Men are no longer persuasive in their chase of a woman. Ones he ask you for out and you say No,he move on like you never existed,,Men are becoming awere of their Values and that a good thing
A tall, attractive, dark man with a beard has many options. She messed up & that might have been the last train leaving for her. We don’t have time for teenage games anymore, the days of simping are gone. Proper dates are for wives & girlfriends, not strangers. Women are a liability, not an investment.
The chasing of a girl is a traditional dating strategy for traditional men and women for marriage not for fun. It was premised that you date close to home/village/community where the options are less and everyone sees what you are doing,...one wrong move by the girl will mess up her whole future life coz all possible suitors will know if she got laid easily and no one will persue her after.. No man would want to be laughing stock of the village for marrying a tart (the whole village talks) . She had to do serious vetting since it was only one shot at the game for win or lose rest of your life. We are now in modern times and it's no longer necessary to persue on a 'hard to get'. No man really wants his time wasted and strung along. Options are too many and a'hard to get 'in modern times does not automatically translate to ' good girl' to keep
Am old enough to remember my older brothers chasing ladies. They were known ladies from known families. How do u chase a lady in Nairobi who u have zero info on?
To be honest am 28 yrs and I've been alone for 3 years without a woman living with a dog and i can never let a woman disturb my peace... We are tired of chasinnn mahn
Times have changed, men approach you after proper verification, so the moment una anza playing hard to get it becomes a turn off. Ni either you are In or out, women know who they're destined to spend a lifetime together.
It's the uncertainty aki am in the same dilemma ,🤣🤣🤣🤣am not that catchy so he will definetely get someone but sitaki hivo na simtaki sai bado , my loss I guess 🙃🙃🙃🙃
Exactly my late Grandfather told me never to waiste time chasing Women he advised me to chase for Money first and women will come looking very desparately after me. +44
With the current ratio of 1:7 if she says no, u move to the next, u still have 6options. A man who is well groomed does not chase, because he is doing the woman a favor. Mapema ndio best,, 😂😂
That's you only! Listen to real men like Dr D. K. Jacob, Tony Gaskins, R. C. Blakes, Jerry Flowers, Jimmy Evans and you'll know Gathii, you're not a man.
The moment ladies decided they will have multiple men as "funding of lifestyle " One man paying rent, another hair, lunches and so on.....the goose was cooked. Guys u spend your money and time thinking u are winning a gal....ho..ho.ho utashangaa
Toxic feminism made the morale of men down. Some ladies think they are better than or equal to men. From the first conversations in a relationship one can tell its fate.
Kabisa,coz kuota Dem tu ashajam ama amebonga shit,then after a while akukubali,jua tu ni pesa na kukutumia anataka,Dem akikutaka the moment you look at each other, you will notice she is interested
I think maina need to stop thinking these girls deserve it all becasue if he knew the shit that we men go through on a daily trying to do right by these women he wouldnt even say anything but then again how would he know yet he likes man butt...
Maina this shows your age and how unrealistic you are. Hizi date una sema ni vitu za TV tulikua tuna ona kwa sope opera za tene (young and the restless, days of our lives and the likes.....) very unrealistic tuko Kenya buda. Hizo date za ati candle light na jazz music ata majuu ni vitu za cinema. Technology has taken over dating. hizi si siku za call box na kuandika barua hizo siku you had to wait to get a responce Maina uzee inaonekana hapa. Sikuhizi mambo ni fast thanx to Technology. Mobile call hapa, text pale, Watsapp, IG hata face book (FB ni kutu ya tene btw). Unakata date day one na inbox imejaa mapotential "alaa" (ile ya atwoli)
Ukienda Kwa hoteli and ask for ugali na matumbo Waiter akushow akuna ,utakaa hapo umshow awache jokes ama utenda Kwa hoteli ingine
Men are no longer persuasive in their chase of a woman. Ones he ask you for out and you say No,he move on like you never existed,,Men are becoming awere of their Values and that a good thing
Masculinity
A tall, attractive, dark man with a beard has many options. She messed up & that might have been the last train leaving for her. We don’t have time for teenage games anymore, the days of simping are gone. Proper dates are for wives & girlfriends, not strangers. Women are a liability, not an investment.
Uko na ukweli mingi... fichanga white kidogo
The moment I am told No am done and dusted no looking back
Maina as king'ang'i has said, nowadays ni kuoga mapema na kuondokea....mambo ya cinema na Netflix achana nayo
The chasing of a girl is a traditional dating strategy for traditional men and women for marriage not for fun. It was premised that you date close to home/village/community where the options are less and everyone sees what you are doing,...one wrong move by the girl will mess up her whole future life coz all possible suitors will know if she got laid easily and no one will persue her after.. No man would want to be laughing stock of the village for marrying a tart (the whole village talks) . She had to do serious vetting since it was only one shot at the game for win or lose rest of your life.
We are now in modern times and it's no longer necessary to persue on a 'hard to get'. No man really wants his time wasted and strung along. Options are too many and a'hard to get 'in modern times does not automatically translate to ' good girl' to keep
Not these ones in kanairo who are opportunist,who ask na nikikupea utanipea nini ?
My dear nili Pele kwa full 🌞 😂😂😂
Mambo ni mengi masaa ni machache. There are many things and women to chase
Am old enough to remember my older brothers chasing ladies. They were known ladies from known families. How do u chase a lady in Nairobi who u have zero info on?
Am that type I don't even call twice.just one cal is enough,u assume tunasonga mbele🙋there is more to life
To focus on OTHER goals. Its either we have a healthy relationship or mute for good.
Chasing for a longer period of time is old fashioned
Tyms are really hard ,so many things Need to be done ,Nobody wants to be ignored the guy probably thought that the lady is disinterested 😳😳 its sad
She is playing hard to get on you alone...bestie, mubaba and her ex wanararua hio kitu...akianza teenage games unasema hii imeenda ukisonga
Kuoga na kurudi soko pap na soko ni wengi
In 2022 men have no time to entertain your hard to get BS. Its on to the next one ukiringa
I'm comfortable being a proud bachelor without limits period so help me God in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 by Steve Irungu Jermaine
Tubaba hatuna hiyo kazi juu tumezoe kubebelezwa na mama zoa so kama unangoja akubebeleze utangoja sana
1.Mapema ndio Best
2. Mambo ni mengi, Muda ndio mchache
To be honest am 28 yrs and I've been alone for 3 years without a woman living with a dog and i can never let a woman disturb my peace... We are tired of chasinnn mahn
😂😂😂😂 are you still??
I would rather live alone period so help me God in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 by Steve Irungu Jermaine
Tunaoga tukiendaga😂😂😂
I woman who loves you does not need a lot of persuasion . If she feels something for you she will work hard to make the relationship happen.
😀😀😀😀😀huyu alioa na one day ndio alibeba material yoote ya bibi
Facts bruh. Huyo alipata chenye sisi tumenyimwa. She's a true deff of one in a mill and their story written in the sky
you are dealing with a generation that was taught when a woman says NO she means NO. so kanyaga kubwa kubwa.
Kwani yeye ni kuku ya kuchinjwa ndio akimbizwe
On my side mko wengi sana kw soko so when you say no kuna next one can say yes.why tupaa time.
Marriage to me it's a hell NO period so help me God in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 by Steve Irungu Jermaine
We hv very important things to chess
Times have changed, men approach you after proper verification, so the moment una anza playing hard to get it becomes a turn off. Ni either you are In or out, women know who they're destined to spend a lifetime together.
It's the uncertainty aki am in the same dilemma ,🤣🤣🤣🤣am not that catchy so he will definetely get someone but sitaki hivo na simtaki sai bado , my loss I guess 🙃🙃🙃🙃
Terereng
You just confirmed the old adage that most ladies don't know exactly what they want....hahaha 🙂
Waaa mapema ndio best 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I would take myself for a date period so help me God in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 by Steve Irungu Jermaine
Mapema ndio best
But you always take a lady as cheap
Tume choke saana hawa madada got us kicked out of heaven…..and after all that they still want to be chased Kwani wanatu vaa aaje!
Nowadays the only thing we chase is Money. I mean, why would I chase you that much considering the ratio of Men to Women?
Exactly my late Grandfather told me never to waiste time chasing Women he advised me to chase for Money first and women will come looking very desparately after me. +44
You cant chase aliability bro😂😂
@@stevenmutumbu2860 May the Wise Grandpa Rest in Peace. 😎😎
@@clerksonarwa8402 I can't. 😂😂👍
@@stevenmutumbu2860 yeah because few understand that life is not all about material
Nowadays no time
aki that guy who took seven hours really killed me 😂😂😂
🤣🤣
Iyo ni u desperate yale hupitia wacha Tu
Huyo ata ame weza story ya Simon Makonde😂😂😂
@@stevenmutumbu2860 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@simonmakacha5810 🐎🐎😂😂😂😂
With the current ratio of 1:7 if she says no, u move to the next, u still have 6options. A man who is well groomed does not chase, because he is doing the woman a favor. Mapema ndio best,, 😂😂
That's you only! Listen to real men like Dr D. K. Jacob, Tony Gaskins, R. C. Blakes, Jerry Flowers, Jimmy Evans and you'll know Gathii, you're not a man.
@@Cfinnerty2023 I really don't care what u think. I approached my wife once💗 she never played hard to get, and now she is my wife
@@Cfinnerty2023 you're delusional. ati real men
@@Cfinnerty2023 go listen to those motivational speakers
@@Cfinnerty2023 hah.. ati real men 😂😂😂
sasa tutakimbiza pesa ama madem
Imajin pesa inataka I kutafutwa na mtu anaringa 😂😂😂
Madem🤣🤣
We have so many options
Hatuwezi ng'ang'ana na mjengo na tung'ang'ane na mwanamke knowing wakinya Avril and habida are completing school every year.. nikusonga kama SAA Bana
🤣🤣🤣mapema ndio best 👌
The moment ladies decided they will have multiple men as "funding of lifestyle "
One man paying rent, another hair, lunches and so on.....the goose was cooked.
Guys u spend your money and time thinking u are winning a gal....ho..ho.ho utashangaa
Toxic feminism made the morale of men down. Some ladies think they are better than or equal to men.
From the first conversations in a relationship one can tell its fate.
👏👏
Kabisa,coz kuota Dem tu ashajam ama amebonga shit,then after a while akukubali,jua tu ni pesa na kukutumia anataka,Dem akikutaka the moment you look at each other, you will notice she is interested
Siku huzi namba Tu ndio hatunyimani juu kuna mpesa ..but iyo ingine ngojea siku ya honeymoon
@Shiku ati kii😅😅
@@dannymzazi3175 uguo waigua
WA mother 😂😂😂
@Shiku nindakuigwa🤣🤣🤣
@@dannymzazi3175 😅😅😅 tikafa tani ndiraria ma handu ha guhenie
Pesa pia ngoja siku ya honeymoon
Mambo ni mengi _ masaaa machache
7hrs then boom married jesoooo🤭🤭😂😂😂
😁 Tene ni Tene.
I think maina need to stop thinking these girls deserve it all becasue if he knew the shit that we men go through on a daily trying to do right by these women he wouldnt even say anything but then again how would he know yet he likes man butt...
Lunch ni kitu ya kuplay hard to get..aiih 🤔🙄😁
Time waits for no man
I agree with you.
No time to waste..mambo ni mob
Qualification n stereotyping is destroying them.Delliah's
Watongoja saanaa
Sorry for them...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Roster ni refu mzee
1st date turned down? Wacha ikae mapema ndio best!
No means no. Tusisumbuane
Maina this shows your age and how unrealistic you are. Hizi date una sema ni vitu za TV tulikua tuna ona kwa sope opera za tene (young and the restless, days of our lives and the likes.....) very unrealistic tuko Kenya buda. Hizo date za ati candle light na jazz music ata majuu ni vitu za cinema.
Technology has taken over dating. hizi si siku za call box na kuandika barua hizo siku you had to wait to get a responce
Maina uzee inaonekana hapa. Sikuhizi mambo ni fast thanx to Technology.
Mobile call hapa, text pale, Watsapp, IG hata face book (FB ni kutu ya tene btw).
Unakata date day one na inbox imejaa mapotential "alaa" (ile ya atwoli)
You guys are talking about a date? I don't even pick the phone number.. Siku hizi dem anakupea ata bila kujua jina yako.. why should i pursue?
Really?
You've met the low-esteemed type. Not every woman is your type. You have no self value and STIs would be your closet.
@@elizabethmulwa5895 don’t do that. That is ridiculous
@@narcissisticabuseawareness3607 I can't my dia
Kwanza these rich milfs hazitambui😂
Marriage is not for everyone including myself Steve Irungu Jermaine
By jioni, hehehe
We have no time
Juice ain't worth the squeeze
Wacha Maina.
Kingangi is right
By the way Maina wewe umekataa hata kudate. Why?
Vile inafaa
maina if im right you arent married...so how can the cripple man teach a man with both legs how to walk?
This is utter mind manipulation by men... ladies you should know your value...aaallllaaaaa
Kukinyesha kindly make your own man
You are the number one manipulators, and men have known your plans,at least show interest,from the body language and tone,si kueka mood ya dharau
Women are not 12 like Jesus' disciples
They give up easily coz they r hit n runners
Wanataka vitu za haraka haraka n they don't value the women
😂💯👌
Because they are weak lazy na wafikikiria na kasusu
Mapema ndio best