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  • Villagers React To A Typical American Wedding ! Tribal People React To A Beautiful Wedding in USA
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  • @gmunden1
    @gmunden1 2 роки тому +153

    This is a casual wedding designed by the couple. There are formal church weddings, destination weddings, beach weddings, etc. Make sure the villagers understand that each type of wedding depends on the beliefs of the couple.

    • @alwaystakemarktwainsadvice4269
      @alwaystakemarktwainsadvice4269 2 роки тому +12

      And most importantly, the cost.

    • @alphega1983
      @alphega1983 2 роки тому +6

      @@alwaystakemarktwainsadvice4269 Cost is a huge factor in how a wedding is done. I have 2 sisters and a brother and all of there weddings were very reflective of there individual wealth. From the lowest to the highest.

    • @daftoptmst
      @daftoptmst 2 роки тому +8

      I want them to see a formal wedding. They would be amazed. My cousin's wedding cost $25,000

    • @marycarver1542
      @marycarver1542 Рік тому +1

      I would have liked them to see a typical UK wedding, in Church, with a vicar
      and being able to hear the vows and responses. This American wedding
      looks like a casual non event !

  • @trumphatesyou
    @trumphatesyou 2 роки тому +90

    Babu should be a worldwide 🌟! The respect that everyone on here gives him is unquestionably the reason I watch your videos. Peace to the 🌎!

    • @kf9346
      @kf9346 2 роки тому

      Babu the wisdom of a sage and the wonder of a child.

  • @gloriamoore3208
    @gloriamoore3208 2 роки тому +204

    In America, USA, there is no such thing as typical. With the blending of different cultures as well as regional differences, it is rare to find weddings to be exactly alike.

    • @gloriamoore3208
      @gloriamoore3208 2 роки тому +9

      I've never seen these games at a wedding, But I'm from Michigan, USA. Maybe in a warmer climate?
      I never been to a wedding that serve that selection of food. Did they have a morning wedding?

    • @malcolmdrake6137
      @malcolmdrake6137 2 роки тому +9

      Well, that's gives them a false idea now, because, yes, weddings in America are mostly identical, wherever you go...

    • @gloriamoore3208
      @gloriamoore3208 2 роки тому +6

      Cake cutting wasn't recorded. I never seen breakfast items at a wedding. I have seen a choice of meat, vegetables, side dishes later dessert, and wedding cake.

    • @Seek1878
      @Seek1878 2 роки тому +10

      Well most follow the basic traditions, white dress, vows, reception, cake, etc.

    • @jdb101585
      @jdb101585 2 роки тому +4

      Right? You might have a small wedding on the beach or a big formal dinner or a massive hall with dancing and buffets. It can be just about anything.

  • @kf9346
    @kf9346 2 роки тому +5

    I always love how ecited these guys get watching other people's happiness!

  • @gojiberry7201
    @gojiberry7201 2 роки тому +117

    I like this video because it represents more of a everyday type of wedding with real people, not these blown-up, super expensive affairs that are glamorized on TV (i.e. Bridezilla haha). On another note, I just found out that one of my coworkers watches Common Man Show too! You guys are awesome

    • @acommentator4452
      @acommentator4452 2 роки тому

      but if that is their house, or their parents' house, they must be quite rich. it's all relative, i guess.

    • @aleatharhea
      @aleatharhea 2 роки тому +11

      @a commentator I'm gonna go out on a limb and say they're not rich, based on the numerous money-saving paths they took. That could well be a rented location, like an arboretum, which was a very affordable choice for my own wedding.

    • @qwazse4
      @qwazse4 2 роки тому +4

      My second son and his wife rented a similar location that provided the space only. Her cousins set the chairs, tables, decorations, etc … and they cleaned up at the end.

    • @blackpinkblinkfam7197
      @blackpinkblinkfam7197 2 роки тому +2

      Well I never been to a wedding like this all the one so been too been “super expensive affairs that are glamorized on tv” lol this came off as boring to me based off the others one I been too

    • @huyquoctran2088
      @huyquoctran2088 2 роки тому +1

      I spend around $30k usd for my wedding reception banquet but when it all ended at 1am , we got over $55k 😂. People don’t bring money for american weddings right as a gift?

  • @emilywilson9964
    @emilywilson9964 2 роки тому +16

    I enjoyed this! I’d be interested to see their thoughts on a church wedding.

  • @yumbean
    @yumbean 2 роки тому +15

    This video feels like perfect timing because I’m getting married this Saturday!☺️

    • @hiheeledsneakers
      @hiheeledsneakers 2 роки тому +2

      Congratulations!!! Wishing you the best life has to offer! 💞

    • @yumbean
      @yumbean 2 роки тому +1

      @@hiheeledsneakers thank you!!🙌😊

    • @littleredhairedgirlsteph3922
      @littleredhairedgirlsteph3922 2 роки тому +1

      Exciting! Congratulations!

    • @huyquoctran2088
      @huyquoctran2088 2 роки тому

      For most asian or hispanic people , we go all out since we get back majority of the money. Guest brings cash as a gift: usually $100 per person so we make it all back at the end of the wedding.
      I spend around $30k usd for my wedding reception banquet but when it all ended at 1am , we got over $55k 😂. People don’t bring money for american weddings right as a gift?

    • @yumbean
      @yumbean 2 роки тому

      @@huyquoctran2088 typically for American weddings you would make a gift registry and people can buy gifts from that list for the couple. Some guests decide to give money as well but it’s less common.

  • @focu2567
    @focu2567 2 роки тому +45

    Demonstrating affection between loved friends and family of all ages and gender is totally normal. We include women and children in all festivities, celebrations and dancing. The enjoyments is shared together side by side by everyone not just the men. We also know our partners face way before the honeymoon night.

    • @Shivathedestroyer04
      @Shivathedestroyer04 2 роки тому +17

      Well it's not about men or women....the thing is kissing in public is considered taboo because people in India think love is a private thing and should be done in private places and not in public places...and people also think that two people showing love in public places will affect children and will also make many people uncomfortable (just like babu got uncomfortable with that)

    • @Dinaciety
      @Dinaciety 2 роки тому +22

      @@Shivathedestroyer04 I think normal kissing ( not like making out) and holding hands and showing affection should be normalised. How would normal loving affection affect kid in a bad way? Two humans who love each other and give a light kiss, hold hands or hug is NOT THE SAME AS FUKING IN PUBLIC.

    • @bobbiejojackson9448
      @bobbiejojackson9448 2 роки тому

      @Shroombert What are you, like 12? Have some respect or don't bother to comment at all. Traditions are different around the world and what one culture sees as "normal " might not be seen in the same way by another. And that F-bomb you obviously dropped for effect at the end, only makes you look immature and ignorant. Grow up!

    • @marivik1018
      @marivik1018 2 роки тому +13

      @@Dinaciety its about culture thats the ways their culture sees it doesn't make it right or wrong just different from your view plus there are people who feel uncomfortable with public displays of affection evan here in US it just depends on how you were raised and again doesn't make it right or wrong just different what is normal to some might not be normal to others all depends on upbringing life experiences and different perspectives

    • @focu2567
      @focu2567 2 роки тому +17

      @@marivik1018in my own opinion, I find it very sad that crimes, indignation, cruelty ís so well tolerated sometimes even accepted and practiced, open for discussion. But viewing a video of friends and family openly showing love and affection for each other is uncomfortable and causes embarrassment SAD af

  • @monicapdx
    @monicapdx 2 роки тому +32

    Not typical, no, but still beautiful. I'm appalled at some of the comments. This is the kind of wedding the bride and groom wanted. So it wasn't hugely formal and expensive; what's wrong with that? You could see their happiness, and the joy of the family and friends. That's what's important. Our guys showed they're true gentlemen by being accepting of what must have mostly been completely strange to them, unlike some of the commenters!
    Learning from Babu's reaction to the kiss, and comments explaining it, was interesting. Reminded me of the Japanese custom of not showing public affection. It's a good thing there was no removing a garter! 😄 I enjoyed their comparisons with various Indian customs, and they obviously enjoyed the video. I did too.
    ETA I loved Babu's song. It got the point over well, too. The rich people won't get anything. Go, Babu!

    • @mrfabulocity
      @mrfabulocity 2 роки тому +1

      It doesn't represent an American wedding. The title is a typical American wedding. This is more like a church picnic.

    • @monicapdx
      @monicapdx 2 роки тому +3

      @@mrfabulocity Phooey. My brother had a wedding like that, only much, *much* smaller. Back in the 70s. So did my stepdaughter, in the 80s. Seriously, every wedding I've been to has been different. The basics were there. Ceremony, vows with an officiant, groomsmen and bridesmaids, family, guests, gifts, ceremonial dances, food, and most important, bride and groom. (Or variant thereof.) The style is different than average, not the rest of it. Wait, to be precise - it isn't that different from other Christian-based weddings, except in spending and formality. Since we likely have every style of wedding from around the world in the US, you have to add those in as typical, too.
      Seriously, you might as well say only the lavish weddings on TV and in movies are typical.
      I get so tired of unhelpful, nitpicky criticism.

  • @susanscott3333
    @susanscott3333 2 роки тому +21

    All you people complaining just give it a rest. If the title was just "a wedding in America" you wouldn't be complaining. Yes there are many different types of weddings here, this is just one. It's always enjoyable to see their reactions. Thank you Mr. Producer!

    • @joeladams5032
      @joeladams5032 2 роки тому

      Um....because "a wedding in America "is accurate.
      "Typical wedding in America " doesn't exist.

    • @susanscott3333
      @susanscott3333 2 роки тому +4

      @@joeladams5032 It's not a court deposition it's a video title. If you enjoy this channel let it go unless you just always have to be right.

    • @deblina
      @deblina 2 роки тому +1

      @@susanscott3333 I know right?... another person waiting to be offended!

    • @joeladams5032
      @joeladams5032 2 роки тому

      @@susanscott3333 duly noted....you don't care if it's a falsehood.
      I'm just one of those crazy people who believes that inaccurate ( false" ) information.
      I know it wasn't intended .
      We're just trying to expand the producers knowledge on this particular subject.
      Accuracy matters.
      Truth matters.
      A lie is a lie whether intentional or not.
      I'm not sure why you're so opposed to accuracy.
      🤷

    • @joeladams5032
      @joeladams5032 2 роки тому +1

      Also.....your comment is nonsense.
      Do you understand what a culturally diverse country this is?
      To my original point.
      " A wedding in America " is not the same as " a typical wedding in America"
      It's not rocket science 🙂
      Noone has attacked the producers in any way.
      We just pointed out that the title of the videos is unintentionally misleading...(false")
      How is that a bad thing?

  • @sunniertimer598
    @sunniertimer598 2 роки тому +15

    That was a unique wedding and very lowkey but beautiful. Maybe they would like to see a church wedding or even the royal wedding with William and Catherine.
    Babu would be shocked by American t.v., and European t.v. would be even worse since they apparently show more skin and are even less censored.

  • @ChampagneKitty
    @ChampagneKitty 2 роки тому +1

    The BEST part of these videos is when Babu gives us a song at the end!

  • @tiredofscammers
    @tiredofscammers Рік тому

    I love this group of villagers. I am so hooked on these videos. I love how they interact with one another and the comments that they make.

  • @johnmcgovern4566
    @johnmcgovern4566 2 роки тому +7

    Kissing in front of people is very normal. People cling their glasses with a fork or whatever so the bride and groom will stand up and kiss in front of everyone.

    • @Shivathedestroyer04
      @Shivathedestroyer04 2 роки тому +5

      Well in India showing love in public places is considered taboo because they believe that it will affect children in a bad way so they believe kissing should be done in home or somewhere private and not in public places

    • @guoi8314
      @guoi8314 2 роки тому +4

      In India people believe love should be only expressed in private places and not in public because many people get uncomfortable with that just like babu got uncomfortable when they kissed

    • @southindiantemples8615
      @southindiantemples8615 2 роки тому +4

      Not normal in India though maybe it is also not considered normal in many Asian countries like Bhutan,nepal,indonesia and many more

    • @tanya3508
      @tanya3508 2 роки тому +2

      @@southindiantemples8615 yes most of Asian countries kissing in not consider normal.

    • @chancerystone4086
      @chancerystone4086 2 роки тому

      @@Shivathedestroyer04 We know its not normal in India. We can see that. Why do you feel you have to keep explaining that?

  • @aleatharhea
    @aleatharhea 2 роки тому +11

    They were very smart in planning a wedding on their budget.
    I'm guessing this location is rented, like an arboretum, which was an affordable option for my own wedding.
    Holding it in the morning meant they could serve breakfast food, which is less expensive than dinners. And nobody would expect a bar in the morning, which saves on alcohol and a hired bartender.
    Making the wedding casual for guests allowed the participants to take it down a notch with their own clothing, another money saver. The bride's dress was far less elaborate and far less expensive than a full blown bridal gown. It's likely the groom & groomsmen rented their suits, which is pretty typical and not that onerous (compared to a bridal gown).

    • @huyquoctran2088
      @huyquoctran2088 2 роки тому +2

      For most asian or hispanic people , we go all out since we get back majority of the money. Guest brings cash as a gift: usually $100 per person so we make it all back at the end of the wedding.
      I spend around $30k usd for my wedding reception banquet but when it all ended at 1am , we got over $55k 😂. People don’t bring money for american weddings right as a gift?

    • @michaelpettersson4919
      @michaelpettersson4919 2 роки тому +1

      I have been at some of my relatives weddings. A classic way to save on expenses are to not go for catering but homecook everything with those that can do their parts. Those of us that are lousy vooks get to clean up the mess afterward. 😉

  • @JoeXTheXJuggalo1
    @JoeXTheXJuggalo1 2 роки тому +25

    Well like Sarru said "depending on the budget". There's people who go way beyond their means for a wedding like bankruptcy level just for a wedding. Than there's wedding like the one my friend had last year where him and his wife went and got their marriage license and him an her was out in a park with a preacher for a ceremony between the 2 of them.
    This isn't exactly a "typical" wedding but it is one of the many levels and styles of weddings people have. This is more of a casual wedding. Which I'm used to small casual weddings like this.

  • @ginafromcologne9281
    @ginafromcologne9281 2 роки тому +2

    Very nice and peaceful wedding and nice video. It's actually a good idea to do it earlier in the day and serve breakfast, so the whole wedding day is longer. The venue and the games looked great and everyone enjoyed themselves. It was a bit of a pity that, due to the camera angle, it was hard to see the bride maids on the side of the bride during the ceremony. That's why Babu was so surprised why the best men walked back with the women. I liked their reaction, which was very sweet, even though all three of them probably missed the music and dancing. :)

  • @pliny8308
    @pliny8308 2 роки тому +4

    I've never seen a wedding like this in the U.S. Perhaps you should show them a more "typical" wedding, with bridesmaid's dresses, suits, a reception in a hall or restaurant, etc., or they'll have a distorted idea of them.

    • @sarahallegra6239
      @sarahallegra6239 2 роки тому +2

      It’s actually very similar to me and my husband’s, 10 years ago now, and we’re in the US. :)

  • @kakketekek8500
    @kakketekek8500 2 роки тому +2

    would love to see them react to a very formal wedding!!

  • @Seek1878
    @Seek1878 2 роки тому +4

    That's a pretty low key wedding. Nothing wrong with it at all, but most weddings I see are a little more formal.

  • @joshm3484
    @joshm3484 2 роки тому +4

    That wedding is my favorite kind. Fun and casual. Some are also very long and formal, with many speeches and traditions.

    • @PopsieLouisiana59
      @PopsieLouisiana59 2 роки тому

      The had donuts!!!

    • @vidpie
      @vidpie 2 роки тому +1

      When I was younger, I was the best man at a wedding. No one told me I was expected to give a speech. It was probably the shortest "speech" the guests have ever heard.

  • @prometheusfallen
    @prometheusfallen 2 роки тому +1

    That zoom in on Babu at 2:53 tho! 😂

  • @vladt876
    @vladt876 2 роки тому +1

    I freakin' love this channel....and love that I stumbled upon it about a year or so ago!
    Keep up the great videos

  • @caidalee1994
    @caidalee1994 2 роки тому +1

    In regards to the bride and groom kissing in front of everyone, there is actually a tradition where if everyone clinks their glasses with their silverware(an old way to get attention), the bride and groom are supposed to kiss. Many people don’t do this anymore because it can be pretty weird to ask for the couple to kiss haha!

  • @xymonau2468
    @xymonau2468 2 роки тому +19

    Public displays of affection like kissing are acceptable in western countries, although there is a time and place. When someone is married here, the person conducting the ceremony says "I now pronounce you man and wife. You may kiss the bride." That kiss is to demonstrate their affection for and commitment to each other. This was an extremely simple and casual wedding. People generally dress up better and may be married in a church or a fancy building, or even in a registry office, with just a couple of witnesses, and no celebration. Generally it is only a one day celebration. The dance is the bridal waltz, when the newly married couple are the first to take to the floor and dance. Most weddings would not have games, but they would have music from a band or just someone playing recorded music, and everyone eventually dances. Many have large amounts of alcohol served to guests. The women who walked away with the men were the bridesmaids, who generally dress up and look after the bride, helping her if her dress is too big, etc. They weren't shown walking down the aisle ahead of the bride in this video. There are no arranged marriages, and people marry the person they choose and who they love.

    • @jdb101585
      @jdb101585 2 роки тому +2

      Or simply, "I now pronounce you married. You may kiss." Not only heterosexual couples get married!

    • @bigschmill294
      @bigschmill294 2 роки тому +3

      @@jdb101585 Thats true. I think they were just trying to explain it simply, though and "man and wife" is the simplest way to get the point across. In a lot of places, same sex couples aren't allowed to get married, and so saying the traditional saying "husband and wife" gets it across to everyone regardless of culture.

    • @louisejohnson6057
      @louisejohnson6057 2 роки тому +1

      @@bigschmill294 ,oh please no, husband and wife, never man and wife. That antiquated phrase is just so icky.

    • @jdb101585
      @jdb101585 2 роки тому

      @@bigschmill294 I mean, the point is to show them things that are different and that they are unfamiliar with, no?

    • @jdb101585
      @jdb101585 2 роки тому

      @@louisejohnson6057 You don't like how it bestows personhood to one partner and reduces the other down to the relationship role only? ;P (Tongue-in-cheek because I totally agree.)

  • @Kim_Kardashcam
    @Kim_Kardashcam 2 роки тому +1

    Babu, most wedding ceremonies end with the words "I now pronounce you husband and wife, YOU MAY NOW KISS YOUR BRIDE" It is the first kiss, of the rest of their lives together, witnessed by everyone close to them. There are many different types of wedding ceremonies from a casual outdoor wedding like this one to a formal Church wedding that goes on to a grand ballroom reception with everyone arriving in limousines. Also, the many different religions have their own customs that make things different.

    • @euodiaclitterhouse4726
      @euodiaclitterhouse4726 2 роки тому

      Yes. You could tell Babu, we have the expression, "sealed with a kiss." It would feel like the vows were left unsealed without the kiss!

  • @eleanorroberts1886
    @eleanorroberts1886 2 роки тому +3

    You should of showed a regular church wedding!!!!! With organ music, priest, minister, reception hall

  • @melindarose7920
    @melindarose7920 2 роки тому +8

    Some weddings aren’t even fancy. My husband and I were married in his dad’s living room. We were both wearing jeans and work shoes. It wasn’t a big deal for us. The past 20+ years we have put the focus on a happy marriage instead of just on an elaborate ceremony neither of us wanted. I guess that’s what happens when an old Kentucky farm girl marries a Virginia mountain man.

    • @huyquoctran2088
      @huyquoctran2088 2 роки тому +1

      For most asian or hispanic people , we go all out since we get back majority of the money. Guest brings cash as a gift: usually $100 per person so we make it all back at the end of the wedding.
      I spend around $30k usd for my wedding reception banquet but when it all ended at 1am , we got over $55k 😂. People don’t bring money for american weddings right as a gift?

    • @michaelpettersson4919
      @michaelpettersson4919 2 роки тому

      After all, it is what happens after the wedding day that is most important. 20+ years and going shows that you got it right.

  • @patticrichton1135
    @patticrichton1135 2 роки тому +1

    I was hoping they would see several different weddings. Most people typically don't have a morning wedding with a breakfast, and this was very casual. They didn't get to see the bridesmaids come down the aisle before the bride and her dad. All the weddings I have been to in my life (including my own) and I am now 75, have been in the afternoon, or around 5:30, 6 pm usually in a church, with a wedding reception after with either a buffet dinner or sit down dinner served at your table, then dancing after the meal, bride and groom cutting the wedding cake, and removing of her garter and the groom throwing it to a group of unmarried men, the bride throwing her bouquet to a group of unmarried women...whoever catches the garter or the bouquet is "SUPPOSED" to be the next one to get married. These are traditions. Plus the bride, groom, ushers (groomsmen), bridesmaids, parents of the bride and groom are dresses more formally, as are the guests. It really would be interesting for them to see that sort of wedding that middle income people have as I just described, and then the really BIG budget weddings that the wealthier people have, since they have already seen a more casual, morning wedding. I don't want them to think that EVERYONE gets married like this one in the video.....America has many different types of weddings and they should be aware of that. I LOVE this channel, please continue with it. Great work.

  • @susanfanning9480
    @susanfanning9480 2 роки тому +10

    Nicely done. These guys have very good manners. They are very accepting of other people.

  • @tomhchappell
    @tomhchappell 2 роки тому

    This is another good one from these stars!

  • @ecb1979
    @ecb1979 2 роки тому

    I love this 🥰 thank you for another video!

  • @BabyGirl18069
    @BabyGirl18069 2 роки тому

    It’s customary for the bride and groom kiss and they’re also the first to dance together before anyone else does.

  • @karenedwards6713
    @karenedwards6713 2 роки тому +1

    That reminded me of my wedding. We had a small simple wedding, but it was fun. My husband and I had been living together for a year so we wanted simple. I have been to weddings that cost way up in the thousands of dollars and then some like this one. I got married in my parents yard and a good friend that owns a resturant surprised us with all kinds of food. We just had a fun day and I've had people that hate to go to weddings tell me ours was so much fun. We must be doing something right after 27 years we still love each other. I have a family member that spent so much on the wedding that at the divorce they had to work out paying off the wedding. I like this kind of wedding instead of the big gaudy ones. My opinion keep it simple and spend the money on your home and the important things...instead of going broke trying to show off.

  • @kavakalynn
    @kavakalynn 2 роки тому

    Interesting video. I love the joy they got out of this🧡

  • @genevieveprecheur5480
    @genevieveprecheur5480 2 роки тому +1

    La chaleur et le respect avec lesquels ses hommes réagissent à ce qu'on leur fait découvrir est une vraie joie pour moi! chaque jour je regarde s'il n'y pas de nouvelle vidéo !!. je ne sais pas si cela est possible ici mais sinon merci de leur dire qu'ils apportent de la joie :)

  • @marycarver1542
    @marycarver1542 9 місяців тому +1

    This is nothing like an "English wedding" which is much more formal and organised and almost always takes place
    in Church with the ceremony being held with a Vicar.

  • @chipper841
    @chipper841 2 роки тому

    Babu you looked extra nice today! Guess it was you coming from a wedding. All 3 of you men, thank you for sharing your thoughts and can't wait for your next video!👌👌👌

  • @Jujumimosa
    @Jujumimosa 2 роки тому

    I loved the singing at the end of the video 🥰👍🏼

  • @thewugglyump8045
    @thewugglyump8045 2 роки тому

    My wedding looked a lot like this, except that it was in the afternoon and the reception was indoors. We had a wonderful musician that played for us. Best memories.

  • @jgw5491
    @jgw5491 2 роки тому

    This reminded me of my niece's wedding. It was at an outdoor venue but not quite so casual. The guests dressed nicely but not formally. The bride wore a long, lace halter gown, her bridesmaids wore coordinated but not identical deep blue dresses, the groom and his groomsmen wore khakis and dark sports jackets and bow ties. My brother, her dad, conducted the ceremony (he is one of the pastors at a large church). It was a kid friendly event, so there were games there, too. My new nephew and his guys did one of those choregraphed dances after the traditional bride/father, groom/mother, and bride/groom dances. The dinner was tasty but simple, no bar (her folks don't drink) and I think I remember the toasts were with sparkling apple juice. A lovely wedding!

  • @billieo7138
    @billieo7138 2 роки тому

    I've been an American for 47 years and have never attended a wedding like this. This is incredibly casual, more like a children's birthday party with games etc.

  • @ChristaFree
    @ChristaFree 2 роки тому +5

    Oh, you've got to kiss the bride or everyone will be disappointed and think the marriage is doomed lol.
    This is somewhat of a less traditional wedding because it's casual dress and it's morning. Serving breakfast is a good WSU to save on the budget. Plus i didn't see anyone drinking. Every wedding i've ever been to, including my own, thete was alcohol.
    America has so many different cultures that there's often a mixture with different cultural components are incorporated.

  • @WDCallahan
    @WDCallahan 2 роки тому +2

    I forgot how India felt about public displays of affection until Babu mentioned the kissing. I don't think most Americans know about that difference.

    • @ashikshaikh7861
      @ashikshaikh7861 2 роки тому

      @@thekaren1111 yeah...people who are in 20s or less than that do mind that at all...and where i live(mumbai,a city in india) couples can openly kiss here...

  • @Jen-gr5pm
    @Jen-gr5pm Рік тому

    You should show them a New Orleans wedding! I'm going to one in 3 hours and it is an 8 hr long event with a pre cocktail hour, ceremony, reception, second line down the streets to even MORE cocktail time. It is exhausting😄

  • @Denver3344
    @Denver3344 2 роки тому +1

    Vlog: *shows plate of waffles and grapes*
    Elder Babu: 👀

  • @hollyhagelin2451
    @hollyhagelin2451 2 роки тому

    Babu, sir, you should know that at the reception ( party after wedding ceremony ) sometimes guests will tap their drink glasses with a spoon - Dink!dink!dink! - which everyone copies, and it a signal for the bride & groom to kiss!!! The bride & groom dance together first , then the bride with her father & the groom with his mother, then everybody is invited onto the dance floor . . . It's also become a trend for the bridal party to stage a "dance routine" to entertain the guests & have some fun showing off their "dance moves" . . . There are lots of these posted on UA-cam, so watch a few and see how crazy we Americans can get!!!! Lots of fun for all!!!

  • @stephaniedescoteaux4759
    @stephaniedescoteaux4759 Рік тому

    I like the singing and drums at the end.

  • @slimpickins9124
    @slimpickins9124 2 роки тому

    Ya Babu! I knew you would have a wedding song....lol.

  • @julieb3996
    @julieb3996 2 роки тому +1

    Here in the US a legal wedding ceremony can be performed in a wide variety of venues with various traditions. Marriages can be done at a park, at the beach, in Las Vegas, or a court house.
    Religious weddings have set rules and places. Sometimes they can over-lap.

  • @AZCanner
    @AZCanner 2 роки тому

    We call that Brunch when it's breakfast food served after morning and before lunch.

  • @TheJudiBambiPurrsParadox
    @TheJudiBambiPurrsParadox Рік тому

    *In America, due to the mix of religions, cultures, etc., they can be very different. Also, the time of day the wedding is held, determines if it is more formal or more casual. Though many use wedding planners, many like me, cannot afford that. There are places like you see, that are called wedding venues, as they are designed to have your wedding there. They usually have large places for either indoor or outdoor weddings. Those without much money do their own planning, and make all arrangements themselves. If you rent a place and you are at dinner or lunch time, it is traditionally a sit down, served to you meal...but not always. Like I did, it was more casual. I made a taco bar, meat or fruit empanadas, a fruit bar, Spanish rice and made the salsa for the tortilla chips myself, from the peppers, onions, tomatoes, and spices I grew in my garden! I also did the cooking, decorating, and sewed my own wedding bag/purse and beaded my shoes myself. We also made all the floral things, and ordered flowers in bunches, which is much cheaper, and used floral spray to color them myself...and used lace fans as the backdrop. My colors were light blue and light green. It was in Arizona, so I did a casual Southwestern theme, designed my cake myself, with a lighted fountain in it, and did the bar self serve with Corona beers, and wine punches, as it is desert there. I borrowed my sister's veil headpiece, and made my own veil to match my dress...it was my something borrowed. It was in the late afternoon. Some folks do destination weddings if they can afford that, some do it on the beach, or in the forest. Some have it at a family member's home or garden that can hold that many folks. Babu mentioned the girls and boys...brides have bridesmaids and men have groomsmen both who stand for their friend/family. Those are then coupled for the ceremony as they walk together after the bride and groom. At the royal wedding you saw, the girls were little girls, as they are a bit different than a non royal wedding. They were holding her veil and you all talked about that. Here, they are women who fulfill that position. Some weddings have live bands if they can afford that, or a DJ who plays songs during the reception. I was low key, so I recorded hours of my favorite songs and we played them ourselves. I didn't have money to have others do it all, but wanted at least a wedding of some sort, so did it mostly all myself. It was worth it because everything was perfect. Except the guy I married, who was an abuser, so I lasted 11 years before I left him.*

  • @rimasmuliolis1136
    @rimasmuliolis1136 2 роки тому

    It is a BIG thing in American weddings to kiss. The guests at the reception OFTEN strike their spoons against their glasses to challenge them to kiss. It is met with cheers and applause.

  • @TrulyUnfortunate
    @TrulyUnfortunate 2 роки тому

    I'll never forget the day I was married 31 years ago.
    I was calm and not nervous in the least.......right up until it was time to take the vows.
    I could barely stumble through them I was so nervous.

  • @jadeh2699
    @jadeh2699 2 роки тому

    A kiss between bride and groom in front of everyone "seals the deal." LOL!

  • @deleted72636
    @deleted72636 2 роки тому

    Every wedding I've been to is different lol but one thing they all have in common is the vows ceremony, other than that they're all different.

  • @maxfastest
    @maxfastest 2 роки тому +2

    the insanity of wedding spending is scary !!
    8 kids in family growing up , two sets of parents due to divorce, 3 step siblings and my step mom's kids, one male , one female, extracted nearly $100,000 dollars for those two weddings, the rest of us spent less than a grand , and that was our own money.
    the high priced weddings ?
    yup , both divorced in under 5 years
    😂😂😂😂

    • @TheJwbooth
      @TheJwbooth 2 роки тому +1

      As far as I am concerned a expensive wedding is a bad investment. A typical couple would do better buying a home or second car than a photo album

  • @kaychristensen4394
    @kaychristensen4394 2 роки тому +1

    The joy on their faces makes them seem like they're part of the wedding! They're so happy for the happy couple!
    P.S. Babu, 'shy' is good. I'm sorry to report that here in New Babylon modesty has gone the way of the dodo bird.

  • @DaliwolfBacon
    @DaliwolfBacon 2 роки тому

    If I win the lottery, one of the first things I am going to do is go visit these guys. They are so cool!!! And I am going to take them a ladder ball set so they can play it at their 10 day wedding ceremonies :)

  • @SandiByrd
    @SandiByrd 2 роки тому +1

    I'm with Raju - I need more than breakfast at a wedding to keep my energy up and belly not rumbling lol. But it's still a cute idea. Especially when you want to keep things casual 🙂

  • @eddy_malouempereur_du_cong6536

    I like how they immediately understand that kissing in public is normal in western cultures 😊

  • @nevyn_karres
    @nevyn_karres 2 роки тому

    As far as things go, that was a pretty cool wedding.

  • @elizabethanderson9437
    @elizabethanderson9437 2 роки тому

    Love these guys!

  • @cyl742
    @cyl742 2 роки тому

    I am so happy to see a casual wedding. So many pay 10's of thousands and even go in debt using a venue. Married is married and less money is just as beautiful. Plus the money saved can go toward houses or student debt or whatever.

  • @hollyhagelin2451
    @hollyhagelin2451 2 роки тому +1

    Also, this was not a "typical" wedding, in that it was VERY informal and not in a church, where everyone is dressed in much more 'formal' clothes - suits for men, nice dresses or gowns for the women .

  • @dejns6945
    @dejns6945 2 роки тому +1

    Love Sarru dancing.

  • @theinvisibleneonrainbowzeb2567
    @theinvisibleneonrainbowzeb2567 2 роки тому

    This was fun to watch, as I learned a lot about the wedding in India, as well as in America!
    Because even in the UK, despite ostensibly speaking the same language and having a common religious background, the wedding traditions seem to be quite different to the USA, although there are also similarities.
    I have seen a few videos of weddings in USA and they seem very different to me.
    I also learned more about the traditions and customs where the 3 men here live.
    I would recommend that maybe the panel might enjoy watching the wedding of prince harry in the UK. I saw some clips from that and although it isn't typical because it is the royal family so not everyday people, it was much more like every other wedding I have attended in the UK, and also was a traditional christian ceremony too; something Babu said he didn't know about.

  • @AhJodie
    @AhJodie 2 роки тому

    I am in USA and have never been to a wedding in the morning... with breakfast served, it is an interesting idea though. Love to all!!!!

  • @ignatiuskhan
    @ignatiuskhan 2 роки тому +2

    Babu is such a wise man... yet he didn't really like the bride and groom kissing in front of everyone. That's tradition man!

    • @xymonau2468
      @xymonau2468 2 роки тому

      The funny thing is that when the female body builders were parading in their skimpy garments and one of the young guys said he felt shy about them, Babu told him not to because it was all about the sport, etc. He said it was nothing to feel embarrassed about. But a simple kiss made him feel uncomfortable.

  • @Brat0064
    @Brat0064 2 роки тому

    This one example of one type of wedding. There are many different types.

  • @valeriep9723
    @valeriep9723 2 роки тому

    These guys make my Heart Smile🥰🥰🥰

  • @lamp8112
    @lamp8112 2 роки тому

    I loved this video. It was a very casual wedding but such a happy occasion! It was a great location. Kissing in public is normal. Families hug a lot on greeting and it is expected the bride and groom will kiss. Looked like everyone was enjoying themselves. There is usally music and dancing for everyone. My husband and I had a casual wedding 40 years ago. It's what we could afford and I remember like it was yesterday.

  • @Robinicat
    @Robinicat 2 роки тому

    I think it would have been better to show them a traditional church wedding with the organ music, people dressed in fancier clothing and with more solemnity. The highlight of a typical American wedding is the splendour of the bride in her beautiful wedding gown walking down the aisle to the music Here Comes the Bride. We didn't see the bride at all except quickly from behind. I think you should do another video of a wedding.
    Now an Indian wedding at its finest...WOW!!!!....that would be something for the Tribal People to show US. It would be amazing for all of us to witness. Would you consider doing a reverse video showing us the best of a lavish, Indian wedding?

  • @theresareynolds3133
    @theresareynolds3133 2 роки тому

    Here in the USA, we do show affection in public, we hold hands, kiss, hug, and it doesn't have to be at a wedding, when my husband and I are walking he always holds my hand. Many times, there is a big meal and dance after the ceremony, it really depends on the bride and grooms budget.

  • @Dave-yp7vz
    @Dave-yp7vz Рік тому

    Didn't know one of them has that thing you use to get over long cliffs as a friend called joshi

  • @tanya3508
    @tanya3508 2 роки тому +1

    Babu said he feels shy when couple were kissing. In india, our parents change the channel when kissing scenes come in movies. We also feel very shy.

  • @christinerobinson9372
    @christinerobinson9372 2 роки тому +4

    There is no typical American wedding. As elsewhere, it is according to wealth.

  • @mrrandom347
    @mrrandom347 2 роки тому +1

    First 10000 days of humans on Mars please show them this video they will really like this

  • @yogurt8150
    @yogurt8150 2 роки тому

    i dont know how common they are worldwide, but i know in germany they have some games for the bride and groom as well. that might be a fun video idea!!
    like my mother had to find my father among those of all the best men and some family and friends, while blindfolded (i think she had to touch their faces or their legs, sth with body hair). my father had to find my moms shoes among the bridesmaides and several female guests shoes. (all of this was 100% voluntary of course!)
    they had to saw through a log together too (symbol of working together). and since my fathers family does sports-shooting and they celebrated in the shooting-clubhouse, they had a small archery tournament for everyone (get as many hearts as possible and win a price). and those are just the ones i remember off the top of my head lol. i bet they did more since thats a pretty common part of our wedding celebrations!
    i also know of the tradition of getting a padlock and having the couple lock it together through the rails on certain bridges and then throw the key into the stream. sometimes they write their initials on the padlock. a bridge near my school had a couple of those "lovelocks" hang on it and i know theres some popular bridges that are so full of padlocks, theres no space for them anymore!!
    theres so many small things at a wedding people dont even think twice about because its so common! so interesting!!

  • @greggbradford2307
    @greggbradford2307 Рік тому

    Yes, it's normal to show love and affections for ones helpmate in public, and small kisses are fine... 😊

  • @InConsulting
    @InConsulting Рік тому

    This is a very informal wedding, maybe get to watch one of the UK royal weddings.

  • @Marty4650
    @Marty4650 2 роки тому

    This was a very modest wedding. You should have shown them the wedding scene from the movie "The Godfather" which is more typical of the lavish weddings often done in big cities. Some people even go deep into debt to have a wedding more spectacular than the last one they attended. The best weddings are when the bride and groom get exactly what they want, and not what their parents and friends want. And this one looks like one of those.

  • @markismiller6484
    @markismiller6484 2 роки тому

    8:54 the "." In the subtitles wondering what he was trying to say.

    • @Idkdude50
      @Idkdude50 2 роки тому +1

      I speak Hindi and I can't even get it cause he says it so babu-esque 😂

  • @makeitso4793
    @makeitso4793 11 місяців тому

    I worked for a few churches and never saw a wedding like this one but I guess it is a money saver and a wise thing to do if you don't have that much to spend. But no one wedding is the same. Anything can happen.

  • @silverkarina
    @silverkarina 2 роки тому +1

    I'd like for them to see a more typical American wedding. This is a breakfast wedding, not very active at all. It's more of a quick wedding.

  • @leem200
    @leem200 2 роки тому

    Be neat to see some their customs. Maybe a wedding. Love the respect they give Babu, still have it here but less often.

  • @prometheusfallen
    @prometheusfallen 2 роки тому

    I think Babu must've had some "greenery" in the Hookah when he was at the wedding. 😎

  • @TallisKeeton
    @TallisKeeton 2 роки тому

    Babu is looking very elegant here :)

  • @MarkMeadows90
    @MarkMeadows90 2 роки тому

    My wedding wasn't much. I got married in a local park. Just a few people attended, mostly family members and my two sisters. Everyone has their own traditions and customs when it comes to a wedding ceremony.

  • @ChristChickAutistic
    @ChristChickAutistic 2 роки тому

    I want an album of Babu's songs. Please make it happen!

  • @traveltohe-ven2603
    @traveltohe-ven2603 2 роки тому +12

    Now a reaction on typical European wedding could be great

    • @joeladams5032
      @joeladams5032 2 роки тому +8

      There's no such thing as a typical European wedding.....or a typical American wedding actually

    • @chinor3999
      @chinor3999 2 роки тому

      How do Europeans marry? Do they backpack to the wedding and drink great beer on the way?

    • @traveltohe-ven2603
      @traveltohe-ven2603 2 роки тому +1

      @@joeladams5032 chill.....I know it's a generalization but atleast they will know more about other cultures

    • @JK-xt7ro
      @JK-xt7ro 2 роки тому +8

      @@traveltohe-ven2603 Over 40 countries in Europe, different cultures.. Why are you lumping them all in one?

    • @sunniertimer598
      @sunniertimer598 2 роки тому +2

      @@fleur5397 How about a big Greek wedding?:)

  • @billstill1794
    @billstill1794 2 роки тому +1

    Where's the tin cans clanging behind the wedding duo's vehicle as they ride off into the sunset? And the throwing of rice? Oh well... Not a "typical" American wedding. Oops!

  • @frogsnack7072
    @frogsnack7072 2 роки тому

    12:34 I'm with you Babu, I think it's strange. But there will always be people attending American weddings who want to see the Bride and Groom kiss. There is even a common signal for it, where guests will tap silverware to their glasses and make lots of noise until the bride & groom share a kiss at the reception. Some couples will kiss for this, some will not- usually the guests get at least one kiss out of them doing this.

  • @HuSanNiang
    @HuSanNiang 2 роки тому

    This was areally low key affair. Even if you say casual, you can still wear a comfy but nice dress and for men nice trouser and a shirt.
    I attended 2 weddings in India - both times friend of the brides parents. So there was a lot going on the days before.
    One was in Pune and one in Lucknow, both Hindu marriages. The 1st one Pune was very traditional and the 2nd was mixed. Both very full veg and non alcoholic, which I dont mind at all.
    First one had veg dishes served at the table and the other had a large buffet style and even had a pan stall.
    So similar but still different. Both times I visited also the Mehndi party before and got some really nice designs on my hand. For the 2nd one I was wearing a nice Saree .
    Sadly my wedding came during our 2nd lockdown . We were only allowed to have the ceremony at city hall ( a lovely one from the 19th Century) , wearing a nice English tea gown and my hubby a blue suit. Sadly all wedding parties were forbidden in our country. We will do it in 1 or 2 years time when our relatives and friends from abroad can travel again.

  • @hunnybunnyssunshineliving5155
    @hunnybunnyssunshineliving5155 2 роки тому

    American people are very diverse with many different cultures and religions so you cannot say all America wedding are the same. Babhu said it best regarding all the different cultures and religions in your region. That is the same for our country and from modest income wedding to a very rich extravagant wedding. The one thing here that is available to a couple is to elope, to be married alone by themselves. I dont know if you have anything like that in your country. That was a sweet little backyard wedding, thank you.💕🙏🏼🙌🏽💜

  • @funnyusername8635
    @funnyusername8635 2 роки тому

    Another interesting feature of American weddings: in some states, the power to perform a wedding ceremony can be granted to any adult (I believe it's called "deputizing"?). So if you want your grandfather, or your best friend, or a guy in a Darth Vader costume to perform your ceremony, you can. If you don't live in one of those states, we got you covered there, too. If you need someone ordained to do the job, most states will recognize that someone has been ordained by a group, even if it was just an online application.

  • @robertoh.20
    @robertoh.20 2 роки тому

    you'd quickly be annoyed if you were a guest next to this man taping and commenting through out the whole ceremony

  • @PerfectlyIimperfect1
    @PerfectlyIimperfect1 2 роки тому +10

    I hope they get to see a few different weddings. Wedding “on a dime” and a wedding of a couple with an “ average income” and a wealthy wedding. I’d also
    Like to see how weddings are there in India.

  • @AdcrofromTikTok
    @AdcrofromTikTok Рік тому

    Now show them a traditional British wedding ❤

  • @TheNoelkevin
    @TheNoelkevin Рік тому

    I'd love to see them react to reggae and Bob Marley and rastafari culture