'We'll never be the same': Parents mourn New Orleans attack victim | Banfield

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  • @GoodyGoody534
    @GoodyGoody534 17 днів тому +136

    This breaks my heart. So sorry for your loss,

    • @n.diannereece4355
      @n.diannereece4355 14 днів тому +1

      So very sorry for the loss of your son. We have a son and I know how we would feel…devastated.🌺🙏🥺😖

  • @joleencox5900
    @joleencox5900 17 днів тому +57

    So their son was MURDERED 24 hours ago and the ONLY CALL they got was from the FBI telling them they have to move his car before it gets towed?? Wtf is wrong with this country????

  • @ilianalopez7734
    @ilianalopez7734 17 днів тому +78

    RIP Matthew. My condolences to all the friends and family of all the victims

  • @American431
    @American431 17 днів тому +62

    So unfair to these parents

  • @lilybee_
    @lilybee_ 17 днів тому +83

    How awful! Why didn't the authorities contact victim's families? I can't imagine how painful this has been for them losing their son and having to look all over the place to find him deceased.

    • @jmm8305
      @jmm8305 17 днів тому +18

      They would have. But the disaster happened and with news and social media people usually find out sooner from those outlets than authorities can. Remember they are working with many people dead and injured. Identifying and getting contact information for 45 people takes time. This happened at 3:15 am and the families were looking for loved ones only a few hours later.

    • @annegreenwood3624
      @annegreenwood3624 17 днів тому +7

      @@jmm8305yes they need to contain the scene organize sections into those living and those dead it like you said was 3am it seems cold but everyone was also in shock also as I worked in the hospital when I was younger you had to follow procedure find social workers and chaplains to help my heart goes out to everyone such a senseless tragedy

    • @muffs55mercury61
      @muffs55mercury61 17 днів тому +3

      One of those incidents that was totally mishandled, just like the Afghanistan withdrawl. Like nobody else cared.

    • @lilybee_
      @lilybee_ 16 днів тому +1

      I don't think they did find out quickly from social media though. Why wasn't someone assigned to gather personal info and contact next of kin? They had families calling LE and hospitals all over the city trying to get info m and emergency contact info was probably available on their driver's license or state ID.

    • @jmm8305
      @jmm8305 16 днів тому +1

      @ The next morning they knew that their son didn’t come home that night/morning. They knew from the media that the event had happened. Don’t know if it was social media or news or whatever. They tried to contact their son. Then they tried to contact his friends. They found out from the friends. Not every adult’s friends are necessarily going to have contact information for their friends parents. Likely the friends were in shock. It takes time to identify bodies and get contact information. I’m not saying everything was handled correctly but I’m saying it takes time. For them to identify process and get next of kin information on 45 people is going to take longer than a few hours. Also FBI took over the situation and they are not going to contact family and give information until they feel like they have the right information. It’s a delicate balance and it’s just not going to happen in a few hours.

  • @andrewsage1376
    @andrewsage1376 17 днів тому +77

    Unbelievable what these parents are going through.

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 17 днів тому +5

      They seem strong 😢 😕 😔 😕

    • @muffs55mercury61
      @muffs55mercury61 16 днів тому +2

      So true. His father looked like he was going to collapse at any moment. The grief is unbearable.

  • @KathleenPage-w1m
    @KathleenPage-w1m 17 днів тому +51

    I am very sorry for the loss of your son. ❤

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 17 днів тому +5

      💔 😮😢

  • @AshleyLebedev
    @AshleyLebedev 17 днів тому +43

    We as a nation are all with you. We are so sad and so sorry for your great loss. This should not ever have happened. You’re very brave. Thank you for talking so soon after your loss. Bless you both so much.

  • @sandrasteady5374
    @sandrasteady5374 17 днів тому +32

    Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you

  • @aprilager8606
    @aprilager8606 17 днів тому +56

    My heart breaks for the victims of this horrific crime ❤️‍🩹
    My heart felt prayers to you and your family 🙏

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 17 днів тому +3

      Don't make any sense 😒 😕

  • @jenilynn1010
    @jenilynn1010 17 днів тому +24

    Omg. I’m crying. My heart goes out to this family and the others who lost a loved one. Heartbreaking. Praying 🙏

  • @isabellrc
    @isabellrc 17 днів тому +36

    Where’s the Victim Advocates, Religious Organizations??? I feel parents needed to see their boy prior to autopsy.
    He is a good looking young man. I’m sure he’s being sorely missed. My heart goes out to his lovely parents. And, to ALL of those Grieving families 🤲🏻✌🏻

  • @Diana-yx8dh
    @Diana-yx8dh 17 днів тому +25

    And they are bugging the parents to come get their sons car or it will get towed! Goodness!! How insensitive.

  • @ladycourttales2720
    @ladycourttales2720 16 днів тому +8

    I was robotic when my sons were injured-both in ICU. It wasn’t until 3 mos later, PTSD reared its ugly head after auto-pilot/adrenalin wore out. My boys lived. They have a hard road ahead. Pray for them.

  • @decafmocha211
    @decafmocha211 17 днів тому +33

    Rest in Peace...Condolences to the parents

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 17 днів тому +3

      No words 💔 😢

  • @yogaqueen319
    @yogaqueen319 17 днів тому +14

    My heart breaks for everyone affected by this terrible tragedy!🙏🏽

  • @Jeanne90275
    @Jeanne90275 17 днів тому +27

    Just beyond tragic...

    • @Fat12219
      @Fat12219 17 днів тому +1

      Beyond 😮

  • @elianadosreis3025
    @elianadosreis3025 17 днів тому +25

    I’m crying right now watching this

  • @Cheriee-o5e
    @Cheriee-o5e 16 днів тому +6

    I am so grieved for you and all of the survivors.
    Prayers going up for you all.

  • @katbedbury389
    @katbedbury389 17 днів тому +14

    I’m praying for you both. I’m so heartbroken with you.

  • @ningyl
    @ningyl 17 днів тому +11

    My heart goes out to you parents.

  • @joannereiss3997
    @joannereiss3997 15 днів тому +1

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you both 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @banana_hammock7158
    @banana_hammock7158 17 днів тому +10

    absolutely horrible..praying for them

  • @bonnies4230
    @bonnies4230 14 днів тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I feel helpless and angry that this happened. All of you folks are such nice people and you deserve better than this. You're in my prayers.

  • @narellecruickshank6919
    @narellecruickshank6919 17 днів тому +8

    Cannot comprehend what you are going through. 😢😢😢 sending my condolences from Brisbane Queensland Australia ❤

  • @dainasworldnumbers88
    @dainasworldnumbers88 17 днів тому +6

    So sorry for your loss. May God bless him and keep him in our prayers.

  • @alisonfowler8193
    @alisonfowler8193 17 днів тому +7

    Hugs and love from Kansas. Deepest condolences. 🫶🏽. 🕯️ For Matthew and all those lost 01/01/25

  • @foxlover03
    @foxlover03 16 днів тому +3

    So truly sorry for your sons loss and for all the victims of that tragedy. So sad. 🙏

  • @Darci3333
    @Darci3333 17 днів тому +4

    This is totally unacceptable and despicable 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @TillyP-rn6zy
    @TillyP-rn6zy 17 днів тому +3

    Condolences to all the victims families and a swift healing for the injured and mentally scarred on witnessing this atrocity. Natalie from the UK. X

  • @ADotShowCEO
    @ADotShowCEO 17 днів тому +7

    God bless the families so incredibly heartbreaking 💔 🙏🏾

  • @janinehudak7659
    @janinehudak7659 15 днів тому

    What a wonderful, young man! My heart truly goes out to you!

  • @patfairman2471
    @patfairman2471 17 днів тому +6

    So very sorry

  • @Carrjacked
    @Carrjacked 16 днів тому +8

    Can Ashley go an interview without cutting the guest off!? I swear she has become so insensitive, maybe it comes with the business and having to do this for so many years - That is downright cruel the way they found out about their son‘s passing. I am so sorry for your loss ❤

    • @pianoin69
      @pianoin69 16 днів тому

      Nope.

    • @annabelle1471
      @annabelle1471 14 днів тому

      it’s a pattern she probly has to disassociate to get thru the interview

  • @ColleenMcCoin
    @ColleenMcCoin 12 днів тому

    Unbelievable the lack of communication to these families. I am so disheartened to hear this. What a beautiful son and family. My heart goes out to them.

  • @evelynwright9805
    @evelynwright9805 16 днів тому

    Interviewer … you are asking very delicate questions within a short period of time since this happened. I commend this couple for speaking with you. God bless them.

  • @ASeedSower234
    @ASeedSower234 16 днів тому

    God bless those poor parents, their son just looks like such a sweet young man. Prayers gone out for these sweet parents.

  • @ramonam9251
    @ramonam9251 17 днів тому +7

    Bless that couple Lord.

  • @melodylaughlin8538
    @melodylaughlin8538 17 днів тому +2

    So sorry for your loss. God be with you

  • @Fiveash-Art
    @Fiveash-Art 17 днів тому +14

    People have got to be kidding with this? This is absolutely absurd.

  • @jsi8002
    @jsi8002 17 днів тому +2

    I’m so sorry 😢🙏

  • @877swissmiss
    @877swissmiss 17 днів тому +2

    I‘m so very sorry for your loss! What a horrific New Year😢😢😢
    Strength and love to you ❤
    R I P Matthew 🕊️

  • @gdiup9241
    @gdiup9241 17 днів тому +2

    So horrible to not be able to see your son. But i did hear from another channel, once it's a crime scene, it changes the expectations of getting to see your loved one.
    Ugh..damn.

  • @zemorakeller6725
    @zemorakeller6725 17 днів тому +1

    MY Lord what these parents went through to find their son. I can't imagine such a loss. Where were the advocates for these parents?

  • @cherylvandezande4483
    @cherylvandezande4483 17 днів тому +2

    💔so sorry for your loss 😢🙏

  • @estelleleonard5758
    @estelleleonard5758 16 днів тому

    So horrible! Heartbreaking for your family. Praying for your family

  • @I1FOLLOWJESUS
    @I1FOLLOWJESUS 17 днів тому +8

    how sad??? why didnt his friends call these poor parents? thats so sad!! I cant believe the friends didnt call the parents. Im so sorry for your loss

    • @seriousorganizer
      @seriousorganizer 17 днів тому +2

      OBVIOUSLY THEY CAN'T REPORT SOMETHING THEY DONT KNOW..THE VIDEO SAYS THEY GOT SEPARATED....

  • @mobetta3456
    @mobetta3456 16 днів тому

    I am so sorry this happened to you, and I mean it from my heart. What a sweet young face! You are in my prayers.

  • @RF1972.
    @RF1972. 16 днів тому

    I'm so sorry...I understand your pain..so sorry😢❤

  • @teresajohnson8988
    @teresajohnson8988 17 днів тому +1

    My heart hurts knowing what you’re going thru❤

  • @nastassziarogers6010
    @nastassziarogers6010 16 днів тому +1

    Prayers for every victims family’s 🙏🏽

  • @Yellowrose8
    @Yellowrose8 16 днів тому

    Uplifting Matthew's family and friends in my prayers. May the Lord wrap his arms around you to provide comfort...Amen.

  • @wingedinfinity777
    @wingedinfinity777 17 днів тому +17

    I'm sorry I just find it extremely strange when family members speak about the death of a close relative SO SOON AFTER the incident. WOW. I can't imagine that not even 48 hours later they are just freely and casually talking. I don't get it.

    • @stephanieames66
      @stephanieames66 17 днів тому +23

      Still in shock most likely.

    • @jenilynn1010
      @jenilynn1010 17 днів тому +19

      Because they don’t want their child to be forgotten. They want people to know what a tragic loss of life. Awareness gift to us!

    • @RollTideMama
      @RollTideMama 17 днів тому +4

      So bizarre.. they were so nonchalant I thought he had survived for about half of the interview until the mom was like yep he died 😮

    • @Purplerainpinkclouds
      @Purplerainpinkclouds 17 днів тому +9

      Have you ever grieved someone as close to you as a brother or a son? Its shocking to me that you would so freely try to push guilt and shame upon this family when you have no idea what they are going through. I find it disheartening.

    • @tonggao08
      @tonggao08 17 днів тому +6

      They are in profound shock. It hasn't even hit them and they are traumatised. It isn't all wailing and screaming.

  • @oliviachetcuti225
    @oliviachetcuti225 16 днів тому

    Watching the poor father break down at the very end. 💔😢

  • @wildmountainthyme4123
    @wildmountainthyme4123 16 днів тому

    Sending all my love and prayers to all the families who lost their loved ones. May they rest in peace.

  • @SoGoodSoLoved567
    @SoGoodSoLoved567 12 днів тому

    How is ANYONE not employed to contact these victims' families????? This is outrageous

  • @robinsmith3987
    @robinsmith3987 14 днів тому

    prayers for this family

  • @malonetuten333
    @malonetuten333 16 днів тому +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. I’m heartbroken that they had to find out the way that they did and haven’t been treated more delicately. You’d think the families of these victims would be treated with such care at this time! This is very disheartening to hear and disappointing.
    Also, his vehicle about to be towed? Come on City of NOLA!

  • @fionagreaves2836
    @fionagreaves2836 15 днів тому

    What is wrong with what is happening in the world. So much anger,so much hatred. Why? We are all on this side for a short time. Why hurt each other. Tears come to my eyes when I see and hear what is happening. I keep praying for a better tomorrow and I am hopeful.

  • @tireshredderjoe8894
    @tireshredderjoe8894 15 днів тому

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • @claramenteful
    @claramenteful 15 днів тому

    Sorry for these loving parents. Pray for them.

  • @ingseBingse
    @ingseBingse 16 днів тому +1

    I will never understand how parents can sit there and be interviewed after they have lost a child. Why don't they sit and mourn with the rest of their family, and take good care of them selves. ? My heart goes out to you.

    • @barbarazuviceh6506
      @barbarazuviceh6506 16 днів тому

      They are probably still in some sort of a shock.😊

    • @ingseBingse
      @ingseBingse 16 днів тому

      @ i guess you are right.

    • @KIRKSHINTATURNIPSEED
      @KIRKSHINTATURNIPSEED 16 днів тому

      Everyone mourns differently, I didnt cry until two weeks after my mom died because I had so many things to take care of to bury her- it didnt hit me till later

    • @ingseBingse
      @ingseBingse 16 днів тому

      @@KIRKSHINTATURNIPSEED 🙏😥

  • @Firebird-65
    @Firebird-65 17 днів тому +1

    🙏🙏💔 RIP Matthew and praying for family and all families involved 🙏💔

  • @BerbCherndler
    @BerbCherndler 12 днів тому

    THEY WEREN'T EVEN ALLOWED TO SEE HIM?!?!??? OUTRAGEOUS!! 😡😭

  • @blankagwenyver8260
    @blankagwenyver8260 15 днів тому

    Im so sorry for your loss. 😢

  • @momofthree9100
    @momofthree9100 17 днів тому +1

    I’m so sad for this family. Makes me want to never let my kids leave my house 😢

  • @MerindaSmith-e3s
    @MerindaSmith-e3s 17 днів тому

    Oh my heart is breathing for these parents 💔💔

  • @audreydaleski1067
    @audreydaleski1067 17 днів тому +1

    So sad.

  • @maritaklein-dreier4073
    @maritaklein-dreier4073 16 днів тому

    Sorry for your loss 😢

  • @cowsonzambonis6
    @cowsonzambonis6 16 днів тому

    I can’t imagine… my heart goes out to your family!!

  • @JoeGunn84
    @JoeGunn84 16 днів тому

    How did neither parent shed a single tear? This whole interview seemed OFF

  • @dregeminin1
    @dregeminin1 17 днів тому

    My condolences to all of the families 🙏

  • @SusanH4626
    @SusanH4626 15 днів тому

    Omg! The way they found out, horrible and no help afterwards! The new Orleans city officials should be ashamed!

  • @Mr60minor
    @Mr60minor 16 днів тому

    Devastating. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @Fat12219
    @Fat12219 17 днів тому

    What a way to find out 😮😮

  • @mindypeters5212
    @mindypeters5212 16 днів тому

    Im so sorry. My heart is BREAKING . ❤❤

  • @Snooze1234-cto
    @Snooze1234-cto 16 днів тому

    Condolence to all the families.

  • @BelindaMILLER-pi6rq
    @BelindaMILLER-pi6rq 17 днів тому

    Please give these sweet sweet devasted parents time to grieve. What you're doing is heartbreaking 💔 😢 Condolences to all who are having to endure this tragedy. 😢

  • @Bur6212
    @Bur6212 17 днів тому

    RIP Matthew and RIP Saints

  • @NicoleHaslam-q8r
    @NicoleHaslam-q8r 15 днів тому

    Prayers heart goes out to the family 🙏😢

  • @pamela174
    @pamela174 17 днів тому

    Absolutely heartbreaking
    Prayers for all those that died and their family and prayers for the victims 🙏 💔

  • @Cynthia-l6n
    @Cynthia-l6n 16 днів тому

    Condolences for the loss of your child ! So sorry for your loss?

  • @christyleblanc1387
    @christyleblanc1387 14 днів тому

    So sorry fer u all loss may he r.i.p amd my deepest sympathy 🙏 prayers 🙏 up fer healings

  • @suquanahill1567
    @suquanahill1567 16 днів тому

    My condolences to his family and friends 😢

  • @floraybarra3014
    @floraybarra3014 17 днів тому

    So sad prayers 🙏😭

  • @Kwee523
    @Kwee523 15 днів тому

    I believe it's terrible to have to conduct your own research to see if your relative is still amongst the living or not!!! SMH!!! Prayers and love vibes to all affected!

  • @a.laurenn
    @a.laurenn 15 днів тому

    So sorry for your family. There is no excuse for this, but I hope the outpouring of love from everyone will provide some comfort ❤

  • @Glamazon_K
    @Glamazon_K 16 днів тому

    Bless them. This is terrible

  • @dawnstraughen755
    @dawnstraughen755 17 днів тому

    So very sorry for your loss. Such a tragic attack. Hopefully you will get answers. He's Gods new Angel now. 🙏

  • @libertyann439
    @libertyann439 17 днів тому +1

    Such an awful thing to have to identify your dead child at the mourge.😢

    • @KD-nk3ht
      @KD-nk3ht 17 днів тому +1

      That ain't the way to spell morgue. Ignunce.

  • @elleflowers8020
    @elleflowers8020 17 днів тому

    So very sorry for your loss. Prayers for you both and family for God’s peace and comfort.❤️🙏

  • @kittymayle9107
    @kittymayle9107 16 днів тому +1

    I don’t think I could keep my composure. I would be slipping out on TV. That would be too much for me to handle.

  • @AceTif
    @AceTif 16 днів тому +1

    ❤why didn't friends call his parents or maybe they did???
    Prayers with each of you❤❤RIP MATT❤

  • @christopherliebler
    @christopherliebler 17 днів тому +6

    Help you through the process? It just happened

    • @wingedinfinity777
      @wingedinfinity777 17 днів тому +6

      Which begs the question, how are they already on tv discussing these matters. ?

    • @bbloodyangel1
      @bbloodyangel1 17 днів тому +2

      the process of finding their loved one aka helping them figure out he had passed

    • @RollTideMama
      @RollTideMama 17 днів тому +1

      Hospitals have staff that do this exact job, but seems they were overwhelmed

    • @GekoSF90
      @GekoSF90 17 днів тому +1

      @@wingedinfinity777exactly what I’m saying

    • @Purplerainpinkclouds
      @Purplerainpinkclouds 17 днів тому

      @@wingedinfinity777 these people just lost their son and ur judging them for going on tv "to soon" to talk about it ? They have a hole in their hearts that can never be healed. Have some respect.

  • @perlavogel1064
    @perlavogel1064 17 днів тому

    am sorry for your loss too many young people killed in a senseless violence act of crime

  • @itsonlyme1959
    @itsonlyme1959 17 днів тому +2

    Who's gunfire struck him the terrorist or the authorities firing at the terrorist ?

    • @christinea9698
      @christinea9698 17 днів тому

      They haven’t confirmed that yet, I don’t believe.

    • @seriousorganizer
      @seriousorganizer 17 днів тому

      i mentioned the same thing above

  • @carolinacarter5574
    @carolinacarter5574 17 днів тому +3

    Praying for Tenedorio Family 🙏🏼❤️

  • @638g
    @638g 17 днів тому

    Why wouldn't they let them identify his body? And he was shot? Things aren't adding up in this interview.

  • @glamdoll313
    @glamdoll313 17 днів тому +1

    What if an autopsy was against their religion?! Our systems are so bold. How dare they not allow his parents access to see him. Incompetent FBI

  • @TamFam-o3n
    @TamFam-o3n 17 днів тому +4

    🙏🏾