Are you struggling? Let's Talk || Soft Spoken Male ASMR
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- I felt I needed to check in with you all and quietly take you aside for some real talk. I hope you are all coping okay. Here's some links below if you need to seek help.
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In the past year or so I’ve become friends with people who are a little younger than me (and that felt so odd to start with because I’ve always been the youngest of my friends). However I didn’t expect how much comfort and healing could come from giving them advice and being like the chosen family I needed once upon a time.
Additionally, here’s a couple little nuggets of advice I’ve heard over the years:
-The future you will be so proud of you that you didn’t give up and that you survived.
-The past you (that could be years, months, or even days ago) would love and respect you more than you realise.
I hope that anyone that needs the reassurance that they are loved and worthy understands that. Talking about and contemplating your emotions shows so much more strength and courage than bottling it all up. Needing others’ help isn’t a weakness.
I know everyone says this, but this couldn't have come at a better time. I've been (relatively) silently following you for years, and you never fail to make me feel better. I'm lucky enough to still live in a very rural area, so I'm still able to go to the forest and be a child again. I have 18 plants in my room, but lately I've felt lost and alone. You always help to ground me and bring me back when you do videos like this. As tacky as it sounds; thank you. 🙂
When you looked at the camera and said "this is not going to be the rest of your life" I completely began to tear up. I've been going through a rough patch and hearing that meant so much. I have to remind myself that everything is temporary, and it's okay to feel whatever emotions you have at the moment. Thank you for this video. I've kind of stalked this channel since finding the Black Butler cosplay videos, but I stuck around for all the other content :)
I got lovesick for someone just because they were a role model that gave me approval and basic human kindness. Legit sick. I couldnt focus on school, I couldnt sleep, I felt feverish, and, worst of all, for a while I *liked* that. I romanticized that. I hate being limerant, I‘ve ruined so many relationships with it, but I believe I can stop myself this time.
From one lovesick to another, this is the advice I try to give myself: It helps me to know that actually there is no shortage of love, and if you let reality in, you can feel it. Dont let the bubble of impossible expectations isolate you from all the people who care about you. Even from the person you‘re limerant for, who may very much care about you and love you, just not that way. Theyd want you to receive that, so stay in reality and detox from your unrealistic obsessions that they can probably sense and are pushing them away.
If you have had similar experience, feel free to share because it helps me cope.
I wish you safe travels through the currents of love and desire.
When I was born (November) my best friend and dog was born (April after). Some of my favourite memories are with him, even memoriesI can't remember like when he fell asleep with me in my car seat when I was a baby. He passed away in 2014 and I miss him greatly. But I have another dog now and they are just like each other.
Thank you for your storytelling and sharing. Your light is so greatly appreciated and it means so much. Thank you. ❤️
I'm glad you shared this Victor, thank you. I genuinely don't know where I am right now. I'm 48 years old and that inner child you mentioned is so badly injured that I don't think he'll ever heal. I definitely fall into the category of "the universe is too big"; and I fear insignificance almost more than anything; except for change. Ive always wanted to be someone significant, but I never have been. I often think that people would barely even notice if I weren't here any more. My immediate family would, obviously, but only them. No-one else. More than anything I've reached a point in my existence where I simply don't want to be ME anymore. You talked about actors "hiding behind a persona"; well I'm no actor, but I constantly mask the dull, grey, boring person I am with something else. Not for anyone else's benefit, but for my own. It's hard to explain and I doubt many people will understand. Anyway, sorry to have rambled on...
Okay, Victor has been swapped to a Faerie prince. Change my mind
Victor, I would like to say that your videos of any kind is always relaxing for me. I am currently going through so much stuff in the past few years, especially in recent months. I was in a really bad car accident back in late September which surprisingly I barely came out with major bruises. I'm nearly 100% better physically, but the mental pain of depression and anxiety never goes away. There are people in my life say they have depression and anxiety, but sometimes it feels like they're just saying that. With you, it feels like you truly understand what mental health is like, which I thank you for that. I had a bad day earlier today and this video made me feel better. Thank you again, Victor, please continue what you are doing! :)
I think that you always have to say the things that you believe or feel at least so that in the future or present you do not feel regret with yourself, I also think that spending time alone and doing something you like makes you feel better or at least decreases negative thoughts, I hope that people who feel stressed, sad or depressed I want that you know that is just a bad moment of your life and not your entire life so I don't think that having a bad day makes you a bad person so something that I want to say that everyone deserves happiness, and is normal having a bad days.
Bloody good video, Victor. So relaxing and true
i love your soft spoken voice it’s so calming and soothing😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌
oh wow this has really brought me to tears, a few weeks ago my dog died, and I've been feeling horrible. I'm so thankful you said this, I needed it, seize the moments you didn't know meant so much until you lose them, wow.
this talk has made me think about many things, really thank you very much for doing this, I listened to each of your words very carefully and with tears included, I hope you are well, take the time you need to be with yourself and with nature, I will never be able to thank you so much the day you started making videos, you have saved my life, your videos have been very helpful when I have not wanted to hear my parents talk about me, or when I have been bad, it is enough to brighten my day with a video of you, thanks ❤❤
Thank you so much Victor you're really an amazing person, this brought me great comfort in such a hard time :'))
This past week has been incredibly overwhelming and emotional, so this is exactly what I needed. Thank you so much.
I truly hope your days become calmer soon 💭
🖤 Thanks for this, Victor
This is a nice topic for a video. Every once in a while it’s always a good idea to reflect like this. Especially for the people who tend to keep their emotions bottled inside.
Since April, no, since the last year I've been dealing with not the nastiest, but still impactful things and I am still dealing with consequences. It affected my health, which I wasn't expecting at all. I thought that I can manage. Nope. I bottle up my feelings, try to calm myself down and think positively. I think I still can't admit I need help or something like that. I don't have dark thoughts, but I am struggling. Thank you for the talk, Victor, it was so-so needed=)I feel encouraged. I need to do some art and play some games. It calms me down=3
I don’t like a video unless I actually “like” it and every video of yours, you just pull me and I wanna like, I wanna support. I’m glad I never went away over the years
I almost did the opposite of the promise I gave you on the other video you made. Cause Halloween this year the depression almost took control, and almost made Halloween my last day on this earth. I got help, but I still need some time to recover mentally after that day. I will never look at Halloween the same way again. But regardless, I want to say thank you so much for making this video. I needed to hear these words and will probably rewatch this video a couple of times the next couple of days or weeks. This time I won't promise anything, but I will try my best and are going to get more help than ever to be sure it won't happen again.
The Pony memory is so interesting… so cool
My gran just died and I dont know how to.feel about it since we werent on good terms for a while. She was a narc im already depressed but i feel like i have to.perform sadness for them or rumors will spread sorry i ramble glad youve uploaded its been a hot minuet
to do tinck more good days
I’m sick currently and I feel like victor knew that some how 💜 aww thank u You Victor
i have same thing to
I take walks on the canal when Im stressed out.
God love you and protect you❤🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️