Versatile horsemanship. people today want their horses ready and perfect within a month. I have found people cannot read their horses, they don't seem to understand their psychology. Just my thoughts. Hope you can convert people. I'm already on your side., also don't believe in hitting a horse , I find my voice is sufficient.
It continues to amaze me how so many horse owners absolutely cannot understand or read basic horse body language. Excellent video. Your ability to read your horses is why they come to you....just for your simple company. Thank you.
So sorry Brandi,can see the sadness on your face,and miss kitty ,you can read she does not feel well! Brings back memories a few weeks back sitting with my dog who would not leave me alone very ill ( passed) . Thankyou for the video and Pray. Miss Kitty feels better and peace for you and your family!! Just being with her means so much to her at these moments 🙏❤❤
@@VersatileHorsemanship Thankyou.that really means alot to me and I truly understand what your going through. It's so hard when A part of your family is not doing well. I so wish Miss Kitty the best and feels better .Having you there means everything to her !!!❤🙏
I am so sorry Brandi. It breaks my heart to see your pain and how Miss Kitty feels. Maybe you can set up an account so we could donate some money. I know you don't want to prolong Miss Kitty's discomfort, but you do want to do all that should be done. Is there some place in your area that does cremation? I know it doesn't seem very realistic to do this, but with the snow and the ground being frozen maybe that is an option in your area.
Yes!!! The look away. People ignore that communication all the time! I always tell people to let my horse come to them. So glad that you made this video. People forget release of pressure. I see so many videos of people riding with constant pressure.
I can see she doesn’t feel tip-top. And you are so intuitive, and just plain smart about dealing with non-verbal animals. Your have tons of common sense. Love to all of you. 😍
You shared this with me a little while ago. The hardest part is making a decision on which turn in the road to make. You know that she is old and possibly at the end of her life, but then maybe she’s not and just needs to get over a rough patch. You want most of all to make her comfortable, but what does that mean? It doesn’t mean absorbing vet bills chasing after something that can’t be fixed. It can also mean that euthanasia, as awful as that sounds, is kinder than prolonging suffering. What my prayer for you right now is that you are shown very clearly what direction to take, and that the guessing game maze you are in changes quickly and does not drag on too long. I’m here with tears in my eyes seeing what you’re going through and remembering how I knew it was time for my 14 yr old golden retriever when one day she could not get up to walk. Don’t ever say to yourself, “If only I had done this, or if only....”. My heart is with you, Brandi. Miss Kitty is so special.
kk doc Such true and kind words. Every time I have made the decision to euthanize, my only regret was that I didn’t do it sooner. The guilt that I let them suffer too long. I am determined not to let that happen with my old dog. If he is still with me come may, he will be 14. He is struggling alot to get around now and his appetite is not been good. I am putting whatever I can find on his food to encourage him to eat. But I know his time is near. Miss Kitty looks very tired and depressed. Such a beautiful horse.
LindyTN I am so sorry you are going through this, too. There really isn’t anything one can say to help someone feel better when in the midst of the turmoil. But I think the best advice I gave to myself was to not look back on decisions made with any sense of guilt. It does nothing constructive, doesn’t change anything, and only adds to the horrible sadness of losing your friend. I tell my own daughter to not do the “If only....” thing with tough situations. Like if I would be seriously hurt in a car accident going to her house for dinner and so many other scenarios similar to that. How unproductive would that be if she kept going down that rabbit hole, “If only I had picked her up.....If only I hadn’t invited her that day....”. I do hope you know which step to take next without second guessing yourself. So hard.
I'm currently in the process of taming a young feral cat that began one year ago. I have to be acutely sensitive to when I'm pushing too hard in attempts to get him used to my touch. The time is approaching when he must go to the vet, otherwise I would let him follow his own path in the household. So far he has shown no aggression toward the other cats and he doesn't stink too badly, but eventually I will have to pick him up and put him in a carrier. We aren't there yet. One thing I notice about Miss Kitty is that she doesn't mind being touched on the nose but dislikes it further back on the jaw. Teeth, maybe? How does she react to touching on the neck or body? On our mare's last day, she leaned into grooming on her neck while we were waiting for the vet to arrive. Normally, horses don' t like being touched on the face at all.
If your carrier is big enough, so he can walk into it by himself, you don't need to pick him up. If he's food motivated, try clicker training to get him to walk into the carrier freely. Offer it as a bed, too. That doesn't really solve the being touched by the vet issue. But at least getting in and out of the carrier won't be so traumatic. I've trained my cat like that and he walks in just fine every time, cause it means treats or getting away from the scary vet.
Leave the carrier open permanently with a blanket, food, catnips, whatever he likes, then the carrier will become a nice and safe place to be, even sleep in it, ... So that the day you need to carry him, just close the door to avoid stressing him by picking him up.. Patience is needed but it works to avoid trauma in a feral or wild animal needed to be trapped
Sending my hugs to you Brandi, poor Miss Kitty does not look well at all, the light has gone out of her eyes from the last video l saw of her where she still had the sparkle there. Be thinking of you & miss kitty the next few weeks & hope there is light at the end of all this. ❤❤
Love and support sent Yall’s way! Good to point out the importance of NOT aggravating an ill horse/animal’s present state. I’m worrying with you C! ❤️🐴
I know you love all your horses and you doing the best for her. I wish/pray for Ms. Kitty and get feeling better quickly. It's hard when they get older and I have you and your horses in my thoughts all the time. Thanks for sharing this video 👍😁🙏
I love your videos. I myself love horses. First horse video I’ve come across that’s very educational. While I’m too old now and broke down I can share this educational tutorial with my great grandkids☺️👍🏽
The last part is the worst part. I'm so very sorry. Watching someone you love feel badly is horrific, and I really hope no one is giving you grief about any of it. You have plenty of that, just from the situation. Truly, there are financial limitations- in a perfect world, where you have unlimited resources, there aren't, but you have a business to run, a lot of mouths to feed, and a family to consider. Brandi, there is also Miss Kitty to consider, which I know you have foremost in your mind- if you had all the money in the world, it still wouldn't be right to keep putting her through endless procedures. As you said, keeping her comfortable is the most important thing, and being able to tell her what you need to say to her, and when you have the few minutes, spend it near her. Make the videos. Educate people on how to do this the right way. Healing hugs.
Love to see you post this. I love to listen and watch the behaviour of the horse. I often see the same where people will not acknowledge the horses clear communication. Always the human should watch listen and learn from the communications as it will only make their bond richer. Its clearly being aware of ourselves. Thank you so much!.
Oh Brandi, my ❤ hurts for u. You are in my thoughts. Whatever happens, u will make the best decisions and at the right time. Comfort to both Miss Kitty, and all all of u who care about her. ❤ hugs from Canada.
I feel... your sadness...your caring... you show so many people the true deep love each can give, be it to each other or to the innocent animals that help to bring happiness to our lives. Bless you and Miss Kitty. She's a good girl.
That young lady is the perceptive nature of a true horse person vs any other person. These things can only be learned by experience and exposure to the animals and the inborn nature that nearly all true horse people possess. That’s not to say others are incapable of such perceptibility but its very hard to teach something that comes naturally to most of us horse people. You will eventually find what the problem is, and I have no doubt be able to address it appropriately.
@@VersatileHorsemanship Brandi you already know this, but I will share it for those on your channel that don’t. Typically, what should occur when you have what we old hard boots call an ADR (ain’t doing right) situation with a horse. #1: Take a note pad and writing instrument with you. Get your thermometer, stethoscope, clock, watch or timepiece (something with a sweep second hand or a stopwatch of some kind to time pulse and respirations and a pair of exam gloves. Observe the horse and their surroundings carefully for anything that is not normal. Make a note of your findings. #2: Take the horses' vitals TPR, CR (ie) Temp, Pulse, Respirations & capillary refill. If possible, try to smell their breath and notice if it smells wrong to you. Make a note of your findings. #3: Check stall or immediate area for evidence of recent bowel movement, if found, note consistency and volume. Make a note of your findings. #4: Take all the information you have gathered along with a list of any medications the horse is or has been on recently as well as any recent changes to their feed rations or your grain or hay supply. Or recent stress-related occurrences that you are aware of with this animal. #5: contact your veterinarian and relay said information in a clear calm manner then let the vet advise you on the next step. With the information provided from the first four steps, your vet will have a very good foundation to make a judgment as to the need for a farm, call or not. Lastly continue to be observant for any improvement or further deterioration and do not panic but do keep notes. These are times for calm careful rational thought and observation to find a resolution to the problem. Just like my foaling kit, I always had a crash bag ready for just such occurrences when I was still in the business. It contained all the things I needed to do a preliminary examination and gather information for the vet. You can save precious minutes of back and forth questioning and your vet will love you for it. And if you’re capable of administering IV injections safely as well as other simple basic veterinary procedures. Your vet will learn to trust your information and often just make recommendations for things that you can do without resorting to an emergency vet call out. Nowadays we have the luxury of cell phones with the capability of transmitting video feeds directly to the vet, this can also be helpful in information sharing in a crisis. Remember, always do the basics and evaluate the obvious first, before pursuing the potential of something exotic. Print this out and keep it handy, you, your vet and your horse will be glad you did.
I am glad you posted this. We had a horse who was acting very similar to ms. Kitty. He wouldnt move. He had his head lowered..at first we thought his leg was bothering him..we cleaned out his hooves...he would walk really slow. And he also acted like his stomach was sensitive..he would lift one of his legs when we touched his belly..he really wanted to lie down in his stall..and he turned his back on us.so he definitely didnt want to be touched.we noticed when he pooped..it was really hard and not a lot when he did.luckily the issue resolved itself overnight. You are right in saying listen to your horse..and watch them close if they are not feeling good
Great video! I tell people that all the time to watch their body movements and you can tell when they don't want to be touched. I'm sorry Brandy, I feel your pain and worries about Miss Kitty. Thank you for sharing your experiences I love the education you provide and it does help me to identify behaviors that my horses might be going through.
i hope she gets better praying for miss kitty i know how hard it is to lose a horse i lost one of my favourite lesson horses princess and solo they were my instructors horse
You are soooo correct. Watch and listen, the horse will tell you what they need. I truly love your channel. Poor Miss Kitty, hate to see her feeling bad. You are so great with your horses. God bless you.
Thank u for listening to her and teaching others to do the same. I wish I had someone like you around when my mare was sick, I felt so helpless and stupid until one day she just looked at me and I knew she was done. I had her for 21 years and it remains the hardest decision to make but I know in my heart it was the right one. I will be praying for your family and Miss Kitty.
Hugs to you and Miss Kitty, you are doing all you can for her comfort and well being. This is a good reminder for all of us too, so we don't intrude on a horse's personal space when its unwelcome.
Thank you above all else for making these hard videos. I see and feel the pain in your eyes and voice when thinking about Miss Kitty. She is one gorgeous horse and I am certain she appreciates you just being there with her. I am not lucky enough just yet to be owned by any horses but I have faith that when I am. I will know how to properly care for them by watching you. I am sorry you have had a rough few months dealing with the highs and lows and the what ifs and the what can I do's. I do know that pain sadly. I myself am dealing with an injured Sugar Glider who is very much like this situation I have EXHAUSTED myself and my vet on what the next steps are. I refuse to give up on her just as you refuse to give up on Miss Kitty. Its NOT easy, Some days I question everything I am doing. But in the end..we would do it all again. I am sending Love and positive energy to you and Miss Kitty. I hope that whichever way the road leads, it leads to comfort and Love for the BOTH of you. Thank you for these Videos. Always thinking of you both.
Poor Miss Kitty its written all over face n body language she isnt feeling well it makes me happy to know she finds comfort just being with her human. Sweet Miss Kitty I am sending you lots of love and you both are in my thoughts. I just had this conversation with my instructor after my lessons this morning about all the stupid stuff we did to our horses when we were kids we didnt know shit n it makes me sick thinking about some of the things I did to or with my horse not knowing any better. Things got better once I got involved with the local 4-H when I was a pre teen. At 16 I shattered. y pelvis I stopped riding for 33 years started taking lessons a year ago now and I was glad to see the girls at the barn are lot safer than I was at their age n are way more knowledgeable about horses in general compared to how it was for me as a young rider. I am sending good vibes for Miss Kitty to get better soon!!!
I've been watching a TV prog called 'Dog: Impossible' and the guy in that taught most of the owners not to be overly touchy with their dogs. I never knew animals minded being petted all the time but it makes total sense. You can see it in Miss Kitty. Needing to be near for company but that's all. So important to allow animals their own boundaries and for us not to be offended when they set them. Im not a touchy feely person and can totally understand. Another wonderful vid, Brandi...thanks for continuing to share. You have such a beautiful heart and it shows so completely in your attitude towards others and animals. As to Miss Kitty, I'll keep you all in my prayers. Take care 😊😊😊
I haven’t seen Miss Kitty recently, but notice the weight loss. Age and infirmity is all so complex and hard. I really like how you opened this video with discussion of understanding and respect for the horse. Getting that seems to be a growth curve even with the best of intentions. One of my favorite earth based spirituality and healing teachers, Sandra Ingerman, teaches the phrase, “May I step into your field of energy?”, which for a horse is enormous before actually coming close and considering physically touching. By taking that simple phrase to heart, be it horse, dog, cat, human, tree or river, just a form of courtesy that slowly changes ones approach. Doesn’t even have to be said aloud either to be understood. Just a little pause. I will hold Miss Kitty and you Brandi in my heart and intentions, that she can be comfortable with a measure of joy for as long as possible, and that you Brandi get all the support you need as she ages and time passes.
I can't imagine any horse that could be any luckier to be in your care. The intuition and understanding you have for these grand creatures leaves me speechless. Your compassion and determination to keep not only Miss Kitty, but all of your animals comfortable and happy is truly admirable.
It’s very heartbreaking. I’ll keep you and Miss Kitty in my thoughts. I hope you can get her through this winter and she can have a few more good years. Such a beautiful soul! ❤️❤️
Prayers for you and Miss Kitty. This brought me to tears as it is so apparent how much you love your horses and only want the best for them. Sending good vibes your way. ♥️🐴♥️
OMG you are soooo right. Thanks again for all your experience and good common sense. Knowing horse language is so important. Just watching and pay attention.🙏 for you and Miss Kitty 😢
Awe Brandi, I'm so sorry! I'll be praying for her as well as you and your family. It's obvious looking at you, that you're exhausted too. Early on when you talked about backing a horse up. There was an incident at the barn where my girlfriend's sister pulled too hard on her horse's reins, and he flipped over on top of her. She was in the hospital for a long time, as far as I can recall. She never rode a horse again.
That video you were talking about of the horse rearing. That was me, I know what I did wrong. I was in the moment and my friend (who was filming) was cheering me on to do it. I realize all my mistakes and that it wasn't the right thing to do. My instructor (who owns that pony) did set me straight. I just wanted to let you know ☺👍🏻 also that pony is (kind of) a lesson pony, but he's only ever used for experienced riders. Because, even though the rear in the video was forced, he does love rearing and bucking. Every time you ask him for a canter, he bucks or whenever he gets excited he rears! It's just his thing! Lol
Masters Equine I have so much respect for you for commenting. The biggest thing I say in my barn is that if you do it, you need to own it and use it to teach others. There are some pretty entertaining, scary, funny, cringeworthy, and humbling stories that come up at horse camps! Education comes with a cost, we might as well make the most of it 😊
@@VersatileHorsemanship thank you for being nice about it! Many people online these days will run their mouths about what you did wrong no matter the amount of times you apologize. Learning is for sure a huge part of any journey and anyone could still have millions of things to learn ☺
Masters Equine of course! People are cruel, just ignore them. I’m thankful the internet wasn’t a “thing” when I was growing up. There are things I don’t want to remember let alone be reminded of it 😂
@@VersatileHorsemanship lol my dad feels the same way. He's always talking about how he liked it a lot better when the internet wasn't invented. When people from all the way across the world couldnt hate on everything you were doing. And back when people socialized! 😂
So informative ,this is why horses sadly end up labeled dangerous for doing what comes natural to them 😔 or anybody really , getting away from discomfort is a natural thing ,wish people would understand this more , hoping Miss Kitty is feeling better soon ❤ old age sucks.
Awe poor Ms Kitty ..poor girl feeling yucky. Over all its cruddy when they get old. Thankyou for making her feel special yet respected. Is she looking at her belly a little? Huggs to u both I know you are tuning into her greatly. I hope she feels better and doesnt suffer. You know best Brandi. Not your first rodeo. Thanks for spending some time with her. What if you try to see if she wants to try a goat or small friend to keep her eating & moving. Did you add bran to her diet? Succarafate is good for the tummy & ulcers. Sorry your sad Bran... Your a great mom to your🦄❤
Monica Peterson she is looking at her belly. This was about 45 minutes after she had a dose of banamine. She was down and miserable. I can’t put anyone with her, I need to monitor her food and water intake.
I understand how you are feeling because I went to a place for riding and they said one horse is sick and someone went to touch her and the horse was pulling away and she forced the horse to let her touch her.
I hope Miss Kitty feels better now... in the video you can really see that she is not well :( . Thanks for sharing this video! You have a great understanding of your animals.
My 34yo boss horse passed last Mar. His teeth were in terrible shape so I fed: vegetable oil [hi fat] (horses can tolerate up to 2c/feeding but let the poop tell you when to stop; start at a 1/4c per feeding), a good multivitamin, a complete feed, alfalfa flakes (processed hay, not baled hay) and salt plus sufficient warm water to make it a mash texture. Try adding an ulcer prevention product to sooth any GI upset. Beet pulp has no nutritional value. Warm water: either get bucket heater or use house water in gallon jug. I fenced off part of the pasture so he could use his stall but still go out and watch the herd. If weather permitted, he was fed outside stall so he could watch the herd but the herd couldn't get to him (portable electric fencing), otherwise fed in open door stall so he was protected from weather. Fed was fed in a tub on the ground to increase saliva. Outside stall: nail up plywood to provide windbreak , she'll go in and stand where she's most comfortable. Turn out w/herd is risky as younger horses will drive older horses away. Talk with horse rescue and see what they feed. Wishing you both the best .
you are so tuned into them, it's beautiful. Back in my teen years the woman who ran the barn where I kept my horse was really tense and harsh with the horses. My quarter horse Pach (Apache) was really sweet. I used to take a nap with him on rainy days when I just had to be at the barn. He liked to nuzzle my face. One day she slapped him away from me... I didnt even know she was behind me! I was horrified. She yelled at me all the time for being to cozy with the horses. Years later I understand, I was just as sensitive as those horses, and there were too many people like her in my life. So, yay you. I hugs you all. I hope Ms. K is doing well today.
So important to watch what she is communicating with you.❤️. I know how hard it is to know what and when to end suffering. I worry she is in pain. That’s always the worst for me. They, and she does also, trusts you to do what’s best for her. Stands by you. Priceless but painful. Hugs to you both!❤️
I’m praying for you and miss kitty- your so right about people forcing love on a horse or any animal or person and also she definitely doesn’t feel well and sometimes we just can’t know- I’m a nurse and even modern medicine fails us in diagnosing stuff 100% right- but please remember you have loved her and she’s lived a wonderful life! Old age sucks and you being there for her is worth everything please have no doubt in your mind ! 🙏
Excellent advice Brandi , we are bringing a 19 year old Quarter horse who was surrendered to a local sanctuary . Your experience from Miss Kitty has given me a wonderful resource , my experienced mare "Blueberry" will be arriving this week . Thank you for your thoughtful post .
Sending healing thoughts to Miss Kitty. Winter is not kind to us old ladies, hoping she feels a little better as it warms up. Agree completely that we shouldn't be forcing ourselves on horses or any animal (and people too) when they clearly don't want physical contact. Thank you for posting this video, and take care.
Greetings from our oldy who is 37 and lost a lot of weight last year. His teeth are ok, but he now gets mash twice a day (3 would be better) to preserve his teeth and he’s doing great. Got to watch for grass and wind koliks and give him his out time. Hang in there Miss Kitty!! Gute Besserung from Germany!
Sending you a hug and hope Miss Kitty stays as comfortable as her situation allows. Its very hard when you do your upmost for a horse but "you know" that she may say she's had enough. You always do the best for your horses and I'm sure they feel it. Sometimes just being there is enough. Love your common sense approach. Best wishes to you all.
You are such a caring person. Miss Kitty knows this, which is why she is wanting to be close to you. I think she feels more protected and comforted in your presence. Been through a similar issue, but involved advancing Cushing's disease. It's never easy. Have you contacted the vet recently? So wanting Miss Kitty to feel better.
@@VersatileHorsemanship Thanks for answering. I know you are busy, but please keep us informed of any new developments. Sometimes we just feel so helpless when any member of our animal family becomes ill. Bless you for caring for the animals.
@@VersatileHorsemanship this vidoe checked me up, I hate seeming owners have sick horses or I'll horses. We have a pony at the farm I'm at that we have to put down this spring and it's going to be so hard to say by to him.this winter he just went down hill so fast and we did everything to help him, and nothing is making his eyes sight better or gain weight. He cant be with the other horses they pick on him so he is depressed and going down hill by himself. I know how your feeling.and I'll keep praying for ya miss kitty is one of my favorite horses u have beside poco he was great also
I hope Miss Kitty feels better. I know how hard it is when you feel helpless. I just found out one my kitties has cancer and I'm in the middle of moving cross country with 10 horses, 8 cats and a dog. My sick kitty just wants to sit on my lap all day and I have to pack. I'm just beside myself. Wishing the best for both of you.
oh that is so tough. Critters sure know how to break our hearts. I lost my childhood horse and dog when my daughter was 3 months old. They all needed me at the same time and I was so devastated that I couldn't give them more. Best wishes to you.
So sorry to hear this, as you well know when its time its time and animals just have that look, they can tell you just by looking at you, listen to her and she will let you know, take care and do what's best for her xx
Aww poor angel girl☹️. New subscriber here, just happened on your video and really appreciate your honesty and intuition. I sure hope your girl recovers, loosing a beloved animal is so hard. My sister has a stallion who is over 30 now, can't remember exactly how old but I think 33? Every day with him is just a gift. I am praying for your girl, she is beautiful but more than that I can clearly see the deep love between you two. I am empathic, especially with animals and I rescue them. In the last 3 months I have lost my 3 most beloved cats. Hardly enough time to grieve one then another one . I just really hope you don't lose her, and that maybe you can have many more years with her. I know it's possible ☺️ Blessings, and stay safe from this stupid virus 👍 Thank you for using the moment to teach something, that is the true sign of a teacher😉
Loved this video, not because Miss Kitty is not well , because you talk and explain and always talk good honest sense , I hate being hugged by the way lol, I’m fearing the end is soon for Miss Kitty but I hope she makes it to the spring so she can have some sun on her back out in the field with her friends.
I have saved allot of elders 30 years plus horses. I had one who would choke herself.When fed in a fed tub or bucket.So that being said I learned what was best to keep her safe.A long flat feed dish that the feed is all flat out.So they can not get any big bites in.Also the best thing I personally have found.Is a pre vent feeder .It really does work good and takes a horse a while to eat all their food.My horse would also not eat soak feed.I feel for you what you are going through.Horses sure do become such a big part of our hearts and family.
You are giving the exact kind of loving that Miss Kitty wants. You just sitting with her shows your love for her. Sending prayers for Miss Kitty, you, your family and all at the barn who know her. And lastly, don't even spend a minute of your time with horrid comments that are left.
What a beautiful bond you and your animals have. I enjoyed my sweet gelding for 21yrs. He was almost 25 yrs old when I had to decide to say goodbye. Almost a year ago. They teach us so much. Thank you for being who you are and sharing your journey. I'm forever grateful for my fur babies 💕💞💖
You and Miss Kitty are both sweethearts. I feel for you both and wish with all my heart that Miss Kitty will get well, but if that is not to be, then please take comfort in knowing you gave her a great home and a great life.
So sorry Miss Kitty has been struggling this winter. I know how much it stinks when the herd turns on a horse that is already struggling - I know it's nature, but it still sucks.
Canada here. My brother says of animal pets, that first they steal your heart and then they break it! I am so sorry, but thank you for making this video and explaining to people how to look for a response. I used to be an oncology nurse, plus I was raised with three grandparents, and was my parents caretaker... You reach that time when you both know time is getting short, "I'm sad, I hurt, I dont want this anymore, but I don't want to be alone" all unsaid, so all that's left is to comfort each other like you were doing in the video. I am sorry. Hugs
For more videos about Miss Kitty, here is the link to her playlist ua-cam.com/play/PLIR-JJucLqwKXqrtPvU4Gbt50s3ao22qi.html
Praying for Miss Kitty !
How are you guys doing?
🦄praying for u both...💕
Versatile horsemanship. people today want their horses ready and perfect within a month. I have found people cannot read their horses, they don't seem to understand their psychology. Just my thoughts. Hope you can convert people. I'm already on your side., also don't believe in hitting a horse , I find my voice is sufficient.
It continues to amaze me how so many horse owners absolutely cannot understand or read basic horse body language. Excellent video. Your ability to read your horses is why they come to you....just for your simple company. Thank you.
Fiona C thank you. I appreciate that
So sorry Brandi,can see the sadness on your face,and miss kitty ,you can read she does not feel well! Brings back memories a few weeks back sitting with my dog who would not leave me alone very ill ( passed) . Thankyou for the video and Pray. Miss Kitty feels better and peace for you and your family!! Just being with her means so much to her at these moments 🙏❤❤
Animal tested Love approved as, I’m so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.
@@VersatileHorsemanship Thankyou.that really means alot to me and I truly understand what your going through. It's so hard when A part of your family is not doing well. I so wish Miss Kitty the best and feels better .Having you there means everything to her !!!❤🙏
Animal tested Love approve ,Well said!
D. Thankyou so much J.D.💞
I am so sorry Brandi. It breaks my heart to see your pain and how Miss Kitty feels. Maybe you can set up an account so we could donate some money. I know you don't want to prolong Miss Kitty's discomfort, but you do want to do all that should be done. Is there some place in your area that does cremation? I know it doesn't seem very realistic to do this, but with the snow and the ground being frozen maybe that is an option in your area.
Yes!!! The look away. People ignore that communication all the time! I always tell people to let my horse come to them.
So glad that you made this video. People forget release of pressure. I see so many videos of people riding with constant pressure.
I can see she doesn’t feel tip-top. And you are so intuitive, and just plain smart about dealing with non-verbal animals. Your have tons of common sense. Love to all of you. 😍
Caroline Johnson thank you
Prayers up for a beautiful horse and a caring owner. May you both be blessed, strong and peaceful on your journey
Poor Miss Kitty. Hope she feels better. Getting old is hard. You care so much and love your horses. I will keep you all in my thoughts. 😢
You shared this with me a little while ago. The hardest part is making a decision on which turn in the road to make. You know that she is old and possibly at the end of her life, but then maybe she’s not and just needs to get over a rough patch. You want most of all to make her comfortable, but what does that mean? It doesn’t mean absorbing vet bills chasing after something that can’t be fixed. It can also mean that euthanasia, as awful as that sounds, is kinder than prolonging suffering. What my prayer for you right now is that you are shown very clearly what direction to take, and that the guessing game maze you are in changes quickly and does not drag on too long. I’m here with tears in my eyes seeing what you’re going through and remembering how I knew it was time for my 14 yr old golden retriever when one day she could not get up to walk. Don’t ever say to yourself, “If only I had done this, or if only....”. My heart is with you, Brandi. Miss Kitty is so special.
I appreciate what you said here!
kk doc Such true and kind words. Every time I have made the decision to euthanize, my only regret was that I didn’t do it sooner. The guilt that I let them suffer too long. I am determined not to let that happen with my old dog. If he is still with me come may, he will be 14. He is struggling alot to get around now and his appetite is not been good. I am putting whatever I can find on his food to encourage him to eat. But I know his time is near. Miss Kitty looks very tired and depressed. Such a beautiful horse.
LindyTN I am so sorry you are going through this, too. There really isn’t anything one can say to help someone feel better when in the midst of the turmoil. But I think the best advice I gave to myself was to not look back on decisions made with any sense of guilt. It does nothing constructive, doesn’t change anything, and only adds to the horrible sadness of losing your friend. I tell my own daughter to not do the “If only....” thing with tough situations. Like if I would be seriously hurt in a car accident going to her house for dinner and so many other scenarios similar to that. How unproductive would that be if she kept going down that rabbit hole, “If only I had picked her up.....If only I hadn’t invited her that day....”.
I do hope you know which step to take next without second guessing yourself. So hard.
kk doc AMEN!!!
I hope you get to feeling better Ms. Kitty!!! 💚We all love you sweet girl💚
I'm currently in the process of taming a young feral cat that began one year ago. I have to be acutely sensitive to when I'm pushing too hard in attempts to get him used to my touch. The time is approaching when he must go to the vet, otherwise I would let him follow his own path in the household. So far he has shown no aggression toward the other cats and he doesn't stink too badly, but eventually I will have to pick him up and put him in a carrier. We aren't there yet.
One thing I notice about Miss Kitty is that she doesn't mind being touched on the nose but dislikes it further back on the jaw. Teeth, maybe? How does she react to touching on the neck or body? On our mare's last day, she leaned into grooming on her neck while we were waiting for the vet to arrive. Normally, horses don' t like being touched on the face at all.
If your carrier is big enough, so he can walk into it by himself, you don't need to pick him up. If he's food motivated, try clicker training to get him to walk into the carrier freely. Offer it as a bed, too. That doesn't really solve the being touched by the vet issue. But at least getting in and out of the carrier won't be so traumatic. I've trained my cat like that and he walks in just fine every time, cause it means treats or getting away from the scary vet.
Leave the carrier open permanently with a blanket, food, catnips, whatever he likes, then the carrier will become a nice and safe place to be, even sleep in it, ... So that the day you need to carry him, just close the door to avoid stressing him by picking him up.. Patience is needed but it works to avoid trauma in a feral or wild animal needed to be trapped
You are so awesome! Prayers and Good Thoughts for you and Ms. Kitty
Sending my hugs to you Brandi, poor Miss Kitty does not look well at all, the light has gone out of her eyes from the last video l saw of her where she still had the sparkle there. Be thinking of you & miss kitty the next few weeks & hope there is light at the end of all this. ❤❤
Janice Taylor thank you
Awww, saying prayers for Miss Kitty and your family. Hopeful spring comes quick and she feels better.
Love and support sent Yall’s way! Good to point out the importance of NOT aggravating an ill horse/animal’s present state. I’m worrying with you C! ❤️🐴
I know you love all your horses and you doing the best for her. I wish/pray for Ms. Kitty and get feeling better quickly. It's hard when they get older and I have you and your horses in my thoughts all the time. Thanks for sharing this video 👍😁🙏
Poor Miss Kitty :( worried for her. Thinking of you and your worry too.
Stay strong Brandi! Feeling your pain!
I love your videos. I myself love horses. First horse video I’ve come across that’s very educational. While I’m too old now and broke down I can share this educational tutorial with my great grandkids☺️👍🏽
The last part is the worst part. I'm so very sorry. Watching someone you love feel badly is horrific, and I really hope no one is giving you grief about any of it. You have plenty of that, just from the situation. Truly, there are financial limitations- in a perfect world, where you have unlimited resources, there aren't, but you have a business to run, a lot of mouths to feed, and a family to consider. Brandi, there is also Miss Kitty to consider, which I know you have foremost in your mind- if you had all the money in the world, it still wouldn't be right to keep putting her through endless procedures. As you said, keeping her comfortable is the most important thing, and being able to tell her what you need to say to her, and when you have the few minutes, spend it near her. Make the videos. Educate people on how to do this the right way. Healing hugs.
Service Dog Kyzanna thank you!
Service Dog Kyzanna That was a beautiful comment and SO TRUE.
Love to see you post this. I love to listen and watch the behaviour of the horse. I often see the same where people will not acknowledge the horses clear communication. Always the human should watch listen and learn from the communications as it will only make their bond richer. Its clearly being aware of ourselves. Thank you so much!.
Love this! Good horseman are always learning and always observing.
Oh Brandi, my ❤ hurts for u. You are in my thoughts. Whatever happens, u will make the best decisions and at the right time. Comfort to both Miss Kitty, and all all of u who care about her. ❤ hugs from Canada.
Thank you again for sharing the harder side of Horsemanship. Thinking of and praying for her, you and the rest of your family.
Laural
Thank you. We've had a lot of difficulties in the last year and I really hope that everything I've learned and experienced can help someone else.
I feel... your sadness...your caring... you show so many people the true deep love each can give, be it to each other or to the innocent animals that help to bring happiness to our lives. Bless you and Miss Kitty. She's a good girl.
That young lady is the perceptive nature of a true horse person vs any other person. These things can only be learned by experience and exposure to the animals and the inborn nature that nearly all true horse people possess. That’s not to say others are incapable of such perceptibility but its very hard to teach something that comes naturally to most of us horse people.
You will eventually find what the problem is, and I have no doubt be able to address it appropriately.
Wrex 218 thank you, I appreciate that
@@VersatileHorsemanship where do u live? Ur 🇨🇦 friend? I have a idea.
@@VersatileHorsemanship Brandi you already know this, but I will share it for those on your channel that don’t.
Typically, what should occur when you have what we old hard boots call an ADR (ain’t doing right) situation with a horse.
#1: Take a note pad and writing instrument with you. Get your thermometer, stethoscope, clock, watch or timepiece (something with a sweep second hand or a stopwatch of some kind to time pulse and respirations and a pair of exam gloves. Observe the horse and their surroundings carefully for anything that is not normal. Make a note of your findings.
#2: Take the horses' vitals TPR, CR (ie) Temp, Pulse, Respirations & capillary refill. If possible, try to smell their breath and notice if it smells wrong to you. Make a note of your findings.
#3: Check stall or immediate area for evidence of recent bowel movement, if found, note consistency and volume. Make a note of your findings.
#4: Take all the information you have gathered along with a list of any medications the horse is or has been on recently as well as any recent changes to their feed rations or your grain or hay supply. Or recent stress-related occurrences that you are aware of with this animal.
#5: contact your veterinarian and relay said information in a clear calm manner then let the vet advise you on the next step.
With the information provided from the first four steps, your vet will have a very good foundation to make a judgment as to the need for a farm, call or not.
Lastly continue to be observant for any improvement or further deterioration and do not panic but do keep notes. These are times for calm careful rational thought and observation to find a resolution to the problem.
Just like my foaling kit, I always had a crash bag ready for just such occurrences when I was still in the business. It contained all the things I needed to do a preliminary examination and gather information for the vet. You can save precious minutes of back and forth questioning and your vet will love you for it. And if you’re capable of administering IV injections safely as well as other simple basic veterinary procedures. Your vet will learn to trust your information and often just make recommendations for things that you can do without resorting to an emergency vet call out. Nowadays we have the luxury of cell phones with the capability of transmitting video feeds directly to the vet, this can also be helpful in information sharing in a crisis.
Remember, always do the basics and evaluate the obvious first, before pursuing the potential of something exotic.
Print this out and keep it handy, you, your vet and your horse will be glad you did.
Wrex 218 thank you I certainly will!
Oh bless Miss Kitty, it’s so crap getting old. Sending my virtual love and hugs x Brandi another brilliant video, very informative.
Vikki Neish thank you!
I’m so sorry Miss Kitty is not feeling well. Sending prayers and good thoughts for her and for you. 🥰❤️
I am glad you posted this. We had a horse who was acting very similar to ms. Kitty. He wouldnt move. He had his head lowered..at first we thought his leg was bothering him..we cleaned out his hooves...he would walk really slow. And he also acted like his stomach was sensitive..he would lift one of his legs when we touched his belly..he really wanted to lie down in his stall..and he turned his back on us.so he definitely didnt want to be touched.we noticed when he pooped..it was really hard and not a lot when he did.luckily the issue resolved itself overnight. You are right in saying listen to your horse..and watch them close if they are not feeling good
Great video I’m taking us advice, watching this playlist ❤️
Kind thoughts for you and Miss Kitty. She is so fortunate to have you and clearly wants you with her.
Sending Miss KITTY LOTS AND LOTS OF HEALING VIBES. ❤🙏
Amazing video. I hope miss kitty gets better soon, I hope it's nothing too serious.
SoulTiger 91 thank you. It’s been quite the struggle
Great video! I tell people that all the time to watch their body movements and you can tell when they don't want to be touched. I'm sorry Brandy, I feel your pain and worries about Miss Kitty. Thank you for sharing your experiences I love the education you provide and it does help me to identify behaviors that my horses might be going through.
Great educational video!! Love it.
Horse Talk thanks man
i hope she gets better praying for miss kitty i know how hard it is to lose a horse i lost one of my favourite lesson horses princess and solo they were my instructors horse
You are soooo correct. Watch and listen, the horse will tell you what they need. I truly love your channel. Poor Miss Kitty, hate to see her feeling bad. You are so great with your horses. God bless you.
Healing Prayers for Miss Kitty and Prayers for You...
🐴🙏❤🙏❤🙏🐴
Thank u for listening to her and teaching others to do the same. I wish I had someone like you around when my mare was sick, I felt so helpless and stupid until one day she just looked at me and I knew she was done. I had her for 21 years and it remains the hardest decision to make but I know in my heart it was the right one. I will be praying for your family and Miss Kitty.
That is so hard. They certainly have a good way of telling us when it's time. thank you
Hugs to you and Miss Kitty, you are doing all you can for her comfort and well being. This is a good reminder for all of us too, so we don't intrude on a horse's personal space when its unwelcome.
Thank you, I'm doing the best I know how
Thank you above all else for making these hard videos. I see and feel the pain in your eyes and voice when thinking about Miss Kitty. She is one gorgeous horse and I am certain she appreciates you just being there with her. I am not lucky enough just yet to be owned by any horses but I have faith that when I am. I will know how to properly care for them by watching you. I am sorry you have had a rough few months dealing with the highs and lows and the what ifs and the what can I do's. I do know that pain sadly. I myself am dealing with an injured Sugar Glider who is very much like this situation I have EXHAUSTED myself and my vet on what the next steps are. I refuse to give up on her just as you refuse to give up on Miss Kitty. Its NOT easy, Some days I question everything I am doing. But in the end..we would do it all again. I am sending Love and positive energy to you and Miss Kitty. I hope that whichever way the road leads, it leads to comfort and Love for the BOTH of you. Thank you for these Videos. Always thinking of you both.
Poor Miss Kitty its written all over face n body language she isnt feeling well it makes me happy to know she finds comfort just being with her human. Sweet Miss Kitty I am sending you lots of love and you both are in my thoughts. I just had this conversation with my instructor after my lessons this morning about all the stupid stuff we did to our horses when we were kids we didnt know shit n it makes me sick thinking about some of the things I did to or with my horse not knowing any better. Things got better once I got involved with the local 4-H when I was a pre teen. At 16 I shattered. y pelvis I stopped riding for 33 years started taking lessons a year ago now and I was glad to see the girls at the barn are lot safer than I was at their age n are way more knowledgeable about horses in general compared to how it was for me as a young rider. I am sending good vibes for Miss Kitty to get better soon!!!
I've been watching a TV prog called 'Dog: Impossible' and the guy in that taught most of the owners not to be overly touchy with their dogs. I never knew animals minded being petted all the time but it makes total sense. You can see it in Miss Kitty. Needing to be near for company but that's all. So important to allow animals their own boundaries and for us not to be offended when they set them. Im not a touchy feely person and can totally understand.
Another wonderful vid, Brandi...thanks for continuing to share. You have such a beautiful heart and it shows so completely in your attitude towards others and animals.
As to Miss Kitty, I'll keep you all in my prayers. Take care 😊😊😊
Thank you! Cats are great proof of that! They are the most honest and obvious animal. People don’t like them because they can’t handle the truth 😂
@@VersatileHorsemanship ... wow, Tom Cruise quote from A Few Good Men...I'm impressed 😂🤣😂
I haven’t seen Miss Kitty recently, but notice the weight loss. Age and infirmity is all so complex and hard. I really like how you opened this video with discussion of understanding and respect for the horse. Getting that seems to be a growth curve even with the best of intentions. One of my favorite earth based spirituality and healing teachers, Sandra Ingerman, teaches the phrase, “May I step into your field of energy?”, which for a horse is enormous before actually coming close and considering physically touching. By taking that simple phrase to heart, be it horse, dog, cat, human, tree or river, just a form of courtesy that slowly changes ones approach. Doesn’t even have to be said aloud either to be understood. Just a little pause. I will hold Miss Kitty and you Brandi in my heart and intentions, that she can be comfortable with a measure of joy for as long as possible, and that you Brandi get all the support you need as she ages and time passes.
Been a rough winter for Miss Kitty. Hope she feels better with warmer weather to come. Take care.
Sending prayers up for Miss Kitty,and, your family too❤️
thank you
My cat exhibits the same behavior. It's taken awhile but I've learned to see the subtle signs.
Get well soon Miss Kitty
I can't imagine any horse that could be any luckier to be in your care. The intuition and understanding you have for these grand creatures leaves me speechless. Your compassion and determination to keep not only Miss Kitty, but all of your animals comfortable and happy is truly admirable.
aw, thank you for the kind words
It’s very heartbreaking. I’ll keep you and Miss Kitty in my thoughts. I hope you can get her through this winter and she can have a few more good years. Such a beautiful soul! ❤️❤️
I hope Miss Kitty gets better, she is a sweetheart
Dorothy Merrell she sure is
I haven’t owned a senior horse before and I have a rescued horse a few years back he is 25 years. This information is very helpful
Prayers 🙏🙏 for miss kitty. It's so hard watching our fur babies not doing well.
Feel better miss kitty 😘🐴💓
Prayers for you and Miss Kitty. This brought me to tears as it is so apparent how much you love your horses and only want the best for them. Sending good vibes your way. ♥️🐴♥️
amen! ur speaking my language! I teach my students exactly what ur saying here! ty ty ty!!
OMG you are soooo right. Thanks again for all your experience and good common sense. Knowing horse language is so important. Just watching and pay attention.🙏 for you and Miss Kitty 😢
So very sorry Miss Kitty is not well. Prayers for her and you❤️
Awe Brandi, I'm so sorry! I'll be praying for her as well as you and your family. It's obvious looking at you, that you're exhausted too. Early on when you talked about backing a horse up. There was an incident at the barn where my girlfriend's sister pulled too hard on her horse's reins, and he flipped over on top of her. She was in the hospital for a long time, as far as I can recall. She never rode a horse again.
oh man, thats too bad. I try so hard to make sure people have good experiences with horses. It's very sad to hear when it doesn't go well.
That video you were talking about of the horse rearing. That was me, I know what I did wrong. I was in the moment and my friend (who was filming) was cheering me on to do it. I realize all my mistakes and that it wasn't the right thing to do. My instructor (who owns that pony) did set me straight. I just wanted to let you know ☺👍🏻 also that pony is (kind of) a lesson pony, but he's only ever used for experienced riders. Because, even though the rear in the video was forced, he does love rearing and bucking. Every time you ask him for a canter, he bucks or whenever he gets excited he rears! It's just his thing! Lol
Masters Equine I have so much respect for you for commenting. The biggest thing I say in my barn is that if you do it, you need to own it and use it to teach others. There are some pretty entertaining, scary, funny, cringeworthy, and humbling stories that come up at horse camps! Education comes with a cost, we might as well make the most of it 😊
@@VersatileHorsemanship thank you for being nice about it! Many people online these days will run their mouths about what you did wrong no matter the amount of times you apologize. Learning is for sure a huge part of any journey and anyone could still have millions of things to learn ☺
Masters Equine of course! People are cruel, just ignore them. I’m thankful the internet wasn’t a “thing” when I was growing up. There are things I don’t want to remember let alone be reminded of it 😂
@@VersatileHorsemanship lol my dad feels the same way. He's always talking about how he liked it a lot better when the internet wasn't invented. When people from all the way across the world couldnt hate on everything you were doing. And back when people socialized! 😂
Masters Equine yup! But I guess we do get to meet a lot of cool people and learn a ton of neat stuff. It’s a toss up 😂
So informative ,this is why horses sadly end up labeled dangerous for doing what comes natural to them 😔 or anybody really , getting away from discomfort is a natural thing ,wish people would understand this more , hoping Miss Kitty is feeling better soon ❤ old age sucks.
Barb Benedict thank you, it sure does
Awe poor Ms Kitty ..poor girl feeling yucky. Over all its cruddy when they get old. Thankyou for making her feel special yet respected. Is she looking at her belly a little? Huggs to u both
I know you are tuning into her greatly. I hope she feels better and doesnt suffer. You know best Brandi. Not your first rodeo. Thanks for spending some time with her. What if you try to see if she wants to try a goat or small friend to keep her eating & moving. Did you add bran to her diet? Succarafate is good for the tummy & ulcers. Sorry your sad Bran...
Your a great mom to your🦄❤
Monica Peterson she is looking at her belly. This was about 45 minutes after she had a dose of banamine. She was down and miserable. I can’t put anyone with her, I need to monitor her food and water intake.
@@VersatileHorsemanshipyep totally. Sorry, i know its hard💕
I understand how you are feeling because I went to a place for riding and they said one horse is sick and someone went to touch her and the horse was pulling away and she forced the horse to let her touch her.
Horse: *Doesn't want to be petted and gets upset*
Person: OMG THIS HORSE IS WILD, WHAT IS WRONG WITH IT!
Nazareth yup, typical human reaction
😢💕
I hope Miss Kitty feels better now... in the video you can really see that she is not well :( . Thanks for sharing this video! You have a great understanding of your animals.
Great video I hope you opened some eyes.
Mark Rumfola thank you. I hope so too.
My 34yo boss horse passed last Mar. His teeth were in terrible shape so I fed: vegetable oil [hi fat] (horses can tolerate up to 2c/feeding but let the poop tell you when to stop; start at a 1/4c per feeding), a good multivitamin, a complete feed, alfalfa flakes (processed hay, not baled hay) and salt plus sufficient warm water to make it a mash texture. Try adding an ulcer prevention product to sooth any GI upset. Beet pulp has no nutritional value. Warm water: either get bucket heater or use house water in gallon jug. I fenced off part of the pasture so he could use his stall but still go out and watch the herd. If weather permitted, he was fed outside stall so he could watch the herd but the herd couldn't get to him (portable electric fencing), otherwise fed in open door stall so he was protected from weather. Fed was fed in a tub on the ground to increase saliva. Outside stall: nail up plywood to provide windbreak , she'll go in and stand where she's most comfortable. Turn out w/herd is risky as younger horses will drive older horses away. Talk with horse rescue and see what they feed. Wishing you both the best .
Prayers sent for Miss Kitty and for you.
The financial part really got to me...I want to do everything possible for our three senior special needs rescue dogs but everything is so expensive
I can so relate . Hope things get better.
you are so tuned into them, it's beautiful. Back in my teen years the woman who ran the barn where I kept my horse was really tense and harsh with the horses. My quarter horse Pach (Apache) was really sweet. I used to take a nap with him on rainy days when I just had to be at the barn. He liked to nuzzle my face. One day she slapped him away from me... I didnt even know she was behind me! I was horrified. She yelled at me all the time for being to cozy with the horses. Years later I understand, I was just as sensitive as those horses, and there were too many people like her in my life. So, yay you. I hugs you all. I hope Ms. K is doing well today.
Aw, that’s so sad!
Miss Kitty has prayers coming.
So important to watch what she is communicating with you.❤️. I know how hard it is to know what and when to end suffering. I worry she is in pain. That’s always the worst for me. They, and she does also, trusts you to do what’s best for her. Stands by you. Priceless but painful. Hugs to you both!❤️
I’m praying for you and miss kitty- your so right about people forcing love on a horse or any animal or person and also she definitely doesn’t feel well and sometimes we just can’t know- I’m a nurse and even modern medicine fails us in diagnosing stuff 100% right- but please remember you have loved her and she’s lived a wonderful life! Old age sucks and you being there for her is worth everything please have no doubt in your mind ! 🙏
Warm thoughts for all your kindness towards Miss KITTY ❤
Sending my love as speedy recovery to Miss Kitty with hugs and kisses. Please keep us up to date with her. 🐴😢🥕🍎🍉🍓❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💋
Excellent advice Brandi , we are bringing a 19 year old Quarter horse who was surrendered to a local sanctuary . Your experience from Miss Kitty has given me a wonderful resource , my experienced mare "Blueberry" will be arriving this week . Thank you for your thoughtful post .
*Tracy Born Again Farm Girl thank you. Congrats on your blueberry 😊
Sending healing thoughts to Miss Kitty. Winter is not kind to us old ladies, hoping she feels a little better as it warms up. Agree completely that we shouldn't be forcing ourselves on horses or any animal (and people too) when they clearly don't want physical contact. Thank you for posting this video, and take care.
Poor miss Kitty, she is such a sweetie! I hope she gets better. You and Mrs. Kitty are in my thoughts.
Greetings from our oldy who is 37 and lost a lot of weight last year. His teeth are ok, but he now gets mash twice a day (3 would be better) to preserve his teeth and he’s doing great. Got to watch for grass and wind koliks and give him his out time. Hang in there Miss Kitty!! Gute Besserung from Germany!
bwci33 37 is such a blessing! Good for you for taking such great care of him. Thank you and have a wonderful day!
we are so sorry. She is not well.
Sending you a hug and hope Miss Kitty stays as comfortable as her situation allows. Its very hard when you do your upmost for a horse but "you know" that she may say she's had enough. You always do the best for your horses and I'm sure they feel it. Sometimes just being there is enough. Love your common sense approach. Best wishes to you all.
You are such a caring person. Miss Kitty knows this, which is why she is wanting to be close to you. I think she feels more protected and comforted in your presence. Been through a similar issue, but involved advancing Cushing's disease. It's never easy. Have you contacted the vet recently? So wanting Miss Kitty to feel better.
Cissy2cute thank you. Yes, I contacted the vet an hour before I filmed this.
@@VersatileHorsemanship Thanks for answering. I know you are busy, but please keep us informed of any new developments. Sometimes we just feel so helpless when any member of our animal family becomes ill. Bless you for caring for the animals.
Great vidoe brandi and I pray she gets better.
Mary Stewart thank you
@@VersatileHorsemanship this vidoe checked me up, I hate seeming owners have sick horses or I'll horses. We have a pony at the farm I'm at that we have to put down this spring and it's going to be so hard to say by to him.this winter he just went down hill so fast and we did everything to help him, and nothing is making his eyes sight better or gain weight. He cant be with the other horses they pick on him so he is depressed and going down hill by himself. I know how your feeling.and I'll keep praying for ya miss kitty is one of my favorite horses u have beside poco he was great also
I hope Miss Kitty feels better. I know how hard it is when you feel helpless. I just found out one my kitties has cancer and I'm in the middle of moving cross country with 10 horses, 8 cats and a dog. My sick kitty just wants to sit on my lap all day and I have to pack. I'm just beside myself. Wishing the best for both of you.
oh that is so tough. Critters sure know how to break our hearts. I lost my childhood horse and dog when my daughter was 3 months old. They all needed me at the same time and I was so devastated that I couldn't give them more. Best wishes to you.
God bless you Miss Kitty.
Hugs and prayers for you and Miss Kitty,she is very lucky to have you as her owner as you are so kind and caring 😥🇦🇺
I hope Miss Kitty gets better soon. Hand in there❣
So sorry to hear this, as you well know when its time its time and animals just have that look, they can tell you just by looking at you, listen to her and she will let you know, take care and do what's best for her xx
Aww poor angel girl☹️. New subscriber here, just happened on your video and really appreciate your honesty and intuition. I sure hope your girl recovers, loosing a beloved animal is so hard. My sister has a stallion who is over 30 now, can't remember exactly how old but I think 33?
Every day with him is just a gift.
I am praying for your girl, she is beautiful but more than that I can clearly see the deep love between you two. I am empathic, especially with animals and I rescue them. In the last 3 months I have lost my 3 most beloved cats. Hardly enough time to grieve one then another one . I just really hope you don't lose her, and that maybe you can have many more years with her. I know it's possible ☺️
Blessings, and stay safe from this stupid virus 👍
Thank you for using the moment to teach something, that is the true sign of a teacher😉
Just seeking Truth Aw, I’m so sorry to hear that, it’s so hard to lose them. Thanks for tuning in and welcome to my channel 😊
I am so sorry Brandi, poor Miss Kitty but you are doing all you can. My fur babies and I send our love to Miss Kitty and to you and your family. xx
This is something soooo many riders over look! It aggravates me sooo much!!!
poor Miss Kitty I can totally tell she really isn't feeling good, I send love and support and a gentle scratch and treat.
Loved this video, not because Miss Kitty is not well , because you talk and explain and always talk good honest sense , I hate being hugged by the way lol, I’m fearing the end is soon for Miss Kitty but I hope she makes it to the spring so she can have some sun on her back out in the field with her friends.
Thank you. I don't like fake hugs, but I'll take a real one any day! I hope she gets some sun on her back too, she certainly deserves that.
I have saved allot of elders 30 years plus horses. I had one who would choke herself.When fed in a fed tub or bucket.So that being said I learned what was best to keep her safe.A long flat feed dish that the feed is all flat out.So they can not get any big bites in.Also the best thing I personally have found.Is a pre vent feeder .It really does work good and takes a horse a while to eat all their food.My horse would also not eat soak feed.I feel for you what you are going through.Horses sure do become such a big part of our hearts and family.
You are giving the exact kind of loving that Miss Kitty wants. You just sitting with her shows your love for her. Sending prayers for Miss Kitty, you, your family and all at the barn who know her. And lastly, don't even spend a minute of your time with horrid comments that are left.
Thank you! I am feeling pretty lucky that I only had one negative comment and they clearly didn't even watch the video. Not worth my energy.
I hope Miss Kitty starts feeling better soon
Melissa Walker thank you
What a beautiful bond you and your animals have. I enjoyed my sweet gelding for 21yrs. He was almost 25 yrs old when I had to decide to say goodbye. Almost a year ago. They teach us so much. Thank you for being who you are and sharing your journey. I'm forever grateful for my fur babies 💕💞💖
Our hearts are with Miss Kitty and Brandi
You and Miss Kitty are both sweethearts. I feel for you both and wish with all my heart that Miss Kitty will get well, but if that is not to be, then please take comfort in knowing you gave her a great home and a great life.
So sorry Miss Kitty has been struggling this winter. I know how much it stinks when the herd turns on a horse that is already struggling - I know it's nature, but it still sucks.
Canada here. My brother says of animal pets, that first they steal your heart and then they break it! I am so sorry, but thank you for making this video and explaining to people how to look for a response. I used to be an oncology nurse, plus I was raised with three grandparents, and was my parents caretaker... You reach that time when you both know time is getting short, "I'm sad, I hurt, I dont want this anymore, but I don't want to be alone" all unsaid, so all that's left is to comfort each other like you were doing in the video. I am sorry. Hugs
Thank you. Gosh they sure do. The hardest part, is that she is alone, it breaks my heart.