remember that your not only there to learn from the professor but the students too. As much as you will be interested in their ideas they will be interesting in yours. The best piece of advice i ever had is not to forget who you are and what you can do. On a side note you skin is glowing!
Girl I feel you 1000%.
I decided to have a gap year after graduating university before I start my postgrad next year. I have no regrets for my decisions, especially considering how a bit crazy the world is at the moment, but I feel very uncertain (or even insecure) about whether I can catch up with the academic environment and whether I am capable of carrying on to higher level.
It seems to me that you have a very clear vision of what you want to do and I believe that will be a huge motivator for you. You are a clever young woman and you have at least 160k people who support you ❤️
I personally hope I can find my own vision for life soon so I can have at least a bit more certainty or confidence with my postgrad 😅
You were so right about sharing this! I wish I could give you a hug... Selfdoubt is a part of life. I've always been that one girl who doesn't know the practical details, but I've experienced that passion for what you're doing goes above all else. I wish you all the best
When we feel scared out of our depth it's a sign that we're taking a plunge into *Growth*. You have an amazing opportunity ahead of you, and being scared means you're taking it seriously. It's totally normal to be scared! But make sure that fear becomes a motivation to learn and grow and not something that holds you back. Masters programmes are difficult in normal years (mine definitely was), let alone in 2020, and it will be difficult and you will make mistakes. But you will also learn a lot from what you do, and you will grow from it. And that's the most exciting thing. So embrace that fear, and transform it into your motivation to grow into someone wiser and learn new things about your subject and yourself. Go get 'em!!
Hi Vee, I'm starting HGSE with you in a couple days (MBE woot!). I completely resonate with all of your fears, especially the one about falling behind. Our Slack channel moves so quickly, I hope our classes aren't the same way 😔 I've spoken to a couple classmates and we all feel this way, you aren't the only one. We got this!
Hi Vee,
First of all I wish you all the goodluck and I'm sure you're gonna smash it!
Trust me when I say I know what you're going trough right now, I'm too about to start in two days (I am Studyding European Studies, which is for me another 4 years of education and it will be completely in English, as a Dutch girl this makes me feel overwhelmed and nervous). Just know that if you're determined and you give it you 100% then there is nothing stopping you from getting that diploma.❤💪🏻
*Sending you a virtual hug from The Netherlands*
It is indeed very comforting to know that even the people I look out to (you) have the same feelings and insecurities. Thanks for sharing this with us. I wish you could see yourself through our eyes for one minute. We all here are pretty sure you will thrive ✨
You are an inspiration!!! I’m currently in college too working on an Associates and to transfer and I’m in the same boat of feeling like my time management and the feeling of being so overwhelmed all goes into my stress of what my transcript will look like. But the days keep going and they don’t stop going, so it will be a challenge but it’s human! You are so much more than capable and willing! I love your videos they’ve helped me so much
You got this Vee! I kinda relate in the sense of having older classmates. I started at a community college at 19 and most of my peers were 3-10 years older than me. Even with that said, we got along great, and we became close friends. Being young doesn't mean you're not capable, and you will change the world!
Vee, thank you so much for sharing this! I am also starting my master's this year - I'll be going to Oxford as a Canadian student. I am feeling every single thing you've mentioned, so I really appreciate hearing you speak so candidly about your fears. You are such an inspiration and it is so nice to know that we're feeling the same way! Harvard is lucky to have you! 💕
Vee, you beat out 95-98% of other applicants for your spot. Know that you KILLED it these past four years, and that you'll kill it during grad school. You're one step closer to changing the world for the better, and we are all so happy for you! You deserve this so so much, and you should know that! You're going to be incredible!
I’m just starting this video now, but I know this is going to be so comforting. I’m starting midwifery next month and I’m terrified, being online is daunting, and my course in general is daunting too. Thank you for sharing I know this will help me hearing someone is worried too.
Olivia Steventon I’m starting children’s nursing so I feel you!! It won’t be easy but it will be worth it
Thanks for sharing your fears Vee because I’m feeling the exact same way. This video and the comment section really helped me calm down and focus on what’s important, why I’m doing this and what I’ll do to get there. If I can just take little steps every day I’m sure I’ll get to the end of my first year and think, you got there in the end :)
I've been feeling bad all day (and week tbh) about school starting tomorrow. like you said as well, I just don't feel like myself. thank you so much for this. I'm sure we're both just worrying about nothing and everything will turn out fine tomorrow. I wish u the best and again thank you for this xxx
Vee, your jitters and nervousness are perfectly normal. Just remember that you aren't alone, other people in the world are in the same situation as you. At the end of the day, a person can only handle so much and if you make a mistake, well then you learn from it and move on like a boss. Be the confident boss queen I know you are and remember all the positiveness. If you are ever down, look through the comments and you will be surrounded by the positive feedback from your fans. I'm a Junior in High School and I was sooooo nervous and terrified, but you will build trust with other fellow colleagues. Just remember YOU GOT THIS!
well, I relate to your fears so much... especially the feeling young, being afraid to speak up as I also went directly from undergrad to graduate school last year...although I still feel a bit like that, with thesis writing and all, I will tell you what some of my colleagues told me: "no one does what you do like you. That's valuable." Your perspectives on things are framed by your background, and that's valuable. you can do it! ✨ You have the most important thing: passion! (even if something doesn't go according to plan, hang on to that passion and you'll always be able to redraw your path)
You are going to do an amazing job! Everyone is going to love your positive energy! All the very best to you! You got this! 🙌🙌
If it helps in any way at all, just know that even if you feel unprepared, there are others who look at you and see the wonderful amazing lady who's going to change the world! Last semester I began grad school for engineering. I won't lie, it's been very rough. I won't bore you with details but I do suffer from ADHD, depression, and general financial difficulties. I've fought every step of the way to get to where I am and sometimes my determination seems to run out, like a sputtering engine. I discovered your channel around last March. I don't know how to describe it, but with every video you upload, I've been reminded of why I love learning and why education is so important. You just have this incredible healing energy about you. Your hard working ethic, even when faced with stressful situations, are so raw and powerful. I value not only the videos where you give us helpful information but also the ones where you choose to let us see you struggle through your assignments. Not because I like you struggling - I wish you could have a stress-free life as much as possible - but because seeing you persevere despite it all reminds me of the feats women can accomplish when they set their minds to it. Thank you for sharing your life with us
Wishing you the best as you begin your studies at Harvard Vee!!! You will excel! I know that you’ll learn from fellow students you mentioned will being years of experience in the education field to graduate study, but always remember that you have a REALLY innovative and creative and bold platform where you’ve been working as an advocate for students, inspiring a community from around the world, hosting events, collaborating with companies like LinkedIn - your fellow graduate students will want to hear about your innovation and perspective, education needs this now, I’d argue more than ever, you are bringing so much to the space. Thanks for sharing your honest feelings in this video, you’re encouraging so many people getting ready for something new by letting them know they’re not alone. Looking forward to updates!!!
Tysm vee u have honestly made me consider harvard i have always wanted to apply for oxford but some people dont really believe in me but you have inspired me to even strive for harvard!!! Thank you so much you dont know how helpful you are!
Please always share these types of videos this was so so relatable 😩💕
Hi Vee:
I am going to do my best to help with some of those fears and anxieties, as an American, who went to graduate school a little bit older (in America), who was working a full time job simultaneously and whose background degree was in Microbiology and Immunology but graduate degree was in Clinical Child Psychology. Yes - it was a passion and I chose purposefully.
So:
1. The MOST IMPORTANT information to know for your program is: Everyone is just as overwhelmed as you. No matter their age, MOST people have not done a graduate degree yet when they choose to do a Master. Yes, some of them will have worked in education already- but more on that in a moment - but none of them will have done a Masters in Education whether from Harvard or anywhere else, so they may “seem” to know what they are doing - they do not - they are starting fresh from the same point as you.
It's so comforting to know that someone else feels a similar way !! I'm starting Oxford in October as a first year and I fELT you on these worries so thank you for being so honest and vulnerable about this x
My lovely, you work so dam hard you’ve got the grades to get in and the work ethic and you are going to use this masters to change the world around you. You deserve to be there.
You will get used to the new work flow but please please don’t burn your self out remember rest when you can!
Sending virtual hugs ❤️
Also, thank you for posting so consistently lately!!! Been loving your recent content! :))
All your feelings are valid!!!!!, I've been watching you for so long and you've always been so brave and strong, glad and honoured to see you break down ur walls for us, ur like a role model to me and I will pray for you that God helps you ease ur nerves. Love you Vee🥺👉🏾👈🏾💖
Ahh Vee! Thank you for making this video! I'm applying for postgrad and have similar worries, but you're so right about strength and comfort in numbers. :) It's okay to be nervous but I think you're going to do really well! You've accomplished amazing things already and have the experience!
Vee, your intellect, passion, drive and sincerity surpass every fear you've mentioned today!!! Take each day as it comes, youre going to be amazing 👏 we're rooting for you x
Hi Vee! First, you really do seem to be glowing and thriving, despite your anxiousness due to the topic of the video! Second, I’m so glad that I’m starting this journey with you in a sense; I am also starting my postgrad in a couple weeks, straight out of undergrad. I can relate to so much of what you said, but now I’m also thinking about my own specific fears. In any case, continue thriving!!
We believe in you, Vee! We know that you will ace Harvard! Worries and fears are normal especially you are entering a new chapter of your life, but always remember that we are always here for you! You can do it! Fighting! 💪🏻😊
Hi Vee!
Only thing that I want to say to you is You're my best inspiration. Now I'm in high school. I have been watching u for 1 year and I can say you thought me a lot. Thank u for this and good luck at Harvard!
Hi Vee! I’m also starting at HGSE this fall (Language & Literacy) and found your channel recently. I am feeling the exact same way about missing dates and meetings-I think a lot of us are feeling confused and overwhelmed right now. We’re all kind of figuring it out as we go-you’ve got this!
And as a student who is above 25 (I’m 27), I will say that you definitely have an advantage going right from undergrad to a graduate program. I have to learn how to be a student all over again! One thing I really love about HGSE so far is that everyone brings their own experience, background, and ideas to the community and together we can all learn from each other. So even if you’re a younger student, you still bring your own ideas and perspective, and that is really really important!
Rooting for you. 💕
Oh Vee, thanks for sharing your fears with us. You are the definition of feeling the fear and doing it anyway. You belong at Harvard and you are encouraging so many people to strive for it as well. So excited for you!
Vee, you are a PHENOMENAL student! You, an individual from a deprived area, progressed onto not only Oxford, but also Harvard?! You have the academic capabilities and drive to thrive in the Harvard environment. I wish you the best of luck and thank you for everything you have done for me so far ❤️
Girl I totally feel you, you’re not alone! I started my new school year three weeks ago and I was also nervous but because it is now my second year I’m not that scared but still I have some self doubt on some days!
I’m watching this on my lunch break because I too need some enlightenment but I didn’t expect the little scream at the end and I just winced and had to laugh about it! I didn’t care for the people who were passing me in that moment.
So BIG thank you and I know this is a long text but if you read I wish you THE BEST for Harvard! You certainly do it❤️❤️
*WILL certainly do it!
I am new to education and will be going through this year with vee for the first time and the reason for this is cause I've been watching your videos on and off and you've been inspiring me I've never seen no one work as hard and enjoys it like you. Vee God won't give you more than you can handle, I am nervous too but hey let's do this togheder.
I really feel you- I’m going into my final year studying Education and I feel under pressure to go straight into classrooms and teach for the rest of my life... when I really want to study a masters in Educational Disadvantage and Inequality and make a change at a systemic level. That’s where my passion and aspirations lie but I also know that a lot of people on the prospective masters courses have gotten so much life and academic experience under their belt. You are voicing all my concerns and helping me to feel more at ease- thank you for sharing 🥰
OMG, I studied History and Education. So I'm a History Teacher but I don't felt really comfortable teaching big schools but people believe that I studied like the wrong subject but most I like is about the same that you. I really want to work helping disadvantaged students in their education. I really feel your comment.
Nataly Ramirez I am similar too. I will be studying a Masters in Education but with the aim of working in the special educational needs and disabilities (pastoral/academic support/administration) field as opposed to teaching!
Sorry but I'm really interest in your master idea about Education and Inequality. Have you see some universities?? I'M from from South America so I only know the most famous ones but it sounds what I want.
Nataly Ramirez I’m from Ireland so it’s a specialist route you can do in various universities such as University College Dublin or Trinity College Dublin 🥰
Vee, thank you for making this video. I am starting a new graduate program at Harvard too (not the same one). I have a lot of the same worries as you. I don't really have any wise advice to give because I'm in the same position as you with the same fears, but I just wanted to let you (and anyone else who relates to this video) know that you are not alone and that many many many people are feeling this way. We will make the most of each day as it comes and in doing that, one day at a time, we will have made the most of the whole year.
Hi Vee,
I am going to Corpus Christi Oxford to do Maths and Philosophy. This is a huge dream of mine and I am so nervous about it. This video really helped me. Your content has helped give me the confidence to feel that Oxford is accessible to me. Seeing you struggle with the exact same thoughts and the same overthinking in loops over and over really helped me to feel like I'm not alone! Thank you so much Vee - you are an inspiration!!! ❤️❤️❤️😊 God bless you! You are going to smash it and I'm so happy for you!
It's nice to know that sometimes we all struggle with the same fears and worries. You got this, Vee! :)
I spent a term studying in Canada, which I believe is very similar to the US in how you study (I studied History and just graduated!).
I would highly recommend checking on the Harvard website to see if they have a writing centre, where you can book in and have them check over your work.
I found this particularly helpful because in Canada I had to find a new style of writing, as we had to create reports and feedback on books - very different from UK essays! The writing centre checked over my work to make sure it was suitable, and helped me check my references etc.
Also, ask your professors there! They are usually happy to help international students.
Best of luck x
I'm so proud of you, Vee!
We love you Vee! Will be supporting you through and through and there’s no doubt you’re gunna do amazingly!!! Harvarddd!! You did that girl
you are an inspiration! i hope in a year from now when you’ve graduated and are on your way to changing the world you react to this video and laugh at all the nerves. Keep killing it!❤️and thank you for all your videos
Thank you for doing this. So important to know that you’re normal and feel just as scared as everyone else! It’s completely normal but we all convince ourselves we’re the only ones. You’re amazing, start believing it!
You got this! Just be true to you and don't hold back. I love the card written to yourself ideal; it's is cool! I hope to watch in next year🙂
If you care this much about succeeding at Harvard, you're going to do amazing. You clearly have the passion, you got this :)
I just want to let u know WE KNOW THAT U CAN DO IT!! Ur such an inspiration for me and I look up to u so much! This is such a big opportunity, try to not overthink it and just enjoy the ride!❤️
Thank you for sharing that!! It's so awesome to see that I am not alone in this overthinking kinda situation. And yes, you are not alone in this too, buttt all of these fears are fake, you are going to do great!! Such an inspiration to me, good luck! ☺️❤️
Thank you so much for being so vulnerable Vee. As someone who cares deeply about academia but also gets really anxious and doubts myself this is really comforting. Love you❤️❤️
I’m moving to Liverpool next week for my masters & I feel you, girl! I’m 21, fresh out of undergrad and definitely have no idea what I’m doing. I’m scared of not keeping up & having to hold down my part-time job at same time. Keeping my fingers crossed for you
All the bestt Vee. You will figure things out as you go and become more familiar with working on a masters level. I am currently doing my first year of a masters degree in South Africa and I had to adapt with working under lockdown regulation. Remember that when doing a masters time management is super important.
Thanks so much for making this video, Vee. I think as girls especially we all feel imposter syndrome at times even if we are more than qualified to do what we’re doing, LIKE YOU ARE, VEE!!! You’re gonna absolutely ace Harvard, and I can’t wait to see where this journey takes you 🤗✨
Hi Vee!
I am about to start my postgrad at UCL in September which is mainly going to be delivered online. I feel the exact same way as you and your video was so relatable! Hopefully we will be able to figure it out :)x
I'm starting uni in October. I'm going to study Finnish philology in one of the best universities in my country. I'm VERY nervous and anxious. I'm stressed that I won't keep up, people will be much better, much confident than me. I'm afraid I won't be able to open myself and speak during classes. I also feel like I won't meet anyone in a totally new city, that I'll be alone. Ahhh! But trying to stay positive. We all will be great (I hope so)!! :)
Dont worry sis, you've got this!
Girl you’ve literally listed all my fears. Thanks for sharing! I feel just so done of the hole social media facade, but with you I do feel a connection and admiration because I can relate not only in the goods but in the bads. You’re gonna kill it, have fun and be the most hardworking. 😘😘😘😘😘😘
every single time i watch one of your videos i get inspired :)) im watching it before i sleep now, and tomorrow im gonna be productive and organized
Vee, my older sister felt the exact same way you did when she got into her pHD program. She was the youngest person in her cohort and she was scared that she would be looked down upon by her peers. This had the opposite effect where it actually made her look more impressive in their eyes because they had work experiences and life experiences that made them candidates in the eyes of William and Mary (the uni she goes to) and yet she didn't have those and just breezed through her undergraduate, masters, and now was working on her pHD with diligence. I'm sure your peers will look at you and see the smart, resilient, hardworking, and passionate side of you when they see you. Of course there will be a gap between you and them but there are gaps between them and everyone else too. All that matters is that you find the people who you will get along with the best and make sure you create those connections because they may last for the rest of your life. Hope that helps :)
Vee!! Thank you so much for uploading this! You are such an inspiration to me and you have motivated me to be a better student ! I am starting my second year of undergrad and I have never been more stressed! However your video has made me feel so much better knowing I’m not the only one feeling all of these feelings! But we GOT this! Best of luck!
Vee, I’m in a similar situation, I’m about to start my engineering undergraduate degree at UEA and I’m terrified. Thanks for sharing your thoughts I’m glad I’m not the only one feeling this way. Good luck I’m sure you will smash it at Harvard ❤️
Vee, you're such an inspiration for me. Thanks for making this video, and mannn I'm scared as well even for undergrad! In life we can be certain of anything, but personally I trust God is looking after us, and we'll be find doing our best! While God do the rest!
Hey, I just wanted to drop this message to wish you good luck for this morning (as you’re starting your course in a few hours time). You’re going to be/ do amazing (your best is enough). Thank you for your energy, I look forward to the next update. x
Hey Vee - I’m due to start my masters at Cambridge in October and I’m feeling exactly the same. Thank you so much for making this video - it’s really helped me to feel that I’m not on my own in feeling so apprehensive
You'll be alright
I wrote this for myself so that I don't lose focus "so many new things to learn, filling in the bigger picture, making so much sense"
We. All. Believe. In. You 🌌
OMG!! I literally cried, i'm going through the exact feelings. Please allow me to share my fears here. I'm an international student who will be travelling to the UK to study M.A in Education too, and it scares me that I haven't gotten my visa yet, scared of being in a total new place, doubting if it is really worth it? as I'm relying solely on my personal savings. Scared of feeling "not good enough". Also I don't know if I should have studied online instead of travelling abroad! the list can go on and on :(
...... hope this makes you feel better lol.
I'm sure you'll do amazing in England it takes a lot of courage to move to another country. I hope you get your visa soon and education is an investment so although it will expensive I hope it pays off and provides you with new opportunities. Sending you lots of love. I'll be starting uni in September too 😊.
Kaltun Suleiman Thank you so much for that it’s actually so comforting🧡 best of luck to you too🙌🙌
Assan Kasim same..
I'm about to start Oxford in October and this is literally how I feel. Like EVERY single thing you mentioned, I'm like yup
Kwabena congratulations on your acceptance :)
Aww congrats I’m sure you’ll do great, lol I read your name and I’m just gassed that there will be more Ghanaians representing. You’ll do amazing 💕
Congrats! I’m starting at Oxford in October too :)
I love the card idea, it’s such a good way to see how you’ve grown after big experiences
hey Vee, take a deep breath because you everything is going to be ok. Just be sure that you are capable of doing Harvard. It’s okay to feel nervous and overwhelmed. We’re all with you and we all got your back :)
Oh bless you, I can really sense just how worried you are 😕 be brave Vee you can do this 💕
thank you for sharing your fears! i'm starting my PhD program online next week and am nervous about starting online as well. i can only imagine the extra stress from being abroad on top of it. I'm wishing you luck and I know you've got this! you'll figure it all out, just take it one day at a time.
Hey Vee, I’m starting (remotely) at MIT grad school tomorrow too.. very scared and overwhelmed about it, I appreciate you sharing your fears (which I also have) as I felt like I wasn’t going through this alone. Thank you
Good luck Vee! Erase all fears .. you got this! You will flourish regardless!!
I am currently in my 3rd week in a new job and honestly so many of the fears you shared align with my fears and stress with a new, unfamiliar job. Thank you for sharing ❤️
I am on my second semester of my postgraduate degree and I just literally asked for a week extension on my first assignment because I am so unwell mentally, emotionally, intelectually and academically, so here I am. Thank you for sharing your insecurities and fears, Vee. You are an inspiration.
Oh my, you read this! If I may add, Vee, it's not like I'm afraid I will fail. I can graduate first class from the marks I got in the first semester. Maybe I am perfectionist. But I know when I am unwell and I decide to put myself first because I am the one who need to do this degree. If I am to help others, I will start with taking a very good care of myself. :)
Vee, I don’t think I know anyone who’s more determined to get this done. You got this gorgeous!!!
Hey Vee, even tho everyone else is much older and more experienced than you look at this an opportunity to elevate yourself much more than you would had in a class with people that come from a similar background than you. It might be tough at first but that’s because you just need to learn. You able, capable, intelligent and know when to speak up when you need help. Use that to your advantage and you will grow and make it through ❤️
I feel you. I am starting my gcse's and I have more or less the same fears but I cannot compare how stressed you are compared to my situation as you are literally going to HARVARD like WHAT?? We are all right behind you here and we are supporting you the whole way as you have helped to support us through your videos!!!
YOU GOT THIS MAMA!!! We love you ❤️
I felt SO ill when I started my MA, the imposter syndrome was overwhelming because most of my cohort were older/sponsored by NATO/their home country government etc. But I had to realise that I was accepted for a reason, and I could only do the best I could do and that’s okay! Enjoy what you’re learning and follow your own interests, don’t allow yourself to compare what you want to know to what someone else already knows - they also had to learn it at one point!
Hi Vee fellow Zimbabwean woman living in Canada here. This year I got accepted into my dream medical school. I had (and still have) all of the “imposter” feelings and fears you’re experiencing. It’s normal to feel that way and remember that you’re on this path for a reason- trust yourself, trust the path your ancestors guided you towards. You were chosen out of many because you deserve to be there. Once you start classes you’ll realize you are exactly where you’re meant to be. You are going to do amazing and incredible things!!! You’re also going to meet incredible people (btw not everybody has it together as they make it seem). Never let go of your passion of wanting to change the world. I believe that you absolutely will!!! ❤️