EMOTIONAL AUTHORITY in Human Design // Understanding The Emotional Wave For The Defined Solar Plexus

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  • @hannajarvenpaa5079
    @hannajarvenpaa5079 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank You Karen💖🌞🌟

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  10 місяців тому +2

      Awh!! You’re welcome!!! Thank you for commenting and sharing emojis! 😍

  • @enaanand
    @enaanand 3 роки тому +41

    'the more you push it away, the more it will come back if it's the right thing for you... ' i love this!

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +2

      Yes!!! Thanks for commenting to say hi!

    • @jillbowden9103
      @jillbowden9103 Рік тому

      yep !! that was the power sentence for me too !!! like,,, oh reeeeeally??!!!! let me go try THAT one on!! ( new magic power ♡)

    • @maggiecraig4000
      @maggiecraig4000 7 місяців тому

      I’m a manifestor who is supposed to inform and initiate so this part confuses me

  • @zenbae4158
    @zenbae4158 3 роки тому +47

    Emotional Manifestor here. The “there is no truth in the now” concept has changed my life. Also, not giving my emotions stories... that was a rather groundbreaking revelation✨🤌🏽

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +5

      Hi Danni :) great insights.

    • @ifuckyourmom247
      @ifuckyourmom247 3 роки тому +4

      Thanks for the tip. Emotional Manifestor here too!

  • @Ninsidhe
    @Ninsidhe Рік тому +2

    This landscape of seemingly endless waiting for Emotional clarity feels so utterly overwhelming as a 4/6 Manifestor who has been pushed away all my life, so the idea of ‘pushing away’ and ‘it will come back to you’ feels very barren and bleak right now tbh.
    My childhood was a living hell because of my high sensitivity and the idea of this being the way I’m supposed to *live* isn’t something I’m enjoying the idea of right now, it makes me want to shut everything down again- ‘melancholy’ became ‘crippling depression’ in my early 20s and I never, ever want to go back there again. This emotional landscape thing feels like I’ll spend the rest of my life being tossed by a raging emotional instability that I’ll never find peace in and that feels awful.
    My natural way moves *so fast* as a profoundly gifted individual, so the idea of being *slowed down* because my emotional landscape has an entanglement with ‘melancholy’ which acts like a freeze response is like being told I have to live with my feet- and my spirit- in concrete. I’m also aware of how much developmental trauma can interfere with ‘feelings’ and mess with an accurate connection to *true* intuition or feeling- I never used to be able to tell where my feelings were coming from, even over years and decades, because of the severity of the abuse in childhood, so the idea of having to navigate by ‘feelings’ is overwhelming to my Manifestor desire for peace.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  Рік тому +1

      I hear a lot of misinterpretation of what it means to have emotional authority in what you’ve written. I don’t have the bandwidth to clear that up with you in a UA-cam comment. I suggest a reading. But I will say that it does not mean living by instability but quite the opposite… watching the waves and making decisions from calm.

  • @NycRose5
    @NycRose5 2 роки тому +14

    This is the best explanation of this authority I’ve heard yet. I think unless you are emo authority, you can’t fully understand its complexity. I’ve been in a state of melancholy for a couple months. This made me realize it’s a normal cycle of my authority. I’m just waiting it out. I know I’ll be back to a higher wave of emotion sooner or later. I’ve been doing a lot of self reflection through reading and researching and just taking everything easy and not committing to very much. Of course the chores are still done the kids are taken care of, but other than an that I’m focusing on me and my growth during this time. ❤️

  • @voyance4elle
    @voyance4elle 3 роки тому +10

    Ooooh that's why the sentence "trust the timing of your life" always resonated so strongly with me 😌 Thank you!!!

  • @sarahziter7658
    @sarahziter7658 8 місяців тому +1

    Can I just say Ive been searching for an explanation of how it feels in your body when your emotional authority is saying no and this was exactly what I was looking for. The nervousness and calming. I feel nervous a lot in big decisions and now I know that this is my no. I thought it was just apart of trying new things but I dont always feel this way.

  • @lets-talk-about-it
    @lets-talk-about-it 3 роки тому +16

    You have just changed my understand of what I used to called it the disconnect from life. I was thinking what is wrong with me... its called Melancholy. .... What really worked for me is when you said I try to stay in the positive and when the negative comes I try to jump right out of it but I'm gonna look as though the negative or the uncomfortable melancholy is just another view to look at masterit understand it... Thank you I'm feeling better

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +6

      How beautiful Daymon!!! And given that 50% of the planet have emotional authority, it will be so good for the world that you embrace this new viewpoint.

  • @julianeluhs1419
    @julianeluhs1419 3 роки тому +13

    Thank you from deep of my heart.I am new to HD,I am an emotional authority generator and understand so much more right now. I always thought there is something definerely wrong with me in having these intense emotions.Tried so many different things to cope with them.What a relief to understand that they are just part of my nature,my design.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +4

      You are so welcome!!!! I'm thrilled to hear this. You can find more videos about Emotional Authority on my channel. I have made quite a few recently.

    • @julianeluhs1419
      @julianeluhs1419 3 роки тому +2

      @@karenmcmullen wonderful,such a blessing.It comes so right on time🙏

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +1

      Yay!!!!!!!

  • @ripplesofinsight
    @ripplesofinsight 4 роки тому +13

    Thank you so much for this! I finally understand why it feels almost impossible for me to ever make a decision. And now I can better articulate to people why I need time to do it. What a gift this UA-cam discussion is for me! 💕💖

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 роки тому +2

      Hi Ripples of light, indeed! It's so helpful to know this and to have the language to express why things are the way they are. I'm so happy you found this video. Consider watching some of the other videos in the Human Design Library Playlist on this channel and also, some of my channeled messages. Take care!

    • @ripplesofinsight
      @ripplesofinsight 4 роки тому +1

      @@karenmcmullen I definitely plan to continue watching your videos. :)

  • @KierstynR
    @KierstynR Рік тому

    Thank you SO much for providing this resource for free.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  Рік тому

      You are so welcome! What lovely words to receive.

  • @lewissherlock6777
    @lewissherlock6777 3 роки тому +21

    When you mentioned nervousness and the nervous-system, it makes me believe that emotional authorities need to limit caffeine as to not trigger it with what is a nervous stimulant.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +13

      Interesting thought. I have several emotional authority friends who have quit coffee. I only drink it occasionally but it does affect my emotions… I often cry when I drink coffee! I never quite made that connection. But I love green tea and drink it regularly.

    • @alyssawilberg2535
      @alyssawilberg2535 3 роки тому +4

      So fascinating I react horribly to caffeine. 2/4 MG

    • @rilana333
      @rilana333 2 роки тому +1

      I am a 6/2 emotional MG also can handle Coffee either. Gets me a nervous and feels like a small panic attack😅

    • @nmangali107
      @nmangali107 2 роки тому +3

      I also cut back on it... Chamomile tea is my cup of tea now 😌

    • @marlena.vestergaard
      @marlena.vestergaard Рік тому +1

      Interesting! I have quit coffee five years ago because it didn't feel good in my body. I have had shorter periods without coffee before that and had noticed that my sleep was a much lower quality in times of drinking coffee - even if I only had coffee early in the day. I was simply heavy and tired when waking up. Without coffee I feel energised after a good nights sleep (I am a generator).

  • @em945
    @em945 3 роки тому +7

    This was so so helpful Karen. To have an emotional being explain it seems to connect. I have only heard non emotional types do it, and there is often a lot of underlying judgement , often even openly expressed judgement. Every little bit of info and the hints were very affirming. I shall aim to kick back, and let the motors do the work😊. Thanks again.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +2

      That's funny. Kick back and let the motors do the work! I don't know if you saw, but I created a playlist on this channel with all my videos for emotional authority people. This one is 4-5 years old (I created it long before I uploaded it to youtube)...so there are more recent videos too going into various nuances. Thanks for your comment

    • @em945
      @em945 3 роки тому +1

      @@karenmcmullen very exciting, I shall explore. UA-cam offered up the selection, so I shall be more deliberate, WHEN I AM IN THE MOOD😁 thank you again though, lots of work in your offerings.

  • @csonkakrisztina5011
    @csonkakrisztina5011 Рік тому +1

    Hi! I am just getting into HD and what I know so far is that I am a Manifesting generator with Emotional authority, like you. And hearing your own experiences gives me a more personal and understandable feedback. I was also laughing so hard when you mentioned the "taking 15 pictures of a flower" cuz most of the time that's so me even when I don't take a picture just walking by the same thing everyday but I can admire it any time. :D
    And I also thought I am a lazy person for not going after everything every time and people and people/family called me lazy. But now I know, that I was meant to wait, and then wait some more.
    Thank you so much for these videos!

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  Рік тому +1

      Yay!!! I may make a video about laziness! It seems to be coming up in the comments. Glad you are seeing yourself more clearly!! hugs

  • @jengoodwyn2715
    @jengoodwyn2715 3 роки тому +5

    I learned to say "I'll think about it," and saying no when the answer is immediate has been very freeing. :-)

  • @jadez.p.4719
    @jadez.p.4719 5 років тому +7

    Thank you for this explanation! this is a true relief to understand myself better and not feeling guilty for this way of being someone emotional. This "waiting for the calm" thing is so true indeed, better to be a turtle than a rabbit for us hahah. but like you said, the blessing is to gain some real depth in our experiences : ) I feel more accepted by myself now ! thanks

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  5 років тому +2

      Jade, that is so beautiful to hear that you were really able to take this information in. That initiates a profound transformation in how we DO life...at least, it did for me. And I still forget! And then remember. I hope you subscribe and stay tuned, I'm bringing my focus to sharing consistently on my youtube channel now. I just posted a new video today, I'm not sure if you saw it?

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  5 років тому +2

      Take care!

    • @jadez.p.4719
      @jadez.p.4719 5 років тому +1

      @@karenmcmullen Yes ! This is really powerful to know yourself better :)
      Take care !

  • @allikariel
    @allikariel 2 роки тому +1

    I’m a 3/5 emotional projector with will power so the waiting and waiting upon waiting, is by far the hardest thing for me. Especially, when I have 6 of the 9 gates in an undefined root center so there’s a lot of pressure to get things done not only from the outside world but internally as well. It’s a major learning curve for me but I’m very grateful for these insights. 🙏

  • @ShakeMyWay
    @ShakeMyWay 2 роки тому +1

    Very nice. The examples really assist. Just hearing "follow the wave" tells me nothing. The examples gave it a practical usefulness!

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому

      my experience with cryptic phrases like "listen to your wave' is that they only mean something over time with experience, contemplation and curiousity. Same with 'wait to respond'. That is why this is an experiment. So I always encourage people to follow their own experience with curiousity.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому

      The only reason I have stories to share is because I made sense of the phrase through my own experiment.

  • @lauranelson2070
    @lauranelson2070 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you! This clarified a lot about emotions and decision-making.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +1

      Hi Laura!! Yay! I’m so happy. Thanks for letting me know!

  • @msndb
    @msndb 2 роки тому +1

    'WAIT AND THEN WAIT SOME MORE'
    'THE MORE YOU PUSH IT AWAY, THE MORE IT WILL COME BACK TO YOU IF IT'S THE RIGHT THING FOR YOU'
    'THERE IS NO TRUTH IN THE NOW'
    for me as an Emotional Generator 🧘🏵 the most simple yet best advices, so THANK YOU from the bottom of my 💛🙌

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому +1

      These are great lines! I learned them from my teacher, John Martin. Thank you John!!

  • @Rubab786
    @Rubab786 4 роки тому +3

    You have great wisdom on your channel ❤❤❤

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 роки тому +2

      Hi Ruby, Thank you so much for taking the time to let me know that you're receiving benefit here! I love to know this!

  • @nicole.m_official
    @nicole.m_official 2 роки тому

    Hello! Thank you so much for this! I'm binge watching your content and gaining SO much clarity. It's unbelievable. Could you expand more in future videos about the generator's strategy you mention at the beginning of the video? Thanks again!

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому +1

      Happy to hear you are binge watching! Please comment when you watch ! It makes a big difference for my channel and is a great way to reciprocate!

  • @jillbowden9103
    @jillbowden9103 Рік тому

    this is sooo good..and so helpful ♡❤

  • @SsroseL
    @SsroseL 2 роки тому +1

    Love the video! Thanks for sharing!!!

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому +1

      You are welcome! If you look under 'playlists' on my channel, there is a playlist about emotional authority that you can geek out on. :)

  • @nikiholland5010
    @nikiholland5010 Рік тому

    Thank you so much! ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼

  • @dominiquemathews8617
    @dominiquemathews8617 2 роки тому

    this is life saving!!!

  • @MeaghanAlton
    @MeaghanAlton 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this! So fascinating.

  • @queeniecc6262
    @queeniecc6262 4 роки тому +3

    I just made a decision that felt that, and got myself caught up in the headspace. I didn't jump but it was most likely because I felt like I was doing a similar thing to something that didn't work.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 роки тому +2

      It sounds like your wisdom is building from experience. Bravo!

    • @queeniecc6262
      @queeniecc6262 4 роки тому +2

      @@karenmcmullen It is a new experience not to be a whirlwind of mistake, fix, second guess and do it again in quick succession. I am feeling a little lost without the adrenaline.

  • @sabinamurman8968
    @sabinamurman8968 3 роки тому +5

    I'd love and very much appreciate any advice for being a generator that has solar and sacral and g center defined and everything else open. I'm finding that having an open heart and fixed solar is a huge drain.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +5

      Hi Sabina, You may enjoy watching the videos on this channel that talk about each of your defined and undefined centres. And when you're ready, getting a reading is so valuable.

    • @sabinamurman8968
      @sabinamurman8968 3 роки тому +3

      @@karenmcmullen yes I really need one asap 😆🙏💖🕉💖💖💖💖

  • @sharhful
    @sharhful 3 роки тому +2

    You and Karen Curry Parker are by far my favorite human design educators 🥰 I’ve been sharing your videos with all my buddies 💗

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much for sharing! That means the world to me!

  • @paulam5864
    @paulam5864 3 роки тому +1

    Brilliant!!

  • @TimTrapnell
    @TimTrapnell 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you 🙏💗

  • @lynseywhitehill7988
    @lynseywhitehill7988 2 роки тому +1

    What about the manifesting generators?

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому +1

      I have a video about mgs on my channel that you can find in the search bar ☺️

  • @veronikabartova1844
    @veronikabartova1844 4 роки тому +2

    What about emocional manifestor? When should I wait and when should I iniciate? I am in this konflict a lot...

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 роки тому +3

      It's best if you wait until you feel clear and calm about something, and it just feels right, before you initiate...in an ideal world!

    • @sonjarozman2761
      @sonjarozman2761 3 роки тому +1

      Was wondering the same thing. I’m an emotional manifestor 3/6. So that probably means better get ready to be patient a lot, trust my emotions and the process right?

  • @reddiemclarren443
    @reddiemclarren443 2 роки тому

    Hi! I have defined spleen, solar plexus and ajna centers. The reading says I have emotional authority. Can I see the other defined centers to make decisions too?

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому +1

      Hey there, That’s not how it works. No.

  • @melissapelino5713
    @melissapelino5713 2 роки тому +1

    What do you mean to explore the sad/lows? I’ve gone deep into that end and ended up analyzing and that was wrong too.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому

      I have learned a lot by receiving insights, inspiration and healing through my lows.

  • @noctunoctura2408
    @noctunoctura2408 2 роки тому +1

    I can’t find any info on both spleen and sacral active

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому +2

      There are videos on this channel about each of the centres including the spleen and the sacral. Just search in the search bar for this channel.

    • @noctunoctura2408
      @noctunoctura2408 2 роки тому

      @@karenmcmullen awesome thank you… and thanks for making videos this is interesting stuff..

  • @angyt1070
    @angyt1070 10 місяців тому +1

    Wow ❤❤❤

  • @leebee5625
    @leebee5625 3 роки тому +4

    I just wanna say from an open emotional standpoint, that my emotions are insane, because they’re amplified and not mine

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +2

      I imagine sometimes what it would be like to experience my emotions but amplified and I’m like 🤯

  • @snoopsie
    @snoopsie 3 роки тому +1

    thank you

  • @frankbinder2789
    @frankbinder2789 4 роки тому +1

    Do you have a cd that can be purchased?

  • @roxanaivanof2041
    @roxanaivanof2041 3 роки тому +1

    Hi, i am an emotional projector and i am so much struggling with finding clarity. Even if i know HD for over 5 years i still didn't get my authority. I have all the time nervousness in my body, fear, i have 19 49, and most of the time i chose that moment and was wrong, the decision i made. Now came to the understanding that at least i know a ,, no,, ,,don't do it,, when i have this nervousness in the body...but make me so confused because i cant make the difference between mind and body..my personality is emotional :) I would like if someone can have an insight that might help. thank you

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +2

      Hi beautiful, this question is so tricky...because there are many things that can cause fear.. such as an undefined spleen or gates in the spleen. And also conditioning. So, for me, it's a process of untangling all of the feelings. I feel like fear and nervousness are different feelings in my body. So, I can have fears, but still feel that it's right for me to go ahead with something. And I can have no fear, but a sense of nervousness and it's not right for me. You might enjoy the video I just posted about my car-buying decision making process. Great question!!! It's definitely a process of learning to discern over time and I can relate 100%!

    • @roxanaivanof2041
      @roxanaivanof2041 3 роки тому +1

      @@karenmcmullen thank you so much for your reply. yes it might be true also for me..different kind of fear in the body, but is still a process long to discover really what's correct. :) but i ll get there eventually :)

    • @em945
      @em945 3 роки тому +1

      @@roxanaivanof2041 Roxana, I am most likely the last person to know, other than i have done a Lot of HD study, and that channel, particularly the 19, is the most sensitive gate in the Body graph. Karen totally knows her stuff though. If you youtube search that gate, you will likely get some more insight. It has an important role in the tribal circuitry. Take gentle care with it😊😊😊

  • @alioudi8
    @alioudi8 4 роки тому +1

    "Clear and calm" :-) Thank you.

  • @flomysticmedium
    @flomysticmedium 2 роки тому

    WOW! I just realized that I'm both Emotional and Sacral. Yikes! ;) i love me so much!!!! Karen, how do you reconcile having both? Truth in the Now WITH Truth over time??

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому +1

      They work together, once you find clarity through the emotions you listen to your sacral!

    • @flomysticmedium
      @flomysticmedium 2 роки тому

      @@karenmcmullen so helpful. I resonate and have experience myself this way. Thanks for support on this path.

  • @roxanaivanof2041
    @roxanaivanof2041 3 роки тому +1

    Okay, so might have a huge seeing because of your video, which i so much thank you. You said something like ,, just to remind you the SP is accompanied by the nervous system and nervous energy,, right? now..my alllll time misunderstanding was that the fear i feel all the time when wanting to choose is from my mind, and so..i might choose anyway because i know deep is true. But now, i might actually understand that the fear i get all the time, and now i see is actually a no, is from my nervous system, which is actually still my body:) right? i had a huge huge misunderstanding about brain and mind..:)

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +2

      Hi lovely, I think it's really both because sometimes thoughts in our mind (conditioning) can make us feel nervous. So it's good to question a bit (in my opinion)...but YES, I love this realization you've had about nervousness is from the body. Thanks for connecting!!!

  • @boyera23
    @boyera23 Рік тому

    I noticed that i tend to be calm when things arent right for me. And nervous around people and things that are. I think this comes from the conditioning that certain things are too good to be true. I grew up in chaos so chaos feels normal to me. People who are kind and paying attention to me or are ready to interact with me make me nervous. I have a fear that i wont be able to handle the unknown or the interaction socially. Soooo all of this is frustrating and confusing when i hear it from HD experts etc

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  Рік тому +1

      Please watch my video "You don't need Human Design, You need Therapy". It talks exactly to this. Human Design points us on a healing journey. You do actually have the awareness that your nervousness comes from trauma. So you haven't fooled you, or me. Your emotions gave you taht information through discernment. That information will guide you to heal.

    • @boyera23
      @boyera23 Рік тому

      @Karen McMullen - Human Design & Channeled Guidance thank you 💗

  • @tdob6067
    @tdob6067 3 роки тому +4

    Listen at play back speed x 1.25, ur welcome.

  • @aya123444
    @aya123444 3 роки тому +1

    My nervous system is always all over the place. I love coffee though. I do not know how to calm this chaos in my belly.

  • @realxhamster425
    @realxhamster425 2 роки тому +1

    If there is no truth in the now then there is never a truth right? Bc at any time we're always in the now. Never the past and never the future 🤔

  • @lovely633
    @lovely633 3 роки тому +2

    So being moody is not my fault?

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 роки тому +3

      Interesting wording. Being moody might be natural to you. And it's also your responsibility to take care of yourself accordingly...maybe a way to say that is to be masterful with your moodiness.

  • @DualityUnlimited
    @DualityUnlimited 2 роки тому +1

    This doesn’t resonate with me at all. I think it reflects more with the perception of me from others. I rarely make emotional based decisions unless it’s in a romantic context. I’m a Taurus.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  2 роки тому +2

      Perhaps you aren't connected with your emotions? Perhaps you aren't living according to your Human Design? It's very possible not to live by your Design. Most people do. Men especially are taught not to feel.

    • @DualityUnlimited
      @DualityUnlimited 2 роки тому +1

      @@karenmcmullen I feel like I’m aware of my emotions but my decision making isn’t dependent on my emotions. I feel like I control my emotions rather than have them controlling me. Emotional Clarity resonates because I always try to make decisions when I’m balanced. I’m even keel some say stoic. I’m an Energy Projector Life Path 11 29 year old male Taurus.

  • @DR-qh7gu
    @DR-qh7gu 7 місяців тому +1

    haha....a manifestor with an emotional authority.

  • @aya123444
    @aya123444 3 роки тому +1

    No truth in the now LMAO

    • @aya123444
      @aya123444 3 роки тому +1

      That makes so much sense issue is I always look for my current emotions. Even about dinner. I always feel like I am flaky.