1) Shikayate Krna bnd kro 2) hrr time available mt raho.. 3)spend time with your family n 4) work on yourself 5)keep you bsy 6) response in polite way..
Ma sha Allah jb ham deen ki taleem (Quraan o ahadees ki taleem hasil karnay mein lag jayengay to ham khud hi busy hojayengay is baat se kisi ko takleef bhi nh hogi in sha Allah )jazakallah khair
@@sanadurrani9420 Wa Alaikum Salaam, un ka matlab hai k har waqat aap phone wagera pe us bande k samne online na rehain, offline rehain us ko thora sa suspense aur curiosity ho aap k offline hone ki, thora late reply kiya karain agar text kare, thora busy pun show karwain aur actually main busy hon aap matlab k real main, koi productive cheez karain free time main, something like this i think
Thank you so so so so much sir .. mein 2 weeks sy eik problem mein thi apki is video NY mujhein kafi hosla diya .. Allah Pak apko bhi bht bht khush rakhein salammat rakhein or lambii zindagi ata farmein Ameeeeeeeeeen SumAmeen ❤️
U hv motivated well n i hv totaly changed myself for my husband. ma ne apki vdeo dekhne s phly e asa krlia tha bcz he werent changing his self so i had to do it i hv started to focus on myself i hv decided to groom myself valued myself
I am surprised at such a young age you have concluded well , this is absolutely true and I am doing that but after a long period of suffering experience
Sir really i have done these mistakes, I was keenly interested in study, whem I was fallen love with her I didn't give time myself, even I don't know how left study which was my first priority. However, I have completely recovered myself and working on health and spirit. I got more motivated when I watched this video. Sir thank you!
What a motivational speech... Its going tough with my husband these dayz... Will definitely follow these 3 steps... 1. Don't complain 2. Focus on my own work 3. Ignore him,, focus on myself by keeping oneself busy...
@@beautifulnature.2899 i do each and everything... I do almost all household chores, take care of my bedridden MIL, my husband's siblings, FIL and my 3 children... I take care of each and everything of my Hubby's belongings... Allah he jaza dene wala hai...
agar koi banda apny job mae zyda masroof hoga toh phir yaha se insaan uske saat baat krna chahaty ho toh vapus koi respond nhii mily toh yaha se jo insaan ghr pe betha hoga toh uis shaks ko kub hamarie value aajaye aur pyar krny lagy
Slam...Bhai ap ne ktni achi achi batn batai...mw in sb bato ki waja s bht prshan thi.lkn is video ko sun kr mje smj ai k sari galtiya hi MRI apni h to onka ignor krna to lazmi bat thu ...ان شاءاللہ کریم ab me mentally bht relax ho Gai hon is video Jo sun kr ... جزاک اللہ خیرا۔۔۔Allah pak apko duniya Jahan ki balaiyab ata kre amen
Apki baty mery Dil ko chu gai han kasm sy kitny achi baty krty ho bhr achi bat kia ha khud ko value do gy to wo b apko value dy ga absolutely right 💯inshallah is bat per zroor Amal krn gy Ma apki bht bari fan hun 🥰🥰🥰🥰
While listining you,i felt as you are just reading my mind..you have put me on right path ...yes i have done all that mistakes as you mentioned..but now from today the goal of my life is my self growth..thnks so much sir
Mera passand ki shadi ka masla tha bhot wazifa kiye hal nahi howa pir shah shb sy rabta howa unho ny 7 din main hal kar diya shah shb ka nm dp main hai ap b rabta kary...
Its so true. I cried while listening you. I used to read novels, go to salon often, meet friends twice in a month etc. But then unfortunately, I made my husband my world. I left everything. I dont meet friends anymore maybe once or twice a year now. And always available for him serving him, always near him. And he has turned out worst. He dont bother much about me, even though if I am shivering in fever . He does not say even a word of admiration or love. And says words are not important.
Ap ne apna Haq Adaa kia ha or apko is ka silaa mily ga Jald InshaAllah Q k Insaan jo deta ha us ki Kasrat ho jati ha us k pas Ap ne Apny Husband ko Care di or ye Nature k rules k mutabiq Apko bhi mily gi Care Love Lakin Sabr se kaam Lyn Allah Ap pr Karam kry
@@rajpootrajpoot3484 i do each and everything... I do almost all household chores, take care of my bedridden MIL, my husband's siblings, FIL and my 3 children... I take care of each and everything of my Hubby's belongings... Allah he jaza dene wala hai...
You are absolutely right, I was surprised to hear what you have to say, this is the condition of everyone nowadays and everyone is suffering from depression because of it.
Everything you say is true. I admire you from the bottom of my heart.I am currently going through these stages.But your words have given me a lot of encouragement.I will do my best. Now follow these words. I am sure it will benefit me
Bohat acha guide Kiya Apne first time video Dekhi ha boht pryshn thi or Jo btain Apne boli bilkul drost kha haqeeqat ha mujy motivation mili apki btao sy so ab main in pr Amal karogi thanks sir❤
Mera passand ki shadi ka masla tha bhot wazifa kiye hal nahi howa pir shah shb sy rabta howa unho ny 7 din main hal kar diya shah shb ka nm dp main hai ap b rabta kary...
Aslam o alikum sir.... I am watching your all videos today ...... I didn't know about u .. But today i am very very impressed by your videos😇😇.... May Allah bless u sir ... 💕 very amazing words...
Sir apny bhoot acha kaha main bhoot preshn hun apky sun k thora sai lga q k mri exams hai or na dehn lg rha hai exams mai na e parai main kud sy bezar ta abi tora acha feel ho rha hai apki bto sy allah pak apko salamat rky ameen🙏❤🥺
Jaisy ap kh rhy ho main vaisi e hu I never complain bhai and I always B wht I am and focus 🧘🏿♀️ on me too and freedom is the key of every persons heart ❤️ and never stop to love him if you loved him once do it till your last breath. It will increase your worth 🫰🏻🌏😇
Aslam o Alikum ♥️
Out standing I like this videooo
Waalaikum salaam
w.s
Walikumslaam
Ws
1) Shikayate Krna bnd kro
2) hrr time available mt raho..
3)spend time with your family n
4) work on yourself
5)keep you bsy
6) response in polite way..
Bilkul 💯👍
🌺
same bro😢😢😢
exectly hunain ❤
Agree hunain sister
Ma sha Allah jb ham deen ki taleem (Quraan o ahadees ki taleem hasil karnay mein lag jayengay to ham khud hi busy hojayengay is baat se kisi ko takleef bhi nh hogi in sha Allah )jazakallah khair
beshaQ
بہت شکریہ بھائی کافی دن سے میں پریشان تھی آپ نے میرا مسئلہ حل کر دیا ہیے اللہ تعالی آپ کو جزے خیر دے
Allah sabar da ap ko Ameen🙂
Ye blkul theak kaha bhai ne
@@marialifestyle3319 vloger?😅
@@legendshery1529 beautiful
qk Sub maya hain yd rkhna ap
Sir apki vdios bht achi hn thnx it's so beneficial for us
yaqeen jano bhi apki bate sun ke extremely saqoon aya allah apko hamesha khush rakhe
Salam sir pls itna clear kr daiiy kai ksy available wali bat smj nahe ati
Write ALLAH in capital
💯right
@@sanadurrani9420 Wa Alaikum Salaam, un ka matlab hai k har waqat aap phone wagera pe us bande k samne online na rehain, offline rehain us ko thora sa suspense aur curiosity ho aap k offline hone ki, thora late reply kiya karain agar text kare, thora busy pun show karwain aur actually main busy hon aap matlab k real main, koi productive cheez karain free time main, something like this i think
my mother is very ill please pray for my mother ... ya Allah her MAA ko salamat rakh maire MAA ko b shifa karday .AMEEN 😢😢😢😢
Ameen suma ameeen
Aameen
Ameen
Allah Shifa Atta Kray
Aameen
بہت شکریہ بھائی میں بہت پریشان تھی بلکہ رو رو کے پاگل ہو گئی تھی بہت شکریہ آپ نے اتنی ہمت دی اللہ آپکی عمر دراز کرے اور خوش رکھے آمین 🤲🤲🤲🤲
Hlo
@@sanamir503 g
Is bndy ne jitnii b bt kahii bilkul kaha sb ye sb wahi batein hain jo me sb ko smjhata hn...
@@sanamir503
Kisi ho
Apki baten sach hain 99%log yhi mistakes kar rahy including me thankyew sir for such video
Kehte hein 40 Ameen ho jain to dua qabool hoti h plz mere lye dua karein k Allah meri dili khowahish pori ho jai
Ameen
Allah aapki jaiz muraad poori kre sister, Aameen...!💖
Ameen
ameen
Ameen mjy b bhut zarort hai ameen ki
Thank you so so so so much sir .. mein 2 weeks sy eik problem mein thi apki is video NY mujhein kafi hosla diya .. Allah Pak apko bhi bht bht khush rakhein salammat rakhein or lambii zindagi ata farmein Ameeeeeeeeeen SumAmeen ❤️
U hv motivated well n i hv totaly changed myself for my husband. ma ne apki vdeo dekhne s phly e asa krlia tha bcz he werent changing his self so i had to do it i hv started to focus on myself i hv decided to groom myself valued myself
Yaar App 100% Thek Batain Karty Hain
App Ki Baton se bohat Hossla hota Hy
Your words are golden words.. insha'Allah I will change my self.
inshAllah hm khud ko zror change krn gy .Aap khush rahn aabad rh.
bilkul kul such such khe rhe hn ap
mar jany ko dil nhi karta biemar ho gi gi hn taklef min hon
Awesome wording 💖💖
Fablous person thank u
I am surprised at such a young age you have concluded well , this is absolutely true and I am doing that but after a long period of suffering experience
You are absolutely right saying, your words touched my mind nd heart positively
Sehi khahy bhai apne hum are sathbiyehi horahahy
Nice
Ameen
👍
Emotions make us weak you just have to concentrate on your goal. And be yourself.
Great sir and thanks for such a kindness 🤗🤗
Best video sir
❤جناب آپ کی باتوں میں میں بہت سکون محسوس کرتا ہوں اللہ اپ زیادہ عمر دے اور اپ کو سلامت رکھے❤
Sir really i have done these mistakes,
I was keenly interested in study, whem I was fallen love with her I didn't give time myself, even I don't know how left study which was my first priority.
However, I have completely recovered myself and working on health and spirit.
I got more motivated when I watched this video.
Sir thank you!
I have done same mistake
Same
Same mistake
Now have improved yourself??
@@TajdarHyder Alhamdulilah
اللّٰہ تعالیٰ آپ کو بہت زیادہ جزا عطا فرمائے آمین
You are truly a great person, otherwise who shares anyone's sorrow in this world
Ameen
Thank you so much brother chezyn baton me convert kr k koi suna dy easily smjh aa jata ha …. Pta ni jo smjh lga mn ny bol diya❤
Aaj Aap ne Mera Bahot Badaa Maslaa Hal kar diyaa..
Thank you🌹
Jazaak Allah😔
Seriously me bi ye kehny wali thi
Zma ham dagha hall dy 😭😭
What a motivational speech... Its going tough with my husband these dayz...
Will definitely follow these 3 steps...
1. Don't complain
2. Focus on my own work
3. Ignore him,, focus on myself by keeping oneself busy...
@@beautifulnature.2899 i do each and everything...
I do almost all household chores, take care of my bedridden MIL, my husband's siblings, FIL and my 3 children...
I take care of each and everything of my Hubby's belongings...
Allah he jaza dene wala hai...
Ab mei kya karuuu ap bolo plz Plzplzplzplzplzplz 💔💔💔💔
Same here. I have been complaining a lot n i do not take much care of my appearance, i am always running after kids. Ab bas.
Mashaallah ❤️
The best tip is to stay actually busy in real. Thank you so much for uploading this video.
Bilkul sahii
Sir ap bukul thk bol rah hoo ya sub Mary saat ho raha haa Jo ap n bola
agar koi banda apny job mae zyda masroof hoga toh phir yaha se insaan uske saat baat krna chahaty ho toh vapus koi respond nhii mily toh yaha se jo insaan ghr pe betha hoga toh uis shaks ko kub hamarie value aajaye aur pyar krny lagy
❤thanks bhai
Slam...Bhai ap ne ktni achi achi batn batai...mw in sb bato ki waja s bht prshan thi.lkn is video ko sun kr mje smj ai k sari galtiya hi MRI apni h to onka ignor krna to lazmi bat thu ...ان شاءاللہ کریم ab me mentally bht relax ho Gai hon is video Jo sun kr ... جزاک اللہ خیرا۔۔۔Allah pak apko duniya Jahan ki balaiyab ata kre amen
Apki baty mery Dil ko chu gai han kasm sy kitny achi baty krty ho bhr achi bat kia ha khud ko value do gy to wo b apko value dy ga absolutely right 💯inshallah is bat per zroor Amal krn gy Ma apki bht bari fan hun 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Sab ka Hal is tarah hay 😢
When someone treat you like an option
Leave them just like a choice 🙂
Your right
100% right
ua-cam.com/video/GWh1NQlYhHg/v-deo.html
you are right but difficult
Ehj
ماشاءاللہ اللہ آپ کو مزید ترقی عطا فرمائے
شکریہ بھائی
100% Accurate, I did the same for 2.5 years and got in depression.
Aoa Bhai ap Sach mei bohat sachi batain krtay hain Allah Pak Ap ko ajar ata frmain 🤲 Aameen
Ma b please mary liya b dua kariya ga
While listining you,i felt as you are just reading my mind..you have put me on right path ...yes i have done all that mistakes as you mentioned..but now from today the goal of my life is my self growth..thnks so much sir
Yes you are right ma ya sari galti karti hun per ab nh karoo gi inshallah
Me is waja se bohot pareashan ti ap ny meri anky khol di allah ap ko salamat raky😊😊😊😊😊
samne yahi hall mera tha
Mera b yahi hall ha abhi 😥
i need this in these days .....thnkx a lot bro apki shikayeton wali bt toh bikul perfect h thnks again 4 your advise
Thank you for guiding us what to do and how to do. Lots of dua for you. 💜
Thanku so much brow
Mashallahhh aapne bilkul sahi kaha mare sath bilkul aise hi huwa aur aapne accha advice deye .thanksss
بہت شکریہ آپکی باتیں بہت آچھیبلگتیھے
Bhai bht zabardast bat main aj kl asy he waqt sy guzar rae hn ap ki baton sy bht sakon mila ALLAH ap ko khush rakhy AMEEENNN
ameen
Same yaar😭
@@kdjadoon1815 G
Seriously you give me motivation...And I'm follow all these rules...😇😇😇
Thank u sir...😇😇😇
Mera passand ki shadi ka masla tha bhot wazifa kiye hal nahi howa pir shah shb sy rabta howa unho ny 7 din main hal kar diya shah shb ka nm dp main hai ap b rabta kary...
Its so true. I cried while listening you. I used to read novels, go to salon often, meet friends twice in a month etc. But then unfortunately, I made my husband my world. I left everything. I dont meet friends anymore maybe once or twice a year now. And always available for him serving him, always near him. And he has turned out worst. He dont bother much about me, even though if I am shivering in fever . He does not say even a word of admiration or love. And says words are not important.
😭
Same goes wd me dear...😭😭😭
Ap ne apna Haq Adaa kia ha or apko is ka silaa mily ga Jald InshaAllah
Q k Insaan jo deta ha us ki Kasrat ho jati ha us k pas
Ap ne Apny Husband ko Care di or ye Nature k rules k mutabiq Apko bhi mily gi Care Love
Lakin Sabr se kaam Lyn
Allah Ap pr Karam kry
@@rajpootrajpoot3484 i do each and everything...
I do almost all household chores, take care of my bedridden MIL, my husband's siblings, FIL and my 3 children...
I take care of each and everything of my Hubby's belongings...
Allah he jaza dene wala hai...
My husband forgets me after going to europe ..I can understand amna
بہت بہت شکریہ بھائی آپ کا آپ نے میری پروبلم حل کر دی❤
You are absolutely right, I was surprised to hear what you have to say, this is the condition of everyone nowadays and everyone is suffering from depression because of it.
u r rite😥😥
True 💯
Nice bhi
U say right
Love you brother, you opened my eyes...it looks like u r reading my mind
Aap ki batain jeeny ka hosla deati hain you are great
ماشاءاللہ۔بھائ اللہ آپکو مزيد برکت دے
Wah Zabardast.
Bahut acha video
Everything you say is true. I admire you from the bottom of my heart.I am currently going through these stages.But your words have given me a lot of encouragement.I will do my best. Now follow these words. I am sure it will benefit me
Bohat acchi bataye aap ne Masha Allah
Allah pak apko kamyab krn or Zindagi k har morr pe asaniya paida krn ameen
Thank you so much mein smajh gaya.boht se bataein thin Jin ko smajhna mushkil tha.ap ke baat Dil ko lagi I feel very better now.thank you so much❤🎉
#Interest Building Process
#Mistakes
1) Avoid complain
2) Complete Dependency
#Solution
1) Avoid Availability but don't ignore
2) Focus on Goal
Please 🙏 mery liy lazmi Dua karye ga naila
Really important msg
8xo
Life formula
Ameen
Mashallah sir bohatt hi pyaari or sachii baat boli aapne
Love from.kashmir🖤
Ryt golden words
Luv from kashmir❤
Ameen summa Ameen plz m kya bolu
Heart touching counseling God bless you🤲
Very nice atain Bhai
I like your all vedios really,, Allah ap ko khush rakhay,
Balkul thek bat kr rhy h ap
Call
Naumper
Bohat acha guide Kiya Apne first time video Dekhi ha boht pryshn thi or Jo btain Apne boli bilkul drost kha haqeeqat ha mujy motivation mili apki btao sy so ab main in pr Amal karogi thanks sir❤
Don't let someone get comfortable with disrespecting you 🙂
This video is relatable to me 😫😣 thank you much man 💯🤞
Nice mary yr
Plz sabhi log mere liye dua kare k meri dili khwahish puri ho jae plz 40log ameen kah de
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen summa ameen
Ameen sum Ameen bro Jo apka leya jhazz ho
Ameen
Koi atna saacha kasy ho skta h yrrr grt kasm sa pure insan pure batein❤❤❤
U r 100% right..... Need these suggestions... Jazak ALLAH
May allah also give you lots of happiness..ameen
Aameen
Very good step. All English psychologists keep telling theories, but Im glad you are doing it in Urdu. Very beneficial.
Thnx sir for giving USS good advices
اللّٰه پاک آپ کو سلامت رکھیں،
صحت و سلامتی کے ساتھ ہمیشہ
آمین ثم آمین یارب العالمین 🤲🤲
Right
Bilkul sae
Very good 👍
Gg Asa hi hota hai
🦓🐶🦁🐵🥝🍇🍎🎤🍎🍉🙂🍐🍎😁😗😀😆🏗😆🦁🏙😆🦁🏗😆🐶🏗😆🦁🏗😆🦁😙😁😆🏕😁🎤🔉🔕🐴
This is crystal clean truth ❤️
Wahah
You are speaking with 100% relaity
Ma buhut pareshan the Bhai apki videos dakha kar sakoon milta ha
Feeling much relaxed after listening to ur words
Sahi kaha aapne
Kya meri tarah aur log bhi is chiz se parishan hain
ua-cam.com/video/GWh1NQlYhHg/v-deo.html
Bilkul theek
But what we do some one is very special we can't leave them like a choice 😭😭😭😭
Heart Changing counselling 🙂Allah bless u 🤲🏻
Bilkol thk bt he
Ameeen
Right
Such a great and most needed topic you have chosen.
Great...
Allah pak sab ki maown ko salamat rake or sari maown ko sehath de or khush rahe ameen sum ameen
Very well said... Heart touching n encouraging video, welldone brother, Allah bless uh forever
Mera passand ki shadi ka masla tha bhot wazifa kiye hal nahi howa pir shah shb sy rabta howa unho ny 7 din main hal kar diya shah shb ka nm dp main hai ap b rabta kary...
Right
zbrdst bhai" mera yhi msla tha jo mujhe samjh a gai" aala bht aala
ua-cam.com/video/GWh1NQlYhHg/v-deo.html
Or Agra ya sub ap ka husband ASA karay tu kia karay?
My ideal hero fantastic lecture Allah bless you nd stay happy 😍😍
Sir ap bout achi batin krty hin ...mashallha ..
Bro is video main main apki hr bt se agree krti hun mery sath ye sari chezain ho chuki hain.....and thanks mujhy bht kuch sekhny ko mila
Yar kasam sa ap insane ni farishty ho apna hmari zindagi asan bnai Allah ka hukam sa yar kasam sa bhai I love u yar great ho ap
Sahi aisa he hain
Aik banda nai manta
Agar sach bbe bolo wo khata hain jhot bol rahi hain
@@monakayani920 kon kahta?
بھائی بہت بہت شکریہ
آپ نے صحیح فرمایا
اللہ پاک آپ کو خوش وسلامت رکھے آمین
I will change myself in sha Allah thanks bro❤
ua-cam.com/video/GWh1NQlYhHg/v-deo.html
Thnkx bhi main waki 4 5 din se bht preshan the
Apny meri mushkil hal kr di...
جی بھائی اس طرح ہی ہوا ہے
@@kashibutt7593 Bay saf Wokese
1 Shikayat na kro, 2 not available,3 sab Kuch usi ko na samjh lo dosri cheezo my bhi interest lo 3 apni self py focous kro khud ko build kro
You are absolutely right 💯
😭
Same
Same
going through the same situation. Its really motivated lecture for me Jazakallah
Sach mai u from me from kashmir
Ya Allah mere dill ki khwahish ko puri farma. Ameen 40 log ameen bolde plz bhai
Ameen
Ameen
u r very genuine aap ke advice bohot acchi hoti hai Allatala bless u
Whatever you said 100% right INSHALLAH your instructions will be helpful for me
Aslam o alikum sir.... I am watching your all videos today ...... I didn't know about u .. But today i am very very impressed by your videos😇😇.... May Allah bless u sir ... 💕 very amazing words...
Such a nice person, All you said is totally so relatable to me... JazakAllah 😍
Sir apny bhoot acha kaha main bhoot preshn hun apky sun k thora sai lga q k mri exams hai or na dehn lg rha hai exams mai na e parai main kud sy bezar ta abi tora acha feel ho rha hai apki bto sy allah pak apko salamat rky ameen🙏❤🥺
One of the best speech i've ever heard...Masha Allah...Jazak Allah khair
Too much motivative... Thanks for showing a good path...
4;15 bilkul sahi kaha qasam se walla kia bt ki nafsiyat ki bt ki you are the best one salute u sir
Ryt
Marid ho ap
Very good suggestions.
Ur d mind reader n ur d perfect teller.jazak Allah fr dis vdo.m so relaxed Allah apki duain khubool kare.ameen...
Jazakallah sir!! Golden word's ❤
Absolutely ✌️great thoughts
Gud
Shukriya bhai
Masha Allah.
Allah pak apko taraki ata farmae ..
At the end it is well balanced message!!!
I really like ur way of talking, thanx for guidens.
Thanx for guidance
😌Feel relx sir 🥰 when I listen u 😌
Same☺️
Ur video shows u experienced alot 💔
Sometimes you have to bough....
Thanks for empower and developing our self-respect.God bless you.
110% true
Thank you for true advises
I got a treasure of courageness From you Friend....
Jaisy ap kh rhy ho main vaisi e hu I never complain bhai and I always B wht I am and focus 🧘🏿♀️ on me too and freedom is the key of every persons heart ❤️ and never stop to love him if you loved him once do it till your last breath. It will increase your worth 🫰🏻🌏😇
Positive thing i taught...books reading focus on ourself ❤